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5	Any other video breakdowns of first dates like these ones Todd V made?	Resources	hahahi7	/r/seduction	17/05/24 04:32 PM

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6	I’m 41 - is it too late? Not too late. Are you on the apps? Someone with that much going for them "on paper" should get a decent amount of attention on dating apps. That's basically how it worked with me. (Don't rely 100% on the apps. Still get out there IRL. But apps can be a valuable tool)	/r/seduction	05/07/24 02:41 PM
0	I found a girl for me. Need your help. sure. or what made them interested in learning guitar. what kind of songs do they hope to play	/r/seduction	25/05/24 02:17 PM
2	I found a girl for me. Need your help. maybe don't ask her about why she sits alone because she might be insecure about it	/r/seduction	25/05/24 02:05 PM
0	I found a girl for me. Need your help. maybe say a comment about something that happened in class. or just ask her a question and see where it goes. don't put so much pressure on yourself for nailing this first conversation. you have a class with her so there will be other chances to chat with her. it's not the same as meeting a random person at a bar	/r/seduction	25/05/24 02:04 PM
1	I found a girl for me. Need your help. Maybe strike up a conversation with her after class one day. Start there	/r/seduction	25/05/24 11:16 AM
2	A day in the life of a hot girl I read a few lines and I deeply regret wasting those 30 seconds of my life	/r/seduction	21/05/24 04:06 AM
1	Any other video breakdowns of first dates like these ones Todd V made? No. I'm actually correct about what's helpful for me personally. everyone is different though. so if that's not something that'd be helpful for you, that's fine	/r/seduction	18/05/24 03:45 AM
3	Any other video breakdowns of first dates like these ones Todd V made? it's not about pretending to be someone else. watching someone on a date and hearing them break down what they are doing is just another way to learn concepts. Seeing the concepts being used in practice by someone else is just particularly helpful for me. I know that my own application of these same concepts will be unique to me. Also, hearing how he thinks about his own dates can give me a framework for how I think about my own dates.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 11:16 PM
20	What are the biggest problems for you when it comes to dating? too smart, too good looking, muscles too big, etc. It's like I'm cursed or something	/r/seduction	13/03/24 12:53 AM
2	This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinking But, I'm gonna be a little bit annoying here, and ask how it's possible that texting a woman the day after a good date is destroying the mystery? I mean, the globally known reason that men even approach women in the first place is, they want to have sex with them. The mystery has already been revealed. There was never a mystery. I don't necessarily love this text-delaying strategy but this is just not true. Haven't you had first dates where you decided you weren't interested in seeing the other …	/r/seduction	30/01/24 03:37 PM
2	This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinking What if you have a few pleasant and casual text exchanges after the date (like night-of or maybe next morning) just going "had a nice time. thanks for drinks." "no problem. had fun too. let's hang again soon" "yeah, for sure" etc. But then it takes a few days before the guy reaches out to directly ask you out on the next date? Because I do that pretty often and it's just because I'm not sure of my availability yet, and I don't really like sending just conversation texts early into dating ("how's…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 03:27 PM
49	How to Escalate when Girl is at your Place - A Tip that Worked for me This place is so weird. OP gives a clear, actionable tip for guys who can feel a positive vibe but aren't sure how to escalate yet or are maybe a bit too nervous or whatever, and almost all of the comments are people shitting on it for some reason.	/r/seduction	14/01/24 05:21 PM
1	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE That's very interesting about the quick 15 minute coffee date for people you meet on apps. I don't know of anybody that does that. I don't think it's the norm in my city (NYC). And I'm friends with a lot of women and I don't hear of them being asked to go on many quick first dates like this. But here is something that I've been thinking about regarding how to handle dates that seem to go well (really good conversation, playful fun vibes etc) but there is no physical escalation for whatever reaso…	/r/seduction	29/07/23 05:36 PM
1	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE Thanks for the clarifying. Regarding the first part, I do see what you mean. I actually had an ex who would do that a lot. she was a really physical person in general. played a lot of sports, danced, had ADHD, was sort of always moving. When she would touch you while telling a story, it felt natural because it was just the kind of person she was. You could tell she wasn't even thinking about it. I don't think I'm someone with that same kind of natural physicality (she was abnormally physical) bu…	/r/seduction	28/07/23 12:56 PM
5	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE So I have some ability at escalating and do some things similar to OP. For example, I often get into hand touching by asking about her rings (it helps that I'm actually genuinely interested in where people get their jewelry and sometimes they have interesting stories behind them, like "oh this used to belong to my grandmother...") and can often transition this into regular handholding. But stuff like this I just can't understand: While that's happening I can briefly touch her on her forearm, upp…	/r/seduction	28/07/23 07:21 AM