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It is actually not a woman's responsibility to make her son sexually successful. That's up to the father, who, conspicuously, is always absent from incels' rants and blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:29 PM
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I once saw a porno where two fat assed latinas were fighting over a white guy's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:26 PM
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Bro stop telling yourself stories that are disempowering and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:29 PM
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I find men who are extremely picky with women to just be masking a deep insecurity and fear. The easiest way to get out of the risk of getting rejected is to say stuff like "eh, she is not hot enough for me". It's just another excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:11 PM
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I mean you basically spent the entire post shooting down all the great advice that you have gotten over the years. You haven't implemented Jack shit and wonder why you are not successful. When people tell you that you need to be happy being single, what this means is that you have to decouple your happiness and worthiness from being in a relationship. This is called love addiction. You can look up the definition and explanation for why it is bad from Dr. David Burns, a clinical psychologist. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:08 PM
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Committing to? Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:52 PM
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I went out with a virgin in her 20s a couple of times. Pretty dull and boring person and full of drama at the end of the day. Many others too. You never know what you will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:47 AM
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Chicks are every where. Literally every second human on earth owns a vagina. It's so abundant. Many of those chicks are amazing high value women. And they do anal too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:11 AM
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God no and I have sure tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:10 AM
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If she eats ass and sucks dick like she has a PhD in it, she can have any man. Here is an example: https://youtu.be/Ak_l2IcVn1g
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:08 AM
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Actually the sample size doesn't need to be big at all. Because only one exception to "women only want to fuck 6' tall Chads" is enough to prove most PPDers ramblings false. Anything else is just a cognitive distortion. "Abuh abuh, she just be settling for him, abbuh abbuh she is below average herself, abbuh abbuh maybe he has a lot of money, abbuh abbuh".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:36 AM
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Google the story, Einstein. It's in all major outlets. You can't be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:31 AM
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I am thinking of doing an experiment. I live in a relatively tourist area. One day on a nice day I will walk around and snap random photos of couples walking around. I will post these on PPD as proof that women of all shapes and sizes and Chadness do indeed have girlfriends and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:29 PM
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Female high standards: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11853631/amp/Inside-Britains-cushiest-jail-18-female-guards-fired-illicit-affairs.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:25 PM
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Women get fat because men are wimps and let them get away with murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:56 PM
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It was the e most productive 4 hours of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:55 PM
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Here is how unforgiving and picky women are: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11853631/amp/Inside-Britains-cushiest-jail-18-female-guards-fired-illicit-affairs.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:54 PM
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Not only is their low standards for sex a bad thing, but generally being so easy about sex is actually the one thing that keeps men from getting laid more. Every woman wants a challenge. It's the reason groupies will line up outside of a rock star's dressing room and be the 15th girl for the night to suck his dick and although he will never ever commit to her, she is excited to do it. It's the reason women go after men who treat them badly and never stick around. They are a challenge. They are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:53 PM
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I leer at them all the time and haven't been canceled yet. But I'm also pretty good looking so maybe that has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:49 PM
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Wait until she puts her tongue in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:22 PM
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Most women fail to focus on the ass and taint.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:53 PM
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Incorrect. Women have always wanted a man who will tell them what to do (have boundaries, be able to say no) and a man who is a challenge and they can chase. That has never changed in the history of humankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:51 PM
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When a white man goes to Thailand, Thai girls are not rushing to meet him because of him. They are doing it because in their heads white = better. They have developed a crush/curiousity on white men independent of ever meeting you. In a lot of ways, they are just fetishizing you. Eventually they will see you for the loser that white women see you for. You know what the problem is? You let women get away with murder. You kiss ass and wonder how you can be more of a nice guy and chase women even h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:50 PM
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I wouldn't say they want to suffer. But there is definitely outcome resistance. If you actually look at stuff like social anxiety, low self esteem, self isolation, and asked yourself "what is the advantage of these behaviors?" you will find that there are a ton of advantages. So a person who is anxious around women may actually be reluctant to give up his anxiety although it is realistically causing him suffering. Let's look at the example of social anxiety/shyness. What is the advantage to a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:27 PM
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Oh girl. The man has never had to impress anyone. As I said, women were seen as a burden to their family hence why the bride's father had to pay a dowry. They are trying to impress the groom so he can take her off their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:38 PM
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I will probably try to find a middle ground. Definitely don't want someone inexperienced, but would like not marry a sex worker for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:24 PM
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I already have a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:21 PM
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David X and Dr. Robert Glover. Also Brent Smith from Brent Smith Lifestyle are the only ones worth listening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:00 PM
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Bro, in most cultures the BRIDE'S FAMILY has to pay a dowry to the man just so they can get rid of her and pass the responsibility of taking care of her to her new husband/daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:58 AM
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Not only men don't care about purity, many of us who've been around the block and like good sex prefer the skanks. I need someone with a PhD in sucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:55 AM
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Couldn't help myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:38 AM
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Start by not being so uptight and insecure about everything. If you are totally relaxed and non chalant around women and don't always try to pursue them and hit on them, they may actually start liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:41 AM
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Lol, I haven't been rejected in many many years. You know why? Because I don't talk to women who haven't approached me and because I don't want anything from them. I don't need their approval, I don't want to get anything from them. I just want to find out if they are interesting. If they act bitchy or stuck up, I conclude they are not interesting to me. So that's that's there is no rejection. Your fear of rejection is what's keeping you from doing anything. You think women have your balls in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:42 PM
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Whatever makes you sleep at night. Me thinks it's just an excuse for never taking any action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:36 PM
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Distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:26 PM
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That's just an example of you living in the woman's world instead of inviting her into yours. In your world, you can create whatever rules you feel like. Me? At one point I just stopped dating. I'd go grab a drink with a girl and see if we clicked. Then it's off to one of our apartments. I refused to date. I've called girls up to my place just to fuck. You don't have to date. You don't have to play into that frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:16 PM
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Then why are there so many ugly and short motherfuckers if Chads superior genes impregnate the majority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:08 PM
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Nobody is butt hurt bro. You guys want to fit everything into the pathetic little story you tell yourselves of how evil women are and what victims you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:14 AM
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How would he know the kid isn't his? How many dads get dna tests? If all an average old hag needs to do is flash a smile at a Chad to get pumped and dumped, she can easily get preggers by Chad and pretend it's Billy's kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:12 AM
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Distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:10 AM
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It sure is. They are initiating. Holding the door open for you. If you are too retarded to take advantage of it, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:17 AM
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It's not approaching in the "hey baby wanna get out of here" way, but it's still approaching. They are initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:16 AM
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So they can just fuck Chad and have his offspring. Why do they need another man's inferior seed, even if they choose to settle with him as a husband? You guys haven't exactly thought this through, have you? Your theories have way too many plot holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:15 AM
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Women approach men all the time! They will look at you, smile, hover around you, dance in your line of sight; show off cleavage, ask you something stupid, etc. I reckon it actually happens to more men than they would like to admit, but the usual story from women is this: "I looked at the guy all night, I smiled at him, I made myself available by grabbing a drink at the bar alone, why didn't he come over and talk to me".it happens all the time, but men are clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:41 AM
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How do you know that? Don't you guys claim that any old hag can get a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:27 PM
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The question remains: if your mom fucked a Chad why are you short and ugly? What's her incentive for fucking a Chad if her progeny is going to be short and ugly anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:14 PM
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OKC is a scientific study? You surely must be jesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:03 PM
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Got any studies or proof about that? Though so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:59 PM
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On it now. No kids. I guess just virtue of being married. Your t levels shoot yo when you are around new attractive women too. The body is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:26 PM
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Wrong. What determines the rest of the relationship is does the man know what he wants and is he the most important person in the relationship. Womens job in a relationship is to take care of their man and fuck him silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:25 PM
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How come there are so many of you ugly and short motherfuckers if women are only fucking Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:23 PM
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It's like wanting a gourmet meal cooked by a celebrity chef at the speed of a McDonalds burger that you can pick up at a drive thru.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:13 PM
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When men have kids their testosterone falls off. So yeah, in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:01 AM
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You get what you can get. That's your league. You may believe male attractiveness is determined by his looks like it is for a woman, but that's far from true. Much more important is if he projects power and authority, knows what he wants, etc. I would even say pretty boys don't always end up with the best looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:54 AM
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Oh yeah. Point me to a study that doesn't come from a conservative, religious think tank whose agenda is to promote virginity and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:45 AM
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Being concerned with how society's opinion of you as opposed to your own opinion of you is perhaps the most diminishing thing a man can do to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:14 AM
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Perhaps by men who are sexually inexperienced. Guys who've been around the block prefer someone who knows what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:10 AM
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Someone recently posted a Male Delusion Calculator. There is also a female delusion one and I inserted my stats. I'm literally in the 0.25% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:28 PM
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How did you draw this conclusion if you are self admittedly not dating successfully?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:26 PM
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50% of the men think about sex 50% of the time. The other 50% think about sex 100% of the time. The ratio for women is more like 75:25, where 75% kind of think about sex here and there and 25% think about it all the time. So you may need to hit on 4 women before you find one that wants to fuck right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:26 PM
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Says who that men don't want sexually experienced women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:24 PM
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Any power that you think women have over you is the power that you give to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:47 PM
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Who is giving them the privilege of free drinks? Other men. So who is the really privileged one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:32 PM
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She is 25, he is 31. OMG HE IS GROOMING HER!!! POOR UNDEVELOPED WOMEN WHO STILL HAS A CHILD'S BRAIN, SHE IS BEING GROOMED BY A DISGUSTING PREDETOR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:27 PM
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You would also have to establish an undeniable link between "poor treatment" and suicide. The amount of rock stars who have have everything from Money, looks to fame and women who have killed themselves would provide that any such link is bogus at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:23 PM
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If there is anyone that would know about female virginity and genitals it's a celibate man who likes little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:21 PM
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There is absolutely no advantage to women having sex because as you very well know only men get to enjoy sex with different partners and have orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:50 PM
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I will take her to my priest to verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:48 PM
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I will make sure to tell my wife how boring and uninspiring it was to compliment her when I cold approached her. Or the countless other girls I've picked up over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:26 PM
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So why should a man not compliment them then? The premise of your post is dumb. You are not giving away any power, you are not making her ego inflated. This is from the perspective of an inexperienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:18 PM
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You can't. It's game over. No average man has ever managed to procreate in the history of humankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:05 PM
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If you consider yourself some random guy that's a YOU problem, my ninja.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:00 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've read on this sub. The average woman takes 3 hours to get ready to go out. The hot ones take 5. You think they look like this on accident? You don't think they appreciate it when a man is able to appreciate all the work that went in to make them look like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:55 PM
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Lol, being a provider has never been sexy. Maybe if you are Indian or Chinese or something but even on those cultures m it's only because marriages are forced. Bro don't know what to tell you but you are barking up the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:22 AM
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I will do you one better. Most men don't have to work harder to be tall, because it's in their genes. So a man who is short or weak should be relentlessly shamed and made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:12 AM
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Both men and women make the mistake of projecting their own arousal mechanism onto the other gender. What does a man require to become aroused, i.e. get an erection and be able to use it? Well, it's a magical combination of two things: A woman who is attractive looking enough (a fluid criteria that changes based on the last time you've had sex, how many beers you've had and how late into the night it gets.) A woman who at the very least appears willing to engage with you. That's it! That's all i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:10 AM
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I TRIED EVERYTHING!!! What exactly is "everything"? Can you share details? I made a profile on BOTH Tinder AND bumble. I told you I TRIED EVERYTHING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:56 AM
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What's the alternative? Kids these days are easier with zero guidance, zero role models. Half of teens are experiencing some sort of gender confusion. I didn't even know we have 14 different genders now. The most shameful thing is to be a cis male. It's worse than being the devil. And teens are more confused and unhappy than ever. Drug use rampant, they are not having sex. It's a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:46 AM
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The hardest thing to admit is that you may be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:42 AM
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I will tell you a little secret. Sitting at home and jerking off to porn is significantly less messy than dating real women. I see why many men choose that over the real thing. But dating, sex and relationships are inherently messy and anxiety producing. And that's what makes them worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:33 AM
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Cummon. There is always an unspoken hierarchy among men and women. Very attractive women have a lot of power and they hang around other attractive women UNLESS they are feeling particularly insecure in which case they will invite a less attractive friend of theirs to go out because it will make them stand out more. And the less attractive friend agrees because her attractive friend will bring in a lot of guys and at least some of them will stick around to talk to her as a consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:31 AM
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That doesn't make a man shitty, that makes him smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:42 AM
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Perhaps I should have added focusing on careers at the expense of relationships and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:30 AM
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It's more about the drive to be aggressive and to take on masculine traits in order to win in business as opposed to staying true to female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:28 AM
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Women focusing on their careers, being boss girls and not dating and men being obsessed over their looks and wearing make up. Gender roles are literally starting to reverse and it's not making anyone happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:37 PM
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That's a lot of words for "know what you want".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:35 PM
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Is that like the really confident and self assured 400 lbs basement dweller who hasn't been outside in 3 years and hasn't bathed in months?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:00 PM
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I think that women were attracted to qualities that had nothing to do with his looks. Stuff like his authority, power, confidence, not taking shit from anyone which means that he will make sure his loved ones don't have to take shit from anyone either. If you know that women are security seeking creatures, it all makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:25 PM
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This guy was considered a sex symbol when he was alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:17 PM
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That's a lot of words for older guys are actually hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:38 PM
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You don't get it. Their dad hating the guy they bring home is THE REASON they bring that guy home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:37 PM
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Man you started off so well and then went straight back to crazy town.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:36 PM
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I moved to the US because there is larger variety of exotic women here than in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:51 PM
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Womp womp at least be creative can't come up with anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:04 PM
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I think there a couple of things at play. One is the problem that men (and women vice versa) project their arousal mechanism onto women all the time. What does it take for a man to become sufficiently aroused (have a boner and have it long enough to have sex)?! Well, it's two things! 1 - a woman who is attractive looking ENOUGH (an ever changing standard based on the last time you got laid and how many beers you've already had that night) and 2 - a woman who appears willing to engage in sex wjth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:56 AM
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Ladies and gentlemen...and 14 other genders we have now!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:50 AM
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Lol; you haven't heard of Steel Panther; that's on you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:21 AM
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What male PPDers think describes the average woman: https://youtu.be/bkV0M1qbkcw And here is what the average PPDer thinks Chad's everyday life is like: https://youtu.be/aIXU4-zyWHU
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:20 AM
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Sure has. Humans have been fucking for millions of years, but somehow things changed the last 10 years because apps. Do you even hear yourself talk this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:13 PM
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Thank god you saw through this bullshit idea that withholding sex is somehow beneficial to you or to men. It's quite possibly the stupidest idea anyone has ever come up with. But it makes sense from a power play standpoint. As long as you demand something in exchange for your sex, withholding it does give you the power to obtain said thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:09 PM
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When I was in high school girls were fucking as young as 14. I'm sure some were doing it even before that. I lost mine at 16 and I thought I was a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:07 PM
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Oh, I actually think it's very easy. You just need to be honest and set the rules and expectations early.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:30 PM
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The point isn't whether the women are attractive or not or whether they know about each other or not. I'm not questioning that. I'm just questioning how a man can stay sane dating 5 women at once. I'm having a hard time keeping my sanity with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:23 PM
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Sure, when you are young you certainly have more time on your hands. Plus if they live in dorms, everyone is right there. But for most adults, juggling several women is exhausting (I know, I've tried it). Ou still need time to yourself, to play video games, go to the gym, relax with guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:18 PM
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Every woman I've ever met has wanted good sex. If you can figure out how to make her orgasm, she will stick around as long as you are sufficiently non needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:37 PM
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Guys who brag about having 5 girls are usually full of shit. Like bro, there are only so many hours in the day and all women require attention, sex, and quality time together. And what do you do on days like your birthday or Valentine's Day? 2-3 tops is the most realistically manageable harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:21 PM
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It's one thing to get them in bed and a whole another thing to keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:18 PM
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I did it quite a bit and when I met my wife I was dating another woman full time, went out on dates with others and hooked up randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:17 PM
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Oh yeah the 400 lbs virgin with no friends who smells of Cheestos but who also magically loves himself yet is unable to meet women? In what word does a person who loves themselves get to be 400 lbs, not take care of their body and never leaves the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:41 PM
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You seem to know a lot about women although you are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:35 PM
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Actually having a professional photo on your profile smells of desperation. Having a profile is already a bit desperate to begin with. But professional photos? Now you are just trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:47 AM
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Men have to face their fears. That's the only way through. Go out not overly excited and eager. Be honest. Know what you want. Be trustworthy. What woman won't want a guy like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:17 AM
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Has nothing to do with smartness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:03 AM
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People get secondary gains from their depression. One of them is that as long as he is "depressed", he won't hold himself accountable for the things he can fix. He can always use depression and his childhood as an excuse to do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:02 AM
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Oh yeah? If you weren't a depressed recluse, would you have spend all your free time studying hard to get into a good school and consequently gotten your highly paying job? Doesn't depression offer you a fantastic excuse for not going out and socializing? Isn't being depressed a fantastic way of avoiding anything that makes you uncomfortable? As long as you have something to blame, you will never have to face reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:57 AM
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People commit suicide because depression is the world's oldest con. It makes you believe irrational thoughts to be the truth, just like OP believes his own irrational delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:55 AM
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Don't buy into this guy's delusions. He is hypnotizing you with his tales of woe, although they are completely irrational, he is making you believe them. If you believe an irrational, crazy person, that's on you. Resist the BS. He needs to face reality. The reality that he likes his depression because it serves him a purpose. It has advantages for him. He gets pity, attention, it offers him an excuse for not going out of the house and facing rejection. His depression made him a recluse and that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:54 AM
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You are feeding into this guy's delusions. He is hypnotizing you with his bullshit tales of "woe is me". He's threatened to commit suicide in several comments already. You are buying into his bullshit and delusions by saying this such as "only sociopaths do well with women blah blah blah". He just can't face the fact that being a social recluse is not going to get him a girlfriend and that he will have to come out of his funk. Nobody wants to date a suicidal, depressed recluse. The stench of des…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:50 AM
2

Drugs have never been proven to be effective at treating depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:44 AM
2

That's because your depression has too many advantages you get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:34 AM
0

Sure thing. You are that special
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:21 AM
4

Therapy then socialization, in this order. You can do to. I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:16 AM
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All this money and you still can't act confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:14 AM
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You want to fix dating issues? Have all men in the world ignore women for 24 hours and no man will ever have dating problems ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:12 AM
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I think height doesn't even make the top 5 things women say are looking for in a man. The thing is if all a man had to offer is height, she may as well take a tall excuser than a short one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:07 AM
1

Would you cut off your balls and dick to have the hottest woman on earth marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:59 AM
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You'd give your right hand for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:35 AM
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And it's easy for any man to use his hand, but men are still not satisfied. Why do you think a woman would be satisfied sleeping with some rando who wants to fuck her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:17 PM
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It's actually what the power and status signal that is attractive to women and that is "I'm a man who doesn't take shit from anybody and as long as you are loyal to me, I will make sure you don't take shit from nobody either". It makes women feel safe, protected and comfortable with that man. It's something no incel, black or red piller wjll ever fully grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:18 PM
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I don't think RP shows female true nature AT ALL. If anything, it actually imagines women have way more power than they actually do. All the RP narratives such as cock carousels, alpha widows, orbiters, etc, etc, are not necessarily a figment of their imagination, but absolutely not as common as they claim they are. Most women are just as fucked up and flawed and insecure as men and they just want some love and some good sex. It's not that deep. RP actually does a great disservice to young men b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:57 PM
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Unfortunately for them I'm married. But one of you guys should step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:53 PM
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As unpopular opinion as that is, I do believe women have a hive mind, especially young and impressionable women of course. Nobody thinks for themselves and they would rather society at large make decisions for them. You see someone like Megan Fox get a tall, skinny tattooed white guy and all of a sudden every girl has to get a tall, skinny tattooed white guy. It's just a flavor of the month type of thing with women. At one point when the Sopranos was running, James Gandolfini was voted one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:36 PM
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Okay. Thanks for contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:33 PM
0

I'm sorry that your defeatist attitude doesn't agree with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:58 PM
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The solution is also men's greatest fear, ie that more women should become sluts who have a lot of sex. Unfortunately men buy into the whole "it's not important that I'm doing well, it's important that my neighbor is doing poorly".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:54 PM
1

Grooming? Gtfo! Real men have hair down there and the bigger the bush the realer the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:43 PM
1

And how has being an angry, miserable man worked out for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:29 PM
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Because it becomes a choice to share your life with someone else. A woman becomes icing on the cake. But to you, a woman, a relationship, is of the same value as air is to a drowning man. It's a need and neediness turns people off more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:07 AM
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You just think in circles. At the end of the day, you are unhappy being by yourself which means you will be unhappy being with someone else. Being unhappy with yourself is not dependent on other people but only on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:58 AM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:09 AM
1

If you are confident about who you are, You like yourself and you think you are worth meeting then you will have no problems introducing yourself to a woman. If you knew someone that you were absolutely crazy about, you cherished them and liked everything about them and couldn't wait to spend all your time with them, would you have any doubts about introducing this person to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:02 AM
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In primitive societies of old, boys were out through a rites of passage ceremony, where they were formally taken away from the mother (from the safety of the nursery) and they were made to face a grueling physical and mental challenge. After they overcame it, they became men, warriors, hunters. The idea is all about facing their fears and understanding that fears are toothless. That's what overcoming fear of rejection is. Once you do it, it literally can never hurt you. A coward dies a thousand …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:55 AM
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See, you see basic male things as effort and a burden to you. Omg, I have to go and talk to her, oh the burden, how will I ever get over it. Or asking her out on a date....omg the man has to do EVERYTHING. None of these things are difficult or take any effort. It takes just as much effort to sit home and jerknoff than it does to go out and talk to women. It takes just as much effort to beat around the bush and not ask a woman as it does to say "hey, I like you, let's go out this week and get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:23 AM
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It has everything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:20 AM
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Women aren't that complicated dude. You are not storming Iwo Jima when you go and talk to a woman at the bar. Enough with the whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:08 AM
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Nobody is gaslighting you. Other people want to be cherished and desired for who they are, not for being a trophy to alleviate someone else's loneliness and neediness. The same way you don't want to be some gold digger's sponsor, a regular woman doesn't want to be your companion pet. What is so hard to understand about that? When you learn to be happy with yourself and like yourself even when you are single and alone, only then you will actually become an attractive prospect for others. As long …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:00 AM
1

I think I finally figured out what women do in the bathroom for 3 hours! The only thing that makes sense is that they sit there combing all their pussy hairs to point the same direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:46 PM
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I think your answer was in your first sentence. It's better for society, but absolutely worse for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:22 PM
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Instead of hating on women for something that's in their nature, why don't you start questioning what's the advantage/benefit to you to be an average, nice guy, beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:22 PM
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So you are extremely confident on the inside but you are still afraid to go and talk to women? Sureeeeeeee.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:34 PM
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I'm not reading all of this, but I will address the section about "it just happens". There is virtually zero truth in this and as a matter of fact you can easily flip it 180. Let's look at this from the other perspective. To a man a woman: "is just born good looking and has to do nothing", completely ignoring that while she may be blessed wjth good genes, she is investing countless hours and money in dressing well, picking jewelry and the right shoes, getting her hair done, having impeccable mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:55 PM
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I've going out with women after chatting to them for 5-10 mins and then texting g them "let's go out" it's not rocket science and most women want to meet a guy (like me).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:38 PM
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You lost 99% of men at "don't be a fucking weirdo".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:44 AM
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A fisherman who spends all his days reading about the stupid evil fish that don't want to get caught on his hook, but have no problem nibbling his bait and scurrying away? Those fishermen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:43 AM
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Oh yeah, parents are the worst cock blockers. They install so many insecurities and delusions of inadequacy in their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:16 AM
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Your truth is my delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:58 AM
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Yes, that's very correct. I remember when I was young, probably 13, my family was camping on a beach type resort and one of their family friends had a pretty hot daughter that my brother and I wanted to hang out with. But my mom encouraged us to hang out with another, average looking girl, because we she was better for us. Of course, this was all caused by her own hang ups and insecurities because when she was young she was kind of an ugly duckling and guys ignored her for the pretty girls. So I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:57 AM
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That's why it is stupid for any man to use apps. They put all the power in women's hands who are sitting around and collecting conversations for many guys and not committing to anyone. Screw this. If I want you, I will approach you in real life. No distractions. No texting. At least I get to make my own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:50 AM
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I thought incel/black pill content is banned on this sub? Are we just going to all this BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:44 AM
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That's a step in the right direction but ultimately won't get you where you want to go. The only way to maintain power in a relationship is how willing you are to walk away. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:21 PM
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Pussy is the most scarce resource in the Universe. Only slightly more than every other person on Earth has one. It's THAT scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:53 PM
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I display zero value to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:37 PM
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Fuckable is a very fluid standard completely dependent on the last time we've had sex, how many beers we've had and how late into the night it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:18 PM
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Let's flip the table and substitute man with woman. With the advent of modern medicine and nutrition a woman not only doesn't need to breast feed a baby, but she can even have a whole another human being rear her baby. A female doesn't need to have a healthy body, a bubble butt and nice breasts, because any birth is guaranteed to be successful and medicine can help even premature babies survive. So why are men still attracted to female looks? Why do we salivate over big breaths? Round butts? Sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:42 PM
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Lol. I knew that's where OP was going with this. And of course women would balk at # of bjs before cohabiting. The question is why do men accept that they have to wait for pussy? I mean it's their fault for accepting such bs from women. But I guess saying "no way, Jose" is just too difficult for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:38 PM
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Whenever you need something from another person you become enslaved to them and under their control. The biggest problems men have in dating are because of these needs. The need for pussy, the need for attention from women, need for love, need to be needed, etc. Once a guy realizes this and overcomes his need for approval, he will indeed become a man. A man who won't have any trouble attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:27 PM
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Funny thing. You don't have to give women anything. And the less you give them, the more they want to chase you. Plenty of suckers give them stuff. Why do you have to be one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:37 AM
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I'm an extremely good looking man, except that I have bad teeth, bad posture and was too skinny for most of my life. Also had acne when I was young. Yet, the only thing that has made a difference in my life with women has been confidence and boldness. A man being bold is like a woman flashing her tits. It will elicit an instinctual and visceral response in you, even if the woman is blah otherwise. Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:35 AM
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If all you romantics believe in soul mates and pair bonding why the fuck do you need a piece of paper and a ceremony to prove how dedicated you are to each other? Unless pair bonding and love for life don't really exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:03 PM
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I can't think of anything more stupid than committing to exclusivity with someone you are not only not sleeping with yet, but that you haven't dated for at least 3-6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:01 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:14 AM
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It's not the status as much as what achieving the status does to a man. Once he overcomes all odds and scales new peaks to achieve something society wants of him, all of a sudden he gives himself the permission to feel confident and to feel proud of himself. It's the fact that he is now proud of himself is what actually attracts women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:28 AM
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And changing your narrative from being a loser or unlovable to being a cool guy who likes himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:50 PM
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Indifference. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ways-to-make-a-girl-chase-you-with-brent-smith/id952917216?i=1000435091503
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:07 PM
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The stuff above. How to read the signs of someone who is not interested or giving you the runaround. Social intelligence stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:20 PM
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That's one of the reasons I tell people and women especially that I have a small dick or that I can't get it up. It humanizes me, otherwise they assume I'm a totally unattainable, good looking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:48 AM
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Oyvey
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:39 PM
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I can't think of anything more toxic than listening to RedPill infected posters, other than incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:19 PM
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I can assure things have been like this for a very long time. Mostly because you have the wrong attitude about how this whole women and dating thing works. Basically almost 100% of the e information and advice that's out there in the mainstream is completely wrong. So is most of TRP by the way. See, it has been completely normalized in society that man chases woman. But this couldn't be further from the truth. Biologically and evolutionary speaking, the male is stronger, taller, can withstand mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:22 PM
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You have to behave like one. Why is this even a question? Don't bend for women, set the tone and take the lead. It ain't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah. I didn't realize you were a woman asking that. It sounded like a guy who thinks that because someone owns a vagina all their problems in life are solved. I'm just pointing out that men need to dial down the magical pussy thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:19 AM
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I think one of the major ways in which men shoot themselves in the dick is buying into the whole feminine mystique thing. They truly believe some unrealistic and unsubstantiated fantasies they have about women, about their mythical powers and ability to get laid on command. Women are not mystical or special or all powerful. Fuck. Most of them are more insecure and messed up than you are, but believing they are all powerful keeps men insecure, anxious, feeling inadequate, inferior, etc. Just get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:08 AM
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Getting a relationship with a woman is the easiest thing in the world. Just stop wanting it or caring about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:33 PM
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The pain is not real. It's only real on your mind and it is caused by the meaning that you give rejection. If getting rejected or just receiving low interest from someone you really wanted, it can cause you to give yourself messages such as "I'm a failure as a man/women, I'm a loser, I will forever be alone, something just be wrong with me for getting rejected, etc." These messages are negative and create an emotional reaction that you describe as pain. The reality is you can never be rejected a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:17 PM
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I think the gap can easily be explained by the fact that the most shameful thing for a woman is to be single. To not be able to get a man to take responsibility for her security means she's a failure as a woman. It's the same reason why every girl in the nightclub wearing a miniskirt and 6 inch heels has a "boyfriend". If she had a boyfriend, she'd be home fucking him not dressed like a prostitute out at 2am in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:08 PM
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I think you are projecting quite a bit in your assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:47 PM
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It's not about that. I am asking why is it completely normal for a man to think "wow she's so hot, I'd be the luckiest man alive if I had a chance to smell her pussy", but thinking the other way around seems like completely outside of the realm of possibility. What if that hot woman is having the same thoughts about the guy "omg, I'd the the luckiest girl in the world if Inhad a chance to lick this guy's balls". I'm calling attention to the paradigm men paint themselves into. They are down here,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:39 AM
2

So....you don't like boobs on a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:26 AM
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I'd venture to say that the brokest people are having the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:46 AM
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It seems that the problem goes only one way. That is, women have no trouble attracting men. These women may not have the best personalities or morals or be the best housewives, but they are capable of attracting men which, evolutionary speaking, is all that matters. On the other hand, men seem to have a lot of trouble attracting women. Why? I think it's because gender roles have been flipped on their head. How many guys can attest going to a bar and seeing a super hot woman and telling themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:43 AM
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You are right. The assertive guy is my way or the highway. I used to be the guy that was given the runaround by women until I learned to have zero tolerance for their bullshit and all of a sudden nobody was giving me the runaround anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:17 AM
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But if she didn't like how his dick felt, she needs to be able to absolve herself of the responsibility and say she was molested, raped or at the very least manipulated. Now think why that is? Could it have something to do with a certain red pill belief that every time a woman sleeps with a man, her value diminishes and therefore she has only a limited number of such transactions she can make? In essence, if the transaction was not to her liking, she can claim she was manipulated and therefore s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:37 PM
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Well she ain't charging him. He just happens to offer her free accommodations and cleaning services. That's on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:52 PM
1

Or maybe she likes getting regular recreational sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:23 PM
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Asking the right questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:16 PM
-2

It's also an indicator that she may do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:57 AM
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Very good question. When a man is complete, a woman is just the cherry on top. Or you may want multiple cherries. Sometimes you may want two cherries at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:49 AM
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https://imgur.io/a/CiMkARv
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:10 AM
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I will tell you an interesting paradox. When I was single and unhappy with being single, all I wanted as to find someone. And somehow it always eluded me. And the minute I learned to be happy being single and wanted to stay single, a whole bunch of women decided that they weren't having any of it and started falling in love with me. Paradox? Yes! People who are happy being single, who don't lament their fate and don't need another person to relieve them of their loneliness are 10X more desirable…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:25 PM
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When I was in high school all that it took for a guy to get laid was to not be a total nerd/loser and to have some balls to make moves. Now, 25 years later, it's still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:19 PM
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How many women have you dated exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:33 PM
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Maybe there are more important things in life than pussy. Such as your freedom and that of your children and their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:57 PM
1

You frequent some interesting subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:55 AM
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Spare me. Your post implies that women are responsible for your struggles and responsible for helping you get women. The extend of your effforts were to make a dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:46 PM
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So the answer to your problems is hidden beneath the surface of your question. Are normie (or any women for that matter) that oblivious? Now why would and why should others be responsible for your problems with women? If an average frumpy woman complained that she could get no guy to be interested in her and she blamed all good looking men for being oblivious to her struggles and to her, how would you react? Would you think she's reasonable to blame men for her problems? Or would you think "damn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:15 PM
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Well it's not her fault you are not attractive. Maybe work on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:10 PM
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I can bet you a $100 that because of this tiktok the guy will be getting laid more than ever. All this women will "show him" how not to treat a woman by fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:33 PM
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As usual lost answers here show a total lack of understanding of women. Since most women are such a fucking mystery for the majority of men; they don't know some simple facts such as: -women are more shy than men -if you are nervous about talking to her, she is probably 3X more nervous -women are more afraid of you than you are of them -women approach men all the time, just not in the "hey baby let's get out of here" type of way, but they will look at you, smile, hover around, dance provocativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:15 PM
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I think people have to differentiate between good looking and arousing. Especially when it comes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:09 PM
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I go to the Bumble and Hinge subs and both of them have weekly threads for profile reviews. I have seen way too many male profiles and it's all the same shit. A couple of really bad photos, dressed in plain t shirts and jeans. Glasses. Bad hair. Bad lighting. Hands in pockets. And don't get me started on the boring bios. Yet, not one guy has been willing to consider that they should change their look or wardrobe or groom better. It's always the same response of "getting a haircut and a well fitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:04 PM
1

It's not about you being responsible for their body count. It's just that you perpetuate the ridiculous judgement men place on women (who also do it to each other) about it. In essence you are shooting yourself im the dick making it harder to get laid. If you can't see that, perhaps you should check your IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:28 PM
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Red Pill men are just as brainwashed as regular men who as brainwashed as women. The belief that doing something because you chose to for whatever reason, whatever because you are horny, bored, like someone, like their look, their sense of humor, their crappy band, etc., makes you a person who doesn't respect themselves is completely bonkers. If you told a guy that he is less respectable because he chose to pursue something he wants despite what society tells him he should, he will look at you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:44 PM
0

Losers by your standards maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:17 PM
3

Losers by your standards maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:49 PM
2

This is not "Andrew Tate's method". This is just not being an excuser and being a direct alpha male. He can't be serious that he is ascribing it to Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:12 PM
0

If she is not between 19 and 19 1/2, she's not worth dating imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:11 PM
1

Lol you can possibly be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:10 PM
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Ah yes, the typical brigade of malcontents and perpetually angry people. You know you are not doomed to stay sexless and loveless for the rest of your life. You are not doomed to anxiety and depression. You can do a lot to compensate for your less than ideal looks. I know, lot of work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:53 AM
1

Old guy checking in. You speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:30 AM
2

Old guy checking in. You speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:30 AM
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Attraction for men and women works very differently. You will be attracted to a girl because she has a nice set of tits whether she acts like your sister or a total bitch who doesn't give you the time of day. For women, they are attracted to our behavior and who we are on the inside. And I don't mean the "I'm a nice kind guy" way, but the "I know what want and I'm going for it" kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:28 AM
1

Eliminate or lower the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:36 PM
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But you are still playing the dating game. If you don't want to play the dating game and have to pay then don't play it. Just tell women you are not much into formal dating and just like to hang out and chill. That's all you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:22 PM
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Ask yourself why do you go on dates and pay for them? Is it your idea? Is it a belief that you formed willingly? Or was it something t that you were always told is just the way it is. If you think it's just the way it is, why do you think women are not thinking the same? She is thinking it's the way it is. It's what my dad told me to expect and every single movie, magazine article and what all my girlfriends are saying I should expect. At the end of the day, you believe in something that you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:09 PM
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This sounds like a you problem. You have the unrealistic belief that good morals and behavior should be rewarded with sex and that it's not fair to you when they are not. This is just the wrong view of the world and when your belief collides with reality you end up depressed and angry at the world. I think you need to manage your expectations of the world, others and yourself. Do a cost benefit analysis of the advantages and disadvantages of the belief: Good, well meaning guys should get rewarde…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:35 AM
1

Not at all. Women need a connection and need to feel comfortable with a guy. Someone who is leering at them and only thinking about one thing is creepy. Someone who admires them for their brain only is just a friend. You need to strike a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:23 AM
1

The gender wars are not real at all. But you need to go for what you want. If you are expecting a naked girl to materialize in your bedroom out of thin air you will have to wait a damn long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:17 AM
1

Lol. You need to set up some rules for yourself so you can save your sanity. There are many types of women but these two are very predominate. They are either on apps just to seek attention and chat with guys and get validated but never actually go out with them. The other kind is just anxiety ridden and the thought of seeing someone in person terrifies them. Don't waste your time with either. Spend a few messages back and forth, flirt, see if you are comfortable with each other and go for the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:15 AM
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You have to look at the facts. In all major religions, the woman is subservient to the man. In Islam the woman walks behind the man. In Christianity all the nuns serve the one alpha male Jesus Christ. There are two types of people in this world. Those who suck dick and those who don't. When you are fucking a woman, you put her face down and her ass up and you fuck her like a lion while she screams "fuck me like a dirty slut". So look at the facts and draw your conclusions on who has the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:20 PM
1

I'm the whole package yo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:32 PM
19

Start by shaving your nose and ear hair and dressing in a stylish, sexy way. No goofy looking facial hair and get an adult haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:14 PM
14

Lol, there is no war of the sexes. It's all in your head fed by a bunch of social and online brainwashing. Women are normal human beings like you and I and they are looking for some good fucking and love just like everyone else. You are ascribing some magical pussy powers to them that don't exist. Of getting some sex and owning a vagina solved all of their problems why are still so many women unhappy and kills themselves or lead miserable lives? Stop living life with your head stuck up your ass.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:39 PM
1

I'm telling you, religion has figured that out TJ Lisa da of years ago. The natural order of things and here you are arguing the opposite is true. That black is white, up is down, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:58 PM
1

What's not making sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:46 PM
2

It is a well known fact that most men are wimps and will never stand up to their women when they nag them or treat them like they are stupid. Which is what really leads to high divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:19 PM
5

My wife got ready in only 30 mins!!! I count that as a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 PM
1

Scissor each other???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 PM
0

All of the world's major religions, if you look at them, have one thing in common. Not the god they pray to, but the fact that in those religions women are subservient to the man. In Islam they follow the man several steps behind, in Christianity you have nuns whose lives are dedicated to serving the one supreme alpha male - Jesus Christ! How can those guys have figured this out thousands of years ago but you guys can't figure out who wears the pants in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:36 PM
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Women want to be told what to do. As simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:45 PM
1

https://youtu.be/D5XKSglp9fk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:45 PM
15

You also forgot the Sunday afternoon Chad gangbangs. Get the cock carousel thing out of the way in one fell swoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:56 AM
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The funny thing is that's your "friend" wasn't even focused on these guys' looks all that much. She mentioned dangerous and risky guys. That's what you really should be focusing on. Why is that being a bit dangerous and risk taking is so attractive and hot to women? These are certainly traits one can develop by facing his own fears and defeating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:54 AM
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You have to face the truth that you are afraid of women and until you overcome your fear of women, you won't be successful with them. I don't know what you did that led to your rejection for the thousandth time, but I bet it was some excuser move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:00 AM
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You will always end up failing as long as you don't want to admit the truth to yourself and accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:10 AM
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Women are already making the first move. They approach all the time by looking at ya, smiling, bending over in front of you, making silly small talk, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:08 AM
0

That's a great way of getting really good at pleasing this ONE person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:06 AM
1

Awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:52 PM
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Sex is a skill just like any other and you need to practice often and with different partners to get really good at it. It's like someone who has been practicing tennis only with their buddy who only hits forehands at a half dozen different speeds and thinking they are an amazing tennis player. But if they haven't played against anyone else, it means they have plenty of blind spots they don't even know they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:34 PM
2

Great argument! Thanks for contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:41 PM
2

I'm the only man around and all women are forced to have sex wjth me or become cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:41 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:31 PM
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Yes, I am concerned about this. But my immediate concern would be: Gosh, she doesn't know how to suck a dick properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:21 PM
1

Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:12 PM
1

Not red pill and these principles apply to less attractive men as well. You do know there are also less attractive women out there, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:20 PM
1

Not red pill and these principles apply to less attractive men as well. You do know there are also less attractive women out there, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:20 PM
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Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:06 PM
2

But but but only good looking guys are allowed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:57 AM
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Sorry but way more women drug themselves at bars and clubs with the most commons drug available - alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:57 AM
8

Well, unless he is leading up to anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:55 AM
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Dr Robert Glover author of Dating Essentials for Men l recommends a three levels of interest approach. Level one is what you did, small talk, innocuous. You are judging if she's engaging, etc. If she keeps talking, move to level two. Level two, talk about more in-depth and personal topics. Is she reading a book you can ask her about, or what brings her here, etc. get deeper and a bit more personal. The final level, you have to be bold and tell her to do something like "hey, I like talking to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:55 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:04 PM
1

Read the study. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:12 PM
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It sounds like you have some preconceived notions that you can't be talked out of. I'm just going to say, there aren't enough hot guys to go around for all the available hot women, nevermind the average ones. But hey, maybe you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:08 PM
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This is basic stuff guys learn before they exit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:30 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:46 PM
0

As the study says people perceive someone as having higher mating value by how unavailable and hard to get they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:39 PM
2

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:27 PM
2

Can you show me where it is written in stone that only good looking people can play hard to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:27 PM
3

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:25 PM
3

I mean if you harass women you should be worried about being labeled a harasser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:25 PM
2

It reinforces ideas that are often shot down here, namely that you can somewhat control your appeal to the other sex through your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:12 PM
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You are coming at this from the usual "men powerless, women all powerful" frame of mind, which is wrong. Yes, attractive women have a lot of choices, but they are all guys who are chasing them, which is the last thing they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:04 PM
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Some game playing is normal in the beginning. It's a dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:59 PM
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The playing too hard to get is discussed in the study. I would venture out and say that playing hard to get works fabulously for men. Your definition of pursuing is probably not the definition I would use. Men tend to see any initiation of an interaction with a woman as chasing her, when in reality chasing happens when the other person works harder to convince you to spend time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:21 PM
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I have it as open access: if on mobile open it in your browser instead of Reddit app
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:14 PM
0

You can raise self esteem of attractive women by approaching them more and taking them to bed and having good sex wjth them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:20 PM
2

You can raise self esteem of attractive women by approaching them more and taking them to bed and having good sex wjth them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:20 PM
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You are focusing way too much on what women think and want. You should only be concerned wjth what you think and want. Focus on that and you won't have a problem with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:19 PM
0

They absolutely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:02 PM
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It is very easy to gain the advantage in dating as a man. But most guys are not willing to do the work. I can outline the steps for you, but taking them is on you. You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink. Kill the Pussy Monster Develop your self respect and demand respect from everyone but especially women Learn to dress to the teeth Develop a take it or leave it attitude when it comes to women Actually go out and meet women outside of apps. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:54 AM
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As long as their legal it's none of your damn business who's fucking who.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:43 AM
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Hold on a minute. You guys are always talking about the Sexual Marketplace but like any free marketplace, there will be competition between those who provide services and the consumers. In the human sexual marketplace both men and women offer services and consume them from each other. A free marketplace means that there will be certain inequality because some members will be more competitive than others. So what you are telling me is that you want to institute Sexual Communism and make everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:43 AM
1

See, the red pill was founded by the same nice guys and white knights who are the core of the blue pill. They come at dating from the same nice guy perspective, which is based on the assumption that women's sexual attraction towards men is determined by the man's morality, goodness, The reality is nature doesn't care about man made concepts such as morality, ethics, social standing, etc. it cares about penises in vaginas. It's the same reason why a man will 100% prefer to fuck a hot stripper wjt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:30 PM
1

Evident to anyone who has seen MILF Manor and it's fictional predecessor MILF Island. De-BOR-ah had it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:23 PM
3

Sex is no big deal. You are making it into a big deal. The less of a big deal you think it is, the more of it you are going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:59 PM
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I responded in another thread on a similar topic. In my experience the fantasy women have is that her looks that she put in a lot of effort and work in (cute outfit, the hairdo she spent $250 on, her nails, her shoes, the fact that she's been living on carrots and celery sticks for a month, etc.) will attract a quality man's attention but not end there AND he would actually be interested in getting to know her personality and connecting with her as a human being. In reality men tend to go into o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:14 AM
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I've always said that fucking ugly women is harder than fucking attractive women. I know it sounds illogical but exactly because of the reasons you listed. They are insecure, they see sex and make attention as validation for their fragile egos and because they have never been treated all that well by men, they are also distrustful and difficult. An attractive woman on the other hand is used to male attention and knows a man who is worth his salt and is valuable and can appreciate him quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:02 AM
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No idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:55 AM
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Honest question: how do you know so much about women and their social circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:02 PM
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That's not how it works. There is a way to get women and you have to do it the way they want. The same way there is a way to get men and women have to do it the way men want (dress sexy, look good, be charming, etc.). You can get mad all you want, but it's not about picking lanes. You have to give women what they want so they can give you what you want. To put it another way if you only sexually objectify women, it's analogous to women who love your personality "but only as a friend". It makes y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:11 PM
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Do I have to explain to you how exclusivity works?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:36 PM
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Actually here is how it works. A woman leads with her looks and sexiness hoping a man will come along who will appreciate that but is also interested in her personality. That's the fantasy and that's what men screw up the most, because they go in one extreme or the other. They either treat her just as a sexual object or some trophy to be won (the creep) OR they only focus on her personality whilst killing their own sexual energy which usually ends up in getting friendzoned. It's the exact opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:57 PM
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I think this is normal. People in exclusive monogamous relationships get complacent. There is no competition to speak of. Why do you think women want to lock men down after a couple of dates? If they get him to agree to exclusivity, she instantly eliminates all competition and is in the position of power. And what happens when there is a monopoly? You are right, quality of the product drops off pretty quickly. I'm afraid that's just human nature. Once a single mom is out in the free market, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:55 PM
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Exactly. Men don't realize if women were more promiscuous, that would mean more men would be getting more sex. Instead they contribute to the Pussy cartel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:52 PM
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The chemical imbalance theory has been disproven over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:40 PM
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I live in NYC where the worlds most beautiful women come to become models and actresses and work in fashion and finance. Even here I struggle to find one out of 10-20 women sufficiently attractive. Not impossible but a very hard task.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:42 PM
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I live in NYC where the worlds most beautiful women come to become models and actresses and work in fashion and finance. Even here I struggle to find one out of 10-20 women sufficiently attractive. Not impossible but a very hard task.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 PM
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It's part of the social brainwashing. But any woman who thinks she is giving me something or giving me a gift, can go out and buy a cucumber cause I ain't touching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:50 PM
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I'm an extremely handsome man. My mom has been telling me this since I was kid. And so did my aunt and their friends. I'm certain that it has gotten me a look or two in my general direction over the years. But I have proved to myself over and over and over that the only thing that consistently gets me results is confidence. The confidence to be myself and to know what I want and where I am going. That's the only thing that has consistently gotten me the undivided attention of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:46 PM
0

Why? I said I liked it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:23 PM
1

First and only relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:11 PM
0

As long as it happened 3000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:11 PM
3

So we are products of selective breeding? Like those funny dog breeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:44 PM
2

Women crave security the way men crave approval. Once a woman secures security from a man who for all intensive purposes is her new Daddy, she feels free to do what she wanted to do in the first place, which is to find herself a sexy boyfriend. Sexy boyfriends don't provide security, but they do provide EXCITEMENT. In a similar way, men need to secure approval from society. Once they have that approval because they have worked hard to achieve a certain status including getting married to a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:24 PM
1

Giga Stacy! Lol good one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:20 PM
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He's not bad looking just needs to share the two hairs left the top of his head instead of clinging to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:18 PM
0

Funny thing about genetics. If you are alive today, it means that your ancestors successfully procreated since the beginning of life on earth. But sure, somehow your genes are not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:13 PM
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If that happens to a guy then he must change to make himself more appealing to the people he is trying to attract. I think this is basic logic and math. But if one is retarded enough to believe in incel ideas, I can see how they would be too retarded to put 2 and 2 together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:08 AM
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I don't think women are that complicated buddy. You believe you have a problem and that makes it real for you. Your problem is between your ears. Turn that shit off with drugs and alcohol and I guarantee you you will get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:06 AM
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Red pill is terrible for getting laid. It treats women as the enemy, or more correctly as something that stands between the man and SEX, that needs to be swiftly manipulated in order for the man to obtain the SEX and go on with his day. Men would be way more successful if they were actually on women's side and stopped treating them as adversaries who are trying to keep the SEX away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:58 AM
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Your post reminds me of growing up in an Iron Curtain country after the fall of Communism. All of a sudden vast swaths of the population and industry found out that they are not competitive at all and their economic "success" was a function of heavy subsidies and a de facto unionization. Unions (such as the Soviet Union) exist solely for the protection of their weakest (least competitive) members. So what you are saying is that in a sexually liberated society, all the nerds and nice guys are fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:53 AM
2

Men operate exclusively out of the Marx paradox, named after Groucho Marx who famously once said: "I would never belong to a club that would have me as a member".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:47 AM
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Just start doing TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:40 PM
2

Maybe you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:59 PM
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How is this realistic? Guys under 6' mate and have kids. There is a whole continent called South America where Latin, Hispanic people breed almost exclusively. Enough with the black and white thinking. There are plenty of shades of gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:13 PM
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Yeah no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:45 PM
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Because you spent so much time putting yourself down. Literally you are the only person beating yourself up. Just a little hint: women always follow your lead. So if you don't consider yourself up to par, they will take your lead and conclude you are full of BS. But if you do consider yourself an excellent m, cool guy, they will follow your lead and conclude the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:28 PM
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Any woman who would join such a group is such an unbelievable loser, that you are better off not dating them ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:48 PM
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The second you do ANYTHING to impress a woman (or anyone else for that reason), you start making their opinion of you more important than your own opinion of you. And I couldn't think of anything that's more diminishing to a person than that^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:34 PM
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Had your bitterness and anger towards women ever done anything positive for you? Like has it actually improved your life? I get that it's cathartic to feel angry. Anger is a tough emotion to deal with because it makes you feel superior and righteous. I get that part. But realistically and objectively - has it helped you have better relationships with women, more sex, better sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:52 AM
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Let me tell you something. This has nothing to do with alpha male status. My best friend, who was a total sex machine, he must have slept with over a 100 men if not more. He banged all the girls in high school that we were only fantasizing about. Guess what? He got married, his wife had two kids and difficult births and their sex dropped off to non existent. This is a guy who can go out and have a new girl in an hour. It's not about whether he is alpha or not. Both men and women get tired of fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:49 AM
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I guess the implication is that an "alpha" will not likely want to commit and is therefore a challenge that the woman has to pursue. He will never settle down and therefore avoid dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:46 AM
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The only way women "pay attention" is when they sense they have competition. Sad but true. If other women start sniffing around you, they will shape up very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:44 AM
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Here is what the studies are not accounting for. Men's sexual desire drops off dramatically to. But for their long term partner only. Not for other women. The problem with women is that when their sexual desire drops off for their partner and they have less and less sex, they get less and less horny. It works the opposite for men, the more sex we have, the less horny we get for the woman. The less sex we have, the more horny we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:43 AM
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This was...really sad to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:39 AM
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This is a great idea for all these girl babies that the Chinese and Indians kill. They could have given them to us to put on an island or in communities like this. A bunch of Asian chicks!!! Can you imagine!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:20 AM
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Women have evolved to follow a man's lead. So when a man shows up and he likes himself and know he is a quality guy, confident in himself and his abilities, a woman will follow his lead and draw the same conclusion. But if a guy walks up to her and he thinks he is full of shit and unworthy of her because he's not tall enough, white enough, buff enough, she will follow his lead and conclude that he is no good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:13 AM
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Life is so much easier when you take responsibility for your romantic and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:14 PM
0

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:17 PM
1

I will let those MILFs play with my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:47 PM
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Most dating advice for men is extremely feminized and ineffective. And in the current political climate it is completely non-PC. The sad part is that the people suffering the most from that are actually women. They are constantly unhappy and bitchy because there are no real men out there to provide them with leadership, boundaries and structure. No amount of screaming "I'm an independent strong woman, I'm a girl boss" is going to make a woman feel comfortable and happy wearing the pants in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:31 PM
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The issue most men have is that they don't particularly like themselves or like the fact that they are men and that comes with certain expectations and burdens, such as taking the lead in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:04 PM
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That will do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:32 AM
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Are you upset that I'm calling 99% of male posters on here on their BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:31 AM
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Who cares about meaningful. At the end of the day all the bitching and moaning is a choice. You can find a woman to fuck you. Perhaps women have the luxury of having their first time be "special", but men don't. If you as a man can't figure out how to get laid and be done with your virginity then you are probably not a man any one would want to follow anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:05 AM
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So you do admit virginity and incelism are a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:57 AM
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If your posting history includes any sub with the words "virgin", "incel" or "forever alone" or endlessly complaining that women have ignored you your entire life, than you don't really have a good excuse. Your predicament is your choice. You can fuck someone you are not interested in, the same way those guys want women to fuck then although they are not really attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:45 AM
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Actually plenty of the men here admit they could get with unattractive women and that plenty of women are interested in them although they are not interested in them. For some reason none of them have taken advantage of that interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:17 AM
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Low T. I mean I can get it up but I'd rather smell some new pussy. But alas I'm married, sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:06 PM
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Honestly if most women stopped wearing makeup I'd probably go gay cause men are more naturally beautiful anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:56 PM
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Thank you! PS Do you know if the thick thighs come with the shorts or do you have to buy them separately?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:42 PM
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I love women. Adore them. I'm obsessed with them. From the first time I saw my mom naked when I was like 7 or 8. It was like that scene from Don Juan Demarco when Johnny Depp as a baby checks out his mom who gets naked to take a bath in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:33 PM
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There are plenty of chicks who show up to get laid. You just gotta know how to read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:32 PM
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I've managed to fuck in all these age brackets. Now I'm in my 40s and married but if I we're playing the field there would be plenty of takers. I look better now than I did in my 20s bar the hemorrhoids and busted foot, and low T I have to supplement for. Also I can't get it up but if I could I'd know how to use it better than an 18 year old with a rock hard erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:32 PM
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No amount of looking at statistics and data will help a man get laid. Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:14 PM
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Do these have a zipper on the butt?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:09 PM
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Going to the gym is good for you to get fit and last in bed longer, but the way men do it it's just another way of avoiding the anxiety that comes with dating and having sex wjth women. They think if they get a six pack women will magically throw themselves at them or will be able to see the 6 pack beneath all their clothes at a party. Men need to get over their fears and go talk and socialize wjth women, flirt and make moves. Nobody is doing that anymore. Going to the gym is just another way of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:02 PM
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Pretty sure women don't feel that. Are you sure it wasn't just gas?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:41 AM
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Please point to the shorts on the Amazon page: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=mens+shorts+athletic&crid=JSLZYIYUZM3L&sprefix=mens+shorts%2Caps%2C98&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_2_11
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:40 AM
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For one being insecure and low self esteem to do anything different from what he has been doing his entire life without success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:32 AM
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You guys wanted young virgins. That's what young virgins look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:14 PM
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Every woman is a hooker. Some are low class, some are high class. Some manage to secure a single exclusive client for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:13 PM
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Again, what you are referring to is emotional perfectionism. Meaning, you believe that in order for a person to be lovable and fuckable they have to be perfectly charming, sociable, stoic, confident, never nervous, never indecisive, etc. While this might be well meaning, chances are very few people will feel they live up to these stringent standards and all they will be left with is diss appointment and bitterness. If you believe that being a bit nervous and shy is bad and not something a manly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:52 PM
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My take is this. These guys have grown so used to their low self esteem, negativity and anxieties that they think this is their REAL personality. They have normalized the negative, distorted self image and cling to it for fear life. There are many reasons people resist change although realistically their current attitudes actually hurt them. For example, someone who is always suspicious and negative about women knows that their hostile attitude hurts their chances with women. No normal human bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:17 PM
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I think it's a combination of insecurity and low self esteem. It's like if you spend all your savings on a nice vintage sports car or a new car, wouldn't you treat it like it's made out of gold? Put the best gasoline in it, polish it and clean it every day and not let anything scratch it? But somehow extending this attitude toward your own self and taking care of yourself as if you were that expensive sports car is like asking them to eat their first born child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:05 PM
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He's gonna respond that he's tried everything and there is no point in trying to help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:21 PM
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If I had a penny for every time a man has told me "That would mean changing my entire personality (when given the advice to dress in a more exciting, sexy way), I want women to like me for me and if they don't like me for who I am, I guess I will stay alone forever", I would be a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:22 PM
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This is not a feminine frame. This is actually the masculine frame. What you are seeing women do is what men should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:25 PM
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Not RP but knockout any day and the more experienced, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:20 PM
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The only studies are from places like Institute for Family Studies which is clearly a conservative, religious think tank with an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:16 PM
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100% everyone knows women hate sex. We've survived as a species for millions of years through sheer immaculate conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:16 PM
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So why aren't you over there doing it? Why do you feel the need to come here and announce how badly everyone regards you. Just go and fuck all the subsaharan or east Asian women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:03 AM
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It always amazes me that women are so adamant about commitment and monogamy when it is literally the worst thing for them. I guess it's a remnant of our reptilian brains, where the female has to seek out security from the male because in nature she wouldn't be able to survive without him. But in this day and age when women can be responsible for their own security, insisting on monogamy is ridiculous. All it does is kill their sex drive and long term happiness. Women are literally made to be tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:37 PM
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That's because there are only so many billionaires to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:03 PM
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You are not understanding my point. Women say stuff like "we are powerful, we make our own money, we don't need a man for security, blah blah blah". And here you have a very successful woman in her own right who goes for an even more successful man than her. Why didn't she marry someone who is closer to her age and sexually attractive? My point is that no matter how successful a woman is, her need for security will always guide all of her decisions when it comes to mating. Getting attached to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:16 PM
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See you see hooking up with someone as hard work. An impossible, Herculean task. For some people, they actually take pleasure and enjoyment in connecting with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:56 PM
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You know, men could do the same! And surely there would be at least one homely looking dude who would be willing to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:55 PM
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Not even close. She may be worth several million. The guy is a billionaire. Old and not that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:52 PM
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This should give you a glimpse into the main reason all these men struggle with women and project such resentment. They consider themselves and by extension all men as unworthy, subhuman ogres. Their self hate doesn't allow them to see any reasons why a woman would want to be willing interested in them as a person or a sexual being. It's quite the mindfuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:51 PM
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Men project their own sexual arousal mechanism onto women. What does it take for a man to become sexually aroused, as in get an erection and be able to use it? Well, it's a magical combination of two things: A woman who he finds attractive enough (a fluid criteria that can change depending on the last time he's had sex, how many beers he's had already and how late into the night it gets). And in addition to finding the woman attractive enough, she also had to be willing. That's all it takes for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:45 PM
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I was just having conversation with my wife about a famous actress. More than capable of making her own money and having her own wealth. Yet, despite all the proclamations of western women about girl power, strong independent women who make their own money, you guessed it! She married a multi-billionaire, who also has several kids from different supermodels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:36 PM
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Sure thing bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:35 PM
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I'm just debunking the myth that women are picky. Yes,'of course they are going to fuck someone they are attracted to. Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:34 PM
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Yet here you are answering to my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:00 AM
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You just said all these guys had in common was their looks. Stop moving the damn goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:01 AM
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There are three positions a man can be with a woman. He can lead, follow or get out of the way. The worst is follow. If you are going to follow better get out of the way. The only one left is lead. You are on my train ride, I decide where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:39 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong and I really wish people like you didn't have a platform to bullhorn their defeatist beliefs to the world. The news are chock full of examples of financially successful, romantically successful men who off themselves. Their happiness is not at all linked to their success. And plenty of people are happy and self satisfied without having lived up to the expectations society has for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:29 AM
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Exactamundo. Rejection only hurts when you make it mean something about you, such as you are a worthless subhuman if you get rejected. Take away that warped thinking and rejection is meaningless. Men face rejection all the time. Someone beat you to the line at Starbucks, someone took that sweet parking spot you were eyeing, you didn't get the promotion or raise you wanted, your dick didn't magically grow 2 inches because you took some pills you bought at a gas station, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:25 AM
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And yet they seem to know women and their nature inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:21 AM
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What position is that? You are virgin? Let me guess. You have tried everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:15 AM
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If you have to ask this question, you haven't been paying attention. It also shows me you don't have much experience dating or being in relationships with women, which is apparently the typical state of a PPD guy. Women are invaded all the time and everywhere by men. Invading their space, pushing, poking. It's not something that you as a man ever have to experience. Your sexually deprived male brain is thinking "Being hassled by a creep on the street or the subway at least means you are somewhat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 AM
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So HVM = good looking man? So why all the terms and three letter acronyms? Just say good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:00 AM
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Yes it works. Because it will show you that rejection is a paper tiger. It has no teeth. Rejection itself doesn't hurt. What hurts is the meaning you give to being rejected. When you tell yourself getting rejected means that you are a worthless, subhuman trash, that's what actually hurts. You also become more resilient to rejection when you raise your self esteem. Go out and get 10 rejections. Go up to a woman with your phone out and say "Hey, you look really attractive. I would like to take you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:00 PM
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That's a very good question. Here is my theory. As humanity moved away from traditional hunter/gatherer tribes and started forming larger societies, the need to advance the social group became of extreme importance to the leaders of these societies. They needed to figure out ways to dominate other groups and subjugate them or they would also perish. Since men are very sex motivated, eventually the society leaders started linking sex with hard work and following the rules. They needed a lot of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:12 PM
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We spend iniftely more on deleting human beings from the face of the earth. And some of them are very bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:53 PM
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We spend iniftely more on deleting human beings from the face of the earth. And some of them are very bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:53 PM
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Just fyi, I've been asking this math question for as long as I have been on PPD and no one has been able to do the math for me yet. Which is surprising because I envision most men who hold these beliefs to be rather nerdy and probably good at math. Stereotypes, I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:44 PM
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And if he HAS felonies he practically drowns in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:41 PM
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Women being picky and having high attraction standards is a total myth. I can pull hundreds of news articles about women sleeping with prisoners, under age teen boys, criminals, drug dealers, bums, rock stars that just got done fucking 10 other women, and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:38 PM
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All women test men. It's nature. The same way the lioness tests the lion to see if he still has his balls. The way you deal with it? Calmly but firmly tell her you will not tolerate any such behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:23 PM
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Yes you are right. That happens 65% of the time every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:17 PM
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What's stopping you from sleeping with men and women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:06 PM
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Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:52 PM
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There is higher risk of being crushed by a falling piano as you exist your front door. Or getting in a car crash and dying or being maimed. Or dying in an airplane crash. Or chocking on your food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:47 PM
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He posts that kind of crap all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:42 PM
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You implied this by referring to nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:59 PM
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It's not about overthinking. It's about doing everything to defend his self defeating view of the world and not ever have to actually risk rejection, because if he did half of the things on his list he would have found a gf already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:39 PM
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https://nypost.com/2023/01/26/single-women-are-shopping-for-husband-material-at-home-depot/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:38 PM
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That's it? You didn't even have to put on pants to do this. Ninja please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:01 PM
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I find your rant really funny. If I had a terrible pain every time I lifted my hand, I would probably stop lifting my hand, instead of blaming the door handle that it's so high up that I have to lift my hand to open it. In other words, of your niceness is the source of all your dating woes, why not just stop being nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:53 PM
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Although I'm married and love my wife, I don't really think that human beings were meant to be monotonous for longer than a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:49 PM
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It's actually 15 years old data now. These same guys will tell me that my dating experiences from 10 years ago don't count because the world of dating has changed drastically since then. Can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:08 PM
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So why aren't men paying more attention to their appearance then? Why do these nerds always say "I ain't changing for no woman, if she don't like me for me, then I will stay alone for the rest of my life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:07 PM
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He doesn't need to do any of that. He just needs to tease, touch and tell. Be direct, flirt, tell her what he wants to do to her or where they are going on a date, etc. basically showing up as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:02 PM
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Lol Russia, where women outnumber men 2:1. Oh wait. 3:1. Oh wait? Abrams tanks you say? 4:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:02 PM
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They feel entitled cause you morons keep being too nice to them and kissing their ass just to get a chance of smelling that pussy. Can you really blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:44 PM
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What have you done to make this happen. And "I have tried everything" is not an acceptable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:47 PM
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The problem is that it's not a 15 year old "study" done by some online dating platform and that it doesn't fit my warped world view to a t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:45 PM
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I like charming, fun women, who appreciate rock music, like the outdoors, music festivals and concerts. I like low drama women. I like women who are supportive and have a warm personality. I also really like women who are dirty sluts in bed and would never ever date a prude ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:41 PM
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Yes, I have a friend like this. He ended up getting married, but here was the jist of his problem. He never made any moves. He was as passive as a woman. Women are opening doors all around men but it's out job to walk through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:40 PM
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Well, the answer is kind of hidden in your rant. Women are even more insecure than you are, so they are naturally searching for someone who has the strength and stability to make them feel safe. Here is the thing about insecurity. You have built up some image of how you SHOULD be in your head. The image originated from a combination of the messages you received as a child - "oh he's such a handsome little boy, he will be breaking hearts when he grows up, he's so smart, he so this and that". Soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:17 PM
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You are free to do whatever you want. Taking rejection personally is an irrational thing to do, because no one is 100% sexually successful. Even the most beautiful people get rejected. Even Adam Levine who is considered one of the sexiest men alive was made fun of his approach to hitting on women online. Everyone has a different batting average. Someone might have to hit on 2 people and one will go out with them. Another may have to hit on 10 or 20 or 30. We are not all created equal, that much …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:07 PM
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Let's dial down the hostility buddy. I don't understand what washing your ass has to do with confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:40 PM
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So you do have a negative view on confidence? What if I just happened to like myself and want to approach a girl because I believe I deserve a woman like her? Does that make me arrogant and not self aware? What would I have to do to earn the confidence to talk to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:20 PM
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Why do you have to earn confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:16 PM
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Why do you have such a negative view on self-confidence? You call every sexually successful man an arrogant asshole. Why? Doesn't this signal your own insecurities and lack of self esteem? I have found insecure are always the most hostile towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:54 PM
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So average man has equal chances of getting a ONS, relationship or getting friendzoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:47 PM
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I didn't get married so I would have to work on my sex game. I just want to roll on my wife, pump, finish, and roll off and go to sleep. THE BAR IS IN HELL!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:42 PM
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Of course there is irrationality in it. All beliefs that lead to loss of self esteem are irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with working on yourself. Part of it is facing your phobias and fears, such as not feeling you are good enough, or that woman are just not attracted to guys like you, etc. there is even fear of improving your appearance because others may think you are being vain or you are changing yourself too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:48 PM
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Boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:46 PM
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What's your alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:26 PM
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Not sure I understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:13 PM
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Oh noes, I am chased by an old man, oops I let my self be caught. Hehehehhe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:22 PM
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No, I'm making fun of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:51 PM
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Everyone has more money than a young woman. It's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:44 PM
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Of course! Everybody knows that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:44 PM
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The male fantasy is a naked woman who shows up at his door already horny and ready for sex. Reality: a woman will signal that she is interested by looking at him, smilingly hovering around him, etc. The female fantasy is a man who confidently and powerfully expresses his interest in her and sweeps her off her feet. Reality: men beat around the bush, act unsure of themselves and take forever to ask out the girl they fancy. I think both sexes can use a little nudging to get them closer to each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:37 PM
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Lol. You have this backwards. It's not men that are pursuing these women. It's younger women who are actively pursuing these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:35 PM
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I've only heard this argument on this sub and coming from perpetual losers who don't see themselves as quality men. Same as a woman saying all she needs to bring to the table is her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:21 PM
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If you as a man decide to face your fears and phobias, dating is very easy. Women are everywhere and they are starved for men who show up as men. When I was single, I got dates from women I met in all walks of life. I've met girlfriends at Starbucks, one literally on the street outside of a bar, in parks, museums, stores, and of course bars and clubs as usual. Women are everywhere. Most are dying to meet a quality guy who is not afraid of them and who don't needy and desperate. But that already …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:11 PM
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I wish they had a website where they would "warn" men about the biggest sluts in your city/neighborhood. I'd totally monitor it so I never "come across" one of these sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:08 PM
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TLDR, but if you take a woman's victimhood there will be hell to pay, boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:06 PM
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If you the only value as a man is your ability to spend your paycheck on a woman, then you are fucked. Luckily for guys like me, we value ourselves in many more and different ways. But that would require some self esteem and balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:02 PM
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And what if you are not as good as you think you should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:53 AM
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Oh my! There is always someone better than you. Does that mean you should never be satisfied? What if good enough was...good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:09 AM
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We are like buses but it's important for women to think we are like Ferraris.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:11 AM
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I would venture to say overthinking is the biggest problem men have when it comes to women. Nature even made us lower our thinning capacity by about 50% when we see an attractive woman, but guys overthink so much that even that's not enough to spur them into action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:17 AM
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Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:07 AM
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The study was primarily concerned with unattractive guys getting laid. Interestingly they worded it as "unattractive men" struggle to get relationships while "attractiveness doesn't affect women's chances". They didn't say unattractive women were getting laid less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:06 AM
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Well as you said there is always some desperate guy willing to fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:04 AM
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So once the hot guys, who are apparently even less than hot girls, find a gf who ends up porking all the average frumpers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:01 AM
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My guess from visiting subs like Bumble and Hinge and reviewing guys profiles? They are too many dorks. Too many dorks that are afraid of their own shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:59 PM
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So who is porking the hot girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:55 PM
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Got it - super hot guys are porking all the uggos. That totally happens like all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:51 PM
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A. Chances are she's tried different stuff and has been able to explore her kinks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:46 PM
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Expect less of yourself and you will be self satisfied. Pretty simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:44 PM
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So who is fucking all these women when the male/female ration is basically 1/1? Oh let me guess, the same 5 Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:44 PM
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That's BS. A cursory look at other couples will disprove your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:37 PM
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No one could possibly try everything. So I already know that's a lie. And when pressed for details, they all start giving excuses. Oh well, I went out and I got shot down, okay I don't want to talk about it. Hold on, you said you tried everything. I want to know what everything is exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:22 PM
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How can someone be obese and love themselves at the same time? Like if you actually loved yourself, you'd lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:30 PM
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Where did I say not to do anything to get laid? I said stop trying to live up to impossible expectations. Getting laid isn't impossible. Meeting women isn't impossible. But convincing yourself that the only way to get laid is to be a perfect Superman Chad who is always 100% confident and never shows any weakness is an impossible expectation that will do nothing but make you anxious, afraid and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:59 PM
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A cursory look at real life outside of your internet bubble will show you that women hardly date Superman Chads. Go to a mall and record 20 couples that you come across. Take a picture of them and describe what they look like. The proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:02 PM
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I never said that you shouldn't dress well or be fit. Taking care of your appearance is a sign of high self esteem. Obsessing over immutable traits and being depressed about it is the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:00 PM
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Yes, because that's not impossible to achieve. But having expectations that you have to be Superman Chad with no anxiety, shyness or nervousness is absolutely impossible and it sets you up for failure and disappointment 100%!of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:33 PM
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There is a difference between self acceptance and being resigned. If you are anything like most men on PPD you are just resigned to negativity. But I don't know. What are you doing about your dating situation? "I have tried everything" and "I made dating app profile" are not acceptable answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:30 PM
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Why do you always have to be better? This implies that you are no good as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:07 PM
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It's no more outrageous than women who say they have the vagina and therefore men should be paying for dates and taking care of them. You don't find that attitude of your fellow queens toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:34 PM
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So what else exactly do you want me to bring to the table? I have the penis. This is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:22 PM
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You said money and being provided for is the only thing that women were interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:32 PM
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No, it's not safe or okay. The so called imbalance in dating is actually something completely within men's control to fix. What are the two big problems? I will give you a hint. The Pussy Monster aka love addiction - the persistent belief that a man cannot live without access to vagina, that his life is miserable and black unless he is getting sex. For the more romantically inclined, this is the same as love addiction - the belief that you cannot be happy unless you love or are being loved by so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:28 PM
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So you basically admit that women have been whores (exchanging sex and intimacy for money/sustenance) for the bigger part of history? Just checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:24 PM
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You sound like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:56 AM
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Honey, I hope you don't speak so disrespectfully to people in real life because you won't get very far in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:21 AM
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Not true. Killing a bunch of men off is not in the interest of the survival of the species. If one tribe killed off all men of another tribe and stole their women? They would have bunch of more mouths to feed and therefore less food for everyone. It was in their best interest to subjugate tribes and merge so all could work towards the new tribes greatest good. That's how large societies were eventually born.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:31 AM
4

You know you can easily achieve all of this if you are just indifferent and non-chalant? Having a take it or leave it attitude with women will get you there much faster than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:51 PM
2

BECAUSE he used the DENNIS system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:50 PM
1

Sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:49 PM
1

I guess the study distinguishes between urges and actual behavior. I mean every single man will have an urge to rail a woman with huge breasts, but they may not have the balls to actually approach and take this women to bed. Does this mean that in reality men don't like big breasted women? Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:36 PM
8

The issue is that the longer a woman goes without sex, the less horny she is. It works the complete opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:44 PM
4

Romance is a commercially invented BS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:09 PM
2

Chasing and pursuing are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:50 PM
1

Okay. Firstly, you need to understand men and women evolved differently. For the survival and continuation of the species, it doesn't make sense for women to put themselves at risk and get maimed or killed. A bunch of dead women would be bad for our species. Okay? It isn't a personal thing. Look at it from the perspective of our species survival. We are therefore descendants of women who layer it safe, went with the crowd and followed the rules. This translates into the real world as appearance …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:49 PM
2

It's exhausting to you because you are doing all the chasing, lol. Because it's unnatural to chase women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:35 PM
5

If 75% of the population in the US is overweight you can't keep growing your business by appealing only to the 25%. It think it's a smart business move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:11 PM
1

Sure, the one place where women go out to socialize powered by alcohol is actually a terrible place to meet women. In opposite world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:40 PM
2

So what's your gripe here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:27 PM
3

No, it's not. The line is "may not". Just a hypothesis on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:55 AM
3

Told you to stop going to gay clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:39 AM
2

Yes, and women's most fertile period in a month lasts only 3-5 days max, which means the rest of the time she has a preference for more feminine men. If you guys are wondering what's the difference between a more masculine and a feminine guy it is their levels of prenatal and free testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:01 AM
-4

It will take me substantially longer than a single comment to explain why you are wrong in your assumption about women being the choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:58 AM
3

That's cause you go to shit places. Attractive women want to go to trendy, well lit places where they can show their beauty and find quality guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:41 AM
-2

Women are far from the choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:52 AM
1

Lol. Stop going to gay clubs dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:11 AM
8

As Dr Glover, the author of No More Mr Nice Guy, says "Nice guys don't finish last, they whither in middle management".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:45 AM
48

If a bar or a club had a 3:1 male to female ratio it would go out of business in two weeks. So it seems men cuck themselves by limiting their dating activities to apps only.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:53 PM
41

Just like guys constantly venting about bitches yet they keep chasing after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:50 PM
12

Everybody wants to be a victim these days because it apparently pays to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:48 PM
1

I think more women approach men than they think. They just happen to think like you. "Well, that never happens to me", so you naturally filter out women who are giving you signals and inviting you to talk them. As for traveling abroad to get pussy, I mean you gotta do what you gotta do but wouldn't it be nice to learn how to get pussy wjthout getting on a plane?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:27 PM
10

I'm just parroting what is being said in the sub every day. I can be picky because I have easy time meeting women I like. I also don't have trouble approaching women but many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:56 PM
14

Here is the thing though. It's always men who complain they can't get women. Women seem to be doing okay getting men. So you can demand they all have low n counts and be skinny to be attractive e to you and that's all fine, but women don't seem to have trouble getting the guys they want. So what's the incentive for them to change? On the other hand, men seem to be having so much trouble even getting in the same room as a female of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:31 PM
2

Omg, Capt'n Save a Ho. Women getting used and pumped and dumped? Dude, women love sex and like fucking. Nobody is using anybody else. Women feel used when a guy bangs then and then doesn't call again. The same when you buy a girl dinner and at the end of the night she tells you "let's just be friends". Yes, you will feel used too. Why do you look down on women who have had a number of lovers? What's the real reason? Are you insecure about your own n-count? Are you insecure that she may have slep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:57 AM
6

Oh god, where do I even start.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:35 PM
6

You can only be rejected if you want something from the other person or are offering yourself to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:33 PM
4

Oh yeah, those studies from IFS, which is totally not a religious, conservative think tank with an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:32 PM
0

Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:06 AM
-2

Oh that's so sad. I was looking forward to learning better jokes from the master. Why don't you want to teach me? I bet you are at funnier than I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:32 AM
-2

:( can you tell a better one? I want to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:16 AM
-1

Yes, but they are more in love with their alpha male. The guy that has balls and doesn't let the woman snatch his balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:58 AM
0

A Chad gangbang. Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:57 AM
0

It doesn't matter. You are already defeated before you even got out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:17 AM
3

Unless the room is full of Chads who are there for the gangbang?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:50 AM
-2

Lol you are defeated before you even made it out of basic training.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:15 AM
1

The gender that built America, stormed the beaches of Normandy, hunted buffalo in the Great Plains. Reduced to a bunch of whiney twats who can't get laid. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:53 AM
2

Same same. Multiply it by 3X. I tend to pick the crazy ones.?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:36 AM
-1

Not sad for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:53 PM
1

They need more time to catch up with my n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:27 PM
-1

Higher bodycount means higher likelihood that she's good in the sack. A sexually deprived virgin may not care, but if you've been around the block like I have, quality sex is much more important than just....sex. Any sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:53 PM
8

I'm 41 and I only date women between 19 and 19.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:39 PM
16

The funny thing is that the more you convince yourself your life would be miserable wjthout companionship and sex, the harder it becomes to obtain companionship and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:44 PM
0

It's paradoxical but it will necessitate that men start seeing women as being on the same side as them as opposed to enemies. It will necessitate that men start seeing women as a source of joy and pleasure as opposed to endless pain and rejection. It will necessitate non judgmental acceptance which will encourage women to be more honest and forthcoming about their true desires and thoughts wjthout the fear of being judged and admonished.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:54 PM
1

Saying the Spaniards are great lovers shows me you are completely delusional and I will stop listening to you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:34 AM
1

Nobody wants to go through the trouble of a ONS if it doesn't lead to repeat business. Plus if 75% of his lays end up ghosting him, well, he is doing something very wrong. Spin it however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:50 AM
4

So if it doesn't affect you and you have no interest in righting this justice, why make this post? What is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:51 AM
1

Saying they have to be better implies that are not good enough as they are. Do you have proof that this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:32 AM
1

Instead of complaint about this on PPD why aren't you alerting the appropriate authorities and/or taking the women who created these groups to court?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:30 AM
9

Of course? For all the guys complaining their moms didn't teach them how to be sexually attractive bad boys, if they have daughters one day, do you think they will teach them to wear short skirts, show cleavage and shave their pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:01 PM
1

The average frumpy woman has over 200 close friends, 50 admirers/orbiters who are ready to walk through hot coals just to smell her pussy and anywhere from 5-10 Chads on speed dial to satisfy her every sexual whim. At least once a week she organizes a 5 guy gangbang.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:39 PM
5

You mean most of them faked an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:49 PM
5

Yes, but women do it for a different reason. While men ghost because they weren't all that interested and just wanted to use her for a night, women usually ghost because sex was terrible. Her thrashing around and screaming "I'm cumming, I'm cumming" is usually a sign that she was faking it to make you finish faster and get on with her day. A woman who was properly brought to an orgasm will literally tear your door down to get fucked again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:26 PM
1

I was struggling after a relationship that ended with someone I suspect was suffering from BPD. So I was looking for answers and found a website that talked about people who've fallen for BPDs and it said that they specifically seem to target men who have low self esteem and don't value themselves. So that sent me on a self discovery journey to fix my self esteem issues and incidentally led me to be 10X more successful with women. I stopped chasing them for validation and because I liked and val…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:40 PM
7

Ultimately, I think it's both. Both frequency of partners and being dirty in bed. I've had women admit to me that they want things done that lost guys think only exist in porno movies. It's very real, but it takes a certain kind of man to elicit that. And the man needs to offer non-judgmental acceptance, which is about the opposite of what most PPD and TRP incels offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:44 AM
2

Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:02 AM
1

Latest version of cognitive behavioral therapy. More effective and faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:31 AM
1

I only became a man whore after I learned to like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:30 AM
1

Well, the reasons are actually not good at all and it's all really irrational. Once you see through how irrational your negative beliefs about yourself are, you kind of laugh at them and even ridicule them. You can't believe that you believed them in the first place. They just sound ridiculous. It takes some work to get to that point but that's why it is advised that they undergo TEAM CBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:36 PM
14

Women have an existential need/craving for security, which will force them to always seek security from men, in terms of commitment, financial benefits and more. Men have an existential need/craving for approval which will force them to do anything to gain it including sabotaging themselves. A man who overcomes his fear of disapproval becomes powerful. A man who dispenses wjth his need for approval in the first place, becomes free and so does the woman who dispenses with her need for security, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:53 PM
2

I only care about the inequality that I have convinced myself is the cause of my lack of sexual success, however, I will make claims of the need for social justice and revolution but will not give two shits about any inequality that might affect the objects of my derision, such as women or sexually successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:50 PM
1

Can you share with me the study/survey that was done to confirm your belief? Please provide references.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:13 PM
1

Over Generalization is a cognitive distortion, meaning it's an irrational thought pattern. So just because one or a few people believe does not mean everyone believes it. And aren't you engaging in mind reading by assuming g what women you may date are thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:04 PM
3

So does my mom specifically accept that or your mom? Who is society? Why is the important point about consensus? I want to understand who exactly decided that this should be that way and why should any of us actually care about this? Do you question your beliefs or do you blindly accept them and follow like a sheep?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:35 PM
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This post makes it past the mods and my post about the Idaho murderer who identifies as an incel was blocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:17 PM
5

Generally accepted by whom? Can you be more specific who is accepting and who expecting me to tolerate and why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:16 PM
4

Who says it's fine? Just because you tolerate it, doesn't mean that I or another guy would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:14 PM
14

I used to have the exact same thought until I discovered that the real problem was me not loving myself. When you are harsh on yourself and downright hate yourself at times, you also tend to not like and harshly criticize others and that hostile attitude repels them. Just analyze the posts and comments of PPD's resident complainers/incels. They are so hostile towards women. Like, what normal person would want to be with someone who despises them so much. Beneath this hostility is simply self hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:12 PM
0

You should give yourself more credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:03 PM
0

It definitely affects women more because society values sex appeal and women's looks more than man's. CEOs can be in their 50s and 60s even 70s and they are still powerful. A woman who gets up there in age and loses her sex appeal is no longer taken seriously. What's the last major movie you've seen with a woman over 50? But there are tons of movies wjth much older male stars, like Top Gun, James Bond, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:58 PM
-1

Despite what women on PPD tell you, they are all terrified of aging and will do anything to stave it off. They are terrified of losing the power they once had with men and the goodies and privileges that came with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:33 PM
2

It will give you just one more reason to think of yourself as a loser who can't get a girl unless he pays for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:36 PM
0

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over (online dating) and expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:35 PM
5

You have to understand, guys like OP have a certain value system and they measure everyone and especially themselves by it. When OP measures someone up and considers them inferior to him, he feels on cloud nine. When he measures someone up and figures out he is superior, OP is thrust in the depths of despair and self loathing. It's the only possible outcome of having such a rigid value system for evaluating human worthiness. I've found people who are the harshest critics of others are also their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:55 PM
1

The autistic retardation on this sub keeps surprising even me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:21 AM
-1

Your definition of chasing is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:51 PM
2

She barfed in her purse after we had a fun night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:16 PM
1

You have pegged a dude? Damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:16 PM
14

You make a good point, because sexless men all want to take. Take take take from women. But it's really not clear what it is they could give? Their anxiety? Their depression? Low self esteem? Negativity? Hate? Eh, no wonder there are no takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:14 PM
2

Hey man, sorry to break this to you but pussy is not scarce at all. Every second human on earth has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:12 PM
2

What's the negative consequences it has? That they know how to give a blow job without gagging and use their pussy muscles to play your dick like trumpet? I don't think you have as much experience as you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:05 PM
3

Approaching is not chasing. Initiating a date is not chasing. Chasing is when the other person tries to convince you that you should pick them. When they try to impress you. But that means that you have to do NOTHING with the intention of impressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:04 PM
0

If you are experienced, why would you want someone who is not experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:48 PM
1

Stop avoiding your fears. Whatever you are afraid of go and confront.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:25 PM
1

That's a BINGO!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:31 PM
10

No one is forcing you not to care about n-count. My view is that focusing on n-count is short sighted for most men, especially since so many of you complain about being dateless and sexless. If anything, you need to be having more women AND more sex in your life especially with experienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:59 PM
6

Guys always assume that the opposite of a Nice Guy is a guy who walks around insults people, starts fight and is an all around insufferable dick. But it's like the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The opposite of a Nice Guy is a guy who lives life on his own terms and is a what you see is what you get type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:57 PM
1

Both. My first gf broke up with me. But I pretty much broke it off with my subsequent LTR. When it came to dating and casual it was a mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:53 PM
90

There are a few things going on here. The most common scenario is that the majority of people don't really understanding dating and therefore their advice is crap. So they repeat meaningless platitudes that help no one. But as with everything, even in this poorly thought out advice, there are kernels of truth. For example, if you keep telling yourself you need love and sex to be happy, you will always come across as needy and desperate. And needy and desperate people get rejected because they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:50 PM
1

Do you think some guy will drink his own piss and eat out of a tube to train to go to the moon because he really wants to? And not because society encourages men to scale new peaks and break records, just so they can actually feel a it of self esteem and self confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:28 PM
3

Why is that the women you are not all that interested in, tend to be really interested in you. And the ones that you are super interested in, are the ones that never give you light of day? Could it be that men cause their own problems by convincing themselves they are more interested in women than women are interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:33 AM
1

Who the fuck wants modest chicks? I don't want to be bored to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:01 AM
20

Shouldn't you worry about being able to get ANY woman before you can choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:54 AM
1

Unless she's bisexual, women are terrible wings. I prefer to go out alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:51 AM
0

Think about who is celebrated more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:24 AM
1

Sex/dating has everything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:19 PM
2

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:17 PM
1

Every man grows up with the formula that work = sex. We are brainwashed to believe this since grade school. Only men who end up having something of value to offer society are given the permission to end up with hot women. The football quarterback, the rock star, the son of a rich businessman. What are these guys advantages over you? They don't have any objective advantages, but because they have something society wants, they have the confidence and lack of fear to go for the women every guy want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:21 PM
1

If a woman can't read my mind, she is not the right person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:09 PM
7

Not even the right continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:55 PM
3

No, VP of a business division for a steel plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:38 PM
27

My dad was a pushover who let my mom walk all over him. He was a beast in his career, but when it came to women they just bulldozed over him. On top of that he was an emotionally unavailable alcoholic who saw his children as more of a nuisance than someone to nurture and build into confident, young men. The biggest issue is that neither me nor my brother respected him. If you grow up with no male figure you can respect, how can you learn to respect yourself? I had to seek out mentors and father …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:36 PM
5

I would agree with you wholeheartedly BUT I've proven to myself over and over and over that confidence is the only thing that seems to make a big difference. Yes, when I wear my Italian suit and designer glasses I get a lot of glances from women, because what woman doesn't find a well dressed man interesting. But the thing that has consistently gotten me dates and women in my bed has been confidence. I've learned to accept myself and my shortcomings. Instead of beating myself up that I'm not som…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:42 PM
3

The reason you are not good enough for casual sex might be more counterintuitive than you think. If you portray yourself as some high value, kind, quality man, a woman's conditioning kicks in and she thinks "I have to play hard to get and put sex on hold so this quality, boyfriend material guy doesn't think I'm a slut, which everyone tells me is the most horrible thing in the world". So you might be shooting yourself in the foot by portraying g yourself as boyfriend material. If instead you told…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:37 PM
2

Who is fucking all these women for them to have so much more experience than men? Isn't it....I don't know, men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:11 PM
3

Fentanyl is a helluva a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:10 PM
1

I can't figure out if you are slow or just autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:45 AM
1

Thank god I have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:28 AM
4

Again, he can't be friendzoned unless he accepts this new role. If she says, I don't want to date you anymore, I've found another guy so let's just be friends, he can simply say "don't let the door hit your ass on your way out". Stop being a fucking victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:26 AM
6

You can't friendzone someone who is sexually forward with his interest. You can reject that person because YOU are not interested, but you can't force them to be in some made up FRIEND zone. The friendzone is solely the creation of men who suppress their sexual desires and pretend to be a woman's platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:51 AM
4

Status has everything to do with how you behave and the respect you get from others and not much with your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:28 AM
4

Because monogamous relationships and marriage are basically a union. A union exists solely for the purpose of protecting the weakest, least competitive members from the real market. In a relationship that is open, partners can go out and explore other flavors, but if the flavor that waits for them at home is the best, they will always keep coming back to it, usually with renewed interest. This actually will prevent both parties from ever getting complacent in the relationship, because let's face…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:27 AM
5

To be friendzone is a man's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:24 AM
1

What doesn't make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:45 AM
2

Chad can seduce a woman without ever opening his mouth, except for sticking his tongue out and into her mouth!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:06 AM
1

Women object to it because it is solely men who put themselves in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:03 AM
2

Maybe you should have started with that graphic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:26 AM
5

Chad is 6'+. If he is 5'11.999999, he's no Chad. But a Chad is also someone who makes at least 6 figures. If he makes $99,999.99 he is not qualified to be a Chad. Chad is muscular. He is at most 5% body fat. 5.1% and you are an average chump. Chad has a 6' + cock. 5.99999999 does not qualify. Chad can also be someone who is famous. He can be a rock star or he can be a TikTok star. It's unknown how many followers one must have but it must be more than 0. Men who do not have TilTok followers or In…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:23 AM
11

I do understand your view, but will supply an alternative view as food for thought. As someone who did study pick up tactics, I do have to say that the majority of what was out there on the market in the early and mid 2000s was completely misguided and dare I say manipulative. The issue is that all the advise came from the world view of men VS women. Women are the enemy, they are the other and we need to lie and manipulate in order to extract sex from them. And if not exactly lie, at least misre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:16 AM
1

What if I told you that the opinion of an internet stranger is not worth the paper it was written on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:40 PM
2

Wow, this is the first mind reader I have met. Tell me what other thoughts have you read in womens minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:19 PM
5

Isn't this a screws up way of thinking? I'm convinced women are the ones who actually do the slut shaming. Oh, she slept with a man wjthout him taking her on 3 dates and promising exclusivity. She's either a slut or he COERCED HER and she couldn't say no. Can't make this shit up. Women do really have trouble taking responsibility for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:18 PM
3

Girl stop while you are ahead. You are digging your own grave here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:16 PM
2

What if I told you that I have done none of these things and still gotten the girl? What if I told you that I've bedded girls in much less time than 7 hours? What if I told you you don't have to be a weirdo that dresses like a clown and remember hours of scripted stories to get the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:12 PM
5

Well, I get signals everywhere I go by women all the time. But that's because of who I am, not what I do. If you want to BECOME that kind of guy, it takes some soul searching so you speak. That entails figuring out who you are and what you want. Most men walk through life waiting for life to happen to them. They are swept by the tide instead of being the tide. Want to be an attractive man? Live life on your own terms. Figure out what YOU want from life and what YOU want from women. Don't worry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:55 PM
3

Omg, basically same age. And yes and no. I'm married but if I become single tomorrow, I'd have three dates lined up by the end of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:41 PM
1

Probably. I haven't taken my antipsychotic pills in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:30 PM
1

Well, I get signals everywhere I go by women all the time. But that's because of who I am, not what I do. If you want to BECOME that kind of guy, it takes some soul searching so you speak. That entails figuring out who you are and what you want. Most men walk through life waiting for life to happen to them. They are swept by the tide instead of being the tide. Want to be an attractive man? Live life on your own terms. Figure out what YOU want from life and what YOU want from women. Don't worry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:26 PM
1

Omg cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:05 PM
4

Oh, mens rights is even worse, because they parade as a group to support men and right injustices, but it really is just another platform to hate on women and vilify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:39 PM
1

It should incentivize men not to lead with all their high value displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:29 PM
1

Oh, so there are other things you find appealing in a man than just having an appendage. Let's see, why do you need a man? Because of his cock? You can always get a dildo! Because of his money? Women have their own careers today! For company: who needs company when you are plugged in 24/7 to social media! To help you fix things around the house: just hire someone on Angie's list! To have deep conversations with? You have girlfriends and family for that. To keep you warm at night? Get a heated bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:42 PM
19

As someone who was in the original PUA community, back then (very early 2000s), it was just a collection of guys who exchanged pick up lines and encouraged each other to go out and talk to women. As it got more popular, all kinds of scam artists and fake gurus came on the scene and starting acting like know it alls. The most prominent was Mystery and all his ilk that came after him. Mystery himself was barely getting laid. He was just a clown doing card tricks and women gave him their numbers ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:41 PM
12

That's not why he was arrested. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:35 PM
2

So why don't you just buy a cucumber and call it a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:23 PM
0

Okey dokey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:15 PM
1

Lol so an instinct women have had for millions of years is all of a sudden extinguished in the past 10 years? Can I ask you, wjth the availability of porn and male sex toys, why do YOU need a woman? What's the appeal? You have to feed her, listen to her, take her out, she gets tired, has to sleep, gets old?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:14 PM
0

Women look for primarily safety and protection. A man who has lots of money can provide this easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:32 PM
1

No need to refute. As I said, women love to have sex with a guy who will stick around but has no expectations of becoming their boyfriend. It's actually easier to get a woman to sleep with you like this. If you lead with all your value and how great of a guy you are, she will consider you boyfriend material and instantly delay sex in order to appear like a good girl that needs to be wifed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:33 PM
1

For a virgin who doesnt leave his mom's basement you seem to know a lot about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:27 PM
9

That's the hill you are willing to die on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:25 PM
5

Women want sex that wouldn't cost them anything. Meaning, they won't feel used by a guy who pumps and dumps and never calls her again. They also don't want to bulldoze you into a relationship just because they spread their legs. Many women will feel at ease having casual sex as long as they are not judged and the man is still there for them but also doesn't present himself as a boyfriend material. Every time a guy present himself as boyfriend material, high value, wonderful guy, the sex goes on …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:54 PM
18

Men are intimidated by my success....(and not avoiding me because of my unbearable personality).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:42 PM
53

Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:40 PM
2

Reread my comment 10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:47 PM
1

Why do we slow virgins to post comments here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:54 AM
1

Women don't have normal desires. They sit in a dark tower somewhere plotting how to torture men all the time especially the ones that dare express interest in them. But nice try!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:53 AM
2

A romantic partner should be the cherry on top of your great cake of a life. Most guys here want the woman to be their cake; their life, their universe. Can't think of a more unattractive proposition for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:40 AM
3

High sex drive =/= good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:00 AM
0

A woman with no sexual experience is more prone to being shit in bed. Every woman should have sexual experiences before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:48 PM
1

Nobody wants ONS if the sex is good. It's like getting a great meal at a restaurant and never coming back to it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:41 PM
-1

There is no battle of the sexes. Humanity wouldn't exist if there was a battle of the sexes. It's all just a misinterpretation and misunderstanding of what's going on. Men and women want the same thing - each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:48 PM
1

I don't think it's leveling up they need to do. It really comes down to two things: Like themselves and take pride in themselves more Not view women as the enemy (date I say genuinely like women). It's really not rocket science. The problem is all the red pill, MGTOW, black pill, incel ideologies that are simply the male version of radical feminism. It's all about how women are out to get ya and divorce rape ya and #metoo ya, etc. Why the fuck do men even want anything to do with women if they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:41 PM
4

There is a difference between being vulnerable and being a pathetic nice guy who victim pukes all over women. If you have some unresolved issues and secrets, perhaps it's better to share them with a close confidant first. Learn to talk about them so you no longer feel the shame and only then start sharing wjth the special woman in your life. If you still have shame about a vulnerability, it's a bad idea to talk to your SO about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:42 PM
6

Like whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:26 PM
27

As usual men can only think in black and white. You either sexually objectify women OR act like a girlfriend with a penis and hide all your sexuality so you don't offend them. Have you considered that there is a middle road where you can express appreciation in a woman's physical appearance and sex appeal AND also get to know where personality and what her thoughts and opinions on things are? I know! Mind blowing!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:23 PM
1

There are two kinds of people in this world. Those who suck dick and those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:08 PM
2

You'd be surprised how far from the truth you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:07 PM
3

Reread my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:02 PM
1

I know that women would have way more casual sex if men weren't either just trying to get in their pants and pump and dump OR trying to wife them up right away. You have to understand that for a woman to sleep with a man who then never calls her back is the same thing as you taking a girl out to a nice dinner and a Broadway show, and later on when you walk her to her door and try to kiss you, she says "hey not so fast, I only like you as a friend". Ouch, that hurts really bad because you feel us…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:45 PM
5

It shows you have a very fundamental lack of understanding of men and women. The issue is that society teaches women that their ONLY value in life is their SEX. You can simply look at posts from male users and they all talk about women from the sole perspective of SEX providers. They do not care about a woman's opinions, her personality, what she wants out of life, her career, etc. They only care about if she is giving them her SEX. Women have internalized that on an emotional level. So when a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:29 PM
6

Women struggle with keeping a quality man. But of course that only applies for relatively attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:18 AM
1

Africans have been around for much longer than you have and they keep procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:27 AM
13

Can you count on hand how many families you know where both parents were super loving with each other and otherwise completely normal and nurturing? Yeah, I can't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:21 AM
4

Mother Nature doesn't care about your morals. It only cares about penises in vaginas and has successfully done so for millions of years while civilizations have come and gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:20 AM
-3

For me it means a wife who puts the damn dishes away in the dishwasher after she cooks instead of liking them up in the sink or all over the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:34 AM
1

Apparently no men ever get laid on apps, so how are they working exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:31 AM
1

Dating apps are not real life. That's like taking sex lessons from porn (all acting), or getting your news from SNL or the Onion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:17 AM
1

Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:18 PM
2

I don't know. I haven't actually seen any vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:13 PM
1

pPD men try everyday. Claiming men are the useless gender and women don't want men. Can't make this shit up. It's a mental disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:12 PM
2

Cause I'm at work and so is my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:11 PM
1

Yes, god doesn't care about your height or hypergamy. It cares that penises go into vaginas as intended. Just go and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:11 PM
1

Lol, science can't even provide proof for the existence of the clit or the G spot (pretty sure both are Myth btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:09 PM
1

Ahhh. No, it's stupid iPhone autocorrect and me being too lazy to go back and edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:58 PM
16

So who is ducking all these classy, wife material women? Where are they meeting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:43 PM
0

You blamed nature for your desperation. Am I taking crazy pills here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:16 PM
-2

Don't talk to me about nature. There is nothing natural about men chasing women and kissing their ass. In all other species it's exactly the opposite. Do you think the lion is running after the lioness to beg her to fuck? He's the fucking lion, the king of the jungle. She is lucky that he even wants to fuck her. That's the attitude you need to have. That's how Chad's think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:09 PM
1

Realistically if you match 20 men for 20 men off the street, about 1-2 guys will even have the balls to go over and talk to them and they will only talk to 2-3 women tops. I used to see this all the time in bars and clubs. You go home with the average girl after everything else has failed. And please don't project your desperation onto all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:53 PM
1

Here is the real issue. Teen girls don't know how to fuck. Okay. You think grown ass women are not good in bed, teen girls are even worse. Unless they've had experience. It's like letting my surgeon learn to now rate on a few other people and risk killing them while he learns than operate on me if he's never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:08 PM
0

If you consider yourself unattractive, so will other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:06 PM
1

I have never met anyone who claims male and female sexuality is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:57 PM
2

As I said, this is a problem you can easily fix but you get more advantage out of feeling like a victim and having the moral high ground than actually getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:52 PM
0

Can you summarize your argument in one sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:47 PM
6

Was there a point you were trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:39 PM
1

So you told 6 women that you were inexperienced and they all disappeared and it didn't occur to you to STOP DOING THAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:33 PM
4

It sounds like you are the one cockblocking yourself. The hypothetical women who are judging you for your virginity, I doubt you are meeting any of them anyway and are just assuming they will judge you. And if it is such a huge problem, just don't talk about being a virgin. Make up a couple of girlfriends and just let the secret die with you. But I suspect you are not really interested in fixing your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:14 PM
1

The only delusion here is your feelings of inadequacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:01 PM
3

I'm really sad that you hold these ultimately self defeating beliefs. In essence "I'm not good enough and I'd be lucky if any, ANY woman is willing to have me". SAD!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:51 PM
4

Here is my take on this. I actually sympathize with a lot of the men who are struggling because when I was young, I was in their exact same boat. I was lucky and lost my virginity relatively early in my teens, but I still struggled with shyness, social anxiety and low self esteem and ultimately depression. The issue is that these afflictions can and do make you unattractive and also less likely to take the action that you need to take in order to be sexually successful as a man. For years I thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:09 PM
12

You know something, in every outlandish claim there is some truth. So attractive, tall, confident, rich men do better? Absolutely! Why wouldn't they? It's like being mad that hot, young, big breasted, bubble butt women are extremely popular with men and get those top men. Of course there is truth to that. Take any random 20 women off the street and put them in a room with a bunch of men and I guarantee you guys will only want to talk to 2-3 of them. But none of this means that other people can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:00 PM
2

Your understanding of our tax system is about the same level as your understanding of women, which is to say ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:54 AM
1

Who do 10s date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:50 AM
-2

You want me to convert it to metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:12 AM
1

Not saying they all have game. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:11 AM
-8

Is she in Canada?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:01 AM
-8

Excuses, excuses, excuses. All I'm hearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:51 AM
1

This belief is the reason why so many men have trouble getting laid. As long as you believe this, you will always be an inferior omega male that nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:50 AM
0

You do know that there is no need to date whatsoever, right? Or that your dates can be just a drink or a cup of coffee and then heading to bed? If you are promising women dates, you are the one shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:46 AM
-3

Actually that's not the reality at all. What's closer to the truth is that most men believe themselves to be -10s and that's the real crux of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:44 AM
2

Even if these figures are anywhere close to true, I didn't find the statistic of men being jailed for talking to women in a bar. Can you please point out that statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:41 AM
0

Like what? Be specific and send me specific stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:23 AM
1

You have a higher chance of dying in a car crash or a planet crash. That's why I'm saying certain fears are irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:43 PM
1

Wrong. Women don't want be the prize, they want to be wjth the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:56 PM
3

I was gonna say he looks like wearing a Nazi t shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:55 PM
1

Easy. Don't be a creep. If you are a creep you deserve to be creep shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:51 PM
1

From your mom for once!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:19 PM
1

What about him? Wanna bet that he is actually getting laid more than ever? When the newspapers wrote about how terrible the Hells Angels were, do you think their groupies all of a sudden disappeared? They probably stood in line to give blow jobs to all new members. My man you are clueless!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:19 PM
2

Shows that men have no idea what women want, duh! Every woman who has it flaunts it, because they want to attract men through their looks. And every woman hopes that a man will not only notice and acknowledge it but will stick around to actually get to know her personality. The issue is that men go into one of two extremes. They either objectify her and treat her as a set of moist holes, which quickly earns them the label of creeps OR they swing to the other extreme by hiding all and any of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:15 PM
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Women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:11 PM
2

Like what exactly? Can you give me some specifics or are we going to talk about some faceless nameless evil that you are afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:08 PM
1

When you speak in such absolute terms, I know that what you are saying is a BS. Every time? You are always insulted, every single time? 100% of the time every time? Sure. Excuse me if I think you are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:35 PM
2

Go get some dick. Not having touch dick for a while has rotted your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:29 PM
2

Apparently they all know KungFu and can melt men into puddles with their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:28 PM
1

Lol most retarded post of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:28 PM
1

The K Pop singer commands respect and adoration. That's powerful and attractive. How are you NOT comprehending this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 PM
0

Women get rejected all the time. If they send signals to a man and he does nothing it's basically rejection. Rejection is not that big of a problem, it's what rejection means to you. If you have an internal story that says "if I get rejected it means I'm a subhuman genital wart", then yes, rejection will terrify you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:26 PM
1

I do understand very well and that's the reason why I know that your so called fear is a complete illusion. There is nothing to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:23 PM
2

Yes, there are different level of attractiveness. Yes, a physically handsome dashing man will probably have an easier time attracting highly attractive women. If a man is not all that attractive, doesn't mean that he is doomed to be alone and sexless. There are way more average and below average women then there are super hot women. There is someone for everyone. I'm lot promising anyone a string of supermodels lining up to suck his dick, but there is no reason for any man to be alone and desper…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:22 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:14 PM
2

Well you are describing healthy fear (walking into a lion's den, walking through a bad neighborhood at night) and unhealthy phobias - a girl will accuse me of rape for dating to say hi to her and I will be thrown in jail for the rest of my life. One is rational, the other one is completely irrational. Yes, we all have bad experiences socializing and getting rejected. This is a normal part of life. If when you are a baby and tried taking your first steps and fell down, do yku tell yourself "it hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:07 PM
5

Being nice means that you bend over backwards to cater to a girl's whims, which gets you about a ZERO chance of attracting her. Badboys don't give a fuck about pleasing and they certainly don't bend which makes them infinitely more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:33 PM
-3

That's a lot of words to say "I'm scared of girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:30 PM
2

What else do you need? A big flashing neon sign pointing to her crotch saying "FUCKE ME"? It's your fault you're scared of your own shadow. Don't blame women for being a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:42 PM
5

Well, if you've been telling yourself the same story your entire life that women are not interested in guys like you, that women don't like sex, that they don't like being approached, what do you think will happen? The mind will actively filter out any evidence to the contrary. It's called the Reticular Activation System.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:41 PM
-3

She is making eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
-6

This type of meme seriously shows me how retarded and scared most men are of women. She is literally holding the door open for you and failure to walk through is squarely on you. I get it, you are more interested at getting back at these bitches and hoes than actually stopping your self sabotage and getting laid. Pathetic losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:36 PM
5

How is that a woman has all the power when she is giving you signals and holding the door open for you? How can you be so fucking retarded to believe that? When a woman sends me a signal, I have all the power. I can choose to walk up to her not the other way around. I know for a fact that she is shy and intimidated and me approaching her is showing her that I understand that and I am doing her a favor. I have never had women insult me to my face or call the police. That only happens on your warp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:34 PM
1

I'm a fave guy but for me, the fat distribution is what really matters. I will take an hour glass shape anyday. These type of women are so difficult to find though. Happily my wife is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:30 PM
2

Women, at least the attractive ones we all want, go to trendy well lit clubs where they think they will find quality guys. They want to be able to show off so they don't go to trashy, dark, ghetto ass clubs where probably most guys go to because they are easy to get into. Women absolutely do outnumber men in high end clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:21 PM
2

In my dating experience, yes, women absolutely do have game and many don't. Game I would define as a combination of knowing how to dress and manipulate their appearance to show of their best assets and then using their communication to reel you in. While men think most women just get out of bed looking gorgeous (probably because men spend the night with one so rarely), the reality is that it takes a lot of work for women to look attractive. Especially the hot ones. What do women do in the bathro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:13 PM
0

What's wrong with hot black girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:56 PM
5

As long as he has enough money to pay!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:53 PM
2

A smart man would "manage" several women's OF accounts and provide protec.....I mean, internet marketing advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:26 AM
29

My ninja. You were born about 200 years too late if you really want to treat women like property. Suggest you invest in a time machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:24 AM
2

By and large women have been the one to request that I toss the condom out and bareback them. In the heat of passion anything goes.0
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:01 AM
14

There are no bigger misandrist than the male posters of PPD. The negative energy of their sheer self hate and hate for their gender can rival that of a thousand black holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:59 AM
2

So your hobby ain't eating ass? That's on you ninja
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:56 AM
0

So we bred with Neanderthals and Denisovans who were inbreeding. So by introducing Homo Sapiens DNA to the mix it would have offset some of the inbreeding problems. The reason sex with your mom or sister is taboo isn't only a social creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:06 PM
2

Communism is "to everyone according to their needs". So a guy who can't get a girlfriend gets some government mandated sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:03 PM
1

No it's not sustainable and there is absolutely no danger of that ever being an actual statistic. Just look up the stats of % who are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:31 PM
-1

Lol; both of these species are now extinct. Your reading comprehension is that of a 5 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:30 PM
4

Check out my sexual communism post. You are asking the government/society to fix an injustice for you that you should be tryin to fix yourself by becoming More competitive in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:04 PM
6

A man invented the vibrator in the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:57 PM
4

I think a big part of it is Catholicism and not believing in birth control or sex before marriage for that reason. So good luck putting two horny teenagers 100 feet from each other and not teaching them about the pill or a Jimmy suit. Most Latinas get knocked up in their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:57 PM
2

Take a random 20 women from the street and out them in a room with men. Men will only want to talk to 2-3 of them that happened to be young and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:55 PM
2

Yes, I make my wife apologize to me all the time. Many women have apologized to me. When they apologize about 7 times, I know I will be fucking them. But for them to apologize it means that I never bend and often I have to feign being offended at stuff they say especially about men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:53 PM
1

Asian incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:50 PM
-1

Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:49 PM
2

So you want to have sex unionized? Unions exist for the sole purpose of protecting their weakest members at the expense of their strongest members. So the least sexually competitive men would have a chance of getting some pussy while preventing the more competitive men from getting more than their fair share. In essence a sexual communism. We all know how the economic version of Communism worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:41 PM
4

Ugh, I was racist before it was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:56 PM
0

How does the white one have a bigger ass than the black one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:53 PM
1

Step 10: joins PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:49 PM
3

I didn't realize hoeflation was a scientific term!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:46 PM
0

This is a lot of what's lurking under the surface though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:46 PM
1

Something to do with type of orgasm and hormonal responses. If you think about it, if women didn't have a natural inclination to look for strange dick, we would have all been inbred within a couple of generations m out Hunter and gatherer, small tribe stage of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:04 PM
13

So women are more promiscuous, have more partners and are more sexually depraved than ever, and you still have trouble getting laid? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:44 PM
-4

They are still getting more ass than you lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:43 PM
7

These guys are all around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:39 PM
20

lol. Do you actually believe a word that comes out of the mouths of these losers? If this girl winked at them in a bar they'd be jizzing their pants just to talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:30 PM
2

No apparently most people are the product of rape. Because how would they otherwise get laid? Am I rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:29 PM
-1

There is scientific evidence that when women are at their most fertile time of the month they seek out masculine strangers because it's actually easier to get pregnant by a stranger than someone who is close to you. Plus sexy strangers who offer unconditional acceptance for her sexual needs as a woman are always more appealing than a judgmental loser who can't even fuck her right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:27 PM
2

That's on you honey. If you don't like your views challenged don't post on a debate sub. There is no battle of the sexes or we wouldn't have survived as a species. There is cooperative effort to ensure the survival of the species and perhaps not everyone gets what they hoped for but everyone serves a purpose. There are enough studies that point out infidelity in women and how 10%+ of babies born the father is not who he thinks he is. It's because the woman cheated with a male she thought was mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:42 PM
2

If there is a battle of the sexes we wouldn't have survived for millions of years. Pull your head out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:27 PM
2

Here can I sign up to be a government sponsored male whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:41 PM
1

There are 5 Chads for every 100 women. If a Chad banged 2 girls a day every day for a month that would be 60 girls who would get sex only once a month (who would tolerate that). Still falls short of the 100 girls he needs to satisfy. Perhaps the remaining 40 are lezzing it up, but even that sounds a bit far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:24 PM
2

I mean being wimps is what screws men up more than anything, but you can't blame women for the men being wimps. If anything, you can probably blame the men for women copping all these attitudes when no men put them in their place. Commanding respect is the sexiest thing a man can do and you tell me by reading all the purge posts where the true nature of PPD men comes out if any of them can command respect out of a piss soaked paper bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:22 PM
1

If a woman puts in a negative requirement (no this, no that, no sex on the first date), it pretty much means that's exactly what she actually wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:17 PM
4

There is no battle of the sexes. We both want the same thing - each other. We both want love and sexy time. Everything else you wrote is 100% complete drivel. Nobody has to lose anything. The idea that women want to stay with one man for life is ludicrous and not supported by any scientific study which finds women cheat as much as men in marriages, because guess what? Women need a variety of cock the same way a man needs a variety of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:14 PM
2

You are really stupid because you will actually get to sex faster if you tell a woman that's all you offer and you have no interest in being her boyfriend, but that you will also remain around and a loyal good friend that she can call up on anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:11 PM
2

lol at gay men being loyal to you for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:09 PM
2

I think one of them had the cheek bone fat removal procedure which is supposed to make your cheekbones more prominent but ends up aging you, because loss of fat in the face is actually a natural aging process. For example, I'm 41 and feel my face looks better than when I was 20 or even 30. Won't last for long but it looks good right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:07 PM
-1

Yea yeah but do you do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
1

Yea yeah but do you do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
1

Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:04 PM
0

All the stats that I read about online dating swipe based apps that the male to female ratio is at best 3:1 and in some cases and countries it's as a bad as 9:1. Now, I don't know about you, but here in NYC if a nightclub had a 3:1 ratio of men to women it would be called a gay club or it would go out of business. Nevertheless, in the wild the ratio of men to women is 50/50. So I don't understand why men are hell bent on using the most disadvantageous mode of finding women to date and then draw …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:57 PM
0

That's the advantage of feeling victimized. You get to be pitied and empathized with. You don't have to change or do anything because well you are a victim. Like blacks always play the victim card and therefore never have to fix their shit ghettoes they live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:09 AM
5

If you followed the news even cursory you would know that he is a fucking nut job and I feel bad for her actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:59 AM
8

I mean it was supposed to be all about height. Then it become all about the jaw. But if you don't have these, you can make up for it with money. But if you have neither you can make it up with criminal status. Or a big dick. Well( then there seem to be a thousand ways that a guy can be attractive. So which one is the flavor of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:58 AM
4

Got it! You got no answer. It's just another excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:33 AM
3

Preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:37 AM
1

Where is that hottie Ashwaria Rei? I'd let her suck my dick and lick my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:01 AM
-1

Once I had an opportunity to have a gangbang with this Japanese girl and two of my friends. One guy was a shy, Japanese nice guy. So me and my other friend decided to let him spend the night with her. Well they did. Next morning we ask him, how was fucking her? Well, HE DIDN'T!!! He was too nice! Never made a move and she went to sleep. What a wasted opportunity. I bet she would have loved 3 cocks in her and I missed the opportunity to have a great story to tell my grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:00 AM
6

The greatest self defeatist excuse there is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:48 PM
29

Well you guys really need to make up your fucking minds and stop moving the goal posts. Is it height? Is it race? Is it occupation? Is it popularity? Is it wealth? Is it dick size? Is it a six pack? Is it criminal status? You are all over the place .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:48 PM
53

She was married to this guy for two months. Kanye is 5'8". She at least had a couple of babies with him. Everyone can cherry pick example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:32 PM
1

Only sexual losers look on women being bi as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:30 PM
8

How are women sleeping wjth more guys over their lifetime and you losers are still a bunch of virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:29 PM
0

So why aren't women watching more porn with males with chiseled abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:58 PM
1

If she ain't doing anal she ain't for me. Too old to settle for bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:57 PM
0

Good for you. Make sure you rim him every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:56 PM
1

Do you do anal and oral? Technically still a virgin if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:24 PM
0

You have to be petty fucking dense and retarded not to see the diametrically opposite composition of visuals vs story in male and female (rom novels) porn. Male centric porn is all visuals wjth a couple of lines of "cum hungry slut satisfies two BBCs with all holes" and romance novels where the visual is literally only on the cover and the rest is words/story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:23 PM
7

I mean with that stache he doesn't even need to flirt to be called a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:19 PM
4

Trannies need loving too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:18 PM
0

If you are alive today, you are 100% the descendant of someone who hunted wooly mammoths and held a sword and killed another man on a battlefield somewhere after he was able to procreate. Think about that for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:17 PM
2

It's actually a fantastic question to ask yourself. What do you bring if value. Sexually unsuccessful and frustrated men can't think of anything because their self esteem is bottom. But you can start working on your self esteem by making a list of things that you bring of value. I will start this list with two items: 1: you are the man - for millions of years women needed men for basic survival, the sexual selection genes in us have not changed all that much As the man you can give her safety an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:16 PM
-1

But do you do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:10 PM
1

You said you were given a number of things to work on and by your comment it sounded like you resisted all of them. What do you expect? If you want to lose weight you will have to eat salads and sweat in the gym. It takes work that nobody wants to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:26 PM
-4

I don't understand your post. You want to be guaranteed sex wjthout having to express your desires and interest? Wjthout taking any risks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:25 PM
2

You are barking up the wrong tree here. There are way too many advantages to being depressed and anxious. You get to feel sorry for yourself. You get to elicit pity from others. You never have to change or do anything g outside of your comfort zone. You don't ever have to get your hopes up and end up being disappointed. Misery loves company. And so on and so forth. If you ask a bunch of fat people if they want to lose weight, probably all of their hands will go up. But the reality is NO ONE WANT…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:21 PM
4

So you refused to do anything and were expecting to be cured? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:17 PM
2

Imagine having such a poor opinion of your own gender, such self hatred and trying to rationalize this with scientific studies. Have you thought that the reason women don't notice you is because you consider yourself worthless scum? After all, people treat us the way we treat ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:15 PM
10

Who doesn't like latinas bro? Why do you think I married one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:08 PM
3

This was in response to OPs claim that only white women date misogynistic and racist men. But you seem really upset with and threatened by white women. I believe there might be a word for people who make negative judgments about a group of people based on the color of their skin. That word escapes me at the moment but I'm sure Inwill think of it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:05 PM
2

As I though. Your proof is a bunch of weirdo subs on Reddit and no one in particular. The faceless masses. Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:56 PM
4

Who exactly is judging you? The faceless masses? Do you have specific names? Specific groups of people? Anyone that you care about and admire? You are being too vague which tells me it's a made up irrational problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:11 PM
5

Who is not allowing you to have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:28 PM
1

The most embarrassing thing for a woman is to be single. She is so low quality that she can't even get a man. That's more shameful than being a 5' tall Indian janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:22 PM
1

So who is fucking all these girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:20 PM
1

Hahahahah EE women will laugh you back to the US. If you think American women are difficult wait and see EE chicks. They date only tough guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:19 PM
2

I'm the 4'11" Indian janitor y'all keep hearing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:17 PM
1

You are getting all defensive which shows me you are lying. I asked a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:07 PM
1

Who said that to you in real life not in a comment you read on Reddit? Be specific now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:53 PM
2

Are they judging you are are you judging yourself and wallowing self shame and self pity? It definitely sounds like the latter. I've never discussed how many women I've been wjth anyone I've slept with. I really can't understand how women magically find out about your virgin status unless you are telling them "Hi I'm Bob and I'm a virgin".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:42 PM
2

You are tying your self worth to your sexual experience. That will only lead to depression. Self worth is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:24 PM
-7

Not as dumb as the drivel you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:11 PM
5

Oh, that makes it much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:04 PM
-10

If you hate women so much why even bother dating them? I'm sure some dude will be happy to plug your holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:04 PM
13

So you played the friend angle, hid your sexual agenda and intentions and then got mad that they rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:02 PM
-12

Someone didn't get white pussy in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:00 PM
0

Nikki Minaj is dating a child molester.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:00 PM
1

It's not so much about contributing to society or not. It's that society ties men's self worth and self esteem to whether they contribute to society or not. A guy who contributes a lot in the form of working hard to make money and then spending it on status symbols like a watch, car, designer clothes, or a guy who happens to be masculine and athletic and plays savage sports for the enjoyment of others while destroying his own body, or a guy who trains 24/7 pissing in a bottle so he would go the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:22 PM
1

Men don't struggle with dating. They struggle with self worth and confidence. How women react to them is just the most honest feedback they will ever get.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:14 PM
0

No need. Sperm is very nutritious especially when deposited in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:12 PM
1

That's a lie. Even the highest Chad would fuck a troll. Yes you would. Yes you would. Men have no standards bro. Even if that hole smells like fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:59 PM
1

Actually all it takes is to like yourself for a change. I know it's hard. If you are that unlikable to yourself, then change the things you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:51 PM
9

Where the fuck does green text bro live? I need more boobies and asses flung in my face. Goddamn dreary and cold North East.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:50 PM
1

Nobody had heard of it before Burns. His advances in the field are extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:55 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:42 AM
2

That's cause you've never tried to fuck a vending machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:40 AM
4

There is a guy here who is marrying a virgin and he literally doesn't know what her pussy tastes like nevermind feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
1

I will leave my wife for her any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:43 PM
1

Is it purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:25 PM
1

Is she pissing on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:23 PM
1

Another autist who didn't bother to read the article that literally said none of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:37 PM
1

CBT falling out of favor? Now Inonow you are smoking crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:36 PM
0

Is there an argument you were trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:26 PM
1

There is absolutely no proof niceness leads to cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:24 PM
-1

You didn't bother to read the article, but thanks for the rant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:23 PM
-1

What woman wants a man that has no standards aka who anyone can have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:09 PM
-1

This was in the context of improving their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:50 PM
0

Great argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:49 PM
-8

That's for your (useless) input.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:49 PM
34

When I was younger (like 20-21) I discovered the pickup community which back then in the early 2000s was just a collection of guys exchanging pickup lines and best practices for picking up girls in bars. Eventually as the community grew and more content creators become prominent you started seeing a bunch of guys who would consume content year after year yet they had never gone out and talked to a girl. It just becomes another excuse in their already big arsenal of excuses for not taking action.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:14 PM
1

Ok reflaired please approve
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:05 PM
5

I always go to the cavemen. Niceness is about a very good survival strategy in the real world. The world is not nice and there is a reason nice guys finish last. Women want a winner. That's intrinsic and in our genes. It ensures the survival of the species. If all women bred with nice guys, their offspring would soon die and their blood line would die with them. There is nothing noble about being a nice guy. Nobody will actually treat you better because you choose to put yourself below them. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:05 PM
1

Wow, well point proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:53 PM
1

You don't even know what that pussy tastes like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:34 PM
-2

"Some guy"? Who the fuck wants "some guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:34 PM
5

Some men treat objects like women and some women treat resources like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:33 PM
1

Nothing to challenge here. You see this thread in every man's post on PPD. The only thing they value in women is their sex. They don't really care about the person that the vagina and boobs are attached to (as long as she is not totally mean to them).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:32 PM
1

Do you need me to reflair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:30 PM
0

But are their current versions who they truly are or are they some nice guy facades?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:00 PM
1

Why is your current version not good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:48 PM
1

Being a nice guy is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:55 PM
2

Lol, I've been to enough touristy places by the Black Sea to know that Western women like to have fun with the local talent if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:26 PM
1

My ninja, you haven't banged yet and you are putting a ring on that finger?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:25 PM
2

For one we share 99.99% of the same DNA and according to genetic studies, the modern human was a direct descendant of a band of several hundred to several thousand early humans who went nearly extinct in the plains of Africa, but somehow managed to spread from there all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:21 PM
1

Correct, but the question was for those who identify the self's as nice men or good men, what is the advantage to that behavior and why keep it if it is not advantageous?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:14 PM
1

The question was why cling to a specific behavior or worldview if it is not beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:12 PM
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Hmmm, if we were to switch the genders for a minute.......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:50 AM
0

You don't get it. It's the negative perception of the self and the fear that cause the rejection not the other way around. Rejection doesn't hurt. It's meaningless. It's when we give it meaning that it begins to bother us. The thinking is usually "If this girl rejects me it MEANS that I'm worthless".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:49 AM
1

That's a lot of words for saying "I am afraid of women".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:28 AM
-1

It's the same as the advice men give to women: "Just don't be a bitch", but they never tell her to make sure her legs and pussy are shaved; that her nails are done, that her hair is clean and conditioned, that her make up is immaculate, that she bathed in body wash so she smells nice. That she is dressed sexy and classy at the same time, in a color coordinated outfit that reveals just enough skin without making her look skanky. That she is charming and interesting and fun and her lips are moistu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:28 AM
2

Not fat, just plain janes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:09 AM
6

Guys really misinterpret what makes them interesting to women. You are dancing around the symptoms. The reality is that women are attracted to confidence and boldness the way we are attracted to boobs and ass. When a man is bold and direct it's a turn on. A guy who is shy or acts like he's dismantling a bomb is basically an NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:04 AM
5

Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:03 AM
7

Women only say they want to be chased, but the reality is they fall hardest for the men they had to chase the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:02 AM
4

Women are much better at reading body language and vibe than men are. I've had guys ask: "There is this girl that keeps staring at me, smiling and also has a big neon sign pointing to her vagina that says FUCK ME!, do you think she likes me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:01 AM
3

See my nice guy post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:59 AM
3

Wow, you really know how to reject yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:20 AM
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Wow so the guy was an even bigger creep than his online persona
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:55 PM
3

Preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:53 PM
7

Why do you think women go on old and show up to dates? I mean it could be because they are bored wjth their otherwise uneventful lives, but most of them are hoping to get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:37 PM
15

I find it hilarious that the girl you used on your example is someone you knew and wanted to bang yet you never made a move. And some other guy took her. But no, it's because he's tall and handsome, and not because you were too scared to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:41 PM
15

What men interpret as "too high standards" is really just a misunderstanding of how women become aroused. At the same time, the list of women's criteria is nothing but a list of expectations generated by society, media and the collective zeitgeist. Every girl has a list of what makes up her perfect man: Occupation: Knight -Outfit: Armor -Type: Shinning And so on and so forth. But of course, this is very different from what women are actually aroused by. And it is also very different from what ME…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:31 PM
0

Not single, but when I was single, these were my standards: Age: between 19 and 19 1/2 Looks: I used to be a boob man; then become an ass man, now they have to have both Face: if I can't picture her appearing on Babes Getting Facials on PornHub, I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:22 PM
1

I think most people really misunderstand self-confidence. Most people assume that it means having a string of successful outcomes so that you know you are likely to have a successful outcome again. But there is a problem with this. If you only did the things you were previously successful at doing, then you wouldn't be doing anything new. If you never talked to a girl, you will never ever talk to a girl because you never had success before so why even try? Only doing things you were successful d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:55 AM
1

Or men would start following the 95/5 rule, because most women would be hideous without make up, hair and nail care, push up bras, heels, etc. There is a reason a lot of women don't want men sleeping overnight because they will see them without makeup in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:04 AM
0

Because none of them are "natural". Plus with all the porn guys are wired to be turned on by pixels on a screen. But irl, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:39 AM
2

The "natural" women most men would be attracted to actually make up less than 2% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:39 AM
0

The point is to GET rejected. If you go out for the purpose of getting rejected, then all the fear caused by not wanting to get rejected will fly out of the window. All of a sudden you will see guys acting bold and confident. Now, I wouldn't suggest to a guy to just ask a woman for her number. That's a bit too aggressive and if you haven't actually interacted with her, you wouldn't know if you want to go out with her. I recommend actually spending time talking and letting her earn the privilege …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:08 AM
1

100%. You are your friends and if your friends are weirdos with warped ideas, that's all you will be exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:56 AM
4

It's a little bit of a double edged sword. If you believe that you don't want to get rejected, you will most likely avoid anything that can lead to rejection, namely being confident, taking risks and being bold. Ironically, these are the very things that attract women like nothing else. A man can overcome approach anxiety pretty easily, but if internally he is still afraid of women and treats her as if he is dismantling a bomb, he will end up getting rejected anyway, because no woman wants to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:13 AM
3

Women are socialized to make it their main priority pleasing other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:59 PM
1

Nobody drops the girls who are hot and cold. These are the girls every guy chases
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:46 PM
0

Everyone wants what they can't have. Nice guys are easy to get and therefore hold no value. Badboys are hard to get and therefore desired much more (scarcity etc). The same way guys ignore the chubby average girls and go for the hotties although these hotties never give them the time of day. Go to dating_advice, all men talk about it this chick who started pulling away and went from answering their texts within a minute to taking 2 days, or the girl who canceled their date at the last minute. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:15 PM
1

Well yeah, I mean all of us have fucked a chubby chick as long as our friends don't find out, but that don't make her a knockout.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:26 PM
2

Last night after you already went to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:25 PM
1

If a girl is stirring behind a Wendy's dumpster giving out free bjs, objectively she would be making lots of men happy. But you'd call her a dirty slut, not someone you'd admire. So why would a nice guy who is trying to make others happy worthy of respect and admiration?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:24 PM
1

metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:39 PM
1

People only do things they perceive as beneficial. Even overeating and not going to the gym has its benefits. Junk food provides a quick dopamine boost and it's more comfortable to be on your couch then in the gym, sweating and hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:39 PM
4

Great summary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:33 PM
1

What makes a nice guy a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:27 PM
1

To me that sounds like an employee who provides no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:22 PM
1

Correct, but that's actually a nice summation of the advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:00 PM
1

I've updated the OP with the definition of a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:51 PM
1

I just updated the post wjth the definition of a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:49 PM
1

Makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:41 PM
3

Thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
1

Whaaaaaaaaaat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
3

Make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
1

Not sure what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
2

That wasn't the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:37 PM
2

No. I'm referring to when I used to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:30 PM
1

Doesn't matter. It's enough of an advantage for someone to not want to give up being a nice guy. The point of this exercise is to bring to consciousness the reasons why we hold on to disfunctional belief system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:05 PM
1

A nice guy is a guy who thinks he is not okay just the way he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:04 PM
1

That is an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:58 PM
3

Once I've checked the schedules of my other dates this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:58 PM
1

Again, these are your perceptions. You are giving women all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:06 PM
13

There are two problems here. One, you are giving women way too much power. If you believe women have all this control and power over you, they will believe it as well and act like it. In reality women don't have these powers. That's only in your head but you make it real by treating women like they do. Second, the biggest issue is that women don't want to BE the prize, they want to be WITH the prize. When you put women on a pedestal, they have no choice but see you as below them and therefore no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:48 PM
1

Sounds like a you problem. Typically this is a self esteem issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:43 AM
3

Omg, the monkey branching, alpha widows, women having all the power in sex and relationships, women having the power to destroy men and take all their money, women being cold calculating bitches who are secretly figuring out the SMV of every male they come across and jumping on another guy's fuck if his SMV is within 2 points of yours, cock carousel, etc. The notion that a woman can step outside of her house and loudly proclaim that she will have sex with anyone willing and then proceeds to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:59 PM
1

Hey good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:36 PM
8

My honest advice? Stop consuming RedPill and manoshpere content. It is 100% US vs THEM mentality, finding any way possible to vilify women and make them into the enemy. It is not healthy for you to listen to this drivel and it will stop you from truly enjoying women and sex. One thing RedPill does very well is ascribe to women some magical powers that they most certainly do not posses. All the power you give women is only on your own head but by believing it, you make it true. Women are human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:29 PM
6

Feelings or no feelings, the fact is women crave security like they crave air. Just had a conversation with a female friend who was upset because apparently her boyfriend used to spend tons of money on his ex, but now that he's with her, he doesn't spend any. So I told her point blank that she doesn't like him for him. She likes him for the grand gestures (aka money he spends on her) he can provide. It's fucked up but it is what it is. The alternative is to be a woman who sleeps with any man for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:20 PM
4

Then if you are not exchanging sex, why go through the dating ritual at all? Why expect commitment from men? Why demand a ring on your finger? Do you like men for who they are or for what they can provide you with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:13 PM
1

I said a date where he takes her out pays for dinner and drinks. That's easily 2 hours. A woman is exchanging g her attention and presence with the expectation that this may lead to something romantic for monetary goods and services. Every woman expects to trade her sex for the value of security. This security can be as little as a dinner and a movie, it could also mean getting her car fixed, her parking tickets paid off. It could even mean commitment and exclusivity from a male partner. A woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:59 PM
1

Hmmm. You may want to look up the definition of a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:51 PM
13

Right, but besides that they are both hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:42 PM
28

What's the difference between paying an escort $300 and spending an hour with her and taking a random girl on a date and spending $300 between cabs, dinner and drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:34 PM
1

So there are a bunch of hot single women and you guys are crying that there aren't enough women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:19 PM
1

So who is fucking all the uber hotties?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:50 PM
2

I'd love to go out in the real world, but my wife would cut off my balls. She's Latin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:26 PM
3

The problems with feminism are actually not the problems that you list and you are barking up the entirely wrong tree. There is absolutely nothing wrong with women have more freedom and choices. That's a good thing. I get it that many men are not very competitive on the market, so they yearn for the days of the Union, where the weakest members would be protected. The days of arranged marriages, of women having so little rights that they can't even open a bank account if they are single. This ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:24 PM
3

Oh yeah I see average frumpy plain Janes with hot muscular Chads all the time. Yeah, that totally happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:13 PM
4

You are projecting male sexual arousal onto women. Your thinking is "if I were a hot girl, I can go on the street and offer sex and I will be running trains behind a Wendy's 24/7." But that's how men think because our standards for sexual arousal are simple: A. Someone attractive looking enough B. Someone who appears willing Well guess what? Women have a whole different set of requirements, hence why the little street experiment doesn't work otherwise they would be doing it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:12 PM
1

Bitch please. Spare me the Cap'n Save a Hoe speech today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:28 AM
6

Your problem is mot looks. Your problem is you are not socializing enough. Working from home is contributing to this problem with self isolation. Even the most gorgeous woman wouldn't get a man if she hung out at home all day and no men knew she existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:27 AM
2

SAHM could only bang the mailman, milkman or pool boy. Modern women can bang the boss, their cute coworker or a guy she met at a conference away from my home. So you do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:24 AM
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All the really good looking men usually turn out to be gay. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:04 PM
1

Medical advances have some effect on sexual behavior but in my opinion zero effect on sexual partner selection. For millions of years, men selected women who had better chances of beating a healthy child and surviving themselves. Things such as hips to waist ratio, breast size, butt and hips, beautiful hair, skin and lips were associated with better reproductive health. These days, modern medicine can all but insure a healthy pregnancy and the survival of both parent and child, yet men still pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:03 PM
-1

If I managed to get her, I'm sure I can get another one like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:52 PM
20

What is this "out in public" you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:51 PM
1

As someone who has dated women who were sugar babies( they very much have someone who is fucking then while some shmuck is laying her bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:17 PM
3

I think it's a mental disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:31 PM
3

I love how men use the expression "Don't ask a fish how to fish", as if they are somehow the fisherman fishing for women. Do men stop to think why women have pubic hair? It is solely to hide the HOOK! Who is fishing whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:30 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:28 PM
0

Go for 3/2nd. Meaning do mouth, vag and anal! Then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:25 PM
1

You are a saint!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:22 PM
1

It gives you a sense of the truly warped minds these men have. It's quite sad actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:22 PM
1

Take # 3 Men are the prize by virtue of being men. For millions of years women needed men for basic survival. But somehow in the past 10 years this changed because online dating. Men choose from the women who choose them. Men have all the power because they choose not to give away their power. Men feel powerless because they are afraid; they surrendered their power to fear. Men who destroyed their fears get all the spoils of war. The rest suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:21 PM
1

You think you are better than the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:59 PM
1

Lol you stare at those fake tits just like all of us Joe schmoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:55 PM
9

Only in the delusional minds of incels who haven't touched grass do average frumpy Plain Janes manage to land a 7' tall Chad by casually swiping on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:53 PM
1

Maybe the problem is that the man got bored of her first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:10 PM
3

You guys are talking as if there is some unlimited supply of top guys for every average frumpy Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:04 PM
0

I can't believe you can't see the irony in your own post. "Women are not even the highest victims of men. Men are." What's the worst a woman can do to you? Reject you publicly? Say you are ugly to her friends. Men do much worse things to women. They rape them, kill them, torture them. If every guy were judged on the worst out gender is capable of, none of us would even show our faces in public. So chill the fuck out and understand that women are infinitely more afraid of you than you of them. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:24 PM
1

Human beings were not wired for continued monogamy. If they really were, you wouldn't have a concept such as marriage and marriage vows. People form lifetime bonds with their pets, but none of us feel the needy to marry them. Same with friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:21 PM
5

Now flip this on its head. Why would anyone love you and think the world of you if YOU don't love yourself and think highly of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:19 PM
4

I think more men have a hard on for Bout it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:44 PM
1

Western European = Aryan
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:40 PM
6

I guess someone hasn't seen his hottie of a wife. But what can you expect from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:36 PM
3

lol you've never approached a woman in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:13 AM
1

It's okay. We men understand that your underdeveloped female brains get distracted because you were staring at some 7' tall Chads every once in a while and we have to set you straight. But don't let it happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:15 AM
2

Oh sweet summer child! The most important thing is to always blame women and never ever whatever you do look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:11 AM
2

I don't think the word dominant means what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:35 AM
5

My lost disappointing lays were the ones that lacked experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:32 AM
8

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:31 AM
4

It's about the same mentality that makes men post naked or compromising photos of girls they have hooked up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:13 AM
0

Everyone can agree that you cannot trust women. Even women agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:12 AM
4

Height is correlated with high testosterone in the womb. So are the ability to grow facial and body hair, square jaws, broad shoulders, muscles; etc. basically blame your dads for being low T nerds and not giving you enough testosterone hereditarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:57 PM
0

Oh sure pretend to be gay to get close to women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:50 PM
5

It only gets worse with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:53 PM
1

Someone's scared of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:02 PM
4

That's the truth. It's funny though. If you are alive today, every single one of your ancestors from your dad, down to the Neanderthal and down to the first single cell organism to originate in the primordial soup, they all managed to procreate successfully. If you are alive today, chances are one of your ancestors held a sword or a spear and killed another man on a battlefield somewhere or chased Mammoths across the plains of Siberia. And here we are. Scared to say "hi" to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:00 PM
2

I don't understand what's the appeal of the always losing nice guy? Why do men fight so hard to stay in their cage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:41 PM
7

No, of course, you are correct. Being relaxed, confident, secure and non-needy signals women that you have options so you MUST be in demand. They make decisions based on a man's behavior not his physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:13 PM
8

Or maybe the whole "women only want relationships" trope is total bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:20 PM
2

Because the whatever little woman are left on that app will totally desert it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:19 PM
1

Just another way to avoid taking responsibility for your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:17 PM
6

Men are having such a hard time getting laid that somehow we managed to hit 8 billion people on earth. A population size that we had never seen before. I guess those 5 Chads that all women go for must have had a lot of work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:16 PM
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I think denying that women are attracted to men who other women are interested in is crazy. Every guy who has some semblance of a social life knows that he can go by himself or with his male buddies to a bar and be invisible. But if he walks in with a decently attractive woman, all of a sudden he receives tons of signals from other women. Every guy can attest that when he is single and is actively chasing women, they don't give him the time of day. But the second he gets a girlfriend, other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:15 PM
0

Just admit you are deadly afraid of women. It's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:34 PM
1

Just admit you are deadly afraid of women. It's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:34 PM
-1

Men don't have to improve or impress. They just need to stop being afraid of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:33 PM
3

Sad that this is what you took away from my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:32 PM
3

This is very interesting discussion. Objectively, reality is the same for everyone. The difference is in how we perceive reality. You have heard of the expression "someone is wearing rose colored glasses"? It means they view the world very naively. Well, there should also be an expression that someone is wearing "shit colored glasses". See your perceptions can either realistic, positively biased or completely distorted. Perceptions that are distorted and negative lead to depression, loss of self…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:21 PM
1

To be read "ate" not are or tore!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:47 AM
0

I married the mast girl who ate my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:45 AM
-3

Shhhh, how are we going to convince them to do more anal unless we claim it's really for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:16 AM
-4

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12118612/anal-sex-myths/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:49 PM
-2

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12118612/anal-sex-myths/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:49 PM
-6

It's never just the tip. Also, anal is really for the woman's pleasure not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:30 PM
5

As I said the nice guy gets at most a "he's really nice, I am not sure about him yet, I will keep dating him to see if there is something there (HINT: there isn't!)"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:55 PM
5

Lol! You guys are so clueless. The reason women complain about assholes is because these are the guys they can't stop thinking about. No woman ever goes to her girlfriends and says "yeah, I met this guy, he is super nice, he told me he was really into me on the first date, he always communicates with me, sends me good morning and good night texts, blah blah blah". At most these get the "I just didn't feel a spark with him, I may go on another date to see if that changes but I'm thinking I won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:06 PM
0

Here is the real reason why women make some guys wait and others not: https://youtu.be/9VH_oSEupCY https://youtu.be/0Ch6HDJyDLw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:40 PM
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Lol at having to "earn" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:16 PM
-1

"What do you think" is the question least asked of attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:41 PM
1

The only reason it stings is because of the context. Because deep down you believe that this random woman has made a judgement call about you that is true. If you went to give a homeless looking person some change and he told you he didn't want it, would you be all upset and take it personally? Probably not. Because you don't consider the opinion of a homeless bum worthwhile. But a pretty woman? Damn, she can poke holes through those insecurities man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:25 PM
1

Was there a point you were trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:23 PM
2

But that means that you make their opinion of you more important than your own opinion of you. Taking it personally means that it does affect your self worth. So you are contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:56 PM
3

So someone who has been exposed to you for mere seconds, gets to be the ultimate judge of your worth and not you, who have known you your entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:19 PM
0

When I was dating actively, I was acting as the employer. Going out and recruiting but clearly the one who was in charge of the hiring decision. Guess who was trying hard to impress me with their skills in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:11 PM
2

Maybe they should use that insecurity to step up their dick game instead of avoiding the things that make them anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:02 PM
1

The best advice I have received about dating has been from men who are probably over 250 lbs. Both with 4 figure n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:50 PM
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You really don't want to talk to the 5' Indian janitors do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:47 PM
1

4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:45 PM
-1

It is actually not worth it at all. It is one of the stupidest ideas that society has come up with. And it makes absolutely no sense to want a sexually inexperienced woman for a relationship. You will be spending the majority of your time with her and will have sex exclusively with her. If it were ONS, at least it was only once and sex was bad so you get to move on. If sex is bad within a relationship that's like hell. And they call men the rational sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:44 PM
5

I don't know if women are much more influenced by social norms, but I do know that they go crazy for a guy who can go against social norms and expectations and break the rules (aka simping for Badboys).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:30 PM
5

Hmmm, I wonder why this is? Could it have something to do with the fact that: Men: only virginal women or women who have had no more than 2 ltr boyfriends are worthy and valuable. Of a woman has slept wjth more than 5 men she is a dirty ass slut, polluted with dick. Well, for a woman to admit that she actually enjoys sex and not only vanilla sex but dirty and filthy sex, she would also have to admit that she's tried a bunch of different dick in the process of discovering her sexual preferences. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:29 PM
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That's total bullshit. There is no battle of the sexes. Both men and women want the same thing - each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:23 PM
1

Not if they are gay. But even gay men love boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:20 PM
2

Not saying her personality isn't great. I'm saying the only reason men talk to women is because they want sex. Denying this is just being a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:50 PM
1

Well, sorry to break it to you sweetheart, but the only reason men talk to you is boobs and vagina. But sure, it's because your personality is so outrageously fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:27 PM
1

Sorry to break it to you, but I'm pretty sure it ain't worth the wait. Cause if you are making guys wait that much you can be all that experienced at sex. It takes practice. You ain't getting enough of it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:21 PM
7

Fuck, maybe PPD is right. There some real desperate simps out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:19 PM
-1

Lol. Who the ruck would hang around for 6 months? Is your pussy made of diamonds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:44 PM
1

I don't think this word means what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:10 PM
10

I don't know that I agree with your overgeneraliztion, but there is definitely a strong correlation (may I even say causation) between anxious, risk averse men and their lack of romantic/sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:09 PM
7

In general men who take risks are seen as infinitely more attractive than men who are risk averse and do nothing bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:05 PM
2

Just fyi, after the first time she is no longer a virgin, soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:03 PM
32

Men on PPD: I will take any woman, doesn't matter what she looks like or how she treats me as long as she is not super obese. Men need sex like they need air, doesn't matter who we get it from Men see sex as the ultimate validation for being a worthy human being and not a subhuman We will literally fuck anything, just please like me Also men on PPD: A woman who made up her own mind out her own free will to go to bed with a guy because she liked his look, his humor, or she was just feeling bored …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:02 PM
-3

But #muhtoo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:32 AM
3

Nah, more likely some dude like Kevin Federline who isn't overly concerned with how tall he is or how sharp his jaw. He probably sells them drugs and makes them such his dick for extra coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:27 AM
1

Somebody is fucking all these Instathots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:05 AM
2

Hallelujah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:32 AM
2

Only 2.6% if the male population in the US has an estimated income of 100K+ and are 6' or taller. Our argument makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:18 PM
1

I'm asking you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:12 PM
-1

Sure. Ask yourself if you ran into this guy In a club whether you'd as much as give him your number, never mind fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:54 PM
-1

Okay brah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:53 PM
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Lol, the guy who coached Mystery said that he would go to these clubs dressed like a clown and would collect numbers but none of the girls would give him a real number or would ever go out with him. They just wanted him to go away. All you need to get laid is to be a man. It's all that it took for millions of years until apparently the last 10 years due to dating apps. All of a sudden it's not enough to just be a man. Oy vey!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:07 PM
1

You are just using your value system to exact judgment onto others. Now, if you said that you wouldn't fuck a woman just because you happened to like her and be attracted to her and that you would put this woman through a bunch of hoops to prove her value so that you would finally give your priceless sex to her, then fine, I agree with you. But we both know that's not true. We both know that you would fuck a woman for as little as liking how big her tits are it just because she was actually will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:17 PM
3

You can say "between 0 and 200".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:55 PM
0

The guy lived life on his own terms no matter how despicable they were. Can you say that for majority of men who are like: "women are mean and they will get me arrested for daring to speak to them, I'm much better off jerking off to porn and never leaving my house".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:54 PM
2

I think you will end up disappointing a bunch of men and women who would expect a fantastic lay and instead get a shy virgin. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:52 PM
4

Again, your assumption is that for a woman to sleep with a man whom she finds cute or interesting or likes his style or maybe she just feels damn horny and he's there and smells good, it must mean that she has NO self respect. If someone were to tell you that you as a man, doing something out of your free will because you want to or just feel like means that you have NO self respect, you would look at them as if they were CRAZY. Well, what's actually crazy is accusing women of having no respect …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:51 PM
4

Women don't enjoy masochism (unless it's in the bedroom), they just want men who go for what they fucking want with boldness and confidence. What all the men above have in common is exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:46 PM
1

Nah nah. Womens standards are impossible to meet bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:45 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:44 PM
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