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Oh good lord.
/r/MensRights07/04/17 01:45 AM
1

Meh...just give her a few years she'll be alone, watching The Bachelor with her cats.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 07:49 PM
11

I would have taken offence to this if I rolled up on it. Wonder how they could have worded it better?
/r/MensRights20/03/17 11:31 PM
115

Interesting - if you don't mind me asking how are you internetting today? Edit - RIP my inbox. Genuinely interested on how they were accessing the internet as a LPT if you are homeless.
/r/MensRights20/03/17 07:11 PM
24

They should have one for "mom's neglect - get off your phones mom"
/r/MensRights18/03/17 03:32 PM
1148

Not going to send a lady to prison for this? Define "lady"
/r/MensRights14/03/17 02:09 PM
5

You're not Jim love Steve.
/r/MensRights14/03/17 12:26 AM
0

You can but clothes and coke don't pay the bills.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 01:49 AM
1

New benefits dude!
/r/MensRights17/02/17 09:56 PM
7

The 50/50 shared parenting is also good because it makes both parents take responsibility for parenting the children they created. Mom's can't exclude dads using the full custody thing just because it is a pain to have to continue working together for the sake of rearing kids while divorced. Dad's can't bail and run off to the oil shale fields in Canada.
/r/MensRights17/02/17 08:52 PM
1

I agree - luxury for a woman. But I could also argue for the man where divorce is TOTAL reboot. After a horrible marriage, second chances at life are AWESOME.
/r/MensRights17/02/17 05:40 PM
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The current skewed laws make divorce a luxury. It needs to be default 50/50 shared parenting. Default both parents get a job (court imputes a basic wage) and then court uses the shared income calculations/formula for child support. Zero or max 6 months of spousal support which is tied to Zero tolerance for cheating - any evidence of cheating and cheater forgos spousal support. Got time to cheat you got time to look for employment. From the lawyer standpoint they should offer budget divorces - pi…
/r/MensRights17/02/17 05:19 PM
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Video check. Hospital visit check. Televised Report check. She reached for a glass with intent to use it as a weapon to inflict great injury or potential injury on another. Do the time.
/r/MensRights17/02/17 02:35 PM
1

http://forum.mensdivorce.com/
/r/MensRights17/02/17 03:18 AM
1

This meme is good but could do a better service to all if changed to read - as neutral gender. The courts go after whoever has the money to support the kiddos.
/r/MensRights16/02/17 01:00 AM
3

Sucks man. SUCKS. Hang in there - we are all going through, or have gone through similar.
/r/MensRights16/02/17 12:58 AM
2

Thanks for posting this - I pay CS - child support. The CSEA are for the most part cool to deal with. It's big business no doubt. But if you land in jail then you blew off some basic court dates or worse. I know a dumb ass that got 6 months in jail. They don't mess around. Mom or dad as payer - dig deep or you will go to the clink.
/r/MensRights16/02/17 12:52 AM
8

Who thinks that kind of stuff up? I'm not following what they are going after.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 11:21 PM
34

In the old days they left the mother lying all alone on the delivery table while the babies went to the nursery.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 07:24 PM
8

In this day and age spousal support/alimony is nothing more than a perceived luxury of divorce. It enables bad behavior. Get a job like the rest of us I say.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 10:25 PM
16

Divorce is one of the hardest things people can go through - second only to having a sick child. As a survivor I can say it gets better - WAY better if you stick it out.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 02:27 PM
1

Do google search for sample SPP shared parenting plan - it can be a starting place.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 03:06 PM
14

Nice to see Procter and Gamble finally advertising to men this year. Last two years have been celebrate the womens.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 02:40 AM
3

Try to keep it simple. And try to make it easy for the judge. Be prepared to have a sample parenting schedule you propose. List points on why this schedule is good for everyone. Can you also review the family court docs for your county? Sometimes those include sample shared parenting schedules. Good luck -
/r/MensRights05/02/17 11:07 PM
10

Sorry to see her have to put off her wedding - at the same time good to see her paying for her wedding and putting some skin in the game!
/r/MensRights29/01/17 05:21 PM
2

Yeah man but I don't think this helped the cause. It's just so over the top - watch her head hit the table. That's deadly force right there. She could have been killed. That would have really put us back a few years.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 10:29 PM
3

This is tough one - that punch was over the top. I've been hit like this - was totally unprovoked. Walking in a park a BM broke away from a group of friends and walked up to me a WM and knocked me the fuck out. I got up and staggered quickly away. Later got X-rays and nothing broken. Sore jaw for months. That hit I can still feel today. This woman will feel that hit forever. She is lucky to be alive.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 09:52 PM
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He's an actor. If I were him I'd play up to the narrative as well. He's going the distance. God speed Brenden.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 02:14 PM
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I have 50/50 shared parenting. Was never contested. If I had to fight for it I'd settle for every other weekend. Let today's mom's try having them most of the time. They can't handle it and will give dad the kids any chance they can get. Then document the status quo and profit.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 08:34 PM
2

Maybe being consumed by the PC stuff caused the demise of the relationship.
/r/MensRights23/11/16 03:01 AM
3

I assume he was directing, soliciting and on the receiving end of illegal material. He was manipulating others to commit a crime on his behalf. They typically go hard on people who solicit contract killers. So i would assume this is similar.
/r/MensRights06/10/16 02:46 AM
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Sucks is that it hurts. I mean yeah we are guys and we can take it. But it is shaming. And public humiliation. Guys need to shame that kind of behavior right back. Don't deck her but collectively put her in her place.
/r/MensRights01/10/16 02:28 PM
10

It will be imputed and she will pay based on the state guidelines. She is also responsible for the arrears. Good to remember - child support is separate from custody and visitation. It is important to break the myth because custodial parents like to threaten the other parent to pay by withholding visitation rights. That is against the law. Also depending on the state the court will impute some amount of expected income on both parents. So again we men need to break the myth that marriage, having…
/r/MensRights22/09/16 01:09 PM
3

When will an asterisk hit earth?
/r/MensRights15/09/16 02:19 AM
0

Do you believe this person has qualifications?
/r/MensRights10/09/16 02:43 AM
0

You don't like a candidate because they use tools available to them in this given era? Or they hire those firms that use such tools?
/r/MensRights10/09/16 02:33 AM
3

and would they stand behind Israel. ELI5 - What does this even mean to a rural person?
/r/MensRights10/09/16 01:28 AM
7

Yeah we get it dude but some of us never saw it.
/r/MensRights10/07/16 01:23 AM
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Fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.
/r/MensRights08/07/16 01:29 AM
2

OK we can all agree we like Johnny D. But lets say the general public didn't. How would the general public feel about the accusations then? Edited for clarity.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 01:37 PM
2

Yes to accountability. They should have to document that the CS is going to the kids.
/r/MensRights12/05/16 02:03 AM
2

Always always get a police report. Don't miss a good opportunity to document.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 04:01 PM
1

The day men have a reliable birth control method will be the day the population in 1st world countries starts declining.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:34 AM
2

First - what state? Next, why not just put her parents address as the address? That sounds like a formality. Put that address and then complete the rest of the docs. good luck.
/r/MensRights13/03/16 06:13 PM
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I had to pay 36 months of Alimony and all it did was give the ex the luxury of having a McJob and "re-evaluate" her career. Lady when you have 3 kids all luxuries are out the window. So I vote to eliminate alimony in all but extreme cases and instead require them to get a real job within their skill set just like dad.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 08:33 PM
2

The best revenge is a life well lived.
/r/MensRights02/02/16 10:26 PM
1

I knew a lawyer who supported default 50/50 shared parenting. He was a child of divorce. 50/50 should be the norm.
/r/MensRights15/01/16 10:52 PM
8

Or..."You'll never see your kids again...or I'll turn them against you."
/r/MensRights08/01/16 03:38 PM
2

End of marriage zero friends. 1st week after separation lots of new friends! Yay!
/r/MensRights15/11/15 10:00 PM
5

Some mom's like to play the custody power trip because they've been empowered. Custody on easy mode. One jedi trick is to... Tell them you want full custody but are willing to settle for 50/50. Understand that mom's need date nights and think they want full custody until they see they then can't have date night too.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 04:14 PM
2

It is about the kid. There is a living breathing child and the courts are tying to ensure the kid is not a drag on society. So they make the parent or parents pay up. Good or bad it is a noble cause.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 09:15 PM
1

Think of the children. That is the key that everyone is glossing over. There is a child. So that it will not be a burden on society, someone is going to be paying for that child.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 09:12 PM
1

The state (depending on which state) gets a percentage. Edit: sorry not state, county.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 11:05 PM
1

I got a sweet deal but it took a lot of work, research, documenting, etc. For the dad's I see struggling it is usually lack of asking for help from those of us who have gone before.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 05:34 PM
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Marriage to the wrong woman cost me my reputation, access to my kids, time, money, part of the retirement savings, house, hobbies, tools, car, questioning my self worth, lost respect and a destitute future. Marriage to a woman who respects me is the opposite of the above and she is rewarded 100 fold.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 08:30 PM
4

She wears dentures.
/r/MensRights06/05/15 08:13 PM
9

My head was spinning from all the complete and utter conjecture. Here is a fact in my world: Women are to blame in divorce when looking outside of their marriage for a replacement or better earner. They jump ship for greener pastures.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 01:26 AM
8

Just know your state laws, know your county laws, and kids are the kicker. Child support is often used for mommy support.
/r/MensRights11/04/15 11:34 PM
8

A lot of this is lawyer driven. The spouse contesting the prenup then get's to act like it is "out of their hands".
/r/MensRights11/04/15 11:17 PM
19

I have trouble understanding why it's not 100% single. No sex robots yet.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 01:41 PM
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The lottery win put him back on the radar. Before that he was just a deadbeat. (I'm for men's rights but I can't tolerate deadbeat dads)
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:44 AM
3

I'll add to your comments - it pays to know your state and county laws. Some have automatic alimony for X months. Most courts are expecting the SAHM to get a job. The real concern is if they are underemployed. Ex. the spouse with a masters in accounting who has been working part time at a McJob. The family law formulas take the McJob income and do not impute the real income the person could be making if they had put their degree to use.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 02:06 AM
3

Might be a sign of a bigger problem.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 11:34 PM
0

The alimony is taxable income for the ex. When the "income" goes away the court recalcs the support amount. It is generally less. Also, the court will likely impute the ex to work. Edit to clarify: The court will typically impute some level of earning capability to the ex. They won't directly force them to work but they will consider and factor in that if working the ex should be expected to make $x per year. In my experience it came down to calculations.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 01:32 PM
1

Looks like basic court math to make things equitable. She was underemployed and you get to make up the difference. Totally sucks. Imagine it was she cheated and you are paying for her and biff to go on vacations. That would be mind numbing. All men now entering marriage please ensure your spouse can make as much as you make.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 01:28 PM
1

Heard about this back in 2012. The write ups in the Chicago press leaned toward the guilty until proven innocent. Example. Guy had a sister near his age. Don't know if he had prior history of rape, violence, etc. The "victim" came from a Irish family with ties to the very Irish Chicago police force. Heard that yesterday apparently his attorneys had recommended he plead guilt to a lesser offense and that he was not going to win this trial.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 12:54 PM
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