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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Men are always seen as lesser than All those "single" subs are always dominated by bitter women. The thing is, people certainly can be happy and single. I've been mostly single for quite a while and I'm quite content. The people who are truly happy aren't joining a reddit sub like that and posting to it though. I'm sure this person is miserable, not necessarily because she's single but because she's just miserable in general. Subs like that are just a way for them to continue to lie to themselves and/or everyone else about it.	/r/MensRights	10/07/26 04:02 PM
13	Why the hell should a man consider marriage? None of what you wrote requires nor is an intrinsic part of being married. All of that can (and should) be done without getting married. The one exception might be having kids but, really, no one should so idiotic as to do that at all. Speaking as someone in his 40s who's "been there done that" and, thankfully, dodged the kid bullet.	/r/MensRights	11/05/26 10:02 PM
5	Can white men finally stop complaining Lol, imagine telling 15YOE engineer / data scientist that they don't know how data works. The arrogance.	/r/MensRights	05/03/25 05:29 PM
7	Can white men finally stop complaining I don't have to prove god doesn't exist; the religious have to prove that he does. We don't prove medicine doesn't work; we prove that it does. You're (intellectually dishonestly) asking for people to prove a negative and then acting smug about it. Sorry, burden of proof is all on you. You're making the substantive claim. Not only that but your "parameters" are bullshit. Who is the judge of "authentically", "qualified", and "relationship appropriate"? You? Please. I'm sure no matter what anyone …	/r/MensRights	05/03/25 01:02 AM
12	Can white men finally stop complaining Congratulations, you've discovered survivorship bias ⭐. Nice that you've worked with dozens of men who managed to fall into the niche where therapy wasn't useless. Now let's take a look at the millions where it is.	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 11:45 PM
7	Can white men finally stop complaining The reality is these white men in power, who SHOULD be representing your interests, largely simply do not. So you understand that just because they may share appearance, it doesn't mean they actually have representation. This makes what the above commenter said true: Men don't have actual representation. The (white) men in congress don't represent men. If we're being honest, they represent corporations, lobby groups, or the top 0.1% in wealth but definitely not "men".	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 11:41 PM
30	Can white men finally stop complaining First, it's no secret that a vast majority of alimony is paid by men. This is a fact and is not up for dispute. In my opinion, alimony is inherently immoral and unethical. There is no possible justification to force an adult to pay another adult some form of continued compensation when a relationship ends. Aside from that, there is no standard of calculating both duration and amount of alimony across the US. Often, a spouse can be awarded permanent alimony of an excessive amount. Alimony can als…	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 09:10 PM
111	Can white men finally stop complaining I'll give you some specifics, since you asked. Completely rework or, ideally, abolish state-sponsored marriage Abolish alimony Child custody is default 50/50 and there needs to be a damn good reason for that to deviate A focus on male mental health - Therapy/Counseling are great for women's problems. The current practices do little to nothing to assist and help with men's problems, unless they happen to overlap with women's problems. Domestic violence (DV) laws needs to be addressed to stop pain…	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 06:02 PM
15	The Idiocy of “Women Attempt More” This is something I've thought about before as well. There are some other good replies in this thread about data, methodology, etc. My issue is more of a semantic/linguistic one, which I think is what you're getting at. My native language is American English. When we use the word "attempt" in nearly every other context aside from suicide, the attempt is the overarching umbrella which is then broken into subcategories, mainly success and failure. If I attempt to run a mile, fail once, and succeed…	/r/MensRights	05/01/25 03:32 PM
2	Why I'll never stop snooping through my husband's phone… and before you judge, here's why you should do the same I've used Roboform for about a decade now and it works great for me. At work we use 1Password which is quite similar. They both work similarly where you have a master password to access all the stored information. That master password is essentially the symmetric encryption key to your stored data so even the provider can't access it. There's also a browser extension which detects when you're logging into a new site for the first time. It'll offer to save your username/password and generate a pa…	/r/MensRights	05/01/25 03:01 PM
-1	Angelina Jolie walks away $80 million richer after Brad Pitt divorce That would be quite odd. Marriage is literally just an asset agreement between two people and the state saying "Treat these two, and their income/assets, as one entity." Having legally separate assets post-marriage isn't really possible as it would go against the exact (and only) thing the marriage is supposed to accomplish. Anything acquired during the marriage is acquired by that single entity in the eyes of the law. There may be some grey areas if you start talking about trusts and shell corp…	/r/MensRights	04/01/25 03:03 PM
1	40% of Women Could see Themselves Making a False Rape Allegation Assuming you're not trolling... It's trash because it's the belief in a fiction which has been, and continues to be used to harm others, especially those not in the same cult. It's not simply "different", it's outright dangerously incorrect. Not only that, but the sense of moral superiority that accompanies religion is used as a flimsy justification to control and limit what others can do and say. An appeal to an imaginary authority figure (god) along with the inane bible passages does nothing t…	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 05:35 PM
1	40% of Women Could see Themselves Making a False Rape Allegation The bible is a nonsensical book of bullshit and has no place in any type of serious discourse. GTFO with your religious trash. I wish you morons would just exit the MRM as all you do is make it more difficult for people take our issues seriously. You contribute nothing of value.	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 04:03 PM
16	Never feeling I am "enough" in today's dating environment. Is there any point in marrying someone with these superficial requirements In most circumstances, the answer is "no", it isn't worth marrying someone. More people, especially men, need to truly evaluate marriage for what it is and not what we (society) pretend that it is. What it is for most men is a high risk, low reward proposition. It's a contract which you aren't allowed to read, that can be altered at any time, and that the other person is often incentivized to break. Ask yourself, what are…	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 02:33 PM
12	Why are women so focused on controlling their boyfriends free time? Similar to what you wrote, this is what I've noticed when it comes to what men and women find attractive in each other. Men are attracted to beauty, youth, kindness, etc. Women are attracted to ambition, power, money, social status. I don't think it has to do specifically with "survival" but just has to be something that she sees can directly benefit her. Essentially, women are attracted to things that they can benefit from or exploit in another person to improve their standard of living or soci…	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 06:09 PM
15	Financial analyst nicknamed the "Oracle of Wall Street" says a "growing crisis of the young American male" will cause house prices to fall as much as 30 percent Everyone has to do what's best for them. However, I think most people (not just men) have an idealized view of marriage. We need to realize what marriage is and what it isn't. The prevailing view of marriage is all about love, fidelity, commitment, partnership, 'til death do us part. It's important to understand that none of these things is intrinsic to marriage. You can have all of them without a marriage license. What marriage actually is, is an asset agreement between two people and the state…	/r/MensRights	25/04/24 02:24 AM
1	Why so many decent single men are single Oh this has been going on long before covid. This comment does a good job of outlining the decay of "third places". Men have been hit especially hard by this as many of our traditional third places have been actively demonized for being men-only.	/r/MensRights	24/03/24 06:48 PM
46	Men are blamed for beauty standards but women refuse to associate with other women who dress a certain way or have too many ugly features. This might be part of it but even men who have high beauty standards (whatever that may mean to a particular individual) are far far less critical than other women. I would also wager that the level of criticism from the social group will increase if, overall, that social group is generally more objectively attractive. Meaning, very attractive women are even more harsh towards their peers and would pick out smaller flaws.	/r/MensRights	23/02/24 05:20 PM
4	My Ex Girlfriend Aborted Out Baby So She Could Go To BTS Concerts And Not Give Up Her "Best Fangirl Life". Our Precious Baby Would Be Due Now. I'm Devastated. Grow up. It's not murder and you anti-choice morons give the rest of us on this sub a bad name. Also, the fact that you even mention the whole kpop backstory is nonsensical and only serves as emotionally-charged bullshit. She's 24, wasn't ready to be a mom, got an abortion. End of story. She made a perfectly acceptable choice.	/r/MensRights	30/11/23 09:45 PM
5	NYT actively blaming men for not being good enough The quote in question wasn't about the single mom. It was about the other woman the writer mentioned who didn't have kids and was looking to get married but was perpetually single.	/r/MensRights	13/11/23 06:11 PM
14	My mother was a pedophile who used female privilege to hold me hostage. When I was 17 I grew tall enough to defend myself and said “no” That’s when she called the cops and said that I hit her. One of the longer term consequences of this and instances like it is that statistics will continue to fail to demonstrate how common female abusers are. These women are never charged, never entered into the system, and therefore never counted when the data is run. People will still assume males are the primary pedophiles or child abusers because males are charged.	/r/MensRights	27/09/23 06:37 PM
13	[63% Of Men Under 30 Are Single] Courtney Ryan "Help for Men" content creator contributes to the problem while convincing herself her advice is "Helping." Eh... I'm 40 this year and I've been dating since my divorce when I was 31. Is it easier to simply go on dates? Sure. But it's not easier to find someone who's worth a shit and a great partner. In fact, it's almost harder because single women in their 30s and 40s are single for a reason. There are good ones out there, and I've met some (we just didn't fit for other reasons) but it's few and far between. Finding a woman who wants to be a good partner, cares about you, and wants to put in the effo…	/r/MensRights	16/05/23 02:16 AM
1	PSA: Make a fake facebook account and join your cities "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" page, you will be shocked. What type of joining process did the group have? The one around here is annoying to try and get into.	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 01:34 PM
1	California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’s Oh nice! Frozen Tundra is one of my go-to's. I love the mentholated ones.	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 07:37 PM
1	California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’s You may want to check out this company. I order all my shave soaps from them (as well as bar soaps). https://www.stirlingsoap.com/	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 07:33 PM
1	Feminist academic paper: "Society would be better off as a whole if more women were willing to engage in justified violence against men" That's what r/menkampf is for	/r/MensRights	11/09/22 03:07 PM
7	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I'm familiar with this statistic and you are grossly misrepresenting it. It is NOT "90% of college educated women". That would imply that it's 90% of all married, college-educated women that initiate divorce. The stat that 70% of divorces are initiated by women is accurate. 90% OF THOSE are initiated by college-educated women. So it's 90% of the 70%. That's a very different number.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 01:29 PM
18	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? This is exactly my viewpoint. The issue is finding women who are accepting of that. However, I'll say that the women I've met who do understand that and agree with it (despite it not working out between us) have always been open-minded, understanding, and genuinely kind people. So there's that.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 01:20 PM
1	"Millions Of Men No Longer Want To Get Married, And You Can Thank The Government For That" - This is a fathers rights article from a woman's magazine that is pro men and anti-feminist ideology. MRA type messages are growing and reaching new audiences. E.g. MRA issues are in comedy, academia etc. I appreciate the reply. I'm getting the impression that the legal system views Common Law Marriage as a bit of a headache then. I wonder how the state legislature views it and how many districts are in favor / opposed to it. It may still be worthwhile to formulate an argument to have Common Law Marriage abolished in the state of CO, bringing us in line with a majority of other states. I just have to get off my butt and write my senator :D.	/r/MensRights	30/12/20 04:34 PM
1	"Millions Of Men No Longer Want To Get Married, And You Can Thank The Government For That" - This is a fathers rights article from a woman's magazine that is pro men and anti-feminist ideology. MRA type messages are growing and reaching new audiences. E.g. MRA issues are in comedy, academia etc. Also in CO. How do the courts and law firms view common law marriage here? Favorably or more of a nuisance? I've considered making an attempt through state government to get it abolished but I'm unsure how receptive people would be to that idea.	/r/MensRights	30/12/20 03:59 PM
1	My sister sent this to me (in disgust) from the “Confessions” page from her college. This is leftist mentality and I'm not saying that to be edgy. This isn't in American or any other specific national context, it's more theory-based. If you look at leftist (not liberal) politics at its core, they're centered around ideas of oppressed and oppressors (think Marxist philosophy). Someone who identifies as a leftist (not liberal, as you can have liberals who aren't leftists) needs to categorize people. They need to know who is an oppressor and who is oppressed. That style of group-or…	/r/MensRights	24/12/18 05:29 PM
1	Melania Trump says women 'need evidence' if they say they're victims they're not asking us to throw people in jail just because they accuse someone of raping them The problem is a lot of them are asking for exactly that. I think there are a lot of sane, moderate, people who just want proper justice and due process to be done. However, we've also seen the side where those making accusations do, in fact, want men instantly imprisoned and publicly shamed.	/r/MensRights	12/11/18 04:08 PM
1	So true. I'd wager I could pay 6 women $1000 each to accuse someone of raping them. Heck, maybe even $100 each. There's no possible way they'd get penalized for it and they're now richer. It's a win/win. People's morals are easily manipulated, especially when you frame it as making sure the "wrong" people don't have power.	/r/MensRights	30/09/18 12:19 AM
1	Please Stop Arguing About Trump on This Subreddit I'm sorry, I wasn't asking about Democrats and Republicans. In your original post, you also didn't mention Democrats and Republicans. You mentioned liberals and conservatives. There are plenty of liberal ideas and liberal people who are neither Democrats nor Republicans. That's why I was asking, specifically, why liberals wouldn't be good for men's rights. Not Democrats.	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 05:41 PM
1	Please Stop Arguing About Trump on This Subreddit I'm genuinely curious why you'd think that liberals (not leftists) wouldn't be good for men's rights? Liberals, almost by definition, want to change and progress that status quo. Conservatives want to maintain it. Mens rights, in general, is an extremely liberal idea (just not a leftist idea). We want to change the status quo for alimony, child support, custody, mental health issues, prison, etc. I see the separation with people on the left, as leftists care far more about group identity and the…	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 05:13 PM
1	Today I learned about Doris Lessing... and I am glad I did What the feminists want of me is something they haven't examined because it comes from religion. They want me to bear witness. What they would really like me to say is, 'Ha, sisters, I stand with you side by side in your struggle toward the golden dawn where all those beastly men are no more.' Do they really want people to make oversimplified statements about men and women? In fact, they do. I've come with great regret to this conclusion. — Doris Lessing, The New York Times, 25 July 1982 She's h…	/r/MensRights	28/06/18 10:36 PM
6	Perfect There's certainly a difference between systemic sexism and some asshole being sexist. There will always be sexist people in the world. Men and women will both continue to experience sexism at individual levels probably forever. She's more than likely referring to institutionalized sexism, which is illegal and gone. Sexism is not legal nor is it enshrined in any type of governing documents / systems. The rest is up to individuals. Unfortunately people are shitty and will continue to be so.	/r/MensRights	12/06/17 10:49 PM
18	Porn ISN'T to blame for a man's inability to perform in the bedroom – it's a lack of sexual satisfaction Bro... That sucks. Not to get all /r/ relationships on you, but this isn't a problem that's going to solve itself. Excessive weight gain, obesity, refusal to better oneself, refusal to work on problems together... these are all valid reasons to leave a relationship. It seems like unless she has a drastic shift in attitude, you're going to end up miserable and depressed (if you aren't already). I don't know why people get upset when there's talk of ending a relationship over excessive weight gain…	/r/MensRights	09/06/17 02:40 PM
–	Porn ISN'T to blame for a man's inability to perform in the bedroom – it's a lack of sexual satisfaction No joke. I'm 5'11" 160lb and keep myself in shape. It's difficult as hell to find a woman who does the same. I'm not gonna be a prick and ask more of my partner than I'm willing to give, myself. However, I would expect them to put in as much effort as I do. It's like looking for a damn unicorn.	/r/MensRights	09/06/17 02:33 PM
1	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete When did that happen?	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:59 PM
–	Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge. Where something looks somewhat human, but not human enough, and it makes people feel weird and uncomfortable. Robots that look like robots, cool. Robots that look exactly like humans, cool. Robots that look human but not perfectly, weird.	/r/MensRights	25/11/15 10:30 PM
–	Wage gap myth exposed — by feminists Women’s groups will counter that even if most of the wage gap can be explained by women’s choices, those choices are not truly free. I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous. I'm tired of this moving-of-the-goalposts. If you don't have the strength of character, willpower, discipline, etc to go against what your friends and family think you should do, then tough shit. Your choices are still your choices and your responsibility. I've met so many people, men and women, who, as adults, are still essential…	/r/MensRights	02/10/15 02:57 PM
–	New book for FREE promo for 24h more: The Empress Is Naked: From Female Privilege to Gender Equality and Social Liberation Awesome, thanks for the response.	/r/MensRights	18/07/15 04:22 PM
–	New book for FREE promo for 24h more: The Empress Is Naked: From Female Privilege to Gender Equality and Social Liberation I may check this out. I assume you're the author. I read through the table of contents and some of the excerpts. I get the impression you're making a lot of, possibly controversial or radical, claims. Do you cite sources for your data points? Is the book mostly opinion?	/r/MensRights	18/07/15 02:06 PM
–	Thought you guys would enjoy this I wonder how many teachers understand this about boys and how they learn. Is this covered when getting a teaching degree? This seems like a problem that may vanish if more men were in the teaching fields.	/r/MensRights	11/05/15 11:15 PM
–	I am a feminist. Help me understand the Men's Rights movement. This should also help, in addition to all the answers already provided: http://np.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/1jt1u5/cmv_i_think_that_mens_rights_issues_are_the/cbi2m7a	/r/MensRights	05/05/15 07:56 PM
–	Alimony is a relic from the dark days of the patriarchy. It should be ended completely ... said no Feminist ever. His links are a bit of sarcasm because, obviously, those feminists don't support it. You know there are feminists that aren't a part of any organization, right? Yup, and essentially they don't matter. I'm sure many of them are great people and are reasonable but they simply don't matter. They're the silent majority who, through their silence, implicitly support the vocal minority (the organizations, such as the ones eaton80 linked to). Your point about there being many women, many identifying as…	/r/MensRights	17/04/15 07:20 PM
3	Since 1982, Women Have Earned About 10,000,000 MORE US College Degrees Than Men. Is that exactly the "Women Are Wonderful" effect? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E2%80%9CWomen_are_wonderful%E2%80%9D_effect	/r/MensRights	10/04/15 03:35 PM
1	Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy. Japanese women have complained of soshoku danshi or "herbivore men," so called for their lack of interest in the opposite sex. This is also sta Ah, ok, understood. Thanks.	/r/MensRights	30/12/14 10:07 PM
1	Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy. Japanese women have complained of soshoku danshi or "herbivore men," so called for their lack of interest in the opposite sex. This is also sta Do... Do you live in Boulder, CO by any chance? Your description is perfectly apt.	/r/MensRights	30/12/14 08:54 PM
1	Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy. Japanese women have complained of soshoku danshi or "herbivore men," so called for their lack of interest in the opposite sex. This is also sta When you say 20% having 80% success, are you referring to 20% of men or women or what?	/r/MensRights	30/12/14 08:26 PM
1	Men fall victim to online 'sextortion' I thought it was just me and my noscript not showing the content. Is it really just that few sentences? That's fantastic...	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 05:51 PM
3	Thread talking about how Men shouldnt' have reproductive rights. Stitches?! Heck, I had one 4, almost 5 years ago now, and there were no stitches. They must have used a scalpel for yours then? Mine was a non-scalpel version. Flippin' awesome!	/r/MensRights	03/05/14 10:37 PM
3	"We should hang out sometime." Now what? I'm with you.	/r/seduction	07/10/10 01:39 PM