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I will say this your focus is on having a girlfriend. What you need to do is focus on you and your life goals. If you do not know what you want to do then figure that out. Women are a great accessory to your life but they should not be the focus of your life.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 03:53 PM
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The thing is you should not be improving your life for others. The whole point of red pill is you are responsible for everything in your life. Women are what they are, and they can be a lot of fun to have in your life. But you must be focused on yourself and your own life’s goals. You live a fun life then people around you see your enjoying yourself and they want to join you on that journey. Women will come, but they are not the end goal.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 08:40 PM
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Fairly good breakdown. But “stupid” hobbies have their place. If it is enjoyment. The issue becomes when those stupid hobbies become the life’s focus. An alpha or really any man who is living their life to the fullest will have a passion for their life’s goal and that will drive them. It will make them reach inside themselves to be the truest they can be to themselves. If they decide to relax at times with an anime that has a great story fine, if they decide to play a game with friends. Cool. If…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/23 03:52 PM
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Well your examples have absolutely nothing to do with the topic. Those are you failing to communicate properly. Women ride the emotional rollercoaster. They enjoy the highs and lows. But they also crave the stability that a man can offer. None of the examples, and especially that second example have you offering stability or one of the emotional highs. Frankly your message was creepy and it triggered in her a I need to avoid this person and warn others about it. Unlike what someone else said her…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 06:06 PM
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Self-Belief and to take action. If you believe in yourself but never take the action nothing will happen.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 06:31 PM
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It boils down to I can't get laid because I don't believe I can. It is possible you just have to change your mindset and your actions.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 02:02 PM
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That’s the thing with a lot of Reddit things you can either have well thought out discussions which a word or two upsets people and they automatically downvote or you have legitimately bad comments that people down vote. In the end internet fame points don’t matter as long as a good discussion can be had.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 12:59 AM
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For people who legitimately suffer from the gender dysphoria yes, but for the people who require others to validate themselves then no they want people to validate them and will attack people who do not. That is where the term transphobia came from. Them trying to shame others into feeding into their delusions. Because they are not satisfied with themselves. Because they need external validation.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 03:25 PM
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By engaging in conversations with people like you who show me there are idiots in every group. Now drop your pants so I can prove how hetro I am because I “need” your approval to know my sexual orientation.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 03:09 PM
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Do you need someone to tell you what you are? Do you need someone to walk up to you and say, “you look like a man” to know your a man? I am me. I will be me for my entire life. I know who I am, and while my beliefs may shift with time and new information who I am and my value as myself will not waiver. Self esteem is not a myth it is how we view ourselves. I do not need someone to tell me I am good or bad, though having someone reaffirm what I know feels good in the short term, and having someon…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 02:48 PM
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A few videos I have seen actually explain the vast majority of transgenderism. It is people who have low self esteem, who need outside validation of who they are. Then when they are given a positive response they embrace it entirely. This explains why they “need” to have their pronouns respected even as they force you to accept the labels they put on you, without consent.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 02:19 PM
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People watching is always a good way to see. There is nothing wrong with just being there listening to the conversation learning more about how people respond.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 08:39 PM
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So your issue is from what you said “low energy and do not feel like you being anything to the conversation.” That is the crux of your issue. You have your own experiences. They may not line up with that of those your talking to but use your own experience to add value to the conversation. Do not go into the conversation looking for someone’s validation. While I’m the conversation learn about what they are talking about, their experiences related to that. Then when you have something to add add …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 05:41 PM
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well then don't be interested in them, be interested in your own goals. life is not all about sex and interacting with women. it is about following your own goals and dreams. if they include sex or a family then you will have to find a reason to be interested at least partially. but do not put sex and family as your primary life goals. have something for you to pursue.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 07:33 PM
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This is so true. I love the women in my life, my partners, my friends and those I meet. I do not expect them to be anything other than what they are. I aim for in my own life to improve myself and encourage others around me to improve themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 08:56 PM
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That is because the blue pill as comfort and complacency. It is something that we want because it subconsciously reminds us of the past when we were kids and didn't have to take on the world all by ourselves. the red pill is about seeing the world as it is and then living in that world. You will relapse and you will break frame occasionally but when you do focus back onto yourself. If your partner leaves because of the break of frame that is unfortunate, but you were you before her and you will …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 07:31 PM
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One thing you seem to miss understand is that red pill does not mean that you cannot love someone. We can love women; we just can't expect to have them love us in the same way. Theirs is a love of convivence. ours tends to be all consuming and that is why it is so hard for us when their love runs out. You also can stick with one woman, that is the hard mode of redpill. You are in control of yourself. You decide what you will do. You decide what you will not do. The issues with marriage for men i…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 07:16 PM
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In relationship to drawing a woman's interests focusing on yourself and living your best quality life is important. It shows that you are not going to be sidetracked from your goals. You are doing what you enjoy and having a good time, and they want to be part of the fun. Going after your goals will also put you in a position where you can reach them and continually improve your own life. Make time to have fun with the people around you but do not do it at the expense of your passions and life g…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 02:05 PM
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This really is a law of life. People never see the work that the people who are truly successful put in to get there. At most they hear them talk about stories of them working towards their success. but those are snippets of what they went through. ultimately people just want to see the end result without the effort put in getting that end result.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 06:48 PM
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So I use pickup lines as jokes. But the way I interact with people in general is, I am there for my own entertainment, my own amusement. I hope that they have as much fun as I do, but if not their loss. This mindset changes it from you trying to get something from them to they are getting something from you. This will not stop you from doing or saying something cringe, but it will move you more towards outcome independence. When talking your passions shine. So use that to your advantage. people …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 09:47 PM
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additionally you can figure out a way to make a new position in the company and move up making our own path forward.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 11:25 PM
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the first one is because of the corrupt officials reallocating funds. Take a look at the post office. That governemnt service is the only one that i know of that actually did create a surplus of cash, and that surplus was placed in an account for the retirement of post office employees. then some legislators saw the account as being fat and decided to move those funds to their own pet projects. This caused the psot office to look like it was a money sink when it was not. The government does crea…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:00 PM
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Im not quite sure what it is other than an effect of collectivism and people buying into an ideology so much where anywone who is not part of the in-group is an outsider and an enemy. Especialy that if presented with an idea that challenges thier views and they have no real argument against that idea.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:47 PM
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unfortuantely yes it is. The reason why is because having the vile hate aired out lessens it and it can be used to show people why those are bad ideas, why they do not have merit. if you keep that those voices silenced in public then you will have no counter argument when they spread their nasty views to others. the freedom of speach is there not for the things we agree with but for the things we do not in any way agree with. Kind of like while I find antifa and their ilk absolutely disgusting I…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:44 PM
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i do not understand how you can run a government off of zero taxes. I know I dislike them just as much as most other people, and i know that the corrupt polititcans in the governemnt missmanage a whole lot of the taxes, but without income you can not do anything you mentioned afterwords. The healthcare system needs a revamping, but htat needs be done at both the healthcare industry side and the pharmacutical industries side, not the insurance side, considering teh insurance does not set prices, …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:38 PM
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very good point except while Trump and those who are his advocates are not actively pushing for athoritarian policies that is because before they can do that they need to get the discussion back to the center as you said. but once it has been reset to the center then you will have people on the right pushing farther and father right till they start becoming the authoritatrain threat that needs to be addressed.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:29 PM
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also true that you don't have to choose sides, but just by opposing one of the groups you are placed and labeled by the other group as their opposite.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:17 PM
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well forthe most part it is part of the regressive left that started this and recently the alt right in response, by utilizing ingroup and out group mentality they are pushing for hating one group because it is not part of their group. even in those groups the majority do not hate someone of another ethnic group except when they are whipped up into a racially charged frenzy. This whipping of people has been happening majorly in the USA since just after both the left and the right came together t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:03 PM
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I am not sure. Catching the pokemon is like in the safarri zone, you just throw pokeballs at them till you catch them or they run away. The Gym battles seem odd, you swip left and right to dodge and then tap the screen to do an attack. (each pokemon only has 2 attacks randomly assigned.)
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:26 PM
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the original pokemon games were you playing as a kid who received a caught animal (pokemon) and goes on a quest to capture all the other types of pokemon in the game, while also competing against other npc's in pokemon battles. The main games have always been on the nintendo handhelds, except the spin off games. Pokemon go takes a similar formula to the original game, where you are a person getting your first pokemon and then wandering around using the phones gps to find the pokemon. There are p…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 09:38 PM
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the information is there, but we live in a society that trys to train people from a young age to at best ignore the hammer, and at worst to illogically hate the hammer and the people who use the hammer.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:01 PM
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Because even if it is conflicting, both have their places. All of us have hypicritical thoughts and or actions. there are good and successful ways to lead while being stern and perceived as mean. Then there are successful ways to lead while being perceived as nicer, you do not have to be lax to be nice. you can be just as strict.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 10:57 PM
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Well you hit one thing right on the head, -The only way to find any actual happiness and contentedness in this world is to be able to find that in yourself, not relying on any woman, person, drug, or anything else for any sort of validation or happinessThe only way to find any actual happiness and contentedness in this world is to be able to find that in yourself, not relying on any woman, person, drug, or anything else for any sort of validation or happiness. Once you have become someone that i…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:30 AM
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that is true of almost all people, because everyone has had differing experiences. I may agree with some of his main points and then disagree with many of his smaller side points. there is very few people who can find other people that share their opinions exactly. And frankly that would be horrible if they did, because then there would only be echo chambers with people never growing only echoing the old ideas and opinions over and over again. By engaging in discussions with people with differin…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:08 PM
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The left and the right are both important. Both have some good and bad ideas and policies. The right has focused on keeping things as they are, and any risky actions are done by the individuals. The left has focused on improving everyone life, and their risky actions are done by the government/ collective. often times, especially recently we have been pushed into the idea of it is one or the other. That the other side is the enemy. Employers and Employees are both important, same thing with supp…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:05 AM
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from what i have read, it all started when western cultures like the British empire came in and looked at the land where there were roaming tribes of people with different beliefs that hated each other, and decided it would be a good idea to split that land up in such a way that parts of one roaming group were in a country where another roaming group was. That started the problems that have be encouraged by multiple groups. who are utilizing the middle east as a way to push their goals.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:25 AM
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This on anger and violence is very true, those who do not allow it out, deny it exists say it is something that can be done away with are the same ones who are the most violent at protests. By denying a part of yourself you you are condensing it and making it into a time bomb that is counting down.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:48 PM
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oh yeah i remember that story, and then they to appease someone (don't remember who) they took two survivors from the men's location to the women's location and two other survivors back to the men's island. in the first transplant, the two men were thrilled to go to the women's island and ended up being treated as mules having to re-due everything they did on their island, and the two women who went to the men's island got attention from them men, while the men still worked an d none of the wome…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 05:17 AM
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Something I learned a long time ago, if someone is not ready for something then any attempt at showing them that thing will end with either just failure, or even damaging their perception of something so when they would have possibly be ready they will still not accept the thing. This sub looks bad to a lot of guys because they are not ready for the information. Then there are the people who either purposefully or blindly following aim to remove any idea that conflicts or looks different then th…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 08:41 AM
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There is a lot about depression that I personally do not know, but I do know that it is one of the things the body does when you are in a situation that is not good for you. So if you do something to improve that situation then it might cure someone of depression. But depression has been something increasing in America for years now, and in my opinion a lot of it could be cure by those people getting out of the situation that they are in, and improving themselves, and their situation in life.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:21 PM
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One thing I see a lot of people doing is looking at happiness as the goal, so when they reach the goal they feel a brief bit of happiness before getting a new goal and then losing the happy feeling they had. I like the idea of having the happiness join me on the journey to my goal.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:21 AM
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Well, look at men before they take the red pill, take a look at male feminists, they rationalize their beliefs so as to what general society says is true (the one that failed feminism's shit test.) and you will see a lot of rationalization. This is not something that is completely removed when you take the red pill either, if you procrastinate, you are rationalizing the enjoyment of the here and now, versus the satisfaction and enjoyment of the future.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:06 AM
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Modesty is one of the virtues he had, and excess of it was called shyness, and a deficiency in is was shamelessness. The Pride that he talks about as a virtue, is something along the lines of a person makes a good quality table, then he is proud/ prideful of his accomplishments. The Heroes of Greek stories most often took the virtues to the excess, but because they were stories those virtues either allowed them to win or their vices gave them a way to fail.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 12:16 AM
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http://www.cwu.edu/~warren/Unit1/aristotles_virtues_and_vices.htm this is a list of the virtues and vices. you can see, every virtue has a vice (deficiency) and an excess. courage , lacking courage is cowardice, and an excess of courage is rashness. looking at pride and proper ambition, you have lacking is undue humility and unambitious, the the excess is ambition and empty vanity. So yes pride is a virtue in the manner we are talking about. In his writings virtues we something to desire. So it …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:57 AM
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When Aristotle was talking about virtues and vices, he talked about how to much of a virtue can be a detriment as well. So Virtues are good things in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 03:12 AM
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no what i think most of the down votes are for, is because you think that the basis of feminism is equality. Equality is good as long as everyone that is equal has the same rights and responsibility. If someone has less responsibility then they should have less rights. That way those who contribute more to the well being of society get more influence in how it runs. I would suggest you look at some videos from the you tube video blogger Girl writes what. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eqYEVYZg…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:34 PM
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That was a very interesting thought process. Thank you for posting it, it will give me a few more things to think about.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:05 AM
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but how can they sit on your face if you are standing up for them?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:17 PM
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one more thing to think about in this form, there are a lot of people who are just finding it and still thinking in both worlds so to speak, so they will get behind and push the demonizing of friendzoning as quickly as possible because it still lines up with their views as they are being introduced and learning about reality.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:09 PM
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Hey hitting your girlfriend is just stupid, that is like keying your own car. -some comdian i don't remember
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:44 AM
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Well, I think this is a good reason to invest in a personal camera to record all you classes. that way you will have physical proof in the future in-case someone else tries something like again but no one in the class is recording it, or does as she asks and deletes their copy. if you are doing nothing wrong, it never hurts to have video evidence.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 01:21 PM
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A great though i had, most people chase a goal, and the achievement of that goal is what brings them happiness. But people need a goal to move towards otherwise they get stagnate, so they then get a new goal and the happiness is pushed to that goal, so they never get lasting happiness, only fleeting. The way I have been doing things is I focus on my happiness and let it join me on the journey so I am more of it in my life.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 04:33 AM
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it really depends on how the PUA is, there are those who jsut do it to get laid, (those are the ones that stay at the per-rehearsed stage) those who are just wanting to find a way to understand/ interact with women that they are interested in, and their previous attempts failed. Then there are the ones who find information in it and internalize it then move on with their lives not letting it become their entire being. With a lot of things, balance an moderation are key. But that is where a lot o…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:34 PM
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that make a lot of sense, though there may be a slight difference, in that a girl in the "slutzone" so to speak may still have orbiters that provide to the "slut" the things the man using her does not. while in the "friendzone" for most men that do not have a fall back to provide the other half of the relationship. but yeah they are both parasitic relationships, though it is interesting that feminists both shame sluts and encourage sluts depending on the context.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:06 AM
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I do think that insurance as it is now, is something that should not exist, insurance was created to cover big expenses like surgeries, not general doctors visits. As for homeless, i do believe that there are a lot of them out there that would work if given the right opportunities, but there are also a lot that will not do more then begging to get money. I think doing like the did during my parents time, where they created homeless farms, (not someplace where you go to pick homeless, but where t…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:33 AM
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no I said that there was a lot of different reasons why the health care in America cost so much. One of the reasons why is cost so much is the size of the country. What I disagree with is that you said healthcare is a right, it is not and should not be the government responsibility to govern my health, government agencies like the FDA passes drugs that have really bad side effects and ban natural remedies that cure the same thing as the drugs, but without the side effects. so some of the reasons…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:02 PM
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there was a very good video explaining a few reasons why medical costs are so high in America. (can't find the original video but found a few other links talking about how large social medicine is not good for a country. this is especially true for a country as corrupt as America.) http://www.nationalmemo.com/the-health-care-market-cannot-be-left-to-its-own-devices/ this article talks about how the healthcare industry makes its money and how with or without obama care it will still be making thi…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:05 PM
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yeah, I did not say that that brief span was worth it, I know for a fact cause i did fall prey to the friend zone that in that way when I was younger and it ended pretty badly. that was when i first got a glimpse of the red pill ideas, (in pua specifically) then she tried to befriend me again after everything was said and done, I went to give her a hello hug, she said something about it and I just looked at her like excuse me what are you doing. Then ignored her while we hung out at our mutual f…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:47 AM
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I think i prefer the term i heard about what is happening, not the chickification of our society, but The sissification of our society. but yeah even before i found out about the Red pill subreddit, i knew this in particular was happening.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:52 AM
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I notice a lot of times depression (if it is not caused by a side effect of a drug) is your body and minds way of saying the situation you are in is not something you should be in so find your way out. So you have almost no motivation, focus on what little you have and push on it. add a little more to it and keep building on what you have, your beliefs do make you who you are, so it would also be a good idea to examine your beliefs and see what ones you truly believe and what ones you just picke…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:46 AM
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I remember that video, Though i think that most of the time a girl and a guy can not be just friends, there may be a period of time where they can be just friends, but eventually one or both of them will become attracted to the other. at that point it then becomes friend zoning for the one that is attracted if the other is not interested, but they still want the benefits of the friendship. i think most of the time it is the guys that get the crush and then get friend zoned.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:36 AM
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i am new to this sub, looking at the articles they post because they are interesting, and while I'm betting a lot of people who came here originally to get game to pick up get girls, the basis of this sub-Reddit is to improve your self and once you have, and stopped doing the bad habits that are hindering your interactions with females, then you will find yourself attracting what you wanted in the first place, along with a better self esteem, and out look on life, because you will find that bein…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 08:35 AM
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thank you for it is surprisingly annoying how people say feminism is for equality of all, when the core of the word is female superiority. equality for every person is not feminism, it is equality, or a person would be an equalist. But a lot of females also seem to try and use feminism to gain special treatment, getting equally to a man, but then use their gender to gain special treatment. So this article while interesting is still perverting the meaning of the root of the word.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:30 AM
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