gutlesschimp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Need to vent and learn to let go.	Need Support	gutlesschimp	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 01:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Regression and sadness Oh it kills me too and I’m a few weeks past learning about it. I still can’t comprehend it at all. But let her actions show you the real her. As most will say, women will grieve the marriage while in it and be ready to move on to someone new. There is no respect in her decision for you or your family. Don’t give her any.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/26 01:59 AM
3	Regression and sadness Going through something similar. Told me she wanted a divorce and was already sleeping with someone and meeting up behind my back. The only thing I miss is the idea I had of the future and our plans. I missed her for a while but slowly realized if she is capable of causing this much damage to me and the kids, then she is not worth a thing. She is selfish. It’s weird but I used to look at the advice here and think “that’s not possible”. But it’s become possible with the distance and understanding…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/26 05:56 PM
1	How do you cope when you're still living with your ex, but they've already moved on? Similar situation as you. Not married nearly as long. I thought she was moving out but it looks like she may be staying in the house for a while. She basically has a new significant other and has slept at this house, had sex and all that. I’m desperately trying to get her out. I cannot mentally or emotionally live in the same house while she does that. Problem is the kids and I don’t want to leave them and I cannot leave or stay anywhere else due to work. Traveling for work has been amazing to g…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 10:17 PM
2	Am I crazy, or are these expectations unreasonable during a divorce? Similar situation, until last night. Living together. Divorce incoming. Still asking me to do stuff and spend time with me. Still spending money like we aren’t getting divorced. And then found out she met up with and made out with another guy this week. I’d cut it all off now. My wife said the same stuff to me and had her backup plan ready while lying to my face daily	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/26 09:22 AM
1	Need to vent and learn to let go. Sorry man. Here to commiserate if you need	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 10:57 PM
2	Need to vent and learn to let go. Very helpful. Thank you for the well thought out response.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 05:10 PM
1	Need to vent and learn to let go. I wish I could leave. I’m keeping the house and paying her out via HELOC. Good thing is I will be traveling for work soon so I’m going to load that up. I’m already jealous in a way about the affair. How do I move past the jealousy that will definitely be coming after the divorce when she starts dating?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 03:17 PM
1	Need to vent and learn to let go. Thank you! I’m past wanting to reconcile with her, for the most part. I really feel like I was or am only holding on for the kids and the comfort a marriage brought. I don’t know who she is anymore. I just need to fully let go and maybe that only happens once we are living apart.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 02:44 PM