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It’s certainly a lived experience vs lived experience. I can’t discredit yours. We’re both talking anecdotally. I treat social media like a separate reality though and don’t give what happens on it with much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:36 PM
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This is the mistake guys make. “Do women want a man to lead” This question evokes feelings that are not the same as the feelings a woman has when you lead her. You question makes woman think more so “I don’t want to be bossed around and told what to do, I want an equal” Yet this same women loves a guy who sets a date/time for a date. Chooses the restaurant etc. Guys who approach them confidently. Guys who kiss them first. You get the point. Women like when men are dominant and take the lead. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:29 PM
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promiscuous, hedonistic, and egotistical This is the majority of both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:12 PM
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Bro as I was reading the thread I immediately just thought of the misc lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:55 PM
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I use it as well. Not in disagreement either. My point is it was ironic that on a post talking about how men are trashed in culture. You insulted a group by calling them female genitalia. Not that this has any depth. People call each other dicks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:48 PM
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She wouldn't make a good wife. But yet, why is it that HE can exchange in the recreational fun, but still consider himself husband material It’s not that I consider myself husband material. It’s that I’ve found most women don’t put body count very high in their list, if at all. Meaning a higher value guy with more bodies will have a much higher number of suitors than an average guy with low bodies. I’ve never heard a women mention looking for purity in a man outside devout religious. A huge disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:42 PM
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Loook at my post history and stop being so fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:18 PM
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To act like there are no real world consequences to this is insane. Everything you listed are all media. Your entire world on this is shaped by a reality found only on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:30 PM
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That's because most people are pu$$ys in real life You used women’s genitalia as an insult on a post arguing that men are trashed. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:26 PM
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this is the kind of unchecked sociological trend that leads to a sudden seismic shift Anecdotally as a man I’ve faced essentially zero actual misandry outside the internet. To me if this is such a serious and pervasive issue, so much so you call it seismic, I would expect to at least experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:06 PM
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Men and women will continue to seek more relationships online and with technology. In 100 years I would not be surprised if there were huge portions of people who only have relationships with lifelike robotics. Processing power is still increasing around Moore’s law, doubling every two years. 208 billion to the power of n years is the current estimate. We’ve far exceeded the human brain in many ways already. Relationships are often hard because people are complex. Lifelike robotics that can lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:26 PM
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In 50-100 years you're crazy to think they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:39 PM
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I’d excuse myself to the bathroom and bail. You sound like you could manage to suck fun out of the holocaust
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:24 PM
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On here? Lol Fuck, you got me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:20 AM
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I think most guys are aware of their “tier”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:54 AM
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stay in your lane This is just another way of telling average men women only want hot guys to approach them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:28 AM
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I think you’re just overthinking it then. Unless you have multiple women saying you have nothing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:04 PM
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None of this matters if women don’t find you arousing, so that might be an issue. It’s still good advice though as it’s one of the best ways to meet people and socialize where you can have organic interactions with women. I don’t think most women care if you have a riveting social life either. They just want someone who has some amount of life outside work, sleep, video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:57 PM
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This is too nuanced of a situation to get general advice. If she confirmed a date it’s probably not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:50 PM
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men I know who are actually having sex and forming relationships with women a lot younger than themselves are really respectful, decent and actually pretty private about it This was the context. Your humble brag was irrelevant to both the original post and who you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:57 PM
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It usually comes out in the early courting phase when she gets more comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:26 AM
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You’re both ancient. This isn’t an age gap relationship lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:02 PM
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I absolutely agree. I don’t want a girl who just goes along with everything I say. I want a girl who’s flexible and relaxed. In a world where most women are a fucking pain on the ass you have to over correct to “submissive”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:57 PM
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Make it three after my deep dive after watching “Fantastic Fungi” haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:47 AM
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That’s not relevant to expats with foreign jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:42 AM
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Have y’all seen this economy? Lots of reasons to hit Thailand up regardless of your woman situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:40 PM
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Equal? Y’all sound so broke 🤢 Gross girl. Miss me if you aren’t picking up the tab most of the time. Drizzle drizzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:17 PM
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I honestly almost believed her as it just seemed so reasonable at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:29 AM
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I use magic wand and vibrating c-rings regularly so no issue with toys. I’m just contrasting women who have multiple orgasms from PIV alone to those needing everything in the book thrown at them to have a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:31 PM
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If it takes forever to make her orgasm. Gets very old in a LTR and becomes “work” instead of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:41 PM
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I absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:29 PM
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Ghosting is very norm for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:14 PM
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The only difference between friendship and romance is sexual chemistry. I feel like both men and women prioritize chemistry on the account that it’s literally what romance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:58 PM
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The two absolute biggest ways to avoid this is to avoid sleeping with women when alcohol is involved and being nice to them after you sleep together. The first is easy by just staying over at her place and having sex in the morning and the second is easy by communicating you enjoyed your time but are only looking for something casual. Most people carelessly text and drive or do much more dangerous activities than fucking girls. It’s foolish to concern yourself this much about something as sensat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:49 PM
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Facts. Dudes who grindset from 16-30 think they are magically going to just go out and pick up women and not be complete weirdos lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:05 PM
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Absolute U N I T way to die srs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:03 AM
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Again, I am just giving you equal treatment that women get from men. “People are mean so that means I have to be mean” You have shit for brains lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:01 AM
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Snap there goes gravity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:47 PM
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There’s a big difference between what I said and say roughousing around grandmas china set. OP and I both gave specific examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:13 PM
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That chair would have been thrown away eventually and forgotten. Your funny memory might make it to your death.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:11 PM
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Lmao that you used folding tables as an example. We would do WWE moves and smash each other through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:11 PM
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No it’s absolutely not wrong. Theft was never mentioned. Breaking things is not wrong as long as it’s replaced. Friends wrestling and breaking their coffee table on accident, cool. Breaking someone’s table you don’t know, not cool. No one cares if women do this, but I’ve never seen women do backyard wrestling and slam each other through folding tables.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:39 PM
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As the hot guy that gets groped in clubs you’re just wrong. Women are pigs too, they are just more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:30 PM
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I do not want kids. I have never wanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:52 PM
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It's a rarity to find a woman that likes themselves and thinks they deserve nice things, but are also willing to grow as a person and understand that they do have to show that they are worth talking to to the people that they have relationships with Found this to be incredibly rare in the women I’ve attracted and one of the most attractive things about my gal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:29 PM
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lol bro stop https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1cj97am/covert_narcissism_and_the_red_pill_man/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:47 PM
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This is just a copy pasta of another post from a couple days ago replacing Redpill/men with Feminist/women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:16 PM
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I’d believe her when it’s proven in court. Until then up in the air
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:47 AM
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This thread is en example of why dating is so much more difficult and social circle game works so well. Girls don’t want to meet strangers when they have to deal with this shite. These bonkers dudes ruin it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:12 AM
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I think it comes down more to worldview. Not having a victim mindset etc. We're both average intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:11 PM
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Yes, my gal laughs about “feminists” Wouldn’t really consider her conservative either. Just sane
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:43 PM
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imagine what it can sometimes feel like to be a woman Being objectively retarded? Your words not mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:41 PM
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You can fit anyone into any box as long as the sides are flexible enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:24 PM
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All genders swipe on beautiful people. Average women don’t swipe on average men. Average men do swipe on average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:54 PM
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I always did their place. I lived at my parents in college. Once I bought my first house at 24 I always had them over though. I had it built so it was pretty nice. Honestly most girls weren’t impressed haha. To many trust fund girls coming from half a million dollar homes (median was like 120-150 at the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:16 PM
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I really liked going out for dinner and was making like 50k as an intern so I would go to decent chain restaurants like chili’s or a cheap sushi bar. If I like her it would always be “let grab a drink here I’ll walk you” Then break the touch barrier on the walk. I’d always go for the kiss goodnight so 100% on that as I’ve never been turned down. I’d say 50/50 for first date hookup and 90% by date 2. I was learning though so it probably closer to 80-90% first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:10 PM
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You forgot she adds “on here again 🙄” to her bio
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:02 PM
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Women absolutely all go after the same guy. The average guy gets a match a month. The average girl gets hundreds. I remember getting 420 new matches (right swiping maybe 1:10) and sending the screenshot to my friends as a haha 420 blaze it (cringe i know) joke and the entire group chat was flabbergasted as they were getting maybe 1 a week tops. This was on of many red pilling moments. Even with that many matches most of the hot ones were still flakey. I just did causal with the 6ish cuties with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:57 PM
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Listen to women in street interviews answer questions like “what do you look for in a guy” In the position of a street interview, that question will usually incentivized women to virtue signal. You’ll get the common I want a nice guy who’s kind, funny, smart etc. IMO redpill/blackpill ideas are becoming much more mainstream. A lot of the shit redpill was saying in 2010 are now just common sense in the dating world (using your tinder 1st and 2nd rule as and example). I think it’s pushing Redpill …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:44 PM
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This is just proof of how unequipped women are mentally for survival /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:28 PM
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Most women are on her level with no makeup. She’s a 4.5-5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:33 PM
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Guys like foreplay and pleasing women they care about. That’s why you’ll often hear women have stories about guys who didn’t propose for years and years and then after a breakup/he cheats he goes and marries a girl in 6 months. It has everything to do with how attracted to her he is. Edit: this is all from behind closed doors conversations with men. Stater girlfriends are in the same lane of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:24 PM
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majority of men don't care for foreplay With you*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:13 PM
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I’m here for you bröther
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:29 PM
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Your lack of desire is not surprising considering the average woman weighs within 5lbs of me. Bunch of 170lb chonkers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:24 PM
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It’s weird to emotionally connect with text messages. You can do that with an AI
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:30 AM
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I usually set a date up by message 10 or so. Who wants to text all day ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:55 PM
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Have you not considered that those men chose women who don’t have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:41 PM
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Interesting. There was another black commenter that said they can’t stand the pandering/white savior complex coming from the left. I’m wondering if your difference of lived experience is because of geography. I’ve noticed much less racism in the Deep South than more mixed populations where I live personally though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:24 PM
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It’s weird reading these comments and seeing some black folk saying they notice the pandering from the left but some black folk saying they notice the racism from the right. It’s interesting that there can be such a difference in lived experience/worldview. I’d have to agree tho that the right just does not give a chit across the board. (I a good way)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:20 PM
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You are talking about all these different studies. I’m saying YOU made the affirmative claim. You can provide the data, so that I can/can’t confirm that you are incorrectly reading THAT data’s outcome. Otherwise we’re getting nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:35 PM
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Share yours so I can discredit you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:46 PM
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Funny enough I had to write a high school paper about this. It would cost billions of dollars. We aren’t talking replacing every yard stick in Classrooms. Take gas pumps by themselves. You’d have to update the code for each unique system. Then push it to the hundreds of thousands of pumps. Then update every Point of Sale system and digital price readouts. The truck dropping the fuel off likely has a manual gauge so you have to update the millions of fuel trucks hauling it around it physically on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:01 PM
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I usually text in the morning the date of with something like “hoping work goes by quick today. I’m excited to meet you tonight.” This is better than “are we still on” or something like that. A confident dude just assumes she’s excited for the date too unless she’s shown otherwise. Also realize if you don’t have a chance to build up a lot or report with women when you get a number, they are flaky so If you don’t hear back just don’t show up to the date and don’t feel bad. Just a numbers game dog
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:53 PM
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I’m like a 7/10 6’ fit dude making around 150k in a very cheap area. In sales so very well spoken and can read the room. I have sports cars, race boats, motorcycles, travel a lot end just tend to live a pretty exciting lifestyle with the above toys. I take a lot of risks and am very confident in most settings. High honors student in college STEM field so intelligent to some extent. I’ve built vehicles, flipped homes, owned rental properties and succeeded and failed making me fairly well rounded.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:39 PM
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Iirc that stat is just blatantly wrong.the stat show “of lesbians relationships that have reported domestic violence “ lesbians, most often divorce, or break up because of that. I could be wrong though, but I swear to God I was on like a YouTube video I just watched
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:24 AM
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Most guys who have this opinion have never actually had sex with a gorgeous women lmao. It’s easy to call a game not fun when you’re on the sidelines and can’t play.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:48 PM
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The last thing you want to do is take MDMA in a situation that makes you feel overstimulated sober haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:06 AM
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Fertility only matters in nature. We live in a society where you can bust in your girl for an entire year straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:34 PM
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This thread is facts because it confirms my anecdotal bias
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:31 PM
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Oh yes I’ve heard of PCOS. I had thought it was a lack of estrogen production and not testosterone overproduction. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:56 PM
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Interesting, I’ve never heard of a high T condition in women. Only ever low. Hormone/biohacking is kind of a hobby of mine. Do you mind sharing what particular reason/condition you had and the therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:16 AM
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but it’s true that it is not needed to live. You’re arguing against a position I never stated. go read my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:31 PM
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Voluntary and involuntary celibacy are not the same thing. An example that’s just as stupid is comparing how I fast sometimes seven days or more with someone who has to go without food for seven days because they have nothing to eat. Community and physical intimacy are not same thing. Women have no place telling men what they need. The same level of ignorance is a man telling a woman her period cramps “aren’t that bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:20 PM
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Not to mention as someone who has traveled to a few countries that allow prostitution, you will always have cases of illegal activity usually involving minors anytime you involve the more degenerate behaviors of people. Ready any sexpat review and they will always tell you to confirm age with and ID. Drugs and sex almost always attract exploitation and violence. You can regulate it into the ground but then that just creates a market for cheaper illegal versions. Cannabis in the US is a good exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:43 PM
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I agree with that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:36 PM
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No one said that either as you comically left out the first part of the sentence. You’re just showing your internal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:32 PM
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Let’s not be retarded. You are being disingenuous. Depression, anxiety, ptsd, BPD can all recognized as sever psychological disorders without being lethal. The same way that trauma and lack of love in early childhood can lead to lasting impacts while also not being lethal. You can simultaneously believe no one is owed sex while also believe prolonged lack of intimacy can lead to severe psychological distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:09 PM
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Nut job for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:16 PM
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The original point I made to the other commenter was that they said women don’t want relationships. I said they do, but only with the hottest men that give them butterflies. You asked how women would “fall in love” without butterflies and I said lusting over someone is not falling in love. I’m not saying you can’t build a loving relationship with butterflies at the start, just that most people who NEED butterflies think that’s what love is leading to them ending things once the butterflies go aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:06 PM
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She’s sounds like a psycho. Dodged a bullet my dude. People shouldn’t behave that way to strangers much less “loved ones”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:21 PM
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All the above. I don’t think it’s uncommon either for young people to not really have a set plan or to think that hard about what they want either and things just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:34 AM
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Basing a potential life long partnership off fleeting neurotransmitters is most often not going to have a good outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:31 AM
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Butterflies don’t last in long term commitments. Short term butterflies are why people break up after 2-5yrs when they’re not “in love” anymore among other reasons of course. Other languages have many different ways of describing types of love. The initial butterflies are better referred to in English as lust followed by the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:29 PM
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Imagine being so fragile you clap back at what I said with insults lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:19 PM
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Most of the women I’ve done casual with fall in love and want more. Women want relationships, but they want the stereotypical “in love” butterflies etc. Based on women’s rating of men, most guys can’t give them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:34 PM
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Yes, currently wegovy, ozenpic etc all require injection into fat similar to something like insulin. I’ll also add there is a shortage of GLP-1 agonists for people who really need it but, these research sources are not the same as the name brand prescriptions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:13 PM
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About 150 USD a month for “grey” market. US has a fantastic loophole in regards to the use of non-scheduled drugs for research. This is purely hypothetical of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:04 PM
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Semiglutide works well too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:47 PM
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Tell your gf I said hi 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:29 PM
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Girls are hot Two girls hotter A girl who like girls who ALSO likes me hottest Ape brain not complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:38 PM
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Licking someone’s ass is more intimate Objective Fact /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:17 AM
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“All my exes were shit” Mad red flags haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:05 PM
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She felt numb/no emotions She was never that into you. You’re digging to deep into it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:04 PM
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Unless he's above average in looks or in terms of wealth The entire premise of TRP is to up your physique, wealth, and status to the point that you can date younger women. I’m only 30 but didn’t have a problem with 18-22 yr old college girls. I looked good in my teens but now I still look good and live a far more exciting life (sport cars, boats, vacations etc) Women don’t have the same opportunity as a 5/10 woman with money and status is still a 5/10. Another thing is if youre a 3.5/10 guy with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:20 PM
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These FDS-lite girls are so burnt from only being able to attract LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:06 PM
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Usually by the time a woman dumps you she’s emotionally detached for 6 months to prepare. Edit: I’ll add that it’s not nefarious. She’s easing her way out emotionally because she cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:51 PM
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“Watch what women do not what they say” Women will go on and on about personality. The reality is attractiveness is almost completely tied to your physical appearance. Tall, fit, nice hair, teeth, and skin. However none of those things matter if the bone structure of your face sucks. Most guys have average facial genetics and will see a huge increase in attracting women if they get very lean and put on some muscle as male dimorphism is more visible a low body fats and most guys are overweight. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:46 PM
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Another person taking YouTubers seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:44 AM
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Shoot, you’re right this one random YouTuber discredits my decade of lived party life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:45 AM
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100% agree. People not like this aren’t some scare unicorn population
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:40 AM
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Exactly. This is why I wouldn’t ever date the stereotypical “party girl” Nothing wrong with partying itself but these women almost always have beliefs and temperaments that would lead to unsuccessful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:01 PM
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The premise of your post is that street interviews don’t represent IRL women. I’m saying that’s just not true, based on interacting with women at the same types of locations that most of these street interviews take place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:58 PM
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As for street interviews, they’re fake - point blank, and this can be done in so many ways; they’re meant to be rage fuel, to point women as inflammatory, while in all reality one of 3 things have happened I promise you women are that low quality IRL too, or at least the ones present at the venues where they interviews take place. Idk what percent of college aged women go to bars but I don’t think it’s a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:27 PM
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Right the two have nothing to do with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:44 PM
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The chance of dying in a commercial flight is .000001% How is your comment relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:31 PM
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Oh 100% on the gatekeeping part. Sure I think behind the wall electric/plumbing, and HVAC coolant should be done by licensed professionals but 95% of this stuff is absolutely doable by most people. Super cool you’re learning to take care of your home, especially in the throw away culture we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:25 PM
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I’ve flipped several homes. It’s amazing how little practice it takes to do almost everything a house would need. Following codes that update every 10 yrs is the hardest part honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:53 PM
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I’m a heavy gamer and a struggled a bit too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:13 PM
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Lots of words to say absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:08 PM
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Right, your interpretation of the 1.89% imo is not correct at all. I gave a handful of examples of why that is. You’re dealing with large populations. Fractions of a percentage is still thousands of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:09 AM
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Coy and hard to get aren’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:10 PM
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It’s still illegal to kill born Down syndrome people. Pro lifers will argue there is no difference between murder and termination on the basis of the unborn having a handicap. We’re getting into variables that I don’t care to argue as my stance is neutral. Regardless of how you look at the statistics, if you believe abortion is murder then it’s a lot. Comparatively much larger than the number of children killed by homicide for example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:52 PM
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Massive turn off for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:25 PM
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Sweetie first of all settle down. Secondly I’m not making an argument for or against abortions. I’m arguing that for people who are pro life they almost always think abortion is taking a life. 1.89% of mothers getting an abortion is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:06 PM
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When it comes to life and death 1.89 percent it’s pretty substantial lol. Imagine if the pandemic killed 1.89 of the population. Would you get on a flight with a 1.89 chance of dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:47 PM
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Redpill started on the SoSuave forums in the early 2000s which was a PUA community. Before incel was even a mainstream word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:50 AM
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Nah the disappointment usually starts when you see her irl vs old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:04 AM
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The problem with Legal SW is it still almost always involves children and violence too. Unless you regulate it to the point of say cannabis in the US. Which would 5-10x the price like it also has for cannabis, if not more as your including things like healthcare, security etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:50 PM
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lol there’s so much niceguy coming from this guy. Probably in love with the girl in the original post and mad that she chooses a “scumbag” instead of her friendzoned nice friend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:51 PM
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That’s a great way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:43 PM
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I wouldn’t say women love high n men. They love hot guys, guys with status, and guys that women want. If those guys want to they can sleep around easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:28 PM
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I agree with men would probably have higher rates if given the opportunity. But over 50% of men and women have reported they’ve been cheated on in one study. I’d say that’s an underestimate as how many people never done out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:20 AM
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No, I was playing the field at the time. The girls knew. I didn’t trick them or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:10 AM
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Bro pretty much everything you said matches my life experience. I can go from like a 5/10 to a 7 just dieting down. The difference in how the world treats me between being like MAYBE 30lbs overweight to shred city is night and day. There like this threshold of attraction where once your over it women start messaging you like crazy on OLD and you get the much more sexual side out of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:16 AM
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Black dudes usually look great bald though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:04 AM
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I’d say it’s hard to say considering how prevalent cheating is for both sexes. With that said studies show men have a much higher desire for multiple partners and are much more likely to be able to separate sex and emotion. But then on the other hand women are much more likely to be approached by men and have the opportunity to cheat. I thought most studies show it’s fairly even between the sexes. One interesting thing is after the Ashley Madison hack, after digging into the data like 99.9% of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:54 AM
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100+ n count and date only low n. Been with multiple virgins. If you’re hot and charismatic women don’t care sans religious and certain virgins. Female Redditors can continue to cope thinking this is only women with low self esteem. Attraction is not a choice. Women choose the men they pine over. Not the guy who checks the low n checkbox. In contrast women don’t prefer the 5/10 IT guy with low N and a stable job who doesn’t sexually excite them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:35 AM
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Only if she was already cute before BBLs are a turnoff though. Go to the fucking gym. The female equivalent of ab implants
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:54 AM
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This depends highly on your area. It’s extremely solipsistic to believe women around the country hold your political beliefs. Almost every county in my state is Red except for the large city. I’ve never seen a Biden flag that didn’t start with fuck and people paint Trump all over signs On top of that most people don’t have very strong opinions either way and are moderates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:30 PM
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Hmm, on one side the response is pretty overblown. Like honestly who cares. It’s cringe the guy even felt it necessary to post it. On the other I’ve hung/slept around enough to know “types” when I see them and this type of party girl doesn’t often have the temperament I would want in a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:32 PM
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Dropped this 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:15 PM
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Off topic but Jesus Christ So he finds out the girl is cheating on her bf and his reaction is to ask her to be exclusive. When you find out a girl has an STD do you plan to go raw the next date? Not only this but then YOU, the friend, are sitting there trying to get advise. Bro I can’t even 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:33 PM
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You just replaced it with actual sex (presumably) and have a lower libido. I’m on TRT and my libido doesn’t touch 12-18yr old me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:52 PM
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Bro I’m not talking about pen island and 2 girls one cup type stuff. Heavy r isn’t showing up search results unless you're into shite. I would agree the internet has cleaned up the CP issue in terms of sanitation. I’m sure it’s just moved to less mainstream spaces though. I’m talking when 10 year old Billy types in boobs he’s going to see the hub or any of its dozens of sites like uporn, redtube etc,. pop up first. His first exposure is littered with mom/sister/daughter. https://bedbible.com/por…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:45 PM
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You don’t have to search when it’s the baseline. Just look at the homepage. “Help big brother I’m stuck” and 99% of dudes will hear that and laugh. That was absolutely not true 15yrs ago. There has absolutely been a shift to more and more taboo. This issue is boys are getting phones and access to this at very young ages particularly when the brain as much more plastic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:32 PM
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Half the titles on pornhub are mom/sister taboo. An entire generation of men have grown up watching pornstars pretending to fuck their mom/siblings since grade school. To say this doesn’t fuck up a concerning number of young men is ridiculous. It’s totally normal to fap everyday (probably) It’s not normal at all for men to get into the cycle of watching more and more fucked up shit in order to get off to the point that “normal” porn doesn’t even get them hard anymore. That’s why women give a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:19 PM
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I don’t think it’s really a bad thing but have never in my life asked a woman for exclusivity. I just start to treat them like girlfriends if we get along and eventually they bring up the “what are we” talk. Like clockwork this is almost always around week 6-8. Some will just assume you are together if they haven’t been burnt by a guy before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:01 PM
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I’ve had plenty of hookups from girls in my friend groups. It just comes down to how sexually attractive you are. Women will just never admit that they only don’t like it when the guy is ugly/weird like in this skit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:39 PM
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A lot of the mental health issues for young men are caused by lifestyle habits and environmental pollution. Low testosterone leads to anxiety, depression, and lack of motivation (in men). Phallates are damaging male fetuses. Estrogen like materials in consumer products like water, toiletries, perfumes are lowering testosterone. Lifestyle factors like diet and lack of exercise lower it directly and fat tissues also produce estrogen indirectly. The male HPTA operates on negative feedback so fairly…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:07 PM
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He's just very professional with how he interacts with women, almost like it's a job interview. He doesn't flirt or make jokes about anything You said this in another comment. Here is your answer. No sexual chemistry. He might find a dorky shy girl that’s ok with it but most women are sexual beings. Women love guys who make them feel heard, safe and sexy. This is seduction 101 and what TRP actually started as. He needs to read “The Game” and have his behavior nudged towards being more sexual. “T…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:51 PM
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Oh no dude not the REPORT!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:20 AM
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Typical atheist viewpoint. We cannot explain it, so it MUST have just randomly happened. Atheist reject the idea of divinity, not provide an alternative. At least be educated in your argument. As a “man of science” as you so claim you should know no theory today attempts to explain the beginning of all that we know. You should ask your god when he made people in his image why they turned out so rotten. A child could imagine a world without pain and sin yet an all knowing and all seeing being cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:02 AM
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Typical thiest viewpoint. We cannot explain something so it MUST be divine lmao. Thiests only seem to be moral under the guidance of some benevolent being. The rest of us are able to not be pieces of shit by our own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:02 PM
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*you’re
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:45 PM
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We need more people like you in this world #entrepreneur
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:56 PM
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Dealing drugs for puss > dealing drugs for money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:53 PM
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TikTok brain is a genderless disease
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:06 PM
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I stopped reading after “scrolling on TikTok” The fact as a man you aren’t absolutely embarrassed to say that tells me everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:54 PM
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Oh no, I never assumed you were cheated on. Was sharing my own experience being AF/BB by the same girl and how it related to cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:43 AM
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Almost the entire population of now English speaking peoples come from societies that were Christian. Of course most well know stories are going to come from Christians. People who write about love and happen to be Christian /= love that comes from Christianity. Not to mention your total disregard for any work from the East. Religion was and still is the most successful psyop to get society to be less degenerate and produce more children which was important with the high infant death rates. It i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:52 AM
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The direct deposits every first of the month were indeed a beautiful thing haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:47 PM
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Yep exactly. Only speaking under the United States. Could be fair game in other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:45 PM
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I owned sec 8 housing. There are multi generational single moms having their entire livelihood paid for by the govt. the more kids they have the more money. But they are “oppressed” lmao. Ok sis I have to work hard to earn back the money the govt stole from me for you to live for free for being a pos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:40 PM
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The US constitution protects life, liberty, and property. Our medical records have already been heavily protected under HIPAA It would be unconstitutional to require anyone to provide their DNA with no court order as it is considered property under HIPAA. You can be forced when breaking the law but you can still refuse paternity tests even under court order. Obviously the outcome is usually worse, but they still can’t force you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:22 PM
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It really opens your eyes doesn’t it? TRP gets some things spot on and AF/BB is one of those. It’s why looking back at previous relationships it’s so easy to tell when a woman WON’T cheat and that’s when you’re AF. As soon as you get downgraded to BB it’s basically just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:16 PM
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If so then my piss is actually what’s in the water turning frogs gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:21 PM
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I’m not sure man. Just wanted to acknowledge what you had said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:04 PM
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Bro we gotta take the Ls we deserve. Most dudes have cheek clapping desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:56 AM
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I kissed a lot of frogs to find my prince. Eloquent way to put getting run through /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:59 AM
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Yeah I think 2 deviations is like 76%. Where exactly a 7 is on a normal distribution I’m not sure. People in general definitely do rate them selves high. I think data has shown men are worse at it. I can’t remember though if that’s in reference to what other men think or women though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:17 PM
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Fuck man absolutely BRUTAL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:52 PM
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The most common response was 7/10 with 25.6% of the votes following by 6/10 with 22.3% of the votes and 5/10 with 22.1% of the votes. Only 19.8% people thought they were below average looking It seems most people think 7/10 is average. I’d be curious what the results would be if instead 5/10 was referenced as say 50% of people or less attractive and 7/10 is 70% of people are less attractive. (Or whatever the actual percent is)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:49 PM
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This is the flip side of TRPs fear of the AF/BB dichotomy. No one wants to be settled for. Women treat the AF/BB very differently and men do the same for women in the different boxes. It’s up to the individual to look at someone’s actions and determine what box the person has placed them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:49 PM
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I see this time and time again with younger guys getting on TRT. Older guys notice the energy and libido recover more but young men report lower levels of anxiety, depression, stress, so on. TRT usually brings back balance that’s lost from our modern diet/lifestyle that includes a large amount of endocrine disrupters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:57 PM
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No need to argue. The other commenters are already debunking your ignorance. Try not to get your medical info from cosmo next time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:51 PM
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I’ve run steroids enough times and that’s just not how androgens work lol. You have a 1st grader’s understanding of these hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:12 PM
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For every loser dude you describe there is a loser girl. This isn’t some deep reasoning of the “nurse complex”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:16 PM
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On average men want more quantity so on average a guy with options is going to seek out those options until he can’t or some other reason. In my case I got bored and preferred the more permanent benefits of a LTR. I’m sure I could keep fucking girls until I’m like MAYBE 40 and that’s stretch. Most likely my partners would be 35-40 and divorced, single moms, with a sparse occasional girl who’s just into older guys. The cost/benefit of doing this at that age wasn’t appealing to me when I compare t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:01 PM
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Sounds like you are out dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:12 PM
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I love casual dating and sex. I love meeting new women and learning about them. It’s enjoyable and exciting getting naked and exploring their bodies. Figuring out what they enjoy about sex and making them climax. It’s leagues better both physically and mentally than rubbing one out. I think if you view sex as a means to an end sure you’re not going to enjoy it. I can also enjoy a random short conversation with a stranger on a plane say goodbye and have nothing but positive feelings about the int…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:59 PM
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Low value men with no other option. Lots of women naturally test their man in various ways and lots of guys fail. It’s betatization by 1000 concessions. After a while they just lose respect for the man and it turns into actual resentment. I don’t think it’s even conscious behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:48 PM
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Just checked and that’s definitely one of the ones I was thinking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:34 PM
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I’ve shared pictures with a few other Redditors over DM. I do think the people who have YouTube channels and get really into the science of attraction that offer rating services for money have some amount of professionalism where I wouldn’t worry about it. They only use pictures from people who have given them explicit permission to show them. I’d even wonder if you paying them counts as contractual agreement where you are legally promised your pictures won’t be shared with permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:13 PM
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Can’t remember the channel but there is a guy who put together some sort of system that also included “harmony” It racked incredibly well with most peoples objective measure of attractiveness. People relate individual features on attractiveness scales but one could have a 10/10 masculine set of hunter eyes but a average jaw and they will just look “off” Similarly objectively Jason Mamoa is not particularly handsome but his features harmonize incredibly well together and many would say he is attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:01 PM
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Looks are absolutely the highest ROI for short and long term dating. I’d even say being handsome has helped me coast through my career, make friends etc. From my experience looks have had one of the biggest impacts on my quality of life overall. Women smile at me and greet me. Guys usually spark up conversation about lifting and ask me for advice. People just generally want to get to know me. Ive been offered money to strip for a bachelorette party, had threesomes, had a virgin ask me to taker h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:53 PM
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Only cheated on once in my teens and the signs were painfully obvious looking back. I really don’t think most people hide it well from that experience and watching other similar situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:26 AM
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66% of Americans have had a least 1 one-night stand. Casual sex isn’t in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:16 AM
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She would be in the causal/fun fuck buddy box only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:29 AM
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The anxiety and stress isn’t there making the experience “feel” less exciting/good Can y’all still afford to fly with that much baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:59 PM
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Right, I go to pubs with my gf and friends regularly. Fairly typical young adult behavior. That’s different than dressing to the nines and sexualizing yourself while out at the bar with your girlfriends. It’s a nuanced spectrum and each person decides where they draw the line. Want to go to a causal restaurant and get tipsy with your girlfriends in the evening? Cool, I’d be happy to pick her and her friends up. Want to wear a skimpy dress and go out to a sexual venue then im just not compatible …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:26 PM
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No I don’t date woman where girls night includes going to hyper sexual social events without me. Personally I would also want my girlfriend with me at social events where it’s typical for single people to frequent. For various reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:30 PM
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I just use twink. Seems to go under the radar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 AM
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I get groped as a dude at festivals. I wouldn’t even consider dating a girl that goes to raves without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:46 AM
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Never demand anything from a woman. Don’t even bring up her not going anymore. Ask her if she would be upset or feel disrespected if you kept going to clubs and women were repeatedly asking you to go to the washroom and feeding you drinks. My guess is she will say yeah I’d be upset. Then just leave it at that. Literally just say “I see” or “ok”. Then if she doesn’t by her own desire remove herself from that situation go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:44 AM
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Insanity* My only source is farcry 4
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:20 PM
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Yeah dog hate to tell you as like a 7/10 I absolutely slay. That’s easily top 10% An 8.5 is model tier. If you’re struggling with women you’re probably below a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:05 PM
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your partner talks to a member of the opposite sex The whole point of flirting Interesting how you example changed from anytime you speak to the opposite sex to flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:55 AM
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No, you just used an embellished example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:11 AM
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Intent is way more important but you can’t validate things in someone else’s mind so actions are an unfortunate substitute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:58 PM
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This is a really solid nuanced take
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:30 PM
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I thought Mad Men got it right with Sterling’s character arc Is madmen pretty good overall? I keep getting that series as a recommendation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:25 PM
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A good woman you’ve been through thick and thin with is worth way more than a shiny new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:23 PM
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People who are more promiscuous, cheat more often. Partners of cheating spouses get cucked more often I agree with this. I was out an about last night and must have misread this at a glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:54 PM
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Bro off topic but Reddit literally won’t let me reply to you unless I go a round-about ass way in a browser window. Keeps saying your comments are deleted. Then when they and reply it says unable. This and your name together be spooky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:50 PM
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What’s the name of the logical fallacy I’m using. (Genuinely want to know) Carrying a lighter in your pocket, correlates with lung cancer, but intuitively we know that lighters don’t cause lung cancer. In that simple example we know that the confounding factor is tobacco use. We can study lung tissue and the damaging effects of such. We can beyond most reasonable doubt say that tobacco causers higher rates of cancer. Women initiate 80% of divorce. This is a fact. Taking this data and inferring a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:40 PM
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What fallacy did I use. TRP consistently makes causative from correlative data. Divorce rates and n count. Women initiate 80% of divorces. 60% of girls in relationships but only 30% of guys. Educated women divorce more often. So on. TRP explanation for these results is just a guess These are all example of TRP taking a correlation and making up a causative inference. This is an actual fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:37 AM
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I have no argument so I’ll call it common sense* Fixed that for you dog
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:33 AM
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For the most part of human history…..The more promiscuous a woman, the bigger the chance to get turned into a cuckold This is just you regurgitating made up Redpill stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:57 PM
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This is just bad reasoning. Men don’t slut shame today because women get pregnant and men don’t. You are just proving my point by thinking becoming a single mother is different than becoming a single father. The consequences are the same. You both brought a child into the world on accident. The social structure exists past any real world reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:36 PM
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The issue comes from the different rules set for men and women. Few people take issue with those wanting their partner to have similar views towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:08 PM
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I avoid high n woman but I also understand the hangup people have about it. The past mattering, in regards to sex, means that a woman having sex is seen as a bad thing. Women have been shamed out of sleeping around for all of recorded history. The reason does not matter that’s just a simple truth. The pushback comes from today because we know sex is not inherently a bad thing outside of religion (which most people are not devout followers and sin daily) It being a bad thing comes from our social…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:58 PM
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Thank you much. This was a really solid explanation. I was only familiar with traditional IQ testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:48 PM
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How would you test for emotional intelligence. Or any others you are thinking of outside of IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:32 PM
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You can’t negotiate attraction. You can only talk a girl out of liking you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:27 PM
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The RedPills mistake is making causative inference from correlative data. A total disregard for confounding factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:30 PM
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I figured by now PPD would be able to distinguish putting women in whore vs wifey material isn’t the same thing as the Madonna/whore complex. The complex suggest a man is UNABLE to both love a woman as his wife AND see her as a sexual being. It’s been debunked. Most guys can love their partner and fuck her brains out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:31 PM
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I’d smash either way No homo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:12 AM
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I’m not looking to move away from traditional gender norms in the context of a romantic relationship. I pay for dates because from the absolute first message I set the stage that I’m masculine/dominant and that’s how I like things to go. I invite her out on the date and I pay for that date. Some women love this and others don’t. For me this is also a great filter. It’s easy to pick up on if she feels entitled to having dinner paid for or if she appreciates it and reciprocates in some way (a simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:07 AM
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I’ll have to look more into bonobos. I’m not familiar with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:00 AM
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No one is denying men like younger. But lining up 100 women is not how anyone dates. In the real world where people meet on dates you can prefer younger, you can prefer blonds, you can prefer anything. However you only have a limited number of options. At the individual level you look at pros/cons of each girl. Given the option men prefer younger but outside of a hypothetical scenario you aren’t “given the option” in real life. The wall is the idea that women lose most of their value around 30 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:56 PM
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That’s just weird to me tbh. Making the girl orgasm is half the fun. My experience is woman vary a lot in what works for them. Some love tongue and others can’t orgasm from softer touch. Some have sensitive nipples and others not at all. Even my go to for making girls squirt doesn’t work on some because they find it painful. There is no “good” at sex. Have to figure out what works for each woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:52 PM
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Sure men prefer younger but in the real world you’ll never have an apples to apples comparison. Meaning you don’t get to choose between girl a at ages 25 and 35. You might get to choose between girl A who is a4/10 at 25 or girl B who is still a 7/10 at 35. Some are going to pick B regardless of their preference for youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:28 PM
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Men want to have sex with all types of women and not be hyper-focused on the young ones. Totally agree. The “wall” is purely social behavior not evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:46 PM
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Why do men prefer to marry women with less sexual partner. Equally men will invest in raising a kid that is certainly theirs. That is the reason If you look at our closest relatives chimps and gorillas they live in small tribes. None of the males know which children are theirs. The alpha gets to fuck whenever he wants but all the other primates are fucking too. It’s only when an alpha male is displaced does his rival kill the offspring. This is true for lions as well which are much farther back …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:41 PM
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Of course, the OG hypergamy comes from something about native Indians iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:24 PM
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Ligma male
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:14 PM
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Wait this isn’t just a meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:59 PM
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Most girls feel similar. Some tighter/looser as your friend said. Some curve a lot more and some are a lot smoother feeling. Depth plays a difference too. If you have a less deep girl and she grinds forward and backwards her cervix will stimulate the tip of your dick. For me the standout girls were the ones that orgasmed easily or squirted from penetration. Top place are women who orgasm easily and a lot. It feels great when they build up as you can feel their vaginas quiver and squeeze your dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:52 PM
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You’re in the courting phase not married. You’re getting wrapped up in the idea that there is only one love. I didn’t mean it to that level of depth goals and aspirations, what makes us fulfilled This is just normal conversation. You mentioned one bringing up vulnerability/childhood abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:42 PM
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SMV, HVM etc will make most people cringe outside of pill space. It’s not mainstream. Find an example before the early 2000s if you think you are so correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:33 PM
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Further work in the sexual marketplace could usefully pursue interactions (statistical and social) between sellers (Dark Triad men) and buyers (women) Interesting. This is the first time I’ve ever seen pill terms make it into the realm of a peer reviewed paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:54 PM
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I like deep and vulnerable conversation and superficial shit - even flirting - bores me, so I gravitate toward the deep end Talking about childhood trauma isn’t deep dude. You sound emo. I’m not surprised girls are trauma dumping on you back and getting turned off. Love is supposed to be playful and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:30 PM
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I’m 30 fit top 1% earning. I did well on OLD before but was in a 3yr relationship between 26ish-29. A lot of things changed between those years. A lot more money, more hobbies, shredded to the gills. I got hundreds of matches on tinder back in the day but college girls were always flakey. As a 30yr old now women were messaging me first a lot more, asking me on dates etc. I don’t have any problems with women my age either. Plenty of awesome 25-32 yr old women. I don’t think you should write that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:44 PM
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guess a lot of it is just exaggerating as a form of venting though. Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:21 PM
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It won’t. The PPD mods are very good about removing shit that Reddit will ban the sub for. Ie racism against minorities or violence against women (mention those two because that’s exactly why the other was banned ) I’ve had just normal discussions about race and the mods will delete it an say it’s just jot something we can talk about due to the risk to the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:05 PM
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I got banned from dating advise without ever comment or posting lol. Think they just have ppl who joined any redpill stuff auto banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:03 PM
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Can you link the comment plz
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:14 PM
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Right that was my thinking. If you grab 100 random 18-30 people in any country and then 100 from their Olympic team (just as an apples:apple comparison) the athletes will be more attractive. This would be largely due to lifestyle factors but there is going to an amount of genetics. Take for example a single variable like testosterone. Male athletes likely will have either higher amounts of testosterone or have a higher sensitivity to that testosterone. Particularly in bones and muscle tissue. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:28 PM
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Similar is when you hear a male is a “real man” when he helps raise another man’s child. It’s just shaming tactics. I’d assume you were in a female oriented sub and Reddit/Internet forums tends to lean extremist. I don’t think it’s mainstream to think that’s it’s acceptable behavior to speak that way about either sex I will add however that there are much fewer consequences when women are publicly shitty towards men particularly on social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:58 PM
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You’re objectively wrong when you don’t cherry pick a sport that includes 350lb enhanced linemen https://www.nbcolympics.com/athletes#country=usa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:33 PM
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Look at the average professional sports player. They are far above average in looks Remove for say things like height. Being 7’ only benefits you playing basketball where there is an arbitrary goal of throwing a ball into a hoop. A good example is track and field athletes or soccer where there is much mor importance placed on athleticism than say baseball or golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:22 PM
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When I was in college I had gone on a date with a 16-17yr old girl and only found out on the date. I’m totally on board with age verification.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:59 PM
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I thought the term serial monogamist was created specifically to define the people that do it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:54 AM
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I think you misunderstood. OP is saying stringing someone along in a LTR is worse than stringing someone along for a night
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:51 AM
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I’ve always said you’ll never know a woman until you’ve dumped her. You just found out your wife’s desire to be a cunt is greater than her desire to see you happy if you split. Ignorance is bliss I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:02 AM
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Not sure. I’m speaking strictly about men and the balance and types of hormones in male bodies. Women not only have different types but far different ratios. It’s not as simple as pumping up testosterone a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:56 PM
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Testosterone in the doses healthy men make adds an edge of aggression, motivation, and sexual desire. When men nut progesterone is immediately released which for men is extremely sedating and so for some time that edge is almost immediately curbed. Men’s testosterone “pulses” and is release into in waves so naturally there are certain times men are much more horny. It’s during these times a guy will sleep with a woman he find unattractive and immediately afterwards regrets it. It doesn’t cloud y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:39 PM
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Considering the question states “knew you’d never go back” I assumed I still have my male brain since I have my memory of being a man and only switched bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:14 PM
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Honestly I’m just more curious about the follow up. 4 years? Now that is a Reddit commitment RemindMe! 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:13 AM
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I’d start an onlyfans and have sex with lesbians. Then retire and become a passport hoe and get an exotic girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:52 AM
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>With this idea that suggests that women should be untouched and virgins I really do believe that even in TRP space most men do not hold this opinion. Guys just want a girl that treats them well and likes doing kinky stuff with them. Is open the same way she was with previous partners. Has a similar sexual past as them. Of the dudes I’ve talked to in TRP space we tend to just make fun of the subset of men who think like the above quote . Similar to the fanbase of say Fresh&Fit, these men lean mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:29 PM
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I can see your point of view in the first paragraph (and agree in some ways) while also looking at the interactions of men and woman and my past experiences with them to also hold the view in my previous post. Your viewpoints are just the opposite side of the same coin as absurd redpill opinions. Overcompensation Second paragraph is just an exaggeration. As if women can only be a bitch or a submissive slave. No in between lmao. I have a gf and a high n count. I really don’t know why you choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:15 PM
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Haha I feel you. “Pain in the ass”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:59 PM
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Guess anytime a girl is mean to me it’s because I’m just a little bitch. Checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:46 PM
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Yeah I thought the same. Just seems like a PITA to type out every time when there is custom flair on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:43 PM
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This thread is a great example that for many women (even in healthy relationships) their default behavior is to be a bitch and it’s only when they are with a man they admire do they act right. It’s almost like these types need a man to be a good person. Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:39 PM
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Men who are genuinely masculine in a safe and healthy way tend to generate submission from their wife or girlfriend organically…their inability to inspire that from the woman they're with [reflects on them] Men can and should always do better, but it’s amusing that a woman being a bitch is the man’s fault. The idea that men should work hard so the girl isn’t a bitch is amusing. What actually matters to women is the man’s value/options. The past women in my life who respected and look up to me (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:21 PM
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nopillsgirlie I don’t understand this. Is this supposed to be a flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:08 PM
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I don’t really agree with the whole hard vs easy reasoning, pairbonding etc,. I’ve just found that women who are more promiscuous more often have certain characteristics that make them bad girlfriends. I don’t date men and can’t really say or not if high n men have the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:04 PM
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If I was walking around with a snake on my neck and triggered OP into attacking me yes id think they need to loosen up. You’re arguing with a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:51 AM
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lol project harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:15 AM
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Bro IM LOOSEY GOOSEY too OP is being a lil tightey tiger is all im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:58 PM
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I almost died on my motorcycle. 60mph crash annd landed on my neck. Bikes been sitting wrecked for years because I’m not in a rush to get paralyzed lol. Again bro relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:49 PM
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That’s just a straw man. Just as inappropriate would be me arguing eating a peanut and almost dying and watching your family get unalived by a missile strike are equivalent It’s not that serious that someone ALMOST got bitten by a snake (again)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:45 PM
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Nah you take life to seriously. Lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:08 PM
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We all make mistakes and I think you have to just to forgive yourself for making that mistake and try to not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:02 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about relationships and why I’d never have children or get married. I want to wake up everyday and choose my gf and her do the same for me. In bad times I want to weigh the value of our relationship against leaving an unhappy situation. It goes both ways. For example I would just leave if I were to become paralyzed or something. We’re young and I’d want her to be happy and not walking would probably cause me to spiral into depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:03 PM
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Outside looking in this just seems like a friendly joke. I would have totally laughed at you too while also thinking it’s totally normal to freak out especially after a close call with a venomous snake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:54 PM
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It’s better to give women like this ammo early on. You can next them much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:52 PM
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Fuck man I just spit out my drink 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:46 PM
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It’s much worse breaking someone else’s heart
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:42 PM
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Some* The vast majority of women get upset but fight harder for your attention after finding something like that out. I’ve actually never experienced a woman leave after finding out but assume some would. This depends entirely on your value as a man and how in love the girl is. Love makes people do stupid things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:56 PM
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Hahaha yeah I’m a few hrs away and have a lot of friends from there. The winters do really suck ass. Another thing is the crazy drivers. I’ve driven a moped in Indonesia 70mph on the other side of the road and felt safer than rush hour in Chicago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:06 PM
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I get complimented and approached by women in the US. If you aren’t handsome might be too strong of a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:29 PM
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BBB Bitches being Bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:53 PM
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Cultures are very different depending on where you are. I found mingling with locals in say Toronto Canada or Nashville Tennessee easy while also dying on the hill that no person in Chicago Illinois has a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:46 PM
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I think you should reframe this as “I have nothing to offer women who have much to offer me” People like you reduce women to transactional utility and what you can get out of them. Instead of looking at a relationship as an opportunity of what you can give to someone. Women who have this mindset are rare and they certainly aren’t bothering with men whose only value is paper currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:34 PM
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All due respect brother but you type like a ghetto middle schooler. Stop if you want anyone to take anything you say seriously. Yuh dig? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:21 AM
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I don’t think porn or IG really stop men from perusing hookups. I do think viewing very beautiful people on a daily basis both in and out of a relationship may lead to disappointment when you’re with a more average person. The same way social media tends to make people unhappy because you only see the good in everyone’s life. Another example is a poor person can be happy with their life until they see example of someone who is rich. I’m not sure what that phenomenon is called.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:02 PM
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Sure but women who get paid to have sex are calling them that. Pot kettle black…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:59 PM
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Sure, but a quick lay is not the same as dating. Most guys have much lower physical standards for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:59 PM
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I agree but don’t feel porn is really an issue. For men its seeing constant 9/10 women half naked on instagram and for women its getting hundreds of matches especially from men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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I was about to say I never really felt like pornstars were that attractive. Hell I’d say pornstars are a fairly good representation of the general population minus the overweight folks. So just healthy average people. This seems true for men and women. Totally a different story on instagram. Full of half naked dimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:06 PM
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Haha it’s funny that your prostitute friends think the men that pay them are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:08 PM
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Admittedly, three of those girls do have beer bellies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:49 PM
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I think this is true in many cases. When I had a rotation it’s not like these girls were at my level otherwise they’d never put up with my bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:41 PM
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There’s hardly a single woman I’ve slept with more than a handful of times that didn’t catch feelings eventually. Women absolutely use sex as a means to make a guy like her after she inevitably starts wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:35 PM
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It doesn’t get dirty. You flush every time you go to the bathroom. I’ll Lysol it off maybe every month or two to get rid of the stray hairs they get behind the seat. I live alone too, so it doesn’t get that much use.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:41 PM
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*cream toss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:10 PM
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Definitely get more women with OLD but more attractive women IRL. I’m maybe a 7/10 6’ and have a really great profile. I don’t think my experience is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:41 PM
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You stole my flair idea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:52 PM
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I wasn’t being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:09 PM
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You can think that both young adults should be held accountable for their actions and look back at yourself 10 years ago and say that you were immature and fucked up sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:55 PM
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“>” That puts blocks of texts in quotes btw makes reading quotes a bit easier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:45 PM
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Broooooo that shit HAS to be staged lmao. I’m convinced she just used Destiny’s clout to become known. I had never heard of her before until she started talking on a few menosphere podcasts. Now she’s leaving and in a final grab of clout divorces him over just an outrageously insulting kuk slave 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:25 PM
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Til
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:12 PM
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Nvm, I reread your comment (not sure if maybe you edited) The first time it just seemed really difficult to understand and weird. Usually comments like that are from People trolling or autistic folks who just seem to speak different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:36 PM
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Much respect for Destiny but he is exactly the dude who comes to mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:33 PM
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I don’t care sis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:08 AM
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No, we’re talking late 3rd abortions. Even at home abortion pills extend past 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:46 AM
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Varies by state but not many besides length of the pregnancy exceeding a certain length. Most people could drive or take a bus to the next state over if it’s illegal in their state
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:35 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:20 PM
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Cleaning a toilet every week is so wild lmao. You piss and shit in it every day. The fuck do you think cleaning it is going to do when I’m smearing yesterdays dinner down it the next day. I don’t really think my ass cheeks are that filthy and I sit to piss because it’s objectively superior, so it’s not like the seat is a piss minefield after a week either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:00 PM
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Haha that’s really funny because my gf feels the same way about our first experience. I definitely lead with my looks/body and just look like a typical “frat” guy. I’ve heard it from women enough to say I give off the player vibes both online and offline too. My guy, on the other hand, was nice, polite She and I talked about dating dynamics on the first date since it interests me, and were laughing about her stories of how men’s texting was awful and how I was polite etc. I definitely try and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:43 PM
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Fuck man I remember it was New Year’s Eve couple years back and I had been seeing this girl for many months and said I only wanted to be FWB. Anyway I told her to go date a guy that wants to get into a relationship. Tried to break things off bc she’s catching feelings. Told her we had to wear condoms because I was fucking other girls and so on. Our female mutual acquaintance was saying how she was heartbroken and in love so I finally just refused to see her because I felt bad. A few weeks later …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:24 PM
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Breeding kink lines like “come inside” etc Nothing more attractive than a woman subconsciously and in fantasy wanting you to get her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:05 PM
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The reason height matters is patriarchy. Patriarchy says men > women. Men tend to be taller than women, therefore in a patriarchy, tall > short. That's the only reason I lost IQ reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:49 PM
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Not my grandpas since I’m not close with them but the older men whom I know well enough to talk about relationships with, always tell me to not get married. Less frequently it’s to not have kids. I think it’s very common for successful men to have bad marriages leading to telling young men to avoid it. Likely it failed because of both their mate choice and priorities (work over relationship.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:50 PM
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Facts. Thought you meant in general
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:46 AM
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Plan A. Abortion Plan B. Get solo custody then passport bro and find a 7/10 thai girl to raise my child Plan C. Plan B but without my kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:36 AM
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Not sure if troll or autist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:29 AM
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I swipe left on women with checklists because it’s cringe af. exceptions for silly shit like “must like dogs” etc I’d say in the US 22-23 maybe pushing 25 .You should have either gotten a job after HS or finished college by now and landed some sort of job. If you haven’t, your focus should be on that and not women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:24 AM
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Bruv I built a 5br house on 75k salary lmao. Some of the shit ppl post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:19 AM
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There aren’t men saying submissive and meaning cooperative. They absolutely mean submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:31 AM
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Really? That’s not uncommon at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:46 PM
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I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:50 PM
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There’s a woman’s section in my gym. Seems to be a fine solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:37 PM
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I think purposely creating dread is toxic. Your girlfriend seeing women hit on you and knowing other women find you attractive creates the same thing. Your girl being a bit jealous once and awhile isnt a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:28 PM
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Agreed. For me there aren’t a lot of situations a woman can’t simp her way out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:29 PM
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hates dogs or wants children Love dogs and hate children. Taken but sis hmu in another life 😍 Childfree dog moms are hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:19 AM
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Only example I can think of is references to “make her an honest lady” where society generally tended to shame men who got women pregnant into marrying them. I think these movies are around the 1950s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:14 AM
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I've been with some fickle, demanding women who were barely more than virgins and some truly empathetic, incredible women who literally couldn't even remember their body count It’s so weird that ppl who write these fanfics don’t realize how badly they give themselves away writing such obnoxious ranges
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:10 AM
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My argument is that patriarchy started when physical strength did matter. So thousands or hundreds of thousands years ago. Men had the power to enact their will on women but women could not do the same and it came down exclusively to men’s greater physical and mental propensity to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:03 AM
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Men have always created dominance hierarchies. Due to the strength and aggression of men, we have always dominated women in all of thies hierarchies. Men have fought and killed each other for thousands of years and women were always at the whim of male violence. At the extreme end the most brutal and powerful men of all human history have dominated most other people. Women were most often not allowed a seat at the table. Even today women are only “equal” to men in a society that’s been built and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:41 PM
2

I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:17 PM
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White, taken, high n, upper class USA. Still redpilled though. Id say I argue just as much if not more with repillers here than blue pill. Many of the opinions here lack experience with people in real life. The virgin blackpiller and the blue piller married to their HS sweetheart both lack a broad understanding. This isn’t stuff you can reduce to statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:53 PM
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Concise, eloquent, and accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:37 PM
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My point was age, sex, location matter less than appearance (which you could derive age and sex from) but redditors like to hide behind cartoon character avatars. At least most people on instagram/facebook talking shit show who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:23 PM
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What someone looks like is far more important but you all want to remain anon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:23 AM
4

Those imitation meats. Literally made from soy/grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:04 AM
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Misogyny, incel, assault weapons, grape, abuse, manipulation, gender etc All words that no longer mean anything. Edit: forgot racism and phobia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:46 AM
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Women aren’t funny tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:25 AM
2

100% agree with most of your points. It’s a very messy situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:56 AM
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The problem isn’t regulation, but by who (whom?) anyway I’ve seen enough politicians make millions from war, corporate bailouts, GameStop’s, Boeings, etc to see the system is rigged against all Americans except a handful of elite. Regulations only apply to those not in power. Break the law and get fined a million while you profit billions. Story as old as “free” market capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:51 AM
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People think it’s weird that I’m libertarian. Like let people do what they want and stop taking my shit isn’t an extreme view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:09 AM
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I love public transit You unamerican weirdo. Stay out of the conservative area. We don’t need your kind here /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:08 AM
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I believe what Red Pillers are witnessing are mere symptoms of a much larger, over-arching problem. Totally reasonable and likely. Why I’ve also joined the “enjoy the decline” crew myself. This stuff isn’t sorting itself out in my lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:51 PM
2

Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:33 PM
2

I agree. They make up the majority of sexually available women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:43 PM
6

Well I have to completely agree with you on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:47 AM
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I got laid all the time as a toxic asshole. This idea that pErSoNaLiTy will help these guys is just offensively wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:22 AM
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No, having sex with over a hundred women has taught me personality is very low on the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:15 AM
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I’m getting brain damage trying to simply this already simple concept. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:54 AM
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Almost every woman I know would happily give most guys with a good personality a chance This is the only sentence you need to read to realize OP licks windows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:46 AM
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“I just see red and go bro” meme gets me every time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:03 PM
2

I’ll fight the fucking cartel before I fuck with a goose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:01 PM
4

That doesn’t change the delta. 10-3 and 20-3 is still a decline of 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:45 PM
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I don’t think that’s even debated between the pills? Casual sex has decreased among both sexes for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:50 PM
1

Cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:25 PM
1

In my experience it varies a lot depending on how much she wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:11 PM
1

This isn’t how relationships work. Again total lack of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:03 PM
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Being high quality has nothing to do with making mistakes. They might not make the same mistakes like dating jerks over and over but dude you can date someone for years and realize when you move in together that it’s just jot going to work out. This has nothing to do with quality and everything to do with experience. You comment for example, to me, shows a lack of experience as being a good person doesn’t guarantee a girl is snatched up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:18 AM
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Quality women who are supportive, thoughtful, peaceful, and joyous to be around usually are taken by 18. I don’t find this to be true at all. Few relationships work out. Just because she’s a good women doesn’t mean she’s compatible with every guy. You can’t communicate out certain differences. There are lots of women at all ages who fit your desired type
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:39 PM
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I said possible genetic link. Why are you sus bros so upset that there is a possibility sexuality has some basis in genetics. Jesus A. Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:59 PM
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Not sure if you’re being purposely obtuse or are that socially unaware
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:08 PM
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1) ENGAGE CONSTRUCTIVELY AT ALL TIMES. This means ensuring that ALL of your contributions here are constructive. Bro you clearly broke rule number 1. The sub is about sex positivity. I’m not saying I agree or don’t agree but cmon now. People are allowed to create whatever echo chambers they want. r/dating for example permabans for any shred of pill talk. It’s been a long time but other subs permaban you when you just subscribe to other subs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:46 PM
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Str8 facts. I could have used one or two in my youth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:22 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s just genetics anyhow. Only that there are signs that point to genetics playing a part. Take for example the findings about kids born to mothers who during birth lack nutrition. These children correlate with higher BMI in adulthood. This is only a single example but points to physical changes in the womb from external factors. It’s also obvious that upbringing physically changes the brain. So really it could be any combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:01 PM
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There were studies back in the ~60s where brain tissue cross sample of straight men and women and gay men were taken. Women and gay men had the same cellular structure in their hypothalamus iirc. Sadly at the time lesbian brains were not available. But this shows a pretty solid evidence for possible genetic reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:27 PM
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Posts like this turn men gay for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:24 PM
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I could definitely see it, but I know of zero other dudes in my camp personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:12 PM
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World hunger would be fixed too if those people just stopped eating and died.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:55 AM
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Exceptions don’t make the rule. I shouldn’t have to explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:20 AM
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I don’t date women who sleep around because I’ve slept around and interacted with women all across the spectrum and found that girls who are promiscuous are the worst kind of women to exclusively date. Perhaps the same is true for men who sleep around but I don’t fuck dudes and don’t have experience 🤷‍♂️ The hard for men easy for women reasoning just seems stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:22 PM
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Women only approach men much more attractive than them. Women aren’t approaching average men. Ask average men. There is a big difference between not wanting women around that hit on me, and understanding that the average women approaching handsome men are putting themselves in the position to be used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:43 PM
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I think most people agree OLD is harmful for men and women. They’ve made entire documentaries on Social Media and how it’s designed to make you upset
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:59 PM
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How is one feminist and redpill? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:14 PM
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I have personally seen a very large uptick. It used to be every few times I went out to now just about every time or multiple. It didn’t just increase in club scenes either. Women would give serious indicators of interest out and about but now they are at least say hi in passing. I’d say more likely this is a dissatisfaction with OLD. These women aren’t usual very pretty, and likely fit in men’s “sex only” category.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:05 PM
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I gotcha. If it helps I went from very few matches to like hundreds going from skinny fat to shredded. I lose like a full 2 points easy gaining as little as 25 lbs. It depends on your bones obviously, but unless your 8-9/10 you probably don’t have the jawline to overcome even a small amount of facial fat. Chris Pratt and Chris Evan’s are great examples. They can go from handsome 7s to very average with a little weight gain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:18 PM
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Same man. I find no “purpose” in my career personally. It is a means to an end. If I could just pick my life it would be 1) win the lottery and 2) spend my money buying a film studio to develop actually good live actions series of my favorite video games with with no regard to budget/profit. Then just sit back and watch the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:14 PM
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Like injury? I’m just curious btw. Not trying to prove a point or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:08 PM
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I don’t get it. I’m clapping her cheeks AND she bring in more money? Fuck me I’d be a stay at home husband. Id have the house clean and ESPN on by noon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:06 PM
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Sounds like you don’t care then? Not being fat is one of the most mutable traits there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:06 PM
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I care absolutely zero. My close friends opinions are much more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:59 PM
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Women still by and large want kids. To the point that I found it difficult to even meet women who don’t. The idea of this population collapse is just stupid. All theories point to population stability after a certain level of wealth, technology, and education like with Germany for instance. We are just used to see increase in population for all of recorded history (sans war casualties) 15 years ago the Green Party was fearmongering about over population. There will always be a doomer bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:13 PM
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Literacy 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:13 PM
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Dog lets both be honest, I’m doing better at everything in life than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:07 PM
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according to the red pill there is no such thing as luck and it's all what you do and your accomplishments. Bro what? People follow “according to the redpill” by some shit that has absolutely nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:05 PM
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I agree. There is even a subreddit about these glorious things. I think it’s just mounds iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:18 PM
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I’m aching for a new build but my flagship 980ti was less than a mid level card these days. A graphics card shouldn’t be 1.5-2x the cost of a console
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:10 PM
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Sigh* Many PPD posts get removed so I can’t wait to have my discussions stop half way through.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:08 PM
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Silo on Apple TV is 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:06 PM
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I don’t think so as usually there’s a green padlock. The thread was removed, but I could have sworn you could at least continue talking with people in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:03 PM
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I took shrooms one time and just stood in front of the mirror admiring my body as it morphed around. Some calm it vanity but I just call it loving yourself ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:52 PM
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Chadlet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:50 PM
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Is not being able to reply to comment sub threads after OP/Mods delete the main thread a new thing? Had discussions going with not-op and can’t reply after the post is removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:48 PM
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Women like men who are fit and not pushovers? Revolutionary. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:28 PM
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It’s called r/redpill and it’s banned/moderated to no longer allow most posts. Are you done crying bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:37 AM
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The thing is men don't lash out against women with their bad experiences This is so painfully wrong my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:55 PM
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This is the least likely crowd you need to convince that women are bad haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:05 AM
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Snacks? Try an entire loaf of bread and squeezable pb&j. You’re not impressing her with a candy bar Klondike or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:03 AM
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I agree but in the context of the original title the distinction is between men who can and can’t get sex. A involuntary celebate guy is going to give it away without explicitly saying it. The same way a fukboi would. https://tenor.com/view/40year-old-virgin-steve-carell-bagof-sand-gif-3437042 Edited as copy-paste mistake*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:47 PM
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Oh stfu dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:20 PM
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That’s certainly a fair take. Here we have more guns than people. Violence especially between two criminal groups is fairly common but is mostly centered around urban ghettos. “Mass shooting” ,defined more by public opinion than law, are events where one or more perpetrators intentionally kill unarmed victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:29 PM
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Can we just all agree the situation is fucked and done almost entirely for money/benefit the US haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:25 PM
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Iirc 3-4 dudes involved in gang violence shootout is considered “mass shooting” People aren’t walking into schools, malls, etc anywhere close to that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:20 PM
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Girls know who the chaste/desperate virgins are compared to the guys who have lots of sex. Those are two extremes on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:17 PM
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Not neurodivergent and think your compliment was totally normal. Weird that she got uncomfortable but obviously I wasn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:14 PM
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Repped EDM crew Fucked your mom crew
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:39 PM
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What’s frail? To me the below is ideal and any fatter is gross https://www.pinterest.com/pin/400116748126592904/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:30 PM
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That’s OPs point. Women will say they like a Dad bod and literally mean Jason Mamoa when he’s not camera ready. Or that they don’t like guys who are “too big” but Chris Hemsworth is “good” Women don’t like the 6% BF bodybuilders and that unachievable for 99.X percent of us steroids or otherwise haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 PM
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I’m being somewhat facetious but similar to the pill forums a lot of those people might be drawn to the space due to negative experiences with the opposite sex. Like the female version of redpill rage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:42 PM
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Can we just stop using two X as an example for anything other than a small minority of chronically online femcels who are batshit? It’s FDS moderated just enough not to be banned from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:37 PM
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You’re going to be a lot better off watching YouTubers who do live videos and breakdowns of cold approaching. Playing with Fire is good and the least gamey cringy PUA I know of. His pickup is just normal convos with girls. You should look at cold approaching not as a way to game or seduce women but to be friendly and have them drop their guard. It sounds dumb but really you’re just trying to make her think “ok this guy is totally normal and funny and probably won’t murder me” You’re not going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:55 PM
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Str8 facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:21 PM
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Over like a hundred lunch/dinner dates I can’t say I’ve ever felt this happen to me. Could it have? Perhaps, but it’s not prevalent enough for me to worry about. I’ve been catfished enough times though and it’s absolutely not worth sitting across from someone you’re not attracted to for a free meal haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:19 PM
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You don’t care but you’re upset. Ok The point is for the men reading. Women like being approached. Some get butthurt like you but you aren’t worth worrying about. I don’t care to block people on Reddit unless they are harassing my DMs which I’ve never had happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:34 AM
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I’m not calling you a liar. Just that you’re the minority. Women generally don’t mind being approached and only complain when the guy is below their league. To be honest you come of as a massive bitch and I don’t mean that as an ad hom. I mean it more as your lens of the world towards men is probably more negative. The way you speak to the other commenter is very telling by the way you are so upset by something as simple as someone simply talking to you in a public space. Similarly your friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:09 AM
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To me it speaks more about their interest level than their personality. High interest women are much more enjoyable to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:53 PM
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I like feminine women but find women who put in effort and make the first move to be extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:27 PM
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200 iq
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:03 PM
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I might fit into their demographic (tall, attractive, high income) but see two issues 1) As you stated if I’m this “HVM” getting lots of matches on mainstream apps why tf would I jump through hoops for a girl who is…to my second point 2) The women are probably low quality. I don’t mean just unattractive either. Women who are perpetually on OLD seem to have the same complaints about men on these appts giving me the impression these women are the common denominator. The “where have all the good me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:01 PM
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I’ve had positive results approaching women reading, headphones in etc. More neutral and few negative. You being butthurt puts in you in the minority. If men listen to women like you they would have missed out on all the positives (number dates etc) and even the neutral interactions like being politely rejected and learning to handle that rejection externally and internally .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:36 PM
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B not even a second thought. You lost me at bitch and I was already out the door at 4/10 for girl a lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:11 AM
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Bro move the fuck on god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:04 AM
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I only agree with 4 but that also you should stay healthy as a man. The internet had an issue where the most offensive things tend to get the most views. This pushes content creators to slowly push the envelope and repeat the more outrageous opinions. Playing with Fire is probably the only Repiller who isn’t off his rocker. He’s very nuanced etc. most of his content is PUA but a lot of his older videos are about hypergamy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:53 PM
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There is so much cope and anger from dudes in the comments here lol. BuT hAvE yOu sEEn mOst GiRls OnLiNe? Most women’s profiles make them look like skanks but they at least look attractive. The girl half naked sitting on the sink with her ass out is at least sexually arousing. Most men have horrible profiles and I tease my friends about theirs all the time. On multiple occasions I’ve had weekend where I’ve worked with friends to get great picture and it’s transformed their match and date rate. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:43 PM
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Can you link any of those articles. I always had thought it’s better for a man to be “adored” in a relation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:07 PM
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Gay prostitution isn’t booming lmao. Maybe in Thailand haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:30 PM
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Men can’t really prostitute themselves out as there isn’t enough demand, even in places where it legal. In regards to prostitution the real and actual victims of violent crime and assault end up being women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:58 AM
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The issue people have with prostitution is it’s not uncommon for women in disadvantaged situations to somewhat or 100% be forced into it. The risk of degeneracy when sex is involved is very high even in situations where it is legal. In contrast the girl firing up tinder isn’t looking for some guy so desperate for money or drugs that he will fuck her for 50$ For the sake of this discussion we are obvisously taking about legal sex work. You can’t just say that. The whole point is people dislike pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:14 PM
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The average woman in the United States weighs the same as me. The average person, male or female, isn’t winning lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:45 PM
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Nine times out of ten the guy will say ok or “No I got it” Stop trying to make mountains out of molehills lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:56 PM
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Speaking from experience from exes this is just not true. The eye area is the most important feature on men and women for attractiveness. Some foundation under the eyes, eyeliner, and mascara alone give the eye a completely different shape. It’s not going to fix a very bad feature but most people have average features.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:41 PM
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This is just not true. Sure there is different tastes but even babies recognize beautiful faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:06 PM
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There are a lot of attractive women who look plain af without makeup. I still think plain women look ok, it’s just that a 4-5/10 girl can look decent in makeup whereas a man does not have that tool. If no woman wore makeup ever most people would agreed averageness and even unattractiveness is the default human. Additionally of all the data that shows women find most men unattractive, they don’t account for the fact men are fucking terrible at presenting themselves in pictures and that’s where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:59 PM
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Hmm, I can’t say I have any particular striking features. Most often would definitely be comments about my teeth. I will say I had a phase where I wore fake glasses and was always hearing the Clark Kent/Superman references lmao, even from dudes sometimes. Your nudes comment made me lol so bad. I swear I had to delete snap as I would 100% cheat on my gf (not srs) because I would randomly have girls send me nudes like “come fuck me”. Usually it was girls I’d had gone on dates with or slept with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:44 PM
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I have the same experience down to the 7-7.5 face and 8 body lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:18 PM
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It was part of a greater study over multiple days and in person meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:06 PM
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Honestly looking back I don’t think it was very obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:23 PM
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I was being satirical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:48 PM
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You look lot bigger than 170 ngl Thanks brah 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:30 PM
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She’s just a bitch dude lol. I don’t usually ad hom but all their comments have FDS vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:13 AM
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Never was a fan of multiple girls. I’d find one where the sex was awesome and just keep that going casually. I would always be clear about it being casual but the girls would fall in love anyway. I don’t understand how guys keep FWB relationships going without the girls falling in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:05 AM
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Im 6’ and 170lbs in my avatar. A 5’8 dude at 185 is either significantly overweight or a fucking U N I T
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:28 AM
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Bro this is just absurd. If you’re 4/10 AND below 5’9 then it’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:25 AM
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I agree there are some potentially glaring issues. The wording is vague and confusing. I mentioned in another comment about how 15 of ~100 women gave themselves a 1/8 which makes no sense. That’s deformed territory. One could say women find men less attractive than other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:20 AM
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They did self ratings on how “sexually attractive “ they were something like 36-76. Was a bit odd. Then had face to face interactions at some point. Then they were asked to rate “natural beauty” on a scale of 1-8. My understanding is they used this verbiage as not all participants were straight or the same age. Overrate would be if you have yourself a 5 and all the women (and maybe men too) rated you lower. The study was worded a bit badly imo. I saw some potentially glaring issues with it as me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:16 AM
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TikTok’s where women rate themselves a 10 isn’t “broad observation” User bias is huge. Stop being solipsistic I even mentioned one major issue with the study. It’s not black and white but your OP has no credible data to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:52 AM
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All the studies done men rate themselves higher. They also tend to rate women and men higher when they have higher self perceived levels of attractiveness. This is not true for women. One thing I’d like to point out is in this study 15 out of ~100 women rated themselves as a 1/8. I do think this points to a huge issue in the study as 1/8 is extremely unattractive. It could point to an issue of understanding the scale. A common thing I see for example is people rate themselves 7/10 thinking that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:26 AM
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https://liberalarts.oregonstate.edu/sites/liberalarts.oregonstate.edu/files/psychology/research/sim_saperia_brown_bernieri_2015_cogent_psychology_2_99616_publication.pdf The full study.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:21 AM
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Im that 30 your old dude pulling college girls in bars. But they are 21+ here. Honestly easier than when I was in my 20s. I was ALSO the 21 year old who dated a 40+ yr old rich divorced milf. More for the novelty. Good times either way. Who gives af what women from Reddit think. It’s socially acceptable for women (and men) to shame and call you immature or a creep for going after younger women. Sans the grandpas trying to “hey pretty young lady” situation, older women get butthurt when attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:32 PM
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Haha dude I rocked fierce so hard for many years in high/primary school. I remember always getting it as bday/Christmas presents. I still vaguely remember how the bottle had a guy with abs that you could see through the liquid. They used to mist that scent in the stores I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:38 PM
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What are you favorite scents? Personally vibe with the Victoria Secret Very Sexy and Aqua Di Parma Green bottle. The Aqua Di Parma is one of the more unique scents I’ve found.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:30 PM
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You need to seriously get out of your comfort zone with women. Your inexperience is going to cause you to be nervous/needy around girls you like and you’re going to ruin your chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:31 PM
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Op you are so butthurt about a girl you claim you weren’t even close to. You made a long winded Reddit post and are heavily replying to the comments. You’ve mentioned on more than once me that you aren’t a “horny American”. If you’re studying I college you should be waking up with raging hard ons and be horny ever fucking day. You wreak of low testosterone. Stop playing monopoly and go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:14 PM
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The redpill generally feels men and women can’t be friends. Commenters here are inferring that the BF in this situation is behaving like a redpiller by saying she shouldn’t have male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:11 PM
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I’d argue the exception to men and women being friends is when the dude is the type who doesn’t drink and plays monopoly lmao. Playing Catan drunk is both objectively and morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:04 PM
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Pizza Ranch comes in a close second
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:20 PM
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I tell dudes all the time to just go on dates with girls you might not be really into until you find one that’s super into you and makes everything effortless. You’ll never put up with a wishy washy girl again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:58 PM
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Same brah. But more so my fave matured and I got jacked. Women go from liking you if you click to lusting you even if they don’t “like” you. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:57 PM
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Yeah man I’d say getting baby trapped in a relationship is probably 98% of the risk. False me2 the rest. There is a STD test for literally every single known STD. This isn’t a concern. “Let’s both get checked before sex” 250$ later and you’re fine. All people are having less sex and becoming more individualistic which most conflate with narcissism. Idk what you’re on about mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:45 AM
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Men who dont "like" women are still successful with them despite what people claim on here. Yeah dog you’re really missing the point here. Attractive and high status men will always get women. That doesn’t make their shitty behavior attractive. They get laid in spite of not because. It may be true that most women (or people) don’t make good wife’s/parents and are low quality. But do you really think the small subset of high quality women are going to go for a dickhead? You’ll never get the best …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:39 AM
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Would you have preferred to stay childfree? Try and compartmentalize your feelings towards your kids. Think more of “would 27 year old you prefer to have stayed single or 2 kids and divorced. Make good money, but see none of it. cortisol levels are high due to stress of single parenting. dad-bod, hairy body, thinning hair. Parenting and chores eat up 70% of my time. Obv copy/paste. I’m about to get the snip and most of my closest circle have confided that having children was a lot of work with l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:24 AM
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I can agree in some contexts. Especially TOO interested. To the point of coming off as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:16 PM
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The actual role of DHT post puberty is argued and most studies on DHT study 5ars not DHT itself. 5ars are correlated with lower libido and ED but there have been no causative analysis on DHT. The same way smoking is correlated with lung cancer but it’s also correlated with being poor. Poor people have lower health outcomes. It is only in follow up analysis to remove the variables of income do you get the correct data on lung cancer. To date I have seen no study that directly investigated DHT wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:13 PM
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Bro this is so absurd it hurts to read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:45 PM
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Haha did you just gloss over the second half? I directly said that kind of behavior is cringe and the likely reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:28 PM
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“I don’t have a single example” Exactly bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:26 PM
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No stranger is worth getting shot over. Too many people illegally carrying around weapons in the US. I’m not getting involved unless she’s my girl. IMO it’s just men trying to talk up their sex. The same way soft dudes like Kevin Samuals talk about how men have built the world. It’s not that they didn’t physically, but there is a sense of proudness/superiority behind that sentence. A “look what men have done” It’s cringe af taking pride in the things ones sex does or doesn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:23 PM
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Can you provide a single documented case where very simple data is logged before and during FIN usage. Such as body composition, diet, basic male hormone profile where an individual who otherwise has fairly normal free T, SHGB, and e2 experiences sexual sides from FIN. Because I’ve NEVER seen a single one. Only bloodwork from PFS dudes after getting off FIN. I researched FIN a lot before getting on because of the “risks” and concluded myself the above explains why some men get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:57 PM
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It’s not a coincidence at all. DHT binds heavily to the prostate to signal prostate fluid production. This has nothing to do with libido. Similarly androgens cause spermegenisis in the tested. Also not related to libido. You likely are overweight, don’t lift, eat like shit, etc and have also never had bloodwork. Do you even know your free T and e2 before and while on FIN. I never said it can’t or doesn’t cause something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:29 PM
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Sorry not being available doesn’t make you more attractive to men with options. You’re personal views towards my attractiveness don’t change the number of options I have. If anything it just solidifies my view. Meaning I don’t need a harem of women chasing me to blow of low interest girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:13 PM
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I can imagine 19 year old me with few options perusing women like this. Having lots of options now it seems silly. There is probably no bigger turn off to me than competing with other men for the same girl. If people lose interest in you after you show interest back they were never actually interested. I’m assuming you’re just mid not ugly not super hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:54 PM
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Find people who are similar to you that have what you want and asks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:43 PM
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They don’t if you have a healthy endocrine balance. Most guys are fat and eat like shit, poor sleep etc. Hair loss meds actually raise testosterone. The libido issue is from increase estrogen mixed with the lifestyle factors above that lower testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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As a dude I don’t really give a shit about the types of girls that would be considering AI boyfriends either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:32 PM
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imagining him being taken by another man This points to the stigmas/feelings people have about gay male sex. It’s not a literal meaning. No one is imagining the fine detail. I should have been more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:51 PM
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Yeah my mistake connecting sex and sexuality /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:38 PM
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The stigmas attached to gay men particularly around being flamboyant are going to make her feel a certain way regardless of the sexual acts. I’ve never really sat down and talked about it though so this is pure speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:46 PM
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Bro Diabla was fucking wild before they went private. I always knew some women were ruthless but GOD DAMN.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:39 PM
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For me I’d like to start a YT channel on the subject so its great to get topic ideas and see different ways of looking at the same thing. Many are here to self serve their bias or vent though. Very little nuance or real world experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:36 PM
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Those are acquaintances. Like the people you go out to eat with and party with. The guys you know from work you go golfing with. For me that’s 95% of my circle. I got 2-3 bröthers I’d be cool breaking down in front of or comforting if they did in front of me. There is still competition but it come from wanting your friends to do better. You just don’t have a friendship like this. Hope you find it tho man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:34 PM
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Women can’t love men they don’t respect and many if not most women can’t respect a man after imagining him being taken by another man. This might change as stigmas change. The same way I am 100% for equal rights and respect for same sex couples and can have a friendly conversation with gay men at clubs, but at the end of the day I do feel negatively towards men who sleep with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:16 PM
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I can see if you read that hard into a very surface comment it’s a bit over your head. When you are at least a 6th grade reading level try researching dopamine as a start. Good luck bud
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:22 PM
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It is a strong word to use. However in the same severity these people talk about porn addiction I would say the vast majority of people with cellphones are “addicted” to their phones. I did a 90 day social media fast and realized just how fucking retarded most people look switching between apps on their phone. Having to get their phones out every 5 mins to open 6 apps for a chance of a bright red notification. The point is your phone and porn are designed to “addict” you as much as possible and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:41 PM
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Agreed except Lena Dunham was always unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:29 PM
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Making a fake profile and talking to dudes is so cringe. Get a life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:14 PM
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Bro the comments have me dying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:28 PM
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Haha same
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:33 AM
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Had flings with some women in their 40s. If they are still hot I their 40s they usually grown up with really positive views of the world and are a lot of fun. Super feminine etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:51 PM
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Our journeys are wildly similar. Except I used gear like a real man srs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:31 PM
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Even the player boys everyone talks about know how to get a women comfortable with them before having sex I find it very interesting how accurate your take on this is with no sexual experience of your own. I’ve always argued how you make a woman feel is everything and with regards to sex making her feel safe is the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:16 PM
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Sauce? I don’t have TT and have no idea what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:57 PM
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That’s a terrible way to talk about your mother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:28 PM
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I have an extremely high n count. My experience has shown that women who have higher body counts are a lot more likely to have bad LTR traits. They are more neurotic, self-centered, argumentative, and take greater risks. They are less likely to be “romantics” and giving in a relationship. Simply put high n women don’t seem to value relationships as much as lower n women. This is only my anecdotal experience. The above may be true for high n men. It’s just that society doesn’t stigmatize men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:16 PM
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Lmao my dude of all the infections a pussy can have you list one that’s not even sexually transmitted as a jab to women who sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:02 PM
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Settling is ok as none of us here probably fly around in private jets. However problems arise when you settle to avoid unhappiness vs settle to gain happiness. Settling with someone to avoid being lonely isn’t the same as settling with someone who brings you happiness even though you might think their smile is a little goofy and they have a flat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:21 PM
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Human make decisions based on emotion and later try to rationalize those decisions with logic. This has easily been proven at least as it relates to sales. I speculate it applies to many aspects of human behavior. My disagreement is that this has nothing to do with women. It is not a gendered issue. Attraction is not a choice. Men don’t become bumbling idiots around gorgeous women because they choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:45 PM
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Read “A billion Wicked Thoughts” You couldn’t be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:45 PM
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I’d imagine it’s not much different than most single people or even couples without kids. She probably lives a normal life. Makes herself modest meals, watches entertainment on TV or upkeeps her home most days. Maybe she babysits her families kids for extra money. She might volunteer in her community. She probably has some sort of hobby that she likes like gardening, yoga, art etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:28 PM
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Lmao it’s so funny people have opinions on celebrity relationships. Like what’s your source GQ? Outta jere with your SAHM gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:40 PM
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Exactly, what I just described isn’t the complex but the actual reason Redpill men feel the way they do about promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:31 PM
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Not really. For men that care about sexual history they want a woman that’s only sexually open with them. I’ve never in one instance heard a man complain his gf/wife is too sexual with him. Only that his gf/wife was too sexual with men before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:11 PM
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Yeah perhaps. I slayed really hard in latin America too but I think that’s JBW at play. It may just be my bias but people in Scandinavian region are on average more attractive too. So a chad sticks out less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:29 PM
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Culture and geo location could definitely make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:21 PM
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I had women approach me regularly in clubs to the point my cold approach was pretty awful. I had fairly high approach anxiety for a long time. This never really impacted me. Eventually my strategy was to just stand the farthest away from the bathrooms and meet eyes with women when I walked through the crowd to piss. That’s it. They would lock eyes and smile or say hi. I can’t disagree more that my experience of minding my own business and enjoying my friends and having only the most interested w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:13 PM
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See my bullet points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:33 PM
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You completely failed to mention that in your scenario the child isn’t the man’s. In your scenario its either no sex and raising someone else’s kid or sex and no kids. I literally am dumber for reading such a bad and purposely misrepresented conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:11 AM
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It was more tongue in cheek, but my past experience with low quality women makes me appreciate my current one more. The same way detasseling all summer for 400$ as a kid makes me appreciate making that sitting at home at my desk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:48 PM
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My gf wouldn’t know I’m hot shit if she didn’t date other guys before me 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:10 PM
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My experience with women redpilled me. Most women don’t make good partners. This is probably true for men as well but I don’t date men. We are animals with messy emotions and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:56 PM
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Firstly I think men can always do better, but…The issue stems from the differences between men and woman and when you involve online dating. Men are willing to sleep with women they don’t desire. Women can get online and get massive attention from men that don’t desire them. You could say men should just stop fucking women they don’t like, sure but that’s like telling a child not to be curious. It goes against very instinctual behavior and can cause negative outcomes. Your counter would be to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:48 PM
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Most men who say this Haven’t actually dated corporate women Don’t earn enough to be primary breadwinners Have low SMV and a career woman has options Think women don’t financially help in relationships because they are natural simp/beta providers who let their girl walk over them OR have no real relationship experience The reality is most men are looking for women in the same socioeconomic status as them. In most relationships men and women provide fair amounts to bills based on income. Usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:00 PM
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Right, but the post and this whole sub is centered around dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:25 AM
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If you asked 100 people if their dating success would increase or decrease if they had top/bottom surgery or dressed as the opposite gender most would say decrease. There simply aren’t the same number of people who are gay/bi or date trans people than their are straight people who date the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:06 AM
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I’m wrong. The other comments didn’t point that direction. Do you feel better now sweetheart?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:02 PM
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Im saying it’s clear from OPs other comments the children are yours, but you no longer sleep with your wife. In this hypothetical scenario you have biological children in a sexless marriage. You aren’t raising adopted or her children. That’s wall I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:12 PM
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A HVM is a man other men want to emulate and women want to be with. This not only spans cultures but history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:05 PM
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Facts lmao. Even with gear it takes years to be a sickkent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:52 PM
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They are your kids, but you’re in a sexless marriage. Most dead bedrooms the couples were have sex before obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:40 PM
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Sam man. Like half these famous insta hoes have chunky looking asses. Cellulite Sally’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:57 PM
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I like small/perky boobs and very lean women. If a woman is thin and maybe runs or does some heavy squat work that’s really all she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:00 AM
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Dudes really out here in 1br apartments or their parents house trying to tell moms/women they don’t work when most families are struggling to make ends meet on 2 incomes smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:51 AM
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They are just a bunch of taters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:12 AM
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Did some research. Sound like you’re right. Very interesting such complex behavior can simply be pure instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:35 AM
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Get out of your feels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:21 PM
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That’s definitely possible but doesn’t align with the energy of OPs post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:26 PM
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There is both societal conditioning and differences in men and women that can lead men to more often be working longer hours and women more often be taking care of households and children. This discrepancy has no relevance to a woman working full time who also has full household duties. That’s the issue. Women working 3 days a week on the side (since our economy is fucked and single income families in many cases are not possible) aren’t the ones complaining that they are doing most household cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:48 PM
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I already know that based on your poor decisions dog
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:26 PM
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You’re description of her has abort mission written all over it. This is the epitome of turning a hoe into a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:44 PM
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I’ve always said you don’t know a woman until you’ve dumped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:37 PM
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Alpha males of many species will kill cubs of females if they don’t think the children are theirs. Ensuring paternity isn’t only a human thing. They are aware that mating leads to conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:36 PM
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I’m a hair under 6” and I made your mum cum last night 🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 06:56 PM
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The same way society looks at a rich old man getting finessed by a sugar baby I look at the situation with Tristan. This girl dated Tristan for a week or two iirc. Are we really going to call it manipulation? If anything men here should take note. A girl is crying over a man years later after a 2 week encounter. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. How you make a woman feel is everything and deep down this girl still wants Tristan. Never heard of the Charleston White guy before th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah same. There are occasionally decent takes but it’s mostly trolling and rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:07 AM
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I’ve looked (at mine) The only ones deleted included ad homs or things about race. I’ve also seen that anytime a parent comment is deleted they scorched earth the whole chain likely to save time so maybe it’s not just your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:05 AM
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I can see this is going nowhere. Have a good rest of your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:03 PM
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I disagree. I’ve never had an issue besides having obvious ad homs deleted and told to “be civil” You can look at r/allpilldebate and find that unmoderated reddits on this topic just become incel echo chambers and rants. Those echo chambers have a history of become banned by Reddit, not the moderators.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:58 PM
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It’s not a comparison. I used an example that I thought you would agree with and it appears you did. So now we have some level ground where we both agree abusive man is a bad option. We both agree a woman who left this man isn’t living in fear. Now back to OPs example. Some men here may interpret that this woman didn’t actually find god. That she is using this story as a tactic to convince/coerce OP into marriage by withholding sex. It’s also possible that the woman only sees this man as a safe …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:51 PM
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For men in the manosphere which is many cases is men who have struggling in some way with women. Seeing a situation like this raises eyebrows. Similarly to you not thinking 6 months “fixes” an abusive man 6 months isn’t usually the timeline of someone finding Jesus and getting into a godly relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:32 PM
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You’re trying to put percentages on things that IMO vary too much to discuss as such. We can say that improving physical appearance, your financial situation, status, and charisma will improve your chances. By how much is an impossible question. A 22 yr old party girl is going to likely care much less about your finances when you can go to a college party for 10$. That same girl may switch to status when she’s 25 and finances when she’s 30. Not only do you have differences between age groups but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:25 PM
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While I agree TRP overhypes the occurrence of situations like this, but would you keep the same energy were this a woman posting about marrying a man who was abusive to his last gf 6 months prior but found Jesus/therapy and is fixed now? The vast majority of women imo would tell her to run away. You may counter by saying being abusive is not the same thing as being promiscuous. While I agree choosing a bad partner in the context of a marriage can lead to many years of a depressive and anxiety in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:12 PM
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Everyone’s relationship is different but I’d only ever approve of the dynamic where she is chaste and I’m the guy she breaks the rules for ow somewhere in a middle ground. The extreme you posted is just covert cuck LARPing TRP says some dumb stuff but setting rules for betas and breaking them for alphas is spot on in my personal experience. The found Jesus situation is unique. Really it’s down to questioning her motive. Did she find Jesus or was the guy she slept with 6 months prior to the last …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:00 PM
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You’re just making shit up now
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 05:25 PM
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Can you give examples of things you didn’t think about? I’m curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:51 PM
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Women break up with men more because they have more options. Have you been in an adult relationship? Your steps are so foreign to me. That’s not how relationships evolve imo.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:35 PM
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Your entire understanding of dating and relationships comes from only the lens of a woman. when you say, do better, really you just want me to act more like women. Your idea of morality is based off of female behavior. The idea of “good men” are men who only sleep with women they would be in a relationship with is just ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:57 PM
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Then you fundamentally, don’t understand men, so I’m not sure why you’re here trying to debate topics on intersexual dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:36 PM
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Yea some women are attractive enough to fuck but not enough to date. As an engineer you should understand this isn’t rocket science .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:28 PM
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This is TRP right here. Dude understands the world and the cards given to him, isn’t jaded, and pivots and improves where needed. You’re gana make it braj
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:36 PM
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I’ve never been friendzoned but I’ve certainly put a lot of women in the fuck zone. Usually it was for looks or because they had some quality that really bothered me. As an example there was this girl who I’d consider like an 8+ but she had bad breath. The thing about the fuck zone is women typically know when they are in it and try really hard to get out of it. They initiate sex a lot or buy sexy lingerie. They make obvious attempts to please you. Overall they are just down to do whatever you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:18 PM
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It’s biology. Men protect society while at the same time are the main threat to society. Similarly the reason men built societies was to organize protection from these male threats. Women and weaker men throughout all of human history, have been at the mercy of the strongest men. It may be easy to argue something like “we wouldn’t need protection if men didn’t exist” While technically true we as humans wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for the biological nature of men. The same is true for women. Rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:54 PM
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or how it's defined in criminal law. This. We can’t be fluid on topics this serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:36 PM
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Sophisticated, elegant, classy, but still sexy. For me blouse, skirt, and high heels are a top tier combo. https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-4da8ac88e54c715b95a2014f4702097b-lq
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:24 PM
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I’ve caught a woman’s gaze from across the room and not taken my eyes off her as I walk across said room. What’s creepy, to women, is talking about them in this whey (as prey). I realize this makes sense however it’s a great example of how men who hyper analyze and over logic romance come across as weird. It’s not attractive. To some degree women do like men who “just get it” because it’s the opposite of this robotic behavior that’s not sexy. This is what happens when someone researches how to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:53 PM
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Being a chad is what redpilled me. It was all just PUA stuff before then. When you see that side of women so persistently it’s impossible not to.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 06:24 PM
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If I was 35+ I would primarily date this type of women. I want a women with a stable career, friendly, and doesn’t want or have kids. For a lot of men with kids that don’t want more this woman would be extremely desirable too imo. In a vacuum all else equal a 25 yr old is more desirable than a 35 yr old but people don’t date in a vacuum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:42 PM
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8 makes it in the face but she’s still too pudgy for me. She might look ok now but 10 yrs of gravity and continued eating habits nah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:17 PM
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I used to get hundreds of matches but maybe 1/25 edit* make it 1/50 would message me first. I stopped going on dates with women who didn’t message me first and it was the best decision ever. If I didn’t get hundreds of matches to filter for women who message me first I wouldn’t even use OLD except for Bumble. It’s just not good mentally for most guys. Women’s abundance on OLD is unmatched lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:53 PM
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Not if you enjoy sticking your dick in crazy amiright Also most of the women I know on “meds” are normal girls with an addy prescription they take occasionally for work. I seriously question the stats around mental illness and med usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:05 PM
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A woman who’s dated degenerate dudes is a deal breaker for me. Ex cons, dudes who wear their waistband below their asshole etc. Admittedly I don’t have to deal with these women usually as I’m a pretty boi. Still past relationships are probably one of the best predictors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:01 AM
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You’re through with a woman who doesn’t want a full on kiss after knowing you a few hours? I’ve gone on enough lukewarm dates. Based on my own experiences a girl who isn’t interested enough to kiss me isn’t worth taking on a second date. She might get a pass if she initiates another date and comes to my place so I can make her dinner. Maybe she’s demisexual or takes a while to open up, but I don’t care. Only that women who feel instant visceral chemistry with me are the ones that make dating fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:53 PM
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There is nothing irrational about not wanting to fuck a girl with a dick or a woman’s who’s BMI puts her into the severely unhealthy category.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:37 PM
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I’ve never gone on a second date and not eventually slept with said girl. I think incompatibilities are usually pretty glaring on a first date unless you get coffee for an hour. If you make it past the first date usually she’s pretty interested as woman typically have lots of other options. It’s not out of the realm of possibility he talked her out of liking him, but imo it’s much more common for there to be no sexual tension and I think building that is really on the man. If you fail at buildin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:23 PM
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Let her reign you in a bit. It’s good when she does that, and you’re cool with it. That was a really good way to put it. It has to be flirty and fun obviously. Which is that nuanced part that’s hard to get across on this medium. Experienced guys will know what we’re talking about. It’s that flirty resistance a woman gives you as a playful tease. Inexperienced guys might see it more as as the AF/BB scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:18 PM
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I’m not arguing with an anon internet tough guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:44 PM
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In 2023 men aren’t allowed to criticize woman without being deemed a misogynist. Men support each other by criticizing faults. I saw a good friend recently and commented how fat he’s getting. Then I see him posting pictures of his workout regimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:25 PM
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Bro stop I have 17.5” arms when I’m shredded. You’re just fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:12 PM
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Ope, I included an extra sentence from your reply. But to answer your question. I can with women I really like, but I can have purely primal sex too. Similarly to making out with a girl at a club or kissing on the couch with my gf. Same thing but emotional different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:10 PM
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That’s apart of being a man. We criticize eachother more openly. Women are more likely to blow smoke up each others asses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:03 PM
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This is very accurate but I would bump the range to 1-3 dates. The higher her initial attraction the longer timeframe you have. Women want to be in a romance. It’s the man’s job to make sex happen. Personally I go for a kiss goodnight minimum on the first date. If she pulls away or gives me the cheek she doesn’t get a second date. The best relationships were from women who wanted to jump my bones half way through the first date but held back a little. Not structured girls with things like 5 date…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:01 PM
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I weight 170-180lbs at 6’ so overweight women are physically thicker than me and that’s just such a turn off. I shoot for the 100-120 pounders that I can toss around. I’ve been with maybe 2-3 chubby girls and find their body is so unappealing. Not to mention feeling their physical weight when they are on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:43 PM
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They can fuck a different woman each week for a year and then have absolutely no trouble at all with bonding permanently and completely to his spouse. Only women feel any love and emotional attachment during sex. This is me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:33 PM
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For dudes with no game, confidence, physique or career getting those things in your late 20s is going to improve your dating life. I don’t understand how you can think otherwise. But women settle. Yeah they settle for beta fucking losers. Why do you think TRP has such an emphasis on only dating women with a true burning desire for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:23 PM
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I can roll with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:09 PM
9

I see a lot of comments in here about how it’s on a spectrum and/or it’s for the couple to decide and set boundaries. While I agree, the reality is ANY boundary a man sets on his partner as it relates to her sexuality/body is instantly met with comments about the man being insecure, controlling, and how that’s toxic masculinity/misogyny. While women are free to be liberated skanks. My advice is to set whatever boundaries you want. If posting promiscuous pics is more important to her than making …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:12 PM
5

I’d never date a girl that humored orbiters. All the dudes from your story would sleep with said girl. I can’t imagine having such low T that I’m not horny sleeping next to a woman. It’s like being around good food and not being hungry, it’s a natural response. Women make good acquaintances, conversations, certain advice etc so I’m not saying you can’t have platonic friendships. But sharing a bed and 1-on-1 dinners nah. The same way women here get the ick when a 40yr old man dates a young woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:46 PM
1

lol stay mad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:01 PM
2

Yeah I guess you’re right. These just aren’t things I have to deal with as a man with basic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:14 PM
1

Yes. It negates any ad hom arguments people like to use here during debates. “Well you’re probably just ugly” Like a tenured professor has social proof in that social hierarchy being attractive has the same impact in the dating hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:37 PM
1

I do because my child support payments would be like 3k a month
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:28 PM
30

This was true before online dating gave women inflated perceptions of their value. An average girl can get hundreds of matches. An average man gets table scraps. Admittedly most men’s profiles are dogshit. (Edit: pm me honestly really enjoy helping guys with their profile) I’m the dude who gets 250 likes in the first 24hrs on OLD. I’m not sure I’ve ever even gone on a date with a woman who was on my level attractiveness except outside the US. However I didn’t have a problem attracting these wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:21 PM
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I’ve had “okay” sex but never bad, and I’m experienced enough that I can find the clitoris with the back of my knee. But seriously idk how someone can have bad sex. If she doesn’t know how to move flip her on her stomach and shove her face into the pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:00 PM
1

I’m not sure we are disagreeing then? I’m saying men often portray that they like a woman, when they don’t, in order to get sex. That it’s totally normal for a woman to feel like a guy lied to her for sex. Also that it’s a totally catch 22 for men to say things like “pick better” Women who don’t filter are used for sex and women who put up a wall are unavailable and not fun to go on dates with. It’s very difficult for a woman to find a balance especially after negative interactions with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:43 PM
3

Seems pretty sus to all the sudden not like a girl after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:22 AM
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You’re very sexually inexperienced. Men put on many kinds of front to sleep with a girl only to not call her back or set up another date. Like blatantly saying “I’m looking for something serious” and not feeling that way. Like 75% of the women I’ve slept with were after first dates that I wasn’t feeling too well but figured hey might as well. I’m horny and we’re at her place. Lying about your intentions is gross though. I never had to lie, I just treated the girls well and they wanted to sleep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:38 PM
4

I’m weird af too but the halo effect is undefeated. Most women think it’s “quirky”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:26 PM
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The redpill will indoctrinate you! (Fear) The redpill is bullshit and has taken advantage of you by twisting your social anxiety and lack of success with women (Anger) But there is professional help available (soothing) See how silly* you sound hyper analyzing such simple things. People like sensationalism. This is true for everything on the internet. Edit: mean words
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:50 PM
1

Alpha is a socially constructed word to describe someone who has the power to do what they want and do it. Every dude wants to be alpha. No one sits on their death bed and thinks to themselves “I’m glad I didn’t become the man I wanted to be” People look way too hard into this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:55 PM
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As a dude this is my experience too. Though my role was “stand with us so guys don’t try and dance with us” Anyway It was fairly common for girls I’m my social circles to ask other girls for backup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:50 PM
5

I want to say Tinder and Bumble have specific ToS about not sharing member info outside the application. Having a GoFund me created to capture users info sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen. Personally I would not mess with a company that has hundreds of thousands of dollars to throw at a legal suit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:38 PM
4

Bro this is literally one of my favorite fucking things. The fact that there is a word for this just made my day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:33 PM
1

Stop grasping so hard at things to be upset about. It’s pathetic. This thread has no relation to my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:25 PM
1

He was a guy who was popular on the bodybuilding dot come Misc forums. Was an outspoken bodybuilders very polarizing like the Tate brothers. He died in a sauna from a heart condition a few years back but a lot of guys still admire and talk about him today. He said “Don’t be a sad cunt be a sick cunt” a lot (Australian) and “you’re gana make it brah” Sort of his mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:04 AM
0

Yeah I was totally agreeing. I think I commented before it was flared CMV. Traits I look for in no particular order - Gracious - Likes Trad roles - Sees us as a team - Likes to give in a relationship (I do too) - Not liberal (not conservative either like more libertarian) - Good with money - No promiscuous social media -childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:58 AM
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Yeah, she’s still beautiful and fits one of my “types” Great body too. Most guys would kill to date her. I’ve just dated women more at my level and was more willing to compromise on looks than personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:51 AM
1

She is beautiful, a lot prettier than most. I don’t drive a Ferrari, doesn’t mean I’m settling driving an 80k vehicle. It’s called appreciation. I don’t complain about AF/BB or a woman settling for me as I’m the chad these guys complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:46 AM
8

Haha yep, highlighter orange cover. I’d post a link but Reddit bots sometimes don’t like advertisements.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:28 PM
7

I’m dating a nerdy cute girl and would consider myself in probably the upper 5% looks wise. Hotter version of Tim Tibow if I say so myself. Or a budget brand Henry Cavill. I’ve dated prettier women and just found the rarity of finding a 8+ woman with the traits I look for in a LTR. I’m very satisfied with my choice in choosing a girl who’s cute but not gorgeous who has imo a perfect personality. Most people don’t age well and I’m a long term thinker. A dime with a shit personally is just an ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:23 PM
12

Thought it sounds like you don’t personally need it the book “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck” comes highly recommended from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:15 PM
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I see it as a positive. All the women who would normally let themselves go after marriage just do it in their 20s now. No more surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:09 PM
23

I would remove “hey beautiful” and anything that follows that from your text game. Edit: actual advice from my experience. Not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:06 PM
8

Dominating women is only enjoyable if they enjoy it. Most dudes aren’t running around with abuse fantasies (well porn sickness is making that number rise) A lot of women in my experience want to feel small around a man and I enjoy feeling the opposite. Perhaps my “look” filters for women who enjoy being dominated, otherwise I don’t think this attitude is outside the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:29 AM
1

78% of black children are born to unwed mothers in the US. Not sure what the equates to% wise single moms. I own sec 8 govt housing and these women are incentivized to become single mothers. They don’t qualify for aid if a man is in the house. I have houses with multi generational single moms. IMO welfare is one of the truly systemic racist policies along with the war on drugs. But people are talking about BLM/policing instead when these policies have totally eroded the nuclear black family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:21 AM
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The redpill is a framework. Why do you think the earliest days of RP was just PUA guys doing “field reports” They were taking general advice and applying different things and reporting back success and failure. Bluepill offers essentially false advice but the Redpill never claimed to be a pussy manual. It’s funny you’re talking about generic advice doesn’t work and someone else was complaining about RP grifters who offer one on one advice just today lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:58 PM
3

To be concise I think it could be some or all of the below. Lowering levels of testosterone Instant gratification (porn, social media) hard work isn’t rewarded (fucked economy)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:43 AM
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Imo men don’t want to raise kids. They are like children who want pets but don’t want to take care of them. When the time comes around to having kids childcare is left to the women. This builds resentment in her, sex stops etc. the vast majority of relationships are built on attraction and sex and once the woman stop putting out they become resentful roomates. The beta part comes when she pulls back sex. Rejection breeds obsession and the guy becomes a needy beta trying to fix his fuckup. I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:13 PM
2

Working out is mainstream. Stop being delusional lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:53 PM
2

It would be if bodybuilding was ever seen as lewd or sexual. Steve Reeves was a famous actor in the 50s. I doubt your grandma did anything but swoon for him. https://outalpha.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/Steve-Reeves-Workout-Old-School-Aesthetics.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:17 PM
0

Ha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:36 PM
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I’ve found low n women tend to make better long term partners based on their behaviors/attitudes. This has nothing to to with morality. The more I actually think about it the more I find it has everything to do with social deviance. People who deviate from societal norms like getting covered in tattoos, septum/nipple/hood piercings, have lots of causal sex are social deviants. There is absolutely nothing “wrong” about any of that behavior and it’s praised in other cultures. It’s the attitude of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:02 PM
1

I put /s as it was a joke. Lighten up Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:43 PM
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I was a hot 18 year old The wall is undefeated /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:36 AM
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It’s a fair criticism in some cases as the intent can be low level grooming. Personally in my experience women under 23-24ish are more likely to be flighty cunts thought, so I don’t see the whole grooming thing at at that age. If anything woman who are old enough to have not had a phone/insta when they were like 12 are much easier to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 AM
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“A hit dog will holler” Shes implying that you’re being defensive as her statement applies to you. You’re actually surprised by the hostility? Do you think a healthy women with mostly positive interactions with men have dozens of posts like hers? She’s as far gone as the guys who lash out violently against women after a lifetime of rejection/bad experiences. Don’t waste your time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:59 AM
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Their are bots that auto ban you from certain Reddit’s if you’ve commented on another. R/dating doesn’t allow people from pill subreddits. Usually you have to comment on the other seubreddit before it bans you but not always. It’s a shotgun approach to limiting spam as Reddit mods are limited
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:33 AM
1

Mrs Honey from Matilda ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:42 PM
1

Mrs Honey from Matilda
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:42 PM
1

A pair of slippers away from 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:15 PM
3

I was never really open about it upfront but I wouldn’t lie either. Women just presumed I was seeing other women. I never personally had a “rotation” that I managed. More so just girls that would occasionally hit me up to hang out. Some for a year or more. Most would attempt to lock me down for a few months before they gave up. Others I’d never hear from again . They would occasionally hang out with me while looking for a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:30 PM
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Not sure on that specifically. Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:37 PM
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Short women often want tall men. Feminine women often want masculine men. It’s not uncommon to want the opposite of yourself in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:59 AM
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Women are often like that to me and it was a huge turn-off and red flag behavior. It comes off as insecure and psycho. Recipe for a false metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:01 PM
2

Can you give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:58 PM
7

For what reason do they interest you? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:57 PM
1

The opinion of an anon delivery driver is not of enough importance for me to care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:36 PM
1

Agreed and been on TRTfor 3-4 years. I hopped off a few months ago as I’m getting a hair transplant. What’s nice about TRT is I don’t have to manage sleep, sups, stress, avoid chemicals etc to the nth degree to get maximum test. Pin 3x a week and run at 110% 24x7
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:19 PM
2

I’ve used the drugs mentioned before. They essentially shut off your hunger. The effect wears off rather quickly so you have to inject it daily/weekly. It will make super obese people lose some weight but it’s not going to make people walk around thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:12 PM
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This is all the convincing I need. The “cup” method they mention is how normal parts washers work. Skin would be a bad medium to try and put a transducer directly against. Temperature I think is unimportant and only for comfort. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3447693/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:47 PM
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I’m 100% going to do this. Deadass. The only possible side effect would be permanent sterility (added bonus for me) or impacts to testosterone. I regularly get bloodwork so I’ll keep an eye on it. The hardest thing will be checking fertility. I’ll feel weird busting in a cup for tests. I’ve put my hand in my cleaner to move stuff around and it definitely feels weird. I’m sure it won’t feel great on the nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:35 PM
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Brb dipping my nuts in my industrial ultrasonic cleaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:25 PM
2

That’s really interesting. I would have figured he was very handsome and would agree that the guy you posted is an objective 6 but at his age and prestige he would certainly be handsome enough for a lot of women. To me this ties into pre-selection. Within a social hierarchy pre-selection can snowball pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:51 PM
1

I’m not sure what you mean. A wife enjoying sex with her husband is normal. People finding your wife desirable is also normal. Enjoying seeing your wife sleep with other men would be the weird part in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:11 PM
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I don’t see how a sister having sex has any relation to cuckoldry. Textbook definition is a man of an adulterous wife. More modern use of the term is towards men who enjoy their wife being with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:53 PM
2

There are certain things coded in us as humans. You don’t need to know a single thing about music to hear that a minor chord sounds sad and a major chord sounds happy. The way a red Italian sports car speaks to a man without words. Testosterone literally goes up in humans when hearing or driving sports cars. It is a singular example of quintessential masculinity as both a 6 year old boy and 60 year old man can admire. It just goes against the core of a man to enjoy being a cuck. I’ll finish by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:25 PM
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I feel a certain level of contempt for cucks and people who cheat on their partners but nothing for women who let their man sleep around. I see myself more eye to eye with men from a competitive standpoint and therefore hold men to different standards. For a man to be a cuck I see that as broken behavior. Going against what it means (imo) to be a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:58 PM
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That’s was an interesting story. Thanks for sharing. Is this guy liken Matt Bommer/Henry Cavill level handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:52 PM
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Bro tinted sunscreen is the move if you haven’t tried it and live in a sunny area.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:13 PM
1

What red pill truths do you believe are mostly true about women? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:00 PM
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Women being less dissatisfied or jaded with dating from not being used for sex and Did you not read this lol? You comment just proves one of my main arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:49 AM
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My point still persists with what your are saying. Both men and women eventually do want long term commitment. However at any point in time if you survey those who haven’t already settled down, more of those surveyed would be women seeking relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:00 AM
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I don’t see how your points are counter to what I said. I was simply pointing to the opinion that if my two reasons were accounted for there wouldn’t be the same disparity of men seeking relationships that we see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:33 AM
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I think it’s important to highlight that if men could get laid whenever they wanted without commitment the number of men seeking relationships likely would be smaller imo. I feel if anything, with the above accounted for, the percentage of women seeking relationships would be similar if not more than the percentage of men due to 1) Women being less dissatisfied or jaded with dating from not being used for sex and 2) I find that women value emotional bonds even more so than men leading to a highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:04 AM
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As the others have said cheating is lying and a dealbreaker. They are both objectively just as “bad” I would be more bothered if she cheated with another man as I don’t feel in any competition with another woman. Her cheating with a man that I perceive as higher status in some way than me would be the most upsetting as I would directly compare my SMV with the other guy and would have to swallow the pill of losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:06 PM
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It’s PPD though. There are some…ahem alternative views here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:07 PM
1

Yeah I’d agree with that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:06 PM
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Oh I think you’re making a different point and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:52 PM
2

Isn’t stolen valor wearing uniforms from military services of which you weren’t involved in? Idk how that’s related to cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:51 PM
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No dude literally go outside and talk to men. Not the internet. Most men do not give a fuck about typical women’s makeup styles and think “she’s false advertising” Edit: men not in your social circle*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:42 PM
4

Can you expand on your third point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:14 PM
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Women get to decide what’s false representation for a man and fake height and fake dick aren’t cool. The overwhelming majority of men don’t think negatively of women’s typical makeup styles, whereas a lot of men don’t like the trend with overdone huge lips from filler.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:13 PM
1

You’re gana make it brah
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 12:43 AM
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This sub should just be renamed r/incelrants Edit: lol that that was actually a sub smh
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 11:52 PM
1

4/5 imo. Very fit looking but not head turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:00 PM
4

I used autistic as an adjective, not an insult. From my experience here on PPD with openly autistic posters is that their neurodivergence leads them to think and understand the world this way. To a neurotypical person it just seems odd. Honestly the same is true for the hyper analytical types who obsess over statistics with no experience of the nuances of dating IRL. Their way of thinking comes across badly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:33 PM
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That was a really autistic (edit* neurodivergent) way of explaining the concept of “the little things” When you get up for a drink, bring her back one. When she gets home and looks upset ask her if she wants her feet rubbed while you watch Netflix. You do this because an actual relationship is one where you enjoy making each other happy. Not a transaction for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:46 PM
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It tracks decently at high numbers like 15+ n However iirc the average body count is like 6 or something. You could have serial dater Susie or party girl Patricia in that range. Mental health and gratitude are IME the best predictors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:41 PM
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Women in general don’t approach. Most people dislike rejection and because women are approached more often the cost benefit analysis doesn’t lead them to take the risk. Add in women like men who are masculine and approach and it makes the situation pretty rare. However they make exceptions for men they find extremely appealing almost exclusively in situations involving alcohol. I have experienced the spectrum where probably 95% will give choosing signals (staring, smile, bump into you) and 5% wi…
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 01:49 AM
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This would be true if even a sizable minority of men improved themselves. However the vast majority of men including yourself are either self defeating or simply lazy and will never become anything more than average at best.
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 01:38 AM
0

Men tend to fill extremes more often. Most people are emotional and cowards. I mean just look at how many “logical” men here are full of anger. It’s people on the more extreme ends of the spectrum who are logical and courageous. This is why most CEOs are men but also why most people in jail are also men. Both require extreme levels of certain traits and men are more likely to have them. Besides the examples of extremes on a more average circumstance testosterone leads to more aggression which ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:34 PM
2

Thanks for the shout out brah. I think irl the AA/BB plays out fairly often. Just like many men melt around a beautiful women, women do the same for a small subset of men. Women quickly devolve into primal behaviors in the right situations and context. It’s both less socially acceptable and much more rare for women to do this so it’s not talked about as much.
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 10:24 PM
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That’s a grey zone where a lot of people who think they are above average in any way would choose. By removing 7 you really force someone to think about if they are truly very attractive or just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:51 PM
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What would your rate yourself out of 10 and you can’t use 7? I ask because my experience as a man is the opposite of yourself, with the hot girls being more of a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:39 AM
1

I’m 6’ The point was taller I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:58 PM
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As a chad I can agree even I am still competing heavily with the guy who’s 6’1, has a even better face, even more ripped etc. There is always a bigger fish. I eventually just stopped messaging girls first on OLD. I’m only interested in the girl who swipes on .1% of guys and I was one of those guys that she decided to swipe on and message. I realize many men don’t have the ability to filter so heavily but it has mad my experience much better. This is why day/social circle are so powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:33 PM
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There is no such thing as targeted weight loss. You don’t get a flat stomach doing crunches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:22 PM
1

Testosterone replacement therapy. The system that produces testosterone also stimulates the testes to produce sperm. (Highly summarized) The research on male hormonal birth control has actually been attempting to short circuit this system (HPTA) but two problems arise. It doesn’t remove all sperm and usually shuts down the production of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:51 PM
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Cut the face off of an ugly man with a 10/10 physique and objectively the body is still attractive, but I agree with your idea. There are always exceptions for women who like smaller men. However even for those women I seriously doubt they wouldn’t find the below physique attractive. Coincidentally when googling an example of this actor r/ladyboners came up. https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/comments/n8t4ap/alexander_skarsgard_as_tarzan/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:24 PM
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Being muscular is universally attractive lol. I have women come up to me and touch my body. I have older couples who’ve on more than one occasion asked me to swing with them. Women’s erotica is all most exclusively a muscular handsome psychopath. I wouldn’t eat clean or lift as much if I didn’t see the significant benefits to my SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:50 PM
3

I’ll meet you on the other side of the iron gates in the land of whey my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:33 PM
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Little girls “feel small” in their fathers arms. It’s not a negative thing. The majority of women I’ve courted enjoy being held and their man being larger/stronger. I’ve heard things from liking my big arms around them, liking how I make them feel safe, to blatantly saying they like feeling small.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:30 PM
2

Fuck thanks for letting me know. My old gym tripled prices so I quit but have been dreading going to the more mainstream gym in town due to the fake resolution folk clogging the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:24 AM
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Bro idk what rock you’re under but there are plenty of men with standards where in many cases the majority of women don’t pass face wise. This idea of presenting things men don’t care about in a woman and then only mentioning, or rather, dismissing what’s makes up the majority of our attraction is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:27 PM
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Most girls wear reasonable amounts of makeup. This is an extreme example used to get your panties in a knot which it most obviously did. Your like the women who go on television and complain about air conditioning being sexist because offices are too cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:02 PM
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I agree it’s not one size fits all. My point however is that the commenter seemed to be inferring trad marriage/gender roles benefit men. My counterpoint is that they don’t as that structure was created for rearing children. Progressive marriages benefit capitalism. The best way to reduce labor costs is increase the pool of workers. Among a massive list of reasons, one reason people say you can’t raise a family on one income is because labor rates have remained stagnant as there is no shortage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:37 PM
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There are haves and have nots in life, mostly pertaining to looks and health. Haves at any age can get whatever they want. Haves tend to decrease in both sexes as age increases. In an age group of 40s you’re going to have a huge portion of have nots (overweight, bad aging, bald, kids) The pool of “dateable” people becomes smaller and smaller while the pool of haves gains more scarcity. I will say it’s easier to be a have in an older demographic as people let themselves go so your competition bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:20 PM
0

Two poor parents > one poor parent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:00 PM
2

Trad nuclear families benefit children, not the man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:15 AM
1

A larger number of men have to make an active effort on dating to become successful, however they define that. This can easily be argued with the much larger redpill/pua/MGTOW forums than their female counterparts. That effort can provide insight into dating in general. For myself, I at least tick off most women’s boxes on paper and can provide advise about what a man like me who wants something similar to me looks for in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:53 PM
15

Send me yours too ya sadkent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:48 PM
22

DM me your online profile for a review. Most guys have absolute horrible profiles and shoot them selves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:58 PM
2

The system makes sense in theory and works IRL ime. The issue is your bringing the worst out in a women. She’s not giving you her best, but her desperate self. This is ok if you’re just wanting sex but I found you can still spin plates being a cocky gentleman. You can also sleep better at night.
/r/AllPillDebate30/01/23 12:15 AM
2

Ight man, I’m gana trust you and give it a look.
/r/AllPillDebate29/01/23 05:26 PM
4

This exactly, I popped into both those posts and was like nah I’m good.
/r/AllPillDebate29/01/23 05:03 AM
2

You called yourself ugly and frumpy 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:52 PM
5

Lol great example of the disparity between the male and female experience in dating. A wealthy 45yr old post-chad is on the level of a 25yr old 3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:14 PM
1

Thank you for some morning laughs man, genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:51 PM
1

Whatever you say sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:47 PM
1

I think being a feminist points out why you people are inherently not built for the positions of power you seek. Feminists see the world as something that’s happening to them and not around them. You’re fighting for fairness when the men at top don’t care about fairness. They use whatever means to beat their opponents. Now I’m not actually saying it’s unfair but ambitious men still have this attitude. The reality is in the metrics that matter unlike number of women in politics or positions like …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:46 PM
1

Yeah man sorry, I fail to even consider your specific opinion of me when you’d be too scared to make those statements in my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:16 PM
0

I just apply a lot of negative stereotypes to feminists and even worse ones to male feminists. Maybe that word means different thing to different people but to myself it’s a group of radicals as anyone with half a brain doesn’t fight for women’s rights when they already have them, but they want to argue about women not being 50% represented across only positions of power. Even worse are the male “allies” who lack any manner of strength, masculinity, or discipline. I’m sure there are exceptions b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:50 AM
3

This aligns more with the way men think in general vs how women think. Edit: OPs question I mean. The way guys think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:45 AM
3

Usually just simple stuff, if you make a girl feel safe and sexy they usually want it to happen. Find a private spot and start kissing then escalate from there. Good to pay attention to their body language and go at pace they are cool with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:42 AM
5

My experience as well and I’d close 80% on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:29 AM
5

You’re the type of woman who gets offended at comedy shows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:38 PM
7

Left leaning feminist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:59 PM
1

Lmao by the downvotes I can tell this entire sub is just blackpill inceldom parading around as “allpill” lol Like dude drunk sex is the baseline college experience for a huge portion of students who can get laid. We’re not talking taking home people who can barely walk. When you’ve gone out and have a heavy buzz feeling good and the girl is the same it makes for interesting encounters. Sometimes the sex sucks but SOMETIMES you get junk food and at 3am when you’re starving and those french fries …
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 04:04 PM
1

I’ve already seen this play out in the black community. I have sec 8 “projects” properties. It’s the same endless cycle. Shitty mom gets plowed by Tyrone. Can’t remember the stat but Kevin Samules mentioned something like 10% of black men sire like 80% of the babies idk could be off there. Anyway mom gets knocked up multiple times and feeds off the government to raise her kids. Then all her kids grow up without a father and the mom teaches them how to also live off the government. The rich love …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:53 PM
2

It might be easier to explain it as something I’m sure you’ve experienced. Have you ever met a guy through friends or whatever, and you can just tell he’s a player type. The way he talks, moves, dresses, carries himself. You’ve probably met a spectrum from slight womanizers to Andrew Tate level. The same gut instinct you feel towards these men can be learned by men towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:10 AM
7

You aren’t asking in good faith so there’s no reason for me to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:19 PM
12

Yeah man I stop dating homeless girls a long time ago. I have standards now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:18 PM
25

As a permanent AF I can say what women do when you’re their first choice. -drive far to see you -makes really good food -enthusiasm and raunchy sex -initiates sex -gives you gifts or offers to pay for stuff -generally goes along with thing you want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:46 PM
6

A girl who blows and entire Air Force base is going to behave a certain way. While I wouldn’t be able to say a girl has specifically sucked off a specific branch I’d probably surmise that she’s sucked a lot of dick in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:43 PM
1

This dude is complaining about body standards and does a starch based “detox” jfc Robert is a skinny cunt who looks like a college dude who half assed 12 months of lifting for Batman on a diet of protein shakes and pizza. Below is going to impress most women. It’s not hard to achieve the below and imo this actor does have particularly good insertions https://media.gq.com/photos/58349c25c764ae804c6d189f/master/w_1242,h_1920,c_limit/alexander.jpg
/r/AllPillDebate22/01/23 05:12 AM
1

Photofeeler is trash. I got all 9s and I’m a retard.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 03:04 PM
3

In chess the rules don’t change weather it’s the first or last move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:32 AM
1

No worries man. I’m more curious than anything. Been following RP for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:47 PM
1

Do you have an example? I don’t see changes besides slight more visible temporalis attributed to natural facial fatloss and thinning of skin from natural aging. Edit: even if we attribute any facial changes to PEDs I haven’t seen a single example of improvements. Only significant declines
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:36 PM
1

Steroids don’t impact your face permanently unless you’re taking them before puberty. Temporarily they bloat your face and significantly reduce objective attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:19 PM
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As a man who has had multiple 3-5yr relationships where the sex absolutely never slowed down past my own libido, I’ll bite. Firstly it comes down to frame. A woman’s sexual desire starts with respect in the context is LTRs. If a woman loses respect for you it’s over in the bedroom. Even the fools over in dead bedrooms understand that chores, acts of service, or even listening to their wives doesn’t lead to sex. That’s because their wives don’t respect them. Women can’t love men they don’t respec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:57 PM
1

I only watched 1/3rd the way through. Video was well edited and formatted but the opinion was an outsider looking in. Like a cheap reporter from a local newspaper doing an article on TRP. The music really killed me with the guitar beats. It makes the video come off as low quality. Like the how to channels with 5 million subs where the contents isn’t about quality just fluff to get minutes watched.
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 04:37 PM
2

Mental health is overwhelming positive in trans people who have had one or more surgeries. Lower rates of every reported diagnosis such as depression, anxiety, and most importantly suicidal thoughts and attempts. The majority of people who change their minds (1-8% iirc) do so before they undergone any surgeries. You don’t have a point of view. You have a point in telling people what to do as consenting adults with their own bodies. A view that can’t be argued in any way as you have no basis to f…
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 11:11 PM
2

In your heart of hearts you feel as tho you are a man (assuming based on avatar). No amount of people “accepting you” would make you be ok if you had a woman’s body nor would it I.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 09:44 PM
2

I don’t think anyone really owns the term redpill and some people have different ideas about what it means. For me redpill is mostly about accepting that many things we are taught about women is wrong. I don’t think “women bad men good” but that mostly both men and women are bad. The difference is we aren’t told to protect and assume the innocence of men, only women and children. A redpill women to me is one that also agrees with a lot of the beliefs that the redpill has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:53 PM
12

I’m like an 8+ with a high n count. Like a Great Value brand Henry Cavil. It was being in this position that actually red pilled me. I was just PUA before that. In my position you get to experience what women are really like. You watch as they’d cheat on their HS sweetheart of years for a chance to have a ONS. The wife you gropes your dick in a crowded bar while she walks past hand in hand with her husband. Having girls call to fuck you after they had gotten dinner paid for earlier that evening.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:49 AM
1

What if you’re just really ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:27 AM
8

I just want a man to go to museums with who will get equally as excited about retreating to some corner to furiously Google more info about neat historical facts we read on the artifact cards. Passion is sexy. Even if I’m not necessarily into something I love watching my girl get exciting about something. There was a movie scene i I remember. A woman was staring at a painting and absolutely loved it. She turned to her partner and asked what he thought. Uninterested in the actual painting he repl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:10 AM
8

I hide what I want because I’m socially calibrated enough to know how off-putting a list like this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:28 AM
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Filing paperwork is a woman’s job /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:52 AM
2

Basedpill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:28 PM
2

Holding women accountable isn’t PC in 2022 my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 PM
1

-Don’t be a bitch* Plenty of chubby chasers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:23 PM
8

Nichemaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:48 AM
8

I have enough social calibration to not say anything about the “redpill”. I just talk about trad dating roles and ask vetting questions. There is no point bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:17 PM
2

You would get a much different answers from men like me who spun plates with all the girls knowing/finding out there were others. They don’t like it but they absolutely put up with it if you treat them well. How many women do you think are going to admit to being in this type of situationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:09 PM
0

Can’t relate. I’m never wrong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:27 PM
1

Estradiol was around 30. Total Testosterone was around 950. Can’t remember shbg or free test. I’m on low carb high protein so this optimizes male hormone production. Hormones aren’t only one part though. Your bodies sensitivity to these hormones and the amount of enzymes present to convert these to other compounds (especially in the brain tissues) is going to determine your behavior much more. There is a reason some guys can take a small amount of steroids and get insanely big while others don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:18 PM
1

Based on the emails he’s on a baby dose. Can’t remember is he was running whinny. That one does kill the liver, but TRT dosages and a tiny amount of nandrolone is hardly anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:47 PM
1

Probably need a dopamine detox. Normal day to day things don’t bring you joy because of the over stimulation from games and social media. I’d take the time to try and practice mindfulness on the cruise. No phone. Hit the gym (probably have one on the cruise)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:44 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting a woman in your life. There’s nothing wrong with writing down the top three things you want out of your life and a companion/gf/wife/ being one. The idea that a man should just focus on himself and completely forgo any desire to be with women is silly. The same concept is when people say those who try to be alpha are inherently not alpha. As if practicing and getting better at something you desire makes you not the thing you want to be. Focus on yourself is sag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:31 PM
1

Well let’s make the comparison with studies on human behavior with nutrition. Most nutritional advice is based on dozens (hundreds?) of epidemiology studies that follow thousands and thousands of people for decades. One almost universal belief from these studies is that saturated animal fats are bad for you with an extreme link between eating animal protein, and heart disease. 99.9% of health care officials follow this advice. However the studies are coming into question with things like cholest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:24 PM
1

Most of this shit on here doesn’t align with real life behavior which is what my original point was about. I actually re-read your initial comment. I think I’m arguing a counterpoint to a point you never made
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:54 PM
3

Totally agree on all your points. I just see huge jumps to causality from stats that don’t have these specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:51 PM
1

I mean your personal IRL experience should shape your own opinion. Most guys shape their opinion on states/data alone and it shows a clear lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:45 PM
7

This is why so many dudes who find TRP struggle. You can’t come to conclusions based on stats alone. “70% of divorces are initiated by women” You can come to a dozen different causalities for the above stat but the stat doesn’t indicate the reason why. If your bias is that women suck you might jump to thinking it’s because hypergamy. There are too many dorks on here who come to conclusions based on stats and little real world experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:25 PM
9

Yeah a man who lifts and meditates is insulted by men who need to pay for escorts/sugar babies. Lmao k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:20 AM
6

Stop being comfortable being a loser. You’re literally 6 months of meditation, gym, and learning skills to earn money from greatly improving your happiness and outlook on life. Then 3-5 years away from completely turning your life around. “Enjoy the decline” This is said by men who’ve gathered the knowledge and resources to no longer concern themselves with the state of the world.
/r/AllPillDebate28/11/22 10:09 PM
5

They sedate you to keep you complacent. You’re fine beating off, watching netflix, smoking weed, and eating like shit. You’ve convinced yourself the only thing more miserable than your existence is applying yourself. You’re a sad excuse for a man. You can do better brother.
/r/AllPillDebate28/11/22 09:37 PM
0

This is my experience too. I would often meet women attractive enough for sex and often they would be enthusiastic and fun in bed. However I was never able to get myself to desire being with them outside the bedroom. Even girls with fun and interesting personalities. These girls weren’t ugly either. However occasionally I would be with a gorgeous women and the amount of immediate lust and desire I felt towards them was such a contrast with the pretty girls. The amount of time they would be on my…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:54 PM
-1

29 but I was 21-30 for relationship material range with my preference being 22-25 as that’s post college and they are making their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:42 PM
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Women like attractive guys, and more generally people find attractive people attractive. I don’t understand the obsession with creating such abstract ideas around such simple concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:30 PM
0

I didn’t reply to OP. I replied to another commenter. Why don’t you think about why you feel the need to police Reddit comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:55 PM
5

Not every guy turns down partying with friends to work on his business. Not every guy goes to the gym even when he doesn’t want to. Not every guy turns down the junk food at the potluck. Not every guy approaches dozens of women and faces rejection to get better. So you’re right. Most guys haven’t put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:50 PM
3

These guys can’t fathom men like me turn women down that they would probably marry. It’s about abundance. Just like people think filling up their gas tank hurts when I’m filling my boat for 500$. Then the guy above me is filling his race boat with 10,000 in race fuel. There are such disparities people don’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:58 PM
3

This has nothing to do with altruism. One of the most discussed concepts in TRP is finding your purpose as a man. Men who are on their own mission are sexy. You just happened to be around men who’s ambition revolves around more altruistic goals. The same is true for a man say building an empire of real-estate, starting a fashion brand, writing a book etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:48 PM
10

Sleeping with lots of women doesn’t make you sexy to women. Being sexy and having behaviors women find sexy…..make you sexy. Sexy men get laid a lot if they want to. As long as you don’t come off like a creep women don’t care about your body count. This post wreaks of inexperience. Source: My 100+ n count that I don’t tell women I’m romantically interested in because I’m not an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:47 PM
1

There is a 3/10 face 10/10 gym bunny out there for you brah. We’re all gana make it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:41 PM
1

I can see how driving her to her boyfriends house all the time could get expensive. Could you maybe tell her to have him over to your place instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:52 PM
2

I cannot fathom being so poor a few 25-50$ dinners a week (max) is worth being bothered over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:00 AM
1

Women don’t use the term celibate. What you’re actually going to hear is something about them not being into hookups. I’ve heard this enough times to know that it translates best to “I don’t want you to think I’m a slut but if you turn me on enough I’ll sleep with you” Another situation I’ve faced is the more ballsy girls will saying something like “I’m not sleeping with you tonight.” This is often them doing a triple check before having sex. Im sure you do a walk around your residence before le…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:58 PM
1

This is just so foreign to me. In the hundred+ women I’ve been with, both more serious and non, I’ve just never run into this withholding sex thing. If you make a girl feel good, sexy, heard etc they typically just want to jump your bones on the 1-3rd date. It also helps if you have fun and romantic dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:16 AM
1

Lol you have to be trolling
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 03:25 AM
2

Definitely needed a good laugh. Thank you
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 02:11 AM
1

I’ve taken Cialis since I was like 23. It’s such a amazing drug outside of the bedroom. Amazing pumps in the gym, increase cardio vascularity. In otherwise healthy men the vasodilation is linked to longevity. The fact that it makes your dick more sensitive and orgasms stronger is just an amazing side benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:53 PM
0

Ahh, yes I can clearly see you let it bleed into many aspects lmao. Good luck sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:51 PM
0

Not what I meant. More so do you think having an attitude of all men dangerous unless proven otherwise attitude bleeds into your interactions with men. I don’t think any woman wants the be assaulted and likely no man thinks that’s a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:33 PM
0

It’s s not like you can relax around men who don't seem interested in you…..You're not thinking like someone trying to avoid danger. Do you let this attitude bleed into your interactions with men? I’m sure it’s nuanced/hidden but I can’t see a man wanting to deal with a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:07 PM
1

Oh no, I think he’s mostly retarded. Just for reasons that aren’t based on ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:27 PM
6

You haven’t read his first book as he clearly goes over age gap and references his daughter who was 18 iiirc when the ration male was released. The shirt on your back was probably made in a sweatshop. You wouldn’t be ok with your child working in a sweatshop. Things are different when they are personal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:43 PM
1

Our life experience are incredibly similar. In IT as well. If you wana make bank get into pre or post sales after you get a couple yrs under your belt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:24 PM
1

19-nor do kill you libido. For me no AI takes the edge off of a cycle as the E2 knocks down my libido. Test with an AI and I have to fap multiple times a day. Add in cialis and I practically walk around half mast
/r/AllPillDebate21/11/22 02:53 PM
1

Tell me you’ve never taken steroids without telling me. You could not be more wrong smh.
/r/AllPillDebate21/11/22 12:17 AM
0

Yep “One penis to rule them all”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:56 PM
1

Straight dudes don’t experiment with dudes. I’m sorry but even me finding both male and female physiques “beautiful” I have absolutely zero interest sexually in men. I don’t need to go down in the brown to figure that out. To be quite honest culturally it’s been a pretty shunned behavior in the west. Many find it revolting and possibly morally wrong (how often was the term fgt thrown around and same sex marriages outlawed). Who dips their toe in something that could have such implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:23 PM
5

Those posh girls went absolutely bonkers over my physique. Or maybe it’s because I’m American 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:58 PM
3

This is such a good example of the default human in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:41 PM
15

If you shoot and kill someone’s and don’t think you did it, is that going to fly in court? Of course not. Your satisfaction of an event is irrelevant to wether or not it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:06 AM
2

I’m at triple digits now, but I had that with someone for 5 years. It felt special. Don’t ever let someone try and tell you it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:38 PM
1

Triple digit. It taught me a lot about women and I don’t really have any regrets. For me there was no cost as improving my SMV improved my life overall. I don’t really think anyone is missing out if they don’t go out and plow fields. I much more regret not waiting until I felt like I didn’t need a women but wanted one. Wasted years in a lame relationship with a woman I settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:33 PM
-1

Loyal Sweet Thin Girl next door innocent nerdy type Little or no social media presence Feminine High levels of gratitude/positive mindset Not much of the party type but can hang Low body count No history of cheating Childfree Perceives me as a catch and is enthusiastic Appreciates the value a (good) man can bring her I hate liberals but conservatives are almost always as dumb. Politics are a shit show. I lean to polices that make moral and fiscal sense ie universal healthcare makes sense simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:22 AM
1

Lack of respect and disrespect are different. I wouldn’t hate or insult a cuck/poly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:22 PM
5

Send them rail thin girls over to me ight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:33 PM
1

I’ve modeled nude because I loved the idea of a classroom full of nerdy art girls admiring my physique that I put so much time into. For me it was all ego and validation. However as a woman I’d think her motivation was probably different considering she doesn’t have a history of posting herself online. At least college ones are mostly girls where I’m from (rural Midwest)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:13 PM
1

You mad sis?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:43 AM
2

I could care less how common it is. Being a cuck violates every aspect of being a man worthy of respect from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:26 AM
2

Yep I’m totally agreeing with you. You just had “what do you think” at the bottom of the post and I had commented in agreement,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:06 PM
5

Women worth dating don’t stick around a man who sleeps around. Open relationship is just being a cuck with extra steps. I either want to spin plates or settle down with a teammate for life. Not some combination of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:01 PM
3

“Noah get the boat”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:35 PM
2

Totally agree. I had actually just misread your original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:24 PM
1

Ahh, I see that now 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:05 PM
16

This is a solid take imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:29 PM
11

I’d say white collar jobs take a much harder toll. Sans injury tree work, plumber, electrician, mechanic so on aren’t doing intensive work like an oil rig worker. They are active and staying more healthy than the keyboard jobs. Farmers often work their fields into their 80s here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:28 PM
1

I’ve only ever dated thin and athletic women. I absolutely can’t stand women with any amount of body fat outside of their ass and thought the thicc era was just desperate men jumping on the body positive “movement” to get pity fucks. I will always gravitate to the lower end of the healthy BMI for women as shown below. SFW https://www.flickr.com/photos/120108111@N02/13317520235
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:27 PM
29

Only men think this way lmao. Bro, women feel their way through stuff like this. They aren’t laying in bed at night thinking to themselves “boy I sure seem to be in the top three of his priorities and that’s a turn off” Like no dude. As long as you don’t behave in ways that make her FEEL like you’re desperate it’s a non-issue. Making her a priority in a healthy way makes most women feel heard and appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:15 PM
2

Did they say why?
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 03:06 PM
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I’d think one she’s not really socially calibrated because it just comes off a negative. I’d also think two she’s most likely the girls who’s been used a lot for sex and it tired of it. Something like looking for something serious is a much more socially calibrated way of saying the same thing. I’ve slept with too many “not looking for hookups” girls to even take that verbiage seriously. To me it’s “Looking to betabucks you unless you are hot/smooth enough make me horny and fuck you”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:23 AM
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Yeah I mean I’m not cheap either. I’m at the point in my life where 50-75$ on a first date isn’t a big deal, so I usually plan to pay. Personally I just like the dynamics of leading, setting up the date, paying for the date. It’s just a dealbreaker when I can tell she just expects it. The sweet kind of girl I want to be around and date would have gratitude and offer to pay next time or something. Or offer to take us to get cocktails.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:03 AM
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I pay on the first date, but I can tell when women expect it, so I’d avoid you for a second date. I think there are plenty of men who don’t have the options to be selective like that though so I doubt you’d run into guys like me often. Edit: I think this might be a male equivalent to “The Ick”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:38 AM
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Idk man, I haven’t split the bill ever in my life and I’ve slept with dozens of women on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:54 PM
4

Having a gorgeous girlfriend/wife has much more status than whoring around. Few guys really give a shit about their male friends who can sleep with lots of women. I had a threesome at a college party and walked about the the guys gave me 10 seconds of laughs and we continued about our night. You’re not only wrong about the status but also pleasure. Multiple women have the pros of being pleasurable due to novelty of newness. A committed partner brings pleasure from a level of comfort and mutual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:48 PM
2

Yeah it’s not like a large portion of the US is significantly less population dense and nice enough to go outside for longer periods lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:40 PM
2

Insane how similar our experiences are. The 7+ comment is so true lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:00 PM
1

Probably GNC over the counter “test boosters”. Messes up your hormones for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:04 PM
2

That’s caused by incorrect compound choices and is rare even when incorrect compounds are used. For the vast majority steroids cause a significant increase in libido, stamina, and erection quality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:54 PM
4

“He who is only an athlete is too crude, too vulgar, too much a savage. He who is a scholar only is too soft, to effeminate. The ideal citizen is the scholar athlete, the man of thought and the man of action.” -lift heavy shit -Read books -practice mindfulness Men today are neither scholar nor athletes. They aren’t curious. They aren’t stoic. They are lazy and have self induced depression and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:25 PM
2

Idk what you mean. Steroids don’t impact a guys ability to have sex sans some edge case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:17 PM
1

Yeah I’m not even going to respond to that guy. Dude sounds like a nutcase lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:15 PM
5

I’m definitely a number deleter and social media (usually snap as that’s what girls seem to want to use) You know how many times I was like “ehh I’m out” *delete and weeks go by and I get a heyyyy and reply who’s this? They always get pissy and end up coming over for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:34 AM
8

I literally can’t stop laughing on the toilet that someone thinks hemsworth isn’t on the sazule. Like dude no lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:29 AM
7

What’s this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:27 AM
2

Only about 1 in 15 women pass my basic sniff test so I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:47 AM
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I’ve been with over 100 women and I’ve never even spoken a word about the number of women I’ve been with to any of them. Just stop talking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:56 AM
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I wouldn’t think the kind of women worth dating would disqualify men with little experience. The caveat here is that you’re still socially experienced and don’t come off a weird/creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:46 AM
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Many women have a constant tap of male attention, both wanted and likely unwanted. Most men on the otherhand don’t. The saying goes that women are never truly single Men seek these things because they don’t fall in our laps to the same degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:53 AM
3

Cialis. Shit makes me so god damn horny. That “dick brushes the side of your leg just right when you’re 12” type of horny. I take it for blood flow in the gym and blood pressure reduction (longevity) so the dick gains are just an amazing bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:50 AM
2

I’m a chad, but I’m not fucking every girl at the party lol. Chad is just a term used to describe outward appearance. Nothing to do with womanizing.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 04:45 AM
3

Triple N count. It’s not really hollow it’s just that most guys can’t have sex with good looking women on the regular. Believe me when you look over at some gorgeous naked girl in your bed you don’t feel empty or boredom. For most guys It’s the post nut clarity when you look down at the girl who is hardly pretty enough (in your eyes) to stick your dick in and you get that feeling like wtf am I doing. That is the hollow emotion you feel. Now unless you’re absolutely blessed face, height, income c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:04 AM
3

Below 5 is pretty low in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:21 AM
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She opened me. Her profile came off as very elegant and classy. She was very sweet and feminine. She was enthusiastic about our dates but not needy. Good relationship with her parent. Low n count. She was very flexible and it was easy for things to flow with her. She’s also my type being the girl next door nerdy type. She’s above average, but I’m conventionally more attractive so I figured it’s applicable still.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:14 PM
1

Freudian slip perhaps 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:20 PM
10

Miss Honey from Matilda, and Gal Gadot as superwoman. Both are extremely feminine in different extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:39 PM
1

What’s your flair mean? Men “blank” their own way?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 03:34 PM
1

Totally agree. You explained what I meant better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:45 PM
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It comes off as a really bad attitude. Low social intelligence. To a lesser extent yes girls who post that are almost always the type too hookup. “I wouldn’t mind running into my person” Much better attitude if you’re wanting more than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:12 PM
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While I agree, if you ask most people they will say dating sucks in general. Between the few girls you meet a month there’s dozens of non-responders, flakes, girls who ask you your 5 yr plan “nOt LoOkInG fOr hOoKuPs” so on. For women it’s creepy guys, guys with 1 picture of him and his shitbox tuner or diesel. Men who are still wearing the same clothes from middle school. All pics appear to be taken from underneath his chin. So yes while most people are doing fine, it’s bad to post here that dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:00 PM
1

Ahh, that makes total sense with your amount of available travel time. As an American I am used to bios on dating profile “likes to travel” and find they have been to 2 places their whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:17 PM
1

It seems so odd to me that something as insubstantial as traveling to a dealbreaker. Maybe you live outside the US as Europe has much more paid time off but here people get maybe 1 vacation a year. The oddity to me is putting such a focus on something that is a week or two out of the year. Why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:59 PM
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I’d say about 1/15-1/20 women that I’ve met, meet my personal requirements for a LTR. So if you’re meeting one or two girls a month you’ll find someone worth your time every few years. High quality partners are rare so the higher quality you make yourself doesn’t really make dating easier. It makes meeting and sleeping with women easier but your expectations become higher as your happiness single goes up along with your maturity. You don’t price yourself out of the market so much as transition t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:29 PM
3

“Shocked uWu noises” Definitely autistic my guy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:19 PM
1

Im loling at all these responses like “tHaTs nOt rEaL vUlNeRaBiLiTy” Like god damn dude grow a pair of balls and realize balling your eyes out because of some silly reason is unattractive and you should destroy that part of yourself. Being sad does nothing but bring you misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:13 PM
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I agree. In contrast to men usually wanting a good girl that’s only bad for them, I’ve found women really get off on the idea of a confident, aggressive, and dominant man that is sweet and mildly vulnerable only to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:32 PM
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Most of my causal hookups were drunken, barely enough room to move, or rushed, and most often in my early days with women who were barely hot enough to have sex with so I had little concern for the woman’s pleasure as I was struggling to orgasm myself. I am a single anecdote but I don’t think “fucking down” is anything other than very common for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:33 PM
1

I don’t USUALLY support hitting women but… In all seriousness this is probably fake though.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/22 12:43 AM
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Oh, you thought I was serious. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:07 AM
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I’m chad. So no I wouldn’t be roasting her on Reddit. I’d be politely explaining this concept to her face to aware her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:25 PM
1

No fraud haha but plenty of drugs, money, and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:24 PM
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She wouldn’t be on here until after she got dicked down a few times and ghosted. The title would be “are all men on OLD jerks?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:10 PM
1

Years ago I would have said yes I’d stop being friends. Now I surround myself with HVM. Hunters, achievers, business owners, physically in shape etc. These men tend to live very wolf of wallstreet lifestyles. I respect them for their ambition and discipline, not so much morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:03 PM
2

I don’t get hung up on the number very much. It could be 10 for some or 20 for others. I’ve noticed it’s a pattern behavior. Meaning the behaviors show up in groups, with promiscuity being one. I think the vast majority of men think your 3 is quite low including myself. Anyway, as an example your first bf could have been horrible to you. You could have had a toxic relationship and learned a lot of bad behaviors etc. so while your count is low, you could still have the bad behaviors. N count woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:04 PM
2

In my experience there is a strong correlation between a woman’s body count and bad behaviors for successful LTRs. I don’t date men so I can’t comment on that end. I haven’t met a woman I couldn’t make squirt once I learned how. Much easier and faster then a clitoral orgasm imo. I can’t imagine a girl being able to make herself squirt though. The skeen glands are hard to reach yourself and really need aggressive pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:55 AM
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The company that has a monopoly on diamonds who coined the term “diamonds are forever” led mass propaganda campaigns I believe around the 40s that convinced people to use a diamond ring as a symbol of forever love. Materialism took hold and had since increased. Diamonds aren’t even valuable. The market is artificially raised by supply being almost entirely run by one monopoly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:42 AM
8

Help big brother, I’m stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:31 AM
2

This is purely for science ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:24 AM
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Women have an easier time finding hookups because they can fuck not only their looksmatch but an entire tier above that. Do you know how few women understand that the hot guy who’s willing to fuck them isn’t willing to commit. Do you know how many times I’ve said this point blank to these women when they talk about being used for sex (pillow talk shorty after I “used” them for sex) Honestly I try and make sure she had a good time too so used is a strong word. They look at me dumbfounded that guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:04 AM
3

TikThots Fuck need to add that one to the repertoire. Have one for the cringe TikTok dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:00 AM
1

Easy, humans are incredibly complex and irrational. Evolution simply cannot account for how quickly our brains developed. There is no structure in the known universe that is complex as the human brain. Meeting the right person is an incredible amount of luck mixed with an attitude that deals well with change and flexibility. It’s like trying to run a physics program or a next generation video game on a billion hand calculators.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:39 AM
1

The idea the anything more than a tiny fraction of divorces are caused by AF/BB is fantasy. People get divorced because they are no longer compatible or happy. How many people marry their first love? Few because LTRs are difficult to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:44 PM
2

Right on man. I just see guys thinking they are going to be the BB no matter what when in reality mutable traits are what determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:27 PM
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Most men regardless of attractiveness are BB in LTRs. It’s not about looks, it’s about frame. Frame is one of the thing TRP is spot on about. As long as you can maintain frame and become the best version of yourself as you can, it unlikely you won’t find a woman that adores you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:55 PM
3

Yes, there is certainly a lot of self-fulfilling prophecies going on here. I think men in general and especially men in forums such as these think and process things from a analytical and data/object oriented way. Shown by commonly reducing things to numbers. Say for example you take a group of engineers and a group of artists and give them a problem to solve. Neither has an advantage over the other group. You’ll likely find they solve the problem in very different ways. It’s just different ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:48 PM
1

The more women I slept with the higher my standards became. The guys with below 10 body counts are taking what they can get to have sex at any sort of satisfactory amount. I wasn’t slaying beautiful women left and right, but average women at healthy bodyfat percentages at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:18 PM
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It’s just a variable used to describe a counting number. So 1+n could be 1+ any real number 1,2,3....so on. Body count and lay count mean the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:04 PM
1

Hanging, jelqing, bathmate. These work. 1-3” gain. You can pm if you want for more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:56 PM
1

How do you know you’re shadowbanned? I thought everything you post stops showing up to other people, but we can see this.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 07:51 PM
8

Buy your wife some tits. Damn man I just saved your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:33 PM
6

Slim fit v necks with a solid lean build. Women love to grab your arms and lay their hands on your chest in bars when you look like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:31 AM
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A man should enthusiastically please his partner and work as a team, however to give a woman authority to dictate the terms, especially in regard to sex is just a bad idea. You can never negotiate desire. Giving into things like this is similar to chore-play. It’s has the opposite affect than what’s intended. With that said I absolutely fuck with vibrating buttplugs (in her lol), cock rings, and personal massagers. Feels great for me and her. The only thing better than a pussy is a VIBRATING pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:15 AM
0

I’ve stated this before, but the more women I slept with, the more concrete in my opinion that as a general rule higher n count women make for worse committed partners. I’ve always treated FWB as girlfriends as it’s my preferred dynamic. In these situations you learn a lot about women. Much more so than you would as fuck buddies only. It’s not so much body count but behaviors that have a strong linear correlation with body count. Women are free to view my n count as a dealbreaker as well and I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:57 PM
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The women that I’d consider high quality would be very caring and empathetic. She’d would consider what a man has to offer in the context of a LTR as valuable. She would consider the man in her life one of, if not the most important things to her. She’d probably also see sex as something intimate and special with you. A woman who adores and is head-over-heals in love with you is going to be upset at the idea of you sleeping with other women. The only women who are ok with this are poly themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:29 PM
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I would never date a woman who stuck around after I slept with other women nor one that would be ok with me doing so. TRP talks about getting fucked over by women and then also talkes about how to attract women with wealth, or start harems/spin plates. Like bro that’s fine, but don’t be surprised when your perception of women is low because you filter out the much harder to find quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:19 PM
1

Some people, while accepting of it, find the behavior of two men being physical as gross. Most can compartmentalize and not care if they aren’t involved with the person intimately. Not so much in an intimate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:07 PM
1

Maybe I’m just a retard but could have sworn vas included surgery not hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:34 AM
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Why is it shocking that women typically don’t want to have relationships with men who get fucked by other men. There is a big difference between acceptance and involvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:29 AM
0

This entire comment was made up. Just stop dude
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 02:03 PM
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It doesn’t garner attention because I’m a dude. That’s the point. I try not to feed trolls, you’re probably already overweight as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:30 AM
0

That’s unfortunate, some men definitely don’t care about a woman’s pleasure during sex. I’ve also noticed along with relationship advice there is a bit of a stigma with men asking about how to be good in bed, so many may not know and are too afraid to ask. If you’ve never had an orgasm, give the hitachi magic wand a try. You can use it yourself or with a partner during PIV sex and it feels great for the guy too. Even if you’ve failed with a traditional vibrator I can almost guarantee the MW will…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:54 PM
1

Yeah, and honestly if there was a male hormonal birth control that worked I’d be happy to take it. I don’t think the onus is only on women, just that to date it’s much more difficult getting rid of all sperm vs slightly changing the environment of a woman’s uterus/cervix to prevent an egg from being fertilized. I’ve seen some physical birth controls for men such as temporary blocking the vas with a compound. Unfortunately it isn’t available here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:46 PM
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I can’t orgasm with a condom on so it’s a deal-breaker for me. I don’t think this is true for all men. Another option is after STD testing is using both female contraceptives like the pill/iud in combination with the withdrawal “pullout” method. Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. There’s few bigger red flags than guilting someone into sex so drop anyone who tries to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:29 PM
1

No what’s messed up is being on psychoactive drugs to act in a way that you can function in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:54 PM
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Personally I’m just not interested in someone who needs psychoactive drugs to be normal or make it through the day. Add to that most people on it don’t need it or abuse it, not saying you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:55 PM
1

I don’t compete. Never really liked physique and I’m much too small for classic physique. Also my torso is too short to be competitive past local events
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:52 PM
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I’m straight. The list was asked for by someone and I also gave general bad behaviors. It could apply to men in many aspects too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:28 PM
1

I’m 29, It’s in my flair. Yes the picture is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:25 PM
7

Men don’t foster female attention with their photos. I’d be more likely to have a gay man say something. I’ve built a physique few could achieve and I make lots of comments on bodybuilding/nutrition threads. In many ways it’s social proof in those forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:10 AM
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Yes I do, and I have the options to feel as such. Sex ruins women in my eyes. Women can feel the same about me, but I’ve found mostly they don’t. Men with high N counts like me are charming and “just get it” if you’ve seen the term used. I have social proof and social prowess. There are enough r women that find these things attractive they the last thing they care about is n count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:04 AM
2

Yeah I’m in tech too. The guys who start these online enterprises seem to be more the exception. Looking at CEOs or the last 20 presidents it’s much easier to see the looksmaxxing going on. None of them are really ugly. I mean hell Clinton, bush, Obama were like top ~5% BMI for their age. Trump for being 70 iirc doesn’t look horrible and again Biden is low bodyfat. Source: numbers pulled from my ass but the point is still the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:17 PM
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Being financially stable gets you most of the way there. If you’re making 40-60k you’re fine (account for cost of living). Making over 100k has a slight benefit. I’m over 150 now and I don’t think it’s changed much since my 70k starting salary. Looksmaxxing and having and interesting life are wayyyyyy more important. Having a good social circle can snowball into meeting lots of women too. Have a decent residence and decent car and dress well. Having money beyond this is going to attract transact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:08 PM
0

These women are the easiest to meet and sleep with so the majority of my casual sex has been with them. They are not rare or a cartoon at all in my experience and men wife these girls up. You can look at the list I provided to another Redditer. There are many more examples than just the typical party scene girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:58 PM
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There’s nothing impressive about sleeping with any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:55 PM
11

I’m not sure what you mean. I don’t consider having sex soon after meeting as a big deal if that’s what you mean. If you look at the list I responded to someone else it doesn’t include “gives it up quick”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:50 PM
1

Maybe 1 in 15 among the OLD/Bar scene. I don’t think many know enough about all the types they just want a standard panel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:47 PM
4

I’d take everything individually and make a determination. It’s very nuanced. What you mentioned doesn’t really seem like an issue. It’s the girls who have a close friends group that’s out every weekend in dress and heels getting blackout and going home with randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:43 PM
5

Only when the girl asks because Leo’s are supposedly good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:54 PM
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It’s sometimes nuanced but I’ll try and just list off some face value stuff. I’ll list off bad behaviors in general too. None of these individually mean much but usually these girls have patterns. promiscuous photos online like instagram lots of guys at bars/clubs recognize her strong political opinion of women’s sexual lib dresses promiscuous when not around you friends are also party type excessive alcohol consumption Adderall or Vyvanse prescription neurotic unresolved issues especially with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:52 PM
1

Beauty is inherently a surface attribute and so women have more surface value. This combined with mens desire for casual sex more often, leads to the power leaning towards women,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:35 PM
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Wait 1000+ sex partners? How old are these women. There are 52 weeks in a year…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:26 PM
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For sex, no it’s not a big concern. For a LTR yes it’s pretty important, however I’ve never asked a woman what her body count was. The “bad”behaviors of a typical high N woman are what matter and they can be there at lower or higher N counts anyway. Most women can’t pretend for a long time or when they get a little alcohol in them so the whole aspect about her lying doesn’t play out either. Edit: Also it’s good to see what her friends are like. Birds flock to the same feather, or however that sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:24 PM
8

If you took the makeup off most women they would drop 2-3 points. That and most of what makes a man attractive facially such as jaw, slightly hallowed cheeks, and overall facial angularity is significantly lowered even slightly overweight. So dadbod ruins a guys face while most mombod women can get away with it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:14 PM
4

The most successful people in the world often realize how much pretty privilege can help them especially with networking and closing deals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:25 PM
3

The key takeaway here is obviously skip leg day. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5745404/ “Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men's bodily attractiveness”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:16 PM
1

I’m 6’ and would date a 6’+ gal if she’s attractive and had a petite frame. Karlie Kloss at 6’2 is a great example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:40 AM
0

Well for one domestic violence is a crime, and this isn’t relevant to the context of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:10 AM
2

No, back to the main point. You said men are more emotional because they perpetrate most violent crime. I showed in instances where domestic violence is one sided women are more often the perpetrators. Stats can support most biases. Neither stat proves anything. The strangulation situation lies outside my point and is another discussion entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:05 PM
1

I agree, most don’t, but your point is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:02 PM
1

You don’t understand the dynamics of sex for a man being a woman. Lame sex is better than no sex for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:30 PM
1

I’ve found that it is absolutely not worth putting in the time with women who don’t have high initial interest, unless you are just beginning and looking to maximize quantity. There are too many girls who would tongue punch my fart box after 10 minutes of nice conversation to bother with the “maybe” girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:27 PM
3

Strangling can cause bruising and rupturing of the capillaries in the eyes. Slapping a man vs punching a woman is the same situation you stated but reversed. A slap can but not often results in extended identifiable injuries while a punch often times will. I don’t see how either situation is worth mentioning. The reality is neither of these stats is a quality measure of a sex’s level of emotion and that was my point, not that women are more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:59 PM
2

Sorry, can you clarify. I’m not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:51 PM
3

“In relationships where violence was non-mutual almost 70% of the violence was perpetrated by the woman. In other words, in almost 7 out of 10 cases of mutual violence, the batterer was a female.” https://www.domestic-violence-law.com/blog/2016/april/women-or-men-who-usually-instigates-domestic-vio/ You can find data to support almost any opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:58 PM
3

Bro you’re on Reddit asking people why they waste their time. Think about that for a second.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 02:02 AM
1

Ng++
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:00 AM
2

This is the only reasonable solution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:55 AM
3

That’s not what the saying means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:52 AM
3

I’d dump any girl who was involved with a married man regardless if that married man was to me a stranger or family. If she doesn’t respect someone else’s relationship/marriage she won’t respect yours. No exceptions. The same is true if you reverse the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:04 PM
1

Dating in a friend group is shitting where you eat and a good way to make things awkward. Now dating in the same social circle is very different. Knowing someone through the same people vs actively hanging out in the same group is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:51 PM
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I've seen my gf's tinder. Sounds like the start of a cuck scene but ok /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:39 PM
1

Solid bumble by the way. Would personally make the last lumberjack picture first. Your face looks great when you’re super lean too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:56 PM
5

Most women control both. That’s such a RP echo chamber quote smh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:37 PM
1

Ooof you are sorely mistaken on the “might as well” comment unless you mean any location away from drunk men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:34 PM
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Most men would have sex with many woman if they could or at least they have wandering eyes. Most women have kids. Most women grow up wanted to get married and have a family. These are not bold claims. Were men not to have the instincts to reproduce and mothers to take care of our children we wouldn’t exist. Being childfree myself I can tell you it was very difficult finding childless women who don’t want kids. Being around men we are much more sexual even when we have someone. Also apologies on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:31 PM
1

No pint in explaining what an exception to the rule is. You made it this far in life so theres no hope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:10 PM
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Your argument appears to come from the lens of a man. That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:49 AM
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It’s a fair opinion I admit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:48 AM
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You have no life experience. Your post is irrelevant without experience. You can theorize what sex feels like but someone who has had it can criticize your opinion. Not to say you haven’t had sex, just a simple example. Women lie about BC which you can find out later. The concept is women want HVM to put a baby in them. You can downvote like a sad cunt too. Doesn’t change the fact that your wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:47 AM
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Disagree just based on the number of women that blatantly lied about being on BC to me. Disagree as I have ended things with multiple women who said they want kids. Data should be cross referenced with life experience and they don’t correlate with your numbers. Having children is likely a similar urge to women as fucking multiple women is for men. The only argument that’s fair is women have enough independence that being single is better than taking care of a low value man and a household
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:38 AM
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Streets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:34 AM
0

Go take a another Xanax you over boiled broccoli. When you’re ready to take the Adonis pill I’ll see you on the other side brother 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:25 AM
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I understand the examples, not your point. There is a big difference between someone saying as a man it’s impossible to meet an semi cute none obese girl vs a girl saying she’s going to meet the rare man I just described (realistically women aren’t running in droves demanding that man anyway which is why most don’t struggle to meet men)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:37 PM
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Agreed. I’m not even being necessarily cynical. The human brain is hundreds of times more complex than any known structure in the universe. We’re just animals with a computer that runs on hormones. We suck and we’re weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:47 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean. Like when men talk about HVM being the top 10 percent? Or how single men under 35, over 6’ tall, not obese, and making over 100k is less than 1% of the population. My friend is like .01% and can’t meet women so obviously a lot more to do with it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:44 PM
5

We don’t deserve reindeer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:30 PM
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I’m pretty analytical myself but my god go outside so you have experience with real life. You can deduce anything from numbers. Stats are often times a joke, just like this post. Like Jesus Christ man have to been to a college campus, a bar, club, concert, festival. Any activity involving young people? There’s dozens, hundreds, or thousands of beautiful women walking around. It’s getting cliché on here to say it but touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:46 PM
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men are pieces of shit and women are also pieces of shit. Straight facts. Humans suck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:41 PM
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The analogy was to clarify that things can worsen without someone’s control. You’re focusing on the object used, not the point of the statement. Men typically think of things as more of a matter of fact and details are less important. What we say is what matters. Women care how it’s said to a greater degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:11 PM
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I think I read that comment, could be multiple though. But the poster didn’t say damaged goods. You chose that terminology, says a lot about you. Or it was a different comment entirely. Most men want to date emotionally healthy women as women do emotionally healthy men. A victim of SA potentially has some serious hangups when it comes to intimacy. That’s a dealbreaker for many. It’s no one’s responsibility to fix someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:10 AM
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I’d end the relationship no questions asked. I’d never date a women naive enough to think men can be platonic friends with beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:05 AM
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Your understanding of push/pull is severely flawed. Your pessimism extents to things that are playful. https://youtu.be/0kaR6-MIV8k
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:52 PM
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Men are promiscuous. Gay men are also promiscuous since they are men. Speaking in relative terms of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:47 PM
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Leave it to Randy Rainbow to get butthurt that men are calling men more promiscuous. This isn’t about gay men. It’s about MEN. When given the chance we smash more. If both parties are men it inflates that opportunity. 10% of gay men have over 100 sexual partners. The typically gay guy has 10. Gay dudes out here getting it more. There’s no argument and learn what the term “phobia” means. You sound like an idiot when using it every time someone mentions homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:29 PM
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While game can include manipulation that’s really not the basis at all. Game is mostly about building comfort and confidence when speaking to women. Learning about certain things that turn women off. Push/pull or other dynamics that build attraction or interest. These dynamics many times extend outside of sexual attraction and are just general charisma. Few people are born naturally charismatic. It is a skill that can be learned by most, though easier for some than others. Like learning another …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:11 PM
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You had me in the first half Ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:40 PM
1

Was he the one who said one of the strongest correlations to relationship success was doing the small things?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:30 AM
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Can you tell me about the requirements on being a sexpert? I’d really like to add that to my flair if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:29 AM
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I appreciate it, and to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:21 AM
2

Yeah was asking why suggesting a walk after 1st date would be a no. Usually I prefer dinner on a first date and then suggest an activity outside for a second so I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:10 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:24 AM
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I’ve been called prettyboy a lot. I have a decently masc face but I’m extremely well dress and groomed. I shave my arms legs etc. I think pretty boy is just a certain look. Like a cover model. I was recently at a strip club entertaining a client when a girl there (not working) approached and started flirting with me. I mentioned having a gf to curve the situation and she said I can’t come to strip clubs with a gf because I’m “The Pretty Boy” and we joked about for a min or two. I proceeded to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:54 PM
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Dudes literally a genetic specimen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:43 PM
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Yes, the majority of women prefer men around their age or a few years older. With that said if you’re an attractive guy in your 30s with money you have no problem attracting enough women to have your pick of the litter. The key is attractive. If you were a 6-7/10 in your 20s you’ll do a lot better in your 30s. The same isn’t true for a 4-5/10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:31 PM
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I’m not trying to date Reddit girls, but I agree and understand the female gaze/perception. Photos of me with my boats, beach etc are much better for OLD and what I use.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:22 PM
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No it’s totally on you to ask. I really like going down on women but I’d ask if they were seeing other dudes first because the idea was a bit gross to me if they were. I also don’t like the use of condoms so similar to not walking around an active volcano I avoid putting my dick in active vaginas. Obviously they can lie but IME if you understand how to open up women emotional they feel comfortable giving that information
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:15 PM
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Most of the women come across as promiscuous on their profiles. Duck lips, poses to show their ass and whatnot. This is fine for casual sex but not really what I was looking for in a woman for LTR. The girl I’m with stood out because her bio didn’t have any red flags and she had a handful of wholesome photos. It’s all about looks and not disqualifying yourself as a woman. Bars higher for a man IME
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:59 PM
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Cialis doesn’t increase heart rate. You have a first grade level understanding of PDE5 inhibitors and have no business offering opinions on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:19 AM
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Have him try Cialis. I use it for performance enhancing in the gym but it pretty much negates my refractory period as a healthy young guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:33 PM
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I’ve had this conversation with multiple VP and C Suite guys at my office. They told me not to actually get married but wear a ring and pretend. You are absolutely going to shoot yourself in the foot if you’re not the typical family man in most companies. These men all hate their wives and I’ve seen what they do when we are entertaining clients but the facade of “happily married” is very important. I think if your 30 and she’s 19 meh probably ok. But a 40 year old with a woman in her 20s is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:42 PM
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Bold of you to assume I knew you were a woman but “nice try” as you say. Have a good night sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:05 AM
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You’re clearly too emotional for this topic. Jesus christ. You’ve clearly never dating in southern red states
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:28 PM
0

All I want for my birthdaaaaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:16 PM
5

Societal stigmas around interracial couples. Lack of understanding of black specific challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:13 PM
2

I would agree that I fit the “player” trope to a large degree. I treat them like a gentleman though, hold doors, pay for dinner, no negging. Never understood why men get off on treating women poorly. There are a lot of nuances in these situations that’s hard to concisely put into text how things led up to the girls being like this, how they said it, the look on their face etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:02 PM
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No, the vast majority of men are desperate and low promiscuity isn’t something they have the ability to have a strong preference for or they don’t care. Even the sorority girls known for being run through by the frats are all getting married before 30. This is mostly just a revenge projection by men who didn’t have success with with early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:58 PM
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You can date these broken women. I’m good thanks. There are plenty of men like you for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:24 PM
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What’s a fatwa?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:04 PM
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I believe people when they tell me who they are. Those girls didn’t think they were good enough so I can only believe they are correct. I want a woman with high confidence. I don’t want a project, though some of the more predatory men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:03 PM
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Neuroticism is not sexy on either sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:02 AM
1

Man I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gotten up from bed with a girl on a first date filled with chemistry and great sex and as I’m about to leave (most girls in college have twin beds and I’m not about that life) and they say something like “please don’t just leave and I’ll never hear from you.” Kinda breaks my heart because the girls seemed genuine cool, but I want to admire my woman not pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:41 PM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:32 PM
0

❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:55 AM
0

🧂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:54 AM
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Women can’t get big enough naturally to be gross. There are guys who lift and eat for years trying to get big and dont. Girls can hardly build any muscle and the ones that do are on gear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:42 AM
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Haha, I walked right into that one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:41 AM
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Integrity. Sees the value a man brings to her. Focuses on what they can give in a relationship not what they get out of it. Good at sorting conflicts. Empathetic and warm. Stuff like that. I bring the same qualities except the last where I bring more masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:39 AM
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Not so much shared beliefs and attitudes. I just see how promiscuous women act and it’s not someone I’d bet on. N count doesn’t even matter, just the behavior. Too much nuance to put into textX Women are free to feel the same about me being a 99 percentile n count man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:35 AM
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🧂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:33 AM
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Haha no more so behavior. Watch 1996 Matilda the movie and compare the extremes of Mrs Honey and The Trunchbull
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:37 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:04 PM
1

I was just raising your shitpost with my cringepost tho
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 03:54 PM
1

I’ll stop eating for two weeks and tape my eyes back. Then we can hangout
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 03:27 PM
1

That’s magic wand to you sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:14 PM
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Try to work on your issues. Have a nice day man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:01 PM
1

I’m not the grammar police lol but I’ve never seen u’re in my life. It’s just u and ur
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:05 PM
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Did you really shorten you’re to u’re? Absolutely buffoonery. This entire post is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:55 AM
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Struggling to find your point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:52 AM
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Don’t put your dick or fingers in crazy dude? I would break any contact with this woman and state it’s because she spread rumors about you and she’s a nut case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:05 AM
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Masculine women. Especially violent loud women. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:20 AM
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The more women I sleep with the more concrete in my decision that I wouldn’t seriously date a promiscuous woman. You can complain about double standards or hypocrisy. I am walking art and make over 150k. In sales (charismatic) I can afford to have a few preferences especially those I deem appropriate to determine the merit of a women for marriage. Even more so, when you consider the risks associated with marrying a woman in the west. Studies are irrelevant versus my own life experience and it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:31 PM
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Your range included up to 40. Your are just as sarcastic and jaded as many of the Redpill men here. Strong doubt your option has any validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:29 PM
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I'm in my late 20s, and all of my female friends are 25-40, gorgeous, successful, wonderful, and many are single by choice. It was at this moment I knew nothing of value or reality was going to be said. Your friends are likely not very attractive and the higher quality men are dating sexier and younger women. I agree that they are probably better off staying single than going for the men they are able to attract. Neither sex is reliant on the other anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:25 PM
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It’s definitely more rare. The more you work on yourself as a man and become the full package the more likely you’ll have that. I’d say looks are going to be primary though since it’s initial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:23 PM
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You’ve likely never met a women with extremely high interest in you from the beginning. Effortlessly talking, touching, etc. You can tell right when your eyes meet. I hope you do experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:06 AM
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It’s not extreme enough. I can tell in the first 10 seconds if she’s worth the effort or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:25 AM
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Short lived competitive effort doesn’t replace genuine desire
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:21 AM
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I agree with one caveat. You may occasionally get a girl from a level 5 interest to a 6 which might let you build enough rapport to go on a date. However with that said I have no desire to be with women who start off lukewarm. There are too many girls who will enthusiastically want to see you. Edit: This thread is a prime example why you should almost always exclude dating advice from most women. “I develop feelings slowly” “I was friends with a guy first” these niche examples are just that. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:48 PM
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Not true. Women almost never approach. The only women who approach me are average and they’re batting out of their league. You’ll almost never have a 7+ girl approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:35 PM
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This is spot on. If you look at the general trends around female erotica the male protagonist often, other than fitting the stereotypical female gaze cosmetically, is unable to resist the female protagonist. The entire premise of female erotica is often is the guy can’t resist the girl and does fucked up shit, such as kidnapping and sexual assault, to get her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:19 PM
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I’m all for being positive but let’s not blow smoke up the guys ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:29 AM
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It’s unethical to engineer a situation where a child has only one parent. Have your parents adopt a child and you can be the god parent. I only suggest that as your chances of adopting as a single male are likely zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:28 AM
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Attitudes like this are so sexy. I’d just want to buy you dinner even more. My gf now is the same way and she has to usually steal the check from the waitstaff. It’s a really fun dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:25 AM
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Men likely cheat more physically for temporary sexual urges while women cheat more emotionally when they don’t feel heard/valued/respected in their relationship. Most data shows it’s similar or trends towards men cheating more but if women are more likely to have emotional situations would that impacts the stats? Possibly. Hard to say either way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:20 AM
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u/DerekMorganBAU is spot on. I’m maybe 12% in my profile pic. I can barely maintain this year round. I eat 90% clean and do 90 minutes of moderate cardio a week. I’ve used gear in the past and while it doesn’t make staying lean easier, you still have to diet and do cardio, it allows your body to hold on to muscle at lower body fat percentages. There are a handful of people who have freaky genetics that allow them to maintain muscle at low body fat percentages but the average guy can’t gain nearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:20 PM
2

I’d choose a LTR with a high quality girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:19 AM
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I’ve made women compete when I was spinning plates. This is almost unavoidable if you go to campus bars. The circles are small enough that the girls will run into eachother when you’re out with one. Usually the one you’re with will be all over you the rest of the night and the other one will text you that night (rare) or the next day to hang out Women are competitive too, but only for a minority of guys. I do think this subset of women is more the minority and just the “party” scene girls. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:44 PM
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I don’t think most would have a higher level of happiness giving up a good LTR to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:38 PM
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Causal sex gets old unless you are very high value. The effort required to smash beautiful women can get exhausting. With a triple N count I can say it never gets easy as you just try and sleep with hotter and hotter women. I’ve never felt love gets old in abundance however. Having someone is a long game strategy whereas casual sex is shorter term. Great thing about being a man is you can do both. Work on yourself as a man. Go out and sleep with lot of women. Figure out what you like. Figure out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:42 PM
2

It depends significantly on genetics but probably 3-4+ years for most people. You’ll get 75% of the way there by year two. Gains slow down a lot after that. I have 17” arms. To put that into perspective Frank Zane won the Olympia in 77’ with 17” arms though he was leaner and a few inches shorter. Eugene Tao is really good. Most people overcomplicate the training part and underestimate the importance of good sleep and diet. The 5% gain figuring out a perfect split is much less important than gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:19 PM
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My body shits on every single dude pictured. Feelsgoodman.jpeg But in all seriousness most of the girl I know would find these bodies very appealing. This is fit and sexy and most women don’t expect a guy with a steroid fueled physique
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:19 PM
2

I don’t care about any of this. I’m atheist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:31 AM
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Christianity. It’s part of the 10 commandments. 6 “Thou shalt not kill”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:30 PM
0

That’s has as much merit as showing this to people considering buying a home
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/22 08:16 PM
1

I can’t say either way. Only thing I can go off is what these women are labeling you as. Even if they didn’t like you gay isn’t the first place they usually go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:11 PM
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Toxic masculinity is most often used by women who can’t get laid to describe the men they want to fuck. You probably act like a flamboyant pussy. It’s unlikely it has anything to do with masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:32 PM
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Most dudes don’t find women in their 30s as yucky at all. A fit attractive woman in her 20s is similar to a fit attractive woman in her 30s. However if you’re not particularly attractive or fit you’re not getting any sexier over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:27 PM
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Seriously man 90% of the insta thots only look good in full makeup and good lighting. I’ve been absolutely catfished IRL by some women who do such a good job with their makeup that when I see them without I’m honestly pissed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:47 PM
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Really enjoy the [removed] comment from [deleted] in this thread and echo those thoughts as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:40 PM
1

29 M Midwest United States
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 09:39 PM
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If it walks like a cuck and talks like a cuck…….
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 08:59 PM
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Blue pill = mainstream fairytale view of love Red pill = women are brutal. Women choose the winners. Focus on yourself and you’ll attract women you desire. Black pill = Red pill views EXCEPT that you can’t do much to improve and your attractiveness is what mostly matters. You can’t change it easily Purple pill = mix between red and blue. It’s more of a balance.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 06:02 PM
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Oh totally. I was more being sarcastic in a light hearted way but I’m a huge follower of bio hacking and stuff like CRISPR gene splicing. There are crazy theories about how time in the womb equates to higher intellect. Artificial wombs would allow infants to spend longer time developing in vitro. Maybe future humans will spend years developing in artificial wombs to become super human.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:12 AM
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Sounds like feminists need to up their priorities to include artificial wombs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:50 PM
2

I’d pick me Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:40 PM
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High “value” means means other people want it. So it’s a man that women want and the man other men want to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:31 PM
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Women who belonged to the streets smell of the streets. You don’t have to ask a woman her n-count to figure out what you need to know. The number itself is irrelevant. Men who care and have choice with women won’t choose promiscuous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:17 PM
1

Are you really ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:09 PM
1

Onlyfans is not porn. Men on OF purchase content as it has the facade of being 1 on 1 personalized content. A guy lands on a creators home page and she has a bot set up that says hi etc. he purchases a month and again the bot sends a “personalized” nude or something and again the bloke feels as if it’s personal contents. Many actual offer personalized content for extra money. The good creators leverage this personalized feel. These men are very lonely and rely on OF as their only way to get some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:17 AM
1

Anytime a non-white talks about racism I click off. Too many have a victim mindset to waste time humoring their viewpoint. There’s nothing wrong with applying judgements based on experience. OP obviously has experience that dictates the lack of desire to watch white men with headphones and a mic Edit: Replied to wrong comment but meh
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 01:04 AM
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The relationship you have with yourself is the most important. The most common thing people do to themselves is betrayal. You said you were going to workout today but you sat at home and watched TV. You said you were going to try and eat healthier but you ate trash…while you watched TV. Stop lying and cheating yourself brahs.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 10:01 PM
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I think it’s not talked about because very few men are in the position of sex zoning women and for the men who are sex zoned, while not ideal if they like the girl, is a good enough situation as they are satisfying their need for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:47 PM
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u/urbantexasguy echoed my thoughts exactly. Even if you included non-celebrities who make over 500k or a million it’s less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:41 PM
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