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Resourcesh1mera/r/seduction19/08/20 10:27 AM
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Comprehensiveh1mera/r/seduction25/05/20 01:14 PM
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I was dating a girl and we were playing chess before sex ;-) Chess is to large to bring it to a date. It’s better to take girl home to play there. If I decide to bring a game on a first date then I would bring something fun to play. Something like “Shit happens” https://www.amazon.com/Goliath-Games-76525-Shit-Happens/dp/B01LO9N2CS
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:38 AM
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No it is not weird to ask your friend to drive you home. What if your car require maintenance for example? Personally I would get a taxi in this case.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:07 PM
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I always invite girls to a date instantly. From a first sentence. I try to skip this “texting games” as much as possible.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:59 AM
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You fuck this girl so it does not matter to how many other guys she is talking to.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:47 AM
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Looks like you don’t know how to use tinder correct way. Why do you need 1000 matches? You need maybe 5-10 matches at maximum. Price you pay for the gold account is $50. This is amount you spent on a regular date. The price you pay is not that large if you want to date many woman in short period of time. Otherwise use free account where you can get matches(not 1000 as on gold account)
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:38 AM
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It is upvoted because why the fuck do you want to approach a 1k woman?
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:55 PM
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If you better explain what you want to achieve then we might suggest you something. From your explanation, it's not clear to me what you want. It looks like you have not decided for yourself what you want from her.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:36 AM
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I would ask her to tell me what is a good pickup line. And ask her to help me to practice it on other girls. We can do it together actually :-) So it will be a lot of fun :-)
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:24 AM
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If you approach 1 woman per day 365 days a year, it will take you... ~3 years
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:10 AM
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I have read your previous questions and comments. The level of your questions does not match the question you are asking :-) I'm not saying it's not true, but it looks suspicious to me.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:24 AM
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These are the stupidest tips I've ever seen.
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:57 AM
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Approaching a group of people it's actually easier then approaching single girl. If you want to pickup a girl in a group then you should make this group to accept you. If a group accept you then you can approach a girl in this group that you like. Usually group of people has a leader. Try to find out who is leader and start conversation with him/her.
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:20 PM
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You can't seduce the same person again. At least I can't. There is no way how to evoke feeling from the beginning of your relationships. But it is possible to keep the spirit of the early days. And taking a distance periodically will not help you. My advice is you should live a life interesting and full of fun.
/r/seduction09/10/20 02:48 PM
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Newer had it as well. But I might have one in the future. Who knows :)
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:24 AM
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I don't think that sleep deprivation improve your game with women. I have not heared about any studies in this area. Sleep deprivation might have therapeutic effect on depression that may influence your game with women. You should understand that sleep deprivation is not something good and it has more negative effects then positive.
/r/seduction08/10/20 01:10 PM
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Rejection is great only if you take it as a lesson. This guy should think what he has done wrong, waht can be done better next time and how to improve.
/r/seduction08/10/20 12:57 PM
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No there are no people in my life that I don't like. Why should I spend my time on them?
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:26 PM
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Seduction is about how to win this 3 unreceptive people. What is the reasone to socialize/meet people who are into you? There is no challange here. It's boring.
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:18 AM
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This will work exactly until you get caught.
/r/seduction25/09/20 01:21 PM
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I use this one: Hard soap or curd soap
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:26 PM
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I'll focuse on how to ask a questions. You want to take her on a date. So you say: if your interested, maybe get your number for a date She can easely say no, I'm not interested. If you ask like: "I want to take you on a date" then it means that you already made a decision for her. Also if she is not interested then she should tell you some excuse that it's not that easy compare to just say: no.
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:10 PM
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Ok. She rejected you but there are many ways how to leave her alone. You should end up as a winner even she rejected you. What you suggested is the weak strategy.
/r/seduction19/09/20 03:07 PM
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You are confusing concepts. Go and read the difference between seduction and rape. When you go to a shop then assistant selling you something. Shop assistant does not force you to buy. The same with seduction . You are selling yourself.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:10 AM
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I don't like this answer because seduction is something different then approaching woman again and again untill you will find someone who will like you.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:29 AM
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What I noticed in Vegas is that in the bars that are in casinos it looks like a sausage party there.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:53 PM
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Everything in your hands. You can stay and complain or you can go and improve yourself in all aspects. Look on Hugh Hefner. It's never too late 😉
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:06 AM
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It make sens and I fully agree with you. But small clarification is needed as your experiment is not crystal clear. The conversation might go by scenario 3 and there is a chance that you will get a number. It depends on your seduction skills. To improve your experiment I would ask for a number right afte she tells her name or say "why"? you: what's your name? she: scenario 1-3 you: give me your number Actually seduction is not when she looks on you, she likes you and immediately gives you her nu…
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:38 AM
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You should to start doing something. Does not matter what. Just sitting and complaining won't change anything! I don't think that you will loos your weight soon but you can start now. Start from something small. I'll not write long list of sport activites that yoy can do. You should decide what you like. Choose one and go for it. You may find new friend while doing sport activities. Improve your diet. Don't chage it completely as it's difficult. Improve it just a little(change one small thing). …
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:17 AM
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You are isulting me and probably other people because it's your defense mechanism. You have nothing to offer. Let's say you are going on a date with a great guy. What he see is a short woman 30 y.o. or older with tattoos, divorced, with a kid and average financial situation. What can you offer except your "great personality"?
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:08 AM
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Would not work with me anyway as your height is 5ft 6 maximum. You should be 5ft 11 ;-)
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:28 AM
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I fully agree with you. Tattoos are protection against weirdos like me. Smoking are protection against me, overeating is also protection. And a lot of other things ;-)
/r/seduction07/09/20 09:23 PM
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It was in a park on Friday evening. Everyone was drinking alcohol in the park. There was a group of girls 7 or 8. They were average except one. She was looking great. She was sitting on a bench. The problem was that there was another guy who was sitting close to her and he was trying to pick her up for a long time I believe. That guy was looking strong and scary. That's way he was the only guy in this group of girls. So I approached that group of girls and sat on a bench. On the bench was sittin…
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:04 PM
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Outcome independent mindset is for beginners. You approached a girl, she says you no. You don't care and go to the next one as you have many other options. Rejection is not something good. Girls should not reject you. You are great gay, good looking, smart, rich. You are strong in all aspect. You can protect her(physically, financially). Your task is to show her this. Why should she reject you then? As you are strong then you have a right to do whatever you like. You have a right to approach any…
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:36 PM
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There are two the same books in a library. The same content, the same author. First one is completely new, right from printing house. Another one with painted cover, with a notes on pages etc. Which one will you choose?
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:03 PM
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You don't need to say this. You better invite her on next date.
/r/seduction04/09/20 12:49 PM
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This method might not suit everyone as you should have a lot of confidence: you enter a club as it belongs to you(who knows, it might be true but no one is asking), then you look on all girls in the club and try to find most attractive one, approach her immediately and take her for a drink or something. Take her hand and go to the bar or sit on a couch with her. If it does not work with her then at least everyone will see you with attractive girl. This girl might approach you later if she change…
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:37 PM
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You need to do 10-20 approaches in total to get rid of AA. If you are able to do more then 10 approaches then you don't have AA. Right? It's difficult to make a first step actually.
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:09 PM
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It's very common. Most of guys think that if they have no success with women then they need expensive clothes. They buy expensive clothes but still no success. They find better jobs, they buy expensive cars and large houses and it's still the same. After that they think that something wrong with them...
/r/seduction31/08/20 12:54 PM
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It neither personality nor appearance. It does not works this way. Women they have many filters to filter out the weak from the strong men. Seduction is about how to overcome this filters.
/r/seduction31/08/20 12:43 PM
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He would feel even better if he take her on a date ;-)
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:36 AM
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I don't think that COVID thing will over soon ;-) Any country has dropdead gorgeous women. Why do you need them on every corner? How will it help you? In your case it's better to aks: in which country is easier to pick up a girl?
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:47 PM
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3 days rule is thing of past. There was not as much communication in the past as it is today. She was waiting for your to call. Nowadays she might not remember you after 3 days. It's better to text her right after you took her number. Send her a message while still looking at her.
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:14 AM
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If your game is at such a ridiculously high level that your making people “beg” you to take their phone number, I’m sure you can come up with a mind blowing example. I'll quickly write you 2 stories ( I dunno how much is it mind blowing) that come up to my mind as I'm leaving now to another country to spend few day on the beach with attractive woman. If you like we can continue discussion offline if you PM me ;-) Here is the first example: I had a short relationship with a girl working in beauty…
/r/seduction07/08/20 08:54 PM
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Is this is your communication style to demand number, harass someone etc? I did a conclusion after reading this: how can you tell a girl who has a boyfriend from one who is just saying it to get away from your relentless badgering? this: Or did you just harass them until they pretend they didn’t just to take your number and this: If you were peacefully shopping and a man came up to you and kept demanding your number and wouldn’t leave you alone until you gave it My style is completely different …
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:39 PM
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I'm not saying something wrong with you or other guys. Something wrong with profile. You should get matches. Having 0 matches is not normal.
/r/seduction06/08/20 03:15 PM
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Yes dating apps works different way for man and woman. Anyway you should get at least some matches unless something completely wrong with your profile. Try to work on it. You can ask for help with your profile on other subs.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:54 PM
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That's really strange. You might be doing something completely wrong.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:44 PM
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"I have a boyfriend" is a filter to filter out loosers. How to explain it better? Make an experiment: approach 20 girls on a street and count how many times they will tell you "I have a boyfriend". For example 15 from 20. Now take a pice of paper and prepare survay with random questions and approach a girsl with this survay. One of question should be if you have a boyfriend. You will see the difference. I'm pretty sure that most of them don't have a boyfriends. I'm not saying that you or OP shou…
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:42 AM
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Dude, I have a boyfriend is a flat out no. This does not mean that she really has a boyfriend. This is type of rejection or hesitation. Pushing for an answer beyond that is just disrespectful to her and her boyfriend. Then I'm disrespectful. But I date this girl and I sleep with her.
/r/seduction05/08/20 04:02 PM
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I notice she's having trouble holding what she's buying and I mention that I'd help her carry some of it in exchange for her number I like this very much. Good job
/r/seduction05/08/20 03:43 PM
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You should have a sex with her on a next date and then decide if you want to have relationship. In this order: sex->relationship. Not the other way around.
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:31 AM
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Yes women are people but seduction is not to force someone to do something they don't want to do. Seduction is how to make someone to want the same thing that you want to. "I asked a girl if she wanted to have sex, and she said no. What do I say to get her to change her mind?" They ask wrong question or better say that you don't need to ask this question to find out if she want to have a sex. Girls by nature answer no to this question even if they want to have a sex. They filter out the weak guy…
/r/seduction29/07/20 02:46 PM
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I'm asying that rejection is not something good. It's better to learn how to avoid rejection then how to accept rejection.
/r/seduction28/07/20 10:15 AM
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If you ask girl then she might say you yes or no. She decide. Girls likes to say no and then you should know how to overcome this response or how to convince her to go with you. It works better if you take her home. You should understand that it's difficult for her to agree to go to your place. In this case you already made a decision for her. If she does not want to go with you she will tell you that. I don't know if it works the same way if you are girl and you want to invite a guy to your pla…
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:46 PM
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When you say that it does not go well I understand that you failed, you accept a failure, you want to forget about it and and you expect that you will never meet this group of 10 people again or they will forget about what has happened. Instead of this I suggest that you should look like a winner in this situation in the eyes of this group of 10 people. You will not be afraid to meet this people again and even if you meet them in the future then they will treat you like a winner.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:54 PM
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You will be more successful when you understand that there is no any pressure! Maybe its because I know that its more likely that whoever sees me approach a girl will have forgotten me and me them by the time we see each other again. Why they should forget you? You have a right to approach any girl you like. You are the one who sets the rules in our society. When you approaching a girl you give them a chance to learn something from you. if it doesn't go well we will all just forget about each ot…
/r/seduction27/07/20 11:35 AM
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My binary scale shows 1. She is fuckable.
/r/seduction17/07/20 02:14 PM
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Your main problem is the lack of intelligence(the ability to adapt to new situations and learn new things). Not a physical attractiveness, confidence, or being more positive. Changing openers, flirting being direct or indirect all of this is not going to help you. It might help but just a little. Regarding how you look: going to the gym 5 times a week is too much. You should understand that there is no way back. You can't go back to your previous life. Otherwise, you will get the opposite result…
/r/seduction15/07/20 09:15 PM
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"You have such a beautiful smile!" I would extend it a little to "You have such a beautiful smile! I want to have a sex with you". I have tried it myself long time ago. I have never been rejected by saying this. It only produces smile and I have got a phone number with this opener :)
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:53 PM
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my rudest rejection being rude is always bad. You showed your weakness by being rude. You should always be polite, stay calm and never loose control in any situation no matter what. in a busy airport when I was trying to find my gate on the screen I doubt it was the main reason of rejection. Looking for a gate on a screen is 1 min or 2 minutes maximum. You can say something like: wait a sac I'll find my gate for a flight number XYZ123. Or maybe: I'm in a hurry, please help me to find a gate for …
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:34 PM
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I would leave a bag for someone else. Finding bag of cash will only brig you troubles. My questions are why is the bag of cash lying on the street? Does it belongs to someone? Are this money stolen? Will someone look for this money? $80k - $90k are not worth the risk to keep them. I would fuck the girl but would not keep the money :-)
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:07 PM
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40% Americans using OLD. So there is no difference meeting people IRL or through online dating. Booth options works. I would say it's better to combine booth.
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:00 AM
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I'm talking to them as they my finds from childhood and I have not seen them for ages.
/r/seduction09/07/20 10:24 PM
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You should show her that your don't care about money and it does not matter who pays! Personally if I invite girl and if I choose the restaurant then it's expected that I'll pay. I invite girls the the places which I know, where I feel comfortable or where I know the owner or barman or other personal. Saying other words I can spend from 0 to the sum for most expensive restaurant in the city. It depends of the mood.
/r/seduction09/07/20 10:21 PM
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That's should be difficult. You should build a trust, get read of her fears and be persistent. I don't think that first point (trust) need discussion as it's straightforward. How to get rid of her fears? You need to find out what are they(if possible) and prove that there is no reason for them. For example fear of loosing confidentiality. Tell her that you never talk about your relationships and this is only between you and her. Fear that you will dump her. Fear that you are inexperience or fear…
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:44 AM
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What is the reasons for giving him constructive criticism if he is not listening? Constructive criticism was given him in his previous 33 reports. He is repeating the same mistakes over and over. He is neither learning not improving. I have a feeling that he just like when people write him "proud of you man", "you are impressive, keep going" etc.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:26 PM
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It would be definitely weird if you say it on Tinder. It would be ok if you go to the hotel after date. Don't book hotel in advance as it may happen that she would not go with you. Sex in mini cooper can be also fun. You should not make it romantic like hotel, flowers and champagne. Park a car on the street and fuck her behind the car.
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:59 AM
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Here is my recipe: be spontaneous, unpredictable. Don't wait until the end of the date. You may kiss her in the middle of the street. Or if you go by subway then kiss her on escalator or in the train. Do it with a confidence. Without hurry. Hold her strong. While you kiss her you can touch her whenever you like. You should not care if someone looking on you. You don't care what is going on around you. You should understand that she is waiting when you kiss her and she is waiting for a confident …
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:55 AM
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when you go for the close and ask for her number or ask to take her out on a date! You are not asking for her number or asking her out on a date. You are taking her tumber and taking her on a date ;-)
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:38 PM
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im afraid it would seem creepy and what people would think This is easy to cure. Take a piece of paper, write a short poem on it(or you can remember it). Go to a crowded place(square, park etc...) and loudly read it there. Do not pay attention to people no matter what happens. After reading, just leave.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:16 PM
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You should ask yourself a question: what are your fears? Most probably it's not fear of rejection as it's easy to cure. Most people's fear of not understanding what will happen next. Fear of the unknown. Like: will she reject me, will she give me her phone number or will she tell me to fuck off?
/r/seduction26/06/20 08:19 AM
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There is nothing interesting in hook up with random 100 girls. It's boring. At least for me. All my girls they had something special. They were models or they are working in beauty industry. Some girls has interesting job like they are physicists and mathematicians. All girls that I had LTR they are extremely smart (they graduated high school or university with honours).
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:59 AM
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Most of them are actually single. This is type of rejection.
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:44 PM
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Ride motorcycle+Play guitar=Drown in pussy. Have you tried to seduce a girl with motorcycle? Is this statement from your experience? If seduction would be only in buying motorcycle and guitare then everyone will go this way. From my experience motorcycle, expensive car, money etc does not help in seduction! Once I picked up a girl on street with opener: You are cute, I would like to have a sex with you :)) We agreed on a date so wen I come on a motorcycle so the girl was affraid to go with me an…
/r/seduction25/06/20 08:18 AM
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Oh , Thanks but I have a boyfriend (with a happy face) me too, let's exchange them. Or: I hope you are not going to take him on our date.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:39 PM
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In any situation you should be a winner! You showed a weakness. I would tell her something like: wait for me here. And leave. Or something like: I'll be back. So if you meet her next time(for example in a group of other people) it means that you left her because you don't like her. Not because she told you fuck off.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:14 PM
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I reply right after match or when I noticed her message. The worst thing you can do is to write one sentence "hi, how are you?"
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:33 PM
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It would be more efficient if you approach them and say: give me your phone number.
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:34 AM
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Yes it works for me. You should show that you are serious. I give them few options like: dinner, beer or just a coffee.
/r/seduction19/06/20 11:00 AM
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There is no magic pill or universal recipe that will work for everyone ;-)
/r/seduction19/06/20 10:05 AM
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I instantly invite girl on a date.
/r/seduction19/06/20 07:48 AM
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Look. If you want to improve in seduction then you should interact with girls a lot. I mean not just approaching them. You should go on dinner with them or lunch. If you go to buy shirt or jeans then invite a girl to help you with buying. You should be surraunded buy girls! For this you need to have a lot of numbers in your phonebook. As you already approacing girls then only one thing left it's to take a phone number(or other contacts). Remember you are not ASKING for a phone number, you are TA…
/r/seduction18/06/20 06:59 PM
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I don't like point 4. By saying this you will look like just another guy who is telling her how beautiful she is. It will end up like: sorry I have bf... 😉
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:57 PM
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don't post negative comments because I don't even read the helpful advice because of that sometimes There 2 types of parents. Good parents and bad parents. One type of parents buy you sweets, allows you to watch TV and play computer games as much as you want. Other parents motivates you to read books, to do homework any gives you healthy food. Who is good parent in kids eyes? The same is here. There are comments like: good job, you are doing great etc. which receives many likes. Other "negative"…
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:39 AM
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There are people who is alpha from nature. You are not alpha so suggestions from such people will not help you.
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:00 AM
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I see that your next post will be: I did 100 approaches and get only 3 phone numbers. What I’m doing wrong? Your problem is that you are not listening suggestions. What are you doing now has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction15/06/20 09:06 AM
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You should change your mood before approaching. You should accelerate your thinking. This is a special state when you acting without much thinking. You know it’s like peak of your mental activity. It’s also good to call this state in girls so they make spontaneous decisions.
/r/seduction15/06/20 08:51 AM
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I would add always be closing no matter what! If she says: I have a boyfriend you: give me your phone number. She: fuck off you: give me your phone number
/r/seduction15/06/20 07:06 AM
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Good thing is that you are doing something and you want to improve. But there are a lot of space for improvement. When you are approaching woman you should blow her mind, she should be attached to your and she should not want to leave you. Now you are just talking about nothing. You are just another boring person who approaching her. Looks like you are not using all your resources to get her number. Can you say that I did everything to get her number? In all situations you should be winner. Dose…
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:22 PM
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Where did you get this number: 10%?
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:39 AM
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Playing in a band or being a painter does not make you interesting person automatically. Being interesting person means having wide range of interests and knowledges. Anything can be interesting. It depends how you sell it. For example I’m engineer and I’m working in the office. One of my interests are chess, math, physics, astronomy. I had a girl that we played chess before sex. She was mathematician. Another girl was super attractive. You know why we had a sex on a first date? She was nuclear …
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:59 AM
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All your resources should be aimed to treat your speech disorder or to improve your speech quality. What have you tried so far? Answering your question how to approach a women with speech disorder I would give them my mobile phone and make a gesture to type a phone number there. If you need to say something then you can whisper to her ear. For this you need to be very confident and most probably it is not your case as lack of confidence is one of reason of speech disorder.
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:19 AM
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Does not matter what to say. It depends on situation I would say. I follow the rule: as more stupid your opener as better it works.
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:49 AM
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Depends on result you want to achieve. If you just want to say this and leave then yes. If you want to seduce her then there many other better openers.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:42 AM
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Everything looks pretty good. But it’s clear that this does not work. Try to change something. Ask them to pick you up for example. Looks like you are trying to entertain them. Go on date without any plan and improvise(I mean how to spend time). You have been many times in observatory, go to another place(less romantic or not romantic at all), go to another restaurant. If you both are not hungry then go to a pub for a beer or two. Be spontaneous. Take her hand if you want. Kiss her in middle of …
/r/seduction05/06/20 12:41 PM
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If you write more details about your dates then maybe we can suggest how to improve it and how to fix mistakes.
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:42 AM
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You should not give up that easy! And if you tried everything and she still does not want to give you her number then you should give her your number. Write it on a paper for example.
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:36 AM
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I'm always wearing expensive white shirt, pants and shoes. Only exceptionally I'm wearing something else like jeans and T-shirt
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:26 AM
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Yes you should try to reach 100% success ratio or close to this.
/r/seduction01/06/20 09:21 AM
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Can you learn physics or math without books? Theoretically yes. But it will take you a lot of time. The same with seduction.
/r/seduction29/05/20 12:25 PM
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I like your opener. You did everything right. Probably she was not interested.
/r/seduction29/05/20 12:18 PM
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I agree that any woman can be seduced. You should be much better then the rest of man so there will be no reasone for her to cheat you.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:08 AM
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Height does matters. As well as appearance and clothing style. All of this adds you points. It owuld be difficult for you to pickup a tall man but it's possible. You need to work on your other qualities that you can improve.
/r/seduction28/05/20 09:57 AM
1

Cut your hair and make it short. You will look much stronger.
/r/seduction27/05/20 02:03 PM
1

Your problem is not AA. Your problem is in success rate It should be 1 approach 1 phone number or close to this. Try to analyse what are you doing wrong and improve it. Maybe you can record your dialog and listen it at home until you understand what you are doing wrong.
/r/seduction27/05/20 01:57 PM
1

Most of girls wants a relationships. It looks like you have not decided for yourself. You still prefer a life with sex and alcohol.
/r/seduction27/05/20 01:25 PM
3

Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People
/r/seduction25/05/20 05:04 PM
2

Tell us more details how was it.
/r/seduction25/05/20 02:09 PM
1

He asked for a second date and since I already knew he wasn't good at rejection I agreed and we planned it. There is no nice way to reject people. You should shay NO here. You should not waste neither your time nor his. It's not your problem that he wasn't good at rejection. It's more painful if you agreed on a next date and then canceled or ghosted him.
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:25 AM
1

Invite her on a date
/r/seduction22/05/20 10:46 AM
0

You are cool guy. She should do something for you. Then you decide if she deserve that you will take her number.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:17 AM
2

He wants to make a pickup a part of his bike trip. Most probably he is using road bike as he is riding between cities so his bike already state of the art(if he is using latest model) and replacing a bike is not actually cheap.
/r/seduction22/05/20 08:35 AM
1

That’s why don’t book a hotel in advance. Ask on reception for a free room(check in advance if they really have rooms).
/r/seduction19/05/20 02:18 PM
1

Don't ask her. If she is ready for a sex it does not matter where! She should understand that you are going with her to a place where you will have a sex and it's your responsibility to find a place. You may take her to your parents home for example(depends of your parents of course) or you can take her to a hotel where you feel confident. As I travel a lot it's not problem for me to find hotel. Once we were looking for a hotel during a night in city where we never been to and it was a lot of fu…
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:29 PM
1

What if you booked a hotel or accommodation for parents and it does not work with your girl? This is throw away money.
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:09 PM
2

It was in a train. Me and my friends we were returning from hiking trip. I noticed a group of 3-4 girls. One of them was beautiful(my target) and the rest of them were average or less then average looking. I always knew how to influence people. I started conversation with this group of girls but completely or almost completely ignoring my target. I clearly see her thoughts: what the hell is going on here, I'm a princess, and he is trying to pick up my ugly friends? In 15 min my target she was lo…
/r/seduction19/05/20 10:19 AM
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First girl I know for many years and she lives in another country. One evening we were talking in Facebook messenger and I offered to buy her a ticket to airplane for a next morning. Another girl was my ex colleague. I invited her to go for night skiing after work. After skiing we went to her place to drink a wine.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:42 PM
1

I wached your video and other videos on your channel. What you say is evrithing correct. What I dislike is that you are not getting fun of talking to girls. You don't radiate positive energy. As other commenters noticed you behavie like a king.
/r/seduction02/04/20 02:27 PM
2

First, don't take women out to dinner till you've already fucked them first. what if I plan to fuck her in the toilet of restaurant where I'm inviting her?
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:50 PM
2

walking with her through the city, but I think thats boring af even though if I display confidence with humour It will be boring everywhere if you think this way. In case it's really getting boring during city walk then I would buy a glasses and bottle of good champagne in nearest supermarket. If she does not drink I would buy a cake and eat it on the street.
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:03 PM
2

How to Win Friends and Influence People is a self-help book written by Dale Carnegie
/r/seduction16/03/20 09:03 AM
1

You should not give up that fast: Me: Almost sounds like my other half. I could do with that. You: [Laughs] I HvE a BYFrnd but much appreciated. I hope you will not take him on our date
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:27 AM
1

No it does not work like this. More approaches - more rejections. Read some other posts in this sub. There are guys who did over 100 approaches and 0 lays.
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:23 AM
0

It's always better to prevent situations like this then fix it. You found yourself in a position where she decides if you will have a sex. It should be the other way around. She should deserve to have a sex with you. I believe it's still possible to fix this situation(to have a sex on next date) but I doubt you can do it.
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:08 PM
2

Most probably she didn't like sex. That's why she she didn't want more
/r/seduction10/03/20 09:40 AM
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Why do you care what other thinks about you? Is staring at her forbidden? Do it if you want. What I wanted to say is that you are not just staring at her and trying to burn a hole but you are evaluating her. Does she has a pretty face? Look at her breasts and butt. Do you like it? If you like this girl you may go and pick her up. And you might do it defiantly. Let everyone look at you :-) May all people around envy you :-)
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:48 AM
2

English is not my mother tongue. The thing is that intermittent glances is sigh of weakness and insecurity
/r/seduction09/03/20 02:05 PM
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In any environment I'm evaluating a girl if she is good enough for me. I'm allowed to look on her and evaluate her as long as I want as I'm strong and self confident. If she noticed that I'm looking then I might smile to her. I show her that I'm not afraid and I'm evaluating her in all possible ways.
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:46 PM
2

It's bad advice
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:36 PM
1

I would say sleep with her and the rest does not matter
/r/seduction06/03/20 12:55 PM
1

No you can't be successful with woman having only money! It does not work this way. I never use only money to pickup\seduce woman as it only scares them. In my surrounding there are extremely reach people. They are buying houses over 1M USD on different continents. This people as everyone else has problems seducing woman. They only have 1 maybe 2 woman during there whole life. Money is an instrument that helps you to achieve your goals.
/r/seduction06/03/20 11:59 AM
2

This is because you scale them, 8/10, 9/10... I have binary scale 1 and 0. Woman that I want o fuck and woman that I don't.
/r/seduction06/03/20 08:17 AM
3

I would kiss her right away and treat her as my gf
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:03 PM
1

What's your problem? You don't like having girlfriends?
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:48 PM
1

But you like risk. Right? You like this emotions when you risk and win. Who does not take risks does not win. FB is not dating app. FB is not tinder. So she does not receive such messages(most probably), she is not top model. Even if someone already tried to invite her for a date this way she replied them NO. You are much better then all of those losers. Right? Otherwise why she should tell you YES?
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:42 PM
2

Invite her to a date from the first sentence if you don't want just to chat with her.
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:20 PM
1

I never plan a sex on a first date. I don't want to increase a count of sexes on a first date but I want to have fun. So I always improvise. I like being in a state where you don't know what will happen next.
/r/seduction04/03/20 09:15 AM
2

You can give it a try but your chances are low. Anyway you are not loosing anything. You can't make it worse :-)
/r/seduction04/03/20 08:59 AM
1

If it does not work with "How's it going?" then try something else. For example invite for a date from first sentence.
/r/seduction04/03/20 07:54 AM
2

She is loosing interest as you are not inviting her for a date. If you already seen her IRL then she just have no time to respond quickly. I would bet on first option :-)
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:12 PM
1

How many matches do you have per month let's say? Doepends on the answer you have 2 options: improve your profile if you don't have anough matches or if you have matches but you can't convert them to a dates then you need to reconsider what you write that they don't want to go for a date with you.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:00 PM
1

2 dates in 7 years?! Share more details with us and maybe we suggest you something. Sometimes I have 2-3 dates in one day and I need to reschedule some as I can’t make them all.
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:58 PM
2

can you tell me the time please? I like this opener. It depends how you play. Of course I know the time and of course I have a phone. I want you to tell me the time ;-) I'm not here to check a time. I'm here to pick you up ;-) This one "hey I thought you were really cute" - is to boring
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:15 PM
8

Look on Jason Statham. He is bald and he is dream of many woman. Just make a short haircut .
/r/seduction03/03/20 01:31 PM
0

Being confident and know how you present yourself is very important. What I want to say that it's much easier to present(or sell) yourself if you are interesting, looking good, if you are tall, fit, smart, reach etc...
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:47 AM
1

Don't chat with them. Invite to a date right away
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:14 PM
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So I started doing it. Now I've been doing it roughly six days a week, for two months. I still haven't had a cold approach that led to sex yet. you should be doing something completely wrong
/r/seduction02/03/20 02:33 PM
1

This is not unusual situation. Even in my family there is an professor who married his student and now they have 2 kids :-) Does not matter how you tell him that you are interested in him. You can say him directly, write an sms through messenger app, instagram etc... This is not important :-)
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:08 AM
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Look plays important role if you want to achieve success rate close to 100%. Otherwise there always will be woman who will like you and who will not.
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:57 AM
6

"Do you want to grab a coffee?" In this case she can answer yes or no. This can be improved to: "Let's grab a coffee sometime". Don't give her chance to say no. It will be much more difficult for her to say no. Don't ask girls what they like. Do what you like :-)
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:05 AM
1

Invite her for a date of course ;-)
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:19 PM
1

There is no direct rules what to do. There is no rule if A then B. For example what if she does not drink? What if she drives a car or you met her in the middle of the day(it's not common to start drinking at this time).
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:03 AM
1

Take her hand is the best thing you can do. If she refuses to go with you then you should improvise. This happened to me twice and here are what I did in this cases: First time I come with a car and picked up a girt in front of her hotel. We drive 3 min then we stopped. She said no as she wanted to do it in hotel etc... simply I had no time for this :-) So i give her understand that if there is no sex in the car then there will be no sex at all and I started the engine and we were driving back t…
/r/seduction26/02/20 01:35 PM
1

ok. I understand. It's possible to take her home right after you met her. Once I took girl home after 3 min of first date. The thing is if you ask her then she might say you yes or no. What will you do if she say no? You will need to convince her somehow. That is not what you want. You just take her home without asking because by default she also want's to go with you. If it's not the case then you will find this out anyway ;-)
/r/seduction26/02/20 12:50 PM
1

If there is no sexual vibe then what the reason to take here home? I'm not taking girl home out of blue. After she spent some time with me I understand that she wants to go with me and she won't get surprised. She knows where are we going and it does not matter what she asks and what to answer in this case. We booth know where we going.
/r/seduction26/02/20 11:13 AM
1

Don't ask her. Just take her home. If she asks where we going then you can say that we are going to your place.
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:34 AM
2

Basically, girls have the key to the door of sex. She's decides. She suggests. Not you. if you are so great like good looking, tall, reach, smart etc... then why she decides?
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:04 AM
4

Girls always around me. If I go to buy shirt or jeans then I take a girl to have a look and make suggestions.
/r/seduction09/02/20 09:03 PM
2

only 10-20%? I expected that percentage will be very close to 100%
/r/seduction05/02/20 10:33 AM
5

I'm wearing expensive white shirt(brand does not matter, it should be quality shirt), black trousers and shoes. Works like a charm ;-)
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:20 PM
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