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| -4 | A sad fact about our societyThank you for demonstrating so perfectly, exactly the kind of bullshit I've been warning people about. A father is likely to receive about 35% of child custody time. But in 90% of cases he is OK with that because that's what he agreed with the mother - without going to court. In the remaining cases the majority are resolved without trial. And in the extreme minority of cases where the father and the mother have an equally clean record, the courts are likely to make a fair decision. A father will… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:50 AM |
| -5 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityFor anybody reading this. Please disregard this bullshit. Look into it yourself and make up your own mind. Therapy can help many people work through internal struggles and misconceptions about their identity and role in society. Masculinity is a major source of expectations placed on men, and many of your assumptions about who you should be and how you should behave may be misguided. Mental health issues and suicide is fucking rampant amongst men. And its generally accredited to our flawed conce… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:37 AM |
| -5 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityFor anybody reading this. Please disregard this bullshit. Look into it yourself and make up your own mind. Therapy can help many people work through internal struggles and misconceptions about their identity and role in society. Masculinity is a major source of expectations placed on men, and many of your assumptions about who you should be and how you should behave may be misguided. Mental health issues and suicide is fucking rampant amongst men. And its generally accredited to our flawed conce… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:37 AM |
| -6 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityPlease disregard the other responses. You're absolutely right. We see so many of the types of people who replied to you commit suicide. Their refusal to work through toxic masculine behaviour makes them progressively more hateful until something snaps and they have a breakdown. They up harming themselves and sadly, others around them. You meant well, but its hard to help people. Many men prefer to just stay angry at women and modern society while the world as whole moves on and forgets about the… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:33 AM |
| -2 | A sad fact about our societyWhat's your point? That millions of people end up in custody battles. Yes that's true. But generally these custody battles are no where near as biased as they used to be thanks to the brilliant work by feminist campaigners. The other dozens of millions of people, settled custody without the courts. The point is that nowadays, a father not getting child custody due to some kind of unjust reason is statistically highly unlikely. It doesn't in any way detract from your post as there was a bias hist… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:20 AM |
| 16 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeMost violence is perpetrated by men, but that doesn't justify other, innocent, men being killed. A woman killing this guy would have been just as tragic as it is. The gender of the attacker doesn't change the fact that an innocent person was murdered. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:06 AM |
| -19 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeCertainly not. I don't believe women are worth more than men. However the post title says "2 women" instead of "2 people". I didn't want to misrepresent what happened in any way by obscuring the other victims' gender. If the other 2 victims gender was significant to the OP, then I won't intentionally obscure it. I guess it could be argued that saying 2 women instead of 2 people kind of plays off societal stereotypes of women being helpless and so paints the primary victim as more of a "hero". Bu… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:02 AM |
| -13 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeI assume you at least confirmed with his family prior using his death to support an assertion about male privilege? | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 04:50 AM |
| -27 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeLol what? A political agenda. Aka someone's political motivation for an ideology or change. There is nothing trivial about political agendas. My comment highlights the fact that peoples stance on men's rights, especially important parts like the approach to male privilege is massive. And not something we should assume someone would have stood for. To do so would be to assume how this guy experienced his life and that's really problematic. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’What you're saying rings true for both black men and many other ethnic minorities. But I never argued that your lived experience is "means" less or more and I think it's really fucked up that your lived experience is so often disregarded. I'm really sorry you have to put up with that. You really shouldn't have to. We're all humans and our experiences are valid, regardless of our ethnicity, gender, age or anything else. I'm not sure what about my comment made you believe that I consider some live… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 04:11 AM |
| -6 | A sad fact about our societyI'm afraid the child custody thing is a common myth circulated by alt-right and misogynist groups. The statistics and reality paint a very different picture: 90% of child custody cases are settled independently by the parents without a court ruling. In 51% of custodial cases, both parents agree that the mother should have custody, in the other 39% of cases, both parents agree that the father should have custody. The remaining 10% of cases, go to courts. Only 4% of child custody cases end up goin… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 04:00 AM |
| -45 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeI find it very disrespectful that you have politicized an innocent persons death to make some grandiose statement about male privilege or lack there of. The dead guy deserves respect, he died protecting 2 women. Don't weaponize his murder to further a political agenda you are not certain he would have agreed with. That's just heartless. And what for!? Some echo-chambered upvotes? You can do better than that. I fucking hope I'm wrong and you somehow know what this guy stood for. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 03:36 AM |
| -10 | Mom gives her son eviction papers for his 18th birthday present. Posts it online.Please read the sub rules: "Gender reversal posts must include comparable examples from both genders and also must be news stories, not some random photo or video or twitter post." | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’And likewise I really appreciate you suggesting it. Regardless of me having read it already. Its the thought that counts :) | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | ‘Lived Experience’Nothing but hatred and anger to back up your statements and accusations. If you take but one piece if advice, the path you are on only leads to more hatred. It yields no progress in men's rights nor anyone else's. People further up the path you're on stuffer greatly and it doesn't have to be like this. You could be happy and live a full life. Probably coupled off with someone special, woman or man and likely with loving children to look over. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 02:12 AM |
| -1 | ‘Lived Experience’That's silly. A mens rights resource choosing to support feminism, in no way de-validates said resource. Many mens rights groups and organizations, affiliate themselves with feminism. We are all fighting for equality. Equality can only work both ways: Women must be allowed to serve, for men to not be the only ones getting killed in infantry roles. Women must be paid as much as women, for men to stop having to pay for women and household upkeep. Women must not be viewed as natural providers and n… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:57 AM |
| -2 | ‘Lived Experience’I'm an academic working in mental health for men. Its kind my job to read books like this. I've read Nora Vincents book. I think she has made some interesting points. I consider some very valid, but I disagree with others. As a response I'd recommend "Men Who Hate Women" by Laura Bates. She did something very similar to Nora Vincents, but came up with very different conclusions. Again, I agree with some, but disagree with others. On the topic of Noras work, I'd argue "The Authority Gap" is anoth… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:46 AM |
| -3 | ‘Lived Experience’General consensus pretty much anywhere you look is that misogyny is a societal problem which is super widespread and prominent across most demographics. Married men are misogynist very often. Mansplaining, and gaslighting are 2 common forms of misogynist abuse reported by women and perpetrated by both married and unmarried men. If you don' think Jordan Peterson is a misogynist then I'm afraid I'm tapping out. Have a nice life in a manosphere. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:29 AM |
| 0 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Then we stand together on this. However it is also why I am opposed to justifying the pay gap with men paying more for women. If we justify the pay gap, its no longer an issue. If pay gap is no longer an issue, it doesn't need fixed. And if it doesn't get fixed and we will never get a fair future Edit: OP attempts to justify the pay gap. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’Going back to your original point, you don't believe that a misogynist would ever get married. You genuinely believe husbands cannot be misogynists. I'm going to stop trying to find evidence inside the marriage as its hard to prove. Yet I do acknowledge that the burden of proof is still on me. I'll instead fall back to the simpler task of finding you misogynist men, who are married. Here are some examples of married (or previously married) misogynists - some of these men would probably even iden… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’I wholeheartedly agree and this was my point - you have framed it much better than me. Dismissing personal experience as anecdotal evidence is valid, but it cuts both ways. Its hypocritical for this stub to dismiss it when they don't like, but accept it when they want to agree. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefThis is where we discuss mens rights, and this is why I have commented that there is nothing worry about for men. The article is misquoting a police officer and there is no actual thread to men being prosecuted for being in a male dominated room. That's relevant for mens rights. It was then that you said that you think shes planning on it. And I told you quite plainly that there is no evidence for her planning to prosecute men for sitting in male dominated rooms. And then you said that the artic… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | ‘Lived Experience’You have a good point and the research you have linked is sound. I haven't made very good examples there. But I stand by my original arguments. My general take on this thread is that while lived experience is subjective, it's not fair to just always dismiss it in the face of studies. Women have every reason to fear walking alone at night due to the widespread risk of sexual harassment. However, if this wasn't the case and women were totally safe walking alone at night, but continued to FEEL unsa… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | A Queen who had the longest reign in history over arguably the richest empire in history is a big problem for those who rail against the toxic patriarchy.You seem to be proposing the notion that women are inferior workers when it comes to all jobs. You also suggest that men work harder than women. I believe the general scientific consensus goes against these statements. I don't know about the female boss thing, I've never heard of that before. I do doubt it. Its obviously quite a misogynistic accusation, but one that was quite prominent prior to this being generally disproved through case studies. If you have some peer reviewed studies that show … | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefIts hard to not talk about women when talking about sexual harassment. Women make up the vast majority of sexual harassment victims. I'm so sorry to hear about the abuse of the queens husband. It really is terrible what he went through and I don't think it can be justified to treat a human being like this. However as terrible as it is, it bears no relevance to a discussion of sexual harassment. Its not even an example of sexual harassment. It's not entirely clear to me what you are disagreeing w… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefOh boy. Tantrum mode. I said nobody disagrees with your male violence stats. But they are not relevant in a discussion of sexual harassment. Because they are not stats about sexual harassment. FYI there is a widespread project by UK police to reduce violence stats. But you will not hear about it from a chief specialising in reducing sexual harassment. Dismissing the emotional meltdown over your experiences on feminist forums because they are not relevant in the context of this discussion. Which … | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 05:05 PM |
| 0 | ‘Lived Experience’Not all domestic violence is due to misogyny or misandry. I never said that. I also never said that there are no men married to misandric wives. This men's rights resource explores marital misogyny further: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/marital-misogyny-lbkr/ But its not a very crazy suggestion. I'm surprised you're shocked to hear it. So many terms for wives are riddled with misogyny. From the trope of man not being able to stay out drinking "because of the Mrs". To having an affa… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 04:51 PM |
| -6 | ‘Lived Experience’The existence of domestic misogynist violence and the fact that most female abuse is done by partners and friends shows very clearly that misogynists can be married to women. Sometimes they become misogynist during the marriage. And I guess sometimes women can't tell or men hide it well. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 04:41 PM |
| -5 | ‘Lived Experience’Case in point. The fact that you have never heard a misogynist say that, is just your lived experience. Basing on your original comment, I just dismiss you as irrational and arguing with anecdotal evidence. But that's obviously not right. And therein is my point. Its not so simple as to reject everyone's subjective experience. I'll obviously not reject your comment and follow up with some sources to other threads in this sub where anecdotal experience is used very often to demonize women See thi… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefAre you illiterate. I've already dismissed the article on grounds of misrepresenting the interview. Let's calm down for a moment. The interview was about sexual harassment and sexual violence. So you can put you male violence victims stats away. Nobody is disagreeing with those. Sexual harassment and sexual violence has predominantly female victims. And this is why a chief of police tasked with "reducing sexual harassment" in 2021, is focusing on sexual harassment against women. Its more widespr… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | A Queen who had the longest reign in history over arguably the richest empire in history is a big problem for those who rail against the toxic patriarchy.The majority and men and women are not successful but in terms of career ladders, the higher you go, its more and more men. There is therefore a gender imbalance then it comes to career success. Men are more likely to be successful than women. Why could that be? There must be a reason for this. The only possible legitimate reason would be that men are somehow more suitable for a job. I struggle to think of more than a few examples of male-suited jobs and there are also only a few examples of fem… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminists logic: Men, you should stand up to other men, we won't do the same for you but still you must remember that we are allies and care about you, good luck.Why do you think we treat abuse done by a female so benign, while we react so strongly to abuse done by a man? Do societal impressions of men as strong, dangerous, dominant and women as weak, submissive and harmless play into this? If so, I think both feminists and mens rights activists would see your experience as very troubling. Feels to me like the reason people don't react strongly to women abusing men, is because we don't take female anger as seriously. We tend to ridicule any man who would… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:38 PM |
| -5 | ‘Lived Experience’Cuts both ways though. We see people on this sub use their lived experiences as evidence all the time. There are some things which are hard to measure. A common feminist example is "women feeling scared and anxious walking alone at night". A common misogynist example is "my wife made me buy all this furniture with my money. This is why men make less". | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefIf she is, she has done nothing to indicate this being the case. You wouldn't say that if you read the interview or watched the episode. Concerning refusal to actually investigate the facts which shape your beliefs. Are you actually learning things or just trying to prove yourself right? | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefFirstly I'm not saying anything. The police chief is saying things. If male dominated spaces are bad for women, then surely female dominated spaces will be bad for men. You wrote that as if there is no middle ground? What about rooms where there is a roughly equal amount of men and women. Surely it would work best for all. Actually it usually does. Scientific consensus points towards better productivity, morale, motivation and quality of output in diverse teams over homogeneous ones. (Let me kno… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:20 PM |
| 0 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Everything about your original comment suggests that the reason men make more money is because they have to spend it on women. Its kind of what this thread is all about. If societally we accept such a philosophy, over time employers will stop paying men who dont date women as much (if they don't spend money on women then there is no reason to pay them more). Its not a future we want to live in. And its a dangerous assertion to make because it doesn't lead to improved men's rights. It makes thing… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | A Queen who had the longest reign in history over arguably the richest empire in history is a big problem for those who rail against the toxic patriarchy.That's a big question. I'm not sure if I entirely do. However I do think it is harder for women to succeed and gain the same level of respect as men. This is evidenced by the male dominance amongst the richest, most powerful, managers. So I certainly believe there is evidence of patriarchy on the career ladder. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:10 PM |
| -4 | A Queen who had the longest reign in history over arguably the richest empire in history is a big problem for those who rail against the toxic patriarchy.The queen became the queen because she was born into the Royal family. Most other women dont have this privilege. The queen was never interviewed for the role. Never had to compete for a promotion. Never had to deal with pretty much anything that all women deal with when working for their success. She is a poor example of someone who made it through the patriarchy, because she kind of never had to. Though I'm sure she dealt with some sexism in her life, like most women. There are other women out… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | If males in the military have higher physical requirements and get paid the same, that is gender discrimination against equal opportunity. They should be either paid more than females, or require the same physical standards.That makes sense. I misunderstood you. I agree with your comments. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:44 AM |
| -1 | USA: 27-year-old woman starts handing out dating RESUMES to men she finds attractive. OP: I suspect a man would be arrested for harassment if he did this.Do you have a source for that? Sorry buddy but if you don't have sources to support your "facts", youre just a stranger on the internet making up numbers. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:39 AM |
| 0 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.That's not a good faith response and you know it. Looks like you'd rather throw a tantrum than reconsider your point of view. You really want to live in a world where men have to pay to date women? Be my guest buddy, but you're on the wrong side of history. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:37 AM |
| -17 | Sexual harassment includes sitting in rooms with more male officers than women, says UK police chiefBiased title. Reading the article actually shows that the UK police chief said that sexual harassment is about being in male dominated spaces. The article states that women can "get sexually harassed just by sitting in a room with more men than women" -- because it is a male dominated space. She goes to say that addressing male dominance in the police force is a step forward in reducing this situation and the risk of sexual harassment occurring.. The interview was predominantly about targeting s… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | USA: 27-year-old woman starts handing out dating RESUMES to men she finds attractive. OP: I suspect a man would be arrested for harassment if he did this.This is false Research has shown that around 50% of young 13 year old American girls reported being unhappy with their body. This number grew to nearly 80% by the time girls reached 17 years of age. In one Switzerland study of 1000 adult women (aged 30-74 years), despite 73% of women falling within the normal weight range, more than 70% of these women expressed a desire to be thinner.This trend also held true for older women (> 65 years); 65% were of normal weight, yet 62% of these women wished … | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 10:32 PM |
| -3 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Sure, Oil rigs - skipping cause you didn't give a job title - caterers on oil rigs don't make that much for example. Equipment operators: https://www.salary.com/research/salary/benchmark/heavy-equipment-operator-salary Pipe fitters (didn't find "with seal"): https://www.salary.com/research/salary/benchmark/pipefitter-salary Both of these roles have impressive salaries, however they are nothing to write home about when compared to those of lawyers, software engineers or surgical staff. Even if th… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 10:07 PM |
| 0 | Misogynistic influencers are trending right now. Defusing their message is a complex taskYou didn't get the full picture because you only read one article. There is generally a fair bit of work (both released and ongoing) into the study of your boys attraction to the manosphere. The context is that young men are vulnerable (like all kids). They have not formed their own moral identity, they have limited experience to reflect on and they will have mostly failed to interact with the opposite gender peers. Most playground games remain gender segregated (this is highly documented so I w… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired. Are you tired?Im very sorry for what you and father went through. There is nothing anyone can say that to justify your mothers behavior. I think you may have some damage, you have brought with you from your childhood and family home. The work of mens rights (and feminism for that matter) is to deconstruct the definition of a "good man" you have provided. You can be good without filling the role of the provider. Men are complex, sensitive and very emotional humans, much like women. And the way in which they ar… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 09:28 PM |
| -4 | If males in the military have higher physical requirements and get paid the same, that is gender discrimination against equal opportunity. They should be either paid more than females, or require the same physical standards.Do you have any source to back up the claim that feminists don't by as many WNBA tickets than other women? | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 0 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Please link the source. Without a source you're just a nobody on the internet making up numbers... | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Why are men only given 16%? Is it because only 16% of creators on the platform are men? Or are you saying that men pay a higher commission on the platform than women? | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 08:34 PM |
| -2 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Missing a source here. I don't think your logic holds up which is why I would like to see a source. Hard physical jobs which women refuse to take are usually quite underpaid (which is all kinds of wrong and a big issue with men's rights). While low physical effort desk jobs, tend to be paid a lot more. Highest paid jobs aren't high risk/very physically demanding and could be done by either men or women due to requiring primarily thinking/knowledge or high levels of manual dexterity (like for bra… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.It doesn't make sense and its terrible common sense. It implies that men who don't date women will be paid less for the same work. This isn't fair. It also implies that men have to accept a financial hit for dating women. Which also isn't fair. Dating people should not result in a financial hit that's larger for one party than another. It also implies that women must date men to gain a similar level of financial freedom. Which is also not fair. This kind of logic will lead to a future where we a… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The real finance gap. Has there been serious analysis on the amount of money men spend directly on women. Or wealth transferred by the courts.Disappointing to see so many emotional replies here making all kinds of claims, but generally no peer reviewed studies to back them up. I'm not sure if considering men spending money on women would hold up in a debate over women's financial inequality. Its also not a justification we should uphold as it leads to a bad situation for both men and women. There is a significant portion of women who don't ever have children, don't date men and or don't ever get divorce. Justifying a discrepancy in in… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | "Foodie Call". Some women are purposely tricking men to get free meals.This is insane! Can you post a link to the study? One to keep bookmarked for the future. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 03:35 PM |
| -2 | Kinda sick of things being celebrated for having less men/ white men. Why can’t it just be the best person for the job gets hired and be done!I think there is generally strong scientific consensus on the fact the diverse teams perform better in, creativity, productivity, motivation and morale than homogenous teams. So I think we're supposed to be celebrating all the big companies making even more money off us. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 06:46 AM |
| -3 | Kinda sick of things being celebrated for having less men/ white men. Why can’t it just be the best person for the job gets hired and be done!Umm, don't know where you've been... Women have been campaigning for access to infantry roles since last century. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 06:24 AM |
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