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| 56 | Men who want traditional women, are you willing to be traditional men?To add to this, do you actually have traditional values or do you just want a traditional wife from the 1950s ? Do you go to church / partake in religious communities? Do you abstain from internet porn, hook up culture, partying? Do you hold family and tradition as the highest regard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.oh you guys are not getting any because you're morally too high and too good towards women? do you people actually believe that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.lol if this is true, wouldn't it be so easy for all of you guys to get laid and get girlfriends? just treat women like shit. how hard is that? You guys seem to do a fine job online shitting on women. I'm sure you could do it in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.and you think women are attracted to those qualities? Why don't you go out and hit a girl, cheat on your next girlfriend, and denigrate her publicly, let us know how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The most handsome man! 🧢what is subjectivity? where do you rank? are you also an untouchable deemed to be removed from the gene pool? who gets to decide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Study: low sexual frequency for couples with kidsThere's no singular victim here. A normal relationship includes working out compatibility issues and dealing with changes. What normal relationship counselor or therapist will say ok you don't want to have sex with your partner, go work on it on your own, it's your own fault for wronging the "victim" What exactly would be the remedy or solution, how would you force someone to change their level of attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 02:13 PM |
| – | There is no such thing as sexless men.Do you really think seeing a prostitute is the exact same thing as having sex with someone who wants you? Two college kids hooking up is the same level of transaction as someone paying for the illusion? I'm not sure if being a frequent prostitution has a homogenous impact on the mindset. If you justify yourself that you feel better for going sure. If anything, I would wager long term / regularly treating sex as a commodity to be purchased would have a negative impact on one's overall outlook on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 01:59 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as sexless men.How does one feel confident and dominant knowing that they had to pay for a service that others get for free with full consent, desire, and mutual attraction? They could go on sex tourism all over third world countries or bang even younger than 20. I assure you nothing screams "attractive" about frequent prostitution customers. In fact try telling any 20 year old girl that you have sex with prostitutes all the time and they will express visceral disgust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | It seems like so many guys' frustrations, insecurities, problems would've been addressed if they locked in a relationship early. What stopped you from achieving this and what would you do differently if you were younger?WAWE? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 15 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I'm just pointing out the discrepancy of why a group of people dedicated to casual sex is so bothered by the women are also having casual sex. If it's about casual sex and getting laid, then n count obsession of women would hardly be even a problem yet many posters here seem to completely switch tunes to ultra conservative only when it's about women's n count and partners. It could also be explained if these men are NOT having the casual sex and getting laid as much as they want to care about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?That's interesting. According to that study, is that the same for men too? Male prior sex partners is a predictor of marital infidelity? Does the study quantify lack of communication as a factor for you to claim it is not an important indicator? Of the literature I'm familiar with and of course basic sense, marital satisfaction, emotional/sexual satisfaction, and even attractiveness are all strong predictors of future infidelity not just past partner count. My point is those things are not nearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 05:06 AM |
| -4 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?If you want a healthy, faithful, monogamous relationship there are many variables and things to work on besides her n count. There are other correlations with cheating rates that are hardly discussed here. But let's be honest, it reflects more about insecurity of guys who are "missing out" on young love/romance. Just because a girl is a virgin or has low partner count doesn't mean the relationship will be set to go. There's so much that goes into what keeps a relationship healthy, how to maintai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:24 AM |
| 0 | CMV: MGTOW has surpassed the TRP for utility for beta maleslow value people get divorced more. The 50% divorce stat is an aggregate across everyone. That rate is far lower for college educated couples, couples of higher income bracket. Honestly there are so many variables and even geographic differences that simply taking the average as a whole to decide if marriage is for an individual is asinine. You have to put in the effort and make the right decisions if you want a successful relationship and marriage. Where do you live that marriage and family are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: MGTOW has surpassed the TRP for utility for beta malesNo women are complaining about lack of men up to their standards/quality. The type of posters on MGTOW are already the ones women complain about/do not want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV women's dating standards are too high (Part 2, Followup discussion)women not liking unattractive men is free market no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Femininity is deadHow's that working out? Convert any feminine women yet? How do you even shame strangers? Do you just glare at them and shake your fists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Do you think twich streamers are exploiting the loneliness of young men?like any transactional service its mutual and consensual. Does McDonalds "exploit" people's hunger and desire for convenience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Betas are Obsolete.even if polyamory becomes legal, there is nothing to suggest it will become the standard for society anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Betas are Obsolete.just because you hear trans in the news doesn't mean it's mainstream. trans is less than .5% of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessAlso, if you're worried about divorce you should be looking at your OWN relationship not just the average rate for hundreds of millions of people of all different brackets. And look at the data more closely. The data for divorce is far lower for college educated couples who marry in their 20s. Esp lower if you're in higher income brackets. In other words, if you're unattractive low value guy with poor relationship history, sure you should be concerned more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:51 AM |
| 7 | Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" womenDo you think nice people can't be physically attractive? If anything, the guys who look like male models I know are far friendlier and nicer than your average "nice guy" on the internet raging about how women don't want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:48 AM |
| 0 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.No, but why jump into 3/10 nerd's bed who probably doesn't even know how to fuck. high reward/high risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:40 AM |
| 4 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.They never actually read feminist literature, took social justice/leftisim all that seriously, or really believed in any of the things feminism advocates for. It's just a reactionary scapegoat for their unhappiness and dissatisfaction with their dating/sex life. Like any political dichotomy, it's always convenient to have that "other side" that caused all your problems. Most of them were just average, mediocre men with no real political alignment or beliefs other than self serving fantasies of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 5 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Good? You mean women have to be turned on and sexually attracted to their partners? Men can't rely on societal control to buy women who were treated like children dependent on others for income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP is actually super betaBecause actual alphas dont go on the internet asking for advice on how to become one to get women? How many smucks do you think that watched Tai Lopezs how to be a millionaire video actually became millionaires? I am sure TRP helps betas and losers improve or at least feel or fantasize being an alpha they want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcNot everyone is playing the same game with same lottery odds is my point. You can't just point at divorce rate for 300 milllion people for all different factors and backgrounds and say all relationships are doomed. There are plenty of right steps individuals and couples can take to avoid ending like people with 3,4 divorces. If you're of lower socioeconomic bracket, uneducated, generally low value with poor social skills and relationship dynamics your relationships are more likely to fail than n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcDo they acknowledge it happens to a large percent of the general population and not just the few elites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcAgain, that's your reality that's fine. Do you at least have the honesty to recognize plenty of relationships exist without grenades ever blowing up or people paranoid about their lives being destroyed? I am just pointing to you that the stories of women/relationships ruining lives represents just one part of people's relationship studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcMost people in relationships would think that most other people are capable of being in happy relationships except for the bottom few in terms of looks, social skills, etc. In here and world of manosphere, that's apparently the norm and only Chads and male models are capable of being in well adjusted happy relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcSo you think happy relationships do not exist right now, only in your fantasy land where you get to make laws about hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcLook at divorce. One statistic already cut the chance of a happy long term relationship by half. Now consider all other effects Look at divorce rates for college educated couples that marry in the 20s who marry for the first time. Researchers at the National Center for Health Statistics estimate that 78% of college-educated women who married for the first time expect their marriages to last at least 20 years. But among women who have a high school education or less, the share is only 40%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Men as a collective decide not to get or stay in a relationship with overweight or obese women.Who is men as a collective? Do you think men on red pill or manospheres represent men as a total or hold any real weight or influence? Try it yourself. Create a local anti fatty movement invite your friends, coworkers, neighbors and tell us how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really areThat's not evidence women are more attractive, that's evidence of the male sex drive being higher That's what attraction is no? Being desired sexually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 6 | To those who hate current dating scene, what prevented you from finding a significant other earlier in your life? Why did you not find someone in your social circle?bro I just asked you for your own story. I do not need red pill theory explained for the 1000th time. Why do people love typing this out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?Low value males in the dating scene are free to completely check out of relationships. No one except themselves are mourning their absence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?low value in the dating terms to women. Not like low value in the workforce or to Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 12:22 AM |
| 11 | What is the deal with porn hate?It's the McDonald's equivalent of human sex. It's not that it's so twisted and disgusting, but a LOT of men today are addicted to it. It's just another part of instant gratification and consumption culture. Guys saying who needs relationships or sex when I have porn is another sign of low value males | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Post your favorite alpha chad sceneGino the fat guy who comes in. He is not so insecure about petty things like status or his place in line. He is willing to let others go first or take a step outside. He knows what he wants and is in no rush to get the delicious pasteries that will be his eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Maybe we should have sympathy for incelslol bagel boss being compared to MLK. Why are you upset at LGBT for Flint not having proper water? Is every movement suppose to save every issue in the world? Why do you want to play oppression Olympics? Are you sure you would be at the bottom? Again you're looking at how LGBT got accepted today. How do you think the movement got here? Why don't you look at the most basic history of the movement before crying about it? Look up history or LGBT movements anywhere in the world today where gays are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Maybe we should have sympathy for incelsBagel guy was a joke because he did a meltdown in public unnecessarily. So whose fault is it that you dont care about your problems. Why does the rest of the world matter? Do you think feminists never had backlash from rest of the world or treated as a joke? Do you think LGBT groups were always supported by the mainstream? lol. Do you think they gave up organizing and putting in efforts in their communities because they didn't get validation from outside world? Start caring about other men's pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Maybe we should have sympathy for incelsWhat's stopping men or you from talking to other men about male body image issues with other men? Why is it the role of women to set up this platform for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Maybe we should have sympathy for incelsMost people are indifferent on whether others would fuck them. When you're in public you are surrounded by people do you hate all of them? You dont register as a sexually attractive partner to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 06:12 PM |
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