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| 2 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)Yes All it takes is 5 seconds of Chad cock to raise a girl’s partner standards by 10000% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?“Cross-culturally, research has consistently supported the trend in which males prefer to mate with younger females, and females with older males.[33] In a cross-cultural study that covered 37 countries,[50] preferences for age differences were measured and research supported the theory that people prefer to marry close to the age when female fertility is at its highest (24–25 years).” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 0 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?Would find out through convincing her of a non-judgmental and emotionally open atmosphere, and sharing each others’ experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Provide source or else it’s a leftist feminized narrative that disagrees with my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Take one trait from one person and another trait from another person. The skill at doing that isn’t encouraged enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | You’d be pretty guarded and picky too if everyone from the opposite sex who approached you was trying to penetrate youWomen are pretty and not aggressive the same way men are, though. It still wouldn’t feel very threatening. Take another man trying to penetrate me, however- that instinctively registers as a provocation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming.Yeah but, their insecurity and projection is pitiful egoistic and ..shameful lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenThey’re shamed by prejudiced people who immediately look at something and judge it with assumptions, despite not knowing the people involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceNope, logical fallacy. 85% of people dying at 78 doesn’t mean an individual within that group has an 85% chance of dying at 78. That contains an assumption that your chance of picking an individual with an exactly average age of death is 100%. Your observation of someone within a group doesn’t dictate their reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceSome individuals are more prone to heuristic bias than others, due to their cognitive makeup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag?lol awesome. I wonder how the game music was back then, though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag?What about only being into older console video games? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Evolution resulted in women adapting to their men being killed by men of warring tribes, who would then conquer the family including her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behaviorLesbian activity is more acceptable than male gay behavior, for a variety of reasons The “liberal” double standard imo, is that it’s creepy if a straight man is a little too forward, but if a gay man does the same to another man, he’s just “expressing his sexual freedom” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkYou can adopt traits from other personas and actually create yourself in a real way | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Is it just because of the apps? Like boom Tinder exists and suddenly guys have to be +2 smv points Or was it a gradual slope, and 8 years ago was more similar to 10 years ago | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themWaaah I’m morally superior according to my opinion, that’s supposed to carry over to being superior in all other areas, but reality is showing the opposite result ok | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themDepends how much you actually know this guy, or if you just saw some photos and are making stuff up about him to compare to yourself, because you feel bad about the rejection | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:06 PM |
| -2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themMaybe you were too judgmental for her, and maybe this guy has game in some way Like others said, the fact that you feel the need to stalk this guy and make up insecure coping mechanisms why you’re better than him… girls can smell that kind of selfish insecurity on you immediately. So no, he is probably better than you It’s not surprising that a crass dickhead does better than a moralizing nice guy with a secretly huge ego | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 12:07 PM |
| 11 | The Red Pill has gone mainstreamI think the mainstream narrative has pissed off more people today than ever, making its antithesis (which pisses off the other crowd more) more popular than ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtThe ones who do it “the right way” are self-proclaimed anti-ideology, but some people ironically use it like an ideology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:59 PM |
| -2 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?It’s in mens’ instinct to care. Only the honest ones will say they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?It’s based in instinct. Instinct also includes why anyone has sex in the first place, so it’s unreasonable to pretend only parts of instinct exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtLot of topics here haha Anyway, in the particular interview OP mentioned, I did personally think Piers made him look extremely patient and articulate when juxtaposed with Piers’ bombardment of interruptions and tests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Successful trolls plus shock rockers are respectable just for being that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtI personally know red pillers who are all about thinking independently, and who think Andrew Tate is a douche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | "Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signalingI think real “autism acceptance” would be for people to have empathy for anyone without relying on the need to read those facial expressions. Like, there are things about someone that can be deduced from social contexts and situations, that don’t require communicating with ones face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 3 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.Only the legitimate, philosophically consistent ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Holding conservative / right wing political beliefs is not good for dating.It really depends how it’s done. Disrespect is not good for dating. If as a man you hold some unpopular beliefs, but you can actually fend for yourself as well as preselect the women You choose, and not cave to the herd, that’s supremely attractive. Many women will respect men who do that, unless they have strong personal convictions that conflict. (The majority actually don’t have extremely strong personal convictions about every little thing.) Being right wing “the right way” correlates to gai… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Let's chat about being creepy.A lot of that also has to do with real confidence levels, a lot of ugly short guys lack self esteem compared to good looking guys and so might act arrogant and simpy, or generally uncalibrated instead Even if on paper it’s the “same approach” it’s not the same approach if the nonverbal signals and energies are different | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Let's chat about being creepy.A lot of people think that being “bold and direct” automatically negates creepiness, but it doesn’t if you just barrel in like a bull in a china shop obliviously without social calibration | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Just because degenerates like to encourage women to be as slutty as possible, doesn’t mean that most of them naturally want to. Sure women like sex, but not just indiscriminately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment?Find out if she’s bisexual | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterBeing humanistic is to see an individual instead of judging them by their age, race etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?Now we’re getting somewhere, you should talk about why you think it’s a goofy post, then maybe you’ll be taken more seriously instead of as someone who just ad hominems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?Why so judgmental if you’re not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:48 PM |
| -3 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?You sound triggered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menOn a broader level it’s politically correct society trying to make sure that more men stay like women, because too many alpha males makes things dangerous for them, it’s a status quo designed for mate guarding among other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with rejectionYeah perspective counts for a ton. Inner game is the fundamental. We are not merely our actions nor our superficial presentation | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?My ex was like that, who I had approached in a supermarket If you hang out in the right spots long enough, it could happen. Whether park, library, cafe etc. Probably even better is a niche dating app or something. But better to just be there incidentally when going about your day, instead of trying to get noticed. Most guys are either pussies (blame sensitivity culture) or fuckboys (blame hookup culture) but keep at it and you might get lucky, and in your case as a girl all you have to do is jus… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Is having platonic female friends as a man a good or a bad thing for dating?More that you didn’t mention: Positive: female friends open up to you, you learn how they think and feel, they’re people who you can connect with as a human being and have organic interactions, you get used to them around and being authentic around girls becomes more natural, and they might have connections to their single friends Negative: if you get used to treating women as “just friends” and neglect to flirt with who you’re interested in Overall it seems like a net positive, if you don’t let… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?It’s not at all impossible for a 20 year old girl to have enough in common with a 30 year old guy. I think in the USA it’s kind of a taboo, but if you’re attractive enough and play the game well without really focusing on age, enough girls will follow your lead without it being a big deal. Like, be “the cool/fun guy” rather than “the old guy” and it also helps if you look younger than you are. That said, ime countries outside USA do have better success rates with this. And gold digging (which yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Do redpill guys feel love?That psychology doesn’t apply to everyone. Unexpressed emotions can still be felt and/or put into perspective, and a man can hopefully still have enough self control not to lash out at his woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 02:16 PM |
| -1 | Do redpill guys feel love?Nothing was said about emotions expressed in anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?If you read my comment, you would see that I actually acknowledge that the socialist trend makes the nonconformist guys More masculine in comparison, it doesn’t threaten their masculinity. Socialism is actually feminine. Seems like you’re the one trying to prove that it isn’t. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Nothing says “in touch with reality” like pretending that was whining | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman?Literal answer: Preselection and status Contextual answer: If their intention is to shame a man, they’re blaming the guy for making them feel bad in some way. The guy may or may not actually be attractive to women, it’s just bullying. Keep in mind that feminine men do that too In your case they might also be trying to motivate you to improve your life, using shame | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 0 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Standing out among woke sheep boosts our relative value but then they also wanna cancel us into invisibility so it’s maybe a double-edged sword | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityNot by any of the OP’s definitions. I like femininity without the toxic part. If we erase femininity, all men will be forced to become either gay or sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityIf it’s a guy she’s really interested in then I don’t disagree, though in general there’s also some truth in the “men are keys, women are locks” analogy keeping the entire social fabric together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityYeah see I don’t like drill sergeants unless it’s a coach I’m consenting to do business with. I’d never want to date someone masculine aggressive because I’m attracted to femininity. To each their own though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityFor sure. There is a level in which pushing while being oblivious to normal signals/vibes is socially uncalibrated and self absorbed, but there are also contexts in which choosing not to communicate with an already-established partner seems lazy at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The Orbiter PhenomenonIf a male friend of a girl is to ever get in her pants, simping would probably lower his chances, what he could do is have value/be attractive in her eyes and then strike at the right moment when she’s single A girl’s boyfriend probably wouldn’t need to worry so much about obviously simping orbiters who are low-value (although unlikely situations are technically possible given the right circumstances), but he might wanna keep an eye on the tactical vulture described in first paragraph especially… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityYeah it depends on situation really, it’s one thing for someone to refuse to communicate what they want in a marriage, that’s the kinda thing that takes a lot of mutual communication with each other to work out I was thinking of situations like during initial approach phase when a girl is hinting that she’s either interested or not interested. Expecting the girl to initiate blunt directness with that is just against her feminine nature like expecting her to have balls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityI think it’s simply feminine communication which is inevitable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with a promiscuous guy wanting to settle with a virgin.Common knowledge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:43 PM |
| -1 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityGatekeeping conversation and media so that only politically correct language is hoped to get through without being mean-girl’d “toxic sensitivity” taking impersonal humor the wrong way etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininityI don’t think indirect communication is toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?Depends on the issue really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 05:14 AM |
| 0 | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?Rebellion is standing up to power, it’s got less to do with what’s been done before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?Don’t oneitis one girl who keeps denying your advances, and go for next ones? Maybe that jobless guy has better game, looks or anything else. You don’t know him really. He shouldn’t be your focus, you should. And again don’t oneitis the girl who isn’t into you | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 04:33 AM |
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