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Too much idle time and too few kids. That's the paradox of modernity. Our 200 year industrial growth spurt will flame out because we've created a population with no will to grow or even replace itself.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 01:41 AM
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I am in a similar situation (no prior affair but similar length of time). Our plan right now is to hire a mediator and set up a 4 year nesting arrangement where I retain ownership of the house and then buy her out at the end of 4 year period. We have a 1 year old girl and we just moved recently so neither of us want to sell the house. What things have you read that say nesting quickly becomes a disaster? I would like to learn about some common failure modes of the idea. So far I think it's a goo…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 06:58 PM
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Oh yeah, thought it was more commonly known. The Lindy effect is the tendency of thing that have been around for longer to exist longer into the future. So, all else being equal, if thing A has survived for twice as long as thing B, then thing A will tend to last longer than thing B. Something being Lindy is generally seen as good, since it has staying power
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 06:14 PM
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To answer your question directly: exclusivity is necessary for everything good in romantic relationships. Even if your previous relationship failed, don't give up on the idea of exclusive relationships, just on the person. Don't hate the game, hate the player.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 02:12 AM
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Exclusivity is lindy. Embrace it
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 02:09 AM
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Do get married, just be more selective and do a prenup and a proper relgious marriage with vows.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 02:06 PM
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Wholesome Although you will eventually want to settle down. Choose well and when the time comes, don't fear the commitment. 60-year-old you will be grateful
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 04:18 PM
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Don't rush
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 01:29 PM
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I believe it's worth it, but start by obsessively focusing on building yourself up. Physically, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually. Be so at peace with and proud of who you become that women come to you and you have to fight them off. It will take time. It will be worth it
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 01:29 PM
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I wish more people thought this way.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 08:58 PM
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Forgiveness is good, but paying for sex is pathetic. Forgive her and build your confidence. Don't pay for it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 04:40 PM
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Holy shit I needed to hear this.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 04:23 PM
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