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Damn you're on a roll! If only we could convince all men to castrate themselves teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:56 PM
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I meant "you" as in general. You can't throw a suggestion out like that and not have an autist play thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:23 PM
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I'm not really convinced that having them remove all financial responsibility is somehow better for children overall due to fringe cases where someone dumps their newborn in the trash or some place random. In pretty much all places in the West, you can safely drop your newborn at a firehouse, police station, or hospital, and no one will come after you. The women who leave their newborn to die probably don't care at all about their safety regardless of the laws surrounding adoption (which most li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:11 PM
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So why aren't the people who give children up for adoption forced to support that child financially? A single parent can quite literally remove their financial obligation altogether after the kid is born. But neither parent can remove their financial obligation when it is a fetus. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:37 PM
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That's when I've been saying. The redpill dudes are actually the meanest. Then the virgins/black pill dudes catch all the flak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:24 PM
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There wasn't really anything sexy about their post so that's kind of difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:32 PM
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You said paper abortions shouldn't be allowed because it doesn't prioritize the well-being of the child. Someone giving up their kid for adoption because they do not want to support it is not prioritizing the well-being of the child. One is legal, and the other is not really a thing yet. I was making my own argument for why it should be a thing if we want to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:01 PM
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I think as long as giving up kids for adoption is legal, paper abortions have a merit. Especially if they make it clear very early on that they do not want to support a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:47 PM
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Yeah I know, I wasn't disagreeing with you. Just pointing out that the "progressive, virtuous" women who post here are part of the problem. Along with the a lot of the red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:34 PM
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Women would have to care for the progressive left to push it (in a genuine way). The comments from the women here when this topic comes up is "Why should we help?" Which seems to be pretty common among feminists on reddit. So there's your answer. If both genders didn't care about women's rights, women would still be living in the 1920s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:28 PM
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This is just a sexist rant lol. You clearly made this post in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:21 PM
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Never thought I'd get to see Destiny debating with Lil Uzi Vert.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:07 PM
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Hmm how would you convince men to imprison most of the men then imprison themselves right after 🤔.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:45 PM
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Just do the cheapest possible. I don't personally like walks on the first date so I try pick a place that doesn't have a wait staff. So coffee, bakery, deli etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:58 PM
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I get the ick when people can't admit they got mogged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:25 PM
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One of the women I dated a few months back said, "You are getting entertainment from other females," and I responded "wow babe, using females as a noun, yikes!". Needless to say she didn't like that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:02 PM
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Most of the women who post on the daily thread are cool, but there's like 10 that spam the debate side of the sub that are mean as shit. Honestly a better way to describe them is insanely hostile. I can't name them, but they will post in here sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:57 PM
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Sex by itself, no. Also not a physical need, but romantic affection may be an important mental/emotional "need" for an adult. Similar to how love from your parents could be considered a need. I don't think it's just a male thing either, I've seen what happens to women if they get 0 romantic affection their entire lives. That's just more unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:42 AM
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Manly hands, that's a good thing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:21 AM
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I just don't like people with 50k post karma calling others losers. They'd be bullied if this wasn't the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:19 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:06 AM
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Left lib has some insane hotties with BPD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:39 PM
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Yes, never imply to a woman you're dating that she's the only one you're seeing or that you get no matches. I learned that the hard way when I first started using the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:23 PM
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I'm just going to warn you that tall women can be a tough nut to crack. You gotta be on your A game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:01 PM
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I think he was calling Kill Tony garbage, not all Trump supporters. At least that's what it looked like grammatically. Either way people are going a little hard on Tony. It was Trump's staff that fucked up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:52 PM
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No that's silly. Let's just be mad at men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:22 AM
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Probably. Petite, you most likely wouldn't be bald, you could date the 5'6 dudes with insane face cards and still feel small.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:29 AM
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Yeah idk how much being "funny" actually matters. If they think you're hot, they're going to find any attempt at a joke/tease funny. Most of the women who thought I was objectively hilarious ended up becoming a good friend and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:42 PM
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She's pretty but a lot of men don't really like the fake tan + dolled up look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:36 PM
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He's good enough looking, just bad pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:51 PM
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I wouldn't make the argument that someone with your post history is not affected by insecurity, but there's no point arguing about how you feel or how that even matters. But I just wanted to mention that the issues with being a short man goes beyond dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:19 PM
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True lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:12 PM
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Sorry I can't really tell what argument you're trying to make here. Are you saying that these short men shouldn't be insecure because it's obviously all a mental illness issue like Eliot Rodger, or are you assuming that all the men here as mentally ill as Eliot Rodger? I feel like this logic would not be applied to any other insecurity. Like the fat women who post here are clearly insecure about it, and they are insecure about it because they were/are bullied for it. Short men don't need Tik Tok…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:04 PM
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Those types of mental issues can make insecurity worse, but short men are insecure about their height for the same reason everyone is insecure about some perceived physical flaw, they were made fun of for it. Obviously thinking you will never have a love life because you're short is extreme, but there's nothing wrong with being insecure about it. Elliot Rodgers was very mentally ill, I'd wager that 99% of incels would never do what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:52 PM
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What is with you and bringing up Elliot Rodgers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:29 PM
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The women who already find him attractive wouldn't care probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:18 PM
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I remember her being a cute alt woman so she was cool in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:02 AM
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It's weird advice because no really acts like themselves when dating. It's usually a curated version of yourself. Also, if you're naturally afraid to flirt and come off as too friendly, then you quite literally do not want to be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:36 AM
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In the scene he jabs the phone into the guy's neck to incapacitate him, that's why they brought the topic up. That move just wouldn't create enough force to warrant using it over punching them in the neck. Honestly a fist would still be better than hitting someone over the head with a phone. Or kicking their balls. Keys in between your knuckles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:15 AM
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Jesus 3 thinking they're the gf. All of his free time must have been devoted to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:13 AM
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One is an actual raving lunatic and the other is a coward who will get nothing meaningful done. The latter is objectively better still.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:10 AM
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They're probably just talking about hot dudes fucking multiple women at once. Especially if the women are all okay with FWB. The "harem" thing is hyperbolic language. I don't think you need to be hot to pull this off, I've slept with/dated multiple women at once. The true magic is the dudes who can keep them for a booty call whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:58 PM
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They shouldn't, unless you're running + calling for help. Your knuckles are going to do more damage than a smartphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:12 PM
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I think the dudes were laughing at the idea of using a phone to stab someone in the neck, which is silly fantasy shit. You'd be better off using your knuckles. Not that people aren't thinking about danger and ways to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:09 PM
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Redpill was never about dating either. It was mostly about right-wing conspiracy theories on 4chan after the Matrix movie came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:12 AM
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That Vox quote is kind of silly. With that logic, most women are also black pill with how they view men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:20 AM
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Brutal. I think he's a 5 right now (at least with that gross beard shaved). Asian men always look way better at lower body fat. Chadlite may be an exaggeration though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:33 AM
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Him being a potential chadlite or no beard + low bf being the move? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:23 AM
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I can see a chadlite in the making: no beard + 15% bf with some muscles is the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:06 AM
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I can't really think of any that post in the daily thread. Maybe that one with "misandrist" in her title because of the way she types. I think the OP is projecting here, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:42 AM
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Red pillers are way more sexist and hostile than the black pillers though. I just don't understand how this is more likely to get your subreddit banned: "I was born ugly, I will never get a girlfriend" Than this: "I got shredded and rich because women are shallow whores, die fat women die!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:37 AM
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Live action role player, the guys who dress up and go to those mock fantasy battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:58 PM
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It's always the same posters who get baited by this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:30 PM
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To be fair both genders have done this to each other for as long as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:44 PM
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I know what you mean bro, that's why I hate fucking with the lights out. That picture lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:47 PM
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Yeah it's visually appealing. The ass shakes more and just adds to the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:11 PM
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Women who can really hit that arch 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:49 PM
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I'm on gear so my swimmers might as well be paraplegic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:38 PM
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He thought you were hot and didn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:47 PM
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He wasn't saying that you or most women do that, just that women will do that sometimes. My second GF was like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:16 PM
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It's just virtue signaling. Make a thread about how men get hotter after 30 and see how many of them start talking about how younger men are more attractive lmao. I've been beginning to notice that more and more in the main part of the sub. From both sides. The consensus completely changes depending on the argument being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:19 PM
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Ragebait right before the elections lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:41 PM
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2/10 is almost subhuman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:12 PM
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Most of the issues ugly women have with dating is they don't want to date ugly men. We need to give them the same advice we cold heartedly give to ugly men: lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:45 PM
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On the apps you gotta go through like 50+ people to maybe find someone. It's mostly luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:34 PM
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Bro I don't understand how you aren't horny 24/7. You're like 19 and have a girlfriend you can't have sex with. I'd be going coo coo for cocoa puffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:56 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean. I saw someone who was 6'10 in person, and you could see how the height affected their face. Although a lot of basketball players look normal at insane heights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:41 AM
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Hey I'm 6'5 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:26 AM
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Someone went "YESSSS, YEEESSSS, YESSSSSS" Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:21 AM
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Minoxidil foam on your beard area may help it grow, I've heard that for some people. For whatever reason women who love bald dudes want the beard + big muscle. It's basically the route to take if you're going to be bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:00 AM
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Well funny enough I was on 3 dates this week lol. It's just that if I was 50% more attractive, I'd genuinely be a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:57 AM
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If I was 50% more attractive I'd be a fucking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:48 AM
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Have you tried growing a thick beard and hopping on gear?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:16 AM
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Yes. But I also have an issue with seeking out dopamine rushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:41 AM
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I think her hair is cute, but he obviously mogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:14 AM
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It depends on how they do it, but I'd say that comes across as confident. I've personally never had a woman approach me so directly before, maybe some signals of interest. The one in the video was a bit cold and I'd think I was getting pranked because of her body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:00 AM
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Yeah sorry if my comment came off as a dunk. It was out of concern because I have a female friend who was over confident about her wrestling, she picked a fight with a drunk guy and got hurt. But yeah in that situation I would have at least told her to get off my stop and wait for the next one. If he followed, we could have gone into a store/restaurant and called the cops. The threat of a weapon is too high to confront him. If I have to fight him though, fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:24 PM
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I don't disagree, I was commenting on the "I'd whip your butts". Which is why I said don't go out with that attitude irl. If you were just being hyperbolic, then my comment can be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:48 PM
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You don't need much of a spine to take some petite woman's head off with a punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:36 PM
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Jesus christ these answers are sexist as fuck. OP, in general I think the more moral thing to do is protect someone from danger if you are able to do so. You are not obbligated, but it definitely makes society a better place. At least tell the women to get off the bus with you on your stop so she can wait for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:31 PM
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Please don't walk around irl with this delusion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:22 PM
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My one and only celebrity crush
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:37 PM
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It kind of makes sense. Fat girls have to use the apps because they don't get approached as much. They swipe on dudes out of their league, date for a bit, the dude hits x amount of times then ghosts. Rinse and repeat. In my experience, big women are much quicker to have sex too. Either way it's still fairly easy for them to date. They just have the same standards of fit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:31 PM
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Honestly, if you can take one good pic for a dating profile and have solid text game, I think you could brute force this jawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:20 PM
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So don't lie about being a virgin because someone had it harder? What lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:45 AM
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Boomer moment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:11 AM
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I explained it in other comments. It's mostly because I'm doing a lot of dates in a short amount of time. When you consider gas it all adds up. And I'd say no, most of them are not. Some of them are looksmatched, a couple here and there are hot. You're typically going to get women who look worse than you on the apps if you are a man. Although I don't really care too much about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:51 AM
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That's the reason they would give, I think it's horseshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:41 AM
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Sometimes. A lot of women still expect the man to pay for the first date though. To be fair, it's mostly expensive because I'm doing like 4 dates a week lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:27 AM
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This is fine if it's a weekend date. But if you're going after work, typically drinks and some food at a cheap place works the best. The women around my area don't really fuck with walks on a first date, safety issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:24 AM
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On some we split. But it's all a big shit test. If they offer to split, it could be because they don't want a 2nd date, or they could just want to show that they're willing to 50/50 but actually want you to pay. I've dated enough to go through every scenario, and honestly your chances are just much better if you pay for the first date. The issue is these women aren't having a had time persay, you just aren't giving them the vagina tingles. So you think it's going fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:20 AM
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Fuck! 3 first date rejections in a row. October has been rough. I think it's time to take a break, this has been so expensive. I got one more date tomorrow with baby jirl. Will probably be the last one unless I can really smurf it (she thinks I'm really hot). One thing I learned this go around is I'm good for a fuck during ovulation, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/4934ql0ojrwd1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1c14cbdc00a6ba31a13ccaa5c233f616b83bc4d9 Brutal. Try to get in as many shower reps as possible, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:23 PM
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Yeah this would probably be the only real solution. I think social media has warped people's standards and increased FOMO quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:13 PM
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Men are easier to date, don't @ me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:18 PM
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It's definitely a man LARPing as a woman. All of their posts are set up to be easily dunked on by pointing out a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:43 PM
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Basically if the woman is the one with the crush, then it's romantic. I feel like it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:56 PM
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This is a debate sub bruh. If you don't want to debate his points then just dip out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:06 PM
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True that's why I call them cunts instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:29 PM
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I've cycled twice and the roid rage thing is heavily exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:32 PM
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If you say so man. Bulking natty vs bulking on gear was night and day with visual muscle and strength. Most people use it to shortcut nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:38 PM
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2 years would not get me anywhere near my natty max. I'm 6'5. Would be more like 5-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:30 PM
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Depends how far along you are with muscle. If you are using it to go beyond natty than you'll lose it once you're off. I used it to get bigger faster and kept most of my gains. One bulk on gear = 3 bulks basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:25 PM
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I've blasted gear. If you're smart, really all that happens is some bloat and acne. You can get some accutane for the latter. But yeah it can give you a serious confidence boost. The way the hormones affect you is different for everyone. I do really well with high test and high e2, I feel incredible. But if you're high E2 for too long you can get gyno.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:52 PM
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It was like "need a remi 12 gauge face-lift" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:33 AM
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Funny thing is I date "conventionally unattractive" women because their profiles make them seem like cutie patooties. They'll reject you faster than the standard hotties do. They seem to be so afraid of getting pumped and dumped that they don't even give you a chance. Edit: there's a lot angwy people in the replies, so I'll just elaborate. There's nothing wrong with being defensive after getting pumped and dumped a lot. But I was just mentioning that these women aren't invisible, they date prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 AM
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Gyat damn those quads and hammies (and glutes obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:15 AM
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That's crazy (but also me)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:35 AM
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To be fair the mods here are half brain dead and pick and choose what "woe is me" means. But I think it's supposed to mean "no woe is me OR incel rhetoric", not that complaining about dating = incelish. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:28 PM
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How is that incelish lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:16 PM
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This wouldn't matter. Getting matches is 10% of the battle. You have to charm them off the app (against much better looking men), then hope you can generate enough of the "spark" (which is just physical lust in this inorganic context) to then get a 2nd date. This doesn't account for all of the time wasters and attention seekers. The apps are quite literally pointless for most men. And I say this as someone who has some success on them. If I wasn't 6'5, I wouldn't bother lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:45 PM
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Had my ass grabbed a lot by random drunk women. One woman I was dating for a bit rode me when I was sleeping with morning wood. I thought it was a bit weird but didn't make a big deal about it. If she wasn't on the pill, I would have been pissed because she did it raw. It wasn't until a year later that someone told me that what happened was technically rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:12 AM
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What are you yappin about kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:52 AM
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I'm down with the sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:52 PM
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Nah she's a mogger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:26 PM
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Like I've said before, a lot of the women who post here are NOT normal. They pretend to be, but they're basically just a different flavor of TwoX posters. "All men are evil except my wonderful husband." I don't think any woman I know irl would say 30% of men are rapists. If I ever decide to get married, I'm going to go around saying "All women are evil except my wonderful wife" to see the reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:09 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:34 AM
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You're right, but there are women who might find you attractive who aren't going to approach. Some women are never going to do it no matter how hot they think the guy is. Typically women who approach are very high confidence and more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:35 AM
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I think using fantasy characters is really only meaningful if there's some kind of pattern. Just pointing out a hot character and going "you find them hot and they happen to be bad guys" is kind of lazy. It's not really a common male romance fantasy that they get with a woman who's a criminal. They're usually damsels in distress who can banter. A lot of romance stuff targeted towards women either involves cheating or some dark/edgy dude who's only nice to her. With that said, I think people find…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:38 AM
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This is basically what happened with me and my best female friend. Although it's difficult for me to develop strong romantic feelings, so I have that advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:21 AM
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If she only does hookups, they're all probably attractive (to her anyway). If she has a high body count from dating, she may have more lax physical standards because of the rizz factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:12 AM
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You said it was a reaction to 50/50 being a farce because older women claim so. The younger and childless women demanding princess treatment haven't actually experienced this yet. I highly doubt that's why they demand it. It's definitely just a monkey brain thing, traditional gender roles for men just turns them on. The way you framed it seems like a lot of mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:38 AM
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It's over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:15 AM
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We're so fucking back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:14 AM
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Demands for princess treatment is typically done during the dating phases before you're living together or have kids. So this doesn't really make sense. It's just women demanding unequal effort at the start (which is usually the case already).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:58 PM
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Probably 2 inches, but anything that makes head easier I'm all for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:01 PM
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The different experiences could also be the kind of women you attract. I'm a big masculine dude. Women who are attracted to me expect me to act like that. A lot of them liberal/lefty. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:40 PM
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Well you said "I've never heard a man say he prefers a certain type of vagina" and I'm saying that I've had sex with women loose enough where it was an issue. I'm not saying the tightness has to do with size, but a lot of women just blame it on arousal when I think it's more complicated than that. There's obviously something going on where tightness is affected because I've heard men talk about it before. My first girlfriend was very tight compared to some of my hookups and my 2nd girlfriend. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:31 PM
7

Yeah this is basically just "hold frame" in a lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:10 PM
1

Not the same kind of mental illness. Those women are drowning in sweat and cat piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:46 AM
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I've had enough PIV sex to tell you that some women are way looser than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:34 AM
1

Ah shit I may be a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:34 AM
0

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:43 AM
2

I do fine on the apps, but yeah I'm not a top tier dude or anything, I can date multiple women at a time/get hookups. But I can usually tell when I'm directly competing with another dude and losing. She will go on dates with you to "test" you out, but she's already picked the other guy in reality. She won't really seem that interested, and might split the bill to not feel bad about the upcoming ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:21 PM
2

I don't dress stylish and most women don't seem to care shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:17 PM
16

No I'm definitely competing with hotter men on dating apps, it's a war zone out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:04 PM
2

I'm running for president! Big dicks for big pussies, small dicks for small pussies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:21 PM
4

You can't be serious with your question lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:17 PM
1

That's why I say pill spaces are more misandrist than mysgonist. One side has a very low opinion of women, but all sides seem to have a very low opinion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:23 AM
1

Yeah I know, it's why I got good at giving head. But as someone who has a decent body count, above average is definitely the PIV sweet spot for a lot of women. The sex where I am decent size for the woman vs when I am not is night and day, they are so much more into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:01 AM
3

More women care about it than redditors claim tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:30 AM
1

Yeah then Hasan definitely should have been banned a long time ago if they were consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:25 AM
2

Damn there are levels to this shit, I thought I did well lol. He's the perfect mix of attractive but not so much that it looks fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:42 PM
1

Same (✿◕‿◕)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:10 PM
2

I'd bet my left nut that it's more than 30 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:56 PM
1

Yeah, no lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:52 PM
1

You can use sex for some ulterior motive but also enjoy it. Like giving your bf a blow job so he takes you out to dinner and a movie. If you like giving him blow jobs, it's a win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:19 PM
2

male as a noun This is oppression... I get butterflies in my stomach when hot women lecture me. Anyone else doing it is annoying, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:06 PM
2

That's most marriages tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:25 AM
1

You'd be better off using Hinge or Bumble since you're tall. Although all of my hookups come from really random tinder matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:19 AM
1

That works on me ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:57 AM
1

Can you grow a thick beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:54 PM
2

Well she types like she laughs at minion memes on Facebook, you know what I'm saying? There's something uncanny about it. Like it's a man trying to role-play an extremely cringe old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:26 PM
7

It's most likely a LARPer with an alt account. I think a lot of the personalities here are the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:21 PM
1

Actively talking. I'm going on a 2nd date tonight. Tomorrow I'm going over another's house. Then 1st dates Friday till Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:08 PM
2

I currently have 5 women interested in me on the apps, and get hookups here and there. 6'5 Blonde hair and blue eyes Decent muscle, kinda bulky right now Mid face I have a good text game, but my irl rizz is kinda awkward, some women find it adorable I don't consider myself a chad. I feel like I put in too much effort to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:54 PM
5

Tik Tok doesn't count. You can only take opinions from a niche subreddit with the same 100 posters seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:54 PM
4

They already do. It's called Tik Tok. There's a big community of fat women complaining that their hot guy friend won't fuck them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:23 PM
1

Basically super whiney punk music, kinda mixes screamo with softer instrumentals. https://youtu.be/lMErzb5HqiM?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:10 AM
2

I think it only applies to dudes, you're okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:26 AM
3

Another 25 year old who loves Midwestern emo invites me over to her place for the first date. I'm definitely on guard this time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:24 AM
2

The first two sentences + your pfp made me cackle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:19 PM
2

Good luck getting me hard if she's truly hideous. I think I'd rather be pegged than work hard labor for free for 30 days, that's insane. I'd be out of $4000.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:10 PM
2

I go into every date with an attractive woman on the apps thinking "okay what's wrong with this one".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:07 PM
2

Mostly because it's just the dating apps but the rejection is face to face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:25 PM
1

No offense but do you even know anything about drill rap or the lore around the gangs Chicago, ATL, and Jacksonville. For a fantasy, a lot of them sure are dying/going to jail for murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:09 PM
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Me to a zygote https://preview.redd.it/ahzw3877oyud1.jpeg?width=487&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23ae6e35faa63bd3cb625c889dbcc676cc4e2fed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:12 PM
1

It's not fantasy for a lot of these younger rappers nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:10 PM
5

Interesting how most of the retorts made it gendered when you just said fat people 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:00 PM
3

Yeah definitely. She's an intellectual juggernaut and should definitely move up to Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:05 PM
4

Some of them are, yeah lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:00 PM
2

The way to my heart is simply gracing me with your presence...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:18 AM
2

Photofeeler is absolutely brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:52 AM
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They're all attractive. They just look like they'd be incredibly expensive to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:48 AM
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I keep saying this. The women here would probably deny it since they dont use the apps, but this new generation of women are turning into pump and dumpers. It's pretty funny to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:43 PM
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The ones who are actually looking for a partner and keep picking wrong definitely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:38 PM
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This has been my experience. A lot of them are not looking for a boyfriend, just affection/attention. Women on the apps act pretty similarly to the way you'd imagine a man would with so many options. Ironically, being a man looking for an actual girlfriend on the apps is way harder than if you are just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:46 PM
1

It's split kinda evenly I believe. 40% clean, 30% stubble, 30% bearded. It's better to be bearded if you have no chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:39 AM
2

Do they just give you a hand job or do more? I wondered why people would pay extra just for a hand job. But I'm guessing they are experts at it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:25 AM
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I think that might be happening to me. She wants to go on dates but puts 0 effort into conversations over text. But she also wants to split, so it isn't for free meals. It's strange because she's an ESL Chinese woman looking for a serious relationship. She doesn't give me the impression she's addicted to attention. At this point, I'm just playing along to figure out why she's doing this lol. The only thing I can think of is that she wants me to reject her. But maybe it's exactly what you said. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:16 AM
1

Yeah sure, you just gotta be a bit subtle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:22 PM
1

Arent late term abortions just inducing labor? If it can be viable outside of the mother at that point, then it can be given up for adoption. I just don't agree with forcing the woman to keep being pregnant for the sake of the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:51 PM
1

All 3 are fine with me. My plapping days are not over by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:36 PM
1

It's honestly really close to the average, but making the shoulders slimmer than the waist is so diabolically subtle lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:33 PM
1

Ah okay, that's still pretty weird. I live in America but the only dudes with bigger waists than their shoulders are morbidly obese men. Most fast dudes still have wider shoulders. So British men are delusional about what the average man and woman look like. Women are less delusional but seem to give women more leeway than men on their perception. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:19 PM
1

British women want a man with a waist bigger than their shoulders?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:13 PM
1

Me with a polo on. I really need an American traditional sleeve and some piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:54 PM
1

Others have mentioned it, but other than the medically necessary argument, I'm a body autonomy extremist. We are not forced to give our extra organs to dying people, so I don't see why a woman should ever have to carry a fetus/baby in her body if she does not want to. Hell, we have body autonomy for dead people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:43 PM
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Well you said "forced to take care", not "forced to give birth/carry". The second the poster mentioned men being forced to take care of a kid they didn't want, you abandoned that argument and brought up biology. This is why I'm for legal abortions at any stage, paper abortions (early on anyway), and adoption. People should not be having kids they cannot afford or don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:12 PM
1

I'm fine with abortion at any stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:53 PM
2

Honestly men would probably be okay with that as long as they are programmed to be loyal. Can you imagine that you're such a loser that your android gf cheats on you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:45 PM
2

Yeah same, I remember telling my sister that JJK writing was kinda mid. I could tell the dude wasn't that great at writing. I got proven more and more correct as the manga progressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:41 PM
1

Nah that's not pick-me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:37 PM
3

Not to be mean to her, but she's not the most nuanced poster here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:36 PM
1

I think there's those rare times where she just finds that kind of mid/ugly to be attractive. I do think women are pickier but sometimes their "type" conventionally unattractive. But yeah it's usually 2 or 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:33 PM
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I've tried to date them personally, not doing it again. It's very difficult to meet up. It's hard enough to date childless women in the 26-33 range as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:25 PM
1

Are lesbians that picky? You're a cutie patootie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:49 PM
1

I won't ban you if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:58 PM
1

Now I gotta scroll down to find it because I thought everyone was simping for her. I was about to, but I didn't want to go to horny jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:57 PM
2

The "spark" is basically just being physically attractive to her and that doesn't disappear when you open your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:33 PM
2

Accutane + fin/min may save this young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:25 PM
5

The comparison is dumb, but the context is clearly that these women are dehumanizing them. A lot of people are going to feel bad if they are constantly dehumanized shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:51 PM
3

Damn bro is admitting to being a pdf file...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:12 AM
2

I was bullied by girls in school. I thought I was the better person for trying to ignore it, but apparently I should have grown a spine and sent them to queer street. With that said, I didn't let it affect how I view women as a whole. But maybe they would have stopped if I treated them like the boys who tried to bully me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:51 PM
0

Incel is a better insult because it implies they are a virgin, which might piss them off. But that word is starting to lose all it's sting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:20 PM
1

Asian people tend to hold a bit of fat in their face ive noticed. It's not necessarily a bad thing, makes them more youthful looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:25 PM
1

Well "cute" Asian girls, there's a lot of Asian women I don't find attractive. Round, cute features on white, Latinas and black women are also attractive to me. The dude just has a dorky mid face. Without makeup, they'd be looksmatched though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:13 PM
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I'm the first one to simp dudes if they are attractive, but I want to say she's more attractive. Maybe I just like cute Asian girls a lot idk. I don't really see the slightly chub face as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:07 PM
2

If you ask women on reddit what pics they want to see, you'll get thousands of contradictory answers. Although group pics for the first one are pretty bad. I have one group pic to show that I am social, and that I tower over other adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:13 PM
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My friend sells weed and it's crazy how much sex he gets. Like I don't know if these women are actually enjoying it, but they are the ones who offer. It's strange because if it was just regular prostitution, they'd be getting way more value out of it. Makes me think that some women are just turned on at the idea of trading sexual favors for drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:09 AM
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Weird. You'd have to see sex as something super special to even care about that. Do you dislike the idea of hookups? I don't really see how it's any different than me destroying my body 12 hours a day for a paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:29 AM
1

A female incel. She talks about being fat/old and how not a single man ever loved her, so she comes here to insult the young incels or whatever. One of the more deranged posters for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:03 AM
1

This is my experience. Also "show me an example of what you mean". You show them. hamster wheel is spinning in overdrive to dismiss it no matter what This place is particularly bad because no one wants to ever admit they are wrong. It's a stretch to call it a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:55 AM
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I think a big reason for that is you never really see normal feminists calling out the more deranged ones like you see men calling out red pillers. But I think that's because normal feminists usually aren't online like men are in general. Someone like that would be my sister. She has no interest in arguing with people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:33 AM
1

She's a 60 year old femcel for more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:22 AM
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Finally someone said it. Dude is a "50 year old dad gym bro" with a million comments on this sub. Not only that, he argues the same thing every single thread. "Societal pressures don't exist, and if they do, you're a pussy for following them!". The LARPing here is out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:15 AM
1

If you can get hard from that, you are the king of horny. God speed my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:03 AM
1

Read point 1 then look through her post history lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:45 PM
3

Look at the filter at pic 5, holy shit. This is why I tell men to exaggerate their height. 90% of the women on dating apps are catfishing with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:32 PM
2

The lolis specifically or all of them? They look like adult women with alien eyes imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:06 PM
2

For me I just don't like giving head when it's insanely bushy. Sometimes you gotta put your whole face in that jawn for 5+ minutes. If it's a reasonable amount, fine. I always shave myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:04 PM
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Ugly fat women are also shooting out of their league though. Ugly people don't want to date each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:29 PM
1

I really doubt he was good at picking up women with this advice lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:57 PM
1

I think it gets a little muddy if you are friends first. This typically happens when she's either dating someone else when you meet or emotionally unavailable. But honestly there's no real way to know for sure unless she's all over you. Some women will hide it, or only give really subtle hints, some will flirt with you because they're just flirty and it means nothing. Even women I'm actively dating are all over the map. One is blowing up my phone and simping for me, but it won't let me come over…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:50 PM
1

This is why I can't be a cop, I'd turn the cameraman into a pretzel then plant crack on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
4

To be fair, "friends to lovers" typically only works if the woman finds you physically attractive but does not want to act on it for whatever reason. That attraction grows the more she gets to know you. If she had 0 physical attraction to you, she's going to feel disgusted/disappointed if you confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:25 PM
2

I actually watched a hallmark movie and got laid the next day. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:20 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by dysfunctional. I think men are easier to date for sure. They just tend to be man children, afraid to commit, etc. Women are little concentrated balls of neurosis. Their dysfunction is more subtle, but it feels like they are all plagued by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:28 PM
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I don't really understand the point of these threads. It's just going to be the more reasonable women here doing a no true Scottsman fallacy while the more deranged ones pretend they don't dehumanize men. Edit: my bad, only the men here are sexist. Beep boop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:18 PM
0

I've dated women who could cum just from having their titties licked due to sensitivity. Pretty much any non micro penis would do the trick. It sucks that those types are so hard to wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:02 AM
8

Same with people who think they are eating 1000 calories and can't lose weight. 99% of the time they are drinking the other 1000 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:50 AM
1

If you go to a gym in America it's all you see basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:55 PM
1

Tbh the ones with good taste in music always break my heart into a million pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:59 AM
6

I feel like if you look at the numbers, incels are physically harmless compared to the average frat bro. After Elliot Roger, it's just been an FBI boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:37 AM
6

Every single one of her threads is an insecurity, it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:17 AM
2

I'm fairly certain windmill is a man LARPing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:15 AM
4

Yeah same, I'm always the one who has to bring it up. They want me to hit it raw most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:25 AM
1

In this case he's probably only swiping on the hottest women. Even if you're a good looking man, most of your matches are going to be 3-6s. You gotta be young Jensen Ackles to consistently match with 7-9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:41 PM
1

I don't think most women would ever accept that as possible (it definitely is). Some women are much tighter than others in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:55 PM
3

I wonder what they're going to do 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:39 PM
1

Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:36 PM
1

Doesn't matter to me, 4'10 to 7ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:27 PM
6

Yeah I just let em yap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:01 PM
1

In my experience it's 20-40, probably more of a focus on mid to late 20s. Hard to say without ages over people's heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:19 AM
3

I'm fine with calling it ragebait if people here were consistent about it. "Here is a video of a woman saying insane shit, it has 100k likes" "It's rage bait bro, it's your algorithm bro" --‐-----‐----------------------------------‐------------------ "Men think this insane thing" "Not really, most men don't think that" "Then why do the men in this very niche sub with the same 100 people say it all the time" It's really fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:16 AM
7

Because ugly women don't exist sweetie (Pardon me it's real simp hours)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:15 AM
1

I've been rejected for having an android, but it's very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:33 PM
3

The king of the plappers posts here, how dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:17 PM
3

The "watch hallmark movie" person? Yeah I thought the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:03 PM
2

I need to do a face reveal because I feel like I'm mid and get a lot of matches. There's no way I'm a chad. Maybe the height and body halo really do be puttin in work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:33 PM
1

Me and my sister live with our mom because she can't work and needs help financially. So we pay "rent". I've only been rejected for this once to my knowledge. Not sure how bad it is for other men though. It's possible the times I've been ghosted were due to that, but I typically tell them on the first date. If they want to go on a 2nd date I assume that was not the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:28 PM
1

Teenagers are regarded but yeah, mental maturity is pretty subjective. A lot of the 40+ year olds I work with are just as immature as the 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:10 AM
1

A hot, wet grip. Like it's trying to suck the life essence out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:35 AM
2

Just depends, but most people have gone through puberty at that point. There isn't anything strange to find someone who's gone through puberty attractive, but it's more or a maturity issue and trying to have a sexual relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:31 AM
1

There really isn't a huge physical difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old. I get people being weirded about wanting to date someone super young, but being physically attracted to a hot 18 year old is completely normal. Like most women would admit 18 year old Jensen Ackles is hot if you didn't mention his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:26 AM
1

Maybe I'm a man-child, but I typically have way more in common with 22-26 year old zoomer women. A lot of them grew up online and have a much closer sense of humor to mine. I'll still date 30 year old women but they tend to be way too serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:30 AM
1

Most men should be able to pick up a woman that is sub 200 so I don't blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:49 AM
2

I'd simp so hard for Nicki 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:47 AM
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I personally get that impression when reading the popular feminist subs on reddit shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:11 PM
5

I remember a tinder sub post where some dude showed his profile and said "I'm pretty mid and do well". The dude was a buff 8/10. I feel like people are terrible at judging attractiveness for men specifically. I went from struggling to go on a single date to being able to date 4+ women at once when I lost weight. People tell me "oh you're just more confident now" lmao. Like bro, my body dysmorphia is way worse now than it was back when I was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:01 PM
1

The first one was kino.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:43 PM
2

No one has answered the question really, so as a man who gets a lot of matches and overwhelms himself sometimes. The answer is boredom. Your free swipes come up and you want to see who likes you, that's it. You're always curious if you can find a hotter person closer to the niche you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:43 PM
1

I'm talking to an Arabic Stacy on bumble right now. She seems interested, but you always need to tread lightly when it comes to the hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:34 PM
1

I've seen "I just want a nice/kind man" on like every single dating profile lol. That's pretty common, wouldn't call it an RP observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:41 PM
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Oh shit that is a Shiba, I'm blind lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:24 AM
2

I think his name is Cunninglinguist. He seems like he is mentally spiraling. There's another guy who goes nuclear every single post, but I can't remember his name. He called that one poster with the Corgi pfp a cum guzzler or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:07 AM
3

A twink boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:01 AM
1

Honestly most of the men here are kinda chill compared to other incel spaces. There's 2-3 completely deranged redpill posters that I could see doing something like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:55 PM
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Being extroverted and outgoing is probably the biggest thing. I think if you're a social butterfly as a man, you don't even need rizz or whatever. You're gonna fall into sex/relationships. Men who are introverted and shy have a much smaller dating pool, and it's compounded on the fact that they stay inside a lot. They have to overthink and "game it more". I know this from experience. I have a resting "I don't care" face and I need to be actively hiding it until they get to know me better. Obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:47 PM
1

Whichever one is the pale brunette. If they all look similar, then I feel like the CVS cashier is more likely to have her own car 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:15 PM
3

It's weird because I feel like I see a lot more passing trans men than vice versa. In fact they typically look pretty good. That might just be because of better hairlines from being a woman previously, idk. If you're talking about behavior, it's probably harder to pass a man though. I also feel like if you take test + hit the weights it's pretty easy to build a male frame. You're working with more test than the average man in most TRT dosages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:01 PM
2

I'm 6'5 with a wide frame. Like even if I could smurf with a face card, I'd be scaring all the cute boys away 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:48 PM
2

I'd switch to easy mode but I'd be a hideous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:30 PM
2

Men they don't know who jerk off to porn are creepy. There probably isn't a lot of logic to it, they just want to use the word lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:34 PM
1

I'm a male slut so I'll chime in. I'd say 60% of the women I've been with would not finish the blow job if it was taking longer than a minute. They'd just tell me to hit after a certain point. Kinda the same with them being on top. If it was taking longer than 1 minute, they'd switch to a position where I'd be burning most of the claories. I'm American for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:11 PM
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Because it's more about a guy protecting them from danger, it's monkey brain shit. I can tell you as a big dude, women are not as afraid of men as they let on. A lot of it is posturing online. Even female ufc fighters are going to pick men who could fuck them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:17 AM
1

I'm blonde and it does feel like this. Every woman I date will tell me they don't typically like blondes. If I had dark hair I'd be unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:55 PM
1

You mog the shit out of me and I get a lot of bumble matches. Ain't no way it's that much harder for black dudes. How often do you right swipe? Even hot dudes can't be super picky on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:19 PM
1

No idea how common it is. Even if it was, I have a feeling women wouldn't talk about it due to the social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:16 PM
1

I'm fairly convinced a good chunk of women on dating apps are just there for the thrill of rejecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:17 PM
1

My hairline is receding a little and is uneven. The issue is my hair is light and blonde, so I have to comb it over to hide the thinning. I'll most likely get a hair transplant next year because I really want to make it as thick as possible. It's kind of hard to judge my own face. I think the most I am is a 6 after a haircut, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:41 AM
2

Lil bro is cookin with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:26 AM
1

I actually dated this conservative woman who said "absolutely no liberals" on her dating profile. She clearly knew I was a liberal. I'm not going to say it was because I'm 6'5, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:24 AM
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I think people self identifying as an incel doesn't really change the fact that it's virgin shaming when used as an insult. It's probably the most overused insult on reddit, and has become a stand-in for "mysgonist", which is usually way more accurate term anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:03 PM
1

That place proves that both genders are terrible at judging who is "mid".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:41 PM
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A lot of men have experienced "loose vaginas". They most likely don't bring it up because they'd be accused of having a small penis. Which would still mean that some vaginas are tighter than others. It may just affect men on the average to smaller size. Same reason some women cannot enjoy big dicks no matter how wet they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:21 PM
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I don't know about other men, maybe I just have a small pp, but some of the women I've had sex with was like fucking air. I don't think it gets more incompatible than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:21 PM
1

Mine always sucked, checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:11 PM
1

I feel like most 30 year olds nowadays look pretty good, both men and women. Definitely more than the last gen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:08 PM
2

There's nothing hotter than alt woman who is sitting there looking bored. I swear it's the male version of "bad boy but is nice to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:55 AM
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It's fine, I'm mentally ill too. I won't lie, whenever I date an alt woman it's hot and heavy, but it feels like they'll 180 so fast and lose interest. I need tattoos 😩.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:49 AM
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Ignore him, you sound like a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:38 AM
1

If you have an average penis or smaller, a lot of positions are impossible basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:31 AM
1

This is me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:16 AM
2

What if he got tattoos for God?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:06 AM
2

Ideal gf: lethal face card (pretty eyes are mandatory) don't care about height but 5'7+ makes it much easier to have sex meme queen alternative 😩 no kids fit with nice ass/hips (I like all body types but this is ideal) thick skin mid to high libido (I'm not super high libido but I love when a woman is throwing herself at you) low maintenance funny/can make me laugh (this is one is truly mandatory for an LTR) likes Midwestern emo I'd say some corny shit like "kindness" but I like my woman a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:01 AM
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This whole "n count doesn't matter at all" thing is only something I see on reddit. Most people I know irl have a number that will ick them, men and women. For me that number is pretty high, I usually prefer high libido experienced women. But reddit is so hostile to n count preferences, it's kind of funny. Even if the man is being pretty respectful about it, people on reddit will jump down his throat. I guess because of what it implies? I just don't see the difference between that and women not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:35 AM
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The current gal I'm dating is 5'7 so we'll see what's so bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:16 AM
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You'd more likely have to lie about ever having a girlfriend than if you are a virgin. They'll ask how many long-term relationships you've been in if they ask you anything (from experience). If I was a virgin, I'd lie. I think everyone is lying for their own benefit and then telling others online to be truthful. That might be a cynical view, but it's served me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:25 PM
1

That would be 370 for me, don't think I'll ever hit that without serious gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:40 PM
1

In my experience, women who like bigger muscles are more forward too. Which is a huge advantage, don't have to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:34 PM
1

Congrats. It's a great feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:32 PM
1

The answer is neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:27 PM
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At least the incels are self aware that they are insecure about it. "I'm not insecure about being fat or a single mom" posts hundreds of threads about the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:23 PM
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I can just look at her and tell she doesn't date anyone lower than a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:19 PM
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This lmao. Women literally have no clue how often they trauma dump on their man. Or their male best friend. Men are just way more likely to tolerate it. It's kind of built in us to comfort our girlfriends/wives. I think every single woman I've dated has trauma dumped on me by the 4th-5th date. Some did it on the 1st. It's just comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:35 PM
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Yeah it's weird that liberals are expecting a leftist to simp for a Democrat lol. Like is she supposed to jump for joy that her two options are a right-wing populist and a right leaning centrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:33 AM
1

Have you tried approaching hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:22 AM
1

Lmao this reaction pic, stealing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:19 AM
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That feels too positive for femcel, she's basically saying there's a bunch of good men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:17 AM
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I'm on a date right now and she wants to pay for the whole thing 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:24 PM
2

Mordor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:24 PM
2

I had to Google that. So like if you were in the middle of a bank robbery you'd be super turned on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:19 PM
1

Hezbollah getting their shit pushed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:14 PM
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I don't know about being more pathetic than some of the men, but pretending like they are all really smart, sweet, and unbothered while making thousands of nasty comments is pretty crazy. If you post in this sub a lot, there is probably something wrong with you. Pretending to be above it all is so cringe. And yes that includes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:09 PM
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She does this to me too lol. I don't know if she's trolling or can't read or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:46 PM
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While I am pro choice, I looked it up and it's still lower than 1%. Not that it isn't a problem or anything, I was just answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:02 PM
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It's apparently 3-5%, so paternity fraud would be higher. A woman being killed by her husband is less than 1% if I remember right. Really any kind of "fraud" is going to happen more than murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:18 PM
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It would be pretty funny considering her entire post history is her being a condescending cunt. Also terrible arguments in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:40 AM
2

You should just tell him how you feel, maybe he will turn gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:32 AM
2

I would have given you head if I was one of the random chicks, on god.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:09 AM
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They are physically attractive enough but can't get through the mental barrier of approaching women romantically. Like a doomer too depressed to apply for jobs because he failed two interviews in a row (it's over). Although sometimes it's autism, which is going to be a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah the last Asian girl I dated was similar to number 1. Got super offended really easily by things. She would actually read racist/sexist stuff from reddit out loud to me that was clearly just bait. I'd have to stop myself from laughing because of how dramatic she would get. Fucking cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:23 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:20 AM
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Most likely an alt account from one of the many LARPers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:46 AM
1

It's similar to bleu but sweeter, kind of the perfect mix of woodsy and sweet. It's only the edt that smells like this. It's good when you are going directly to her/your place or the date is very close contact. It barely projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:27 AM
2

I'm not an expert, but my favorite was La Nuit De L'homme. It just didn't seem to last long enough to be worth it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:00 AM
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I got bleu de chanel a year ago and I think every woman I've been in close contact with tells me how good I smell. I can't believe it took me this long to buy some, I'm colognepilled now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:52 PM
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You really don't want to complain or "whine" at all as a man when dating. They'll do that enough for the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:37 PM
2

Yeah this isn't a huge deal if she's receptive. If she's terrible at anything where she's doing the work, you can still top while teaching her what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:04 PM
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I'm not sure how people spin plates. I saw 4 women at once and it was genuinely exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:32 AM
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My last girlfriend used to complain when I'd spend more than 2 hours playing video games, she wanted me to lay in bed while she was scrolling social media. I swear women are gassing each other up about this on reddit. It has to be a survivor bias thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:34 AM
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IT GOES IT GOES IT GOES
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:24 PM
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Fair enough. I'm just thinking that if I'm going to be randomly strawmanned by a direct reply (not you, the other person), there could at least be someone in this thread with the opinion that "high income man pays for more = women is a gold digger automatically". That's such an extreme definition of the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:45 PM
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"does not chip in at all" Whatever, let's just call it day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:16 PM
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I was giving an example of what gold digging could be, not saying that is the average salary or relationship. Not going to lie. I see you post a lot and it's hard to tell if you're being bad faith on purpose or have poor reading comprehension. A better argument would be if she chips in 1% of her money, it's not gold digging based on my definition. But we're being kind of pedantic at that point. I just don't think the person who is making more has to be mega rich for it to be gold digging. Some "…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:01 PM
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I literally gave the example of her making 80k and he was making 150k, and wanting him to pay for everything. A gold digger is just someone who is in a relationship for the purpose of being paid for 100% of the time. A man can be a gold digger. I'm also not redpill or worried about gold diggers. I am explaining that normal people don't make this big deal about income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:47 PM
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Do red pill people actually think this? Like I'm not sure who this is a gotcha toward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:32 PM
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Not helping people at the gym who are doing squats so incorrectly that injury is a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:44 PM
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Most men want their girlfriend to have a job and a car, but you're taking it too literally. We just don't care if they make less or more than us. Also a woman could make 80k and still want her 150k husband to pay for everything, not all gold diggers are poor. There's also a lot of women who do not care if their boyfriend makes less or has a higher level degree. Some people are just genuinely less shallow about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:39 PM
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What you're replying to is implying that there are more "average" women than average men, because men make up more of the extremes, not that average women are better than average men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:05 PM
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I think the majority of millennial men and younger couldn't give less of a shit if their girl made more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:11 PM
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No women I've dated has asked me my income. I think it's a bit overblown. But the answer to this would either be men need to get better and adapt, like what a lot of the women are saying in this post (this is pretty deranged when you think about it, expecting men to outperform the other gender in all aspects just to date is silly). Or some women need to reevaluate their toxic views of gender roles when it comes to dating. Assuming they actually want to find love and not an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:09 PM
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Understandable, would protect from danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:14 PM
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What would a 0/10 personality even look like. Like super boring or is just a violent piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:50 PM
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True. The people giving you advice on reddit are not the people you are trying to fuck. It's why "shirtless pics showing muscles is icky" is a common thing said on reddit, but any man will tell you how many more matches he gets once he starts showing abs. It's because the women on reddit aren't the young women you're trying to fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:23 PM
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To be fair, I've literally never been approached romantically. Most women give me this look like I'm going to take their head off. But I do well on dating apps, and cold approaches have worked sometimes. Not getting approached can just mean you don't really go out enough, or the women who do find you attractive aren't the types to approach. I think the virgins here put too much stock into judging their attractiveness on being approached in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:15 PM
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It wouldn't matter tbh. There's so much LARPing going on in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:52 PM
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True. It would be insane to judge someone for playing video games when you have so many posts in a sub like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:11 PM
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Yeah this is a bad idea lmao. Maybe if they were 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:55 PM
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I can't remember the last time I saw an obese young man out with his girlfriend. It's always some miserable looking old married couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:43 PM
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Yeah most people who date participate in casual sex. Every female friend I've talked to about their dating also claimed they don't have casual sex. They defined it as "hookup only". I think this is some kind of guilt thing because casual sex = slut to a lot of people, at least subconsciously. It's why you can't really take the self reported data on this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:31 PM
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I noticed a lot of women have a weird definition of "casual sex". Which is probably where the disconnect comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:21 PM
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"We are super empathetic, but can you please shut up you fucking loser. You aren't allowed to sadpost unless you have 10% body fat and go to a party every weekend."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:10 PM
2

Oh nice a Hot Mulligan fan 🫡. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:07 PM
2

shrug compliments work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:03 PM
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Anyone who has dated or worked around women can tell you they are not more mature lol. I went from a blue collar job with mostly men to an office job where most of the people there are women under 35. It feels like I'm in a CW show. It's a completely different level of immaturity than fart and your mom jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:18 PM
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If it's just one, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:47 PM
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Yeah with tutorials foreplay is incredibly easy to pick up. PIV is a bit more difficult because psychological factors can really fuck over a man. But those can fuck over an experienced man too.You also won't know what she likes the first time. There's a much higher chance of a woman rejecting you for being a virgin than her "figuring it out" after you've had sex. That's why it's not worth it, especially if you're struggling so much to get a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:42 PM
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I love reddit. A bunch of people who have lied countless times to get what they want are telling others it's wrong and they shouldn't do it. The most virtuous people on the planet post on this app. And before you tell me "I don't lie!", yes you do, you're doing it right now pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:06 PM
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Well to give a different perspective, almost all of the women I've dated in the past 2 years were childless. I rarely even match with single moms (admittedly I'm not paying attention to that when I swipe). So I find it weird when people say they can only find single moms to date. But different experiences I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:19 PM
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I'm 33 almost 34. I'm currently dating a 27 year old for example. I don't really care about age and just go off attractiveness, and most of my dates are in the 27-30 range. With 22-26 and 31-34 being sprinkled in. I have not gone on a date with any woman 2+ older than me. I'll match with them sometimes, but they never stay interested enough to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:15 PM
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I date in the 22-38 range and it's kind of all the same. 30 year olds are not as mature as they pretend to be. Younger women are harder to get objectively, for the simple fact that they are looking for men maybe 2-3 years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:05 PM
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Enough pro choice people think financial abortions shouldn't be a thing, so I don't think anyone cares if they're being hypocritical anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:24 PM
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Only short dudes I've seen do well have lethal face cards or were at least average. I think the whole "short ugly friend who is super charming and fucks models" was something Hollywood made up and people internalized or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:40 PM
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Hmm, not necessarily. I do think the way black pill people focus on it is not very useful. But I think increasing your physical attractiveness gives you a better boost than trying to change your personality. I think changing your core personality is very difficult. Making little changes in your demeanor can work, but keeping that up may be exhausting. I don't find that people's personalities are "bad", it's just a compatibility issue a lot of the time. Shy autistic men have a very small dating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:39 PM
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While I agree for the most part, there are people who are so hot that this would never apply to them. Anything they'd do would either be mysterious or charming. At some point your lethal face card is your "good personality". It's the same with someone who is truly ugly. They will be perceived as having a bad demeanor. This is very rare though. A lot of the time when people say "I have an ugly friend who is super confident blah blah", their friend isn't actually ugly. Maybe average or slightly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:17 PM
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You'd be ghosted quite a bit by women over 30 on dating apps if you admitted to being a 30 year old virgin. I don't think the women on that subreddit are lying, but I don't find what women say on reddit to be representative of women in general. In my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:14 PM
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This is also my take. I just think a lot of the women who post here don't realize they aren't much different than the red pill dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:42 PM
1

Yep, it's the same when me and my friends are talking about how much we hate all people of a certain race. Just hyperbole 🙂.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:23 PM
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This thread is the perfect example of how disingenuous/bad faith the people who post here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:19 PM
1

Of course lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:17 PM
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Yeah they most likely would. No point in casual if you know it'll be bad. But you're not going to be ever seeing them again, so whatever. I personally lost my virginity in a casual situation. Although it was never brought up, so not a lie necessarily. In my experience, casual sex is bad like 50% of the time. People who do it know it comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:35 AM
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I think your logic makes sense if the virgin really likes the woman tbh. She'll be more forgiving if the sex is bad/awkward. But it's a risk either way. If it's a casual hookup kinda thing, there's no point telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:20 AM
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They probably overlap, but most men would just tell you to lie about being a virgin and wouldn't care too much about body count unless it was some insane number. Red pill men probably assume she's going to lie about the number if it's high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 AM
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Yeah I've had similar conversations, I typically just said "if you say so". Not worth arguing with people about it. I swear it's a psyop. My female cousins telling me "you don't really need muscles, women don't care about that" when I looked like a tooth pick. I'm like "uh huh".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:12 AM
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That's honesty the real "blue pill" outside of this place. It's actually kind of funny how black pill adjacent people are here without realizing it. Most normies genuinely think looks don't matter for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:59 AM
1

I just lean into the big masculine aesthetic because my face would never allow me to be twinkish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:03 PM
2

That phrase basically means: "On paper we are perfect for each other, but I don't find them sexually attractive" He's going to be disappointed if he confronts her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:02 AM
2

Well at least not to the level some of these guys do. I'll admit I chuckle at the 19-21 BMI meme sometimes. It's strange though, because women will be mean online about certain things like height, income, if the man wants to split on the first date, etc. But I've personally never been asked my income when dating. Being fat/obese seems to be one of the biggest issues a man can have when trying to date, but a lot of women won't even mention it in their list of requirements. I've seen it before but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:51 PM
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I think you're really underestimating how much women (yes even the fat ones) do not want to date fat dudes. They just aren't mean about it online like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:41 PM
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I've been ghosted after the 10th date for seemingly no reason. It's best not to analyze it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:34 PM
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I mean there's a reason women stay on the apps for so long lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:22 PM
3

Sleeve tattoo, maybe a hair transplant to save the youthful appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:25 AM
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I love the topics where tradcons and radfems are working together to look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:21 PM
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I honestly think a lot of it is lashing out for shitting on short men and incels/virgins. A lot of the women who post on reddit are most likely fat, so they are just trying to hit them where they think it hurts. Although if you just mean in general and not these spaces specifically, I think being mean to fat people isn't completely taboo yet. One of the few groups you can openly shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:09 PM
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No bro you don't get it, using the draginator 5000 while reading about a hot werewolf having his way with the main character is much different than a man jerking off to two real humans having sex on camera. It's so different bro. Did mention that man bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:53 PM
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It means once you eat your cake, you no longer have it. You can't eat the cake while simultaneously keeping it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:39 PM
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That's a banger, let it rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:45 AM
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Was about to say the same shit LOL. They agreed with the title and now are going around accusing others of not reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:25 AM
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I'll find a cutie pie gf once I get on tren, I just know it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:07 AM
1

Me right now except more of a chad-lite. I've been alpha widowed!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:04 AM
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I do the same shit. I got everyone at work saying "it's over" when something goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:26 PM
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It's over 😔.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:09 PM
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This is true in my experience. My male friends will typically say "I banged her" or "we gave each other head" but that's typically the extent of it. If they talk about it at all. My female friends go into insane detail. I know the exact dick size of all of their boyfriends. What they do in bed, their boyfriend's insecurities, etc. I know a lot of men scoff at the idea, but it's fun being one the girls. You get a lot of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:59 PM
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Every religious woman I've dated has basically jumped on me by the 2nd date. I have no idea where people even find these women who make you wait until commitment or marriage (maybe a church?).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:45 PM
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I'm high at work and I still don't know what he's getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah it's strange considering how many of them seem so bitter too. I just have a hard time imagining people with 1000s of posts in a gender debate sub saying "men bad" have these perfect husbands/boyfriends. Same thing for the redpilled men who claim to be happily married while they are calling all women retarded whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:48 PM
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Basically everything stated in this thread is what also happens to men after they start getting matches. At least the ones genuinely looking for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:12 PM
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This is interesting because I tend to be more passive and was getting shit after the 1st/2nd date for not making any moves. So I changed my strategy up. It does feel like most women want you to go for something on the 2nd date, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:51 PM
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A good example of this is Isreal vs Palestine. Some of my younger female friends are becoming borderline anti Semitic because of the conflict. To the point where they are pro hamas and pro "Israel getting wiped out". It's getting difficult to distinguish their talking points vs a typical /pol user from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:56 PM
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Yes, I went from one match a week to being able to date 4-5 women at once. But I'm also 6'5. Irl attention? I get complimented a little more but no women has ever approached me directly. A couple of cold approaches worked after getting jacked though. I noticed a huge difference once my arms actually looked big for my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:45 PM
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I would never do that to my baby, that's emotional labor. She isn't my therapist...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:31 PM
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While I agree, you might as well tell people not to use virgin as an insult. We are always going to happily shame each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:08 PM
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Congrats brotha, are you going to see her again? Now you get to go through the neurosis gauntlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:44 PM
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Idk I think if you remove makeup, the hottest men kinda mog the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:37 PM
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Tinder is definitely rigged. The amount of matches you get with platnium vs no sub is crazy. They aren't showing your profile to anyone when you're free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:06 PM
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I think anyone who uses dating apps for an extended period of time trying to find a partner is going to at least have bitter thoughts about the other gender. There are so many flakes, ghosters, people dating in bad faith, just looking for a fuck (yes women are doing this too). There's no rules anymore, you can be randomly ghosted after the 10th date. It's absolutely ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:45 PM
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Keep a condom in your pocket to pull out super fast if she wants you to wear one. Nothing kills a boner faster than waddling over to find a condom and putting it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:38 PM
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Genuinely have no idea why anyone engages with her. It's not even about a "side", she's just braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:24 PM
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A place beyond the pines Gosling would 100% run through an entire town of women, even without the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:32 PM
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You're gay dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:36 PM
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So basically most of the women who post on AITAH?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:17 AM
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That I'm the hottest man alive. I'd never have to work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:15 AM
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You also get banned pretty easily. Two reports and you're done, they don't even review what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah I think people are greatly underestimating the paradox of choice that the internet has created. It's happening to me. I'm dating a woman who I think is great, then I match with someone who checks all my boxes a little better. It's mental illness innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:56 PM
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DMV is where the shooters shoot 🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:12 PM
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Sort of, it was in a town on the outskirts of Baltimore. So on Tinder I had that entire area + DC to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:37 PM
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This is probably the main reason. Assuming you can get a straight woman interested enough in you to go on a date (let's say for this example she finds you super hot so you didn't have to do much). You still need to do 2-3 months of formal dating where you have to go through the obstacle course of her neurosis and single friends who are trying to keep her single. I have no idea why people think once a man can actually get dates that getting a girlfriend is easy. It's a minefield the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:52 PM
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That's fair, I was bicurious in college and may have added to that commitment complaint. But I'm just basing this off my own experiences dating both. I may be too confident in my ability to attract femboys now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:47 PM
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I'd be a very tall, masculine top. My comments after the first take are mostly facetious, but I base it off my experience being bicurious in college (when I looked much worse) vs my experience dating straight women in general. Not to mention every bi person I've ever talked to has agreed that men are easier to date. Honestly if you have a bunch of options and you cannot find a bf/gf, you are most likely too picky. It's easy to blame the other gender when you are picking the same "type" over and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:40 PM
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Nope, boyfriend. I'd be the most "in demand" type of gay dude, which helps. Men are also just easier to date in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:07 PM
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Holy fuck you're 61??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:13 PM
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I've heard "incel" used quite a bit irl. It's sort of becoming the new virgin insult for zoomers and gen alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:12 PM
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Nah let's go on TwoX and try to match their sexism. I'm sure we will look heroic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:09 PM
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Lesbians probably have it harder due to their tiny population on top of having the same issues straight men deal with. The gay men in here are capping though. I could switch to gay tinder and have a boyfriend in a couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:46 PM
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This is correct. If you have a lot of options, you have plenty of romantic options, you just don't like them. Men with options also go through this, I do. I know I have super high standards, probably unreasonable. It is what it is. Just have some self-awareness and be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:32 PM
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Any out of touch takes/arguments you see on here are most likely being said by someone who's 40+.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:04 PM
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There's like 20 female posters here with 1000+ comments who basically just say vile, unempathetic shit constantly. They genuinely think they have the moral high ground because incels post here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:40 PM
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For Tinder, if I swiped right indiscriminately, probably 3 a day. I will typically get 1 a day if I'm using all of my swipes and have some standards. For Bumble, if I used all 25, I could get like 6 a day. But that's too overwhelming, so I match with 2 and see what happens. I think I do so well on Bumble because a lot of women pay for the filters and I'm tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:17 PM
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Tinder is okay for me. I do much better on Bumble with the same profile. Most of my attractive Tinder dates were either mentally ill or just wanted pp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:50 PM
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To defend against fat shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:08 PM
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All of the counter arguments are basically "stop whining". Truly the juggernauts of debate reside here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:23 PM
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How many of those are when you started being the plapper. Or did you always like big girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:26 AM
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This is badass. Just get ready for the mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:04 AM
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I don't think so. In my experience, both men and women go "not my problem". Or "someone else will do it".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:39 PM
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Are women more likely to have migraines? I never hear men talk about having them. One of my older coworkers got surgery done to reduce them about a month ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:11 PM
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That would probably be the 50+ range for me. Anything before that could be someone having a hook up once a month or something, depending on how old they are. Really not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:08 PM
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The dude was probably 6'6 or 6'7. I'm 6'5 and people your height are only slightly above my shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:04 AM
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There's no point bringing the race parallel to this discussion to show that it's bigotry, I have never seen anyone here engage that argument in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:57 PM
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This post was made by PPDs heroic sperm donor. May god shine your true path.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:43 AM
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She shouldn't have, she was spittin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:15 AM
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I mean one of them just typed the n word while banning a guy throwing very light insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:10 AM
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9/10. She's my type, but I think young Kate Beckinsale mogs her a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:53 AM
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My experience as an American on the east coast: Women/girls were my tormentors growing up. Maybe I was too big for boys to fuck with me, but girls would bully the shit out of me. Never understood why, was just a shy kid. I don't hold it against an entire gender, but men have always been way more accepting to me. As for helping people, maybe crying children? But I feel like most men would help a crying child too, only reason they wouldn't is the pedo scare shit. When it comes to helping in genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:15 AM
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That's a woman larping as a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:54 PM
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Thanks brotha. Not going to lie I think the gear making my arms way bigger helped a lot. My sister is good at photography too so she could show them off in more natural stances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:06 PM
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I think she is, but if I had to rate her face objectively, maybe a 7. She looks really good without makeup on which is a huge plus (Asian).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:49 PM
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Bumble. She went "Hi Anon :)". And I think I responded "Hello cutest woman on this app". I try to make it flirty early on to gauge interest. I'm also 6'5 though, so mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:28 PM
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They will sometimes do that or they are just genuinely busy. If they look engaged when they do respond, there's at least some interest. But in my experience, the women who wanted to tear my clothes off on the first date all responded super fast. When in doubt just ask them on a date, you'll get your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:24 PM
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I am currently dating a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman, AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:17 PM
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She will respond quickly. Give compliments. Maybe message you first. It can be one or all the above. When you start to notice them getting colder, they usually want you to ask them out already, or someone else caught their attention. Asking them out after a night or two of talking is always a safe bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:12 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:50 AM
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I blame the way it's designed. It's literally a "last word" button to anyone reading the argument. Everyone reading the argument just assumes the blockee gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:49 PM
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Most successful black pillers are just men who had a glow up and found out personality didn't have much to do with it. Personally I think dating apps are black pill. But irl is a lot more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:30 PM
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If you define casual sex as sex before commitment, yes, it's easier to get casual sex than it is to get a girlfriend. A random hookup where she tells you to come over right away? This would depend on how good looking you are tbh. My experience is typically having sex on the 1st to 3rd date. I'd define that as casual sex. I've never had to wait for commitment to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:15 PM
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The women who post here are so much different than the women I know irl. It's like stepping into an alternate reality when lurking here. Although I guess that's true for the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:07 PM
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Not to support this or anything, but hair growth and taking gear has helped me a fuck ton. But I feel like my height is a multipler.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:27 AM
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Where's that one boomer who thinks going to the gym solves all your issues when you need him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:12 PM
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Yeah I think people severely underestimate how well fat women and single moms do in dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:59 PM
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Congrats. I started my cut today, probably gotta drop like 50 pounds. My bulk wasn't very lean lol. Fucking ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:18 PM
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Y'all simpin?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:48 PM
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I definitely do. I typically will go down on a woman pretty early while dating them to see how sensitive they are. My very first girlfriend would take 30 mins to cum no matter what I did, I am never doing that shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:07 AM
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Damn you didn't even hug your boyfriend, brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:41 PM
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Most of my friends have girlfriends, only one is married. So we will still hang out, not as much. Sometimes I'll hang out with coworkers. I personally just go on dates with women from the apps if I'm super bored. If I end up finding a gf from it, then that's a bonus I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:35 PM
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What's your take on Madison Beer, I am assuming it is reasonable like all your other's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:35 PM
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I thought this was red pill. Don't you guys talk about waking up from the matrix or whatever. Black pill is like "my facial harmony is 30%, it's over" They are way funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:32 PM
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When did he demand how others act on the internet? You're the only one going off on a cringe tangent about how the guy should post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:15 PM
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Feminists say this? I feel like a feminist would argue that dating is harder for women because of the incredibly low chance that they will be killed at Arby's on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:03 PM
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Very disappointed in you senpai.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:30 AM
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Most of my female friends can get in a relationship with a good dude very easily. At the end of the day it does seem to be a skill issue if you have all these options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:50 PM
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You're probably one of the few posters who actually has empathy for the other gender. And that one communist guy. The majority of the people who post here are absolutely delusional if they think they come across as empathetic with their post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:34 PM
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That user is a troll. Look at her post history, she changes her stance every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:36 PM
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I do, works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:19 PM
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Idk a lot of the women who post here say some pretty crazy shit and I wouldn't be surprised if they had a 40 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:16 PM
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No but a male sex getter can probably answer this question more accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:37 PM
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You'd have to be crazy to think this. Being super hot is life on easy mode for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:15 PM
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I think it's more they are dating men who are picky with a lot of options (I know this from experience). They want to have sex, we do, by the 4th-5th date it fizzles out or I see too many red flags. Wouldn't be surprised if they are telling their friends I "used" them for sex or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:14 PM
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I think most people were thinking of some small black bear for the hypothetical. You'd have to be delusional to pick an adult grizzly or polar bear to come in close contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:28 AM
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It's probably true as a general rule. But since I've started dating again, I've dated/hooked up with: 30, 25, 23, 29 (currently dating), 23 (talking to), 24 (new girl at work). I'm 33. If I'm at clubs/bars instead of apps, it's usually all 22-28. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:03 PM
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Sometimes those dudes actually spin plates because of their golden retriever aesthetic. You gotta really get into the trenches. Pick a dude with greasy hair or who has Funko Pop collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:58 AM
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I'm sure the 35+ year old married people who post here will go into detail how great dating is right now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:27 PM
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There's a rad fem who posts here who claims to be a school teacher. I think about this any time I see her post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:07 PM
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All the women I date tend to make more than me, how much that bothers them idk. But redpill would probably argue my physicals make up for it or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:25 PM
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This is so true lol. "x is this way, and we should change it" "Yean but you guys say Y" I don't know if it's bad reading comprehension or if they are just being bad faith. But it's every single thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:54 PM
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Blackpill lite is probably the most accurate thing for most aspects of life. Most people irl are blackpill-lite without realizing it. We are obsessed with our looks and think it affects every aspect of our lives (it does, being extremely hot is life on easy mode). It's just for whatever reason, we reject this pretty hard when it comes to heterosexual male dating. Women are pretty blackpill when it comes to their dating struggles, if you ever actually listen to them. With that said, full-on black…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:52 PM
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I see it all the time at the gym honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:19 PM
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In my experience, all of my searches for an LTR using the apps end up in casual sex on the 1st-3rd date. And when I just want causal sex (very rare), I basically act the same way. I show off my sense of humor, ask them out, and then I'm flirty on the first date instead of making it a job interview. So to me there's not much difference. I think a lot of the complaints in this sub are more "I can't get a single women to go on a date with me". These men are touch deprived so it's going to seem like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:58 PM
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I think more Gen Z women would respond favorably to your opener than the "beautiful vixen, you hath put a spell on me!" type opener that the other guy was suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:29 AM
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Yeah I'm not really sure I understand the arguments being made here by the other posters. Are we saying that men attempting to go for younger women is creepy/pathetic? Unless they are clearly a teenager, how would you even know a woman is 23 vs 28 when approaching them irl. And if it's the apps, they are both consenting to match. So I don't understand what the problem is. I feel like both sides who post here are very bitter and just like to call 30 year olds of the other gender ugly/old looking.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:13 AM
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This is more just commenting on how ugly he is, not the age gap lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:10 AM
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A lot of women here disagree apparently lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:05 AM
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No I'm just a cutie patootie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:47 AM
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This actually happened to me yesterday, although she suggested ice cream. And she was also spilling a little ice cream on herself. I did take some of the ice cream that dripped on her leg and ate it. We didn't hold hands after, but she did invite me back to her house for sexy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:40 AM
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Most SAHD I know have said it's piss easy. They just want to be out and about working, making money. I think a lot of it is neurosis. Men tend to have lower standards when it comes to housekeeping. Not to say women don't work hard to keep the house in order, I just know from my married friends that sometimes they care a little too much about the "upkeep".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:06 PM
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There's definitely a heavy implication. I don't expect anything when invited back, but I go for it because I know that's what she wants me to do 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:15 PM
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Honestly if a woman wants to go on a 2nd date, she's at least somewhat interested. It's why I don't take it personally if it doesn't happen on the first date. Some people also just take a bit to warm up, even with physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:10 PM
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I think advice women give is useful when you're in the later stages of dating. It's not that great for actually getting your foot in the door. They can also give good advice for dating profiles, but only listen to youngish women irl (20-35). Do not take Tinder profile advice from women on reddit (no offense). Otherwise every picture will be you cheesing in some goofy pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:03 AM
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The fact that she's not banned is kind of funny. She has 5000+ comments and it's all just bullying. She says something mean (it's always lame as fuck too) then a cringe or skull emoji. What a fucking loser lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:42 AM
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I think they hamster it by defining "casual sex" as "we hooked up the moment we met." As long as you go on one date it's not casual sex if you fuck afterwards. Obviously this is just goofy logic, but it's a way to feel like you're not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:59 PM
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Women think I'm a slut because I go to the gym a lot. I feel like neurosis is the number #1 enemy of men when it comes to women. That could be her neurosis or the man's. It's an attraction killer both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:51 PM
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Back when Tinder first came out, it felt like hanging out or hooking up soon after matching was the norm. It's how it became the "sex app". There was a lot more women on it, and it didn't feel like you had to have professional photos and put on clown shoes. Nowadays everything is cloak and dagger in comparison. Most people are on the apps in bad faith. It's either a very boring job interview style of getting to know each other that rarely makes it to the first date, or you find out that "no hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:27 PM
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Yeah the apps are really rough. I was blessed with height so I get a decent amount of matches, but honestly the women on there are barely interested, or want to fuck and ghost like they're men lol. It does feel like as men, we either take every single opportunity we can get just to have our feelings hurt, or get lucky eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:26 PM
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She's good friends with her imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:39 AM
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It was also just piss easy to get hookups on the apps back when they first came out. Wish some of yall zoomers could have experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:06 AM
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These responses have basically proven to me that this subreddit is a psyop to turn men blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:27 PM
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"Love bombing" works on me like nothing else. Basically acting super interested, complimenting a lot, being excited to see you. The woman I'm seeing right now goes back and forth with teasing me and calling me cute/big/muscular/hot. Got a 30 year old man kicking his feet and shit. It probably won't end well, but it feels incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:49 PM
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The vascularity doesn't matter as much, but a lot of women definitely like dudes being brawny, which you do need muscle mass for. Doesn't have to be a lot, maybe a couple of bulk/cut cycles. I do think muscles help shorter dudes as long as it's not overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:42 PM
4

Putting on muscle worked for me, but I used to be obese and I'm tall, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:57 PM
6

Don't twinks have to at least be cute to be considered twinks. What does an ugly twink even look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:29 AM
1

Mogged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:58 PM
9

To be fair chronically online women who complain about this are much different than most of the women you encounter irl. Not to say you won't be harshly rejected if they find you unattractive, but they aren't going to scream for help or call the cops lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:10 PM
1

Revenge fantasy. But people making posts/videos talking about how happy they are are usually cappin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:00 PM
-3

It's also just retarded logically. You don't encounter adult brown bears enough to have any trauma associated with them. It's an irrational choice. If you consider base rate, bears are objectively more dangerous. Strange men aren't even the real danger to you statistically, it's someone that you know most of the time. It would be astronomical that some random man in the forest would attack and kill you. It's going to be a hiker minding their business 99.99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:54 PM
2

As a dude with experience in first date hookups, some women think they're being obvious when they are not. Some women literally throw up the bat signal that it's time for you to do something. I'm really thankful for the latter because I'm pretty neurotic about making a move haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:46 PM
3

Same. If I think she wants to have sex on the first date, I need to take a 5mg weed gummy. I know if I say no and explain that it takes me a little bit to get comfortable, it's over after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:29 PM
1

Also me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:12 AM
1

I think for dudes who like big boobs it tends to just be a "bonus" too. Like they're not going to automatically reject the gal for having smaller boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:06 PM
1

Eh a lot of them really are sweet girls. Like what the weirdo that replied to me earlier said, they tend to have daddy issues. I always date them in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:27 PM
6

Yeah you definitely don't come across mentally ill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:51 PM
25

That's no joke. It's hard to explain to women since they are used to it, and men who have never experienced it, but a woman who's really into you since the moment you talk/meet....man, there is no better feeling. Not to mention, the sex is crazy. You do anything and they are losing their minds. It's hard to go back to women who seem half interested/bored after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:18 AM
18

The date I had on Sunday, she grabbed my hand and said "you're so cute and polite, the bar really is on the floor, why can't all men be like you." I'm 6'5 225 pounds of muscle lmao. I thought it was a strange thing to say, but I can't be mad, one of the hottest first dates I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:11 AM
19

To be fair, mentally ill alt women are the only ones who find me really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:02 AM
0

At my office job (I'm gay)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:59 AM
3

They're basically the same thing for me in terms of results. Can get the first date or hookup, but it fizzles out real quick. My only LTRs is when I told a friend I liked them. So twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:10 AM
2

He's a tough guy who writes angry essays on a gender debate sub. I'd be careful. He's definitely not a giant fucking loser like these incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:57 PM
1

This is actually true to an extent. As a tall dude you will get more matches/dates, but a lot of these women are paying to filter out anyone under 6'2. They are fairly shallow and ghost super often. It's kind of bad faith in a way. Like "okay let me look for my next lumbering giant to flirt with" type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:24 AM
4

Maybe I'm just king mogger, but the 30 year olds I pull on bumble are absolute hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:53 AM
0

Oh God no, I'm too shy. They are the only way I can get some ass nowadays 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:22 PM
13

It's gotten much easier for me, but I was fat as shit in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:05 PM
2

Less, more isolated, more brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:39 AM
2

Yeah basically. Problem with those studies is that this would always be the result if both straight women and other straight men underrated men. All the men would have to do is have healthy self-worth/confidence. If you threw gay men into the mix, you may find that straight men are underrating themselves. Like most women would probably rate me a 4-5 because I'm a ginger blonde. But the second they find out I'm 6'5 with muscle, I'm a 7 or "yes" in girl rating. So these studies are kind of dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:31 AM
3

Me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:13 AM
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If they are strangers, no. Not really his/her problem. I might just be saying that to justify fucking the new girl at work though. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:37 AM
2

I'd say 90% of my matches are 24-33, as a 33 year old man. 10% are 33-40. My age range is 24-55, and I don't think I've ever matched with a woman over 40. I think older women generally find it weird if the guy is much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:57 PM
1

This is very true if you've ever dated a high-maintenance person and then a low-maintenance person. So much of it is just neurosis. Controlling men tend to be more neurotic than their partner, too. Women can definitely get away with it more often, but it puts such a heavy strain on the relationship either way. The hardest part is getting the neurotic person to recognize that's what they're doing. They will always paint the other person as lazy/uncaring/aloof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:41 AM
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A random man in the forest is going to be a hiker who either doesn't give a fuck about you or would help you, if anything. You're taking the hypothetical in bad faith. "I will avoid the far away bear, while the man in the forest is a deranged rapist who is going to chase after me". All things equal, the random bear is objectively more dangerous than the random man. People who think otherwise are either brainrotted or have a very poor understanding of base rate/per capita statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:17 AM
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If you encountered random adult bears as often as you encountered random adult men, in the close vicinity that you do, you'd be dead already. Also just the idea that every man will bother you while every bear will leave you alone is such a stupid fucking argument in itself. You have like 1000+ comments in a debate sub, and this is the argument you come up with. That is genuinely hilarious. Wait let me guess. You're some rugged wilderness gal who has befriended thousands of grizzly bears, while h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:01 AM
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"Holy shit my gender is cooked" - my sister, after reading the man or bear stuff. I knew gender discourse was full of r words, but I think this topic really showcases that people use zero critical thinking skills when developing their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:51 AM
1

Red pill is actually right-wing conspiracy theories on 4chan after the first Matrix movie came out. I have no idea when it turned into just about dating lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:27 PM
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