Lies. Woman OFFER the hottest guys sex. They know that guy doesn’t wanna date them so they’ll take free dick if that’s all they can get from the hottest guy
It’s because men are delusional. No woman wants to be committed to a man who’s for everybody. I’m assuming these men have never seen the movie John tucker must die
Now let me ask this question. Everyone thinks us black woman are undesirable. Which means black man wouldn’t exist anymore. Which means this world would become so lame and depressing.
Lies. I see girls get plastic surgery at my age all the time and they don’t have any problems. The average girl my age is thinking about plastic surgery.......I wonder why hmmmm
EVERYONE WOMAN CAN COME TO THIS CONCLUSION. You literally have to be instagram model pretty and act like a sex slave. I’ve never been fat in my life so what is my problem?? Oh yeah man are going for instagram models. One guy was honest about his type being insta baddies when he was a 3. My standards in man have always been LOW yet here I am on Reddit. No I’m not a troll.
Lmaoo. I laughed. Men are so shallow yet complain alllllllll the time about woman wanting a attractive male partner. How about you Males get plastic surgery like us woman get plastic surgery. Problem solved. Debate over with. Cry baby
I’m a virgin and I would never want a High N-count man. I’m attracted to Low N-count man who have self control and value other things than sex. That’s husband material to me personally
And you’re not the brightest for assuming I want kids. People who want kids are selfish. Do you not see the world we live in?? I can’t stand privileged dummies who live in disneyworld like u
We have told guys soooo many times that when we like their pictures on instagram, that’s us shooting our shot at you. I don’t wanna come off desperate. If you don’t take the hint. I’ll just assume you’re not interested in me.
I’ve never asked a guy out but only showed interest. When they never show interest, I always wonder........they must think their looksmatch are instagram models. It makes me laugh when I see them get curved by girls who they think are their looksmatch. Very entertaining to watch. Oop
South Korea got one thing right! Plastic surgery should be the norm for men and women. When you graduate high school your gift should be plastic surgery. Korea is ahead of everyone when it comes to lookism
As a virgin myself. Men do not respect you more if you’re a virgin. That’s not true at all. What they actually do is emotionally abuse you and prey on you. ☺️ Then try to make you feel bad for being a virgin because it’s normal to fuck 500 people a week ☺️. Also it’s normal to fulfill a strangers needs that you just met 2 secs. Don’t be a virgin like me in 2020. It’s not for the weak
“Not to be rude” you were still rude. 2nd it’s the hardest thing to get a relationship. It’s so hard no one and I mean no one can tell you how to get it.
Those posts were MONTHS ago. Fuck therapy. It didn’t work for me. When you’re a good hearted empathetic person you attract narcissists who want to basically kill you without using their hands. This is basic psychology. I’m insecure because I’ve only attracted these types of people. Including my parents. What does a hug even feel like? Wouldn’t know ☺️
I never went for hawt guys. Even ugly looking guys are trying to be fuck boys. I always go for ugly cute unfit looking guys and oh my god they are horrible. To the 5’7 makivelli looking dude who fucked me up, to the chubby tall korean who still wears braces who tried to pump and dump me. My bar is already as low as it is. Ugly men are fucking me up not hot guys. Hot guys are the only option
Read what you just said. Why would anyone have sex when there’s people like that out there who are trying to use and abuse people? Losing my v to a dildo sounds good right about now
This is not true at all. So many girls my age (20) hate most men. Including me. don’t know any girl my age that hasn’t said men are trash at least 1 time.
True. That’s why I was confused myself. No fboy has ever mentioned anything to me about dating or wanting more. They completely avoid it. So I’m not sure what kind of strategy he was using
PAUSE. Men are so confusing. Men hate sexually active women yet ALSO hate virgin girls like me because I’m not giving them what they want. 🤔 make it make sense. I’m so confused. It always makes me laugh when men try to sell me dreams to fuck. So MANY men have tried yet here I am still a virgin. Guess it doesn’t always work. So stop doing it. There’s girls who also want sex too. You just have to go to a party or bar idk. Stop trying to manipulative us relationship girls who ain’t about that life.
That’s not true. I would never reward dishonesty. I respect honest men more tbh. No one respects someone who emotionally manipulates them to get what they want. Only insecure people do. I would never. Hell no. This is the main reason I’m about to start on going for korean guys. They are honest about being perverts (if they are one). In America, you have to vet and other bullshit. F that. I’ll be over here manifesting my future korean bf.
Wow thanks for the shade, but how is it immature? I have no problem being honest with a men about what I want from him and I’m not scared of rejection (anymore) because I’m narcissistic af. The only reason I’d rather not tell him my intention is because men don’t ever tell me theirs. It’s always “whatever happens happens” like wtf?? It’s never “lets go on a date” or “I wanna have sex with you”. So yes imma keep sending signals.
That’s what I think he was doing. Leading me on to get in my pants. Because why are you waiting for me to show interest? So you can play your cards right?
I watched selena Gomez’s m/v “boyfriend” and it literally explains how I feel. You can go on 100s of dates and still end up saying “I want a boyfriend”. Like, getting into a relationship seems to be a secret formula that nobodies telling me about. Or even Selena because she seems to be confused to.
But some of us are gonna be virgins forever if that’s the case. I don’t even want to get married but I don’t want to lose my virginity during casual sex. Lmaoo and men think they have it hard. As a women (me) you have to suppress your sexual urges because no one wants to be with you. While getting emotionally manipulated and almost raped a couple of times
Oh 100%. It’s just funny how so many men are telling me to be honest. Like wtf. I could’ve gotten raped or who knows what if I was honest and vulnerable like these men on here want me to be. HELL NO
He brung it up because he said I guess we can just be friends after I told him I wasn’t looking for anything. I then told him I didn’t want to be friends. That’s when he started asking “so you want to date me?” Etc etc etc.
Oh really? Well that’s you. I didn’t know if he even wanted a relationship with me so why would I be honest about wanting him??? So technically I didn’t fuck up.
This is a perfect question for my situation. I was trying to give hints to this guy. He understood the hints because he kept asking me “do you want something more with me?. Do you wanna date me? Etc etc. Now of course I dodged the question. Why? Because he kept saying what ever happens happens. Yet I’m suppose to tell him “I like you. Take me on some dates.” Like wtf. I believe he didn’t like me back. If I answered his question and said “yes I want you” I mean what would happen after that? Where…
Anyways. I would like to lose my virginity in a LTR. But I’ve never been in an LTR. Every guy keeps forcing me, key word “forcing” me in the casual sex lifestyle which I don’t want to be a part of. So here I am still a virgin at 20 about to be 21 soon. Not everyone who’s a virgin is “boring”. F off
What advice would you give to someone who attracts mostly fat guys at 20 years old but isn’t fat herself. She’s fit/skinny and 5’0. The fit guys FWB her while the fat guys shoot their shot. Now I hope you’re not telling me that the fat guys are on my level. Who’s on my level? Doesn’t make sense
I don’t have an instagram model body. Every guy I’ve been interested in cared more about the body than face. Now either I get plastic surgery on my body or become a fitness chick. Guys I know are going for instagram baddies. So I’m fucked
Thankkkkk you. All of these men think they are boyfriend and husband material. When they are not. Maybe they should travel to the Philippines and force some young women to marry them like every other older men does. sips tea
Funny you say that because I’ve met an RP incel irl before. Let’s just say he was a 5’7 psycho. No I’ve never met an ugly genuine nice guy. Ever. More like ugly and crazy? Yes. Ugly and an asshole? Yes
I wasn’t gonna put out to random guys anyway. I know I’m not pretty. Just cute. I’m tired of guys telling me to get a bigger butt for love. It makes love sound like a joke. Never having any guy want you seriously. Only guys emotionally abusing you to get sex. Yeah I’m staying a virgin forever. Don’t care anymore
GIRLLLL FACTS. Unfortunately I met one of these guys in real life and he tried EVERY tactic on me. I never gave in either thank god. He was also very crazy and unstable. Everything he did was a turn off.
Men don’t even care to pleasure women during causal sex. According to my home girls. Which is why they stopped doing it. They weren’t orgasming at ALL. But the guy will.
Lies. I’m a virgin and I’ve been interested in multiple guys that I wanted to have sex with but I didn’t want to be used for his pleasure while I got nothing out of it. I let them know I was interested. They always tried to pull that “I’m not ready for a relationship” so here I am still a virgin.
I’m a virgin so I guess I’m fucked. I tell guys I’m not putting out. They usually act like they are fine with just being friends but I can tell they are just waiting for me to change my mind. Also they’ll constantly ask me what I want from them because a “girl” like me doesn’t just talk to guys with out wanting something. I think they are trying to get me to tell them I’m interested in dating them but that’ll make me vulnerable and give him all the power. Not about to get played. Nope
Question. As a 20 year old women who hasn’t been in a relationship and who’s a virgin. I don’t want to secure love by having sex with random guys. Am I fucked???
But it is very true that people don’t like nice people. Being an bitch or asshole will always get you further in life. Basic human nature. People see nice people as weak and foolish. It’s hard to respect someone who doesn’t set boundaries.
UPDATE: okay so I’m not even gonna lie when me and him first started talking I acted like I only wanted sex because I thought that’s what he would want so that’s why we were gonna be fwb. He just told me that he wouldn’t have minded going on a date first and that he never wanted to make me feel uncomfortable. I told him that I was hurt so that’s why I was acting like I was about that casual life. I’m happy now. Byeee
I’m talking to this korean guy who’s some what attractive but I know he’s gonna pump and dump me so I don’t want to risk getting hurt. I have a thing for korean guys and if he ever rejected me I’d probably ☺️🔫. So I’ll just use him for attention instead
LMAOO WHAT? “Genetic looks associated with sluts”??? My ass is small but not flat and my boobs are small. My face has black features because I’m black. So if you’re saying that my RACE is the problem. Sadly you’re not wrong. Plenty of guys would never date a black girl and just think we are easy sex. Every guy has said to me “I don’t have a preference for race” when they were trying to sleep with. LMAOO IM NOT DUMB. Even the korean guy I’m talking to said he doesn’t have a preference for race. w…
That literally doesn’t make any sense. Insane men and women that I know of that look young are also boo’d up. But you can keep guessing all you want to. WRONG. Also some of the guys even follow me on instagram because GUESS WHAT PURPLEPILL RETARDS WHO THINK THEY KNOW HOW THE WORLD WORKS they ask for it after knowing what I look like. So like. All of you are wrong af. Low IQs fools. Who think they are smart. There’s so many insane people in relationships. Everyday there’s news that someone killed…
LMAOOO WHAT. I’m don’t even show my shoulders. I’m 5’0 and literally look like a fucking CHILD. I’m 20 and have never even kissed a guy. Ever. So PLEASEEEE tell me what slut vibes I’m giving off?? I’m also introverted af and don’t act attention seeking or anything like that. Guys have literally thought I was a lesbian for said reasons, I don’t care for their attention. Also how can I give off a slutty vibe on bumble when I look like a prude 15 year old in my pics. PLEASEEEEEEE EXPLAIN. ILL WAIT.
Like I said key word PLASTIC SURGERY. Some of these women were not born beautiful. Which are plenty of insta baddies. So wrong again. Anyways Okay so why do men when on the hook up app (bumble and tinder) ask to meet up or to snap a selfie of yourself to see if you look like your photos. But they matched with me because I’m unattractive to them which is why they want a FWB. They shouldn’t even care if I look like my photos. WHAT
Well that’s not what my eyes are seeing on a day to day basis. And without makeup?? Lmaooo the korean guy I’m talking to literally said he likes the insta baddie look. That’s the type of girls he goes for. They have HELLA makeup on. 24/7. And plastic surgery. Make it make sense. I know beautiful women who get offered hook ups but sometimes even ugly men. So wrong again. I don’t care about a study. reality is reality
This is lies. I have friends who are 10+ in looks and personality and still have guys who don’t want anything serious with them. While I’ve had 5- friends who were always boo’d up. I’ve only ever gotten hook up/fwb offers. Which is why I’m still a virgin till this day. I don’t think I’ll ever be about that life ever. Some girls give in because they are horny of course but also they think they can some how make the guy interested in them by giving him what he wants. I know this one tiktok girl wh…
Dickmatized is a real thing. I’ve seen plenty of girls my age who thought certain guys were ugly and could never see themselves with these men ever. The moment they hooked up. The girls would try to get commitment from these men. They were obsessed. Paying for his cellphone bill, letting him use her car. I’ve seen this with plenty of women. The D has to be good enough. Black men are very good at this. Oop
Yeah when it was a LEGAL CONTRACT. Then men turned it into forced marriages and kidnapped marriages. World wide. To tie down woman. Women never wanted that unless business related. Marriage was business first.
Not true. Man made up commitment and marriage. No women ever thought up tying down a man. Kidnapped marriages AND forced was still a thing until recently (it’s illegal now) because MEN wanted that commitment. While most women kill themselves to get out the forced marriage. In places like China, women don’t care to get married and it’s hurting all of the men who outnumber the women by millions. So they use these gaslighting techniques “leftover Chinese women” so the women can feel mad about not w…
Did men not make up marriage for long term commitment? Lmao. Maybe that’s why women keep filing for divorce. Men want commitment more than women. Ask will smith
I wonder if guys get hurt that girls just wanna use them for the D until they get better D. In my opinion the D wasn’t good enough so she didn’t want you. If the D is good enough the girl will want you long term
The “ugly girl” has been lied to all her life. Even Walt Disney said if you don’t look like a princess you won’t find fake love. That’s why I was always confused with the “stay a virgin and you’ll find your soulmate bullshit” pushed in the 20s. You’ll just end up staying a virgin forever or getting assaulted. But unless you live in reality unlike everybody else
Why use the term “commitment” instead of “love”. They can’t find love. No one wants commitment. Not in 2020. Marriage is losing its value. Having babies is losing its value. People should stop looking for love and realize we are in a individual ERA
Lmaoo there’s plenty of women around the world Straight and lesbian women using a strangers sperm to have kids if she wants them. It’s huge thing now if you didn’t know. Also people break up? Divorce? Most people will end up single. Alone? They have their kids, friends, social media lmaoo.
Lmaooo stop projecting. There’s plenty of women my age 20 who are alone and very happy. While other women my age are in relationships depressed and miserable. Women will always be happier single. Men are not needed
Yeah because of the patriarchy. Since I was in high school only males pressured me into having a boyfriend. Never girls. Hmm wonder why. Even little boys felt some type of way because I don’t need them. Then man call women cat ladies and all types of things to pressure women into being with men. So we feel like it’s a bad thing to be single. No, it’s a bad thing to be broke. Men are not needed. The patriarchy will fall very soon
What’s even more sad is that there’s how many people in the world? and we’ll still end up not partnered with someone. While some people will have multiple relationships others will have none. Shocking and never made sense to me
THANK YOU FOR BEING HONEST OMGGGG. Men never admit to this. That’s why men are only nice to women they want to have sex with. The halo effect. Women don’t even give in to the halo effect. Also almost all bad boys are ugly. I’m a women. I would know. Men are just really shallow and delusional
Women have built shit too. Need? No. You’re question is dumb. Every human has free will. So I can’t make him stay or not. That’s his decision. He’s not a child or a puppet. Can’t make him do anything.
What are you talking about? Straight men are not God. Women bring kids in this disgusting world. Men are the ones who offer nothing. Men need to stop making women feel guilty for being single. It’s evil of men to do that. Bi-sexual man offer more than straight man. Oop
Umm because the women is gonna have to have the ugly mans child the fuck. I want love not relationships with demonic ugly straight men. True love instead. Bye now
It’s not that simple. I’m a good hearted person who attracts demonic man. Why? I don’t know. I would like to attract man who are good hearted like me. Don’t know how
Why do men think they are God. You’ll never be God. You can’t dictate which women deserves love or not. We all do. Being human is enough. Offer?? Is this a human ritual and sacrifice?? F outta here
THANKKK YOU OMFG. Finally a man with brains. I’ve told so many guys I was a virgin. For what some reason they think treating you like sexually active women will get them what they want. Hell nah I’ll keep waiting for my soulmate.
Here we go again. Let’s guilt women when men are the problem. Men complain about hypergamy when it isn’t even real. You literally just proved that. Women can’t date up even if we want to.
Let me ask this. Would you ever want to experience what it feels like to be a black girl in this wicked world?? I’m human. F being strong. You can only take so much disrespect on a daily basis
HA like I said looks get you respect. I know you live in a bubble. Cute. White people are respected because of their Pale skin. Get treated better etc. lie again. You know what. Go and protest. You’ll see how your looks can even get you killed. Hitler said hello
Ha you wish. Looks are the only thing that matters. Keep lying to yourself. Reality will hit you in the face sooner or later. It’s a cold world out there. 😈
There’s even a reality show on Netflix about arranged marriages. It’s about commitment NOT love. That’s why they last longer than love marriages. They are looking to get married and have kids. Point. Blank. Period. Next
Well the west needs to start making Arranged marriages a thing. That’s the only way EVERYONE will have 2 parent homes. Arranged marriages last longer than love marriages anyways. Maybe we have too much free will.
“Ensure commitment” Animals don’t even need commitment. Humans don’t need commitment. We crave love and people call it commitment. Most people I know never even met their Dads. So ensuring commitment is so pointless. Dads are useless in 2020. What are they good for? They gone walk away from their kids anyway
Finally somebody spoke about it. Being an ugly black girl is even worse. You see the world for what it really is and it’s wicked. No wonder we have disney world etc to cover the veil
Stay mad. There’s no point of me being straight. Men treat me badly for no reason. Tired of the lack of empathy and abuse. I’m trying to turn lesbi idgaf. I need REAL LOVE
Men love to lie. Ugly guys use girls too. Bout “appreciate” lmaoo. You’re basically saying that if ALL men were chads. They’d all just use us for sex. We’d see “love” for what it really is. A Social construct. Thanks for proving my point. Also if I ever give a ugly guy a chance I’m 100% using him.
So choose ugly guys? That’s what you’re saying? Hell nooo. Ugly guys will DEFINITELY make you turn bad. Like they did my friends. Next caller next caller
Men love to lie. It’s as simple as that. We all know men that want promiscuous women so they hate them but still want them. They don’t want us good girl virgins. They want to HURT the good girls than we turn bad. It’s how it’s always been. Next
Checked the sub and they sound like losers who got hurt but still NEED women and are mad about it HAHAHAHA. Hopefully they never have kids. Us women deserve better
THATS A LIE. I know so many girls who gave the ugly guy a chance he played the fuck out of here. Men need to stop guilt tripping women. Men are all the same no matter what they look like NEXT. The pretty boys I’ve known treated their girlfriends like queens. Somebody’s lying
Oh my god shut up. I see so many UGLY ass men with women who are perfect. MEN NEED TO LOWER THEIR STANDARDS. Also thank you for finally calling out men who fuck up shit and then complain about it. 😂😂 I just sit back and laugh
I’m still a virgin. Nice try. Oh and I know cum buckets who got wifed up. I can name a few. Yet I’m a virgin getting treated like shit. Keep fucking lying
I’m single because I’m better than the options out there. Why when I have the same attitude most MEN have, I’m unworthy of love. When men are worthy of love no matter........what
Of course the fuckboys are going to be a insta model. But most of the insta models were with someone so ugly I was shocked. Love is blind I guess And no I don’t have a race preference
Damn i feel like I’m the only girl that doesn’t want male attention. Just male love from one guy. I do get male attention and never liked it. Ever. Not even compliments. I don’t understand the hype
Also every men didn’t fuck up my self esteem by telling me I’m unlovable because I don’t have ass or boobs or my skin color and other stupid bullshit. I wouldn’t be here right now
