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| 19 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityNo. They lost young men because they refuse to acknowledge a paradox in education. The excuse that you need teachers that are POC and women because kids need examples of successful adults that look like them and sound like them to see as role models, thus disproportionally representing them in the classroom and the progressive understanding of history where the villain in every single story is a white male is still a complete blind spot for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:41 PM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtAh the Chinese doom and gloom bots are kicking into high gear. “It’s not worth it!Stop trying!” “Let your civilization crash so we can take over easy”. “Trust us because some loon wrote a book”. Every generation has it unique challenges. Don’t run and hide from it. lean into it. Understand it and fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | "Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So, each is inevitably disappointed." How can this quote apply to modern relationships and dating, and what is the solution if the problem actually exists?It explains a spike in divorce rates at midlife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.I think a better way of putting this is women are free to change and evolve as they wish. However men should not be expected to rubber stamp and accept every change women chose to do as it relates to their relationships with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 07:31 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsyou. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:51 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsand this leads us back to you are aware and forcing accomidation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:47 PM |
| -1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsAnd you seem hell bent on zero accountability because......reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:33 PM |
| -1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsWell the alternative is that you are 100% aware of what you are doing to the relationship and forcing men to accomidate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:27 PM |
| – | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsThe lack of introspection on the part of women as to their emotional state driven by biochemical responses after child birth and menopause and any other chemical influence (birth control, hair dye, make up) is mind boggling. "The guy made the mistake of hitching his wagon to this roller coaster. that's 100% on him! I'm living my best life!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?Homer Simpson and Al Bundy called to let you know your topic is three decades old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection?Jim Beam…..?!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?You are right and was wrong all along. We should all assume that things will stay the same. Change is s not going to happen. Examples in the past have no bearing on current events. Thank you for opening my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?Ok……let’s use this example and see if we can see eye to eye. The offshoring of hundred of thousands of manufacturing jobs from the 50s through the 70s. In the Midwest. While the jobs were not automated in other countries, they were in fact, eliminated in the United States due to cost savings on manual labor. This led to massive social changes in places like Detroit, Cleveland Chicago, Minneapolis. Just apply this to concept to jobs that can be eliminated in white collar. This is going to repeat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?The 300 draftsmen and copy runners that Boeing or GM had on the floor of the engineering departments as late as the mid 80’s that all got down sized to 12 guys by the mid 90’s due to CAD automation might be a lesson that you would want to consider. Or maybe cashier less fast food or Apple cutting human interaction by 85% in the manufacturing of the iPhone might be a more modern example. If you think that a corporations are not going to automate a human out of a job you really are not paying atte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:55 PM |
| – | what do you think about women who wear a lot of rings?Note to self avoid getting punched. You’re not secure enough to have a nasty scar and plastic surgery is expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:41 AM |
| 10 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?Nope. The solve will come in about 6 years. 2 more generational keeps in a AI and two thing will happen. 1 the AI girlfriend will become more believable and helpful than the real girl friend with almost zero of the downside. 2. The same AI is going to lay waste to the entry-level, white-collar job market that the women dominate. So AI isn’t going to lay bricks or unclog the drain or rip off and replace a roof any time soon. It is going to make medical assistance and paralegals and office personn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Id want to know why. Because if it was because of my type-o(s) I could see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateIf by manipulate you mean I make more money in this season of my life and can afford to buy her better things, then maybe women shouldn’t make relationships about the other parties resources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 08:09 PM |
| -2 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?India is South Asia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 05:10 PM |
| -5 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?It is odd then that the developing world isn’t seeing this. Birth rates south of the border and in South Asia are not nosediving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 04:51 PM |
| -7 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Try being the partner that has to pucker up and trust and spend two decades paying her loans before you get your shot at a degree. I I understand your hurt but “I would never trust a man….” Sounds rather sexist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 04:02 PM |
| -5 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?I’m sorry for your situation. I really am. Everyone deserves a safe functional marriage. My point is that good husbands are not rare they are ignored. My wife finished her graduate degree two years after we were married. There is a path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 03:51 PM |
| -8 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?I think one factor to consider is the point of this sub. One of the big accusations here is the women today are chancing the fun rather than the husband at a point in their lives where they should be building the trust foundation with a partner. As someone that was an empty nester before they were 50. Sooner is better than later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Denying sex in a marriage should be considered cheating.Who said cheat? There are women here that expect men to never watch porn and never masterbate and that is their expectation. Like a light switch that women get to turn on and of once a month or less completely on their terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:46 PM |
| -4 | Denying sex in a marriage should be considered cheating.Then wife’s need to get over men dealing with their need independently of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Formula of successfully attracting females at a high %Why? They only look at us a future indentured servants with a bank account. Humans don’t treat humans the way women treat men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"Don't think that anyone is saying that isn't the case. What they are saying is it's not in any way equatable. There is no go work and wait requirement on the part of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | If you are fine driving a used car you should be fine with having a relationship who is settling with youFine. Let us cars as an analogy. I a few years ago bought a truck that was not brand new that had some miles on it a scratch or two because it would fit my list of needs. Can get me hunting and fishing. Pull my boat. I can haul stuff it’s strong enough to pull a stump if I needed to. And I got a really really really really good deal on it. The wife on the other hand has it in her head that she will never be happy until she has a brand new Audi S6 in the driveway. We can’t afford to buy a brand n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why conservative traditions will withstand the test of time. Simple math.Not talking politics just talking math. We’re out of money and won’t stop spending | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Why conservative traditions will withstand the test of time. Simple math.Bad news and perception cut into birth rates. If you look at Russia or Germany for instance you can see where poor conditions in history lead to poor birth rates. Saying that the government may go bankrupt or the the currency your retirement is in may go belly up and your view of the future is trash so likelihood is your not inclined to have a kid that is rather expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:01 PM |
| – | I think women in their 30s have even more 'narrow' preferences that younger onesThe other lens that you need to compensate for is her age based expectations. Ladies in their 20s are worried about what they’re doing this weekend. Women in their 30s are worried about their environment for her family for the next 20 years. Women in their 40s are concerned about retirement and life after work and legacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 05:29 PM |
| – | The average man is less attractive than the average woman.As a straight guy ,having my own views on what I’m attracted to, I have to agree with the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why conservative traditions will withstand the test of time. Simple math.Really it is going to come down to money. Where the US stands currently, if the government took all the wealth of every billionaire in the US, some how converted it into cash at a 100%conversion rate it wouldn’t cover the debt added in the last three years. Period. Liberals say “great no billionaires”. But then can’t do the math to figure out how they pay out the next trillion when there are no billionaires. And just how many folk you’d have to bankrupt going down the wealth ladder to make that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and moneyUm……Donald Trump…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 04:26 AM |
| 8 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?“Find some woman you can hate for the rest of your life and buy her a house” isn’t life advice anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"?Ever notice that that term is still being used widely. Mostly because the concept behind it has stayed consistent and grounded expected and valued. Unlike its counterpart, “act like a lady”, the term that served western civilization for half a millennia, that has basically gone extinct in the last 30 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Airlines allowing women to avoid sitting next to males is a step in the right directionI always see three different women in there stories. The actual victim of crime, that should be allowed, healing, and justice. However, statistically is a very small minority. Women who are just paranoid and refused to get medical attention. And women like my sister who look at you and ask the question “I have no idea what these women are talking about. I’ve never even been sexually harassed. Is there something wrong with me?” Obviously there’s a fourth group that is the man hitting trolls. Whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:57 AM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?There is a lot to unpack with this. My grandmother had her husband die in the early 50s after she had three kids. She was given nothing other than the charity of the church and a food box for the government cheese. My mom’s cousin was ran off on but thanks to divorce laws in the mid-80s. She was left with the ability to pay for her house though she did have to re-enter the workforce and being a stay at home. Mom was no longer an option. My neighbor mother of three, that lives down the street jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearWhat? Did White Knight airlines start some sort of punch card system or something? Because way to go ham on a three month old discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 07:04 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From Misogynywell I respectfully disagree. It's not misogyny. It was Paul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:16 PM |
| 4 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.While your point is in no way without merit. What cannot be escaped is simple math there are statistics that exist. Coming from reputable sources. Half of all marriages ending in divorce for instance. While there is no doubt great people in the world acting individually great, the human condition and all of its faults will not be denied its moment in the sun. I agree that unsupported generalizations should be nipped in the bud credited statistics should not be thrown out, just because they do no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:56 AM |
| 12 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.Well……about 45% of women don’t deserve it to be approached. So the math works itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The Issue is Men“The issue is men” are isn’t sexist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desireYou have to remember if men had the sex drive of women the species wouldn’t have it died out after about 10 generations. Men have their place in the equation. There is a female equivalent to this, it’s called bitching. women love to do it and can’t stop to help themselves. It in their nature and is repulsive to males | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:57 AM |
| 32 | If there is "someone for everyone out there" how do so many men struggle to find one (1) woman that likes them back?An over abundance of overly picky, women and bitter, tired men do not make for an equation with a positive outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about all the men chatting with AI?Id say you have to ask why? If It were isolated and sporadic, that could be seen as an anomaly. It not. If it’s because the clunky artificial bot is easier or more available and there for acceptable as a replacement to something real that is an issue. The issue may not fall in total on the shoulder of the end user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:58 PM |
| 0 | if women date up, men do tooYou are right. I’m a college educated male that is 6’ and weighs under 190. And I turned down a string of 300pound single mom with kids from multiple baby daddies and mono-brows. I’m a superficial bastard. You caught me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:23 AM |
| 3 | If women are your biggest problem, you don't have enough real problems.Is the barista still going to pour your coffee this morning? yes? Phone still work? crap hasn't hit the fan then. keep on chirping about how bad it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 02:00 PM |
| -1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.That's great, Unfortunately you would appear to be in the minority. and you might be miss-flagged. welcome to the purple pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.What you are describing only goes in one direction. Women should not be forced to be attracted to anyone they don't find appealing. Period. No Argument. However, this sub has said it time and time and time again. Men are not allowed to have standards. Any male standard is misogynist. And thus the in-balance. Average women rejecting average men in mass is the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.So lets all talk like grown ups for a moment. Red pill is sick and tired of a two tier double standard. 1. If you are Chad enough rules do not apply. 2. not all guys can be Chad. 3. If you are not Chad it is held against you. " get money , get taller, get some "better personality"". 4. None of these rules apply to women. 5. If you are not Chad you are a jerk for not accepting the 300lb mom of three from three different daddies as your consultation. If these inequalities did not exist then red pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?We were both to stubborn to call it quits. 25 years last week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Who here doesn’t want kids?ME! I don't want kids. I'm 50 they are 18 and 19. Cant wait for them to move out. Is that what you meant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:27 PM |
| 0 | "Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptiveAnyone under the age of 35 does not have the ability to tell the difference, They only have the fight or flight reflex of a 6yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.So wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I’ll say it again. Until you are willing to answer the question of why porn and all sex work exists in the first place you are never going to make it disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingReally? I guess my interpretation is try not being assholes to men. You may want their attention later. Lot easier to get it too when there is his grandmas ring alreadyon your finger. Just saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Why is the statement "I don't want to be responsible for someone else offspring" such a difficult concept to grasp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Passport Bro's Use the reasoning "There are no good women in the West" to cover up the fact they are losersOh I get it. The average woman can reject the average guy. So the average guy must accept the below average women. “Hey dude way to go on getting your training done. Landing that average $84k job. And basically getting it done right. Not having a record or any illegitimate children. By the way sorry that you’re only 5’9”. Your consolation prize is that you have your pick of all the women that are 300 pounds with a model broW and three kids from three different daddies. And if you don’t accept th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:16 PM |
| 0 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menAre usually don’t read walls of text. But your point has merit. The curiosity I see in this, though, is that feminism wants the status quo amongst males to stay the same. They want men to continue to meet women. I think deep down the feminists really do not want to know the world where 80% of men have checked out, turn to AI sexbot, went out and got a passport for the wrong reasons. I do find myself concerned for the younger generations, as they seem to be painting themselves into a really bleak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:38 PM |
| 16 | Passport Bro's Use the reasoning "There are no good women in the West" to cover up the fact they are losersSo being well dressed, and having a decent personality, but not attracting a woman makes him a basement dweller by your logic. Here is the issue. Women should not be allowed to dictate to men the standard. When men do it to women, they are garbage misogynists. When women do it to men they’re just being picky and having standards. Passport Bros is simply the natural consequences to a problem men did not create. When women moved the goal posts because of social media and raised the bar so high tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 11:25 AM |
| 23 | Passport Bro's Use the reasoning "There are no good women in the West" to cover up the fact they are losersHere is the reason that passport Bros exist. This has nothing to do with the women that are 8’s 9’s and 10”s. Women that are 5’s. Should be willing to accept men that are 5’s. They won’t. Women have delusions of grandeur they are going to pull an 8. And lock him down. Maybe for a night but not for life. So the male five has to do something to fulfill his needs. He can’t just grow 4 inches on sheer will. Not everyone to make seven figures. If you hotties out there, are really bothered by the pass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?As someone who did the “no sex before marriage” thing and then stayed married for over 20 years. This is my two cents. Not having foreknowledge. of your partners, sexual appetite is a recipe for disaster. And if they have not had experiences to be able to define that, they are blindly selling a bag of goods, they know nothing about. I am not condoning anyone having a “slut phase”. Sexuality is such a huge part of the relationship. Not being on the same page with your partner is a giant gamble. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 07:18 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Lot to unpack there. Should motherhood be respected? YES! Is there women that manipulate and abuse Divorce law for financial gain? Yes. Are they the majority? I don’t know.. Should couples that make the decision to have a parent at home for the kids be very carefully and educate themselves as to all sacrifices, and all the sides that will required to make this happen. Not just the stress on the stay at home parent but also on the working parents and the stress applied to them as a sole provider.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:53 PM |
| 0 | What Educational Reforms Would You Advocate for to Address Any Pill-Related Concerns/Problems?Old guy comments. Raise three kids they’ve all gone through the public education system. If I had a magic wand, I would do this. One. Force equitable hiring standards in early education. The idea that 90%+ of elementary school teachers are women is destroying the system. If the reverse were true, the shrill bellyaching would be enough to win a world war with. figure out how to get men in there. Some of my most figure it out get with the program early memories were all from male teachers in the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menThe issue with everyone self improving is that the goal post will just move. Once everyone makes six figures and has a six pack. Then you need an eight pack and 7 figures. Once everyone is a high value man then no one is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 12 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?Respectfully I think you’re putting the cart before the horse. You date to see if you like them. Not because you know them and their quirks or trip wires ahead of time. Being cautious during the early stages of the process is very important. People even refer to it as subtlety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 02:55 PM |
| 25 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?Have you ever heard of a woman asking a guy out. Showing up with flowers. Taking him out to a nice restaurant that he’d enjoy. Keeping up a conversation that is full of mines. Blindly s aying just the tithings so as not to offend him but keep thing moving. Paying for everything. The going back dropping him off. And he only has to say”thanks that was nice” and walking away not being allowed to expect something more. Women define romance. Men are forced to play the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:56 AM |
| 0 | I no longer believe in redpill.Cool story bro. Your White Knight card is in the mail. On question though. If it all garbage then why is the bottom 50% of men reporting that they are unable to get any female attention, not sex, just the ability to say hello with out being called a creep. While the but the bottom 50% of women don’t ever seem to have the same complaints? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 11:17 AM |
| – | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menSaid it once I said 100 times. Modern feminist do not want equality. They want domination, and revenge for sins that they never suffered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:54 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileWell, your statement is true. Women don’t have to be so mean about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:43 AM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentSorry I assumed that there was a general understanding of how bio chemistry and sex work. I was unaware that we were still operating on a 5th grade health class the birds and the bee’s/sex=bad version of this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:21 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentTelling a drug addict that their desire for that rush is a want not a need is an uphill battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:48 AM |
| 6 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketI'm not a fan of porn but until you actually answer the question of; "Why does porn, and by extension all sex work, exist? " You are never going to put this issue to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?I get it. I lived it. I would not advise it. Sex is such a huge part of a relationship, for either one or both of you to go in blind, with no information or education, is courting disaster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?First. Thin? Not at my church. Second. You really down with the no sex til marriage and then only for having kids? Because the church lady prudes are prolific. There is a reason that church marriages end in divorce only second to lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Do you mean like the time the HR manager got caught at the coffee station talking to a bunch of other women and literally said “we need to kick all the men out of the office back outside or on to the factory floor so we can finally control the thermostat“ isn’t a good example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendForce? I think you are trying to redefined the term. Friendzone is not a goal. It’s something that’s actually inflicted on you by someone that is trying to keep a flock. Nice guys (and to a much lesser extent gals) put up with it with the idea that if I do what I’m told and just be nice maybe something will come of this. Maybe it can turn into something else that actually is friendly. But it has nothing to do with the actual term. In the same way, attempting to define the word girlfriend and boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:37 PM |
| 5 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendYour theory is based on the idea that people wanted to be just friends. Getting friend zoned is the idea of while you were trying to catch the attention of someone you were rebuffed but not rejected. Getting friend zoned has always meant the idea of attraction and attempting to build a romantic relationship getting stalled out not simply trying to be a friend and you damn well know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMYou know there are not a lot of studies on the wetness of water. But we all know it as well. We do, however, have tons of studies relating to early childhood development and healthy exposure from female parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 11:31 AM |
| 5 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It’s funny. I remember in collage to be considered a bare minimum just to have a TV. The old tube kind. Then we all needed a 28 inch TV and then a 34 inch TV. Then that weird thing that Sony tried to do with the flat tubes. Then a few years later in order to be considered staying with the times do you need it a 40 inch plasma. Later you were considered behind that homes if you didn’t have an LCD and then LED 1080pand then you needed have a 55 inch 4k to be considered with it. Then it seems like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:07 PM |
| -2 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Reading here is troubling. Every counterpoint to the OP reads “how dare men have any standards”. “How dare they have preference” “how dare men stick up for themselves” “ how dare men think they have the same rights as women in the dating market”. It would imply that the narrative of female self-esteem, and positivity may have been pushed a little too far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:23 AM |
| 3 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manThe op Cooked the number fairly hard to make this leap. I reject this entire notition simply on bad math. Seriously did you use to work at Enron? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t approach men because rejection for women has a much bigger stigmaWell, that. And they don’t have to. They will get approached eventually. So why bother putting effort, where none it was actually needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 04:20 AM |
| 12 | The whole “so you want women to date men they’re not attracted to“ is a deflection. Attraction is not static, but rather fluid and relative, and is directly proportionate to your options/abundance.Here is the hard part about this. In the 1950s you could eat a boiled chicken. It was not very good. But it was calories and you weren’t going to starve. Today every chef on the planet has a cooking show on YouTube. You can literally make with detailed instructions to make anything that you can get your hands on the ingredients for. This is just a reality when social media and dating apps do nothing but put forward a particular set of gentlemen for the pleasure of the women out there. It’s going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 09:01 PM |
| -2 | Social media's effect on women is 10x worse than porn's effect on men.Women’s actions on social media makesvme think 10x less of them that what they do on porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:22 PM |
| 7 | What purple pill advice would you give a man with these stats?Liquidate everything. Buy a cabin in the woods and put the rest in the canned food and shotguns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipAll of the failings of this generation of men is the direct result from of rampant feminism at every level of the educational process. Having young man that has graduated height school and watching what he had to endure was gut wrenching. The female bullying that was encouraged by female educators in the class room and on the playground to later the unchecked teaching styles denying proven male learn styles was appalling. Accusations that bruises and injuries that we’re not on him when we droppe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 06:29 PM |
| 11 | When will we have female-only cities?Wait. Cramming all the man hating feminists into a “gated community” is an option? You mean all the normal folk’s could just go about their lives while they hide behind their walls? Can we give them their own segregated internet as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 03:18 PM |
| – | It’s not ethical to go to Twin Peaks or Hooters as a married man.Neither of those two businesses named are ethical to be going into. No one should be willing to pay those prices for chicken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:02 PM |
| 41 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantTwo thoughts. If you feel that you need to manipulate a SO in order to get a desired outcome rather than talk like adults they probably not the right person for you. Second if manapulation is actually at the top your list of problem solving list you are a walking red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:46 PM |
| – | If "most men don't want a partner, they want a mom", then most women don't want a partner, they want a dad.Disagree. Women want a mind reading indentured servant with a trust that fund she can control. Cornet feminism, wants someone to clean their clothes someone to wash their house someone to cook for them they have no interest in sharing actual work responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?If we don’t like the way women act why would we do the things that women do? Why would I want to end up like them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 01:06 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingOh. You don’t know the OP and their reoccurring locked threads of “all men are bad all the time” threads? Meet Ruby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 30 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingCircle jerk. One man is bad so all men are bad. You’re right we are all the bad guy. Good job of exposing us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:10 PM |
| – | Men are building a pathetic victim complex that even the most red-pilled woman gets bored of hearing them all.“I’m a teenager and have enough life experience to tell you all that men suck at everything” Don’t worry your sweet head. You’ll get your shot with Chad. And bless your heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Women have it harder than men in datingYou could also get killed by space born garbage falling to earth while on your date with the criminal. You should raise awareness on that as well and get the government on it. Also be sure to watch out for static lord knows. what the criminal will do to you if you get hit by lightning and pass out. Have you done a risk assessment on bedding? Throw pillows are killing machines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Women have it harder than men in datingSo. Its no longer the woods. Now you want to willingly date the bear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:21 PM |
| 8 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.That’s weird. See I distinctly remember women being assholes back in the 90s. I don’t think women have changed. It’s just the game looks different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Which women are allowed to be picky?Problem is once you get to 666 find out the ladies move goal post. And now they want 687. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?If you are ding what you do and it makes you happy then your good. If you’re doing what you do not enjoying it, but telling yourself, it’s for someone else, you will not find contentment with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 11 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.One of the issues I take with posts like this is that it attempts to put everyone into the same bucket defined by the most extreme version of the definition. I liken this to some political theory. Just because I like my tax dollars going to parks schools the police and fire department does not put me in the same boat with socialists like Joesph Stalin or Mao. Like wise saying that there are some women that are bad actors and that there are enough of them that you should watch out for that behavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsNot too sure how much lower my standards are supposed to go. Necrophilia is still a crime in my state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 09:34 PM |
| -1 | Where is the current dating disaster headed? It can’t possibly sustain itself for much longer, and women only seem to be getting more delusionâl.Um...combination of AI really screwing every last thing up. First AI girlfriends are going to take a lot of guy off the market. Second AI is in quick order in the next wave of interrogation kill off a lot of entry level white collar jobs. That sector is dominated by women, HR assistants to medical scheduling to paralegals. Women will likely get to make a choice SAHM or dirty blue collar. Roofer, plumber, welder or mom? Said it once will say it again. Ladies eat your cake now, the pendulum is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 03:29 AM |
| 23 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesYoung men 15 to 30 are self deleting at rate of 4 to 1 to women. Women don’t care. Women have higher education rates, higher college completion rates than men now by a very significant margin. Women don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Ranking your own SMV/RMVSo I think I’m a 3. I’m told I’m probably a 4. But I’m 50yo so it’s that makes me a 2 until you factor in that I make six figures and am out of debt and my kids are grown and out of the house. That might get me back to a 3. Im six foot and under 200lbs so maybe back to 4. But I’m married and the therapist says I have sociopathic tendencies so I’m guessing over all a 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with women making rules for some and breaking it for others? It's just common senseI think that I would just be happy with an acknowledgment that women agree that TODAY they can’t live up to their own standards. That they move the goal posts. That the system it tilted in their favor and that a significant number of women treat men very poorly and in a way that they would consider unacceptable if the role were reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS.I see you White Knight. Not sure if you are bad at reading or intentionally misrepresenting my argument. It's only paranoia if there is no evidence that they are out to get you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:13 PM |
| 69 | Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS.Now if the internet was just devoid of examples and evidence the TRP was totally making every last thing up. That's not to say that the TRP isn't full of crap. If only there wasn't literally hours of women on TikTok and other spaces telling men how worthless they are. Post like this are once again trying to tell men "this mental health crisis is all in you head and 100% your own fault. Women are made of sugar and spice and everything nice and blameless" Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Porn is not the problemRespectfully, If you follow the money, it tells a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Porn is not the problemAt least on the male side of this equation, porn and by extension all sex work only exists because of the divide between what men want and what your average female is willing to accommodate. A small percentage of women decided to profit on this. That is the way it is always been. That is why it is commonly said that the easiest solution to porn completely within the hands of women. Sleep with your guy more or talk other women into stop making OF content or except it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Where is the line between wanting something and acting entitled to something?I think that this argument that keeps coming up seems to be men feel entitled to be treated like a human being, and with a little common courtesy. Women feel entitled to deny men that. Wants over sex aside. In the last week we have seen posts on this sub that actually call into question a man’s right to exist. It’s rather troubling. I really hope these are all Chinese bots and that feminist and their white knights have not gone that far to the extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 04:14 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menThe hard core feminist Mardi Gras that has been going on for the last decade or more will not last forever. Posts like this and the responses show a rather unprepared mindset in women for that eventuality. Times are changing. That ugly nerd might just be what keeps a roof over your head and food on the table. I wouldn’t celebrate his demise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:15 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menLadies have your cake now. The pendulum is not going to be kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:59 PM |
| 17 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?I think that this is the crux of the red pill argument. Should guys have to wait? Should guys have to accept being the option of last resort? Should guys be keeping their nose clean and focus on their career keeping in shape and now have to pick up a divorced with three kids of two different dads, table scraps of the Chads, that in her prime was at best a 7? How is this looked upon as fair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Women are leaving dating appsWant an idea for a dating app? Try one that is gated so that pictures are not traded until contact and conversation is made. Force the social connection first before the visual judgments occur and then give a score to the user for ghosting after the picture phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Is it “bigoted” to be afraid of men? (TW SA)Judging a whole group based on the actions of a extremely small minority that can't control and impulse that are punished severely for their crime? YES!!! Women in mass are sexist! And it is the most prolific and most defended prejudice in our society today by far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 03:57 AM |
| 8 | If women "tamed" men, how far could that go?Look if you want control of the office thermostat so badly maybe we can work something out less dystopian. Feminism. "We want the freedom to make all the mistakes men made only more messy and damaging" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 05:22 PM |
| – | Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’?Women have zero idea how much more complicated they make every last thing. We can't solve a single problem with out you finding some way to get offended over only god knows what. We can't have our own views. yours must be factored in. We can't just make something. You have to put your spin on it. And basically since social media hit the scene this complete defect in women has been amplified and the multiplied. Bring on the sex bots. Maybe they will let us live in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?A tree. If it talks, you can take a chainsaw to it, and the authorities only mildly care and some municipalities. Call it Stihl silence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:18 PM |
| 3 | What does 'status' mean to you?“On line” “playing …..”. “Offline for hours weeks months” “busy”. Basically if they are available to play a game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 03:14 PM |
| – | How to deal with women constantly shaming men and being disrespectful towards men?Find one you can hate for the rest of your life and buy her a house. That will get it out of your system right quick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 03:04 AM |
| 5 | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themThis is just like money. once we give everyone $1 million, then having $1 million will no longer be considered rich . Once everyone is Chad then no one is a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Wanting less competition for elite or high status jobs is what really behind the sudden tradwife push in some manosphere spacesum a few Tradwives isn't going to diminished the number of female bosses. That math does not check out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:35 AM |
| -2 | TRP will not solve your problemsTRP is crap but if you can convince one white night white knight to stop sipping, and get some self-respect, that it might all be worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Dating advice by men, for women?Oh. It’s simple. If you are not a royal, do not expect a royal treatment. And when it shows up anyway be very grateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Is some form of emotional abuse from a woman in a relationship considered a bullshit test that men must endure and pass or is it an unacceptable normalisation of abuse?The average male in love checks 85% of the boxes for Stockholm Syndrome so there is that..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 11 | We are getting closer to ‘Her’ and JOI from BladeRunner. How will social dynamics and loneliness be affected?Didn't we talk about this on Tuesday? Same answer. Guys that women refuse to acknowledge as human will have a toy. With time that toy may even become believable. Then it will be come dependable. Somewhere along the way the corporate overlords will abuse the power. Then the nerds will jump the shark and call "her" Cortana | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 02:34 AM |
| – | Hypothesis on the Bear Situation. Choosing Bear is a statement, not a real life decision.What you seem to be missing is that if the reverse were true. If men had generated a hypothetical that painted all women in a awful light based on a few bad actors and they were in mass offended to the extent that it currently is, any male participant would be canceled and banned but by the lone factor being it that it a female making these statement is allowed. This is exercise has very dramatically brought to light the most widely excepted and promoted and now defended pre-justice in western c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Has Open AI’s GPT-4o reached the "Her" moment? What does this mean for the online female attention economy?Be fun if it was your fantasy but it’s not. There should be all kinds of red flags on this over dismissal and re-assigning of close to 18% of kindergarten teachers nationwide of which 95% were women due to low student enrollment, going into next fall, attributed completely to low birth rates over the last five years. There is a lot to unpack there, but the reality is there are parts of the economy if significant change suddenly happens, negative results will fall disproportionately on women. Den… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | The male "Provider" isn't Biology. Women are just entitled.Yeah. No there is a facet of this argument that is social media unreality and a wicked case of keeping up with the Jones's that western women are going to have to figure out. And guys need to stop feeding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Women harp endlessly about entitlement and men feeling “owed” but in reality most people expect to be able get someone similar to them in all areas and framing this as “entitlement” is a deflection from the real issueOh yes, “the all women are tens and men are all ugly”defense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Has Open AI’s GPT-4o reached the "Her" moment? What does this mean for the online female attention economy?Bud. You white knights are about to do so much damage to women you have no idea. The next wave of AI adoption is not going to hit men nearly as hard as it will hit women. Telling women that it’s all gonna be OK that it’s going to be equal,is setting them up for a giant fall. Guys like you should really be ashamed of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Has Open AI’s GPT-4o reached the "Her" moment? What does this mean for the online female attention economy?The early adopter of that are going to be the guys that women won’t touch with a ten foot pole. Then it will be the average guys. Then as the theory goes everyone will be chasing and judging all men by Chad. Then the other boot will drop and half of these women will be unemployed and not able to provide for themselves. Women really have no idea the corner they have worked themselves into (guys literally had nothing to do with this) and how fast the world is about to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Has Open AI’s GPT-4o reached the "Her" moment? What does this mean for the online female attention economy?The sex work industry is going to take a hit this until they switch gear and offer something new or different. However I think that women in general are going to take a hit. Men once they decide AI is real enough will cut off women emotionally. No more passive aggressive micromanaging and manipulation. They can chat about their day or let their mind wonder or express their feelings without any of it being turned against them. That is where AI will bite the most. The computers are safer than wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Has Open AI’s GPT-4o reached the "Her" moment? What does this mean for the online female attention economy?We’ve raised to generation of young men that are hoping for the day that their AI falls in love with them. My bet is 75% of them will name it Cortana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Are Red Pill and Blue Pill Defined Differently Than They Used To?Well understanding that half of red pill was content creators, and Chinese bots trying to push the envelope as far as the can for clicks or to create division would start to make some since of this. Even in this, space a week doesn’t go by without some “red pill” guy spouting off about the merits of polygamy. Like you spend all that time complaining about this that and the other negativity of women and then think to yourself “man I need two of those! Maybe more!” seriously didn’t we lock these p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:18 AM |
| 8 | Men are entitledWhat is funny is that women feeling safe is literally a western thing. Basically everywhere else in the world they are not. Western women are clueless as to the society that has been built up around them to coddle them and take it for granted daily. Not that I think that they owe men anything more than some passing regard and personal metal acknowledgement. But accepting that the world that they bitch about every day wasn't built by, and protected by, them, would be appreciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?As some one that is married for over 20 years and did the same thing, don't. Understand your sexual appetite and you spouse understanding theirs is really a big issue. We went in blind because of religion, and it by far is the biggest form of friction in our marriage. Literally I have no idea where the "people fight over money" came from but every other argument is over sex. Not knowing what she liked. Not knowing what excites her. Her being attracted to women (giant issue of denial for her). Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:15 PM |
| 5 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?At this point this has boiled down to: women in mass are prejudice jerks, and they are hell bent on defending that prejudice, You can't change their minds, and are going to make you feel as bad as they can for pointing out this prejudice or calling it that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:53 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.Again, with my same response. If a black guy walks into a liquor store, is it prejudice of the owner to assume that he is about to be robbed? Lots of those stories exist. Lots of liquor stores have been knocked over. Is it fair to pre-judge all Black people by this or does it make you racist? Is it fair to assume that every Muslim you meet is a suicide bomber? Is it fair to assume every woman that I meet over 6 foot is either a volleyball player or a basketball player? This question attempting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearIf a black guy walks into a liquor store is it ok the the store owner to assume he is about to be robed at gun point? Don’t we call that racism? Isn’t that frowned upon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearBoth narratives are equally wrong and equally offensive. They’re also equally divisive. You either except the narrative you perpetuate the narrative, or you fight the narrative. The question is whether or not you’re going to turn blind eye just something that’s wrong just because it happens to align itself with your preconceived notions. Maybe men are thinking it, but women are collectively saying it out loud that must be pushed back against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearWould you like it if every man who saw you out and about assumed that you were a whore? Assume that it only took money to get your attention? That they could have you for a price? Would that bother you? Upset you even? Still think it’s OK to assume that every man is a potential rapist and should be feared? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearCute manipulation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearNope. Assuming that a woman would assault a man in the woods is silly to both women and men. Intentionally inferring that a whole gender should be held in a negative light because of the acts of a very small yet real moment minority is the equal parallel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:11 PM |
| 16 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearSaid it once and I’ll say it again. If it is society’s new norm to assume all me are or could be rapists because of a small batch of criminals then we can assume that there will s simply a unknown dollar amount to get any woman to sleep with you for a night because a small number of women are in sex work. Hence all women can be assumed to be whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?Little fixation on this eh. Why don’t you point on the dolly where Joseph Smith touched you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?🤨 never a Mormon. Way to fly that biggot flag though. Most folks are not that brave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?There’s not a great way for me to explain this that doesn’t come across as slightly racist and slightly misogynistic, but here goes. Scouts population woes cannot be solved without it reconciling why the largest cohort of their population of youth shrank. For the better part of the century scouting paid the bills and kept the lights on while having an overwhelming population of white males. When that began to erode, the solution was never “why is the core constituency of our consumer base walkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?First off red pill is nuts. Polygamous, lifestyles, and such. So I see actual damage that that is causing. And the more moderate folks seem to be angling for a bygone era that I’m not sure is ever coming back. That said fourth wave feminist, and the blue pill are not in any way, shape or form in the business of equality, they basically are looking into the past looking at the disparities between the sexes and say “rather than fixing them it’s just our turn to make all the same mistakes.” Why wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Covert Narcissism and the Western FeministNarcissism. The need for reposting an article again for the purpose of gathering responses to receive validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 05:45 PM |
| – | Why do you think casual disrespect by women towards their male partners is so common? Is it really acceptable?Because it’s a core attribute of women. They used to not get impressed by much. And then the Internet came along, and I found out all the things they didn’t have and then they were even less impressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | What men want vs what they say they wantI do wonder if we’re ever going to get to a point where men on this Reddit or not portrayed as cannibalistic degenerate slave owners at every given opportunity. This is not normal you know it’s not normal stop making a scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:03 AM |
| -1 | Why do certain conservatives want to get rid of no fault divorce?Gets rid of rich by divorce gold diggers. If he has to cheat on you or hit you for you to get your payout it will put an end to a fair amount of this silliness right quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Women owe men sex.That is silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManIrony. Taking personal offense and feeling attacked to a comment on write up about narcissism that you didn’t write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManSo the read here is having any feeling other than my partner is perfect, I have zero needs and my sole mission in life is to serve her makes me a narcissist. This will obviously solve issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:41 PM |
| – | "Then tell other men not to do that".Please go watch South Park City Wall. Obviously to salutation to all this is to kick all the women out of town to protect them from us. They’ll do better with the Mongols. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.Interesting. To what portion of the general population of men, would you apply this concern? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 7 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.With sentiment in mind is it then fair for men to assume that any female potential partner is a threat to fooling him into a marriage just to divorce him to take half his stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Many men who complain about being alone have high standards too.ATM 132 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Many men who complain about being alone have high standards too.I’m being picky……????. I’m also a Ram guy over ford or chevy. Also picky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Many men who complain about being alone have high standards too.Yeah. Personal preference. (No real good reason. Just a thing) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Many men who complain about being alone have high standards too.Only standards are blue eyes weigh no more than 65% my body weight not mean and not nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Should we feel bad for mediocre wives who get cheated on by attractive, high-status, husbands?You are correct about one thing. If you reverse it and the wife cheats it would be rationalized the day is long. Almost certainly the words, narcissist and abusive would be used. men never walk away with a clean victim card when they are the ones cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why the Red Pill want a war so badly?I wish I didn’t understand the principle behind what you were discussing, sadly I do. This is the zombie apocalypse, EMP discussion. Basically, if you were to take away all of the luxuries of western society, what you would be left with would be environment that would be hard and less hospitable to modern feminism. We would have no need for medical assistance and paralegals and HR managers. Whereas the adaptability for males simply revert back to manual labor hunter gatherer jobs would be exceed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:00 PM |
| – | Women would not tolerate being treated the same way they treat men.Any time I need to shut down my wife down I simply ask her if she would stay married to herself. The argument (whatever it was) is almost always instantly over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Dating inequality cannot be fixedI'm not sure I really understand. It's always been a competition since before recorded history. Nothing has really changed on the male side of the coin. Prove your worth. Men with wealth and power always horded women. The benefit I guess is that today they have the freedom to not be horded. So in that regard thanks first wave feminism I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?ever work in a group on a math project? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 02:08 AM |
| 11 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?For the better part of three decades early education favored the female learning style in deliver and culture. This had massive effects and now is showing up in collage graduation rates and office culture. Little boy learned they were not safe and no one was there for them, they grew up and now know they have a target on their back or at best seen as an indentured servant and blank check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that the most outwardly sexist guys I know that do the best with women?Just for clarification. Was there an answer other than “it’s 110% all men’s fault” that was not going to get down voted? Asking for a friend | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 06:43 PM |
| – | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?just asking for some evidence of a woman comparing a wiener to to a wiener and being happy about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:37 AM |
| – | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?Cool. Show me the Tik Tok of a woman bragging that she has a man with a unit the size of a Oscar Myer hot dog that isn't loaded with a bunch of women laughing at her satire. And then get the data on how 5" sex toy fly off the shelf an I will happily concede my point. Until then you are a toxic feminist that would argue the dryness levels of water if a man dared to say water is wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 10:07 PM |
| – | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?Well, women lie. End of story actions speak louder than words, and the almighty, dollar is always right. show me that truckload of content women complaining about 10 inch dildos, and will measure it against all the Content of women laughing at and shaming undersized men, and we’ll see who comes out on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:54 PM |
| – | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?This!!!!! 1000x this!! show me the truckloads of contact of women complaining about 10 inch dildos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:46 PM |
| -10 | A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are womenYou should swap the male and female identifiers in what you posted and see if you like how that reads. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/24 06:17 PM |
| -22 | I think a lot of people here talk about men in the way red pillers talk about womenDude. I come here to let these toxic feminists with their sexist tripe raise my blood pressure. Please don’t ruin that for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 01:08 PM |
| 3 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?Women (not all) that think that men are supposed to be some sort of blank check indentured servant that deserve nothing is pretty much doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:52 PM |
| -1 | Is is true that women are drama seekers?Not sure I’ve ever heard anyone blankety accuse women of assault or any such criminal act. The idea that is your default argument and justification is horrific. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Is is true that women are drama seekers?Excuse me? Boys will be boys? They can’t help themselves but assault women? And you got how many up votes with that comment? How backwards is this sub? That kind of hate speech is allowed much less up voted? Really??? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 05:27 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderNot saying it a great system. But it’s the system we have had for thousands of known years. You think there is going to change just because it’s hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 05:02 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderOr…… men just accept that the role of the pursuer has always been the job of men. Yes, today it’s a little more cruel and yes, today the socials have made it more difficult and added a layer of complexity to it, and And, yes, rejection sucks. But women have been rejecting men in bars since invention of bars. Man up and get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | It's incredibly frustrating to ask for advice and have people invalidate or just disregard your experience.Sorry OP. I found your concern valid. This community does not take constructive criticism well. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/24 03:46 PM |
| -5 | What are characteristics of a good girlfriend? What are some red flags that I should watch out for?See how many questions she can ask before she starts talking about your job or income. Does she ask about family hobbies? What are you do for fun? Hell, even politics. does she want to get to know you or does she want to get to know your paycheck? And vice versa, how long can you go without talking about your money? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I can’t be vulnerable around people, especially womenBeing unsure or cautious about your emotional vulnerabilities is called a natural defense mechanism. Do not underestimate it. Is letting you know That the people around you have not earned that level of trust. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/24 12:34 PM |
| -13 | Gaslighting in this subThank you for making my point. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/24 03:20 PM |
| -1 | Why red pill guys think they can diagnose people randomly?There is some irony for ya. Why do exredpill folks think that the can diagnose red pill guy? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/24 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Why red pill guys think they can diagnose people randomly?Not sure that that is an exclusively red pill trait. People just like telling other people want is wrong with them. example: this sub telling red pillers what is wrong with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/24 07:01 PM |
| 17 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?The money and height chad thing seems to almost always come to the surface with that crowd. Then the girls on OF making millions seems to grind their gears. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 07:06 PM |
| -2 | Harmful red pill video's pushed on YouTube, to pretty much everyone it seems.The issue is as the OP pointed out is that it isn’t all BS. There is just enough truth of evidence, that people with bad experiences are latching onto and extrapolating them into a warped reality. Bunch of guys sitting around, not happy with her life experiences and then someone else comes along tells them it’s not their fault, but there’s a grand conspiracy. And that all of the badness is because of this one other group, and if you just as your own group, choose to align yourself with this radi… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up?Red pill is about making money as content creator than anything. There is just enough truth in it for a lot of guys that are getting or have been hurt in their relationships with women for is to resonate and generate clicks. Women on the other hand want to toss it al out as on giant lie rather then face up to the idea that there are documented bad actors in the sisterhood, which further lends itself to the grand conspiracy of feminism. But the reality is that most of these men 30 years ago would… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 12:43 AM |
| -16 | Yet another relationship ruined by Red Pill ideasSo your irrational fears ruin you relationship and you blame it I. Red pill? RP is if full of holes and quit nuts buy you are trying to shift blame to them. Man up grow a pair and take responsibility for your own actions. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/24 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller?I did. The whole sugar and spice and everything nice mantra. I should’ve know better. The only three people to ever try and punch me out when I was in elementary school were girls. Worst bully in high school was a girl. But for what ever reason I never assumed females were a threat. Then I got to the corporate world. Grew up right quick and all those pre assumptions ended. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/24 12:44 PM |
| 0 | How do you heal after years of being the recipient of redpill strategiesCovert abuse? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do men talk a lot about their ‘prime’I was really hoping that this was going to be a discussion about my kids Transformers action figures collection. /sigh Frankly you talk about it in high regard because it is really darn obvious considering, gender rolls, when you age out of it it's extremely noticeable. Doing physical labor at 50 feels a lot different than it did at 25. As the women in my life never split fire wood or laid a brick or tilled the garden this means something totally different to them. I'll bet it takes me about twi… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/24 09:13 PM |
| -2 | I don't know how to be attractive after a bad experience with a woman. Falling in and out of the Redpill. Every new rejection feels 10 times worse because of it. I want to be attractive again, but don't know how.1 the first one hurts more than the rest 2. doesn't get better, you learn to live with it. Sorry but this is were the man up stuff comes in. 3 women will not/can not understand this part. careful the advice you take in. 4 If she was out of your league than get in a better league. That part is on you. 5 the reason Red pill is attractive is because it's an out. it allows you to blame her and by extension all women. Don't. 6. You thought she was the one. Secret is that there are a lot of "the one's… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/24 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Do most women have empathy for men?There are bad actors that can't seem to shut up when the camera is on. But most people are good people. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/24 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Is following red pill content pages a red flag?Wonder if your guy would think that getting dating advice from something called exreddpill would be a red flag? And just a hint if he's 31 and you're 21.......your age is also a kind of a sign how deep he's in. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Porn addiction is ruining my mental healthUnderstanding the reason that porn exists in the first place would probably help | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/24 09:10 PM |
| -4 | How to tell her.…..then be ready for a long irritating conversation with HR about sexual harassment or discrimination or instigating and hostile work environment . Id keep my head down. Let her be her and avoid the whole thing. Attempting to change her behavior in anyway makes you the aggressor. Don’t fall into that trap | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/24 05:17 PM |
| -4 | Why are men who disapprove of Redpill considered feminists?Because people who disagree with extremist get called names. “If you’re not 100% for me you’re 100% my enemy“. You should try disagreeing with a few people in this subs. You’ll see. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 0 | I've stopped hanging out with my attractive friends and it's helped me not think about the red/black pill as muchso the take away based on responses here is ..... none of your experiences are not valid or a sign of behavior in others and women are completely unbiased. Or..... Sorry that happened to you bro. No, it's not fair. Chin up. The fight is in fact worth it in the end. What ever you do, ignore both extremes as they are both toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/24 11:12 PM |
| -2 | Another One to DebunkName calling? check. inferring personal superiority? check. lack of rebuttal to specifics? check. Hmmm Here is what you folks don't seem to get. Most of his content, he is responding to videos that are posted by women espousing things that you say doesn't exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/24 03:47 AM |
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