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That's when I've been saying. The redpill dudes are actually the meanest. Then the virgins/black pill dudes catch all the flak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:24 PM
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Never thought I'd get to see Destiny debating with Lil Uzi Vert.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:07 PM
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Left lib has some insane hotties with BPD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:39 PM
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Yes, never imply to a woman you're dating that she's the only one you're seeing or that you get no matches. I learned that the hard way when I first started using the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:23 PM
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I'm just going to warn you that tall women can be a tough nut to crack. You gotta be on your A game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:01 PM
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I think he was calling Kill Tony garbage, not all Trump supporters. At least that's what it looked like grammatically. Either way people are going a little hard on Tony. It was Trump's staff that fucked up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:52 PM
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In the scene he jabs the phone into the guy's neck to incapacitate him, that's why they brought the topic up. That move just wouldn't create enough force to warrant using it over punching them in the neck. Honestly a fist would still be better than hitting someone over the head with a phone. Or kicking their balls. Keys in between your knuckles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:15 AM
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They shouldn't, unless you're running + calling for help. Your knuckles are going to do more damage than a smartphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:12 PM
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I think the dudes were laughing at the idea of using a phone to stab someone in the neck, which is silly fantasy shit. You'd be better off using your knuckles. Not that people aren't thinking about danger and ways to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:09 PM
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I know what you mean bro, that's why I hate fucking with the lights out. That picture lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:47 PM
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Yeah it's visually appealing. The ass shakes more and just adds to the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:11 PM
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Women who can really hit that arch 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:49 PM
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He wasn't saying that you or most women do that, just that women will do that sometimes. My second GF was like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:16 PM
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It's just virtue signaling. Make a thread about how men get hotter after 30 and see how many of them start talking about how younger men are more attractive lmao. I've been beginning to notice that more and more in the main part of the sub. From both sides. The consensus completely changes depending on the argument being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:19 PM
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Ragebait right before the elections lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:41 PM
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It depends on how they do it, but I'd say that comes across as confident. I've personally never had a woman approach me so directly before, maybe some signals of interest. The one in the video was a bit cold and I'd think I was getting pranked because of her body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:00 AM
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Yeah sorry if my comment came off as a dunk. It was out of concern because I have a female friend who was over confident about her wrestling, she picked a fight with a drunk guy and got hurt. But yeah in that situation I would have at least told her to get off my stop and wait for the next one. If he followed, we could have gone into a store/restaurant and called the cops. The threat of a weapon is too high to confront him. If I have to fight him though, fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:24 PM
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I don't disagree, I was commenting on the "I'd whip your butts". Which is why I said don't go out with that attitude irl. If you were just being hyperbolic, then my comment can be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:48 PM
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You don't need much of a spine to take some petite woman's head off with a punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:36 PM
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Jesus christ these answers are sexist as fuck. OP, in general I think the more moral thing to do is protect someone from danger if you are able to do so. You are not obbligated, but it definitely makes society a better place. At least tell the women to get off the bus with you on your stop so she can wait for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:31 PM
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Please don't walk around irl with this delusion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:22 PM
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Yeah this would probably be the only real solution. I think social media has warped people's standards and increased FOMO quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:13 PM
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This is a debate sub bruh. If you don't want to debate his points then just dip out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:06 PM
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Funny thing is I date "conventionally unattractive" women because their profiles make them seem like cutie patooties. They'll reject you faster than the standard hotties do. They seem to be so afraid of getting pumped and dumped that they don't even give you a chance. Edit: there's a lot angwy people in the replies, so I'll just elaborate. There's nothing wrong with being defensive after getting pumped and dumped a lot. But I was just mentioning that these women aren't invisible, they date prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 AM
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To be fair the mods here are half brain dead and pick and choose what "woe is me" means. But I think it's supposed to mean "no woe is me OR incel rhetoric", not that complaining about dating = incelish. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:28 PM
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How is that incelish lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:16 PM
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What are you yappin about kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:52 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:34 AM
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You're right, but there are women who might find you attractive who aren't going to approach. Some women are never going to do it no matter how hot they think the guy is. Typically women who approach are very high confidence and more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:35 AM
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I think using fantasy characters is really only meaningful if there's some kind of pattern. Just pointing out a hot character and going "you find them hot and they happen to be bad guys" is kind of lazy. It's not really a common male romance fantasy that they get with a woman who's a criminal. They're usually damsels in distress who can banter. A lot of romance stuff targeted towards women either involves cheating or some dark/edgy dude who's only nice to her. With that said, I think people find…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:38 AM
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This is basically what happened with me and my best female friend. Although it's difficult for me to develop strong romantic feelings, so I have that advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:21 AM
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Well you said "I've never heard a man say he prefers a certain type of vagina" and I'm saying that I've had sex with women loose enough where it was an issue. I'm not saying the tightness has to do with size, but a lot of women just blame it on arousal when I think it's more complicated than that. There's obviously something going on where tightness is affected because I've heard men talk about it before. My first girlfriend was very tight compared to some of my hookups and my 2nd girlfriend. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:31 PM
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Yeah this is basically just "hold frame" in a lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:10 PM
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I've had enough PIV sex to tell you that some women are way looser than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:34 AM
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I do fine on the apps, but yeah I'm not a top tier dude or anything, I can date multiple women at a time/get hookups. But I can usually tell when I'm directly competing with another dude and losing. She will go on dates with you to "test" you out, but she's already picked the other guy in reality. She won't really seem that interested, and might split the bill to not feel bad about the upcoming ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:21 PM
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I don't dress stylish and most women don't seem to care shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:17 PM
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No I'm definitely competing with hotter men on dating apps, it's a war zone out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:04 PM
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I'm running for president! Big dicks for big pussies, small dicks for small pussies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:21 PM
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You can't be serious with your question lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:17 PM
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That's why I say pill spaces are more misandrist than mysgonist. One side has a very low opinion of women, but all sides seem to have a very low opinion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:23 AM
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Yeah I know, it's why I got good at giving head. But as someone who has a decent body count, above average is definitely the PIV sweet spot for a lot of women. The sex where I am decent size for the woman vs when I am not is night and day, they are so much more into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:01 AM
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More women care about it than redditors claim tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:30 AM
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Yeah then Hasan definitely should have been banned a long time ago if they were consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:25 AM
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That's most marriages tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:25 AM
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You'd be better off using Hinge or Bumble since you're tall. Although all of my hookups come from really random tinder matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:19 AM
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Basically super whiney punk music, kinda mixes screamo with softer instrumentals. https://youtu.be/lMErzb5HqiM?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:10 AM
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I think it only applies to dudes, you're okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:26 AM
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Another 25 year old who loves Midwestern emo invites me over to her place for the first date. I'm definitely on guard this time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:24 AM
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Mostly because it's just the dating apps but the rejection is face to face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:25 PM
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The way to my heart is simply gracing me with your presence...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:18 AM
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Photofeeler is absolutely brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:52 AM
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They're all attractive. They just look like they'd be incredibly expensive to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:48 AM
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I keep saying this. The women here would probably deny it since they dont use the apps, but this new generation of women are turning into pump and dumpers. It's pretty funny to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:43 PM
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The ones who are actually looking for a partner and keep picking wrong definitely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:38 PM
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This has been my experience. A lot of them are not looking for a boyfriend, just affection/attention. Women on the apps act pretty similarly to the way you'd imagine a man would with so many options. Ironically, being a man looking for an actual girlfriend on the apps is way harder than if you are just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:46 PM
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It's split kinda evenly I believe. 40% clean, 30% stubble, 30% bearded. It's better to be bearded if you have no chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:39 AM
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Do they just give you a hand job or do more? I wondered why people would pay extra just for a hand job. But I'm guessing they are experts at it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:25 AM
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I think that might be happening to me. She wants to go on dates but puts 0 effort into conversations over text. But she also wants to split, so it isn't for free meals. It's strange because she's an ESL Chinese woman looking for a serious relationship. She doesn't give me the impression she's addicted to attention. At this point, I'm just playing along to figure out why she's doing this lol. The only thing I can think of is that she wants me to reject her. But maybe it's exactly what you said. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:16 AM
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Damn bro is admitting to being a pdf file...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:12 AM
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I was bullied by girls in school. I thought I was the better person for trying to ignore it, but apparently I should have grown a spine and sent them to queer street. With that said, I didn't let it affect how I view women as a whole. But maybe they would have stopped if I treated them like the boys who tried to bully me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:51 PM
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Incel is a better insult because it implies they are a virgin, which might piss them off. But that word is starting to lose all it's sting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:20 PM
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Asian people tend to hold a bit of fat in their face ive noticed. It's not necessarily a bad thing, makes them more youthful looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:25 PM
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Well "cute" Asian girls, there's a lot of Asian women I don't find attractive. Round, cute features on white, Latinas and black women are also attractive to me. The dude just has a dorky mid face. Without makeup, they'd be looksmatched though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:13 PM
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I'm the first one to simp dudes if they are attractive, but I want to say she's more attractive. Maybe I just like cute Asian girls a lot idk. I don't really see the slightly chub face as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:07 PM
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I think a big reason for that is you never really see normal feminists calling out the more deranged ones like you see men calling out red pillers. But I think that's because normal feminists usually aren't online like men are in general. Someone like that would be my sister. She has no interest in arguing with people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:33 AM
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Ugly fat women are also shooting out of their league though. Ugly people don't want to date each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:29 PM
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I think it gets a little muddy if you are friends first. This typically happens when she's either dating someone else when you meet or emotionally unavailable. But honestly there's no real way to know for sure unless she's all over you. Some women will hide it, or only give really subtle hints, some will flirt with you because they're just flirty and it means nothing. Even women I'm actively dating are all over the map. One is blowing up my phone and simping for me, but it won't let me come over…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:50 PM
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This is why I can't be a cop, I'd turn the cameraman into a pretzel then plant crack on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
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To be fair, "friends to lovers" typically only works if the woman finds you physically attractive but does not want to act on it for whatever reason. That attraction grows the more she gets to know you. If she had 0 physical attraction to you, she's going to feel disgusted/disappointed if you confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:25 PM
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I actually watched a hallmark movie and got laid the next day. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:20 PM
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I don't really understand the point of these threads. It's just going to be the more reasonable women here doing a no true Scottsman fallacy while the more deranged ones pretend they don't dehumanize men. Edit: my bad, only the men here are sexist. Beep boop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:18 PM
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I don't think most women would ever accept that as possible (it definitely is). Some women are much tighter than others in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:55 PM
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I wonder what they're going to do 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:39 PM
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Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:36 PM
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Doesn't matter to me, 4'10 to 7ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah I just let em yap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:01 PM
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The king of the plappers posts here, how dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:17 PM
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I need to do a face reveal because I feel like I'm mid and get a lot of matches. There's no way I'm a chad. Maybe the height and body halo really do be puttin in work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:33 PM
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Me and my sister live with our mom because she can't work and needs help financially. So we pay "rent". I've only been rejected for this once to my knowledge. Not sure how bad it is for other men though. It's possible the times I've been ghosted were due to that, but I typically tell them on the first date. If they want to go on a 2nd date I assume that was not the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:28 PM
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I personally get that impression when reading the popular feminist subs on reddit shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:11 PM
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I remember a tinder sub post where some dude showed his profile and said "I'm pretty mid and do well". The dude was a buff 8/10. I feel like people are terrible at judging attractiveness for men specifically. I went from struggling to go on a single date to being able to date 4+ women at once when I lost weight. People tell me "oh you're just more confident now" lmao. Like bro, my body dysmorphia is way worse now than it was back when I was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:01 PM
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The first one was kino.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:43 PM
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No one has answered the question really, so as a man who gets a lot of matches and overwhelms himself sometimes. The answer is boredom. Your free swipes come up and you want to see who likes you, that's it. You're always curious if you can find a hotter person closer to the niche you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:43 PM
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I've seen "I just want a nice/kind man" on like every single dating profile lol. That's pretty common, wouldn't call it an RP observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:41 PM
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I'm a male slut so I'll chime in. I'd say 60% of the women I've been with would not finish the blow job if it was taking longer than a minute. They'd just tell me to hit after a certain point. Kinda the same with them being on top. If it was taking longer than 1 minute, they'd switch to a position where I'd be burning most of the claories. I'm American for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:11 PM
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Because it's more about a guy protecting them from danger, it's monkey brain shit. I can tell you as a big dude, women are not as afraid of men as they let on. A lot of it is posturing online. Even female ufc fighters are going to pick men who could fuck them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:17 AM
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You mog the shit out of me and I get a lot of bumble matches. Ain't no way it's that much harder for black dudes. How often do you right swipe? Even hot dudes can't be super picky on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:19 PM
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No idea how common it is. Even if it was, I have a feeling women wouldn't talk about it due to the social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:16 PM
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A lot of men have experienced "loose vaginas". They most likely don't bring it up because they'd be accused of having a small penis. Which would still mean that some vaginas are tighter than others. It may just affect men on the average to smaller size. Same reason some women cannot enjoy big dicks no matter how wet they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:21 PM
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I don't know about other men, maybe I just have a small pp, but some of the women I've had sex with was like fucking air. I don't think it gets more incompatible than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:21 PM
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Mine always sucked, checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:11 PM
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I feel like most 30 year olds nowadays look pretty good, both men and women. Definitely more than the last gen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:08 PM
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Ignore him, you sound like a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:38 AM
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That would be 370 for me, don't think I'll ever hit that without serious gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:40 PM
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In my experience, women who like bigger muscles are more forward too. Which is a huge advantage, don't have to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:34 PM
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Congrats. It's a great feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:32 PM
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The answer is neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:27 PM
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At least the incels are self aware that they are insecure about it. "I'm not insecure about being fat or a single mom" posts hundreds of threads about the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:23 PM
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I can just look at her and tell she doesn't date anyone lower than a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:19 PM
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This lmao. Women literally have no clue how often they trauma dump on their man. Or their male best friend. Men are just way more likely to tolerate it. It's kind of built in us to comfort our girlfriends/wives. I think every single woman I've dated has trauma dumped on me by the 4th-5th date. Some did it on the 1st. It's just comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:35 PM
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Have you tried approaching hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:22 AM
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Lmao this reaction pic, stealing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:19 AM
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That feels too positive for femcel, she's basically saying there's a bunch of good men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:17 AM
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I had to Google that. So like if you were in the middle of a bank robbery you'd be super turned on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:19 PM
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You should just tell him how you feel, maybe he will turn gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:32 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:20 AM
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You really don't want to complain or "whine" at all as a man when dating. They'll do that enough for the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:37 PM
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Fair enough. I'm just thinking that if I'm going to be randomly strawmanned by a direct reply (not you, the other person), there could at least be someone in this thread with the opinion that "high income man pays for more = women is a gold digger automatically". That's such an extreme definition of the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:45 PM
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Do red pill people actually think this? Like I'm not sure who this is a gotcha toward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:32 PM
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What you're replying to is implying that there are more "average" women than average men, because men make up more of the extremes, not that average women are better than average men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:05 PM
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I think the majority of millennial men and younger couldn't give less of a shit if their girl made more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:11 PM
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No women I've dated has asked me my income. I think it's a bit overblown. But the answer to this would either be men need to get better and adapt, like what a lot of the women are saying in this post (this is pretty deranged when you think about it, expecting men to outperform the other gender in all aspects just to date is silly). Or some women need to reevaluate their toxic views of gender roles when it comes to dating. Assuming they actually want to find love and not an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:09 PM
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What would a 0/10 personality even look like. Like super boring or is just a violent piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:50 PM
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True. The people giving you advice on reddit are not the people you are trying to fuck. It's why "shirtless pics showing muscles is icky" is a common thing said on reddit, but any man will tell you how many more matches he gets once he starts showing abs. It's because the women on reddit aren't the young women you're trying to fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:23 PM
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True. It would be insane to judge someone for playing video games when you have so many posts in a sub like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:11 PM
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I can't remember the last time I saw an obese young man out with his girlfriend. It's always some miserable looking old married couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:43 PM
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Yeah most people who date participate in casual sex. Every female friend I've talked to about their dating also claimed they don't have casual sex. They defined it as "hookup only". I think this is some kind of guilt thing because casual sex = slut to a lot of people, at least subconsciously. It's why you can't really take the self reported data on this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:31 PM
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I noticed a lot of women have a weird definition of "casual sex". Which is probably where the disconnect comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:21 PM
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Oh nice a Hot Mulligan fan 🫡. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:07 PM
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shrug compliments work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:03 PM
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Anyone who has dated or worked around women can tell you they are not more mature lol. I went from a blue collar job with mostly men to an office job where most of the people there are women under 35. It feels like I'm in a CW show. It's a completely different level of immaturity than fart and your mom jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:18 PM
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If it's just one, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:47 PM
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Yeah with tutorials foreplay is incredibly easy to pick up. PIV is a bit more difficult because psychological factors can really fuck over a man. But those can fuck over an experienced man too.You also won't know what she likes the first time. There's a much higher chance of a woman rejecting you for being a virgin than her "figuring it out" after you've had sex. That's why it's not worth it, especially if you're struggling so much to get a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:42 PM
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I'm 33 almost 34. I'm currently dating a 27 year old for example. I don't really care about age and just go off attractiveness, and most of my dates are in the 27-30 range. With 22-26 and 31-34 being sprinkled in. I have not gone on a date with any woman 2+ older than me. I'll match with them sometimes, but they never stay interested enough to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:15 PM
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I date in the 22-38 range and it's kind of all the same. 30 year olds are not as mature as they pretend to be. Younger women are harder to get objectively, for the simple fact that they are looking for men maybe 2-3 years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:05 PM
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Hmm, not necessarily. I do think the way black pill people focus on it is not very useful. But I think increasing your physical attractiveness gives you a better boost than trying to change your personality. I think changing your core personality is very difficult. Making little changes in your demeanor can work, but keeping that up may be exhausting. I don't find that people's personalities are "bad", it's just a compatibility issue a lot of the time. Shy autistic men have a very small dating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:39 PM
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While I agree for the most part, there are people who are so hot that this would never apply to them. Anything they'd do would either be mysterious or charming. At some point your lethal face card is your "good personality". It's the same with someone who is truly ugly. They will be perceived as having a bad demeanor. This is very rare though. A lot of the time when people say "I have an ugly friend who is super confident blah blah", their friend isn't actually ugly. Maybe average or slightly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:17 PM
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This is also my take. I just think a lot of the women who post here don't realize they aren't much different than the red pill dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:42 PM
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Of course lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:17 PM
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Yeah they most likely would. No point in casual if you know it'll be bad. But you're not going to be ever seeing them again, so whatever. I personally lost my virginity in a casual situation. Although it was never brought up, so not a lie necessarily. In my experience, casual sex is bad like 50% of the time. People who do it know it comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:35 AM
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I think your logic makes sense if the virgin really likes the woman tbh. She'll be more forgiving if the sex is bad/awkward. But it's a risk either way. If it's a casual hookup kinda thing, there's no point telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:20 AM
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They probably overlap, but most men would just tell you to lie about being a virgin and wouldn't care too much about body count unless it was some insane number. Red pill men probably assume she's going to lie about the number if it's high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 AM
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Well at least not to the level some of these guys do. I'll admit I chuckle at the 19-21 BMI meme sometimes. It's strange though, because women will be mean online about certain things like height, income, if the man wants to split on the first date, etc. But I've personally never been asked my income when dating. Being fat/obese seems to be one of the biggest issues a man can have when trying to date, but a lot of women won't even mention it in their list of requirements. I've seen it before but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:51 PM
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I think you're really underestimating how much women (yes even the fat ones) do not want to date fat dudes. They just aren't mean about it online like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:41 PM
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I've been ghosted after the 10th date for seemingly no reason. It's best not to analyze it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:34 PM
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I love the topics where tradcons and radfems are working together to look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:21 PM
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I honestly think a lot of it is lashing out for shitting on short men and incels/virgins. A lot of the women who post on reddit are most likely fat, so they are just trying to hit them where they think it hurts. Although if you just mean in general and not these spaces specifically, I think being mean to fat people isn't completely taboo yet. One of the few groups you can openly shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:09 PM
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That's a banger, let it rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:45 AM
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Was about to say the same shit LOL. They agreed with the title and now are going around accusing others of not reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:25 AM
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I'll find a cutie pie gf once I get on tren, I just know it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:07 AM
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This is true in my experience. My male friends will typically say "I banged her" or "we gave each other head" but that's typically the extent of it. If they talk about it at all. My female friends go into insane detail. I know the exact dick size of all of their boyfriends. What they do in bed, their boyfriend's insecurities, etc. I know a lot of men scoff at the idea, but it's fun being one the girls. You get a lot of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:59 PM
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I'm high at work and I still don't know what he's getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:27 PM
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Basically everything stated in this thread is what also happens to men after they start getting matches. At least the ones genuinely looking for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:12 PM
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This is interesting because I tend to be more passive and was getting shit after the 1st/2nd date for not making any moves. So I changed my strategy up. It does feel like most women want you to go for something on the 2nd date, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:51 PM
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A good example of this is Isreal vs Palestine. Some of my younger female friends are becoming borderline anti Semitic because of the conflict. To the point where they are pro hamas and pro "Israel getting wiped out". It's getting difficult to distinguish their talking points vs a typical /pol user from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:56 PM
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Yes, I went from one match a week to being able to date 4-5 women at once. But I'm also 6'5. Irl attention? I get complimented a little more but no women has ever approached me directly. A couple of cold approaches worked after getting jacked though. I noticed a huge difference once my arms actually looked big for my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:45 PM
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I would never do that to my baby, that's emotional labor. She isn't my therapist...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:31 PM
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While I agree, you might as well tell people not to use virgin as an insult. We are always going to happily shame each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:08 PM
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Tinder is definitely rigged. The amount of matches you get with platnium vs no sub is crazy. They aren't showing your profile to anyone when you're free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:06 PM
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I think anyone who uses dating apps for an extended period of time trying to find a partner is going to at least have bitter thoughts about the other gender. There are so many flakes, ghosters, people dating in bad faith, just looking for a fuck (yes women are doing this too). There's no rules anymore, you can be randomly ghosted after the 10th date. It's absolutely ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:45 PM
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You're gay dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:36 PM
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So basically most of the women who post on AITAH?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:17 AM
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That I'm the hottest man alive. I'd never have to work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:15 AM
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You also get banned pretty easily. Two reports and you're done, they don't even review what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah I think people are greatly underestimating the paradox of choice that the internet has created. It's happening to me. I'm dating a woman who I think is great, then I match with someone who checks all my boxes a little better. It's mental illness innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:56 PM
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DMV is where the shooters shoot 🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:12 PM
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That's fair, I was bicurious in college and may have added to that commitment complaint. But I'm just basing this off my own experiences dating both. I may be too confident in my ability to attract femboys now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:47 PM
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I'd be a very tall, masculine top. My comments after the first take are mostly facetious, but I base it off my experience being bicurious in college (when I looked much worse) vs my experience dating straight women in general. Not to mention every bi person I've ever talked to has agreed that men are easier to date. Honestly if you have a bunch of options and you cannot find a bf/gf, you are most likely too picky. It's easy to blame the other gender when you are picking the same "type" over and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:40 PM
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Nope, boyfriend. I'd be the most "in demand" type of gay dude, which helps. Men are also just easier to date in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:07 PM
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I've heard "incel" used quite a bit irl. It's sort of becoming the new virgin insult for zoomers and gen alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:12 PM
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Nah let's go on TwoX and try to match their sexism. I'm sure we will look heroic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:09 PM
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Lesbians probably have it harder due to their tiny population on top of having the same issues straight men deal with. The gay men in here are capping though. I could switch to gay tinder and have a boyfriend in a couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:46 PM
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This is correct. If you have a lot of options, you have plenty of romantic options, you just don't like them. Men with options also go through this, I do. I know I have super high standards, probably unreasonable. It is what it is. Just have some self-awareness and be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:32 PM
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All of the counter arguments are basically "stop whining". Truly the juggernauts of debate reside here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:23 PM
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There's no point bringing the race parallel to this discussion to show that it's bigotry, I have never seen anyone here engage that argument in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:57 PM
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This post was made by PPDs heroic sperm donor. May god shine your true path.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:43 AM
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I blame the way it's designed. It's literally a "last word" button to anyone reading the argument. Everyone reading the argument just assumes the blockee gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:49 PM
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Most successful black pillers are just men who had a glow up and found out personality didn't have much to do with it. Personally I think dating apps are black pill. But irl is a lot more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:30 PM
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The women who post here are so much different than the women I know irl. It's like stepping into an alternate reality when lurking here. Although I guess that's true for the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:07 PM
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I definitely do. I typically will go down on a woman pretty early while dating them to see how sensitive they are. My very first girlfriend would take 30 mins to cum no matter what I did, I am never doing that shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:07 AM
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What's your take on Madison Beer, I am assuming it is reasonable like all your other's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:35 PM
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I thought this was red pill. Don't you guys talk about waking up from the matrix or whatever. Black pill is like "my facial harmony is 30%, it's over" They are way funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:32 PM
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Feminists say this? I feel like a feminist would argue that dating is harder for women because of the incredibly low chance that they will be killed at Arby's on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:03 PM
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Most of my female friends can get in a relationship with a good dude very easily. At the end of the day it does seem to be a skill issue if you have all these options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:50 PM
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You're probably one of the few posters who actually has empathy for the other gender. And that one communist guy. The majority of the people who post here are absolutely delusional if they think they come across as empathetic with their post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:34 PM
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That user is a troll. Look at her post history, she changes her stance every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:36 PM
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I do, works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:19 PM
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Idk a lot of the women who post here say some pretty crazy shit and I wouldn't be surprised if they had a 40 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:16 PM
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It's probably true as a general rule. But since I've started dating again, I've dated/hooked up with: 30, 25, 23, 29 (currently dating), 23 (talking to), 24 (new girl at work). I'm 33. If I'm at clubs/bars instead of apps, it's usually all 22-28. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:03 PM
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I'm sure the 35+ year old married people who post here will go into detail how great dating is right now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:27 PM
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All the women I date tend to make more than me, how much that bothers them idk. But redpill would probably argue my physicals make up for it or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:25 PM
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This is so true lol. "x is this way, and we should change it" "Yean but you guys say Y" I don't know if it's bad reading comprehension or if they are just being bad faith. But it's every single thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:54 PM
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Blackpill lite is probably the most accurate thing for most aspects of life. Most people irl are blackpill-lite without realizing it. We are obsessed with our looks and think it affects every aspect of our lives (it does, being extremely hot is life on easy mode). It's just for whatever reason, we reject this pretty hard when it comes to heterosexual male dating. Women are pretty blackpill when it comes to their dating struggles, if you ever actually listen to them. With that said, full-on black…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:52 PM
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I see it all the time at the gym honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:19 PM
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In my experience, all of my searches for an LTR using the apps end up in casual sex on the 1st-3rd date. And when I just want causal sex (very rare), I basically act the same way. I show off my sense of humor, ask them out, and then I'm flirty on the first date instead of making it a job interview. So to me there's not much difference. I think a lot of the complaints in this sub are more "I can't get a single women to go on a date with me". These men are touch deprived so it's going to seem like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:58 PM
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I think more Gen Z women would respond favorably to your opener than the "beautiful vixen, you hath put a spell on me!" type opener that the other guy was suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:29 AM
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Yeah I'm not really sure I understand the arguments being made here by the other posters. Are we saying that men attempting to go for younger women is creepy/pathetic? Unless they are clearly a teenager, how would you even know a woman is 23 vs 28 when approaching them irl. And if it's the apps, they are both consenting to match. So I don't understand what the problem is. I feel like both sides who post here are very bitter and just like to call 30 year olds of the other gender ugly/old looking.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:13 AM
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This is more just commenting on how ugly he is, not the age gap lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:10 AM
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A lot of women here disagree apparently lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:05 AM
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Most SAHD I know have said it's piss easy. They just want to be out and about working, making money. I think a lot of it is neurosis. Men tend to have lower standards when it comes to housekeeping. Not to say women don't work hard to keep the house in order, I just know from my married friends that sometimes they care a little too much about the "upkeep".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:06 PM
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There's definitely a heavy implication. I don't expect anything when invited back, but I go for it because I know that's what she wants me to do 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:15 PM
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Honestly if a woman wants to go on a 2nd date, she's at least somewhat interested. It's why I don't take it personally if it doesn't happen on the first date. Some people also just take a bit to warm up, even with physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:10 PM
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I think advice women give is useful when you're in the later stages of dating. It's not that great for actually getting your foot in the door. They can also give good advice for dating profiles, but only listen to youngish women irl (20-35). Do not take Tinder profile advice from women on reddit (no offense). Otherwise every picture will be you cheesing in some goofy pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:03 AM
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The fact that she's not banned is kind of funny. She has 5000+ comments and it's all just bullying. She says something mean (it's always lame as fuck too) then a cringe or skull emoji. What a fucking loser lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:42 AM
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I think they hamster it by defining "casual sex" as "we hooked up the moment we met." As long as you go on one date it's not casual sex if you fuck afterwards. Obviously this is just goofy logic, but it's a way to feel like you're not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:59 PM
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Women think I'm a slut because I go to the gym a lot. I feel like neurosis is the number #1 enemy of men when it comes to women. That could be her neurosis or the man's. It's an attraction killer both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:51 PM
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Yeah the apps are really rough. I was blessed with height so I get a decent amount of matches, but honestly the women on there are barely interested, or want to fuck and ghost like they're men lol. It does feel like as men, we either take every single opportunity we can get just to have our feelings hurt, or get lucky eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:26 PM
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She's good friends with her imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:39 AM
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It was also just piss easy to get hookups on the apps back when they first came out. Wish some of yall zoomers could have experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:06 AM
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These responses have basically proven to me that this subreddit is a psyop to turn men blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:27 PM
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The vascularity doesn't matter as much, but a lot of women definitely like dudes being brawny, which you do need muscle mass for. Doesn't have to be a lot, maybe a couple of bulk/cut cycles. I do think muscles help shorter dudes as long as it's not overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:42 PM
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Putting on muscle worked for me, but I used to be obese and I'm tall, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:57 PM
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Don't twinks have to at least be cute to be considered twinks. What does an ugly twink even look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:29 AM
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To be fair chronically online women who complain about this are much different than most of the women you encounter irl. Not to say you won't be harshly rejected if they find you unattractive, but they aren't going to scream for help or call the cops lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:10 PM
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As a dude with experience in first date hookups, some women think they're being obvious when they are not. Some women literally throw up the bat signal that it's time for you to do something. I'm really thankful for the latter because I'm pretty neurotic about making a move haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:46 PM
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Same. If I think she wants to have sex on the first date, I need to take a 5mg weed gummy. I know if I say no and explain that it takes me a little bit to get comfortable, it's over after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:29 PM
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I think for dudes who like big boobs it tends to just be a "bonus" too. Like they're not going to automatically reject the gal for having smaller boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:06 PM
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Eh a lot of them really are sweet girls. Like what the weirdo that replied to me earlier said, they tend to have daddy issues. I always date them in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:27 PM
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Yeah you definitely don't come across mentally ill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:51 PM
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That's no joke. It's hard to explain to women since they are used to it, and men who have never experienced it, but a woman who's really into you since the moment you talk/meet....man, there is no better feeling. Not to mention, the sex is crazy. You do anything and they are losing their minds. It's hard to go back to women who seem half interested/bored after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:18 AM
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The date I had on Sunday, she grabbed my hand and said "you're so cute and polite, the bar really is on the floor, why can't all men be like you." I'm 6'5 225 pounds of muscle lmao. I thought it was a strange thing to say, but I can't be mad, one of the hottest first dates I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:11 AM
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To be fair, mentally ill alt women are the only ones who find me really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:02 AM
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At my office job (I'm gay)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:59 AM
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They're basically the same thing for me in terms of results. Can get the first date or hookup, but it fizzles out real quick. My only LTRs is when I told a friend I liked them. So twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:10 AM
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This is actually true to an extent. As a tall dude you will get more matches/dates, but a lot of these women are paying to filter out anyone under 6'2. They are fairly shallow and ghost super often. It's kind of bad faith in a way. Like "okay let me look for my next lumbering giant to flirt with" type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:24 AM
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Maybe I'm just king mogger, but the 30 year olds I pull on bumble are absolute hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:53 AM
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Oh God no, I'm too shy. They are the only way I can get some ass nowadays 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:22 PM
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It's gotten much easier for me, but I was fat as shit in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:05 PM
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Less, more isolated, more brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:39 AM
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Yeah basically. Problem with those studies is that this would always be the result if both straight women and other straight men underrated men. All the men would have to do is have healthy self-worth/confidence. If you threw gay men into the mix, you may find that straight men are underrating themselves. Like most women would probably rate me a 4-5 because I'm a ginger blonde. But the second they find out I'm 6'5 with muscle, I'm a 7 or "yes" in girl rating. So these studies are kind of dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:31 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:13 AM
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If they are strangers, no. Not really his/her problem. I might just be saying that to justify fucking the new girl at work though. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:37 AM
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I'd say 90% of my matches are 24-33, as a 33 year old man. 10% are 33-40. My age range is 24-55, and I don't think I've ever matched with a woman over 40. I think older women generally find it weird if the guy is much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:57 PM
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This is very true if you've ever dated a high-maintenance person and then a low-maintenance person. So much of it is just neurosis. Controlling men tend to be more neurotic than their partner, too. Women can definitely get away with it more often, but it puts such a heavy strain on the relationship either way. The hardest part is getting the neurotic person to recognize that's what they're doing. They will always paint the other person as lazy/uncaring/aloof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:41 AM
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A random man in the forest is going to be a hiker who either doesn't give a fuck about you or would help you, if anything. You're taking the hypothetical in bad faith. "I will avoid the far away bear, while the man in the forest is a deranged rapist who is going to chase after me". All things equal, the random bear is objectively more dangerous than the random man. People who think otherwise are either brainrotted or have a very poor understanding of base rate/per capita statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:17 AM
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If you encountered random adult bears as often as you encountered random adult men, in the close vicinity that you do, you'd be dead already. Also just the idea that every man will bother you while every bear will leave you alone is such a stupid fucking argument in itself. You have like 1000+ comments in a debate sub, and this is the argument you come up with. That is genuinely hilarious. Wait let me guess. You're some rugged wilderness gal who has befriended thousands of grizzly bears, while h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:01 AM
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"Holy shit my gender is cooked" - my sister, after reading the man or bear stuff. I knew gender discourse was full of r words, but I think this topic really showcases that people use zero critical thinking skills when developing their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:51 AM
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Red pill is actually right-wing conspiracy theories on 4chan after the first Matrix movie came out. I have no idea when it turned into just about dating lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:27 PM
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