gutter_strawberry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Hahaha if you think a private incel sub has better advice on women than women themselves, you’ve got bigger problems.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 03:37 PM
1	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. I know it seems insane, but if you want to know how to approach women, it’s been answered here countless times in many forms. By actual women.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 06:52 AM
-6	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Lol k. Now I’m really beginning to see why women don’t talk to you at bars. People, shoot your shot. Just try not to do it to unsuspecting or uninviting targets. A little smirk and a giggle to her friends about you? Golden. Getting the cold shoulder or eyebrow raise? Another fish brah.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 06:41 AM
3	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Great idea, here you go This topic is old and tired and always gets the same responses. No one likes to be bothered when they aren’t in a receptive mood and eye contact is key to establish receptivity. Edit to add: it’s actually SO common that it’s in the sidebar with a million previous threads giving the same answers.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 03:55 AM
5	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. You’re right, How dare I try to enjoy my first drink with a friend out of lockdown without letting every dude at the bar butt into our conversation? Let me guess, another man chiming in to tell me my countless experiences weren’t real? Yawn. Why don’t you take your attitude over to r/askwomen and see how many of us like being cold approached without so much as eye contact before hand lol We agree that being unable to read people’s receptivity is the real problem perpetuated by overbearing people…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 03:15 AM
2	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Basically don’t be a Chip	/r/seduction	02/03/21 01:44 AM
4	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Yeah OP said it went horribly lol I mean good for him for getting his confidence up, even bombing is a learning experience-if they would let it be one. Too many guys in this thread defending their inability to take a hint and their god given right to attention.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 01:10 AM
12	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. I’m going to assume you are both male and have no reference of a woman’s experience of being approached at a bar. I’m not antisocial and I’m a very trusting person lol contrary to your armchair diagnoses, I’m quite well adjusted and pleasant to strangers. A surprising number of men need to hear that just existing in the same space is not an invite to hit on people(*see rape victim blaming) Like I said if you’d actually read my comments is that body language is key. Approaching someone after a li…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 09:15 PM
29	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Spoken like someone who has never been aggressively hit on while trying to enjoy a drink at their own table with their private company. You can disagree all you like, but you’re only making it known that you’re likely the annoying guy at the bar who can’t take a hint and bothers people. Body language is key to seeing who wants to be approached. Learn it.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 08:14 PM
94	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. This. Don’t approach women who haven’t at least made eye contact with you before doing so. It’s one thing to smile at someone for a few seconds once or twice and then make your way over to introduce yourself. It’s another thing entirely to bother people who probably came to have a drink together and catch up and don’t want to be approached by a random dude practicing pick up lines. In a global pandemic. Don’t be the second guy.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:40 PM