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| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I'll read all these researches but I have seen so many posts, like, uncountable, where the women say that they might not have as much physical attraction towards their date, but 6 months ahead, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, he is stoking hot to them. The most beautiful man they have ever seen. It is what it is and this is how it works in long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Where do you get all this. If she is in love, you area 10/10, the attraction she encounters with chads are not as intense as when in love. You can become a 4 in her eyes even though you're a gigachad, doesn't matter. And be a 4 but be 10/10 if she is in love with you. I am talking about serious relationships here. Many women don't even realizs their boyfriend is hot or unhot because for them, its their dream boy once they're in love and feel emotionally safe around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I know handsome men and women have more gravity in social situations, but the way you phrased it is as if you are making an excuse here. You find a person who is decently attractive with a good personality, and you find a chad, tall dark handsome, lovely eyes, thick eyebrows, beautifully shaped lips, and at that moment, even if his personality would be okay, and because he has more friends than the decently attractive guy, your mind will try to find reasons to leave the better choice and go for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:26 AM |
| -1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?What people don't realize here is just because she settled for you doesn't mean she doesn't get wet for you. Unlike men, women are extremely picky, but if they are less picky (but still picky) and have some lukewarm attraction for you, and if you date her and go out with her, spend time with her, gradually, over time, she will develop love for you, she'll get wet when you touch her, she'll go nuts and butterflies in her belly whenever she sees you, she'll get a mini boner whenever you're around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Oh so that's the reason you give your mind to be extra picky, "Because handsome men are more socially skillful", could even be a great advert marketing copy. Join our new fuckthechads.com website with just $50 lifetime premium, because chads, ladies, are more socially skillful. Doesn't make you look less shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex.THIS . you cracked it homie. There are men who need to be honest but you can't expect everyone to be honest? Because they think that they deserve to have easy access to casual sex as much as a good looking guy, so they enhance themselves, they change their personality just to find someone interested in them, and have sex with them. Once done, they'll show a cold shoulder. But the hard truth is, you had sex with them just because you thought you cannot just keep having sex or fantasize about havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex.Here are some thoughts which come to my mind: It is completely known to us now, and even all women somewhat would agree to this, that "being yourself" won't get you laid. If you were yourselves, for an average man, it gets harder and harder to score a love. So we alter the way we talk, the phrases we use, the twist of words and the felony of cute flirtations, but the bargain is we have kind of become shallow inside when we do this, we appear as confident and charming, but in reality we are not, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Dear Women: For the "socially inept" here, what are the subtle cues you find a guy attractive ?YES! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Dear Women: For the "socially inept" here, what are the subtle cues you find a guy attractive ?You won't date a guy with thin forearms? Are they essential to get your attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 21 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"HAHAHA! I have seen so many comments here from women with what you just wrote. "Attraction is not negotiable" "Either its there, or its not" Let me know if anyone knows more quotes like these, I've seen them so many times, its now funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Have you checked the red pill women's subreddit wiki, they clearly say that if their red pill is all about commitment. And that makes me think, because a committed man is easy to get, OH! Committed AND handsome. So the women's red pill subreddit is one step ahead of us, they don't face an issue with relationship poverty, they can get as many handsome men as they can for sex, but now the problem is that those handsome men don't want to commit to her, and now that they've slept with a hot pants, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Also, any woman who is going to reply to this with "These seem to be the worst kind of women, and not all women are same", he's getting an average man's 2 months worth of replies in probably a lot less time. Just imagine if the bad parts in the profile were taken down, he'd be getting around 10x more replies than what he got right now. So this example doesn't show that women don't care about profile descriptions, but that if he's getting replies and matches even after doing the most horrible cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 04:30 AM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?far left or far right? I find the right one average and left one above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 04:15 AM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?You just admitted it yourselves, you met your man in the gym and tons of people prior to him asked you out, and I'm sure your man looks more physically attractive than the other men which made you PICK him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Not true. What he means is a man has less body count usually because he hasn't got the chance to have high body count. On the other hand, most women we date will be attractive enough to easily develop a high body count but VOLUNTARILY resists and controls her sexual needs with others. A man, too, is voluntary, but subconsciously the voluntariness is a self coping flag to not really having many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?But what if he's saying marriage is not his best interest not because of reasons where trust issues are playing role but that he's never going to marry. It is more of an ideological and philosophical point of view restricting him from the concept of marriage, but he's open to the idea of a life partner.. Will you still think it's trust issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:27 AM |
| – | if you're shy and introverted as a man in america are you doomed?Why do you have to mention America, as if other countries are different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themAnd that just prices the point that women don't find most men their age physically attractive, the only way they will to an average man is after knowing him, finding his personality charming and maybe giving him a chance, committing to him which leads to gradual physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:35 PM |
| 16 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themI love seeing the excuses women make when they say are asked why women don't approach. This is the 'Age if Equality' after all. The replies are sometimes obvious and funny at times. - We like seeing 'confidence' in men which they see when a man approaches them. - This isn't how dating works. - I don't deserve to put so much 'effort' just to date a man. - I feel like getting approached is what 'works' for me. All in all, they don't want to put effort. And I assure that if women approached men as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 08:27 AM |
| -2 | Can women do/feel these things to the extent men can?But have you noticed one thing, whatever men do in life, they have a kind of, pattern, which they have, same as women. A woman trying to win his boyfriend back or get a job, somehow has a similar pattern to a woman serial killer, well, not really a pattern, but a way of behaving, and that way of behaving affects the way they react, respond and take decisions. I think that's what being feminine is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 07:45 PM |
| 36 | Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men?You got it right on man. It's like, do you know why so many people from America are going down in woods with their new age spirituality, making a tiny house, and living a 'peaceful, mindful life' with their hydroponics system and solar power panels? Making their own barn and farm and then they say they're "working hard" farming and raising the chickens and cows. Because a developed country is developed enough that you know you can go down on money, go down on resources and yet not reduce your qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMost women I see on instagram lurking on a random mana's profile commenting "Just look at his smile, OMG", and that guy has low buccal fat, pronounced ramus, fell drawn pink lips, eyes of a gorgeous and eyebrows like god's choice. But nope, its the smile, I'm not attracted to bodies, I'm the smile kinda girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADExactly this. You can seriously just google "Cute white boys pinterest", keep scrolling and click any random image, scroll down and select another random image and most probably you'll see a few comments begging to know their instagram ID's. And let's not even get to instagram. When it comes to instagram, I see two things, either the post is dead with only men commenting on his bro's post, or its all women on one man. So, definitely when it comes to attractiveness, concentration of attention is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd while many people here would say that this is basically 'Halo Effect", there is more to this. There is the part where you *generally*, regardless of gender treat someone better. And then there's female gaze which sees men everywhere just like men gaze over women in hopes to get that little flame of attractiveness for the person. And when women see a man who is highly attractive, a beautiful looking, handsome man, anything he does becomes hot and his personality will be hot too as long as he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Lookism as Epistemic InjusticeMewing is seriously the only useful thing about blackpill. If it doesn't working for you, it means you haven't understood the science behind it, you do not understand the benefits it provides and why its necessary to be done, it isn't just about appearance, its about correctness and health, about correct lifestyle, and how your nasal health correctness reflects outside with a correct bone structure which is interlinked with health, and health is what nature has binded with attractiveness. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/12/23 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Grey’s Anatomy perfectly captures how women perceive and evaluate menI don't think people are mad because they're being controlled by women, the problem is when women were being controlled, it wasn't equality, and right now, it isn't a world of tit for tat, you're not supposed to suffer or be rewarded for something your ascendants did, this is the age of equality and both genders are supposed to be equal and balanced, both genders are supposed to initialize as much, both genders are supposed to have the same dating scenario, where's the equality? You can't just N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYeah. I'm tired of women here giving examples of creeps, I do not think most men on PurplePill are creepy, and yet most of them are here out of insecurity of not having the same freedom of options as women. The other day some girl replied to my comments that dating apps don't work for her because creepy men which don't even live in their country hit on them, that's sure a problem but is that you get MOST of the time? Are you sick and tired it? You get average men with great descriptions, you get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:03 PM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADTHIS. No one wants to put what's need to be put. The other silly 'suggestion' disguised blame like height is 'grooming'. 'Men don't groom, they have no fashion sense', hey! I take bath everyday, apply sunscreen, shave and exercise, I wear good clothes, EVERYONE does that, but nah, men don't groom, gross creatures coming to school outta the bed, no brushing teeth either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat is true, most for the men I have met in my life had a very simplistic view, and its weird because when men arrive here with their standardized approach of what attractiveness is, it pisses women off, because women are complex and have very, I mean VERY varied preferences, and most men are simply looking for a good facial structure, good body fat percentage, and wallah! they're attractive (and by attractive, I don't mean stoking hot, I mean, kissable and dateable based on personality), but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?I am sorry about your son. He definitely doesn't deserve that. Dating sure must be slow at 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Does it have a guilty weird feeling or just wasted my time kind of feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 06:00 AM |
| 2 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?I'm pretty sure that's not the only kind of man who hits on you. Nope. You get plenty of good average men from your age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Yeah, modern dating has ruined both sides as I said. Those perverts and assholes are not worth your time and has taken a toll on you, not just made you more compulsive to who to date and made you more of a physical appearance person than a personality person, but also ruined how you think you relationships, and here on men's side, it's a desert, for us, getting a toxic response would be taken positively at times than no score. I agree, the pool of women which didn't give her anything, which prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?I don't know about that guy who replied 6 feet and 100k, but I personally am insecure and have a lot of internal frustration and it won't go away until I'm provided the same validation as a typical woman. So what? It's okay, this is why Purple Pill exists. People are frustrated and want a middle ground in an endless cycle of self-hate. But it's still okay. I don't blame him, or the lady. or you. Modern dating framework has trapped everyone in different ways of expression and men seem to express … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:00 PM |
| 11 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Because relationship life is easier for women, not just dating but any kind of relationship, if I go to a footpath and pick three random women, most probably they're engaged in healthy relationships and/or are/have been in a healthy dating life OR that she can EASILY get prospects. Your analogy of 'providing value' is counterintuitive to 'Just be yourselves', which most women on reddit claim to solve all men's dating problems. I have seen and read about many people who for fun, handing their d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:57 PM |
| 3 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Chill. People can come to conclusions, it's not like they're restricting the lady. She has a reply button to respond to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:39 PM |
| 4 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Yeah, throughout the decades the subconscious pattern of modern dating was a seed, a seed being prepared by the new clubby life of vintage era, and then came online dating to fill the seed. The main thing to notice is how the mindset is transitioning with the use of online dating. Before the modern dating system, the best way to get in a committed relationship was to not expect any kind of "omg he's so hot" at first sight, as long as he's hygienic and well-mantained, taller than you, and you lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:08 PM |
| -1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Exactly. You got it man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:44 PM |
| 8 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?What are these dealbreakers, can you elaborate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:22 PM |
| 8 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?My man is talking crazy sh*t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Romance is just sex + friendship.I highly agree with you, except that there's but bodily sensations involved where different kinds of euphoric flavors are present, when we were a kid, we were vulnerable and sensitive to get an euphoric flavor from almost anything, like riding your bmx at 4pm in suburbs with your friends or seeing a cute girl from your school. The more we grow, the more mechanical we become, the more flavorless we become, and this is why nostalgia is such a hit, because you can think of that one image or scenari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.Oh I agree with you. Most men from tribal land or very undeveloped countries live a life of correct posture and lifestyle and they don't face these problems. But most undeveloped aren't, they are commerialized but with no money, so they are stuck in the capitalism loop with sacrificed self dependency but for more farming oriented 4th world countries, sure. I'm talking about countries which have occupied themselves with capital life, but can't afford one, they do seem to have a very low expectati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.Yeah definitely. Although we won't be able to find such population on reddit since its from undeveloped countries with less reach to multi purpose internet and fluent English. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.For casual dating, this is true, top shares the most corpus. But for real life dating too, as long as there is no urgency for the concerned women to marry, the women will go no to rather wait, and look and stare at beautiful men who live nearby or are available online with pictures as a means for momentary satisfaction but in long term creating more delusion. Late teen women are going through this right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.This just proves what you think of an average man your age, the below-averageness, your mindset has shifted that if you don't find someone atrractive, you will find unattractive, which is silly but the number of men women find below average and undatable is so vast that their subconscious has concluded that if someone is not attractive, they're below average. But the truth is just because your dating someone whose not attractive to your RIGHT NOW doesn't mean he won't get attractive later on, in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.What makes it not ok is the imbalance that we find a huge portion of women our age attractive but this isnt the response from the other side, most men if approached by a woman will probably go for a date because of how big a portion is attractive to us. But most women, who are very critical at this time that there MUST he physical atrraction on first glance, won't go on a date because they don't find most men attractive. And no, its no the hygiene or the fat, in America, overweight is normal 25%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.And the more the sexual poverty, the more chances of ronantic poverty too. Most of these sexually rich men have probably been through many and many romantic deep relationships too, so that goes with the fact that romantic poverty exists too, most men won't be on a long term relationship with maximum 5 women in their complete lifetime. I love the way you said all of this by the ways, pathological capitalism and sexual poverty, really good wordsmithery. Where can I read more like this? Noam Chomps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.And women deny this because they have gone through thousands of years of being judged for the same thing, so they cannot display the fact that they are possessing the same gaze qualities, even more intense and choosy. Because that would just negate the freeing from the constructed ideology that men's threshold binded women for centuries and more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.Wait a second, why does choosing an average man make a woman have low self esteem? Just because you date an average man doesn't make you low at self esteem. I agree on the picking part, I liked this comment a long ago where it said men are in desert of women and women are in a sea of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:11 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average.Thats not the point. Most guys don't get what they crush on, but they still think 60% of women in their age group is fairly attractive to get laid with. UNLIKE women, thats where a line is drawn, women don't get what they crush on AND don't find most men with their age group EVEN ABOVE AVERAGE. They find them below average. I have found many reddit posts where women ask other women "I have very high standards, and I don't find men in my league attractive, what do I do?", and you know what most w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | “Where are all the good men”I'd love a longer list of videos such as this where they make women experience a man's online dating scenario. The comments on the video you linked are rad, where one comment said the person made their female friends go through it and they went through 3 phases of desperation, first where they are selective, yet no swiped, second they choose more amount of right swipes and still no matches, third where they constantly swipe right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | “Where are all the good men”Okay yeah, the sushi conveyer belt thing, when I was writing it out, I let out an evil smirk too, I knew it would be too exaggeratingly silly to write it, but the idea seemed to devilish to be abandoned. On the flip side you don't have to assume how much of an incel I am by the funny analogy I gave you. Because in the end, it is what it is, sure, things are not really the way I analogized them, because things are more fluid, emotional, slow and vivid, but it all ends up to the conclusion that, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:49 AM |
| 1 | “Where are all the good men”I am pretty sure your husband was conventionally much more attractive in all your social circles combined and this is why you approached him, he definitely wasn't just average enough like most people to be left out. > This sort of thing happens quite often in social circles. Finding a stoking man in one of your NATURALLY EXISTING social circles and approaching him is different than getting out of your comfort zone to keep participating in new social circles, keep engaging until someone, someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:04 PM |
| -1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?I disagree that the people you're talking about doesn't have something in common, maybe superior symmetry, maybe some other quality, but whatever it is, its still the top 30%, it has to be a diamond before you choose what type of shape you want for the diamond, being top 30% is the pre-requisite you chose. Either that or that you first got attracted to personality and then to his face, since many women seem to first get attached to their SO and then find him physically attractive. Also, I'm an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I start dating?This is so good! These days teenagers have consumed overwhelming amount of social media, internet and its baffling. Too much scrolling over the cutest men in town, and all teenagers who are too much into internet life tend to occupy similar social features such as altering the way they talk, altering their fashion style in accordance to current weird trends which change every nanosecond, comment on the same hot guy account they found from some other friend, and all of this just looks...artificia… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/23 03:38 PM |
| 4 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?How do you date someone of your own attractiveness scale if most women don't find most men average let alone attractive? Since you need to be physically attracted before going on a date, or at least thats what most women say. Also men find a very higher percentage of women 'aesthetically acceptable' but women don't, let's keep that in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?And after all of this there's a red pill women subreddit which is all about commitment. Shrug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 8 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?I have spend about a week researching, going through posts from various subreddits to get out of the statistics and INSIDE the daily lives of people, their experiences, their preferences. This is what I have found, about 80% of women, on their first date, want a spark where they feel physically attracted to the man, if that's not happening, regardless of how jolly your personality is, she's not going to see you again. Almost 80% of them said: I have been through many men, I tried appreciating th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | “Where are all the good men”Oh my lord. I love this, I love the way you talk and what you talk. Please keep going, use this reply to blast all your opinions. Especially the line where you said freedom of equality, HELL YEAH, and the excuse women will use here is "Oh, but biologically we're programmed to wait.", No you're not, there is no empirical evidence that women are supposed to wait and see, in fact just the pre-internet era and you'll see that nature, even though still favour in men, naturally aligned approaching for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:11 AM |
| 5 | “Where are all the good men”Oh my bad. By sexual options I thought you meant options in general. Yeah I do agree women have more sexual options but I highly disagree and it makes no sense to me that if a gender has more sexual options, their relationship options will not, at least slightly, walk parallel in statistics. And as you said, the inequality lies precisely online, which is what I'm talking about. Dating apps are part of the online approaching systems. Anyways, I still believe that if someone has more options, they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:45 AM |
| 7 | “Where are all the good men”What? This is such bullshit. Please don't compare men's inability to find a partner equals to women's inability to sustain a good relationship, one sustains a good relationship when you in the first place have one, incels don't get dates, that's what makes them incels, for whatever reason but in dating, mainly looks. The way you determine in dating apps that you'll get a good chemistry lasting in a long term relationship is probability, you assume that out of a hundred, one will be committing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | “Where are all the good men”All the good men are single, but all the good attractive men are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:12 AM |
| – | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI have never ever found Margo Robbie attractive, in fact I find some of her features making me unattracted to her. But maybe the young version of her would be cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI have mentioned it at the very first that this was initially a post, which was formatted well but when I copy pasted it, it just blended everything. But yeah, I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe guys you have dated, were you (good) friends with them before? was it a dating site or was it IRL asking out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf you have seen people with proper posture and still recessed features, their posture isn't proper. Its 2023 and people still under-read orthotropics, and this is why I didn't write mewing, mewing is a hype and hype never works out, mewing is for brats who don't back science and do their research. Come on. I haven't quiet noticed the celebrities' thing, its interesting though, it can be your mind expecting the same facial features as of the celebrity, maybe if we first see the sibling and then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOveralls to that you don't find them attractive and if you dont find most average men, who are not obese, dont have any bad disability or facial deformation, attractive, that rounds off to that you'll just date the top attractive men, which are universal. But if thats possible and you want your man to be attractive the first time you saw him, then how are most married men married? And no its not "all women have different preferences", everyone has pretty universal standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell, I guess people like nitpicking a lot these days. Nitpicking as if they're dying to get her. Add an average man's picture and cavil is instantly drooling material for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:49 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI highly disagree. What makes a man masculine is his facial structure, and now we have discovered that the facial structure is not genetic, jawline isn't genetic, hollow cheeks and high cheekbones aren't genetic, they're not built during our childhood and adult, because of our bad tongue posture, I've been researching about it for an year now, its called orthotropics, a science which oppossess the techniques and core philosophy of orthodontics, according to the founders of orthotropics, nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:41 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think this goes over or below 30. Wherever I go on reddit concerning women trying to date, they make new creative ways to end up saying "I want a gorgeous face and a sexy body". But the creativity to plot this in such a non aggressive way, its fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:22 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf you hate fat blocks of texts, simply don't answer them, it's okay. Yeah, but most men ARE ugly in female gaze, doesn't that mean you'll only prefer dating the top 20%, or is it that you become friends with someone and that slightly alleviates their aesthetic appeal, and then you can ask for a date, because if you dont care about personality if someone's ugly, then that shows that won't date the bottom 80%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm pretty sure this study isn't just about USA. Things are as worse in any other country regardless of obesity. And I'm not talking about that, anyone can get over that, I'm talking about face, in particular, since this is a worldwide issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:14 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's really respectful but not relevant to my question or what I'm seeking opinions on. What I asked was, almost all women want an instant physical attraction before they can go about worrying on personality and everything. But that doesn't make sense speaking of women convincing every men on reddit how its the personality. How can you say that you want instant attraction and also give your opinion that it is personality which matters? And most women find most men unattractive or below average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:02 PM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWomen, I need clarity regarding this: (This was initially a post, so apologies if some things confuse you) Okay. I'm not talking about the ONGOING of relationship, no, I'm talking about putting the foot in for the personality to shine. I have researched and skimmed through many posts from several subreddits and it seeks that 95% of women WANT an INSTANTANEOUS physical attraction to start worrying about personality. And majority of them won't even allow giving them a green card for dating or offe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:40 PM |
| 4 | As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get womenOH MY GOD. THE WAY YOU EXPLAINED IT. YOU KILLED IT MAN. Regardless of how much we avoid it, its weird to see that men even after seeing a hundred different actresses and crushing on them, keeps their standard only slightly high because of the hedonism projected on him. But on the other hand, for women, especially young women it takes a great, great toll, they want a handsome, good looking, a man with the facial structure of a cute yet muscularly defined shining ray of awesome handsomeness. Insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Men increasing their standardsI agree. Besides the marriage aspect, when it comes to dating, all women date the top 20 percentile when it comes to appearance and facial attraction, and its ridiculous how its getting blamed on grooming these days, what do you expect? a $1000 suit? Even facially good looking men don't groom as hard as they look, but they make it look so because they're hot. Women change dates but also carry the sentiments that men only look for sex, too complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Men increasing their standardsYeah, to conclude my point I do believe the spectrum for women to be good looking compared to the same spectrum on men is very, very high, so much so that either you'll find a too good looking man to date, or emotionally connect yourselves with an average man (which most man are, (for women)) until you start finding him super attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Men increasing their standardsI agree with this. But I don't believe it is because men are free for changing these scenarios. If we look at this scenario besides the internet statistics, we'll see that there are extremely few men who are stoking and making women drool, but that very few remain the best at making hundreds of women comment on their posts, where as the vast population of women have much much higher beauty standards for the same sphere of population for men. What I mean to say is, in every group and in every lev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Men increasing their standardsI don't know why we try correlating 'putting our foot in the door' with 'survival inside', it seems to me that everyone does it because they want to console themselves that visual attractiveness doesn't put profound value in our life, even though it does, greatly. I don't know about statistics but surely, boys seem to, when finding visual attractiveness, find much more diversity than for a woman, a woman, especially in her teens will not like almost anyone these days when it comes to saying 'he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:23 PM |
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