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A nearby park.
/r/seduction09/11/14 04:20 PM
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You just have to write the why of important things, not of everything.
/r/seduction01/01/14 09:32 AM
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They are not as bad as you imagine. They are nice and polite. Most of them anyways. I only remember 2 that rejected me (you tend to forget rejections because they dont matter, except for the exceptional ones). One said I have a boydfriend in an angry tone while not even looking at me. I thought she was rude. The second laughed at my face when I asked her out. Thats it. Here is a video of Simplepickup's rejections: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zro7DHqzvUc
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:27 AM
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I think it could be better, you didnt gave her much to work with. So she probably wont reply. Also, if you havent seen her at the gym before its probably because your schedules are different. You probably wont meet casually, you have to make it happen yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/14 05:13 AM
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Yea, she looked 18, I'm 22. I saw her later in the night on the street. We got off the club at the same time coincidentially. But I didnt said anything to her. Maybe I could've fixed it by proving im not some weirdo?
/r/seduction31/12/13 11:51 PM
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Thanks. And yeah I didnt knew they looked at kiss and sex so differently. Lesson learned!
/r/seduction31/12/13 11:47 PM
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Okok giving a number is great, thank you. If something like this happens again I'll keep it in mind.
/r/seduction31/12/13 11:45 PM
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I dont think so. Before this happened I was dancing with many girls, which gave me social value. After this, most girls backed off.
/r/seduction31/12/13 11:44 PM
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Yea, I didnt knew her name though and she went for the kiss so I thought I was in. Clearly I wasnt. I'm thinking more kissing and escalation? Build some comfort as well?
/r/seduction31/12/13 10:24 AM
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The information about threesomes is great i can totally see it working in a past one I fucked up by not acting. That wont happen again thanks to you! Awesome, thank you!
/r/seduction30/12/13 09:17 PM
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hahaha your situation is funny. I havent tried online dating, but this is what I would do. I would act as if I didnt knew they worked together. What I dont get is, this girl, Erika is bringing your other match to your date? If that is so, then they know they both matched with you and are still up for it.
/r/seduction27/12/13 10:55 PM
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Any advice on ligistics if I live far away from clubs?
/r/seduction27/12/13 08:39 PM
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I saw a comment saying that the HB scale is the self perceived value, not the beauty. It makes more sense than just scaling her beauty in numbers, since this can be very biased and is not useful. If you rate her self perceived value though, then it is useful and we can agree more on rating her a given number.
/r/seduction27/12/13 07:17 PM
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You can delete it. Its not a problem. People will ask why you dont have a facebook, be prepared to answer. However, I think you shouldnt delete it just because "it detracts your attractiveness".
/r/seduction27/12/13 09:55 AM
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You are good. This is awesome advice. It will be used thank you! Also, if you have more on logistics it is welcome.
/r/seduction27/12/13 06:07 AM
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When she just says im busy and doesnt say when she will be free I think its pretty much a "im not interested." But I would like to hear your opinion.
/r/seduction27/12/13 04:49 AM
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No. I chickened out because of what our friends would think. I need to improve my game when closing in front of friends. Advice on how to do it is welcome.
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:41 AM
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So apparently this post sucks. I'm new to this community, I saw many posts with begginer questions, so I thought I would give some begginer advice. Some of you seem to have liked it though, since it has over 20 upvotes. I appreciate them. I will leave it there for future use, take that as you like. I think also that sedditors attacking someone that is trying to share experiences instead of pointing out why it is wrong is a huge problem. This may be the reason why there are no mPuas in here.
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:38 AM
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Hahaha ok. Glad to hold a world record in your book.
/r/seduction27/12/13 02:49 AM
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Thats good. If you explain why its bad then I know where I fucked up and I can fix it. Thanks. Next post will be useful. Keep the honesty.
/r/seduction27/12/13 01:42 AM
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First, open more girls, then flirt more. The thing with nice guys is not that girls dont like to be treated well. It is that these guys dont flirt and they see sex and relationships as a transaction. I am nice to you and you give me sex. You can be a good person and get laid. Flirting and body language is great at this.
/r/seduction27/12/13 01:35 AM
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I dont wait to send a text or a call. I dont like to pretend im busy. Works ok.
/r/seduction27/12/13 01:13 AM
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I know, maybe I should take writing lessons. I depend heavily on non verbal. They are not supplicating and im not her butler. This works for me. I just cant seem to write it down like I see it. Maybe I should just stop trying to give advice and just post frs?
/r/seduction27/12/13 12:23 AM
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You are right, I think understanding the HB scale should be one of the first things to learn in this community. I only see frs with HB6s and up. Not all girls have a self perception higher than average. Hell many think they have a lower than average self-perception, when its actually average because we are all suposed to act confident. Understanding the scale would help seddit.
/r/seduction27/12/13 12:15 AM
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Not everyone knows what you know dude. You are welcome on giving advice. I'll add some more later.
/r/seduction27/12/13 12:06 AM
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We all make mistakes.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:40 PM
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She wants your seed.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:27 PM
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Some guys are as blind as a worm. Sometimes its good to state simple stuff that may pass over their heads.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:22 PM
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Damn, this is actually a useful tool after all. I thought it was just to brag. I'll use it now, thank you! We need more guys like you.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:20 PM
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She looked 18, maybe it was the first time she felt an erection. She freaked out, talked to her friend and then came back and grinded some more after while. My guess is her friend told her not to be a pussy.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:33 PM
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Thats what i was thinking, but if you want to hook up what I did was a mistake.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:29 PM
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Good things have happended. I decided to add these frs because i dont see many failed frs, besides first timers or awkward. I could add successful frs as well. Next time I'll add a failed fr and how I turned it around and made it successful.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:27 PM
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I go out with 2 to 5 friends.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:21 PM
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Being good looking for a man attracts attention, but not more. I have a friend that could be a model and one that actually is a model. I have never seen the first get with a girl and I even saw 2 girls approach him and tell him that he was handsome! He just said thanks. (Ive known him for like 5 months though) The second guy is all for relationships and not into game. He hasnt had a girlfriend in like 6 months now. Her girlfriend was very pretty though.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:56 AM
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Congrats on your first approach! I will always remember my first day approaching! Awkward as fuck. Just keep learning and trying new stuff. You will get better. A tip. Directly asking for names is not very good, talk to her and make a connection before asking for names. Hell I dont even ask for names anymore. I let her do that. I also moved away from direct openers and intentions. I find it suits me more. A harsh truth, cancun was just an excuse. If she wants to meet you she will say, Im busy on…
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:45 AM
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Adding and asking a girl out on facebook wont look as a confident move. I dont recommend doing it.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:33 AM
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I think that the new place is better than a date with the ex, but congratulations on both! Keep at it!
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:25 AM
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They can mean she likes you. I would act on it though. I only dated a friend once. Shit got bad. dont do it. Be her friend, not a boyfriend. There are many, many girls out there, smarter, hotter and funner than your friend go find them.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:22 AM
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So, you get nervous and then get more nervous because you are nervous? Thats funny. You can do 2 things, cover the sweat or cure it. Cure it. How? By being used to dates. Go out more. You will sweat while you get used to them, no big deal. When I dance I get wet with sweat. Wet. Most girls dont care. Some do, yes, but I wouldnt like a girl like that anyways.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:18 AM
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Dude, first of all, this should be on askseddit. Next, stop overthinking. Do what you fucking want. Dont try to text perfectly or as someone else. You will only fuck it up with inconsistency and a constant not knowing what to do. Girls make mistakes as well, they dont know what to text or do. This girl of yours is no special. Dont try to be perfect for someone that is imperfect. What would I do? I would call her and wish her happy travels.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:13 AM
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Easy. Courteous is you offering her xxxxx. Push over is her taking from you xxxxx.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:03 AM
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We need more outer game as well. Not specific responses though. Seddit is giving out the fish, but not teaching how to fish when it comes to outer game. And we all know you can just get so far with only inner game.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:58 AM
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I realized I didnt said how the tone should be. It should be a "hmm interesting" tone when saying thats a bit forward of you. Then a serious monotone I like it when saying I like it.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:54 AM
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Doesnt get you laid. They dont take it as a challenge, they take it as a rejection and move on. The healthy ones at least.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:50 AM
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I had selective mutism as a kid. Meaning I was like Raj from TBBT. I couldnt talk to anyone at all! Not even a laugh, not a sound. I overcame it by doing it, fear and all. I overcame AA by turning off my brain. You are overthinking. Shut down your brain and walk there. Once you get there, just say hi. Then turn on your brain, just dont overthink. You will fail. Shake it off and repeat.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:37 AM
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Dont look for an answer that you didnt came up with. It will come up as inconsistent. I would say, something like, thats a bit forward of you... I like it. And not answer. Your tone is more important though. Be consistent with how you act and what say and use your tone correctly and the exact words lose importance.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:36 AM
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You can practice. Have dialoges with yourself, and try to be witty. You1, continues the witty line of you2, and so on. That helped me. Try to do it fast, fail, laugh and repeat. You will get better.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:25 AM
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To add on this, it is better if you get there a bit early. Later in the night the guys are drunk and dance so it is harder to stand out. I like to dance. When I go out solo, I go directly to the dancefloor and in less than 3 minutes a girl, or group of girls approach me. Im not a good dancer, but I am an entusiastic dancer and they love it.
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:40 AM
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It's your delivery. Be confident and people will buy them, just avoid to look like you are bragging and you are good to go.
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:29 AM
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Shit tests are like insults. Respond in your own way. How do you respond to an insult?
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:19 AM
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