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| 9 | In-laws problems. | haha_boobs | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/18 11:46 AM |
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| 5 | In-laws problems.I can't share these details with my friends. I've been married for 2 years and I have a year old baby. I don't know what he's up to. He's pissed at me because my parents intervened and told him to treat me better. Off late he was acting just like his father, asking me to dress in a certain way, not go out for my college events, you know, aggressive controlling behaviour. In the heat of the moments I shouted at his parents (I never do) and told them off for not giving us any space and lying to me… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/18 05:42 PM |
| 7 | In-laws problems.First of all I'm sorry I'm sharing my story via a comment, I'm mostly a lurker on reddit. It's in my culture to stay with paternal In-laws after marriage. There are laws mandating the same. So Yes, husband and I live with them. Problems- They don't give any privacy to me and my husband - even if we are in a room alone, my MIL would knock and ask my husband to get to work (he works from home) Because my husband's sleep schedule is very different from mine (he works at night, I sleep and go to col… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.This thread is really about how you 'believe' things and you don't believe other things and how he must fall in line with whatever paradigm you had for yourself (nannies and cooks and endless providing because baby doesn't "believe in abortion"). So you're married to a man with depression and addiction, that must be hard, true, but you've had a gross attitude that shows all throughout in this very thread. You're resentful, and he must resent you deeply as well for unilaterally instilling change … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Who on the Internet could have some magic words to fix this absolute mess? OP needs to grow the fuck up and learn responsibility, r/relationships would just coddle her entitled ass more. Responsibility? I am doing my part, just some time ago I read a post on r/redpillwives about how we shouldn't be nags, so I stopped nagging him to sit down on his computer and work. I believe in the traditional set up where the man earns and the woman looks after the babies, house and staff; which I do. In my tr… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.So you must be working right if you need both a maid and a nanny ? I had a complicated c-section because of which I need help. My MIL practices a 40 days post partum confinement during which I'm not allowed to do any chores anyway. So yes we need some help with the baby and the cleaning/house. I've dropped a semester to nurture the baby, although after some time I'll resume college. Will you be able to contribute at all to the finances ? At this point, he seems like he hasn't understood that chi… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 10:00 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Very mean. Just for the record, the bills are paid through loans. And I am the wife. I have had chauffeurs, bouncers, cooks and multiple maids at my service since I was born and also in my marriage. Now I'm just left with the maid and nanny. Just broaden your mind for once. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Like I said. > $1 in our bank accounts. Loans and debt. His lack of motivation. His addictions. So many things. Nannies and maids and a roof and food don't compensate for the fact that he's not the same guy who used to strive for better things in life. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.You hitched yourself to the party train, not the family train. I suspect you are early 30's? I suspect your life as it is now is infinitely more comfortable than being a divorced 30's with a kid in tow. It was never a party. It was his work. His hard earned money, his business which he developed from the scratch, not a scratch lottery. I want help because I know it was never a party and god forbid if someone's family member suffers with gambling addiction and obvious lack of motivation or hope. … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 10:38 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.What are some concrete examples of the "never gotten along?" Not getting along in politics, lifestyle, etc? The description here can encompass a lot, both minor and major. We never got along because of his lifestyle before the marriage. He was young and wild. He made all his money from the scratch all by himself and he was spending all the same. We never got along because even though we were dating/married, we had fights over things like his female friends in the past or my male friends. Trivial… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 10:24 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.It sounds like he has been depressed ever since you got pregnant; did he want this baby? The baby was unplanned and I don't think he really wanted to be a father at such an age (he's 24, I am 23) but he supported me in my decision to keep the baby because I don't believe in abortion. He was happy throughout the pregnancy tbh, he developed his business module from the scrath, an app to launch his online trade while I was pregnant. He did everything in his power to let me have a comfortable pregna… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 05:42 AM |
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