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ill be back in 2 months. the thing is me and this girl are serious about marriage to the point that our families are involved but i just dont want things to be stale cause that trips me out. were still texting and calling but its preety dry. im really busy with engineering. should i put things on hold or is stale/dry okay in this kind of situation where we dont really have much time to focus on each other?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:08 AM
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how will she know im gaming other chicks?
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:36 PM
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sounds like a good idea, i think shes pulling this cause she thinks ill stick around longer in anticipation. she says not yet but blue balls is Hella annoying
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:09 PM
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ill take away attention and see what results
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:04 PM
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lol dont judge, my reasoning is valid. she likely feels pressured but shes down regardless. just gonna follow your advice.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:19 PM
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okay, ill be honest. i think shes preety serious because our moms have talked and are planning to meet in december to see if they like each other. why so soon? because if they dont like each other then theres no point in talking to this girl, not trying to waste my time. but ill tell her that we'll talk about it in person.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:14 PM
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we hooked up last Friday and preety much for the past 2 months without a label
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:08 PM
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shes done this before, i just wanted to know what it meant. i think shes getting serious about me and just wants to cover her ass by shit testing me and preety much pushing all the buttons to get a reaction and see if ill stick around. i have to see past her bs... why is she insecure?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:05 PM
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sounds solid. ill go for it
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:00 PM
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ive vetted her well. i do want a ltr but when she randomly pulls shit like this outta her ass its confusing. just trying to make the right moves
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:53 PM
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we call once every night but that about it. she has guilt that weve done stuff. things between us moved fast. shes hot and cold. just last night she was being completely normal. youre right. i should just give her space to figure it out on her own. i think she feels pressured rn. i wont say anything until she realizes she wants me and calls me
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:42 PM
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we smashed last friday. she wants to be friends first then transition into relationship cause thats how it was for her and her ex. they went out 5 years. meanwhile, me and her met 2 months ago. instantly started making out and stuff. she prob. feels like a slut and thats why shes saying that. maybe she thinks it devalues what we have
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:29 PM
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she said but i wanna be a sea turtle
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:27 PM
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she said why not
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:59 PM
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okay
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:58 PM
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i think its just a shit test and she feels guilty that weve done stuff. shes religious. question is. what does she want and how do i deal with it.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:44 PM
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said this isnt the 70s what now?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:17 PM
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tried it. lets see what happens
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:07 PM
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lol never give exclusivity?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:02 AM
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now she says because she didnt actually do it that were not exclusive
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:29 AM
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yeah double standards. im guessing she didnt expect it and over reacted since i dropped a player line acting like its no big deal. shes also on her period and ive been ignoring her a little lately. maybe shes looking for a reaction or testing for control
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:12 AM
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this is what i needed. good
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:47 AM
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this is all horrible advice -_-
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:17 AM
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okay sounds good
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:10 PM
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ask questions or esclate sexually by bringing up a story revolving around sex but then leading it towards personal sexual preferences seemesly, if shes entertained then it will turn into a sex talk but before going there be ready for it, and also be keen to pick up an indicator of disinterest so you can back out casually before making it personal which will hence make it awkward.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:24 PM
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LOL yeah we were, but explain the beta part, how did i go beta and what could I have done to avoid it?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:46 PM
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okay I agree. but she called me and then went scilent. I wasnt gonna stick around and waste my time on a dead phone call. secondly, this was the first time she pulled something like this and I had already decided to break up with her before I called the second time to show her that I don't fuck with that kind of bull shit. Don't you agree?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:29 PM
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she could have just been on her period. This behaviour is very unlike her. what a surprise. you think I was too impulsive?. I was thinking it will lead to a fight and id rather breakup with her in that case rather than the other way around.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 02:58 PM
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I completely agree, so how should I respond? I can take control because I'm not obliged to stick around. but what's my counter to this behaviour of hers?
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:13 PM
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I'll try this
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:43 PM
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thanks of clarifying, my experience in the past has been just as you described. So pretty much I can completely ignore her bs, she's been spoiled by beta's and I'm not going to validate her perceived demands/needs.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:42 PM
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I clarified with her that we're not exclusive but I do agree that I've made her more comfortable that I'd prefer. I know I wrote girlfriend in the title, let me edit that out.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:00 PM
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This sounds interesting. I'll try it. I asked her once 3 weeks ago to go to an art gallery/cafe. She said she was really busy and, apoligized about it.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 02:12 AM
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Well I'm gonna bump into her at an event a week from now anyways, Should I still risk asking her to go out?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:18 PM
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I'm fine with that. I can ask her to go bowling with a couple of my friends, they have girlfriends so she might be comfortable. If she says yes, do I pick her up or let her meet me there? If she says she can't cause shes busy then isn't that worsening my situation with her?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 08:53 PM
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I'll never forget that one again.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 08:13 PM
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I can only escalate so much over text, I asked if shes down to study and she was. Then got sick on the day we were supposed to study. I figured keeping the convo going would eventually lead to another opportunity to ask her since she said we can reschedule.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 08:11 PM
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