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ConversationhOmIeCoUrt/r/seduction07/06/22 08:48 AM
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A woman.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:37 PM
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You know how I know none of this happened? There's no way a 40 year old man is 1. Calling a 50 year old woman a GILF, 2. Writing this fan fiction for us to read.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:27 PM
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I think you're playing a different (and much worse) game than we are dude.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:58 PM
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It's not you want it's what they will accept.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:58 PM
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One thing I'm learning and working through is that we accept the love we think we deserve or have been accustomed to. You need to figure out why you're always chasing and getting emotionally unavailable women. In my case: mommy issues. In most cases: mommy issues lol
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:37 AM
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The real world has plenty of women in it fyi
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:54 AM
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Cheers bro will look into it
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:24 PM
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I have plants. If I could give the fish enough time I'd have some though.. 2 weeks ago asked a girl if she wants to see my plants after 1 beer..we're still hanging out lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:11 PM
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You better know that's a great excuse to get dates over lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:08 PM
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Stop wasting time. Ask her for a drink/quick casual activity somewhere close to where you want to do the deed. Date. Escalate there, ask for a shag
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:35 AM
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I've watched some of his stuff, and I can only say that he is an insufferable knob. If young men are looking to content like this for guidance I fear for our future.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:07 AM
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She probably didn't want to date you mate. Is this something you want to invest your time in? Is this someone who you think is worth your energy?
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:35 AM
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Before dates I always do these things: Groom myself well: shave, cut nails, haircut if needed, moisturise, at least 2 showers that day, get a good outfit going. Listen to upbeat music: my lame anthem is girls by Jay Z it puts me in the zone Eat healthy: energy, prevents over eating that night Exercise: have a big session. Preferably for back or chest. I often run aswell to clear my head and get rid of jitters Drink coffee/tea: keeps me alert at night Meditate. Clean my house. Setting the expecta…
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:39 PM
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I think you went to her place and didn't seal the deal? If she invited you over I'm assuming she wanted sex and if you didn't want that or anticipate that then it's on you. She's done with you now because you didn't play your role. It's just a part of it. Rather than building a scenario where she's bad and you're good, chalk it up to the game and learn imo
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:43 PM
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List of excuses: I'm a black guy living in a foreign country already have a lot of attention on me when I go out. Don't speak the language fluently (I can ask if they can speak English... but this is the excuse list so stfu lol). I can communicate and make jokes but I got max 15 mins of conversation in me. People watch and stare all the time here, my neighborhood is small AF so if I'm here chasing women I'd be afraid of catching a rep
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:49 AM
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I'm just going to list the excuses and made up reasons everyone else will really.. Ultimately I can I just am afraid of failure/looking like a creep.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:31 AM
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Ive had a few..I also had a j today and thought he said the girl was standing up and doing all this
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:46 PM
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Whatever it is it's weirdo behaviour. Says to me (if this is how she flirts) that she or the group is slightly immature? Anyway you should just ask her one on one if she has anything to share rather than asking us after the fact..
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:37 PM
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I could write a book but ultimately the only way out is through: Work on your self and your issues, maybe go to therapy Go to the gym, wear nice clothes Build a life you want to share with others Go out and look for people, be intentional when you do. Its that "simple" lol
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:37 PM
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Don't invest too much, set up a cheap date in public when she comes. If it's real congrats, if not you wasted 15 mins and 5€
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:52 AM
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Disclaimer: I don't cold approach This just seems logical to me: When you cold approach you choose the interactions you have. You choose the setting, you already lock in similar lifestyle and hobbies (you know you're talking to a coffee lover/reader in a coffee shop/bookstore or whatever). You also, I assume, only talk to the girls you find attractive and only succeed with those that reciprocate. OLD is a minefield of unmatched expectations, trauma, and people overwhelmed by their choices. If I …
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:06 AM
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It will drain you. Talking to someone who's always got problems, always unhappy or whatever..it's draining and it will impact you in the long term. Also just in general, people who dump like this often will just use you for that. And if that's not what you want then that would be s great space for resentment to creep in.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:38 AM
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Laugh it off and accept the fact that you're balding. Ask her if that's why she likes you. She said it to get a reaction. She probably picks up on some insecurity and some girls are just mischievous they'll test you or push your buttons. By laughing it off you take away her powervin this regard, you show confidence and you keep the vibe good. If you get hurt or angry it's only going one way (badly), you can turn it into a real joke if you want to, but you'd first have to be comfortable with the …
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:26 PM
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I mean that's not what I'm talking about and obviously a weirdo situation... In my case it's with a girl you are already building rapport with, on an established date sometime after getting a vibe she's into you. Opening or even saying it that like that is totally different and not recommended by me anyway
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:56 AM
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What works for me is authentically and deliberately cranking up the heat in conversation. We can meet sit down, talk small talk etc get comfortable. After 30-60 minutes I'll ask a sexual question or ask if she wants to fuck (yes, eye contact smile and say "do you want to fuck me tonight" or something to this extent once you've gotten a good vibe). Yesterday on a date we naturally got onto what our kinks were etc. Once I knew she was playing along, it was easy to move on to the next stage. Then i…
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:57 AM
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Don't unfollow it indicates that you care and or are hurt. Just live like they don't exist and if they reach out you can deal with that
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:45 AM
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Just weirdo bullshit. I'm bored.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:32 PM
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You didn't answer the question. Try again
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:28 PM
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You can't even "settle" for someone your own age lol. You're a virgin with nothing good going on.. maybe drop those standards a bit? Why would an attractive 20 year old want to date you? Honestly, look at yourself and answer that question.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:23 PM
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Well luckily the above poster provided those for you too!
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:57 PM
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No wonder you aren't getting pum
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:37 PM
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Be nice, but also consider what you want and need.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:33 AM
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What? No. If you are somewhere with someone and you don't want to continue then you don't need to force yourself to continue. You just need to respectfully and politely tell the other party what's going on, and that's it. It doesn't matter if you're at home, walking or at a bar.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:56 AM
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Be careful: common sense say allowing your woman to fuck other exciting men isn't the way to go if you're having issues (which you are because there's no way a satisfactory marriage would be doing this shit). I know at least 2 guys where this shit just ruined them
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:18 AM
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Sorry but I need to understand this: You let your wife fuck other people? Do you watch or something? Does she let you fuck other people? Do you two even have sex, or is this something you do to spice things up?
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:09 AM
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Why be rude? The fact you're cutting a date short is rude as it is to be honest. Just use normal communication skills: Finish your drink, explain you don't think there's a spark but you had a nice time, then call it a night. Oh and pay for the bill (if you can't afford it, you shouldn't be dating anyone).
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:05 AM
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Yeah bro you need to improve, because you are worth it. It's not about women it's about getting and living what you deserve.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:35 PM
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Heard that, and yeah next date is dinner at my place
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:06 PM
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Just generally we will talk after a date (so yesterday as we met last on Sunday) and sporadic bits and bobs through the week just thinking whether this should be like gradually increasing as the number of dates does I guess. You're right, I don't want to come across needy or too attached (mainly because I'm not), just worried that the vibes will die out in the meantime... Thanks
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:19 AM
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