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I'm not financially dependant, so, I married Chad? Time to get a PI and see if he's cheating on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:04 PM
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Introduce her to your friends, then family. Not all at once. Step by step with her reciprocating in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:30 PM
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Picture a love for a toddler. He does not bring resources. He does not fill the fridge, does not repair your house, etc. Yet you still love him unconditionally. I have a newborn at home. I don't love him. I have an immense sense of duty towards him because I chose to have him and raise him. I don't claim to love him because he isn't much of a person yet. He's a pooping, eating crying machine right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 03:33 AM
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I have a two month old boy at home. Right now I just want healthy. One problem at a time. I will raise him with the goal of knowing when to be kind and when to asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:12 PM
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Class segregation is more likely. Gated communities for the rich, no public transportion into those areas and restricted access to Wi-Fi and other related signals (techno-illiterate here)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 12:25 AM
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Health > $€¥£ If I'm with someone, I want them to share old age with me. I can make the money if needed. Happiness first. Six times six. (google doesn't need to know everything about me)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:41 AM
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Other possible low carb substitutes: shirataki noodles, spiralized zucchini noodles, cauliflower rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:29 AM
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She's spergy, so she kept emphasizing that he's great on paper. Do you think this is typical of sexually unsuccessful women? Possibly. IMO not considering intangibles like attraction, chemistry, compatibility when looking for a ltr is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:36 PM
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I have a female coworker with poor posture, slight mustache, a weird walk, and no idea about makeup or style. She is skinny, but thinks being more attractive means dieting. Who still moans about missing out on a guy in college who was interested in her, but she rejected him to chase after hot dude. She was never interested in the first guy, and never saw him as attractive. But she's chasing him now, now that he's a surgeon. I'm probably going to try to give her a talk about how to present hersel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:16 PM
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I'm more of a loner type of person. I have friends from college/university that I keep in contact with, and people generally like me when they meet me, but I'm not good with trusting people or keeping in contact. Blah blah childhood trauma, etc. And yeah, I'm married. I'm not sure how to reconcile that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:59 PM
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My dad's side of the family has women who hit menopause in the early 60s. I hope I don't take after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 10:44 PM
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View it as he doesn't see the relationship possibly going long term, so cut my losses and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:26 PM
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I'd question what I am wearing that would signal that I'm supposedly a prostitute. Or wonder what kind of game this stranger is playing. And just to be clear, not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:17 PM
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Both my husband and I pursued each other. I asked him out first though. I was more aggressive with him because I didn't like the types of guys who would approach me, sort of random and they would act surprised with any sort of personality trait I showed. I got "you're actually funny," alot, whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:47 PM
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It can be gotten for a few hundred cheaper retail. I've seen $1500. Upcoming tariffs on the USA side and the fact that neither my SO or I are great with chores with a baby on the way makes this a cost effective choice for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:02 AM
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Yes! http://www.lg.com/us/washer-dryer-combos/lg-WM3997HWA-washer-dryer-combo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:50 AM
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Psst. European steam clean models with combo washing and drying in one machine. Makes life so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:30 PM
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Rarely are the people who need actual help open to advice. See a shrink. Get meds. Be able to hold a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 02:30 PM
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First crossed paths in a theater 101 class. Hung out once or twice and I remember thinking he'd make a better boyfriend than the one I had at the time. He was also dating someone else at the time. One year later, we literally bump into each other on campus and we both were single. tl;dr: luck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:18 PM
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Blind Chad would be a great story
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 11:14 PM
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Coldly logical for us. I think each of us had an episode or two of having "lost it," throwing something, but that was back in our college days. We had the big fights early on, and these days, having fights is pretty rare, I think we had one this year so far. We're not keeping score, but about 50:50.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:09 PM
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My wife shouldn't be able to freeload off my income while she pursues her low-paying self-actualizing career. You could find an ambitious woman with bigger paycheck instead of splitting 50/50 with your "poor" person. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:58 AM
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I don't care who has to do more to cheat. The problem is with the cheating at all, not if it is a low or high effort moral breach. Murder with one bullet vs multiple stab wounds is the same crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:52 PM
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Cheating is cheating. Cheating and then lying about paternity is a separate situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:11 PM
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In public I'm just tired of public smoking, coughing without covering their mouths, etc. Hot or not, I'm this close to running away from humanity if I'm on a street. People are effing gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 01:17 AM
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You mean what works for my marriage vs everyone else's? That wasn't the OP question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:32 PM
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No. You both come first. Haha. I'm married to a guy who loves fighting every battle. I would be eaten alive if followed this advice. Great communication is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:20 PM
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13 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:00 PM
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Is there anything special or unique about being a good spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:54 PM
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Same as what it takes to be a good person and a contributing team player
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:21 PM
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Happy, competent, creative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 11:54 PM
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Married female intp here. Yeah, I'm not sure how I ended up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 01:35 AM
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Got married really young. Same bank accounts, buy what you need/want, just w/rules on bigger purchases (we talk and need to agree if over a certain amount). We started out with our first real jobs together so it is easy for us to share our incomes without problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:41 PM
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I apparently married the male version of my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 01:53 PM
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I'm a weirdo. Evidence: spending time on ppd. So a small limited number of people would be able to both tolerate me and me them. And then a small fraction of that number would be able to love me and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:58 PM
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Someone that doesn't define you by your interests or judge you. This makes no sense. Why would you want to be with someone who would have settled for just anyone? Why wouldn't this person cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 10:43 PM
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Real people are more interesting to me than fictional characters, with the added bonus that a better understanding of other real people allows me to function in life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:27 PM
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Same reason you are here. To read different perspectives. Just informing myself about life outside my bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:59 PM
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Out of the two, most can agree that women are the more beautiful sex. Why is this? I'm a straight female and I find men to be more beautiful than women...because I'm attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 09:19 PM
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I think it has more with my general dislike of most people. Finding one person to like is a revelation, so not easily letting this one go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 07:09 PM
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Raised in a casually religious family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:12 PM
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What's a beta? What's an alpha? I really can't answer the question if most people think the op describes an omega.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 03:31 PM
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Monogamous atheist here. I've been with him (spouse) through major surgeries. Never was much for ons or related situations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:45 PM
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No one has ever been infected with HIV from a single sexual encounter. People have gotten it from single sexual encounters. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4467783 The easy to read link http://www.aidsmap.com/HIV-risk-levels-for-the-insertive-and-receptive-partner-in-different-types-of-sexual-intercourse/page/1443490/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:06 PM
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Catholic, yeshiva You're not talking about metropolitan life. You're talking about relatively rigid religious communities. I live in one of the cities you mentioned and my lack of conformity isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:06 AM
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Hmm...gluteus minimus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 04:37 AM
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I'd say my limit is probably 2 years on just attraction alone. It gets boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 12:08 AM
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We were too young and inexperienced to know that the only thing keeping us together was being attracted to each other. It took us four years to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 10:51 PM
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he really shat up this place So. How can you stop doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 02:09 AM
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The matriarchy is subtle and has style. Castration is a faux pas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 12:31 PM
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I actually had this debate recently because preggers, but so far leaning towards making sure my fetus feels less sexual pleasure in the future, so snippy-snippy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:23 AM
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I must be ugly. Eek
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 01:58 AM
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North Korea will do anything but directly attack. They are trying to extort, not suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 03:46 PM
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My opinion. Most people are idiot children who raise their children to be more idiotic. A class on some rules you shouldn't break, like drunk driving, abuse signs, rape, harassment, murder, etc., would be welcome. Men and women should sit through it. I'll pay the taxes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:46 PM
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Boyfriend? Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 12:19 AM
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I guess they mean going from 100% stoic to dumping decades of emotional issues overnight. Being on the receiving end would probably be disorienting at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:51 PM
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Who says that getting attention for having a vagina is something desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 04:51 PM
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relationship with someone she actually wants to be together with. That was probably one of my most social periods in my life. I'm a homebody and I was barely home. And I asked him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 12:24 PM
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I actually use catcall whistles as a desperation move when staff is ignoring me and I just need that coffee or whatever. A tall guy rushing along whistling jingle bells seems at worst soft in the head, but not threatening imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:45 PM
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I used to do the heavier steps thing too, but depends on the shoes I'm wearing. Well, I mean friendly stuff like whistling jingle bells or just whatever song in your head. Unless your favorite song is "let the bodies hit the floor" it should be OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:37 PM
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Tall woman here. I can catch people by surprise because I also walk fast. Whistle something friendly when you get close-ish so no one is startled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:09 PM
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I've known guys who only had sisters (usually older sibs) and are more comfortable with female friends and less so with male friends. If I'm with a guy, he can make his own decisions about which of his friendships are healthy or not. Note: I've known girls with only brothers and have the inverse situation of preferring male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 04:39 PM
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It isn't easy to tell someone to take your family to a big city, and start over. Or for them to even do it. The best time for that to happen is when they still have a decent paying job and they can forsee the downward direction of the industry a few years in advance with enough time to save some money. That point was over a decade ago for many industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 08:52 PM
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Guess: Their parent's generation (of millennials) was all about the cleavage, so now boobs are even motherly and not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 07:30 PM
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Sources and links. You did not present this as a premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 07:23 PM
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I'm aware that isn't abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 07:13 PM
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No. Edit: he elbowed me once in his sleep. I started sleeping with an arm over my face. It's all good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:24 PM
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When did the abuse occur? Was it child abuse or not? Was it from a romantic partner? Where was the study done? If your argument is that women can't choose partners, you need to show that alot of women choose shitty partners. The abuse needs to be from the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 09:09 PM
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Some studies report that up to 60% of women have been physically abused in the past. Including emotional abuse, I would wager that number is closer to 90%. Source these stats. Is child abuse mixed into these numbers? What cultures/countries were the focus of these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 08:41 PM
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I've had an equal opportunity life and met a roughly equal proportion of male and female assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 01:00 PM
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Most people are just trying to live their lives, caring about their mini slice life. If you are asking why people don't care, we have limited attention and time. Few people care about others to research as you suggested. Cop-out, fine. But if you want change, you'll have to do extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:31 PM
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Why doesn't anyone care that men are people with human needs, and that prolonged periods of bullying, sexual rejection, and loneliness produces nothing good for the mental and emotional health of these men? Show this. Make a video illustrating how cruelly done the rejections can be. Show the bullying. The male experience is not something I can experience, so find a way to show it to someone who is not male. Communicate. Effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:18 PM
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Yeah, pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:01 PM
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I have an old friend who always has relationship problems and he mentions red pill ideas every once in awhile, so I looked it up. He is right now shacking up with Ms. Awalt princess and we just look on in horror as we tried to warn him to stay away. Ugh, the slow trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 04:04 PM
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I don't even know what BP stereotypes are. My hair isn't dyed blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 01:36 AM
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I just wear combo foundation for the spf, moisturizer and so I don't look as tired as I am. I suppose this is a tmi post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:22 PM
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I don't care for sex at all Nothing wrong with being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 12:00 PM
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When I was single, I was only looking for people who are similar to me, including not having much sexual experience. I didn't want to be dealing with whatever drama above my experience level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 11:28 AM
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Are they promising 72 virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 02:11 AM
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shrugs I never traded with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:12 PM
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Is second hand smoke a class issue, not a health hazard?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:17 AM
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Outdoors in a big city? No way. Too many smokers, beggars and etc. I barely make eye contact with people or acknowledge their existence. Doesn't matter if they are male or female. I probably should walk around with a gas mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:23 AM
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Read your own article OP and amend your misleading title. Men were not banned from serving. Of 50 army jobs posted this week, only 15 are available to men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 05:03 PM
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No, my future spouse and I "harassed" each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:34 PM
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I've never encountered being with a SO and him trying to pour out his heart to me. Or vice versa. People do this? But I do consider my SO and my one ex to be emotionally constipated, like me. Edit: on second thought, my so tells everyone what he is thinking as it happens so he never represses anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 09:31 PM
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I don't follow it. Sometimes you need to have that fight. Solve the problem together and then you won't have something to resent for years to come. I get weirded out by people who think ideal relationships involve never having conflict. Resolved conflict is a great thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:41 AM
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"what do I want". A question you should be asking yourself Frankly, no one is asking. Mandatory education explains what things you should want. Who asked you what you wanted, or told you that it even mattered?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 03:04 PM
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Why does it feel as though I've gotten all the things I was taught to want, and now I don't want them? Because you never answered the question, "what do I want?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:44 PM
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Grow a beard, trim it properly. Stop with the jaws comments please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 11:36 PM
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17/f/blue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 03:01 PM
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Hypothetically I was drawing porn for myself at 8 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 12:53 PM
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If your boyfriend/husband lost his job, how long would you stay with him if he couldn't get another despite honestly trying to? 6 months? A year? 5+ years? We both went through career changes at different times. I've made the money while he transitioned and vice versa. Date pay? Half Twins? Neither? I'm not a multi-millionaire or a store clerk. Can't relate with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 12:20 PM
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Don't read the book
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:06 PM
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This is not a law, but a definition. Talking shit about all the friends with the aim to isolate and gain control over someone else is a person I hope that all people avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:42 PM
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I provided the link. I don't see it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:59 PM
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I don't have many unfortunate stories to tell, because I fortunately knew how to dodge bullets and avoid douchebags. Same here. Having abusive parents either teaches you what to look out for, or continues the cycle. Glad it was the first for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:49 PM
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It is in the us depart of justice definition of domestic violence. https://www.justice.gov/ovw/domestic-violence forcing isolation from family, friends, or school and/or work. I hope this relationship is past tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:39 PM
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Which medieval writer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:51 PM
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Ok. Genghis Khan is a Mongol. Much closer to Chinese than Indian/Pakistani/Bangledeshi
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:48 PM
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Ghengis Khan was brown? What? Edit: There is no denying that Cleopatra had a permanent impact on how women were perceived in relation to leadership after the demise of Egypt's civilisation ? Do you mean the rise of Islam about 550 years later?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:24 PM
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The Roman empire got too big for the communications systems available at the time. Resorted to having an eastern and Western ruler. Pretty much collapsed because centralized governing was impossible for that much territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 12:26 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 01:48 AM
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Dead people aren't real? Seeing men die in their 40s from poor health decisions should make more people sad than just this feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:12 PM
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My preference would be for men to take better care of their health, and not let machismo stop them from going to the doctor regularly. If I am going to speak about generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 09:47 PM
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How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 06:57 PM
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I almost caught them kissing once. I was walking into the kitchen just when they broke apart. Otherwise they never did any pda in front of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 03:26 AM
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Sperging out here due to the title spelling. I'll just roll on the floor here. Edit: I got over it. Yeah, respecting each other would involve not doing reproductive coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:17 PM
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Just a guess off of text. Male infjs are rare. Oh well. Now minorly sad. I'll survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:08 PM
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Intp F B. Story. Learn by watching, then doing. Instruction doesn't work as well. So, love8death, how about your own NF take on this topic? I'm guessing male infj, but who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:44 PM
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Literally what guys said in my youth group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:03 AM
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Yeah, I can't drink to get drunk because I'm an angry drunk. So that stopped me from being a lush.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:20 PM
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Two. Honestly. Married the second one and I haven't cheated or bought a sybian. Edit: F in 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:46 PM
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I don't feel sorry for people who want beautiful people but can't get them. Male or female. I know a lesbian down syndrome woman. She's awesome. I have no business pitying her or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 01:54 AM
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I'd go gay for young monica bellucci
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:10 PM
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That's pretty much my 10+ year marriage. We both know how the divorce will go down if one of us cheats. Mate guarding is a waste of time to both of us. Either you want to be here or not. If not, get out and stop wasting everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 10:30 PM
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Haha, just to be clear though, not my line of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:33 PM
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good riddance, have your sexbots My only issue with robot replacement is that it will extend beyond sex work. We all might be jobless in 50 years. But too busy to put up a real protest. Oh well, enjoy the bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:29 PM
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guarantee some men are superior than others, guarantee some men lose at life and the game. This is true with or without women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 12:07 AM
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Yeah, read this in a sociology textbook when I was in undergrad. This is theory, not a fact. But just keep in mind that when it comes to marriage, governments and religions have their own agendas, beyond the agendas of the men and women getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 10:44 PM
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I read a theory that the Catholic Church promoted marriage because the odds of no male children being born were high enough per couple that the church would benefit when the couple dies and gain their land. Anyways, religion isn't for people, it exists to propagate itself. Imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 10:09 PM
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fatocalypse Thank you. Snorting coffee is a good look for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:39 PM
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Older people, 30 plus of all looks, heights and intelligence. I had a coworker sum it up best: I have issues because being single this long made me uncompromising of my wants. When I get into a relationship, it's going to be with someone around the same age group with the same flaw. Should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:47 PM
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Not Japanese. Just aware that whenever prime minister elections come up in the news, the economy is usually the top priority and most the country has not been happy with it nor have the job security that they had prior to the 90s bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:39 PM
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Japan's suffering from a slow burn economic downturn since the early/mid 90s. Happiness goes down with lower job security.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:33 PM
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Depends on who is saying it. Guys mean it as an insult to boost their ego (at least I'm more masculine than you so he's not competition for----)---the women who mean it as, "eww, not my type." Though there are plenty of women who, "would jump your bones if other conditions are met."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:26 PM
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Oscar Wilde: Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:39 AM
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Why haven't you gone on a world cock tour? How do you know you couldn't be happier with experiencing more of what life, and awesome men, have to offer? Just wasn't interested. I only need to be hot to one guy and I only need to find one guy hot. I like having roots and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:28 PM
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Do you use a vibrator or use moves that cause friction that cant be replicated during sex? If yes, you need to start changing (slowly) how you masturbate to be similar to the friction in sex (the where and the same frequency of vibration).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 12:00 PM
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Princeso might be in a chopping sort of mood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:35 AM
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Fashion is now relatively cheap (see news on retail woes) and easy to look good in as a dude. You dont have to care, just learn the basics, and tailoring is relatively cheap too. Mens fashion doesnt really change. Stick to the classics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:02 AM
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Attraction is not negotiable or debatable. If he isnt hot to me, then thats it. Why has the standard gone up for women judging men? Because marriage isnt the necessity it used to be. Women probably used to compromise attraction for other things like status as part of being more safe in that more uncertain world. Also part of female beauty is youth, lots of collagen or facial chubbiness that obscures any possible uneven features beneath, so when young, lots of women can look even more attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 07:42 PM
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I would for my husband, but i doubt i would stay married to a guy who did that to himself without reversing course earlier on. If we have kids, it would be a definite "no" because i cant risk both of us dying at one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:49 AM
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Well, sleep and the kidney question should be answerable. Neither of them are immediate emergencies. I say assume that the choices need to be made because circumstances demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:34 AM
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The real answer is probably that death eats love or death hates love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:16 PM
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Not a poet. I prefer prose. Love eating death is a great tagline
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:57 PM
1

Hamster, hot chad sex, rejected by chads, hamster, bored beta sex. But seriously, no problem with someone who just wanted sex and wanted to not involve themselves with a phony relationship for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:53 AM
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Surgery doesnt come with health risks?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:22 AM
2

If thats my beta bux, just what is left for my alpha? Alright, i'll go hypergamous on him and get a...(just who is the apex alpha in red pill theory? Please dont say trump)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 02:17 AM
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Yes, because at least his crazy is on a schedule
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:27 PM
3

Seriously. I had to google it. There is probably no sensation on that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:07 PM
1

Juicy Hamburgers. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:56 PM
1

Sarcasm can be dangerous. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 12:00 PM
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My best friend makes man on man porn jokes and her husband and my husband hang out. And takes pictures if they have any activities together. I'm starting to think i should have a talk with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:37 AM
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Haha. Intp here. Opposing for the sake of opposing. sips cola
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 12:15 AM
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ENTJs don't like arguing. They like ending arguments. Married to one. I disagree. They like it when you can hold your own in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:28 PM
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I have eyes. I use my eyes. Of five senses, sight is usually the first to be used to judge a new person. Ooh ooh aah aah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:25 PM
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If you are ever in the ***** area, message me. I know guys who are relationship minded and would consider you cute. Feel free to ignore this also. Edit: I felt all forward and weird typing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 11:38 PM
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A confident and assertive person wouldnt care if they were seen as "rapey," but if they did the following: if a girl tries to pull away or get away while having sex and the guy stops her, they see this as violating consent guy tries to pull out of a girl, and she locks her legs behind him and stops him Both are rape. The other person should rape kit and lawyer up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 09:27 PM
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BPD is going to BPD. I know you like your ladies unstable, but we all have a personal responsibility to keep ourselves together. Tell her family before you break up with her (if they are mentally healthy people who wont make matters worse, which i doubt) then break it off. If she threatens to kill herself, have a suicide hotline on speed dial. DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO CONTINUE like this. You are not a hostage. Edit: have the suicide hotline pre-dialed on her cellphone, not yours, so you can walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 05:46 PM
3

I very much enjoyed reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:50 PM
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People content themselves with the idea that shit's beyond their control. In a monogamous relationship, can anyone control their partner without a literal ball and chains? Even trp doesnt claim magical pwers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:22 PM
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Is there something in the brain of a 2 that makes them attracted to other 2's when most people couldn't bear to look at them naked. Have you ever dated someone and realized that with enough time, you dont notice their looks? Even with someone perfect looking, what you eventually care about is if they pull their weight and treat you fairly and lovingly. Looks matter in the beginning. Personality matters in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:23 PM
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I can plan to not be a financial or physical burden on others. (not trying to convince you, just giving my point of view). Also, curiosity about the future would keep me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:52 PM
2

Is it because no one wants to be a surgeon there? Then I would understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:39 PM
2

Statistically wouldn't i be more suicidal as a guy though? I can be happy with a mostly loner life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:05 PM
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Ugly woman, they live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 09:45 PM
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What traditional state are you speaking of? History is a long and is made up of cycles of sexual liberalism and sexual conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 09:44 PM
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My dad is blue. Mommy is red. Dad passed away a few years back. They had their ups and downs but I would say they loved each other and they never divorced. I'm blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:02 PM
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The next time i buy someone food or drink, i'll make it clear that I am not exchanging for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:39 PM
3

I'm really sleep deprived but is lewiscross claiming to be bill clinton?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:41 PM
2

she is wanting to be valued specifically for her sexual pleasure she can provide Thats sort of inverse of what she's thinking. She wants to be sexy for the power angle it provides. Be more hot, more leverage to have your way in most interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:17 PM
2

He killed people? Damn the media has a bias then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:32 PM
1

Both would be cheaper in the long run than fighting over chores or paying for actual prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:57 PM
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Roomba, dishwasher, combo washer dryer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:05 PM
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It is something that comes across on an animal level. It is instant and hits like a baseball bat. Some good looking people have it, but not all, and sometimes a random ugly person has it. It probably is a combination of looks and smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:24 PM
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People are so weird. But i cant blame them for preferring the familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:00 AM
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I have a brother. He does fine with dating. I live in a big city, so maybe beauty standards are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:43 PM
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I've been told repeatedly I should get plastic surgery to get rid of some Asian traits I'm asian, and some people think that a compliment is telling me that i have some white features. People are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:11 PM
1

Eww. He had sex with her even though it grossed him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:52 PM
2

Plastic surgery for my ugly honey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:39 PM
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First would be i've lost a few good friends from being too self absorbed and not giving them the time they deserve. The second point would be because alot of success is just not giving up and not getting discouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:57 PM
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You're stubborn and make obvious mistakes but you'll find your way. Because you don't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:55 PM
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Psst, core rule number 5 of the side bar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 10:15 PM
2

I'm aware. Well, too bad for legal prostitution. Affordable healthcare makes legal prostitution affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:38 PM
3

Without affordable healthcare, how would STDs be reduced? Edit: the goverment might be a worse pimp
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:43 PM
2

How about working on decent health care first, then the legal prostitution can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:32 PM
2

I remember a fight about which way to put toilet paper. I pretty much said i dont care and we're getting a bidet. But for now, toilet paper goes on his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:36 PM
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It hasnt changed my opinion on marriage. Find a person hot to you, similar attitudes towards fitness/money, they are trustworthy and dont be a sociopath yourself. Roll the die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 11:56 AM
1

What sort of sincerity are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:44 AM
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He wants to delve deeper but is still a bit hesitant as he has heard this manosphere stuff is sexist. Look at it, judge it, then use it, or use parts of it, or not use it. they have what is approaching a dead bedroom. . . .His wife wont entertain discussion about it What? Honestly I'd be inching my way towards divorce if she cant even entertain a serious conversation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:42 AM
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The only things under your control in a relationship is who you choose and how you manage your relationship. So only two things that can be debriefed and made better for next time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:02 PM
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I saw it, i thought it said more about friendship than sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:22 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:21 PM
1

Chad expanded spincters. CES syndrome. I wonder if that makes pooping easier
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:25 PM
1

The guys with the capacity to wallow about their lost looks probably drank/smoked/fun comboed to their early death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:29 AM
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I'd be ok with being ugly and dumb if i were happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:40 PM
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There are hot guys out there prettier than me. If they out pretty me, I would be self conscious of my own femininity if he were my SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:32 PM
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when the contribution to the whole is not strictly equal So you approve of equal partnerships in marriage. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 07:29 PM
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I suppose he/she could be a nonchalant kidnapping victim w/computer access
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:06 PM
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Korea or China famously have the least openly aggresive/masculine men and they aren't christians either. I cant speak for the other countries, but you are entirely misinformed about south korea and even basic male stereotypes in that country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:49 PM
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Flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 01:31 PM
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I used your post as inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 12:26 PM
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If a guy wants flexibilty for fashion/hotness etc, then the guy is making goal oriented decisions. I understand that as a female who would rather laser my own head of hair off, except for how others would take it. I still find the cultural expectations for either beauty standard to be cumbersome and illogical. And I did have another point in the parent comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 11:27 PM
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it's kind of funny that the thing you picked for your criticism of masculinity was basically "putting effort into your appearance"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 11:05 PM
1

So how is biology the same as grooming?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:19 PM
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? The most efficient thing would be to laser it and not have to deal with it. And again, testosterone is the same as cultural grooming habits because _______?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:18 PM
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Testosterone doesnt equal grooming patterns
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:03 PM
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How did you get to that conclusion? Having no facial hair is considered professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:02 PM
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? I'm commenting on the cultural aspect, not the biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:52 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:51 PM
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Masculinity in general seems illogical to me. Why spend money over a lifetime to shave or upkeep facial hair regularly when you can instead laser it off for good? Men must be able to have stubble to know them from women? Being a guy and being called gay is some huge thing. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 02:58 PM
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You can blush on command? bows to master
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:04 PM
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The answer would be, "ew carbs." Or "we're eating these together. Love means suffering together and fighting for the toilet."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 11:20 PM
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Really? I've lived in a huge city all my 35 years and no person is hot enough for me to consider casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 09:44 PM
1

Whole wheat pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:14 PM
1

I never watched the show but he looks whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 10:42 PM
1

All of us have chad envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 12:50 AM
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There are people who just like the dating process? I'm assuming that it gets tiresome after a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 11:00 PM
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I like # 3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 11:49 PM
3

Reject the genie. I already have all 3 in SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 10:42 PM
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All that sounds like my dad, except for the fake scar. He was raised to expect women to be servants. Ah, dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:56 PM
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Dont date the serial abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:15 PM
2

What does waiting mean? One week/month/year/decade? Respect him less than whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:10 PM
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No lengthy custody battles or fights over property as it would all be laid out in detail. Prenups already exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:10 PM
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Having more state involvement means the state spending more money. Tax money. Marriage is always a risk and if you can't handle the odds, stay single. The only changes to marriage i would support need to have favorable taxpayer costs as part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:00 PM
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Single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 05:39 AM
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I would choose a guy with a similar income and background to me. I never hooked up with anyone. (had a religious upbringing, hard to break the mold for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 10:24 PM
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Have you ever flown 12+ hours on an airplane? I've had a 27 hour itinerary once. Thats straight up torture. I had cashed in my miles for a free ticket. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 05:38 AM
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We're all already betting in our real lives whether in a relationship or not. How we devote our time and energy are all bets that may or may not pay off in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:39 PM
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Propecia, literal meds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 04:05 PM
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Going from 20 to 40, guys usually lose their hair, women thin out some, but they usually have most of their hair. (hair is important to me, hubby is aware and he knows that at the first sign of hair fallout, he's getting meds).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 02:41 PM
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Perseus is hot, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 12:36 AM
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their skin starts to progressively resemble a reptile's Hsssss. I'm shedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 11:44 PM
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Genetic exchange through mail. Offspring produced are wards of the state that get randomly given to single ladies raising cats. Edit: forgot to mention neutering everyone after freezing some of their eggs and sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:41 AM
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Those men dumb enough to father children will be little more than income streams, tethered to child support orders for the majority of their working lives. Upvoted because i know families like this but also I like the prose. But also I would blame whomever is the head/s of family here for allowing the situation to exist. What happens when the $ parent dies? Cut the cord and let those kids sink or swim provided they got a decent education first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 01:10 AM
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bare minimum $500k 3000 sq ft houses I demand more! Strike!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 02:16 AM
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Sure. The only possible bad time a marriage can go through is cheating, not like financial worries, death in family, in law problems....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:23 PM
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Yes. It helps get past hard times knowing that you both share liking the same music/movies/whatever. It also means less silly fights because you both want to do the same thing in the little spare time you both have together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:40 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Founder_effect. Well, if people go gay in jail, i suppose given enough time, this would happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 02:11 PM
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Was it a hot gay dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:37 AM
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Short fat penis. I think. I've aways lived the good girl life, so this is just a guess. plays gone with the wind theme music
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:32 PM
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They need low carb donuts. I keep on having to fry my own lumps of whole wheat to get my fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:28 PM
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Not everyone likes broadcasting every detail of their life. points at introverts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:49 PM
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Come on now, you seriously believe mixed race people outnumber full race? I'm being serious. Sickle cell trait can be found in many different people including pale europeans. I'm not talking people who are 50% one thing and 50% another, I'm saying that literally people who can claim to be pure white or pure black etc, are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:01 PM
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How come mixed race people have not taken over the world. How many purebloods do you know? They are not a majority. At the same time, sexual reproduction needs a physical presence (most of the time) and most people arent going to hop on a airplane to make babies. Most people cant even afford to even if they wanted to. Why do u prefer asian guys as a asian girl? Me specifically? The best rationalization i can come up with is that I like how i look and i want babies that resemble me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:37 PM
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those in their unaltered state. Do you mean the plastic surgery stereotype or some other stereotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 07:42 PM
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Race has nothing to do with living in the same area, same values, same cultural heritage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 07:17 PM
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So, the question should be "why"? If I only liked white guys, it would be seen as a fetish. Logically, there is no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 07:09 PM
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Boobs arent a racial group, so no special ppd thread for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 07:07 PM
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Asian female here. I like asian guys, so i have the fever. What role do Asian women play in this, do you think they like/dislike the phenomena or do they have white fever themselves? Dislike the culture they grew up with and/or like white/black etc taste rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:35 PM
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Gross, you know that trauma like anal sex increases odds of anal cancer. Not how i want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 01:45 PM
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He is more likely to give you an STD than anything else. Building a relationship and building trust is worth it for the appropriate person. Maybe you prefer the control of being alone. Maybe you enjoy being there for someone else and someone else being there for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:45 AM
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Convicing does not equal manipulating does not equal raping. Those are three separate words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:20 AM
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because the men who were better at manipulating and tricking women into sex due to higher intelligence had their genes passed on more, eventually increasing the average intelligence of the whole population. Wouldnt overall iq be better served by people having sex with people who agree instead of being tricked? Being tricked isnt a sign of high iq.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 06:05 PM
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Having society based on loose harems is chaotic. Stds, decreased child care, and increased poverty rates is enough for me to want a large segement of society in monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:30 PM
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Go to a barber and just say "what do you think would look good". I disagree. You cant just throw money at aestethics. You need to look at the result and tweak or reject what they did. People has a habit of stciking to what they know, so your barber might not know what really works for you. Fashion is the same way. What works for your friend might not work for you. You need to actually stand in front of a three poster mirror or use your smart phone camera and evaluate your own look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:48 AM
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Where is the discrepancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:37 AM
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How about be your best self?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:11 AM
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What i see more commonly from the female incel crowd is going lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:40 PM
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I prefer extros in general because I dont like talking as much. Someone needs to fill the silence. Imo, extro plus intro are better matches. Two intros wont ever talk and two extros will be too loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:31 PM
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raises hand Wears the rock on the hand for big occasions. I've literally only slept with virgins. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:30 AM
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Umm, what's the third six for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 01:53 AM
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Mmf, but not an irl goal. Juggling one ego is enough work. Wouldn't deign to juggle two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 11:22 PM
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The first relationship. Five years. We put up with each other because of looks but we weren't compatible. I'm glad he dumped me, because towards the end it got dull. We were both idiots at 17, so shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 06:20 PM
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Stage 4: It becomes harder to be genuinely kind and interested in the other person. Kind? That's a concern? Be yourself, not kind. Interest also shouldn't be something you have to fake. You want a real relationship, you shouldn't be wearing a mask. You can be both yourself and be respectful of the other person. In stage 4 there is an unspoken barrier, a fight that should have happened but didnt, indifference or a third party. If you know your SO, you should know the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:59 AM
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Intp female here. Havent had problems on the romantic end, but normally i ended up with NTs or STs. I can be emotional but I probably cone across as too robotic seeming for an NF or an SF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 04:31 AM
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Guy 1 because guy 2 facial hair irritates my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:27 PM
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Never forget the holy trinichad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:37 PM
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I started purple. At the end of the year, I'm more blue. i can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:08 PM
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All those holy wars were about fighting over chad. Mindblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 03:58 PM
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Don't be such a spoiled brat and treat people badly. If you really don't like him enough, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:04 PM
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I go through life entirely sober. But I am dependant on caffiene. No coffee, i get a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 07:53 PM
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It goes in cycles. One generation has a mass orgy, the next few only have sex when the moon is in solstice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 01:14 AM
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Edge earned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 11:41 PM
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This sounds romantic, but when you get married and have your 2 kids, time seriously becomes an issue. She would have to be a full adult otherwise the kids will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 11:39 PM
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Does anyone want to be with someone with low self esteem? It sounds like asking for trouble. No one has the time to prop up a fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 05:28 PM
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west coast (best coast) East coast here. I'm not going to disagree. Btw, same relationship since being a teen? Congrats on being a statistical unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:30 AM
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averagely attractive I like this phrase alot. If you ever write a screenplay or a book, save this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:26 AM
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The difficult bit is keeping it in the long term once the girl works out how fucked in the head I am and shit. Agreed. Staying long term with anyone means they see you at your weakest/craziest/whatever low at least once. I'm with a super sane person. Interesting times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:09 AM
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Hawaii Tell me straight. Is there zikka there? Been desparately trying to find a place for a non-zikka beach nap. .. It has always been easy because I vet for commitment early. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:00 AM
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I'd qualify for an LTR but nothing more. Hmm...I'm going to assume you were never interested in marriage, but maybe I am understanding this comment incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:57 AM
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he asked me for exclusivity. Now that you've had a taste of both, is the loss of some of your independence worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:53 AM
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I suppose if I were to put aside my hard requirements for an LTR Is this list safe for kids to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:52 AM
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some women like me Assuming that the women who like you are up to your standards, what's the difficulty?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:23 AM
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Interesting, you approach romance like a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:22 AM
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gets shot down like a deer that wanders into an Army firing range. At least be the type with the antlers. (hopefully my attempt at reddit banter is okay here)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:21 AM
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I can just ask a cool girl out and boom commitment! Chad alert?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:18 AM
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I live in and grew up in a major city. I know and have known more than a hundred guys. Instantaneous lust? With a 20 out of 100 rate? Really? Maybe i live in a particularily ugly city. Maybe OP should let us know where he lives so I can understand where this land of gorgeous people is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:41 PM
2

Please no celebrity pickle penises for me. No dragon blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:21 PM
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Is there chad porn? If not, then chad doesnt exist. Qed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:11 PM
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I was expecting sexier graphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:53 PM
2

Drove me across a couple of state lines for a major exam and also got us the best yelp approved philly cheese steaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 04:06 PM
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Was with a guy 6in taller than me. He never complained, but I threw out his back. Im married to a guy my height (5'9"). No issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 07:12 PM
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Cute > handsome. Clean shaven. I've only dated an istj and an entj, so I guess I like stubborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:43 AM
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And after that, just ignore the fact that she says she has a boyfriend and keep going. So what's the goal? Being her plate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:35 AM
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We are all corks in the water so get what you can. We should be aiming to plug up the best bottles of wine we can?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:20 AM
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What it comes down to for me is that if I hit nuclear angry, i will need to back away and work on my mood first before approaching the topic. It takes alot for me to hit that level though, since generally I'm laid back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:03 PM
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wanting you to meet his family & friends way too soon. You want to get to know him first and the rush just feels weird. Too many people break this rule. It is an easy way to wreck an early relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 01:53 AM
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"Treat others as you would like to be treated" Women are taught the same. Men fawn, dote, and attempt to woo women, who are then turned off because he's "supplicating", and go for the arrogant asshole. Maybe the arrogant asshole has similar behaviors as her. If men are to be more successful, we have to treat women worse than we would prefer. Consider that some of these people arent arrogant assholes, but that you have internalized different standards of good and bad than the average person has.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:44 PM
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We both would. But the ideal is for both of us to survive. I guess time to work on secret code words, lip reading, sign language and houdini drills
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:41 PM
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I dont hold it against people. I imagine if I were a guy in a long dry spell or not interested in committment at all, i'd probably would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:44 AM
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Well, that attitude doesnt help. Umm, fuck you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 09:36 PM
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Ok, you prefer the reality that your pain is something that most people experience since it is more likely to outlive one's parents. I remember someone telling me that, and it was oddly comforting to hear. And who said that was a platitude? I remember people in my life making real efforts to be there for me when my dad passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 09:27 PM
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there are literally biological limitations for a man to experience emotion as a woman as well as his impulse to want to prioritize those feelings as women do. Does anyone have to empathize with another? If someone says that they are stressed out because their father died, you don't have to understand the depth of their emotions to give them a hug and tell them you are there for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 06:26 PM
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It is shallow, but realistic people should have no problem being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:48 PM
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From divorces that I've seen, scorn is the problem. Nagging is no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:44 PM
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I dont know what triple anal means. I'm okay with my ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 07:59 PM
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My husband had me watching "when harry met sally." b/c he's a film buff. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 05:45 PM
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There is very little unknown if you pay attention to your SO and their family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 02:04 AM
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Alot of these characteristics fit the domestic abuse definition and are signs to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 09:59 PM
1

My favorite vacation. Sleeping on a beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 08:55 AM
1

So what do we do with the non-chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 02:12 PM
1

My personal theory is that there is no time to deliberate and be selfish. The danger is too fast and imminent to do anything but react. Cowardice is an extra thought and perhaps the person's thought pattern is to be altrusitic first, selfishly rational second.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:53 AM
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Interesting. I watched this in movie theaters when it first came out and for us it was a great communal experience with everyone yelling during the crazier stunts. The first one was okay for me, but wasnt as inventive as the second. Granted, my idea of an action flick is clearly divergent from yours. The grimmier the better for action, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 10:28 PM
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I don't know. Same director?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 10:25 PM
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Action. Better than ppd because the beatdowns are more visceral. And there is a continuous plot but the movies are loosely linked and this is an excellent stand alone action movie, and is the better of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 10:12 PM
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The Raid II
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 10:02 PM
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Introvert here that is married to an extrovert. I let him talk and I listen and crack a joke here and there. And when I was single, I made an effort to leave the house and make lots of friends to expand my circles....not a conscious effort to find a date, but in retrospect that was my motivation. So primal impulses stopped me from playing wow and made me talk to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 08:05 AM
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Why does seemingly nobody think of romantic reasons as an answer to "why do many men have problems with a high n-count / her sexual past" and instead think of insecurity, jealousy and whatnot first and exclusively? Sure, personal values, even romantic values, is a reason but even then there is a logic behind that preference. A person with a low notch count with a ltr only history possibly reflects a choosy and cautious person. A person who knows what they want. Someone who did not need an experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 08:28 PM
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I was bothered too, but I got over it and fixed my posture. I never found dating to be a problem. To be fair, I'm 5'9" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:26 AM
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For most people, the shared assets are not much to fight over. Buy someone out and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 04:51 PM
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Where i live, it is generally two income couples with both making about the same. Divorce would mean no alimony in that case, probably just fighting over the one kid people might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 12:31 PM
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I suppose if I lived 200 years? But I'm not sure what would be the object of my hypergamy when I'm 195, oatmeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 03:32 AM
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I married early 20s to another person my age. We both know we did a rare thing since most people we know got married late 20s to early 30s, including people's parents. Love is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 03:18 AM
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I live in a city where everyone at least pretends they follow a team, including women. It is just an easy icebreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 08:55 PM
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At work? Nah, few people like taking risks that would lose them their job. Also, where I work is too stressful to see anyone in a sexual light.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 08:54 PM
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Isn't interested in football or video games. You know men like this? What region are you in, if I may ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 03:38 AM
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Metrosexual is a thing too. I like pretty men. I won't say it in front of my spouse, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 02:57 AM
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I never thought about the 2nd party experience angle, but that definitely makes sense. I was thinking that just watching an older brother or sister navigating dating is more useful than anything a parent might say since they are out of touch with the nuances of modern dating. I was also thinking more being able to see that the opposite sex are just people who poop and lie just like everyone else. Having another sibling of the opposite sex helps with not putting someone on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:01 PM
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There is a large experience gap between women in general and men in general To clarify this, from what I saw when I was a teenager (way back then, and people generally were equal with their lack of experience) people who were only children or didnt have siblings of the opposite gender, those people had a social handicap with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 02:41 PM
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My impression is that the majority of [single] people, especially age 30+, are outright miserable Agreed. I don't know of happily single people in my circles. Dangle a suitable person of the right gender and age, and they will pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 08:24 AM
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Decision making is frontal cortex, something both women and men rely on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 05:04 PM
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Do we need to debate about the definition of "to infer"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 05:03 PM
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The main issue for individuals that have undergone a callosotomy is that because the function of memory is split into two major systems, the individual is more likely to become confused between knowledge they already know and information that they have only inferred. Just a quick wiki search on corpus callousum surgery, which is where your post says that men have more interconnectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 04:36 PM
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When thinking about the way the analytical and intuitive hemispheres of women are connected, one could also speculate that the female brain may try to rationalize an intuitional decision, yet even while doing so still overlap with an intuitional processing mode, that to a male brain operating much more analytically, will never make any sense. Why would using intuition not be appropriate and not make sense? Appropriately extrapolating from similar past experiences and recognizing patterns from si…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 04:16 PM
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Try to tell each other the schedule in advance, for safety reasons. If plans change, a text or email is easy to do, especially with the added bonus of getting a ride home if drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:36 PM
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I've found lots of strangers sexy in my time but never fucked or wanted to fuck a single one. I agree with this. When I was not in a relationship (which was probably 6m out of my life) If I'm in lust at first sight, i'm not going out of my way to talk to them unless I know of something connecting us, a common friend, interest, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:13 PM
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Nope. My mother is and remains extremely shallow. We kids, my brother and I, know exactly what she likes about dad. And why she likes or dislikes our spouses/so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:58 PM
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My MIL directly asked. Only one answer possible for the religious infj.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:03 PM
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How i look? Np. Am i happy with my effort everyday, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 02:42 PM
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Nah, we're married now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 06:16 PM
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He wanted to be single at that point, then he changed his mind. He saw me as too serious for what he wanted at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 04:38 PM
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Asked a guy out, got completely rejected. Then he asks me out two weeks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:37 PM
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They either are neutral towards it, or care that much more about the promise to get manufacturing jobs back. Or they can be racists and sexists themselves, but economic concerns came first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:48 PM
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i will not have any sympathy for them when that day comes. Hear hear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:47 PM
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People dependant on some sectors of blue collar work have been seeing no politician helping them out for decades. They decided to go for the wild card choice. The other stuff like sexism and racism doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:39 PM
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u must be pretty ugly. I've been called lots of things, but never ugly. no attractive girl i know has ever admitted prefering asian guys. ever. I get the feeling people don't talk to you much. Might be because of how smooth you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 04:04 AM
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Talk to someone, raise your n-count. (Now I feel like i belong here)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:08 PM
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I thought i liked tall introverted guys. I went gaga over a guy my height who turned out to be an extrovert. And I like them Asian in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 11:51 AM
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I need plot in my porn. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 08:21 AM
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Just fyi, down's syndrome doesn't happen because of alcohol or drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 10:29 PM
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laissez faire is cheaper. Gotta pay for those judges and court staff with tax money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 05:42 PM
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Because generally, negative reinforcement doesnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 01:51 PM
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rapidly disabused of that by the time he was a grown up and went on to be pretty successful at both getting laid and getting LTRs. Some people are more mentally resilient and don't let failure stop them. They figure out what went wrong and try again with the new things learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 08:14 PM
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My spouse has close friends who've had bachelor parties with strippers. He goes, pays for the groom to get the traditional lap dance, then he hangs back. Trust is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 08:05 PM
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Married 12 years and it is still going. Easier to match some interests beforehand than expecting to develop shared ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 02:22 AM
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Always be yourself Not possible if I'm faking interest in something my partner is interested in. There is a limit to being polite and nodding. I can't eat buffalo wings for every other meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 02:17 AM
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Am I pumping and dumping?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 02:14 AM
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Same here. I want progeny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 11:05 PM
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Legal prostitution with people who want to be there. I'm not for slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 06:29 PM
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So this happened to more than one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 10:47 PM
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Just fyi, I'm female. I thought you are a dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 09:27 PM
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I tried dating someone shorter than me, same as in OP. It doesn't work b/c he did have confidence issues. He called my hands "man hands." Consider my lady boner dead at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 09:25 PM
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I would love to be 6 foot tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 09:15 PM
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As long as prostitution is a willingly made choice without being forced into it or coerced by poverty, i have np.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:26 PM
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This pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:26 PM
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I'm one of those fans that keeps keanu in acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 02:28 PM
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Not how I would put it, but yeah, that's the idea. He was lying about a big part of himself, but this isnt worth alot of drama. Just put it all on the table and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 10:08 AM
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Come out of the closet as a feminist. Maybe stop doing some chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 01:38 PM
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Women don't get it. They say, "I don't like muscular men"....They don't understand that a lean, athletic body isn't just some dude who eats chicken and goes to the gym once in awhile...It's a guy who puts in serious work and dedication. It is probably for the best. Someone who doesn't understand the self-restraint it takes to make that body probably wouldn't be a good match anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:15 PM
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The same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 03:37 PM
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How long ago did he change? Did he really change? In general I fear a beating more than a std.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 10:39 PM
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Debate. We trust each other, so admitting that the other made a great point, or that is a great idea--- we'll eventually agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 01:21 AM
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liberal feminist Hillary supporter Here. My SO was a bernie supporter. We just didn't discuss politics and went to the polls together. We both agree on the necessity of voting. I have a couple of relatives that are trump supporters. Thanksgiving should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 11:21 AM
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I was given no advice. Hetero F.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:38 AM
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My original point is that the ideal is to be someone who is able to figure it out on their own. I'm not against reading and education. When it comes to something like RP, I'm mind-boggled that it takes someone else to explain to fellow adults the basis of human attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 05:20 PM
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Probably just a troll who wants outrage pictures. As if those two scenarios are the only possibilities. unicorn hair toss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 05:15 PM
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Do both. Chicken egg stuff. You need some understanding of the world first hand, so no matter what, you'll have to make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:05 PM
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Do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:04 PM
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I did the same. My maiden name is first because the combination sounds weird the other way around. Both names are short so I don't think it will be a problem for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:00 PM
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Which is not what I said. Observe, evaluate, experiment, emulate in whatever order the situation calls for. And to do any of these things correctly, you need developed judgment /logic. Lurching headlong without some observation and thought/planning means you'll fail. Learning to just take what people say without judging it, i.e. without independent thought, means you'll fail too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 10:13 PM
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Immigrant parents and raised in a middle class metro area. They obviously loved each other. Mom is the tunnel vision ambitious breadwinner and Dad was the broody intelligent handsome underacheiver who self sabatoged his health, and became a SAHD during the later stages. I married a guy who resembles my mother in many ways (i figured it out way after marrying him that I pretty much married the hot male version of mommy...bring on the freudian jokes) and I picked up alot of my dad. I take much bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 09:48 PM
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People who need manuals to tell them how to live is not the ideal. After being thrown into a new environment, can you observe, experiment and emulate your way into flourishing in the new place? There won't always be a book telling you what to do and you can't always trust the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 09:11 PM
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Terry Pratchett passing was such a sad day for me. And Death is my favorite character.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 12:17 PM
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Probably got mistaken for a japanese person the day I made the nick. I really don't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:35 AM
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Reddit and the internet in general is for venting. Imagine that the internet is a real life purgatory. A place people complain but don't do anything about their problems, they let the problem fester, then they have a bigger problem to complain about. People who don't have problems are out there not on the internet. You are only seeing one side of the story on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 12:36 AM
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No to the topic header
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:27 AM
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It is more acceptable to not want children than before and more acceptable to be single. Plus the economy really screwed up millenials' career prospects as a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 09:40 PM
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Never said i was good at driving. But accident free since an accident right after i got my liscence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 02:24 PM
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I dont know anyone who carries multiple spares and carries a spare rim and can change it all on a one lane bridge
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:26 PM
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Haha. Seriously. Would have preferred being at work. Crappy in that I altered people's schedules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:21 PM
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Grazed a barrier. Two flats on same side. One broken rim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:20 PM
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This sounds like the set up for a high school romantic comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:04 AM
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I have an old friend who is rp. dun dun dun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 02:04 AM
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My second theory is that they also hate the TRP because it's calling out women how vain their attraction is for men I'm not understanding the sentence. How about "how shallow" instead of "how vain." Attraction isn't vain unless you're an autosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:04 AM
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But I bet I don't get any support if I start a campaign to inform black men that they shouldn't kill me. Why not. Have an interesting conversation about how racism influences poverty and crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 01:54 AM
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"Not asking for it" This is a play on, "she was asking for it." Nothing to demonize because generally people already don't like rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 01:21 AM
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Fair, yes. The timing is pretty bad though, 5 years into a marriage. Woah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:21 PM
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The following is not serious at all: Charge a fee per ride and use the proceeds to help educate non-chads into becoming chads. And maybe some of the money can go towards better condoms. Or maybe shame the chads for giving up their chastity so easily. Chadsity belts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 11:02 PM
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Boobs, penis, whatever. You live, you try not to be uncomfortable, then you die. Everything else is extra. People want to pretend that there are noteworthy differences, but we're just selfish sacks of fat, tissue, bone and fibers that generally want air, water, food, shelter, sex and positive interaction. And yeah, you live a short life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 04:14 PM
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Hot and sweaty i think is the generic response
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 02:22 AM
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The truth (that humans are motivated by self-interest first and foremost, always have been, always will be) is a bitter pill to swallow. I've always believed this. My parents were decent people but they couldn't hide their self interests at all. People seriously believe otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 02:16 AM
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It is an odd term. Did the alpha die? More on topic though, sure, if you are used to prime beef, mcdonalds isn't going to be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 10:27 PM
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The most misogynistic person I've ever known was that way because of how he was raised. So it was a cultural problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 05:00 PM
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I don't understand romance. I'm happy when i see him and I could spend all day patting his head and be content. Married and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 12:20 AM
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That when you first move-in together, there will be lots of fights. It is normal. Whenever I've talked about relationships with people who haven't done relationships, they seem naive about the idea that fighting has a purpose and shouldn't be avoided. Resolve the fights like adults, and agree on a solution after some debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 05:44 PM
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It's only a matter of time and place when she's in the right mood to fall for the honey trap. Hmm, everyone has to die for me to feel vulnerable enough to be picked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 12:00 PM
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How we treat boys and girls differently, even just as friends of their parents. When I was growing up, when adults first met me, they first comment on my looks. How pretty, cute, etc. I think the only words one of my grandfathers ever said almost directly to me was a generic, "she's pretty." Boys get the, "What a great kid," "How's your grades." "Are you on a team?" My brother happened to be a rare exception because he was an extremely cute kid who probably could have pursued modeling/tv/etc, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:29 PM
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To be fair, I selected for low N men because I happen to be low N myself. Similar age, similar background. Gotta keep to egalitarian principles all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 04:48 PM
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I don't know enough to have an opinion. With or without having visited a prostitute, I would want my partner tested before sex. I remember when the Spitzer scandal was a news item, people finding it horrendous that he went to a prostitute, meanwhile, I thought going to a prostitute was at least not as bad as both physically and emotionally cheating. Maybe the relationship can be salvaged...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 04:40 PM
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Fight club is a freud ode. "Civilization and its discontents." The story is an allegory. Marla is thanatos, Jack is ego, tyler is id and civilization plays superego. The ending is the destruction of id and superego/tyler and civilization, and ending up with marla is acceptance of internal self destructive tendencies. Blah blah blah. "Soap is the yardstick of civilization" is a direct quote from the source material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 02:02 PM
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So... How do you feel about SAHD's? My dad did it for health reasons for a third of my childhood. I appreciate the time spent getting to know him well, as compared to my mom who is a relative stranger to me because of her work schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:38 PM
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Np. Actually, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:23 PM
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Oh, with me or with them? Either way, enjoy the theorizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:12 PM
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User > doctrine, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:02 PM
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be more emotional. Little things can make them happy, annoyed, or sad a lot more often. "my husband never does this, but my husbands' friend, he just washed the dishes after dinner. tear" Trying very hard to take this seriously. This is from the first page.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:55 PM
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my wife's body count You have a way with words. I thought for a second that you were bragging about your wife's assassin skills. I learned this from TRP so I don't see how it's reductionist. I see the number stressed more than any of the reasons why the person has the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:52 PM
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They match mine and the red/green flags of many others outside of rp, except the beta orbiter part and the n-count. This list is pretty reasonable. I don't see this same reasonableness when I visit trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:45 PM
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Response to edit: what are the other indicators?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:26 PM
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A person with no sexual history is a complete unknown if no other factors are considered. That triple divorcee you have more data on. That's why I consider using an "n count" an inadequate guage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:20 PM
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I don't have an opinion on rpw, but for the RP, reducing the odds of a relationship's happiness to an "n count" is reductionist in an extreme. Why did the person have the lots of sex? What did they learn from their experiences? Is there a trend over time of positive developments? Those are the answers that show more inner core of who a person is and can be projected to have some value to future happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 04:58 PM
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The average person still is resistant to basic psychology and thinks that sitting with a therapist is shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 04:51 PM
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If i'm right or wrong, what of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:58 PM
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Most wives get repulsed? I'm sure my spouse will be a hot grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:57 PM
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I consider myself a casual follower of feminism. Being all inclusive makes sense from an overall societal perspective, but feminism is not pro men's rights, it is neutral towards men's matters. Feminism is pro women, as per title. I understand some of the objections to feminism for not making this clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 09:50 PM
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When you have something they need. That's not trust. Power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:22 PM
1

Whenever i see chris pine, i think cube head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 04:53 PM
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If you develop a level of distrust from trp that no matter how trustworthy a person can be or how they prove their worth, if that person can do nothing to show that they are trustworthy, then you no longer can see reality properly and trp hasn't helped you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:59 AM
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Type 2. Nah. Too busy posting here to branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 06:47 PM
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Agreed. No one has the time to wait for the right guy to approach you. I asked mine out also.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:10 PM
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Inner beauty takes a close look to appreciate. So some outer beauty is needed to even begin to notice the innards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 09:49 AM
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You really want your view changed? Ok. Wouldn't you want people to be generally accepting of their looks and slovenly ways? It is actually a great argument because the more slobs there are, the better looking you are in comparison to the rest of the human race. Now I'm going to take a long shower for basic hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:51 PM
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The internet is full of NTs. Trying to find a mod team without a majority of NTs, you would probably have to be on a...kitten subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:20 PM
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bluepilling female INTP. RP belief/RPW virtue of being an emotional woman that operates on feelz. Apparently I'm too emotionally dead inside to care that I'm supposed to be this emotional mess. But seriously, I'm another one for how MBTI doesn't determine one's beliefs, and this probably goes for the other things, like politics and religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:27 PM
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Just guessing, but promoting a world where men are judged on how much sex they get and a world where women are judged on how little sex they give away is probably amusing some asshole somewhere. I personally don't care who does the shaming or promoting but this is a recipe for some meta amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:37 PM
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He's the talker. I was probably being talked at. Oh and, "what are we having for lunch today." I was/am a mooch. I do pay people back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:40 PM
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Changing yourself is painful, but possible. In my thirties, recently changed careers. Introvert in an extrovert industry. Half the days are "shoot me" the other half works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 01:33 PM
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Female here, I'm ok looking but i know my hair is unruly and I get lazy with ironing clothes if not work related. My look depends on me caring about the situation to give it the extra 15 minutes. It makes a difference in my day. Also I apparently have style when i care and people do comment on zee hair/clothes. I'm married to a type a guy, and he doesn't leave the house without being polished, so if I'm out with him, extra care needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 01:10 PM
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Came across the random wiki page about how lesbianism went up in harems historically, because they only had access to the one dude in very limited amounts. Polygamy sounds like a good deal, like never worrying about getting a babysitter, but then I remember people are prone to fighting over stupid things, so being one of multiple wives sounds even more stressful than my happy monogamy thing. So...eh...no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 10:13 PM
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My family would know better than putting me or any other member in that situation. I love them, but they need to live in a way that leaves no victims, or at the bare minimum, leave the rest of us out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 03:42 PM
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All those changes are possible, with drawbacks. For example, limb lengthening surgery, and the pain associated with it. (Breaking a femur is supposed to be more painful than childbirth.) Color contacts, ill advised skin treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 12:56 PM
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It goes on to describe their dedication to pleasing their partners, in every way you're thinking, but cautions that it's very easy to accidentally take advantage. The male isfjs i know of usually aren't taken advantage of, they just leave. But I don't see them as great with conflict. They tend to go with the group, bottle up their frustrations, then one day close off all communication. I am extra careful of them because offending them is asking for drama. I know of brothers (istp and isfj) who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 03:41 PM
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(a) independence, (b) self-reliance, (c) considerate, (d) curiosity, As you can tell, I'm not a fan of following rules for rules' sake. I want to raise a kid who can do something with their lives, and not spend their lives appeasing egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 12:10 AM
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My dad was one. Can confirm. Though this was in the 90s to early 2000's, so I don't know how cultural attitudes have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 02:19 PM
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I also consider divorce with remarrying for hypergamy as a cruel strategy because of any kids and the ex, but this is the risk anyone takes when they say their vows. If divorce law is unfair to men, then politcal action needs to be taken to even the playing field. Do I think all women do this, no. Even divorce stats are about just under 50% so the argument that most women do this can't be made either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:42 PM
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Tl;dr hypergamy = get the best guy possible. shrugs I thought everyone is aiming to get the best person possible when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:25 PM
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No. Agreed that I would just drop that guy. It almost seems like older guys giving this advice are trying to mess up younger guy's chances with women, like they want them to fail. I'm assuming that trp isn't a purposefully misleading conspiracy because their converts are people who already aren't successes with dating. Misleading them takes more energy than saying nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 09:00 PM
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I just usually say nothing. I'm pretty brutal with advice and once made the mistake of telling a guy to not go through with his marriage the night before the wedding. I was just the plus one. And they got divorced six months later. I'm not about to tell a person I care about what they really need to change, because change needs a motivated person, and I'm not good at breaking the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:28 PM
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that for some women penis size is really important I'm sure I'm reading this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:24 PM
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When someone is an asshole, that's just what they are. People are always changing. As people age, I've noticed they either get better at being social or more bitter, for example. Asking your SO to make small changes (that would improve everyone's lives around them, including themselves) is reasonable. Asking your SO to totally change their personality is unreasonable because that is an admission that you don't like your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 06:23 PM
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Nah, not my game. I'd rather work on myself, than work on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 05:38 PM
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I don't believe in there being only one person out there for everyone, but I do think that there are only a few people existing who are good matches for any given person. We aren't special snowflakes but we all are complex enough that the special snowflake description isn't too far off from the truth. There are 3.5billion members of the opposite sex on this planet, and out of that, you might meet 100,000 in a lifetime. That's pretty shitty odds. A person who is a good match for you probably had …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 04:36 PM
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Once in awhile, you are with someone when there is almost an audible click. You both just get this recognition that you both will be special to each other for a long time. I've felt this with one old friend and my SO (separate people). I wouldn't say this is attraction or lust, but more of a socially aware sense that there is a high compatibility. Looks, and all the other exterior traits play into what women or men look for, but I would argue there is a special something that some of our bonds h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 08:48 PM
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I'd be okay with this, but we'll all end up being out-of-shape ugly people. Not that any of us will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 06:48 PM
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To add on to what /u/tyrianplum is saying, you don't have to get into primer, foundation brushes, selecting the correct cushion foundation skin tone, or make-up setting sprays. JUST buy some concealer and cover up the angry red zits. Those shits are distracting. I doubt zit cover-up changes someone's attractiveness, but you at least would look like you wash your face everyday. Just remember to use something disposable to apply it because reinfecting your face with the same bacteria is also gross…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 03:39 PM
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Wasn't on gaming forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:03 PM
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because I'm tired of standing out for being a minority female.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:02 PM
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I usually pretended (when younger) to be a guy online because I'm tired of standing out for being a minority female. Anonymity as your basic male online is relaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 01:35 PM
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A downvote either means they disagree and don't want to debate or they disagree and they don't know how to debate. Either way it saves everyone involved time because dealing with an emotional debater is just messy. Also downvotes means nothing for your ability to post, just a time delay if you get -20 for the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 03:04 PM
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I did mispeak in saying that instincts isn't a primary driver, and it is the only drive we have. But the extent to how much logic is used to override the urge for eating or having sex now vs having both those things over the long term is probably where we disagree. Edit: And the RP insistance on strict male and female differences in how both apply that override as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 02:29 PM
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If we all followed our instincts, there would be no law or order. Most of us override them. So instincts are not the primary drivers of what any of us do. None of us instinctively spend 8 hours a day at work, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:59 PM
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And what I am saying is that not all women want to be a sub. Some women even want to be a dom to a male sub. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:08 PM
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Unless both partners prefer a dom/sub relationship, long term this is not going to work out. Over time either the dom or the sub will resent the other and the breakup starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:06 PM
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But always, all the time, one person has a majority of the power. There is never any time in any two-person relationship in which both people hold precisely 50% equal shares of power. True. Working on a relationship to make it 50/50 exactly is impossible. Some relationships is are 49/51 or however this is quantified. Someone is always better socially and someone is better with taxes or a particular chore. One person has more talents in one area and the other in another area. The "expert" leads t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:00 PM
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I have no problem with women who like lots of sex with different men. There happens to be alot of men out there complaining about a lack of sex. Hating these women sounds counter productive for those men, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:44 PM
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I think this is a point to be made, but it should get its own thread and not piggyback off of OP's topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 05:16 PM
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Because they probably love the person who cheated on them and that probably causes some bias. Easier to blame the outsider as the homewrecker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:59 PM
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TIL, Rape is funny and normal people laugh about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 08:48 PM
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Ah, ok. Well, then I'll watch my biases. And wish you happier days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:20 PM
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Congrads on your happy marriage (did a quick scan of your post history). Statistically, there had to be some men who fell in love earlier in life and are monogamous, and I'm glad that someone here shows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:54 PM
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If you want to itemize it, go ahead. I'm trying to match the definition of the other thread. Or you can stick to the classical definition of p in v.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:58 PM
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Anything with "sex" in the name (except asexual) and sexual acts (fingering, pegging....). fights urge to wash my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:22 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:13 PM
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Can I ask was it redpill that caused the change or did something else change or a combination of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 02:54 PM
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2, shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 01:06 AM
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I'm not a jealous god person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 02:01 AM
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whether marriage is good for men? Depends on who they marry. And why both of them got married. I would say that most people don't know how to choose a spouse, man or woman, so if I had to give a blind answer without knowing the individuals, my answer would be "no."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 09:28 PM
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ensure crime-free environments require alot of personal freedoms to be removed. And ensuring that whoever is behind the cameras is being ethical. In my opinion, this is an impossible ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 01:32 PM
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What you are describing can still be summed up in two words. Consequentialism versus deontology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 10:43 PM
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I don't think anyone alive has the blame for why the social expectation for dating is that men approach. Women approaching men is a realistic solution to the toxicity problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 09:51 PM
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I find alot of RP to be overally pessimistic, BP to be too idealistic, and the truth of reality is probably in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 09:47 PM
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It looks like the concern is that guys are being too aggressive sexually = male toxicity, so I guess how it affects women is the major concern, and never the sexual success if of men, from that feminists view. So, why would positive male sex stats from being aggressive, why would those stats be expected to change that feminist's mind? (I know there is a greater issue to be discussed here, but I'm trying to finish my original point and I'll get back to how the expectation for men to approach whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 07:30 PM
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I'm not denying that humans are animals at their core. I'm commenting on the optimism vs pessimism of the people. Hopefully you live in peacetime, and there are always situations in that life that come up where you know that you can get away with something, but most of us don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 06:59 PM
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Before this gets further, what exactly is male toxicity? I'm coming from the opinion that male sexual success is male sexual success, and the guy is probably happy and I have no judgments from just that info.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 06:49 PM
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There's more than one response or solution to any fact, and all of the options can be rational. Changing someone's view requires you to know their original view and show why another view is not only also rational, but also better. "Better" means that you also need to know something of their personal values. A feminist saying that masculinity is toxic won't be persuaded by data showing masculine guys get the most sex. She is choosing that view point purposely. Masculine men getting more sex is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:56 PM
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People can make it without a college degree, but these people usually have higher level networking and other social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:42 PM
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Do you have any more details? What should teachers do specifically to avoid this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:40 PM
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"Q5. Do you believe that most men would rape if they could get away with it?" Most said no. A significant minority of 100% Reds answered yes. Woah. Glad that most people said no though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:17 PM
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Many of them are failing to succeed beyond primary education as well. They are attending and graduating from college at increasingly lower rates. They are making less money than women in their 20's, while failing to realize the consequences that will affect the rest of their lives. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 12:17 PM
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So how about many hours a week is involved for that level of fitness for the basic normal weight guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:36 PM
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A common expression of self sacrificing love is older couples caring for each other when sick/Alzheimer's etc which happens across both genders. Loving each other through sickness and in health, through the good days and bad days, etc, are a paraphrase of basic of wedding vows. what could possible be a more ultimate expression of unconditional romantics than throwing away your life for the one you love? As you said, this type of self sacrificing love is rare, and the fact both of us are able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 02:17 PM
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Men care about a women's appearance and personality Isn't this an example of conditional love? My lack of understanding is from the contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:03 PM
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I'm still trying to digest TRP and I'm stuck on how they believe men are the unconditional romantics and women only love conditionally (and somehow that is an erroneous philosophy). So I have no coherent summary of the differences for you. Well, also, it would be difficult to some sum up with a comprehensive BP primer in that BP is just a rejection of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 07:57 PM
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If we can have AI, we can have it preprogrammed with an illogical fetish, like some of us IRL people have. AI isn't the worst solution, other than not having a job because AI could do it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 03:20 PM
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The thread upvote/downvote total is another metric. The most popular thread is: 33 CMV: The primary source of the anger phase in TRP isn't misogyny, it's applying feminism's claimed egalitarian principles to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 03:08 PM
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Haha. Logic. I don't know the particulars about what big pharm's reasons are for thinking there isn't enough profit in male contraception, but what I do see is all the sources that keep on pushing back the expected time of arrival of reversible male contraception. This project probably needs $$ to be able to deliver, so at least more public interest than what exists needs to well, start.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 02:57 PM
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Haha, no worries, I wasn't targeting you. I just did that in the spirit of informing in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 01:35 AM
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I have no idea. (Based on a quick read of what I posted,) pharmaceuticals don't think that temporary and reversible male contraception is profitable because it would heavily overlap into their female contraception market. And Bill/Melinda Gates foundation passed on this because their goals are better suited with female contraception (I take it to mean that in the third world, men have less incentive than women for contraception). Well, while on the topic, here's the donation page: https://parsem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:33 PM
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More of an informative post and the "science" tag was available. And I figured the whole verbally throttling-each-other activity could use an intellectual tea break once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 10:18 PM
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but I have no motivation to seek her out and tell her this. For the random woman talking to a random woman about this, is there any proof of the n-count, or any amount of trust to be used between strangers? This looks like a situation set-up for a low rate of success and possibly driving the two lovebirds closer together for the wrong reasons. Whereas men will endlessly white knight women, bash other men for not being nice enough to women, etc, this is why RP is necessary; to teach men to fend f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 08:26 PM
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Abortion is still a surgical procedure. Current patient rights means that the patient must consent to the surgery. I personally think the best solution is male contraception. Any kickstarters out there to give some money to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 04:10 PM
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Secret identical twin of spouse and the twin doesn't announce himself/herself? (I tried)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:14 PM
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Not a virgin. But the person should be in a separate catagory from the average virgin to sex expert spectrum because of them probably and understandably not wanting to participate in any future sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:07 PM
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I was raised with korean parents. The stereotypes there are different. The men are emotional, the women are the cold logical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 06:11 PM
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He called the murders a fantasy. I understand the implications
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 07:20 PM
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Murder isn't safe to call a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 07:17 PM
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fantasy You give mixed messages. What is your actual position on this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 07:14 PM
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http://nypost.com/2014/04/25/teen-girl-stabbed-to-death-after-rejecting-prom-proposal/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 07:12 PM
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Very few men kill anybody of either sex for rejecting their sexual advances. You're talking about a fantasy group. Fantasy means that it isn't happening. So, you have proof that it isn't happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 07:05 PM
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The men who kill men for rejecting their sexual advances or the men who kill women for rejecting their advances?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 06:55 PM
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1)females seldom initiate 2)females are not attracted to awkwardness in males bar few exceptions. the scene has Bambi and his friends as awkward teenage animals who are approached and seduced by their female counterparts. Girls have also watched Bambi. Why aren't they following through on the expectation to hit on awkward boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:54 AM
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Care about how others see you, but don't bend over back wards for everyone to like you, i.e. do the socially well adjusted thing of paying enough attention to know when your boundaries are being crossed and the whens and hows of reacting. Know when to back off and when you need to promote yourself. Know when to support someone and know when to tear someone down. Td;lr have social abilities. Both the offensive and defensive kind. Pretty much the above, and comb your hair, and care/do something ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:39 PM
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If you just want a theory: women with high n-counts disqualifies them for some guys, and makes the number of potential mates decrease, making dating that much harder for men who have the preference for a lower n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:32 PM
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A younger version of my SO? I'll try to keep to my vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 09:15 PM
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Is moving to a place with a better male to female ratio a realistic possibility? Or a place where your look is more favored? Euthanasia should be a choice after exhausting all options, hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:58 PM
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I just don't understand how bluepillers are able to SEE this, that the vast majority of /r/Foreveralone, /r9k/, Sluthate, RedPill etc. are all men and not think that there is a major societal issue facing men right now. On a societal level, how does this situation hurt everyone? Not a criticism of what you are going through, but since you are obviously unhappy, what is your argument for other people to be involved in a solution? What advice would you give a younger version of yourself? Or what a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:38 PM
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The question in the OP is can masculinity and femininity be redefined. I don't know. But I feel no pleasure from being weaker (which is not something that comes up in an average embrace), and size is not important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:47 AM
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Women take distinct pleasure in being smaller and physically weaker than their partners. I've dated taller and shorter than me. I like being big spoon. I like being small spoon. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:03 AM
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I have. He said yes. We're still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:24 PM
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Your present society. No need to specify which one it is unless you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:59 PM
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I worded the question neutrally and even alphabetically. I already know my opinion and I'm less interested in what I already think, which is that we're all pretty much equally screwed in the US, except for factors like class and race.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:41 PM
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Classism is important, but the sub is Purplepill debate, so gender issues are more on topic. To quote the PPD sidebar: PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:01 PM
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Him being nervous and not being consistent (my guess). Both you and the other woman was roped into the group because the original girl was uncomfortable otherwise. Since he was the person who clearly wanted to speak to girl #1, he felt responsible for the entire group. So he paid for your other worker, but probably earnestly forgot about you in his nervousness. Considering how you weren't central to his purpose and was probably an unplanned addition to the group on his end, he didn't adjust fast…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:03 PM
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"Oh, sorry, I should have paid yours too". He was trying to look good in front of the other girl. I'd chalk it up as just weird/understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:58 PM
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There is a social expectation to be in full makeup for formal events. Men wear a tux, women put a gown on, get their hair done, and makeup, and +/- heels. And I say this as a woman who usually never wears makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 05:59 PM
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Pretty much agreed. I would add on that since women are fertile for a shorter period of their lives than men are, competition from younger women is also more of a factor for women (vs men, where older and younger men don't see each other as competition as much as women would). And.... Except I happen to like millenials and some feminists. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 11:25 PM
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Alright, here's my best bs: Why there are time limits on SMV, life, etc? Because if we lived forever young, what incentive would there be to do anything? We choose to really live because we know we will die. Female sexual and attractiveness apexes are probably due to how much strain there is on the human body from pregnancy, so there is cap to avoid undue strain. Men don't have that high demand on their bodies, so their bodies can afford to produce healthy sperm for a longer period of time. Alri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:09 PM
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"Yer privileged your opinion doesn't count" Yes, this is generally racist; however, if the "privileged" person is speaking from a point of willful ignorance of what a minority goes through, it can be argued that the person is being racist by ignoring the reality of racism because ignoring racism favors the "privileged." I.e. chess move motivated by racism and self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:12 PM
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My facebook is a ghost town for that reason. But seriously, read up on your workplace policies and see if there is anything to be done about this. I never heard of going on a date between consenting coworkers being a sexual harassment problem, but you should give the rules a read through anyway so you know better how to deal with this and your HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:26 PM
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got an anonymous sexual harassment complaint and a reprimand because went out with a female coworker to a movie. What was the complaint and what was the policy you were supposedly violating? As OP is written, it looks looks like your HR is incompetent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:15 PM
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If you make it alive inside the volcano, you'll get a free sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 01:42 AM
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Legally equal is different from being different. I'm good with that. As long as I can own property, vote, get equal pay for equal work, etc., I'm good. I don't want to be a firefighter if I can't pass the physical, and I wouldn't want a male breastfeeding (in general?) Women were created to do everything a man can't do. This is an absurd comment because everything a man can't do involves stuff like surviving inside a volcano.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:59 PM
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Sexual harassment is more of a workplace problem and you get sexual harassment definitions given by management (which hopefully avoids confusion), and I'm assuming you can avoid raping women. I wouldn't be too worried about the concerns you brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:48 PM
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So, why would someone be judged for putting in effort to maintain an attractive physique? Working hard at anything is usually a positive. I see no reason to look down at someone who believes in hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:37 PM
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Eh, why not? We aren't living in a world where starvation is a worry and that we need to be storing fat. But to be fair, he does do pull ups and push ups regularly. He just isn't someone to be a gym rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:24 PM
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Nah, he's one of those genetically lucky people who develop muscle by just existing. He had a cold recently and he swears the coughing helped his abs. Off i go to a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:18 PM
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Synopsis : typical slut lifestyle leads to unhappier marriages for both genders, but more strongly correlated for women My proposed mechanism: Alpha widow, carousel rider, etc Come at me nerds So how do you weed out for sexually frigid women? You know, the very religious type who sees children as procreation and God's work. Bang out a few, and then no more sex. Or doesn't even have to be religious. Might be an asexual who thinks married life is the life. Or someone with low sex drive? /r/Deadbed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:09 PM
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No. How does skin touching skin increase or decrease anyone's value? Except herpes, hpv...ahh...more sex is more likely a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 03:24 PM
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You act as you knows whats best for business and you seem to think its you. I wasn't the topic of this. But thanks for the attention. but it seems women in general can feel entitled and knock anyone else that feels the same. ?? You base this on a sample size of one?? 90% of our taxes come from the rich, nothing the poor does is useful Tax shelters should be enough for you to wake up. Stop being sheep. Use your math skills and realize if someone else is taxed at a lower rate than you or avoids ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 03:01 PM
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Public school are very expensive and give very little return I'm a product of public schools. The education was fine from my end. Teachers' salaries in general are on the low side, so what do you mean by expensive? its like tap water, sure it keeps you alive but its pure shit. Where do you live? (don't answer that) Sadly society always has it dumb dumb entitled people who believe they should get things rather than earn things. shrugs Children are expected to earn things? We adults earn salaries …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 09:47 PM
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And the cultural expectation means there isnt any beneficial paternity leave. What does this even mean? Paternity leave exists. If you wanted a law on it, there is some progress being made in Utah. Your point in this debate was about the hypocrisy of maternal leave. So...what hypocrisy? Progress is in flux, as it always is. I haven't seen anyone in the thread argue for maternity leave while being against paternity leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:07 PM
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It is about the quality of the kids too. We can't have a generation of kids in jail either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:48 PM
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Some states now give paid time off, including California and New Jersey, according to the National Partnership for Women & Families, a nonpartisan organization. In Ohio, state workers can take four weeks of leave but will get paid only a partial salary, according to the organization's 2014 study. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:27 PM
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I'd prefer to avoid conversations with the same undereducated person about how they gave me too little change and him/her not being able to understand they just stole from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:01 PM
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This thread is about paid maternity leave. Companies that offer paid paternity leave: http://www.entrepreneur.com/slideshow/249467 and quick google search about states that offer paid paternity leave: Some states now give paid time off, including California and New Jersey, according to the National Partnership for Women & Families, a nonpartisan organization. In Ohio, state workers can take four weeks of leave but will get paid only a partial salary, according to the organization's 2014 study. h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:55 PM
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Fuck that. Reduce all women to destitution and reliance on men. Its what theyre programmed for. Equality breeds contempt in women. You're either dominant over them, or you're nothing. Seriously? OK, lets put this into play. Fire all women. Some people already work immense amounts of overtime, depending on the industry, so those men will have double or triple their workload depending on the industry. Your tax dollars was already spent towards the education of women, so that money goes down the dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:23 PM
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I benefit from having cashiers who can count change properly. Or interacting with adults with education levels above that of an average 10 year old. Life would be a scarier place with less education.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:17 PM
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In the U.S. Many employers are required by federal law to allow their employees (both men and women) 12 weeks of unpaid family leave after the birth or adoption of a child under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA). At the end of your leave, your employer must allow you to return to your job or a similar job with the same salary, benefits, working conditions, and seniority. http://www.babycenter.com/0_paternity-leave-what-are-the-options-for-dads_8258.bc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:56 PM
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When we are old and decrepit, younger people need to be around to wipe our collective asses. Or you can work on robots that might do that job in a semi-gentle manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:40 PM
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I have the same problem. I have to remind myself, "that pause here, this is where most people expect me to speak up." If i could just grunt and point my way through life I would. I did ask my husband out though, so I speak up when I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 03:45 PM
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One day you stumble upon him being on TRP or a Manosphere forum. He is just a lurker not an EC or big name. No vitriolic rants about women. No AWALT. There are a few criticisms of 3rd wave feminism but these relate to structural flaws and extremists rather than him being opposed to gender equality. Even these are few and far between. Sounds like a sane person. Not a deal breaker. I lurk on TRP too and hold some criticisms of extremists in feminism. I'm not about to break up with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 03:34 PM
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Thanks for the downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:48 PM
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If an answer from a purple female is acceptable: my answer is "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:29 PM
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If the law only focused on the social and financial trapping of someone, i would be supportive of it. Having no access to money, family and or friends is serious to me, and anyone who did that should be prosecuted. The rest of the definition of domestic abuse should be something an adult can walk away from. Well, unless they are physically handicapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:16 PM
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No sexists, racists, homophobes, ex cons. No smokers, no very religious people, no to someone with difficult diet, no to no sense of humor. Never had the ons, so I don't know what my standards would be. I guess i would need him to be willing to be locked in the basement for a few days while awaiting the std panel, so in the interest of saving the taxpayer some money on the court and prison system, I'll just stay away from the ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:05 PM
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I cross the street for smokers smoking while walking on a crowded sidewalk, or under an awning. (women do this too) Ew: Guys checking out the ass of the woman walking in front of me by doing a full lean in for a better view. Imagine a person bending at their waist to their side. (And then a smoker waltzing through.) Annoying: loud, pushing each other, strong unilateral views on the -isms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:13 AM
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Casual feminist here. Have the men's rights mov't. Just don't be the extremists who blame all women for everything. I dislike both extremes of paranoia (the other being hating and blaming all men) because if you really live in that horrible world, what is left to fix? Take some agency and blame for yourself because our culture is partly our fault, and start from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 11:09 PM
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The average vagina is 3-4 inches long, but fear not if your guy is hung like a horse. The vagina can expand by 200 percent when sexually aroused, kind of like a balloon. Quick google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:17 PM
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Anorexia kills you faster than obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:07 PM
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So why exactly is stating "large portion of women sleep around with hot guys" misognynistic?" It implies that men settle (why would a male 10 sleep with a female 6, blech) and that women don't. There are pluses and minuses to both strategies, but I can't say definitively that a large portion of women do this. Especially since, what is a large portion? One serving? Two chicken nuggets? Is this said seriously, because it is really open to many interpretations. 10%? 60%? I can't say you are a misog…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:49 PM
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There are no sides if everyone had the freedom to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:41 PM
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I never participated in it when I was that age (only had an outside view), but I saw it as most Americans being raised in sex=sin mentalities, so when in college, that freedom to let go plus the lack of parents makes for a scary mix. So what is driving it? Our culture's fear of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:28 PM
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Ugh. That is embarrassing and not classy. Voting should be about who you think is a better candidate without thinking about genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:18 PM
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I still consistently only found women who became controlling, sexually uninterested, and manipulative. Not specifically a RP or a BP problem, people do have patterns of who they attract and who they are attracted to too. Keeping your game and yourself the same ensures same results. We started out believing women were equal, that they wouldn't play mind games, that they would try to keep things fair and egalitarian within the relationship. I can't speak for all of them but I was never "macho" or …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 08:06 PM
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I gave bad info earlier. I just looked up c section recovery time, 6 weeks. I cant't guarantee what kind of birth I'll have, so, I'm scrapping my above plan. The whole point of that law is that society (and whats left of social security) needs future generations to live. If the odds for employment and keeping a job is harder for a working mom (generally, families need two incomes), then less kids, and less future for everyone. Btw, I'm going to abstain from doxing myslef further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 09:59 PM
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I'm in a line of work where we sign annual contracts for the job. If I take maternity leave, I stay until I finish working the full year's worth. And implied in the the nature of the work, is that it is a team effort that only runs smoothly if I give ample notice of any needed absences, otherwise I get pissed coworkers, whose cooperation I need to get shit done. i.e. If I'm your basic responsible employee who gives as large a heads up as possible, there will be no hiccups with the scheduling. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 08:40 PM
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because power corrupts eventually, and all countries (whatever their political views) will eventually disintegrate into an one party police state, once one side maintains majority control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 05:21 PM
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I'm a feminist but I'm casual. I view feminism as equality for women to be on par with men. For men to argue for equal rights, they should go to MRA groups or whatever exists. Feminists should be allies for equality to men, but by even just the nature of the name, "feminism," we should not advertise ourselves as primary champions for men's issues. Feminism is apart of the establishment in this country. (U.S.) Whenever I have gone to job interviews and get asked about if I'm interested in having …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 03:37 PM
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Vasectomies and vasectomy reversal is cheaper than child support. Yes, there are risks, because it is still surgery and there is no guarantee the reversal will work. Taxes are burdensome enough. If both parents are not interested in being responsible people, I don't know what to say because the taxpayer gets the worse deal since the taxpayer got no sex out of it. If people chose to have sex, it is more fair to stick the parents with the bill, and not the tax payer. Paying for other people's bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:43 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 10:55 PM
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Yeah, I would confess. And the likely result would be being single again, but I don't think I can live with it. Ugh, smiling at someone you cheated on is a feeling I'm not interested in experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 10:33 PM
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OK, so why am I cheating? Why didn't I just divorce rape him? sigh That felt good. Alright, seriously, if I cheated, I'd confess because, well, for one thing, the SO is scary smart, and probably knows already, so I would be just saving a wee bit of face. And if there was any chance for forgiveness, the earlier it is said, the better. at worse is cruel emotional abuse to place on your SO. The cruel emotional abuse started when I cheated, so I can't lie to myself and say that I care that much, evi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 10:19 PM
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'Radicalizing the Romanceless' does have examples of women being mean. As well as men being mean. Which argument of mine were you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 09:13 PM
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You do realize that women can be assholes, right? Being good or bad isn't gender specific. Maybe you're a guy attracted to female assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 06:42 PM
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I just want you to know that it's precisely because I feel like I have no space to legitimately express these feelings, and needs, and talk about them in a calm and rational way without being shamed and ridiculed -- that's exactly what drives me, and perfectly normal (and lonely) men like me, to find TRP. The rage and frustration anyone feels works both ways. Calling women "sluts" for their openess to sex has negative consequences as well. Like being more interested in listening and becoming par…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 06:05 PM
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shrugs Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 06:43 AM
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I was addressing the morality of the situation. If you want to discuss the appearance of the situation and how to deal with the social damage control, that's a different story. I guess honesty about needing some space and why there needs to be space should work. A real friend would be understanding, so I guess you then get to see what kind of friend she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 12:51 AM
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Feminist here with the opinion that if you are her friend but you secretly never considered her as a friend, then that's the deceit. Being attracted to your friend is not a sin, just don't play a long game of waiting for a romantic relationship or one night of snoo snoo if that is all you want. And by the way, leave friendships whenever you want, why be obligated to stick around if you aren't interested in being friends anymore. Don't get bullied dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:23 PM
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I'd argue that increasing competition for manufacturing anything, like electronics, cars, steel, etc from countries like Japan, China---that took away lower education jobs from the US (I don't know the British situation, so I can't speak from them). And there are plenty of jobs involving advanced degrees that go unfilled because the people with the education for them don't exist here. And there are plenty of people without jobs here, but lack the education and experience to apply for the empty p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:52 PM
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When responsible parents are working full-time jobs and few couples can afford to be a stay-at-home parent or get a nanny, the family will suffer. As much fun as it is to blame feminism, this is blowing smoke screen over the different economic reality that the 1950's was vs now and that having a healthy family life is expensive. Parental attention replaced with what can be given with the time, so more materialism/money, and less love/romance/sex/whatever-you-call-it in general because no time fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 03:57 PM
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Thanks for the vote of belief. The guy is a psychologist, so I suppose he does have a natural advantage. He is aggresive about flaunting his current woman, so there is that. So probably not totally insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 12:42 PM
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To that guy: take a break, focus your energy on something else. When you are refreshed, talk to a friend you trust, get advice you trust and take that advice. And maybe drop the "low SMV" label. I know of one non-tyrion midget with crazy game, so eff that. If you don't find yourself of value, how can someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 04:31 AM
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I personally find the "nice guy" a phony persona. I'm not going to go out of my way to shit on their day, but I will mentally tag them as non-genuine people. I take it the same way as an overly smiley person. It just gives a weird vibe of not being able to get any reading on them. You don't know if you have a home-schooled person or a serial killer behind the mask. Shame on you for thinking I would even go out with you. Wow. At least you got to know her better without having wasted time on a dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 03:33 AM
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Diane Keaton is in her 60s in your 40s pic. I'm not sure whether to be impressed by her genes or confused by your choice. Picture nazi out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:09 PM
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Even if the woman wanted an abortion, she might not be able to if too poor, in the wrong state (all states have legal abortions but some have heavy and expensive restrictions on the doctors/hospitals, which makes abortion unrealistic), too young (parental consent necessary) or too far along in pregnancy. Reschedule this debate for after when having an abortion is a realistic option for a majority of people. Currently the power is in the voters' hands, not the ladies. A better use of time would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 11:25 PM
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Consent to sex is consent to the risk of STDs and pregnancy. I like the Dave Chappelle option of signing legal papers before sex so that both sides (or more sides if so inclined) know exactly what messy mess they are jumping into. Lots of people need that slap of reality/cold water before screwing with their lives and just thinking with their hormones. It takes some level of trust to have sex, and if they aren't trustworthy, masturbation is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 08:14 PM
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The ability to pass time and entertain yourself or others still isn't a way to show what you care about. This imaginary person is loyal but not being interested in something outside of what seems to be a smallish world isn't something I can spend a lifetime with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 02:41 AM
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Doesn't have many strong passions/hobbies This guy doesn't sound like he has a pulse. I'll pass. Necrophilia isn't my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 11:06 PM
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There are social advantages to being seen as "hot" that have nothing to do with self-esteem. Some of these women are just gaming the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 10:16 PM
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