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gweneverexoxo/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 01:13 AM
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gweneverexoxo/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:10 AM
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marrying your first is a foolish choice. i remeber the big difference with my mentality between by first and my second girlfriend. you just start to not give a damn anymore and you wont have as much oneitis. also from the way you are talking about her, you seem to be thinking that she is the one and only girl out there for you and that mindset is gonna be your downfall. keep believing that she is a unicorn and not maintaining you smv and dreadgame is gonna make her branch swing/ get tired of you…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:11 AM
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your approach was wrong. ultimately when your ltr openly invites ex bf into your home, the relationship is already over. if she didnt cheat on you yet, shes planning on it. also, as an alpha you never need to check her phone. you should always be expecting awalt an hypergamy. shell branch swing the second you show beta traits such as checking her phone messages and cyber stalking her. the only proper way to prevebt branch swinging is if you maintain/improve your smv (also inviting you gf to help…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:42 AM
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yup this is true. also something else to note is that people can sense social status the same way. you know how you can walk into an office where everyone dresses the same way (suits and tie) yet still be able to tell instantly who is the boss there? this is because of his posture and way of talking that gives it away.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:39 AM
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dude. do it. part of the fun of swallowing the red pill is learning to do what you want. send him the message. be evil once in a while :D
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:24 AM
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hey there. i know this is a rather old post/topic. but what i noticed from all the replies missed is that: wording matters. for example, you can ask for your partners opinion with different wording and word choices and it will have different meanings. such as: ive never been to this restaurant before, i dunno whats good. why dont you pick for me? i trust u ;D vs hey, which dish should i pick from this menu? the two do seem very similar but they are different. and its these subtleties that i thin…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 08:27 AM
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ehh this is rather silly. we should not look for.virginity as in she never had vaginal sex, but rather virginity as in she never had sex.ever. would you still call a girl a virgin.if.she had anal sex with 100+ guys? no. shes an anal whore regardless of her "virginity"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 07:53 AM
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nice! very evil too. i like it. :D
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:53 AM
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never whine to gf. hell, dont even let her know you have something wrong with you. never show weakness. youll just be pushing her to branch swing. on a side note, maybe is food alergies? this may be off the mark, but try a 2 month long diet removing the common alergy foods: dairy products/wheats/nuts etc. if you see ibs lowering, then cobtinue it another 2 months. alot of people dont know thy have an alergy because its not an obvious symptom. i used to on occation get massive stomach problems ev…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 02:01 AM
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well put. a hundred times this. the red pill path is not easy to walk. you will come to learn many harsh truths. one of which is that a real man doesnt have any body to rely on. much less rely on women.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 09:38 AM
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lol "good relationship is based on being able to give what is difficult to give" when sex becomes a difficult thing to give to your husband that relationship is already over. that prooves that he is unattractive to you. not to mention men experience love through sex, in a relationship without sex the men would.only feel used and unloved. deny sex at your own risk.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 02:50 AM
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dont give up. i think you are still in the beginning phases. when you realize how the world works and are crushed by the truth. realizing that all you have done in the past is wrong you lose the will to go on. but dont give up. take a break if it hurts your will too much. but never give up. work on yourself first. dont stop lifiting. it really does turn eyes. and although being "natural" is hard it is possible. for all the ppl here, we all used to be betas. and in the beginning we were all reall…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:57 AM
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yes i too think that some of the emotions the op lists are difficult to do. so instead of doing so many, just stick to the basics. fury/calm, happy/sad. also initiating these emotions are difficult for me. but a trick i recogbized is to perform the feelings physically. for got what the psycholgy term is, but if you smile/look happy you will feel happy. if you frown and pouch your lips youll feel sad. remeber past events that made you angry/sad will also help distibguish
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:34 AM
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i reaaly like posts like these. very cool. its amazing how the red pill keeps teaching me. i especially like the circle exercise. althouh i cant chain them together efficiently yet, it gives me the feeling of being able to turn my emotions on and off at will. these are very similar to meditation exercises, but have different goals. where the goal of meditation is to maintain the calm frame regardless of stimulus, your exercise goal is to become affluent at contrlling your emotions, containing yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:27 AM
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badass. but becareful of economical and social positioning. they are our way to the top. next time something like this happens, call a meeting like you did, but instead of quiting on the spot, give them an ultimatum, promote of ill quit and send up your resignation papers. this way you burn less bridges. another way to go about this is to stay in your position, but line up another job and then quit. this way you dont have much risk quiting.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 08:40 AM
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one of the core teachings in trp is to never marry. although this is not something you would want to hear, the reason why trp promotes being single is precisely for situations just like yours. aldo only because your SO seems to be "perfect" now doesnt mean she will keep up her values after marriage. whereas if you two stay only as a couple she would be forced to keep up her hard work. another advice is to start going out and looking for another woman, preferably one much younger so you can compa…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 03:29 AM
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that person asked the wrong question. if you ask a zen master what he does post enlightenment, the answer is of course chop wood carry water. if that person asked the master how he FEELS after enlightenment, the master most likely would say: before enlightenment up and down randomly. after enlightenment a strsight line. enlightenment and trp are similar. before trp we felt confused at women, everything we thought we did right (beta qualities) just ended up driving women away, whereas that chad d…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 12:43 AM
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As some of the other posts have stated, there are differences between between stoic and being fun. but the two are not mutually exclusive. i believe that being stoic and being fun are two sides of the same coin. you can see example of the two being one and the same even in the examples you gave: "To be ditched for your friends, To be angry with you". while the fun aspect of you ditches her to hang with friends because you genuinely enjoy your friend's company, it's the stoic side of you that sho…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:50 PM
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i had an experience similar to this. basically he is either trying to one up you and become the AMOG or he is trying to shit test you (lower positiin males do this more often to higher position males). if he is insulting you, but is doing it too agressively, directly call him out on it. try to do it calmly but with a strict tone. let him know its not ok. if he directs jokes at you, agree and amplify. basically deal with him the way you would with a shit testing girl.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:54 AM
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great reply. it feels good to know that there are people like u out there. i too am.not looking for marriage. (there are simply NO benefits for a man in.a marriage). but do hope to find someone on the same pages as u. in a sense i believe that this "mutual partnership" is stronger than the bonds of matrimony, as the two partners continue to try hard and carry their weight in the relationship. whereas i have met too many married couple that have grown to hate each other and are no longer compatib…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 08:11 AM
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super long post btw :P anyways, the core of red pill for womn is focused around improving smv. its not that all problems can be solved.by improving smv(sexual value), but its the only.thing that you can do in your role as wife/gf without harming the relationship. start with working out. you say that because he is out of shape it makes it ok for you to be out of shape. this is a wrong mindset. even if he tells you its ok if you are out of shape (what people say isnt what they truly feel). just as…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 08:33 AM
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tips for next time: regarding #1: you said you failed to be spontaneous and failed to keep the conversation going. there are lots of tricks to this. first, things you said before but not to her are new things to her. that means you can easily "pre~date" prep the topics you are going to talk about, all you would need then is a good memory. also do not keep the same topoc too long, learn to read her emotions. if shes not into the topic, switch topics immediately. i remember learning about the five…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:52 AM
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here, enjoy an upvote. i too believe that all life actions are not inherently good or bad. all actions are amoral and its us that makes ourselves feel bad/good about it. good for you in keeping a married woman. can you share with me how it began? will help out if i come across a married woman im interested in.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:56 AM
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girls make horrible wingman. but besides girls, beta guys make horrible wingman as well. there was this time when i threw a party and invited a couple of friends and told them they can bring anyone thy wanted. this beta friend brings this female friend he has known.since middle school. shes obviously a slut and he doesnt know it. a few beer pobg rounds later she has her hands over everyone. and tries to sit on my lap repeatly. later on in the night we were playing some drinking games and she ini…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:39 AM
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ive felt the same way for a while. the best advice i can give you is to lower ecpectations. stop trying to find a ltr or a marriage material woman. stop seeking out hb9 or 10s. go after the 5~7s and build up your confidence. you are still treating sex after ingesting the red pill as the ultimate goal. red pill only improves your life, its goal is to make you be happy, not get laid. it just so happens that as you internalize the red pill, you get laid more often as a side effect.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:28 AM
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i have felt great stress before. there were days where when.i come home, even though its really late and i need a good night sleep to be ready for tommorrow, i couldnt sleep because i was completely "wired up". there are no real ways yo get around this, try to relax and also.understand that it is a state of mind. and becareful of self control, some people would drink /smoke if theyre stressed out others would eat comfort foods etc. try to minimize the harmful side effects of being stressed out. …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:39 AM
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you dont seem to know what you want. what is your goal? to break up with him.or to get back together? if you want to break up, then cut him from your life completely. you said it yourself, he is not respectful of you and he is openly searching for other women. if you want to get back together then let him.know how you feel and aim for a commitment. let him know that his messaging/flirting is hurting u. also do.not forget to maintain your looks and provide other femeinine benefits fpr him. tl;dr:…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 03:25 AM
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the final stage of acceptance is a bit tricky. unlike the depression stage, ypu have grown to understand how the world works and the key differences between men and women and choose to accept it. but this acceptance comes with a price: your hopeful innocence. you know that feeling of butterflies and spark you used to get cause you didnt know what was goibg to happen next? you will never experience this again. you will come to understnad that such "hopefulness stems from the lack of knowledge of …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:17 AM
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i think you are aleady in a great position. its good for the relationship for the girl to be continuously insterested and awaiting responses from your so/man. there have been so many postsin rpw where the SO they are talking about are clearly betas and they dont see it. you seem to be attracyed to a genuine alpha :D, for you to be anticipating his texts like that. well i guessthe next step is to initiate dates to meet in person, if he has not done so already or if you are impatient to wait for h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 10:04 AM
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no, do.not "confront" any woman that you think.might be cheating.on you. that is beta as hell. its likr a whiny kid asking if you are the one who stole his cookie. dont ask. dont confront. if you suspect something, then the ltr is already done. if she is ltr material then there should.be no grounds for suspicion. if you think she cheated on you, chances are she did. next her or spin her as a plate and let her prove herself to be ltr material. think about it, if you confront her and demand to kno…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:08 AM
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cut her out now. she kicked you out. she alreay made you beta. next her. it only gets worst from here on. if you really like her, then break up, and then after a few other plates in between, get back together. also living in a woman's house makes u dependent on her, instead of the other way around. dooming your relationsgip.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:23 AM
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from.your post and your replies to the response to this topic, i believe the source of your problem comes from.your inability to give up control and simply trust your SO. giving up control is hard to do, trusting someone, truly trusting someone is like handing your.life over to them. it takes time and experiences to achieve. perhaps you two can go on trips/adventures together as practice, where you make it a habit to let your SO plan everything for you, or if there is a choice involved, you ask …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 01:53 AM
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yes always be escalating. this is something betas dont do often enough, being afraid of being accused of sexual harassment. the leg thing is ok, if she was giving you steong signals the entire time, but becareful of reading the wrong signs. its always better to just keep.kino light/non sexual at the first meeting and leave with a number. and even on first dates you should keep kino non sexual until afterthefirst kiss, afterthat you can kino anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:03 AM
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everything is a learning experienece. failing is painful but it teaches us valuable lessons. if u feel like you have done unreparable damage, then soft next her. find another girl and fix what you messed up on. dont get hung up on what you did wrong
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:56 AM
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"She wasn't actually sad about losing you, she was sad that she lost her favorite doormat." be careful of how girls treat you. be aware of the things they ask of you. when you find out their true intentions next them when necessary.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 11:24 PM
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i think the trick to rpw initiating dating.is simply being receptive. be "around" the person more, you might not need to initiate conversation, but if he is interested, he'll come to you. and then, if he then asks for your number, exchange and hope for the best. thata basically all you can do. that and good as good as you can.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 09:28 AM
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thats a great story. i have similar experiences with my niece. a while back, my sister came to live with me when she got divorced (she was a very indipendent woman. not red pill at all). she brought along her daughter. in the beggining i didnt care about her kid at all, and let my sister do the teaching. but eventually the kids screaming and bad behavior effected me and i began to watch over her a bit more. children want to have a strong role model, they dont want their parents to negociate with…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:30 AM
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from what i can see, her response is a form of last minute resistance. couple of ways you couldve improved your game with her. also the mistakes you said you made are not all mistakes. it is best to meet up at a place, not pick her up, but not a big deal. as for the virgin question, you should have been kissing her when u were feeling her up. should not have been grabbong her ass wothout kissing. when her mouth is on yours she wouldnt be asking questions would she? :D but if she keeps insisting …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:13 AM
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it seems to me she didnt seem.interested. can you share some of your texts? you should be following the sidebar text game, ABC. therefore there shouldve been no chit chat between you two. you said that your texts to her were like "poetry". if your texts are super long and detailed, you should really cut it short. also, if the girl is a flake, dont confront her about it, doing so would only make you a beta. next her and find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 08:32 AM
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i agree with kingofpoplives. if the girl is happily having in a relationship/excited to be with you, her getting off never becomes an issue. if this continues to happen, avoid her for a while, and maintain frame. dont make the focus of sex about pleasing her, just keep doing what you have been doing/what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 01:36 PM
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i agree that shit tests are definately passed on through evolution, but some parts of your theory is wrong: "This is where shit tests come in, since the woman needs to know that her potentiale mate is reliable and resourceful, that he sticks around and helps her through the eventual pregnancy." from your example of a shit test a woman can give, that tests for beta males, not alpha males so that example is inherently wrong. women look for alpha men, not betas. if anything, women are more likely t…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:31 PM
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heres a couple of body language indicators: -at a party or gathering, you find her constantly near you but not talking to you. if you move to a new location, and you notice she comes around you but talks to someone else or points her back to you, that's an invitation for you to come to her. shy-er girls will do this -for more direct women, they usually come straight to you, occasion they would even pull a chair to sit right next to you, those are usually clear signs of "talk to me." -if you noti…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:01 PM
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continued: sorry, on cell phone, some kind of character count limit. that type of we both sacrifice for each othe love does no exist, rather we must accept reality and learn to embrace the type of "love" that does exist: captainhood. woman cant love us the way that we would want them to, but they do want is someone to look up to and someone to follow. you would realize that women love via respect and acknowledgenent. be that type of person for her and she would continue to be your fifrstmate. sa…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:28 AM
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i really like this post. there qas a period of my anger phase that i felt exactly the same way. men give and women take. love is all in my head. no woman in the world can love me the way that i can love them. but passing the anger phase, i realized that the "love" you are talkibg about is not love either. beta love is not love, men sacrificing themselves abd kissing the floor women walk on hoping that their "goddess" would bless them with sex is not love. beta can never love they think of it as …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:16 AM
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nice read. good job handling her hamster. but i'd be careful with conversations with girls like that (the ones that are prone to crying), if she had brought up white man oppressing other in front of me, i would've agreed and amplified instead of explaining it to her that the world is no longer like that. something along the lines of "oh yea the white men are totally oppressing everybody, that's why you're here right? to be my sex slave?" also, good job on dealing with her when she cried in front…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 11:17 PM
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never get discouraged. in this life, being selfish is the most important trait you can master. guilt is a horrible thing. try not to feel it, and don't let it stop you from going after what you want. just reach out and take it. worry about how other people feel later. alot of life opportunities would pass you by if you let guilt of being called selfish hold you down. the struggle to ignore what people think of you will only get harder as you become more RP, but learn to ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 12:09 PM
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lol, can you share the guy's name (or link to his post)? would like to read the post you mentioned he wrote. sounds like it'll be entertaining "And yet, one of the best fucks we've ever had was when he called her crying and I put my cock in her mouth." -this cracked me up anyways good job on the plate.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 03:59 AM
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i think finding a captain is all up to chance. according to the trp theories, women would travel around the world shit testing men until one of them passes (alpha). it's then up to you to firstmate and keep these men, which are potential captains. there are many possibilites of why u haven't found a captain yet (or maybe found a captain but couldn't keep him), maybe the people you know are all betas and you naturally dislike them, maybe you aren't going out enough to meet new and discover alpha …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 11:59 PM
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i think there are 2 groups of people upvoting this statement: 1:the strong women out that that can confirm that they want to be with successful and rich men. they know that being with a bluepill/"slacking" man turns them off and eventually such relationships fail. 2: men that are bluepillers/"slackers" that have experienced such heartbreak from dating successful and strong women. might be upvoting mainly based on resentment.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 04:37 AM
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hmm this topic is interesting. i've heard multiple takes on the subject. girls have more fun during sex with alphas, be it that they are successful (as you had mentioned "wealthy") or have game. what alpha actually do in bed doesn't matter, as long as they are alphas. the girl cumming or not doesn't matter. if you take too long to get her off, it's considered "try hard blue pill sex" and it turns girls off compared to just ramming her and being the only one climaxing. the alpha mindset is what m…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:30 PM
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i don't think you're misunderstanding AWALT, it's true. but you are right in thinking that all girls have different thresholds. for example, if a specific girl is very introverted and she doesn't go out much, then she will have lesser of a chance to cheat on you. but if a situation arises where an alpha male(more so than u) comes into contact with her then she'll branch swing like any other girl. there's really no need to be insecure, simply maintain frame, and keep up smv via lifting etc. LTR a…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:41 PM
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lol was thinking the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:30 PM
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its true what she did was wrong, and explotative. but i believe the red pill take away is to accept that awalt, girls will do what gitls will do for her favor. what are u goibg to tell her? not to use her beauty to manipulate those idots into helpibgher? if you had a natural advantage youll use it too. but realize that its a honey trap and avoid these situations. but gotta say, prior to fiding the red pill i too wad one of thpse chumps that held books for girls in school. lol ive come a long way…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:30 AM
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lol fifty shades of cock made me laugh but yea the poor sucker got tricked. hes most likely going to suffer being married to her.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:18 AM
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ive been in your position before. womeb change quite a bit once you drop your guard and stop.maintsining frame. theres no need to be angry with her. all women are like that. awalt all the way. just becareful around the next girl you hinvite to your home. justmaintain frame and she should stay obidient.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:07 AM
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"asian parents hate their children the most" this cracked me up. very true tho. from my owb experiences, i took over a part of my fathers business and am doing very well, to be precise: did much better than my father. instead of being happy for me, my father seemed to do everything to get in my way to stop my success. ita almost as if he was jealous. ita ridiculous to get in the way of your childrens success. but anyways good job at ignoring the negative people around you. just keep doing whats …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 05:30 AM
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thats a great story. i have had a similar experience and i have to agree. dont he a bitch. another part of my experience is, if you want women to love and respect you you must love and respect yourself. self confidence is the key. but not fake confidence, bexome successful, become rich,become strong. so you can be truly confident of who you are.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 04:26 AM
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this is a great post. nice to see peiple that fills.in the position of father and captain well. you.must have gone through a great transformation if you were able to control your urges to yell/ground/punish your children. from my own experiences with my abusive father i can tell you violence and anger is not the way to go with children. you should disipline them through respect. rarely ever is anger needed.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:45 AM
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yup that does seem like overgaming, unless you did it in a teasing kind of way. if you said it seriously then its rude. if youre unsure of what to say at what time then just remeber er to respond in an amused mastery way, those are typically the "correct" respobse to any shit test. but for your situation, i dun think she was shit testibg u intebtionally, usually a nornal "ok seeya" is a fine response. but for fuure reference goodbyes are kinda like subconscious shit tests. imagine youre at a par…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 07:09 AM
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