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They would all throw away their marriages to hook up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:49 PM
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Afternoon sessions are more beneficial for men because in the morning your T levels are already at their highest levels. They drop off by the afternoon and evening so it's better to go to the gym late to replenish them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:48 PM
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Interesting. In high school it was always the dumb jocks that got laid. The super intelligent guys didn't smell pussy until their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:45 PM
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It doesn't matter. As a man you have to decide what you want. Women actually want a guy who knows what he wants. Guys who wait around to follow the woman's lead, and saying "me too" to anything she suggests are in for a world of hurt. Guys who decide what they want and make it clear, have no problems dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:21 PM
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He is an example everyone knows. If I tell you about my best friend who went through girls like handkerchiefs and who knew they could never expect commitment or exclusivity, you wouldn't be able to relate because you don't know him and you don't know if I'm making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:52 PM
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Interesting view. I see this happening with women. One woman calling another a "slut" means one thing only: "You gave away for free what me and my sisters need to charge for, therefore undermining the market for our sex". A simp is a guy who is simply giving away his value hoping he will get something in exchange and ends up getting nothing. They are not traitors. They are only worthy of contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:51 PM
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It's not the wall per se. It's the biological clock. It's starts ticking faintly when they are 25 and by 30 it's ticking relentlessly in the back of their head. Women then get more aggressive and desperate. That's why girls in 18-20 something cohort are a bit more of a challenge. Their clock is not ticking yet and if they are hot they can enjoy a lot of men. But that starts to change pretty soon. Also, I don't understand why guys are so attached to being beta losers? Don't you want to be a winne…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:46 PM
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Why is that James Bond never has to make excuses? Every woman knows he sleeps with tons of women and they still want him. You don't have to lie to women. You tell them that you are not ready for a relationship and not looking for one. If you promise something that isn't true, they will never let you off the hook for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:44 PM
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The solution is to actually overcome your fear of women. You can approach a 100 women, but if you do it like you are dismantling a bomb, it won't work. You can approach a 1000 and it won't work, because women sense men who are afraid of them and they don't want to mate wjth someone who is a coward and who will pass on their cowardly genes to their kids. So do everything you can to expose yourself to these uneasy situations that make you shut your pants and over time you will defeat all fear and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:08 AM
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It's funny to me that men on PPD actually have more respect for whores. You know? The women who charge for it through holding off for sex, making him take her on dates, spend money on her, fix her car and god forbid making him put a ring on it to guarantee her security for life and have zero respect for sluts, who charge nothing and are only doing it because they enjoy the guy's company. Weird world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:40 AM
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I started reading the book and almost had a brain aneurysm. It's the dumbest shit ever produced by a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:34 AM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:57 PM
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And how is that working out for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:56 PM
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I would give women the exact same advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:56 PM
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Ask yourself why women have to try so hard to prove they don't need men or that make up and high heels are not for attracting men, but because it makes them feel better about themselves or that they go to sweaty, loud clubs at 1am because they want to dance with their girlfriends. They are screeching so hard trying to prove to you that they are not really desperate and horny just like guys are. Why would they need to try so hard if it this was indeed true?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:41 PM
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110% agreed! For expert guy here that tells me how hard it is to be a virgin and how scary it is to approach women, I tell them "you must not be horny enough". Because of they were truly as horny as they claim, they would have found a way to get a girl to sleep with them or get a girlfriend. If they really wanted to, they would have already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:39 PM
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I think a relationship is the ultimate reward a girl can get from me. I've relationshipped only a few women in my life and the last one I put a ring on her finger. I know my value and worth. I know what I bring to the table and a woman has to god damn earn every bit of this value by exchanging something of equal value. A guy who promises a relationship before he's even smelled her pussy is an idiot. In any business negotiation, you wait for the other party to make the first offer. And even then,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:34 PM
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Depends on your definition of relationship. It could be as short as an hour of bedroom fun to as long as a couple of hours of bedroom fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:43 PM
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If you are a man you need to reach between your legs and feel that space around a bit. If you can feel a couple of squishy spheres, congratulate yourself for still having balls. As the owner of a pair of balls, it is your prerogative to make a decision about what you want and let the woman know what it is that you want. If she doesn't agree with it, that's her prerogative, but you NEVER EVER make a decision based on what the woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:42 PM
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Actually it is this failure to take responsibility for yourself that is the cause of all your problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:36 PM
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Omg dude stop caring about what women think and worry about yourself. Do you think you will get an honest answer out of any woman especially the ones on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:36 PM
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I think you suffer from women are wonderful syndrome. You look at a woman and think "okay, she's hot, her life must be a dream, she must get everything she wants, she has it all figured out, rainbows coming out of her ass, perpetual bliss, even Nirvana". But that's just your projection. The same way a woman can project on you and think "it must be so awesome to be a man. Have muscles, be respected by other men, never get periods or cramps or have your biological clock ticking. Just go in the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:36 PM
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It just confirms my belief that all women are hookers in one way or another. The only honest ones are the sluts because they do it just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:31 PM
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There are famous prostitutes in Vietnam?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:30 PM
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Meghan thee Stalion was tweaking? Video proof or it didn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:29 PM
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Lol, she can expect all she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:28 PM
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If a woman is single, there is a pretty damn good reason for it and it's not because that's her choice. Men want to be with women. Women who have trouble finding a guy have horrible personalities and are a pain in the ass. Contrary to popular belief, there are guys who don't like their balls kicked in and will dump a woman who is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:27 PM
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I mean Id like to work out in a class that's all women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:44 AM
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If by women are in this together you mean that they would fuck each other's boyfriends, then yes, women are more in this together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:21 AM
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A girl in my boxing class complained that it had a lot of men in it. I told her to stop being stupid and that it was actually a good thing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:20 AM
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Do you believe OP interacts with people of the opposite gender in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:17 AM
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Your argument will only make sense if you can prove that women don't really sexually desire men. Since this would be a blatant lie, your argument is dead in the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:35 PM
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Literally more supply of pussy my man. Look up the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:27 PM
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Whomever came up with the idea that dick is worthless and pussy is scarce it the worlds biggest retard. There is literally more vagina in existence right now than dick and literally more vagina in existence than any other moment in history. Pussy is literally one of the most abundant things on earth. Only slightly more than every second person on earth has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:18 PM
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My mother is a saint and I will kill anyone who says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:08 PM
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Men can have that right now. They just need to choose if they will be a top or a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:25 PM
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Butter has the best glide to stickiness ratio for the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:23 PM
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30 seconds in the microwave. Not more, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:20 PM
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Well, thankfully for all these kindergarten teachers, the government is really good at pointing guns at doctors' heads and forcing them to marry said kindergarten teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:33 AM
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Is this the best comeback you've got? No wonder you got suspended.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:59 AM
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There are two kinds of people in this world. People who suck dick and those who don't. I'd like my kids to be the type that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:50 AM
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There are two kinds of people in this world. People who WANT to and CAN be promiscuous and people who WANT to but CAN'T be promiscuous for whatever reason, whether that's lack of looks, laziness, religious indoctrination or lack of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:34 AM
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I couldn't think of any other philosophy that ties men's self esteem to women's approval closer than TRP. Literally everything they do is in response to females.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:33 AM
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I mean men have admitted they would fuck a dog that looks remotely human, so why should women try hard to do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:50 PM
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It's a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:39 PM
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Username doesn't match the content of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:23 PM
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Did you actually try picking chicks up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:04 PM
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You know. At the end of the day the problem is that these guys are hurting. They ain't getting laid. They don't get women, literally and figuratively. All of this cognitive dissonance is just a symptom of their sexual frustration. So in a lot of ways, I don't really blame them. I'm not saying it's helpful, but I don't blame them. I've certainly felt frustrated in my life and have parroted some of this stupid shit. Hell, women go through their own frustrations and blame men of being assholes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:32 PM
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Lol, dude. All girls are that type of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:28 PM
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It's not only about teeth. It's having freshly laundered clothes, well trimmed body and facial hair and most importantly smelling nice. Not just not smelling bad, but smelling really nice. Body wash, deodorant, cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:27 PM
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That's not how it works for men. We will warm up a bagel, slap a picture on it and go to town if we are horny enough. It's nature. The problem is the fear in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:59 PM
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No. I also don't believe any guy who says he is a virgin because no woman has ever wanted him. The reality is there has been at least one that was interested in him BUT he wasn't interested in her. Virginity is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:27 AM
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Well, to be truly the prize you have to know it, believe it and behave like it. If they don't know it or believe it, they won't act like it. Women can only go by a man's behavior to determine if he is worthy. The same way men go by a quick glance at a woman's body to determine if she might be suitable for making kids.l, by calculating her breast size, hip to waist ration, facial symmetry and overall health as evidenced by the quality of hair, skin and nails. These decisions are made in a split s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:02 AM
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Because they don't know they are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:57 AM
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Well; many many women have deluded themselves into thinking they are the prize and many many men play into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:32 AM
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You have to believe you are the prize first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:28 AM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:27 PM
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Actually your problem is not that you are invisible to women. The problem is that you believe you are invisible and worthless therefore making this real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:54 PM
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Do you have sex for a reason other than that your body is telling you you have to clean your pipes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:53 PM
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So if there are 3 guys for every woman on apps, then where are all the rest of the women finding partners? Do they walk around with measuring tape to bars and clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:51 PM
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Basically a 10/10 guy begins at 6', $100,000 а year and at least a 6" dick. This means is you are 5'11.99999, or earn $99,999.99 and have a 5.9999" dick you may as well be a 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:50 PM
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The ratio of men to women is roughly 1:1, with women actually outnumbering men over a long enough timeline. So the ratio already benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:49 PM
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Hypergamy is real. The good news is that this means that the man is the real prize and not the woman, contrary to virtually any view on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:47 PM
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That's so true. Nice guys are so afraid of rocking the boat and taking risks that women prefer to be with a wife beater who is at least passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:54 PM
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Different evolutionary drivers. A man's sexual drive is literally driven by the need to clear his pipes regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:22 PM
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The same can be said about men on this sub who want women to behave like men with vaginas. Do the approaching, take the lead, get them in bed, initiate sex, bend them over....you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:21 PM
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I will let someone else deal with the bad sex until she learns how to suck dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:45 PM
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That's exactly what I'm saying! Yeah, it's not the guys sitting at home, jerking off and lamenting their celibacy. It's the guys who are having fun, living life and who are confident they can get the job done. And as you said, as long as they are discreet and fun to be around, they will never lack female attention. You don't have to promise women anything other than a good time. It's a misconception that you have to display high value and impress a woman to get her in bed. That's goes in the exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:26 PM
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Exactly! And I've personally checked guys. There are not a lot of virgins older than 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:40 AM
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If pair bonding was a real thing, marriage wouldn't exist as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:39 AM
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The question is always "who is fucking all these women that are having all the easy sexy"? Cause it ain't aliens, it ain't their dogs, maybe it's the occasional cucumber. But who the fuck is fucking all these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:13 AM
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I don't know in what world a virgin pussy is seen as more attractive. That's like saying I will go to the dentist that has never worked on a person's teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:08 AM
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It's interesting that mens and womens biology kind of works in the opposite direction. The more sex women have, the hornier they get. The less sex they have, the more frigid they get. With men it's the exact opposite. The more a guy has sex, the less horny he is. The less sex he gets the more horny he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:07 AM
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The thing you should be looking at is why is that these men get all the poontang although women complain about them and you don't! There must be something they give women that nice guys like you can't. I'm my opinion, those guys show up ready to get her done and that's a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:04 AM
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What's negative about it? Negative for whom? You? If someone told you that doing the things you want because they give you pleasure and make you happy is dirty and sinful and means you lack self respect, would you call that person crazy? I certainly would! Yet we have no problem telling women who choose to do what they want because of whatever reasons they have that they have no self respect and that they are low value skanks. That's the definition of insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:54 PM
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Women will do what they have to do to scratch the itch. So now they go to guys who are ready to get to e job done and don't judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:51 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:26 AM
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It's hilarious to me that men, who say that getting laid is more important than air itself, have bought into the idea that women who have lots of sex = bad/sluts/dirty whores. I can't think of anything that is more retarded and self defeating than this belief. Literally shooting themselves in the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:45 AM
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They shoot up high schools hoping someone will notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:01 PM
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Yep, that's true. That's what I've been preaching all along. The idea that a man who tries hard to impress women will be sexually successful is preposterous. In reality it is exactly the opposite. The man who does absolutely nothing to impress others becomes the most impressive. I've proven this to myself over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:34 AM
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I think what you speak of is a real possibility. Among people who own livestock, you know that you can't have a bunch of roosters or bulls running around because fights will break out and entire herds will be in a lot of trouble when you have bunch of virile males fighting amongst each other. With human societies you see a similar tendency with Islamic and Indian populations where girls were either killed off because having a female baby is undesirable or sexuality is severely repressed. Males g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:37 PM
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Oh my a woman rejected you. Take it like a man you man baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:03 PM
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Sex is a beautiful thing. But here is the problem guys who are not getting have. They want it so badly that they give all the power to women. And ironically, women look down on men who are supplicating fools and weaker than they are. It's that neediness that makes them repelling to women not some issue with their height or jawline or race. If those guys just learned to kill the pussy monster, they would instantly become the most attractive guys in a lot of women's eyes and would have no issues g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:02 PM
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I firmly believe women need men more but are just really good at hiding this fact. What do men need women for? Just to get their peepee wet? That's what you guys are chasing after all - a two by three inch rhomboid piece of flesh wjth hole in it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:16 AM
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Before the pills, there was pick up artist stuff. Before pua stuff there were just a bunch if guys exchanging tips on how to pick up girls. Before that, father gave advice to son on how to seduce a woman. The MGTOW and RedPill diverged from the PUA circles and those movements were made up of the men who were unsuccessful wjth learning to pick up women. MGTOW isn't some philosophical movement. It's a bunch of guys who couldn't get laid, so they toe tended to go their own way. Red pillers couldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:13 AM
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Nothing unpopular about this fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:34 AM
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I don't know. I don't think monogamy is exactly natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:32 AM
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Women love pursuing worthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:43 PM
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Actually there isn't a very high bar to be attractive looking. Women don't have high standards that only 0.0001% of men can meet. It's just that what's actually arousing to women is something most men either don't know how to achieve or are unwilling to do. What the secret is, know what you want and never make excuses for going after it. But this already filters out 95% of men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:25 PM
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Women don't like men pursuing them, because the natural order of things is "woman pursues man". Always has, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:23 PM
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What else is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:22 PM
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Exactly! And the cover is the only place you will see that. It's just as common to see a photo of a hot naked man in a romance novel as it is to have dialog and a backstory in porn. Which is to say, it is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:22 PM
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We only did anal, it doesn't count. I was on my period so it doesn't count. I didn't get his last name, it doesn't count. Those three guys I had a gangbang with didn't count because I was on vacation. Yeah my count is only 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:55 AM
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It's interesting that women get so turned on by stories and not images. The amount of naked hot men featured on romance novels covers is the exact proportion that meaningful storylines are featured in the average porno movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:43 AM
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Yes, magazines are there to sell you stuff. Just like Mens magazines are there to sell you the car, the watch, the adventurous lifestyle, the muscle building supplements, because the message they send you is "acquire those things and you can finally have what you want - a hot naked female". The same formula plays out in womens magazines. They sell them beauty products and sex tips because that's the way a woman can acquire what she wants - which is a relationship with an quality male. They teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:42 AM
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Lol, so you are recommending guys who have never taken the initiative in anything, who enjoy playing victim and who lament the fact that women never approach or do any work and you are recommending that they become doms? As in learning how to take charge, be in control and command another human being in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:39 AM
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The fact that someone has seen a part of me where the sun doesn't shine and took a scalpel to it is enough to give me nightmares for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:37 AM
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I'm sure there is. I don't really want to know about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:33 AM
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But they don't want the sex without the other stuff. Just like women can tell men: "you can easily have a close friendship with a woman and share your feelings and dreams with her", and the man can say, yes, that's true but while Incan easily have those things by being in the friendzone wjth a woman, what I really want is to be fucking her brains out. So the same way that you feel unsatisfied but being a woman's girlfriend with a penis, so do most women who get used for sex without the emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:28 AM
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Men are envied for their status and confidence. Women for their beauty. Women are not intrinsically valued. The problem is that the status symbols don't actually give you status. What they give you is the permission to act confidently and without fear. Every achievement gives you nothing but a feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:21 AM
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Trust me, I speak for all men when I say we are only into women with no make up and no clothes if they are exceptionally hot. You know, 2-5% of the GenPop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:16 AM
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In my experience women talk about men 90% of the time. You are obsessed with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:03 AM
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When a man comes on that perfectly made up face with the fake eyelashes, you will have to wipe it all away anyway and it will be a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:03 AM
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No more hemorrhoids guys. Surgery totally worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:01 AM
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They are not full of muscular tall men either. If anything that would be gay mags.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:00 AM
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Oh right. A Chad for every woman. I thought chads were only 5% of the GenPop somehow every woman no matter how homely, manages to score multiple Chads and have Chad gangbangs every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:59 AM
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I heard you out and I think you are full of shit. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:58 AM
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Are you saying that muscles get looser with use?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:55 AM
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Ugh? Men like hot women. Period. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:52 AM
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Well, women are not necessarily attracted to a guy's Rolex watch. But a guy who can afford a Rolex all of a sudden feels that he has achieved what society wants of him and gives himself permission to be confident and take what he wants. Do you think that Pete Davidson would really bang all these hot girls if he were a nobody? But just because he stars on a second rate comedy TV show, he has society approval and gives himself permission to act confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:52 AM
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They want a man who is strong and who cares about them. An alpha and confident male who can express his interest in them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:48 AM
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Tell me you haven't had a ton of sex wjthout telling me you've had a ton of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:01 AM
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They are just a reflection of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:59 AM
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I will stick my fingers in there and if it is nice and tight i know that she's used that poonany a lot. Since poonany is a muscle, it gets tight with use the same way your muscles grow in the gym when you work them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:32 PM
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I think being less visual means exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:30 PM
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Oh sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:29 PM
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Is it shark week at the monkymonkk house?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:29 PM
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This is the most genius thing I have heard around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:29 PM
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I think English might be your second language hun. This is not at all what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:28 PM
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Yes I do claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:27 PM
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You are not making any sense. What do women want exactly then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:27 PM
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You guys gotta make up your mind. Is it a six pack, height, the right jawline, the right hair, muscles? Cummon. Let's stop loving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:04 PM
14

They both have pictures of women for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:03 PM
1

Dude, for me like 80-90% of women are NPCs. I couldn't distinguish them from a dog in the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:48 PM
1

She's not wearing any.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:05 PM
2

This all the advice a man needs to hit on a woman: https://youtube.com/shorts/ih_8l8_z2zI?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:36 PM
3

If women were the exact same as men, they would be getting laid way much more, the same way gay guys do. If you want to believe that it's because of embarrassment of choice and because they are super picky as opposed to most guys not knowing anything about arousing a woman, than that's your prerogative. But I think that's just protecting your ego from getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:48 PM
2

Female pickiness is a myth. Women will pick drug addicts, drug dealers, criminals and men in actual prison. Total scumbags. You know it's true and you know female pickiness is a myth and just an excuse for guys who can't figure it out. But these guys do have something that nice guys don't and that drives nice guys crazy, because they played by society 's rules all their lives and were promised endless pussy on tap and some scumbag with tattoos and no job gets to have more ads than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:51 PM
5

You completely missed the point of my comment. You are still projecting your male arousal mechanism on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:13 PM
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You are making a lot of assumptions and as usual you are projecting your own sexual arousal mechanism onto women. What does it take for a man to become sexually aroused and have a sufficient erection in order to engage in sex? Well, it's a magical combination of two factors: He needs a woman who is attractive...enough (standard that changes the more desperate he is, the more beers he has consumed or the later in the night it gets). A woman who appears willing. When these two conditions are met, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:30 AM
2

It actually doesn't matter what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:59 PM
4

I'd say your ho phases were a waste unless you learned to deep throat and do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:18 PM
4

I've had the exact same experiences. All women that I dated while dating others have been normal, well adjusted women. It's just much harder for a woman to find a guy who actually turns her on than for a man to find a woman who turns him on. So when they do find a guy like that AND he is also decent in bed, they will share. I'm not saying they are happy about it and perhaps many women agree to this arrangement hoping they will be able to lasso the guy in eventually, but it happens. After all, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:18 AM
1

Hairless bleached asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:12 AM
1

You should have given all these girls to us. We could have put them to good use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:08 AM
1

That was one helluva rationalization. You are giving women way too much power over you. A woman is not "letting you" have anything. It's an equal exchange. You are talking to her, you are making her day better and if you have sex, she is getting as much out of it as you. That's why people say that confidence is key. You have to actually like yourself and believe you bring something of value. If you feel that you are worthless subhuman piece of scum, then yes, everywhere you go you will feel that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:07 AM
1

I'm a hot man in my 40s. But when I was in my 20s and 30s, I'd hang out with my band playing shows in bars. I'd go to trendy places where lots of hot women congregate. I'd hang out at happy hour with my friends. Etc. Decide what type of man you want and what you want him for. If you want a handy guy, go to Home Depot. If you like a smart guy, hang out at college campuses or the library. If you want stupid guys, go to a Trump rally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:47 AM
6

Hey man, nobody forced them to kill off all their baby girls. Now they are a nation of incels because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:40 AM
4

If any of this billshit were true neither China nor India would have billions of citizens. Last time I checked, you get to billions in population by fucking a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:51 PM
0

Yes, I turned down a woman who had a 0 n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:29 PM
0

You
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:17 PM
0

Why do you feel under the gun to pay for dates? If you don't want to pay for dates or want low cost dates, then suggest a drink at most. What else is there? This sounds like a self created problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:01 PM
1

I find it funny that men think approaching and talking to women is such a huge burden. Do you feel it a big burden when you walk to Starbucks and ask the barista for a coffee? Is it a burden to talk to your guy friends for an hour? Is it a burden to arrange a happy hour wjth them at the local pub? So why is it such a burden to talk to a woman and ask her out and plan an evening for the two of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:28 PM
-2

And what do you like? Have you stopped to ponder that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:12 PM
-1

Stop trying to be what you think women want you to be. For once, feel free to be exactly who you already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:50 PM
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You've been posting the same question on different subs for years. What exactly do you think we will tell you that will make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:49 PM
2

Isn't this the third thread this week on this very topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:32 PM
3

That's exactly his problem. Yes, he made external changes, but internally he still blames everyone and everything else it at the very least is looking for that external validation that he is okay. But the whole point of self improvement is showing yourself that you are worth it so you can start treating yourself well. If you self improve hoping others will see it and decide to give you value, you are doing it wrong. And it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:31 PM
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Have you really worked on yourself? Because it sounds like you still make the opinions others have of you more important than your own opinion of you. You still sound like you don't take full responsibility for yourself and expect that others will care about you. Answer me this. If you couldn't be bothered to like yourself and deem yourself worthy, how can you expect others to do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:12 AM
2

Lol. That's the point. Having the balls to be honest actually makes you an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:47 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:46 AM
1

You know how men blame women for all of their problems? Well, women kind of do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:13 AM
3

2AM closing time at a bar, she was drunk ask you were drunk and you took a phone number? Jesus you are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:07 AM
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You do you. I got laid way more when I started being honest with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:31 AM
1

It's not the face you fuck it's the fuck you face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:18 AM
5

Here are three irrefutable truths: Female women are only one of two species that can have and enjoy sex outside of estrus (breeding season aka heat) purely for fun The female woman can easily experience multiple orgasms one after the other with little to no refraction period All throughout history, every major religion has sought to control female sexuality, criminalizing adultery to making virginity a virtue to dressing women like ninjas from head to toe. Now, based on the above irrefutable tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:12 AM
1

I believe you are conflating being a "safe" guy, meaning a guy who won't try anything funny, who's nice and respectful with a guy who makes a woman feel safe and protected because he has an intimidating and powerful presence. Two very different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:07 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:01 PM
1

I guess I don't understand the point of your post then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:26 PM
1

It's funny to me that you guys always refer to the wolf study. I don't have to study wolves and chimps in order to understand readily observable behavior in humans. To deny that humans have an often unspoken hierarchy both in males and females is just closing your eyes to what is painfully evident. Clearly in any group there are alpha males and alpha females. There is always a pecking order. The idea that a bottom of the ladder guy can be as appealing as a top of the ladder guy is ridonculous. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:45 PM
6

Men seek variety of partners but commit to only one. Women tend to commit to a partner but end up in lesbian dead beds. Women also need variety and especially of the male kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:37 PM
2

What was her name?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:00 PM
1

Niceness is the opposite of being sexually arousing. Ask yourself why a man is being nice to a woman? Simple. The only reason he is being nice is because he wants to get into her pants, wants to be liked and approved and he believes niceness will get him there. The issue is that when you are nice, you suppress all the things that naturally make you exciting, such as being edgy, taking risks, being confident and throwing caution to the wind. Niceness is really a strategy to not make a woman upset…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:59 PM
2

You can only make yourself into a more attractive man (not necessarily through looks), who has better chances of success with a wider audience of women, but you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT try to make a woman attracted on purpose. It doesn't work and it automatically puts you in the weaker position of the pursuer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:53 PM
1

Cocaine is a helluva a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:51 PM
7

This X 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:47 PM
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The most important relationship you can have is the relationship you have with yourself. If that relationship is fucked up, so will be your other, external relationships. The quickest way for men to become more attractive is to learn to love and accept themselves unapologetically. When they do this, many women won't be able to help themselves and will love and accept these men as well. The other advice is to learn to put your own needs first. Decide what you want and pursue it relentlessly. Don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:45 PM
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Nations and wars at this scale are a modern invention. When we used to be tribal based 10,000 years ago and earlier, there was still tribal warfare, but not nearly as devastating as it is now. Most people were happy with a full belly and a warm wet place to stick their dick in. What more does a man need?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:24 PM
1

I don't have access to it Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:51 PM
1

This article does nothing but make a multitude of assumptions without any evidence. Such as men are buyers and women are sellers. Just because this happens in reality, doesn't mean that this is a universal law, that has been proven beyond the shadow of a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:45 PM
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That was not the point I was trying to make. I meant that you should have partnerS, plural, not singular. It's a shame to only have one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 PM
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Men and women both make the mistake of projecting on each other their own arousal mechanisms. A man has two criteria that need to be met to get sufficiently aroused, and by aroused I mean actually have an erection and be ready to use it. Those criteria are: Some attractive looking enough (a very fluid definition that changes depending on how horny you are, how many beers you've had and how late into the night it gets) Someone who appears willing. That's it! That's all! I know, super complicated,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:40 PM
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I like you but I feel sorry that you refer to a "partner" in singular and plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:56 PM
2

Who is this cultural system you speak of? Let's get specific? Who assigns the value? Please offer specific evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:49 AM
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No no matter what women do, you will still be a bunch of bitter losers. If she opened her legs and pointed a big sign towards her pussy saying "fuck me", your call her a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:18 AM
1

Women are not nice to men they don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:17 AM
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It is certainly a very toxic and depressing philosophy that assumes man=no good. I even see people parrot the whole "women are born with value, men are born with no value and they have to earn it" and then wonder why there are so many incels and depressed young men. Don't buy into this bullshit. There is no one who assigns value to boys and girls at birth. At least, I have never seen evidence and I have asked many red pill and black pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:48 AM
0

Every time a girl refuses anal is pretty bad for me. After having experienced ass to mouth, everything pales in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:15 AM
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An abusive guy is still more of a man than a mommas boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:14 AM
2

I've been trying to tell men that for years but they insist on believing every piece of BS that comes out of a woman's mouth. It's like women sense how easy men are to manipulate and they just do it for fun and guys eat it up hook, line and sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:04 PM
1

As a guy who did just this, there is pressure to spend more than you are comfortable with. You may be okay spending $150 a night at a hotel, while $3-400 might be normal for her. So your spending starts to creep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:00 PM
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Well, it's a very confrontational question and it kind of implies a certain bitterness. Imagine if a woman asked you that. Would you feel like she is asking in good faith? Because my assumption would be that she considers men no good, useless assholes and is expecting me to prove myself to her. Which ain't gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:55 PM
1

Aahhh, I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:41 PM
1

Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:39 PM
3

What banking executives do you know making only $300K?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:51 AM
1

Incorrect. They have never made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:39 AM
0

These women should try having hemorrhoid surgery and then talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:28 AM
1

For every virgin guy out there, I guarantee you that there has been at least one (but more likely many more) woman who was interested in him although he wasn't interested in her. Virginity is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:24 AM
1

Thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:23 AM
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I find men tend to self isolate way more than women. Perhaps it is a generic thing and women are more at ease with socializing. It must be our hunter/gatherer nature as men to stay focused on solitary tasks. But that puts guys at a huge disadvantage to other men who are better at socializing and putting themselves out there. I can tell you from experience that no naked girls will materialize in your bedroom if all you do is play video games, smoke weed and jerk off to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:22 AM
1

lol you were a drug dealer and still couldn't manage to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:13 PM
1

You are welcome to die celibate. Your problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:10 PM
1

You don't understand. Women are raised to trade in their sex for security. Whether security means commitment, financial gain, having the man fix your car, get you a better job, etc. Any woman who doesn't trade her sex for security but rather has sex wjth a man just because she enjoys it or because she actually likes him and expects nothing in return is labeled a slut. A harlot. Because she is undermining the market for pussy. If all women started giving their pussy away for free, then nobody wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:09 PM
0

Sigh...yawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:57 PM
5

Yes, I have personally checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:52 PM
1

Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:52 PM
3

I corrected him because he said "dick carousel".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:17 PM
6

I for one enjoy being the one to approach and initiate. It puts me solely in control of the entire interaction and relationship. I approach, I choose, I set the rules. Of course, in reality I'm lazy and I wait for women to approach me, which they do often by looking at me, smiling, hovering, trying to make small talk, etc. Of course, I rarely get women walking up to me and saying "hey sweet cheeks, wanna get out of here", but it does happen. Especially since I look like this:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:56 PM
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My point is that women are made for sex and are not having nearly enough the amount sex Mother Mature intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:52 PM
1

Thankfully for me I'm really ridiculously good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:16 PM
3

All of this is true, but it should not be an excuse for you not to take the path to manhood yourself. There is absolutely no need to ever blame yourself, but the ultimate responsibility is with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:13 PM
2

I have a lot of experience with approaching women in all walks of live. I've met several girlfriends and FWB literally waiting in line at a Starbucks or just saying hi. I met one girlfriend outside of a bar as I was leaving. Numerous others in parks, etc. There is way to do it properly and there is way to do it that's creepy and a turn off. Probably the biggest mistake men make is that they go out for the purpose of picking up women and women pick up on it. Another mistake is that men want somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:09 PM
2

What? What crack are you smoking my man? Confidence is indeed completely achievable and nothing to do with genetics. It is simply facing your fears and finding out they are an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:49 AM
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I think it's a symptom of a bigger problem. The problem being that there are so many boys who inhabit the bodies of grown men. If you wonder why there is a loneliness epidemic and so many men left behind, it's exactly for this reason. They never grew up, never made the transition from a boy to a man. Now, you can blame women all you want for preferring men, but you better take it up with Mother Nature instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:46 AM
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It's called COCK carousel by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:37 AM
1

If all women stopped wearing make up, heels, did their hair, shape wear and push up bras, all you incels would suddenly become volcels overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:36 AM
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Here are three undeniable truths: A female woman is one of ONLY TWO species that can enjoy sex outside of estrus (mating season) purely for pleasure A female woman can become pregnant on average for only a 9 hour window every month. Women have the ability to easily enjoy multiple orgasms without any refraction period. You have to understand that a woman's ability to enjoy sex has absolutely nothing to with the inventions of modern medicine, except maybe the vibrator that gets to finish the job y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:31 AM
2

My point is that power comes in a lot of flavors. And for a regular guy, the best route is to challenge his fears which will lead to confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:31 AM
2

What does my comment say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:27 AM
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I don't do apps and I'm married so got no skin in the game, but I do try to help guys out when they ask for advice on their profiles. Here is the jist of the issues I'm seeing: -By and large the guys who don't get matches tend to be nerds. One guy posted his profile and it literally had a photo of him swinging a lightsaber. He is a 23 year old "man". I also did play with lightsabers....when I was 5. -Poor grooming habits - from gross facial hair, to bad haircuts, to glasses. There is so much a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:17 AM
0

Well, if men weren't giving away their value so freely neely and made women earn it, perhaps women would work much harder. Until then, you are shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:23 AM
2

A typical badboy yes. But a man should still introduce emotional tension even in a commuted long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:07 AM
2

I'm originally from Eastern Europe and also lived in a Western European country for 2.5 years known for its egalitarianism. I can tell you that women everywhere are virtually starved for real men who aren't afraid of their own shadows. In a lot of ways, women kind of fucked themselves (but not the good kind of fucked), by buying into the whole woke feminism metoo movement and totally promoting the notion that men should be all but neutered. The purification of the evil, toxic dirty male has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:03 AM
1

No. You are not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:50 PM
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But you do. You just said you feel you put in more effort. That's taking issue with those things. What exactly is your burden here? Telling a woman "let's go out" and picking your favorite burger joint? How difficult is this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:04 PM
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Anything related to industries that help women make money off their looks. It could be a strip club dj, bouncer or owner, a pornographer, a model agency manager, model scout, model photographer, running and managing her OF or webcam business, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:02 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:00 PM
2

So you are complaining that you had full control of the situation and full responsibility for how everything goes? I mean if you want someone to take you out and take responsibility for taking you to bed, perhaps you should try dating guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:59 PM
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For men, it's understanding two things about women that will give them an unfair advantage in love. The first thing is that women desire most of all safety and protection. That's why things such as status, celebrity, wealth, height and confidence are such turn ons for most women. They will instantly feel safer with someone who is important and higher status than her. That's why cheerleaders date pro athletes, secretaries marry their bosses, flight attendants bang pilots and so on and so forth. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:58 PM
1

Damn! That's a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:51 PM
2

My first blow job, the girl used her teeth. I only found out when I went to the bathroom to pee and saw the marks. Having never had a blow job I thought that might actually be normal but once I spoke to my friends who has gotten laid and had bjs before; they dissuaded me from the notion that this is in any way normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:44 PM
1

Absolute unadulterated horseshit. I would like you to show me actual proof, undeniable evidence that your value as a human being is decided at your birth. Who decides it? What criteria is being used? Please show me the proof? What you are describing is not some intrinsic worth, it's how a person feels about themselves. Low self esteem is always caused by misinterpreting events early in life. Your argument is ridiculous because of a parent chooses to treat their child poorly, this only reflects o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:50 AM
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Personally no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:42 AM
2

If every man just flirted without an expectation of a specific outcome, they'd have more women interested in them than they would know what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:31 AM
2

I'm happily married and I talk about how awesome women are. They are so awesome you should have several.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:28 AM
2

I see this with several of my wife's girl friends who are in that 30s and even early 40s range. They totally missed the boat and now they have too much baggage, too much bitterness, they are older and cranky and don't want to compromise. No one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:18 AM
1

Men can't stand spending time with themselves but expect that some woman will want to spend time with them? It's like saying "My dick is so gross even I wouldn't touch it, but wouldn't it be nice to get a woman to suck it".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:18 AM
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I have absolutely no problem with these 3 benefits. But after a short stint on AskTRP when the sub still existed, I was met with so much seething rage and outright hate and disdain towards women, that it totally turned me off to whatever positive message RP could potentially have. I'm all for men making themselves more physically masculine (weightlifting raises testosterone which is the hormone that makes you a man) and being assertive and dominant, but once you mix in all the "enjoy the decline…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:32 AM
2

So women who thrive on attention and creating online drama say that athletes message them and then those women ignore said athletes and you see no connection between how they make money and what they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:28 AM
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Dude, I don't consider 20-24 cohort to be attractive at all. For me it's girls between 19 and 19.5. That's it. All others are old hags with saggy tits. Ewww.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:22 AM
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And even more important than all of this for a man is just knowing his own goddamn value and realizing women are lucky that he is even talking to them. I'm married but by all accounts I'm a daddy, have a good career, traveled to many places, I am interesting and have way more experience in bed than any guy their age. When you internalize that you bring immensely more value to the table than they do, then the world is your playground.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:21 AM
4

So your claim is that 80% of men are incels because women only go for the top 20%? I just can't with guys like you. My man, go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:09 PM
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Men settle. If there is a fugly guy willing g to fuck a fugly girl and wife her, it means that guy is getting laid. So he is not an incel. You think he wouldn't want to bang Megan Fox instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:02 PM
3

I was thinking of you when I wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:01 PM
0

You are free to fuck all the fugly fatties you want my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:59 PM
1

Open up a porn mag and tell me how many average fatties you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:33 PM
1

I'd say 2 hot girls in a class was about right, maybe even on the high end. Maybe another couple that are second tier that you'd go for only if you couldn't get with the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:32 PM
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Nobody wants average women. You just settle for what you can get. Open a Playboy and tell me how many average women you see there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:09 PM
1

Eh, excuse me. This is Lexxi Foxx. Former bassist of Steel Panther, makers of hits such as "Asian Hooker", "Gloryhole" and "Gangbang at the old folks home". Also bangers such as "Always gonna be a ho" and "All I wanna do is fuck (myself) tonight". Look them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:09 PM
1

Wearing make up is feminine? Tell me this man doesn't bang at least 3 girls every night backstage: https://images.app.goo.gl/LHvAV4jL6URcc93k7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:55 AM
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Omg couldn't agree more. Just go to a sub like Hinge_app or Bumble and look up any of the profile review threads. All the guys that are struggling look, dress and take photos like shit. And if you dare give them any advice to change up their style or appearance, their react as if you just told them you are their little sister for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:52 AM
9

Dude cummon. Most men will only go for like the top 10-15% of women out there. Only sex deprived, desperate guys are willing to dumpster dive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:41 AM
0

Exploits? Dude, these chicks have refined the art of separating stupid men from their money. They are hardly getting exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:20 AM
1

We got a regular Capt'n-Save-a-Ho here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:19 AM
2

Nah, you are close but no cigar. You are talking about banter and flirting, which is a mix of humor, sexual innuendo and teasing. You need to inject emotional tension in interactions with women, much like sexual tension. Women crave that in order to be attracted and turned on by a man. Look at every piece of media women consume - soap operas, reality TV, TikTok thots. It's all about drama, emotional tension, anticipation, uncertainty. This is what you need to bring to the table as a man if you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:59 AM
6

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:34 AM
17

What's interesting to me is that when women feel safe from judgment they act much more like men than they care to admit. I've had women catcall me from their cars or when in big groups. And it makes sense. When you are behind the safety of your moving vehicle or in the safety of a big group (or in the case of a DeAngelo concert - the safety of a 99% female audience who is there for the same purpose), it makes it much easier to let your naughty side out for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:18 PM
5

Exactly this. I used to cherish the alone moments I had when I useD to date 3 girls at the same time. Between spending an evening or two a week with each, hanging out with friends and just trying to get shit done, I barely had any time for myself. In relationships, Inwould seriously get tired of fucking and couldn't even come because I just wasn't into it. But then, men get hornier the longer they go without sex (and less horny the longer they have sex) and women get hornier the longer they get …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:13 PM
-1

What do you mean? Whose boundaries and what boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:30 PM
-2

Oh yes, I had forgotten about the super confident neurodivergent guy who never leaves his apartment, or the criminal with a heart of gold. My point is that men on PPD believe a guy needs to be perfect and have his life in order and be flawless to have a chance with a regular average fattie. That's how distorted their thinking is. Female standards are not high at all. It's just that there are certain qualities that arouse them and they have nothing to do with perfection and six packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:32 PM
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The only thing that's comical is that female pickiness and high standards is a total myth. I mean for crying out loud, women date criminals, drug dealers and addicts, men in actual jail and not to even mention all the Jeffrey Dahmer groupies. Women will line up to suck a rock stars cock back stage and be the 15th girl for the night to do that without him even bothering to ask her name. There is no pickiness and high standards. It's just that most guys have actively suppressed and neutered the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:47 PM
2

PPD wouldn't be PPD without constant sweeping over generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:41 PM
1

I don't think this is very realistic thinking. I may like a woman for her, but if she doesn't wear make up, take care of hygiene or grooming and dresses like she is lounging around the house all the time, I will eventually be turned off. Women are attracted to confident and competent males not nervous and shy guys. Shyness might be endearing here and there but you get quickly tired of it. Essentially perfect game is you being comfortable and accepting of yourself despite your flaws. That's true …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:44 PM
1

There is no perfect male. It's anything but perfection actually. An alpha male is the person who embraces their flaws and is not ashamed of himself. Complete opposite of what you imagine it to be, which Incan only assume is some insufferable asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:41 PM
1

Whatever you imagine alpha males to be is not it, but that's a common mistake women make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:38 PM
1

I'm a good looking guy and get ogled at by women. If a bunch of fatties and average girls started approaching me and hitting me, I'd probably become a bitter and jaded bitch just like a lot of attractive women just to scare them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:36 PM
15

Literally all advice to men struggling is go socialize and hang around a lot of other guys so you can learn masculine behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:35 PM
1

You are thinking like a typical woman. Women need to fit in and go with crowd and play nice with everyone. For a man, this behavior is a death sentence socially speaking. Any man who has ever made something of himself has not played nice or always gotten along with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:31 PM
1

Alpha is a behavior and of course society doesn't like it, because an Average guy can behave like an alpha without having earned it through moving society forward. You see how alpha/confident behavior is magically reserved only for men who work hard and achieve a lot by society's standards. But someone who doesn't have these trappings of success is not given permission to behave alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:25 PM
2

Nothing to do with wolves. This tripe is so tired and old. It is very clear in human society that some men are higher status than others. Closing your eyes to that is just willful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:16 PM
2

Oh they most certainly do though and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:56 PM
1

That's scarcity thinking if I've ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:12 AM
3

It's the same reason why Trumpers and all kinds of right wing weirdos are angry and want to overthrow the government. They fall into an echo chamber of talking heads and YouTube content that teaches hate and anger. They fall deep into the rabbit hole of manufactured outrage towards women and can't easily get out. I reckon most of these red pillers are not getting laid, otherwise they wouldn't be so angry because everyone knows frequent sex has a very calming effect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:11 AM
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In most of my relationships we started off as wanting sex equally and then my willingness eventually dropped off. Men get tired quicker of fucking the same pussy but women get hornier the more they have sex. These are just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:09 AM
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Any man can easily find sex too. He can go to a public space and say "I will have sex with anyone who would want me" and certainly there will be at least one other guy willing to have sex with him, which of course is not who the guy wants but still, he can get sex any time he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:40 AM
2

What? There are more women alive than men. That's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:31 AM
11

So women desire me, relationships and sex less than men yet every single woman is already taken or getting fucked by 5 Chads. So which one is it guys? Make up your mind already?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:48 AM
1

It's a struggle and we don't quite realize what we are getting ourselves into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:12 AM
2

Well, I am and I'm not. I really hoped people would focus on the message of the podcast instead of the speakers credentials. I credit Anthony with saving my dating life many years ago, through his book "How to get over the bitch and grow balls they can't resist".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:50 PM
2

You are welcome! But seriously, do you think the internet allows just ANYONE to have a podcast? Sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:07 PM
-1

Nah; men are like 50:50. We also talk about football, our careers, music, working out, technology, politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:50 PM
7

But who is giving them power? Is it men or do they have intrinsic power over you? What makes them so powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:44 PM
3

We put them on a pedestal because it's easier to eat ass and you don't have to bend over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:22 PM
14

So answer me this. Do women have unbridled power or are they GIVEN unbridled power by men (as you allude in your post "when you give someone unbridled power" - who is giving power to whom)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:04 PM
1

Has a thicc ass (no) Is ambitious and has a good career (yes) Is not crazy (yes)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:55 PM
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90% of what women talk about (and probably think about) is men or related to men. Where to go out - it's about meeting men. What clothes to wear - to be more appealing to the man. Buy $100 lingerie - to please the man. Etc, etc. They are just much better at hiding it and bullshitting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:29 PM
1

Honestly average men have plenty of options. Even when I was a shy, skinny, pimply teenager I had girls interested in me. Now I was too dumb to recognize the signs and take advantage of them most of the time, but that doesn't mean there weren't options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:27 PM
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Have you ever been honest with a woman about how that makes you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:25 PM
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I don't know much about women, but I do know this one thing. They definitely don't want to fuck whiney, perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:10 PM
1

and yet you guys claim that 80% of women are in relationships and getting regular sex? So all the top 20% are banging at least 4 different girls and are in relationships with them? How often do you hear about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:58 PM
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So what are you mad about? That you have to take action? That you can't just sit on your ass? Hats what makes a man a man. If you want to be the woman, there is surgery you can get for that in Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:06 PM
1

Why don't you focus on the topic of the post instead of attacking the person/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:05 PM
0

But someone has to offer these women sex and relationships? So why are they doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:54 PM
0

Cause without taking risks you can't possibly get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:54 PM
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Yes it is a valid claim to make. But it seems that what men consider a privilege is just being jealous that there are men out there taking risks and going for what they want and getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:47 PM
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I can't make anything out of your word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:39 PM
1

You should care if the woman you are going to sleep with is experienced and knows how to pleasure you properly. I understand that for men who have barely had any sex, any warm moist hole will do, but for those of us who have been around the block, we generally appreciate someone who knows their way around a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:07 PM
2

My current age. 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:03 PM
6

I thought you called any man who dares go for a younger women "predatory".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:04 AM
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Yeah no. Younger women will look for a male who is established and confident and a lot of times for men this comes with age. Age also tends to make us more interesting and experienced in the bedroom and outside of it. An older male is a VERY good proposition for a younger woman and vice versa. A younger woman is not jaded, doesn't hold grudges against men as much as older women (justifiably or not). They have energy and spark and perkier tits. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:51 AM
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Either discuss the topic at hand or don't participate. @mods?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:08 AM
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They have a podcast. Do you have a podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:07 AM
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The man claims to have been a male escort in his younger days. Plus how are they any less qualified than Andrew Tate and whomever else you guys listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:07 AM
2

I've done it all. Drugs, booze and smoking. Out of all these, smoking is the one that has lost me the most women, because they tried overlooking the smell but eventually couldn't deal with it. But then again, I've banged smokers and women who smoke always suck dick well so there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:06 AM
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You want to know something that has fucked me up for years? I'm 41 now. When I was 16 and was hooking up with my first girlfriend, she had a poster of Lenny Kravitz on her wall. Lenny was dressed in a skin tight body suit, wjth the zipper opened up all the way down to where his nether region starts. And there I am, a scrawny white guy trying to go down on my gf and I have Lenny Fucking Kravitz staring at me from her wall. Talk about trauma and insecurities for years to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:24 AM
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No, I had no idea! You mean "17 girls in a row" didn't really happen at one of their concerts? Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:18 PM
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Tell me these guys don't smell like pussy 24/7: https://2loud2oldmusicdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2018/04/they-may-look-like-girls-but-they-can-rock-like-real-men_c_3798337.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:55 PM
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Again, making this a "social" issue and punting the responsibility to someone else (society, women, Chads - please don't have sex with so many women, idk) means that you are off the hook. When you are off the hook, you don't have to do anything about it. It's not your problem. But responsibility and authority are the same thing. You cannot have responsibility without authority. So you cannot make it the responsibility of society is society doesn't have the authority to control who and why women …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:55 PM
1

Sure thing bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:50 PM
1

And guess what, kids are not made by immaculate conception. They are made by fucking. And having 8-9 kids requires a lot of fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:36 PM
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Let's name the real issue. The real issue is that sexually unsuccessful men don't want to be on the hook for their lack of success. As long as they blame society, women, Chad, their lack of a squared jaw, being short, bald, etc., they can let themselves off the hook and not have to do anything about it. It is a decent proposition. You remain sexless but at least you are absolved of blame and responsibility. You get to go back to the safety of your video games, porn and angry rants on Reddit subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:31 PM
1

Oh are Indian right? Did you think you guys got 1 Billion + by NOT fucking a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:26 PM
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Women have a window of about 9 hours in a month where they can get pregnant, so no, this is not a recent phenomenon. Mother Nature loves a lot of cocks and vaginas. I would say chastity is a recent phenomenon (of a couple of thousand years). Romans were known for their orgies for example. Primitive tribes make sex communal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:14 PM
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I'm asking you! But usually I sense it around my cock because it feels tighter and like it knows what's it's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:50 PM
1

Yeah but if it is genetically ingrained in us to be repulsed by high n count women wouldn't it make sense that we would have evolved to sense high women are high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y1e8p0/daily_community_chat_megathread/irxfkay/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:40 PM
1

I mean it does matter a lot. I wouldn't sleep with an inexperienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:36 PM
1

I just posted a comment on the general thread about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:26 PM
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Shower thought: if female promiscuity really did turn men off as much as PPD men claim, then it would follow that the majority of women would never experience more than 0-1 lovers in their lifetime. Something's not making sense here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:25 PM
1

You've slept with more than one man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:24 PM
2

Interesting. Well I'm an old fart so things have probably changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:09 PM
0

You must be banging a lot of immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:04 PM
-1

The only way you can tell is when the penis is flaccid and then who cares about it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:02 PM
0

I guarantee most American women can't actually tell the difference and most haven't even seen an uncut dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:56 PM
1

Wow that was harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:09 PM
1

Well they pretend to care about all the nice guys that women are supposedly overlooking. In reality, they only care about themselves being overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:36 PM
1

The same reason you are mad that they want to (supposedly) date chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:46 PM
3

Smartest comment in the whole post. Perhaps in the whole history of PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:48 AM
2

The fact that short or ugly peoples exist means that someone is fucking them and propagating their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:33 AM
1

It's true though. I should save at that with men, our sex drive tends to drop off when it's the same woman. If we sleep with others, it will be fine. But men are wired to seek variety in sexual partners and our nature tells us "okay, we've tried to inseminate this one several times already, time to seek something new". Sad but true. Guys who dream of having a girlfriend to fuck three times a day, but have never had one, don't realize that's only sustainable for a short time before they get tired…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:24 AM
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It's not about bragging it's about taking pride in yourself and your life unapologetically. Basically any guy who is unsuccessful with women has a lot of shame and feels bad about himself or his station in life. The opposite of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:00 AM
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They don't want traditional gender roles. They actually want to be the girl. Every single thread here is just deeply hidden envy of what they imagine women a lives are - a never ending porno movie featuring a multitude of Chad cocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:46 AM
3

And then you guys wonder why you can't get laid. Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:09 PM
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The only men who have a high sex drive are the ones who are not having much sex. It works the exact opposite for women. The more good sex they have, the higher their sex drive. The more sex men have, the lower their sex drive gets and they start making excuses to not have it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:54 PM
6

Do you want them to buy a strap on and bend you over as well while they are at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:33 PM
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And then you wonder why men have such low self esteem and have trouble getting laid. Lol. Keep beating yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:09 PM
2

Oh wow ugly peoples don't get a lot of sexual interest. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:45 PM
7

Omg this again! Women make the first move all the time. All the fucking time! They will smile, look at you, hover around, dance in your line of sight, bend over to pick something up just in front of you, push up their boobs, jut out a hip, make an excuse to talk to you about something, etc. Women literally make the first move all the time. Sure. Very few will come over and say "what's up hot stuff, wanna get out of here", but it's your job as a man to spot the signals and walk through these open…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:10 PM
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Abundance has never left us. Literally more than every second person on earth has a vagina. Vagina is one of the most abundant things on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:02 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:00 PM
1

It's like sexual tension - a feeling of uncertainty and anticipation, positive drama, is it going to happen, is it not, does he like me, does he not, I can't believe he said that, why is he not kissing my ass, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:57 PM
0

Confidence and ability to generate emotional tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:09 PM
5

Simping is all around us and is the reason why many average women cop an attitude and think their shit don't stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:26 PM
1

I doubt he's even smelled a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:35 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:08 PM
1

Yes, you can get started wjth something like MoodGym.com.au or download on Audiobook (or eBook) When Panic Attacks by David Burns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:55 PM
2

And Putin started the war in Ukraine because girls made fun of his height in high school, ergo women are responsible for the massacre of tens of thousands of Ukrainians. Makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:44 PM
1

100% monk mode is one of the most retarded pieces of advice. It's a purely avoidance based strategy. Instead of tackling what makes you anxious and afraid head on, you avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:41 PM
1

Instead of resigning to your anxiety as if it is an immutable existential condition, why not do something about it? There are all kinds of therapy available for anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:39 PM
1

Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:12 AM
5

Any man who has ever fucked a woman's brains out knows that they become absolutely addicted to you afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:19 PM
0

I think your world view is inherently wrong. You have been brainwashed to make a baseline assumption that goes something like this: "Women don't like me/are not attracted to me, therefore I have a hurdle to overcome and the only way to overcome it is to woo them, impress them and sell myself as they best option". Look deep inside and realize that this is your default belief that you operate out of. Now, if you as a man operate out of the default belief that women are just no attracted to you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:07 PM
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Yes. People are not that nice naturally. Niceness is a survival strategy aiming at pleasing everyone around you so they take a liking to you. It's about not rocking the boat and being a chameleon in order to make others approve of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:51 PM
1

I think your world view is inherently wrong. You have been brainwashed to make a baseline assumption that goes something like this: "Women don't like me/are not attracted to me, therefore I have a hurdle to overcome and the only way to overcome it is to woo them, impress them and sell myself as they best option". Look deep inside and realize that this is your default belief that you operate out of. Now, if you as a man operate out of the default belief that women are just no attracted to you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:50 PM
3

No matter how much mental gymnastics you do, nice boring shy guys will never get much poonany.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:36 PM
2

It doesn't matter how much mental gymnastics you do, a naked horny woman will still not materialize in your living room.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:35 PM
1

Being a nice guy means you are ashamed of yourself or certain aspects of yourself. That's what being a nice guy means. Nice guys are only being nice guys because they are afraid of being themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:25 PM
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Women do have estrus, but they can also have sex and enjoy it outside of estrus. Which puts your argument that women don't enjoy sex and only use it to extract resources from men to sleep. What can I reply to this? Perhaps you should practice sex more and learn how to give better orgasms. The point is not that social conditioning makes women like sexual less. The point is that if women really didn't care about sex all that much, nobody would go through all these lengths to make sure women are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:16 PM
4

Lol thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:11 PM
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Here are three indisputable truths: Human females are one of two species that can have and enjoy sex outside of estrus (aka heat/mating season). Human females are wired to be able to experience multiple orgasms with ease, as opposed to the human male for example. All throughout history, every religion has sought to control female sexuality, including demonizing sex, criminalizing adultery, making women dress in ninja outfits from head to toe, etc. Now you take these three facts and try to reconc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:47 PM
1

You mean blackface?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:16 PM
2

To sit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:13 PM
1

At one point you have to make a choice about what is more important. Hiding your insecurities or feeling good about yourself. I'm not exactly sure why people fight so hard for their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:44 PM
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It's literally as simple as that. Women are looking for strength. A male who is stronger than her and can provide her with safety and protection. Men are looking for a woman who is young and healthy enough (as in good looking because looks are related to reproductive health) to produce healthy offspring. A strong man who does whatever he wants and is not afraid of rejection or of other men, will produce strong offspring. He can also protect a woman while she is pregnant and at her most vulnerabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:42 PM
1

You have no idea what makes a man attractive, so don't even try. It's none of the things you think it is.0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:37 PM
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That's why the idea that women are picky is absolutely retarded. I've seen women end up with some total losers. But they seem to have one thing in common. These guys do whatever they want and they are not ashamed of themselves. As a matter of fact, they take pride on who they are shamelessly even if that means they are not a good person. And that's what turns women on. On the other hand nice guys like you are usually ashamed of who you are and try to hide this behind a veneer of being nice and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:36 PM
1

If they didn't do anything about it in 30+ years what makes you think they will do anything about it now? There are millions of resources out there to help someone overcome social anxiety and shyness and develop their flirting skills. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. I grew up very shy and socially retarded as well. When I realized it was going to be a problem, I went to the internet like any normal person and started looking for solutions and eventually found resources to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:38 PM
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I think you are veering off into Nice Guy territory. While I encourage any man to look beyond physical attractiveness and really be discerning with the women he decides to take interest in, there is also the danger of suppressing his own sexual agenda. Let's face it, the only reason you want to talk to women is boobs and pussy. Most women aren't even all that interesting compared to men. Most, not all. But we feel sexually attracted to them. So it's important that while you look beyond physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:27 PM
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Essentially it is a problem with how the man presents himself. For some reason guys believe that they should hide that they want sex, they should pretend to be nice and chivalrous, they should claim they want a relationship, etc., in order to....eventually get sex. So they get treated like they present themselves. The guys who don't hide that they are only interested in sex and don't offer women any niceness in exchange for sex, get treated the way they present themselves and they get to have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:31 AM
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That's still pushing the responsibility for how you feel about yourself to other people. If only other say nice things about me I would be such an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:05 AM
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The biggest problem men have is that they believe they have a problem which makes it real for them. They believe they are worthless, underneath women, not good enough, etc. To be sexually attractive all it takes is to be a bit of a challenge and most importantly to unapologetically take pride in yourself on all levels. Meaning you cannot be ashamed of anything about yourself. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:21 AM
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You have to consider this fact. Women are taught from a young age that their only value is the sex they provide. And in order to capitalize on the only valuable thing they have (according to society) women are encouraged to exchange sex for security, which can be commitment, a nice dinner, fixing her car, getting her a job, finding her kids a nanny, paying her mortgage, etc. Being raised this way and having this message be reinforced virtually every hour of every day through media, movies, TV, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:58 AM
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