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10

Men aren't the only ones that will build a stable.
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:19 AM
-3

You never do. As long as you're not totally inept and are enjoying yourself you're in the clear.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:28 PM
3

Don't be shitty to either of them, bring a wingman for the after party. Bringing a date and expecting the girl who got you there to be cool with it, or maybe even them hooking up is idiot thinking. It's not about jealousy it's about respect. If you want to play the 3some angle you do a big group thing and invite them both so they can get to know each other.
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:38 PM
3

Find it playing in a theatre for the full Seinfeld experience! Gotta say, 7 years is a hell of a necro.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:42 PM
6

I've never had a woman say this to me that didn't fuck me later. I'm dumb and have missed plenty of obvious signals over the years, but this has never been one of them. A woman that is finding you creepy or too forward will look to end the whole interaction, she won't bring up things you may or may not do later.
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:52 PM
2

Sorry man, that's my bad. I was holding that session and we had a seat for you, but someone told me you had to go to the bathroom and we got started. You missed the whole thing, it must've been one hell of a shit. Eat more fiber.
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:08 PM
1

I'd say they're like "What the fuck? He talked with girls all the time as a kid! He got his feelings hurt, learned everyone isn't going to like him and success takes effort all in fucking kindergarten, back when he could barely wipe his own ass! What happened to this guy?".
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:06 PM
2

You too can be Jon Lovitz. But it requires self love, charm and force of will. Or more simply either enough confidence or stupidity not to care what people think of you. Once you figure that one out you've pretty well got it in the bag.
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:03 AM
3

He's actually Jon Lovitz. A short and toadlike man that sleeps with celebrities and models based on his personality alone
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:28 AM
7

Then maybe, just maybe, you should listen. You sound like you need to get out of your head and stop thinking quite so much. I know, this sounds like I'm telling you to behave like a stupid person, and that's because stupid people don't think to care about these things. To the outside observer this lack of awareness presents itself as overwhelming confidence, which can actually fun to be around. Much more fun than the timid overthinker. I say this as someone that grew up like you, was forced to h…
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:21 AM
13

The curse of youth, my friend. All the opportunity and vigor and none of the wisdom.
/r/seduction22/06/16 08:42 PM
1

Girl crushes are way crazier. WAAYYYYYYY crazier. Most of them just learn how to manage it from a young age. It's why they play things kinda cool, reduced contact keeps the crazy at bay.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:17 PM
2

Here's a tip. Drop the gimmicks and just go for it.
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:03 AM
1

If I could move anywhere and have a comparable income? I'd move to Rio De Janeiro or Bucharest, but it's hard to get by as a bar back or as general labour in those places. If I didn't want to leave North America I'd live in Montreal or NYC. I'd also strongly consider Australia. There are also a ton of cities in the US that you might not consider at first glance, but are actually good places to be. Travel around a bit in your own country, it's huge and very diverse and it's a pretty great place.
/r/seduction26/12/15 07:39 PM
5

If you're ashamed of what you're putting on the Internet, you're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction06/12/15 01:41 PM
1

How broad are your shoulders? I figure that would be the most direct correlation. A nice ass for a man would give you a nice ass for a woman.
/r/seduction05/12/15 02:38 AM
12

I'd fuck me. I'd fuck me hard.
/r/seduction05/12/15 02:35 AM
2

No one cares about you. If you shit your pants in public maybe a dozen people would tell the story once and then forget all about it.
/r/seduction14/11/15 07:34 AM
1

Maybe part of the reason you're not successful with hotter women is a lack of experience, and easier game can help you work on your approach, and your close, until you come across as the suave motherfucker you want to be. Training wheels.
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:54 PM
1

A wise man once told me "You must slay many a beast before you can rescue the princess."
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:25 PM
3

There's no solution because there's no real problem. For many people it's the years after college they get into the party scene. Pissing away a year or two partying is a function of being able to make friends and afford alcohol and drugs. Cause let's face it, that shit gets boring without a little coke or MDMA. If you simply want to continue with the Greek life, again all of my experiences with them have included a lot of alumni hanging around to dip their feet back in the water on the weekends.…
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:23 PM
7

Depends. Do you still enjoy playing with legos and action figures as much as you did when you were 8? What about getting absolutely fucking shitfaced off 3 beers and half a joint like when you were 15? You were in a frat that didn't have alumni come and hang out half the time? Did you move away from your university town? Why does it seem like you're full of shit? Are you secretly in your late 20's, pining for your 'misspent youth' and wishing you could fuck a 19 year old? Because you can be that…
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:57 AM
1

She handed you the ball. You dropped it. You're supposed to flirt back and get her number. Almost any sentence you utter that indicates a) you're not a giant douche and b) you are interested in getting to know her will get you her number. The good news is some women apparently find you attractive, and next time you'll know not to drop the ball.
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:37 PM
2

Stop contacting this woman. Forget about her until you see her in person. Ask her about it then. Don't ever allow anyone to string you along like that, it may not seem to cost you much in effort or time, but no one who really respects you and your time would consistently jerk you around. For a silly but effective lesson in what's going on here look up S05E16 of How I Met Your Mother, "Hooked".
/r/seduction05/10/15 03:58 AM
2

You got a lot of walls of text here. Here's the opposite. You're 21, get you head out of your ass. Go see a therapist.
/r/seduction03/10/15 10:23 AM
2

I don't know about the world, Rio probably holds that title and I've heard Prague is pretty savage. St. John's, Newfoundland is small, but the women there are a very open and bordering on aggressive, they want to fuck just as much as we do, and they're not shy about it.
/r/seduction30/08/15 01:09 PM
3

I think any woman that's doing the hostel circuit without a boyfriend is down to get laid, it's like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction30/08/15 01:04 PM
16

Montreal is probably one of the easiest cities in North America to get laid in. But we all seem to struggle at home, because we put ourselves in ruts and habits that make it easy and comfortable for us to bitch about our situations and not actually going out and living. You want to know why you can't close? You can't get out of your head. Stop thinking about living your life and worrying about these silly bullshit things, the people around you and the women that are interested in you aren't thin…
/r/seduction30/08/15 03:50 AM
7

I'll have what the coach is having.
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:10 PM
17

If you want to knock a girl off her feet, a good left cross always does the trick for me. Works on most of the guys I've tried it on. so no reason it wouldn't work on a woman. Keep in mind, I'm a southpaw so YMMV. It's not the date, it's the energy you bring to it. I once took a girl along while I ran errands for four hours, we had dinner then sex.
/r/seduction05/08/15 04:18 AM
1

Why? Unless you have a common interest like school, work or some sort of activity platonic relationships with the other gender are pointless. You've got nothing in common, and social interactions are just confusing. Picking up women to befriend them is practice, sure, but once you can open it's probably more of a hindrance for actually working on your ability to close. It's fine to be friends with women, but it's primarily based on a common interest. What would you talk about otherwise? Your pro…
/r/seduction27/07/15 04:23 AM
5

Bonus points for including monkeys, Persian carpets and oil lamps that may or may not contain actual genies.
/r/seduction28/06/15 11:48 PM
1

Is there much work there?
/r/seduction07/06/15 08:50 PM
3

He said virtually everything that is always said around here, only it's written by a meathead for other meatheads. If it's communicating the idea effectively, then good for him.
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:43 PM
3

This isn't the kind of thinking that you should be consumed with. I would probably think Models to be a more defensible choice of literature than YA fantasy. What about Models interests you? What do you think might interest them? For that matter, what is it about Harry Potter that interests you? What do you share about your reading experiences with others? It's less about the book you're reading and more about you.
/r/seduction21/05/15 01:15 AM
6

She didn't want to get her hair wet. Underpants have an elastic waist that keep them on your head, you don't have to tie anything up or fuck around. She probably uses a shower cap at home, but no one brings those to booty calls. You are sad and childish, but keep on keeping on man.
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:19 AM
1

If you want to change your life, you've got to change how you live. A lot of people are telling you to start working out, or start a martial art. This is actually good advice but you are probably sitting there thinking "yeah fucking right, I'll just be horrible and embarassed and everyone will laugh at me and I'll be a sad failure". This is the core of your problem. You have to find deep down inside yourself the part of you that wrote this message, the small part of you that will take the steps …
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:27 PM
0

Bullshit, you stopped reading long enough to post this.
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:00 PM
3

Don't. They are there to game you out of money, and they have far more experience at it. If you're going to approach any "sex worker" treat it as a business transaction and leave it that way. Go meet normal girls, fail, make friends, enrich your social experience. It's worth far more than time spent at a strip club.
/r/seduction16/05/15 09:27 PM
1

Tinder has the option to set your location.
/r/seduction26/04/15 05:25 PM
1

A girl once opened by asking me my sign. Then she told me our signs make the best lovers but are awful in relationships. She's the best lay I've ever had. I've never had that line work for me, the few times I've had the balls to try.
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:02 AM
27

The cherry pop is over rated. But when you know yourself, and have the right chemistry with your partner then sex makes you feel like a golden god. But congratulations on putting yourself out there and getting wet.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:07 PM
1

What country are you from? Don't be subtle, don't be shy, just ask her out.
/r/seduction23/02/15 06:26 PM
1

Generally in this setting your social power and status are going to start at 0, which isn't attractive for her unless you handle it correctly. I disagree on something that applies to mindset. You don't start at 0, especially given you're with someone they know. It'd be more accurate to say you start at "??" You're not at a deficit, you're just an unknown. If you're awkward and lame, or cold and aloof, or the crass savage hitting on everything that moves, you're setting your value pretty quickly.…
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:38 AM
1

No, again no. This is an interpretation of what the woman in the article is saying that is more than a little slanted. Take his reasonable summation of her points and it can be distilled into very common, reasonable points. Be someone worth respecting, and show respect in kind. If chicky droned on about her exes all night and showed no interest in the things you said, you're going to be pretty disinterested in her as a person. If she's got her phone out she isn't worth your time. If she shits (f…
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:47 PM
1

That's not the appropriate take away at all. She's more than happy to be part of the entertainment, but just like a dance, you lead, she follows. Unfortunately, part of the requirement for leading is knowing the dance. So in a sense, you do have a responsibility to be entertaining, in so far as being socially competent and interesting is entertainment. You ever have a boss or group leader that couldn't make a decision or keep to a decision they make? Always asking for group input, when it's thei…
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:34 PM
6

She could just be a cheater.
/r/seduction19/01/15 10:33 PM
1

Home? This is only an issue if you're a slob, or live with your parents. So get your shit together and if you can't move out from the parents or bang at her place, then you've got problems. Horny young people always seem to figure it out though.
/r/seduction19/01/15 07:46 PM
5

You respect the other dude in the same fashion you would expect someone to respect you.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:35 PM
0

Collectively defined? We're all working with a dictionary definition here.
/r/seduction12/01/15 01:20 AM
0

Come on man, the word approach only really has one definition. "Go up to..." and obviously it doesn't count if you walk by. Blowing an approach would be not even trying to make your interaction meaningful, but at least you said hello.
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:50 PM
2

You lead the dance bud. That's how it goes. As long as she follows and you don't step on each other's feet there shouldn't be real problems.
/r/seduction03/01/15 04:18 PM
1

I think with that being the great perception and a lot of men too afraid to make a pitch it's much less common than you might think. I've # closed three waitresses in the past month, out of 5 approaches. One of the fails has a boyfriend but she's all manners of friendly since. Life is good, play the game.
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:16 PM
2

Point gun into barrel opening Pull trigger The fish that float are dead. If you need tricks in your game as a bartender you're screwed.
/r/seduction16/12/14 01:14 PM
2

You should shoot for more than a number in your date. Leave her thinking about you. You don't have to text much over the holidays, everybody is busy.
/r/seduction14/12/14 02:09 PM
12

I thought he meant Don Juan.
/r/seduction29/11/14 07:48 PM
3

Why did you set the date up for so far away? You set her up for the burn, what could you expect?
/r/seduction26/11/14 12:21 PM
2

Don't crush his fantasy, man. The other girl is going to LOVE 3 am diaper changes for a kid that isn't hers. They're in love, don't you understand? So what if everyone is exhausted from not having any sleep and fuckface PUA is staying out playing his games mostly just to not be in the house and get some piece and fucking quiet. She'll put up with that shit, because well, reasons?
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:28 AM
1

/yawn I see you're answering a "shit ton" of questions indeed. I hope you're fucking paying someone if I've got to look at this shit.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:22 AM
2

When I first saw it, it was well over 100 karma, down in the 30's now. Reddit doing well.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:17 AM
-1

I wonder, if there's two of them would they stop wanting to tell me all of the insipid bullshit that I don't need to hear? Maybe they could tell it each other? Also, the chores list would be nice to split between three, but I'd want my own bathroom.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:15 AM
3

Wanna come see my cupboard under the stairs?
/r/seduction24/10/14 11:17 PM
3

Met a girl recently that checked all the boxes on my list. She was perfect for me. Ended up letting her get under my skin and fucked it all up. Even though I'm dealing with another girl that totally went crazy for me and I had a step-by-step guide what not to do. One-itis can take us all.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:37 PM
7

"What makes you think I'm that easy?" It turns out, I'm easy.
/r/seduction18/07/14 03:36 PM
1

Flip the genders around, and date the language back to the 50's and you've got an article that would make SRS.
/r/seduction10/06/14 12:45 PM
2

When was the last time you had a haircut? Relaxing with a woman washing your hair, massaging your scalp and practicing your small talk in a controlled environment sounds like a good place to start. Next up would be longer and less controlled interactions. Go to a bar for a drink or two, talk to the bartender and the people beside you, when you feel uncomfortable, you're free to make up some excuse and leave. Try not to lie as you may interact with these people again. At least consider talking to…
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:30 PM
6

If you have a woman in your home, watching anything and she's not there on as a friend, she's waiting for you to make a move. Women aren't clueless or mentally defective, and they actually really like things like making out and sex. You could very easily lean against her to draw her attention and just kiss the girl. Just maybe not watching Saw or Schindler's List.
/r/seduction21/05/14 11:15 AM
11

My name is Leonard, let me tell a about a man named Sammy Jenkins.
/r/seduction28/04/14 11:22 AM
2

Music makes it all worth while.
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:05 AM
2

Is that because it's so hard to find off in the corner like that? Or because it's not voice command?
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:05 PM
3

Yes. We may not get married, but we'll have a great time.
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:59 PM
1

"That sucks." And that's it. She can read it both ways, you empathize with her story and disapprove of her flakiness in two simple words. If she's fucking awesome, let her engage, but for most women that's a disengage point, even if she does reply and seem interested.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:08 PM
1

"Hey, I remember you! We met at 'insert event'. How are you?" Don't apologize, you can't change it, and don't bring it up because it looks like an excuse. Should she reply and bring it up, then simply tell her you lost your phone, in a very off hand, shit happens kinda fashion. Then immediately ask her if she wants to get together. There's a fair chance she's gone, but if you keep it unembellished and own your actions you can hopefully 'man' your way through. Btw, any more than one message is a …
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:54 PM
2

Think Stanley Kowalski, but less rape and domestic violence.
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:58 AM
2

Give her the tour of the place, this should lead to a decent conversation, and it should end on the couch. If she came over, it's not to see your movie collection, so if you've built sufficient mood over that initial conversation, get the kiss over and done with. If you fucked up the chat, you won't get the kiss, and if there isn't chemistry she'll slow things down and bail shortly after. Don't be scared, she came over because she's interested and wants a kiss.
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:00 PM
1

If you absolutely must try and game a stripper, which is usually a waste of time unless you treat it like batting practice, then there are things you should keep in mind. The texting rule of thirds always applies to strippers. One message from you to two or three of hers. It is very easy to devalue yourself over text, if you blabber on like a moonstruck chump, you'll be treated as such. I'd leave her alone till a text Saturday morning about getting together for lunch or something. Chances are sh…
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:34 PM
2

If she has said exactly these things and you haven't been obviously friend zoned by your cold feet, then you have already landed her. Ask her on a fun afternoon type date, see how your chemistry is, probably go out to dinner, and if you two can handle being together for 4+ hours then you absolutely must K-close before leaving. Anything further is at your discretion.
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:25 PM
3

You should not be pathetic enough to lie to random people about your age. You're 18, big fuckin deal, own yourself.
/r/seduction10/11/13 05:25 AM
3

Translation: "I'm not particular with my men, or my narcotics."
/r/seduction07/11/13 01:50 PM
1

No, because it sounds like your mind fucking yourself into some bullshit. The only way to be good on stage is to perform, the only way to be great with people is to talk to people. Practice with all sorts of people, chat with folks in line, and anywhere it would be even a little appropriate. I'm not sure what hibernation is going to do for you, but I don't see it making you a more socially dynamic person. I have to handle my antisocial tendencies every so often, but I don't let it take me down f…
/r/seduction02/10/13 11:03 PM
2

30 Helens agree.
/r/seduction27/09/13 07:33 PM
2

The Internet holds many delights for the bold adventurer. Backpages.com or a search for "escort review" and your area should provide you a starting place. Always keep your head up with these sorts of things. Don't put yourself in a position to get mugged, and if she's obviously much different from the advert, then feel free to bail immediately.
/r/seduction19/09/13 02:28 AM
5

Why should they be any different than many of us? They are a small group of women that play a game of their own.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:39 PM
4

There's a difference between being well spoken and being a pompous windbag. It's similar to the difference between being in great physical shape and being one of those obscenely over developed bodybuilders.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:48 PM
12

That dude loves his words a little too much. Almost to "pompous windbag" proportions
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:01 PM
4

Oh! You ain't closed shit yet. Best you should expect is to be remembered well, I wouldn't even worry about it.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:06 AM
6

Sometimes no contact for a whole week is a mistake. Perhaps you missed some clues, or perhaps some one else hit her a little harder. Shit happens.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:03 AM
1

There's a camera involved and these women have sex for money, on camera, also, it's for publicity. Fuck around on camera for a few months and you'll think you're goddamn invincible too.
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:50 PM
1

It was more topical.
/r/seduction25/05/13 04:39 AM
3

Keep track of all the times you see other people do things that you would be terribly self conscious about. Smile and sympathise with their embarrassment. Realize that you would normally forget about it in moments, if you noticed it at all. Then Realize everyone else is exactly the same way.
/r/seduction25/05/13 04:38 AM
2

Visit Joe's website, the man is a full on, no shit expert with getting the right rubber on your dick.
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:41 AM
34

My father's best piece of advice: "Son, they're all sluts, except for your mother, and your sisters." This dovetails with one of his favourite sentiments "Sluts, God love'm." He is a wise man, and a legendary opener. Be not afraid my friends, Chicks like fucking, you're selling yourself being worth fucking.
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:48 PM
1

You're caring too much. Stop taking other people so seriously. They are just as fucked up and pathetic as you are. If you don't want to go out to approach women, then don't go out to approach women. Just talk to people, anybody, everybody. Be that guy in line who starts a conversation with any available opening. If you think you're going off the rails and seeming weird, stop talking, if you can, draw other people into talking to themselves. It's the best way to be a social antisocial. Tldr chill…
/r/seduction23/02/13 09:51 PM
1

It's one way to really cement a friendship. And it's less work then burying a hooker. I, of course am kidding about the hooker.
/r/seduction24/12/12 06:03 PM
2

Escalate your conversation with him. If you're being too passive about it and he's dense, maybe he's not getting the message. Yes it may come to physical violence, but even if you get beaten, at least you've made your point. If you can't avoid him, make it a proper issue.
/r/seduction24/12/12 01:19 PM
1

But I love me like 5 times a day?!?
/r/seduction21/12/12 08:50 PM
2

That's a GREAT idea... That shall be my first FR.
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:18 AM
3

Your hair only looks fine the way it is, if your hair looks fine the way it is. A stylist is just as likely to do a half assed, shitty job as a barber. It's not about pussy pedestals, though they would make for convenient cunnlingus, it's more about looking like someone who values himself enough to be worth female attention. You can say it's bullshit all you want, but as a man who has played to both extremes, these fellows with their 'games' have a point.
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:16 AM
1

Ultimately it all comes down to quality of the haircut. Personally I find, and this is due to my hair type, that black barbershops are the best, they take great care of my shit and know exactly what they're doing. After that, a gay stylist will do a great job, but be a little thrown off by my hair thickness. A good barber comes in third, a cut above your typical salon. Mind you, I know a stylist with nice thick curly hair herself, she was absolutely amazing, however after a few dates, shit went …
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:10 AM
21

I'd rather pay $8 for a beer then $6 for a bottle of water. You win barman.
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:14 AM
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