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Think of it as if she is a good friend. Would you text your good friend every second of the day? What is more important talking to your good friend over text or seeing him/her in person?That’s how texting should be.
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:37 PM
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Are you talking about dates or when you are cold approaching?
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:02 AM
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Did this in my college days. Day game is the best. You would be surprised how many girls would be into a cold approach like this. Just mind you frame is everything. This means calibrating your body language to hers and confidence in yourself. Once you open like this go straight to asking questions about her and just key in on the things that interest her that interest you. This is what gets you the numbers, the dates, and most of all attraction. If the conversation goes stale or just feels off, …
/r/seduction17/12/17 01:21 AM
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Dont text unless your setting up a date. Or call if you want to set up a date. Simple advice don't waste time trying to have text game. Girls aren't interested they will not text you back. They worry about the same shit you do when it comes to interacting. You have a text game by getting to know people first in person.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:14 AM
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Most useful advice in this sub in a long time.
/r/seduction02/07/17 04:26 PM
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If you have to go to bars/clubs/Tinder to find them, you are already at a disadvantage. Explain this logic. These are all places that women can meet you too. There are no disadvantages to going to places where you can connect with people/women outside your social circle.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:59 AM
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Your thinking too much into it. But you do have a few choices. Depending on the scenario is probably adventagious to simply say I am dating other people. Yes tell her if she asks but most girls looking to casually date won't say anything anyways. Just be open when the topic comes up. My ultimate advice is to date other girls if you want to casually date. You will inevitably give off the casual dating vibe and it drives women crazy to know they are not priority number one in your life.
/r/seduction05/06/17 06:56 PM
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Not a generational thing we (men&women) just got more shit to do than classes it's called work and it consumes our days so that any little time we make is to going out.
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:17 AM
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She wasn't tho. Anybody who thinks that they can be that entitled is ugly.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 12:09 AM
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Where in orange county. I'm in Hermosa beach area
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:07 AM
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No means yes.
/r/seduction02/12/16 07:07 PM
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Agreed just sound like a Owen Cook (Tyler Durden) rant from RSD. "How to get a 10" is a lazy used car sales pitch seen here too many times.
/r/seduction05/09/16 09:26 PM
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So you don't feel stupid when you text said random person. Karma
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:59 AM
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Depends on the frame. I never say sorry (Justin Bieber does that and it doesn't work for preasents like us). Story: I was in Budapest and me and my friend opensed these two very beautiful girls from UK. As we were going on the girls honestly didn't know how Americans are just as notoriously sarcastic as them. I however, made a comment that you probably should never make to a girl. However, salvaging the situation I apologized (not sorry for what I said) for offending her and reframed the interac…
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:27 PM
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"Oh and thank god for civil forfeiture." -cop She's not gonna get that money back.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/16 07:59 PM
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She is a lesbian
/r/seduction09/06/16 09:46 PM
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Quit over thinking it and go for it. Just masturbate a few times before you have sex (last longer). Wear a condom son.
/r/seduction05/06/16 09:14 AM
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Haha I chuckled. You are butt ugly dude not even seduction can halp you.
/r/seduction13/05/16 02:34 PM
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If there is reasonable evidence she premeditated the false rape accusations. Like all rape cases I want due process with evidence to support a case. Not guilty until proven innocent as rape cases have turned into witch hunts.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/16 04:02 PM
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Mmmkkk
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/16 12:14 PM
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I love how the RES picture shows this pretty woman in her 20/30s. Guys she's actually a 70 yr old witch.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/16 04:27 AM
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Unlike the girl in the buzzfeed video. I actually laughed at Ms. Shoe0nHead jokes...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/16 05:50 AM
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Agree. Get to the point. Either say hey lets go get a coffee around the corner or ask for the date before you get the number. No is no and you greatly save time by by being bold and assertive. Think of a car salesman they don't want you lingering too long or doubts become an issue. Make the sale and move on to getting some investment from her. Edit*** "no is no" and "maybe is no" too. don't waste your time.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:31 PM
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This attitude makes you ugly. No one owes you anything. And if you go into a date thinking a girl does when you buy her that coffee or dinner -- You will likely lose her not because of your looks but your attitude towards women.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:20 PM
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His face
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/16 08:23 PM
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never assume a girl will make the first move. Text her and see. If no response from her your done move on.
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:12 AM
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Sometimes expanding your social circle requires a lot of PATIENCE. It's about taking every opportunity to get involved with people. Always looking for opportunities to expand your social group by being open to go out when even you don't feel like it. If someone asks to hang out you should probably hang out. This includes making friends with their friends and including others in the hobbies you like to do. Practice leading groups and being the host or contributing in some way to the group by posi…
/r/seduction19/10/15 03:29 AM
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This is just sad. I feel bad that kid has to grow up with a mother like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/15 08:09 PM
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KSL...... You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/15 04:58 AM
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This guy is awesome https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqRyDsIZynQ
/r/PussyPassDenied25/06/15 02:53 PM
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No I am not going to check lasts weeks posts. Do a search and see if its in this sub before and read the reddiquette sometime Complain about reposts. Just because you have seen it before doesn't mean everyone has. Votes indicate the popularity of a post, so just vote. Keep in mind that linking to previous posts is not automatically a complaint; it is information.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/15 09:46 AM
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Yes I agree. I feel like I haven't gotten this advice in a long time. Mature and to the point. Not some how to get numbers and waste time circle-jerking advice for men with no confidence.
/r/seduction08/05/15 04:47 AM
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In terms of women or in general?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/15 12:06 AM
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Your not going to find satisfaction you did in a relationship with fucking another girl if your just looking for sex. You may gain experience in dating other women however. But date as many girls as you can and keep a rotation. Don't dwell too much on one unless she shows more interest than just you as another date. Being single is all about numbers until you find what you like.
/r/seduction28/02/15 07:50 PM
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Ouch!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/15 09:14 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:10 AM
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DAT troll smile!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/14 06:05 PM
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Welp is on youtube... Irony is that she probably will never see it on the internet because she does not believe in it.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/14 06:52 PM
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I wouldnt worry about it. If you plan to hang out and she really likes you she will probably hook up with you. It just may take more time for her to trust you are not in it to hit it and quit it. Girls sometimes need to feel they aren't easy. Dont ask me why.... but its a defense mech to justify herself with the face of thats what all guys want. I'd ignore it and just have fun see where it goes. She will let you know when she wants to hook up. You just need to decide whether you are willing to g…
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:24 AM
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Best part of conversations is when something unintentionally awkward comes out. Being human and laughing about these awkward moments can really make it fun for you and the girl.
/r/seduction30/07/14 01:58 AM
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Yea if its going well usually I just give her my number that way she is putting more effort into the conversation and sets value in messaging me.
/r/seduction28/05/14 07:35 PM
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I usually try to go for the interesting opener but if I got nothing from her pics to work off of or I just don't feel like being clever a simple "hey lady whats up" works fine too. Its all about how you look really; nothing can be said that can blow her mind in the first message anyway, its just an opener. However, a little more originality will set you apart. Girls who get the app really aren't expecting much from guys, its your follow up questions and that if you can hold a conversation that r…
/r/seduction28/05/14 01:38 AM
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Yep calibrate accordingly. The easiest part is to be yourself. The hardest part is to not be yourself. just don't break congruency with your personality rather tone down the parts of it that are undesirable. People will show through their body language what they want more than words can say. If you frame yourself with congruence you can almost always get away with being yourself. You want to be with people that are like minded and interesting rather than your perceive version of what you want th…
/r/seduction15/02/14 07:29 PM
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There is no specifics anyone can give you. It's best to get references for yourself. Reason why I say this is that every girl is different. And generalizing a person is a good basis to start but after you have gotten to know more about that person you can make the judgement on how you want to escalate. I've dated many types of girls all different spectrums. Pretty quickly you can see that despite their differences you can gather mental patterns to reach the same wavelength of commonalities since…
/r/seduction15/02/14 07:12 PM
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Fixed it damn phone apps
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:53 PM
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Just go out and date as many girls and guys as you can. It is the only way to get very good at talking to people is going and talking to people. She is most likely testing you. Girls like guys who can communicate with them intellectually and emotionally. It's a pre selection tool. You don't need to be the best looking guy as long as your good at communicator and can lead among men. you can get just about any girl you want.
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:45 PM
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Solid advice... time to go get some gum and a girl. I'll report back with a FR.
/r/seduction25/01/14 04:08 PM
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Dude this guy's whole internet life. Jimmy Kimmel take notes.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:35 PM
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Yea this is totally true. For a good while I would not go out and spent most my time on online dating sites. It is very much an addiction at some points where you get send a few messages and you get a few responses. However, my success rate was very low online. And when I did go out with a girl they were all weird. After getting tired of flakes with girls that I knew I could get a number and a dates outside the house, I realized that it was not worth the work and it took a huge tole on my confid…
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:14 AM
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I would also try to introduce someone else into the conversation if you can to make it even. Objectively 3 people have a hard time conversing a single idea. If you are able to bring a 4th person into the group, it can go back to 1 on 1 conversation.
/r/seduction05/12/13 10:41 PM
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Exactly man. I am right there with you. I'm living at home with my parents and been out to game a little bit but waiting for my job with the Air Force to tell me to leave its easy to go stir crazy. I make music in my spare time and go to the gym or surf to keep me completely out of limbo. Its still one of those things where I do go out and talk to girls and get numbers and you start texting them and you get a response, text back and you wont hear from them in a few hours. But when in rome you do…
/r/seduction05/12/13 08:08 PM
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I remember being in OP's position when I started getting into the game. A lot of mental masturbation went into "when should I text her," "is she still into me?," "what is my next move to woo this girl" These flood of insecurities are the root of OP's problem. My recommendation OP is to find other hobbies to make your time ween away from these questions. The only time you should talk to the girls is when you have time too or they talk to you. If girls are interested they will text you. If you get…
/r/seduction05/12/13 07:16 PM
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Honesty, it just happens. Either you both are in it for the friends with benefits or not. You can sit around and jerk the idea around in your head. You and the girl have to have the same understanding. Its best if you establish it from the beginning. One of my classic situations came about when I started screwing this girl in college. Needless to say I wanted a relationship out of it and she didn't. Later on she stopped talking to me and I found a girlfriend. It wasn't till a few months later I …
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:56 AM
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Yes really boring. "I love to go out. Hang out with my friends. I am an easy going girl yada yada." Best part is when they say "just ask!" Fuck am I supposed to read your mind. The profile's intentions are for me to find things in common.
/r/seduction24/11/13 04:28 AM
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Feel like I heard this list somewhere before.
/r/seduction10/11/13 02:16 AM
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Marvin Gaye
/r/seduction01/10/13 10:24 PM
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please do not procreate....
/r/seduction26/09/13 04:40 AM
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Yea I think the concept of have a good friend circle is good. But in no way having a bunch of dudes go out to a bar gonna help your social status with the lady's. If your a creep and your "bro's" are equally creepy good luck attracting girls. I think you can be more successful without the bros. Leave the bros at home with the playstation 3 and the beer pong, they are not going to get you the girls.
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:44 PM
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Just use OkCupid
/r/seduction08/09/13 01:14 AM
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Yep going through the same thing. The good thing is you will be friends first lovers second. You can have many lovers but good friends are better than diamonds. To make an impact like that on a girl you should be a proud man.
/r/seduction25/08/13 10:30 PM
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This is why I choose to date more than one woman when I'm not exclusive or never burn bridges with old flings. This not to say my life revolves around dating women. Other hobbies and friends are crucial to the equation. But dating many more than one woman gives you more opportunity to choose. As a man it also levels the playing field. I see it as if a girl can feel entitled to getting hit on by a plethora dudes and have better odds with dating more guys, nothing says guys can't either.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:14 PM
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Agreed, no one likes to be cornered into a relationship. It just happens.
/r/seduction23/07/13 03:45 AM
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Perhaps text her your number as soon as she gives you yours. That way you know: A. That its her real number B. Gives you a little more time to feel out her IOI's C. Joke around with her (takes the awkwardness away from some #closes) Other than that keep getting numbers. Some girls give numbers to get you off of them. 85% would not give a number away if they didn't have any interest. ***BTW it might be inherently in the fact that you are desperate for that number. Work on the conversation and not…
/r/seduction23/07/13 03:42 AM
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I agree with 75% of this. I agree this post all sound like the girl has the power. But take the power away by not providing them with the ammunition. Girls like to text their friends not their lovers/interests. Sure you can carry on a funny conversation and there are special cases where you can keep text bantering going on for a few weeks (I've done this). But with the end result always is to meet. For the most part, I rarely ever initiate any text to girls after I have laid down the ground work…
/r/seduction20/06/13 06:53 AM
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Personally, I would go with the mentality that you are not going there to get laid. 2-3 day old vag is disgusting and no one showers. I would go and hook up and then keep up with them later on when you or they are in the same city as you.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:59 AM
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yea personally I would not look to go to a festival to get laid. Maybe hook up but 2-3 day old vag is kinda nasty not to mention no one showers. Last time I hooked up a few girls. One I kept up with whenever she was in my city. Its best too have a good time hook up and then keep in touch.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:55 AM
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We tend to get too much in our heads, we're unwilling to take risks and say witty things out of fear that it will hurt our chance, basically you just can't give a fuck! Plain and simple, just like any other girl.. Mind you the mentality of "not giving a fuck" comes with reference. It takes years to understand what that means within your own insecurities and strengths. You have to lose, sometimes, more than you gain to get that perspective. So GO FUCK UP!
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:15 AM
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Good article! It reminds me to take that into consideration from now on. I just recently broke up with my girlfriend and could understand what sex ment to her. She was a virgin when we started dating. I took it slow with her and I eventually escalated it to having sex with her. I know she liked it and I knew how important it was to her but I could never understand her feelings on it. She was a christian girl and not very confident with her body and her self esteem. She told me one time that she …
/r/seduction10/03/13 12:58 AM
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I say text to start the conversation and build trust. But overtime texting will go nowhere until you push a time to meet. Call to make the date dont text. More direct and it shows that you have balls and that you mean your interest. IF she cannot talk a damn call then she's a flake and a little girl who needs to grow up.
/r/seduction02/03/13 12:53 AM
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Dude even if you have reasonable doubt I would clearly leave it. She's not worth your energy. Make the girls work for you some. We hate doing it but you have to sometimes sacrifice the possibility of f-closing if you feel like you are at odds. Remember girls want to be chased, however, there always is that simple principle of both reciprocating the same amount off energy toward each other to get what each wants. Learn to let them fight for you too. It will make it that much more satisfying!
/r/seduction17/01/13 03:58 PM
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I notice something from dating a lot of different girls. I've dated every girl from a nympho to a church girl. They are all different, yet, they are all looking for the same thing you are: "is he/she worth the time." Despite whether we are looking for something or not, we are ALWAYS looking for something. So if you want to spend more time with a girl you have to be more vulnerable and genuine. Even if a girl is looking to be just casual, they still like the feeling of not being used or the idea …
/r/seduction09/11/12 10:47 PM
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I think we agree to disagree. All of your points are valid and its never black and white. It just depends on the scope your looking through I suppose. If I was in a relationship. Which by the way I definitely agree with you. I tend to go after 7-9s anything above is baggage because they tend to not have to work as hard as the less attractive women. And I too, don't rate girls in reality. I am a very introspective person. I like to share my views of my world with others. A girl who can carry hers…
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:56 AM
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I think you are misunderstanding me, Relationships based around sex never live long term. If you call the girl what ever you want, friend, girlfriend, wife, etc. yes there is the act of being lovers but lovers is not the same as companionship. Explicit sex is not the driving force for a healthy relationship, you can have physical attraction without anything in common. Guys can never really be a true friend in the sense of a platonic relationship if he still wants to have sex with her (as much as…
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:15 PM
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Its a great quote. Typically, sex has not connection to driving a potential relationship, experience and chemistry does. Thats why we all, for the most part, are ok with moving on after a short time with a relationship based on sex. I have personally, been working on the aspect of this quote more so now than ever. I have to problem getting the number and even moving it to sex. When you don't create a relationship based on friendship then relationship will be doomed from the start. It never hurts…
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:40 AM
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Second 6Pool. Women don't care about petty subjects like school. Thats stuff is good to start off with but will quickly digress into a stale conversation that has no value. Everyone can talk about that stuff. Figure out what makes her laugh and what she is into. Easy go to subjects when you have no references is friends, family, and her dog fido. We connect better when its something we share emotionally to.
/r/seduction14/10/12 01:40 AM
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Question, what did you talk about in the 10-15 minutes? Lets start there.
/r/seduction13/10/12 09:50 PM
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I feel your pain bro! I go through it a lot. Its like it goes well and then things change. The whole good pattern that you have going gets disturbed and then freakout mode happens. I don't mind playing the game and I understand the dynamics of it all. But when you feel like pushing it she resists and thats where we go wrong bro. My next few girls im going to do an experiment. I'm going to write down these things that I know chase them away and put it on my wall. ie text messages, calling, and ev…
/r/seduction01/09/12 01:19 AM
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Yes, when you approach a girl your usually not in a spectacular place. It could be in while walking to class or she maybe sitting by herself studying. When I am in a place I first am very aware of my surroundings. I quickly address the reason my intentions for being there and what brings other people to that location. The quickest way to establish a connection with someone is associating you and them with your surroundings. Case: A girl is sitting in a coffee shop reading something with her coff…
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:48 PM
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Take a few seconds to look around. Forget whats in your head about what to say. Your thoughts are limiting you to saying what you consciously feel. Emotion and connection is the building blocks of attraction. So, to answer your question. Once you take a few seconds to collect your self and you notice your surroundings. You will be more likely to say something meaningful in the moment. Most of guys problems is that they only use small talk like "whats your favorite dinosaur." Think for a second w…
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:11 PM
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Nah its cool I can relate to you. Idol is probably not the right word. But simple thing is that we are always consumed with our thoughts and we constantly grind away to find solutions that really do not exist. Our thoughts also make up problems based off of our references from the past thus driving worries of the future. Both the past and the future seem real to us yet they are illusions. They have no merit to what is now this second. I have been working on living in the now. It has opened up my…
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:54 AM
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Dude your in your head. Forget the details of the being with her too much. Forget what you think your future is with her and what you think your past maybe with her. Forget even what she is and what your feelings for her are. When you are with her, enjoy her. When your not with her, enjoy not being with her. She is not an idol. This all seems vague but you need to quit thinking and live in the moment.
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:36 AM
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Do you like her? Is she fun? Simple answer is to hang out with her. See where it goes. I don't see a problem here. Unless you dont want to hang out with her. As for oneitis go get more numbers.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:21 AM
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Dude don't think about it too much... If you feel she doesn't have anything to the table for you... Just like her number throw it out.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:18 AM
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Thumbs up to Fangs response. I have the same problem too its just your past experiences of social rejection and limiting beliefs that set in motion gears turning about what the relationship could be in the future. Both not good. Live in the moment. Also don't be afraid to kiss the girl. 90 percent of the time she will kiss you. If she turns her head then you went out knowing that you saved time and money. The crazy part is you can make out with girl very easily. Kissing to them is not a end all …
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:25 PM
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I feel you bro I'm having the same feeling about one I have been hooking up with for a few weeks. The realization is that as much as we want all the control over women, truth is, they have the ultimate control over sex and the way the relationship will go. Read some Eckhart Tolle if you are stuck in your head about it. I feel grounded if I'm reading his stuff because it reminds me of what my unconscious egoic thoughts are doing to my conscious mind. Also text communication sucks. Call if you rea…
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:13 PM
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I agree, this world is full of double standards. i went through this dilemma not to long ago where I was knowingly perusing a girl who was in a long distance relationship with a guy. I even posted something about it and got negative responses to it. My thought process was a little shallow and selfish none the less and I eventually left it alone because I saw how worthless it was to be around a girl that would cheat on her BF and then blame it on me for her promiscuity. The hard part about this s…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:43 AM
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I agree to a point. I am still conflicted with the fact that we all sometimes forget that women have brains too. Can't she decide right from wrong also? Plus she just has a boyfriend, they not married. As far as i'm concerned is if she doesn't have the balls to be faithful why is it his problem? On a second note I agree Oblaskins is right. If he is willing to gamble the prospect of it blowing up in his face then "to each his own."
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:55 AM
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I feel like the RSD guys just post the same stuff over and over again. Broken record.
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:06 PM
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Dude I feel you man. It is a struggle to stay out of your head sometimes. I recommend get busy with a hobby and find something that you find interesting that the people you are trying to connect might find interesting about you. I took a whole 6 months off from dating because I got tired of it all and just went about life not worrying about it and found things I wanted to accomplish so that finding things interesting about yourself first before trying to "seduce" others. I like to think of it as…
/r/seduction08/07/12 11:12 PM
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Your a lucky dude! Just don't forget the little things for her.... Girls can change feeling on a dime. She can go from what she is 90 percent to 49 and it easier to go down. Keep the chase up man and keep her guessin! Congrats
/r/seduction19/04/12 03:59 PM
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Dude the best times are going solo. Last night I went out with 30+ people some of them good friends. Did I need them to have a good time? No... As selfish as this may sound your there for yourself. Your own amusement. Its you and who ever you meet. People roll in packs because safety in numbers. I like to think of them as balls of bait fish. I believe when you leave the bait fish you have a better chance of not getting caught in self judgmental states by what the baitfish think of you. Step to y…
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:03 PM
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