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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
890	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized	CMV	gyromuffin238	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:01 PM

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-4	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized This is a fair point. I'm not going to pretend like attractiveness isn't something that can have a huge influence as opposed to personality. However, I think it's fair to say that more "undesirable" men will generally speaking be much happier if they have a real-life social circle to fall back on in case of failure, as opposed to a suicide death cult of internet blackpillers. I've been dumped from relationships before and the thing that's helped me the most is having guys around who are able to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:45 AM
6	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized This post isn't meant as some generic dunk on dudes who play video games and lick cheeto dust off their hands. It's just too often that I come across some guy who claims to know exactly how women work and exactly what women want and I scan through their post history and it's just hundreds of reddit comments about how they stay completely isolated and bitter towards society. I mean, I feel bad for them. That's a terrible fate. But acting like these dudes deserve any sort of authority in acting li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:32 AM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Across all of these pill subs, calling things cope is pretty much just a shorthand way for retards to say "I'm a depressed nihilist who shoots down any remotely positive thoughts about life".	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:17 AM
7	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized That is unfortunate and I'm sorry you had that shitty experience. I can't speak for everyone everywhere but generally if you act respectable and/or kind, plenty of non-asshole guys don't set the bar too high for whom they accept in their group. In the past I've seen dudes just sorta insert themselves into guy-groups and unless they're annoying the other guys just go along with it, lol. If you ask a nicer socialite dude for tips to getting to know people I'm sure they'd be responsive, even if it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:13 AM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized This is very often true but not always so. In settings where people are forced to see each other every day such as school, college, or work often times you're forced to get to know someone's personality regardless of what they look like. Very likeable people have an edge here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:06 AM
3	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized 5'2" vietnamese dude. He's extremely chill and draws some amazing art which is why people like him. He doesn't have a girlfriend but he's friends with tons of men and women because he has a very laid-back and non-judgemental personality, and obviously doesn't ascribe to any online forums . You might say "omg he doesn't have a gf he's doomed!!!" but I'm willing to bet that most incels were dealt a much better card than he was and he still manages to do very well socially, just not romantically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 11:59 PM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized I met my first ever girlfriend when I was 17. The first time we met she didn't pay much attention to me at all but eventually we became really good friends. She'd always insult me about my appearance or make fun of me for being a clumsy guy and I'd usually just roll my eyes and tell her I wasn't worried about it. About four months after we met I grew enough balls to ask her out and she told me she'd been waiting for me to ask her out for a while. We went on to have a three year relationship that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 11:54 PM
2	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Average and below men don't get that easy success and have a harder time developing the personality and confidence. I agree with you there, actually. But my point is it's not impossible. Incels think that dating is some zero-sum game where if you have an 8 in attractiveness and a 7 in charisma you are immediately awarded with one (1) free girlfriend. That's not how it works. Some guys need to work harder just as some people are born into poverty and others are born famous. But the vast majority …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 11:37 PM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized I have no doubt that many "sub-8 incels" will struggle more than your average hot guy. But the main point im trying to convey is that you just need to bust your ass a bit more and learn to be a little more clever with yourself. I see guys here saying that if they're 5'5" getting a girlfriend is literally impossible. That's bullshit. Again, apologies for the anecdote but I know a guy that height who has a pretty attractive girlfriend who obviously is in love with him. I've heard the excuses incel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 11:28 PM
2	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Holy fuck I spend an hour and a half at the gym and I have 70 notifications. I don't really have time to respond to everything but the main point is don't kill yourself because the internet told you to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 11:13 PM
5	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized This is what I see a lot. Unless you're "Chad" you're not going to go from 8 hrs of internet to fucking women once per month, you need to build good reputation and be part of some sort of community first. It should be intuitive that this is one of the steps but a lot of guys want to jump right past it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 10:04 PM
6	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Trouble is the metoo garbage hasn't helped, especially with ugly, socially awkward or inexperienced men. This is true, although I think that if these guys talked to more women (even platonically) they'd realize that the vast majority are not insane enough to call the police on a guy for awkwardly asking them out. If they reject the guy a chill women will just be like "lol that was kinda funny" and unchill women might bitch about it to their friends, but it takes a sociopath to pursue legal actio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 10:02 PM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Alright alright fine I'll scale back a bit. There's definitely some truth to the "blackpill" in how humans judge attractiveness. The pitfall I see many men fall into is that they start thinking of the world ONLY in terms of the blackpill and convince themselves they should kill themselves because they're two inches under average height. Blackpill trends are true but incels often frame it in a way that gives it way too much credit for the sake of saying that the world is fucked and most men are d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:54 PM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Ah, I guess I'm wrong then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:50 PM
15	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized How would your personality have any influence on people who don't get to know you? Very true. Luckily we as humans have the ability to get to know people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:49 PM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Maybe I'm just over-exposed to blackpill thinking and this was mainly directed at them instead of redpillers. Either way keeping track of these colored pills that allegedly imply deep societal truths makes my brain hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:47 PM
12	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Blackpillscience is a bunch of virgin dudes with zero friends trying to scientifically calculate what people are attracted to. It's as if a bunch of people who had only eaten oatmeal for their entire life tried to quantify what foods are objectively considered tasty based on food reviews and looking at people in restaurants. It's delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:44 PM