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Here's the retraction, the study was reviewed once over by the authors after others attempted to reproduce the studies results and no statistically significant differences between the sexes was found that's at least 2 studies, If you have a source that says otherwise post it I'm a researcher so I'd legitimately be interested in reading it if you post it. https://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/?ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:23 AM
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The author of the study retracted their study because they found out that they were counting men who left the study in with the men who left their wives there was no statistically significant difference between men and women leaving their spouses when this was remedied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:44 PM
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Seriously man get out there failing now Is a little embarrassing; but, it's more acceptable now then trying once your out of university. It's way harder and it's going to take a lot of really embarrassing fails to catch up. Girls are way less tolerant of social miscalabration when you get just a couple years older, even if your still young just out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:30 PM
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No what you do instead is make it seem how ur super "sex positive" and make it seem like ur pro sleeping around for everyone and how it's so empowering to express your sexuality, then shell be more likely to tell u her "true number" mind u that no. Isn't going to include oral, and that ons in the club bathroom or anything but you'll get closer to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:27 AM
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Hmm looking things up again I see several that say what your saying but I also saw multiple studies saying that 5-7 year differences had the highest marital satisfaction, although I will admit they were linked by rp youtubers. So idk if they were cherry picking studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:01 AM
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Statistically the most successful relationships have 5-7 year gaps, I even saw one that said 5-10 year gaps though admittedly im not sure if that was primar influenced by older couples like 30 year olds dating 37 year olds and couples similar to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:19 PM
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It's not fucking cope, it's important but it's not a giant deal as long as you have a normal sized dick. Go on r/bigdickproblems and realize it's not something to be obsessed over. I'm literally 1 in a 1000 for both girth and length and it's not like bitches are dying to jump on my dick.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 07:33 PM
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Fair enough good catch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:58 PM
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The fact she said that her current partner whose only 5'4 is the best partner she's ever had, and then later posted how she's repulsed by his touch and has zero sexual attraction towards him at all indicates she is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:32 PM
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Tbh I don't think he'll care too much ( but what do i know) the tv show made it seem like he didn't want kids but she kinda pressured him into it
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/23 01:02 AM
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Plus she makes 34k a month, so she gets to live off a whole lot more than 4300, but thing is her ex husband makes 61k/mo and she wanted a sig portion of that, of course u and I know if she got it the majority of that would not go for her kids but for herself.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/23 08:50 PM
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No it's significantly more than most people's salary because CS payments are all tax free
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/23 08:48 PM
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People absolutely can in fact I know someone who claimed to have had someone for lunch and dinner each day for 6 days straight and that I was going to be number 13 and I could tell she was eyeing my family member up as number 14. But she was a woman so the hardest part sourcing was easy af for her, it's like that trump quote they let you do it, her version of a first move as an introduction seemed to consist of grabbing crotches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:53 AM
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See I'm a little hesitant to take the 2021 GSS information as seriously as the 2018 data and prior studies because it reflects what happened in the peak of covid, a time of great uncertainty and fear for a lot of women (and men but men are more willing to take risks with their health) and redpillers like Rallo suggested that women who are still going out/ dating would be more accepting of betas in time periods like that. And sure enough the data matches what Rallo predicted there was a pretty si…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:22 AM
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See I'm a little hesitant to take the 2021 GSS information as seriously as the 2018 because it reflects what happened in the peak of covid, a time of great uncertainty and fear for a lot of women and redpillers like Rallo suggested that women who are still going out/ dating would be more accepting of betas in time periods like that. And sure enough there was a pretty significant decrease in male sexlessness in said time period just like Rallo predicted, and I really can't think of anything that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:40 PM
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The GSS study indicates that about 30% of men in the 18-29 demographic are entirely sexless ( not having had a single sexual encounter once in the past year/being a virgin). How many more only have sex a couple times a year, and are functionally sexless ( I mean sexless marriages are defined as having less than 10-12 interactions a year apply those standards to unmarried men and watch that 30% stat inflate greatly). So you might argue that the avg person has a fulfilling sex life and is happy bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:20 PM
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Idealized male standards of bueat are definitley far more difficult to attain than idealized female standards of bueaty. But looks are less important to a man's smv than it is to a woman's. A males smv is predominately contigent on looks, money, status, and game in the real world( admittedly looks are probably the most important thing in the context of online dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:07 PM
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Your league as a woman is who you can lock down, if you are able to date these men exclusively for more than a couple months then I'd say you aren't shooting above your league, but like OP said lots of women don't realize that just because a man is willing to sleep with your or even date you short term doesn't mean he actually ever saw you as a serious prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:16 AM
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yeah but its still better to go with her than for her to go without you. Too many times have women ended up in a situation where I was drunk he was cute and it just happened. Especially if all her friends are still single "AF" on the party train and are encouraging that type of behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/23 05:38 PM
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A lot of them are just scared to approach because they've bought into the online pseudo feminist bullshit that women don't like to be approached anywhere and only talk to them if you get strong indicators of interest ( which of course could be misinterpreted which contributes to their paralysis). A lot of them could get laid ( it'll just require lots and lots of rejection) but theyre terrified of women's reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:51 PM
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What if he went to Vegas and decided fuck it I'll get a legal high end escort just for the experience of banging a 10/10, with tbe complete assurance that she is doing this of her own volition and is getting very well paid for her time so there's no real ethical concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:25 PM
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Some of the guys here feel a need to tell women, that their virgins or had a gay experimentation phase etc. I keep telling them not to lie per se but not bring it up if it's a big enough issue they'll ask you; let then dq you don't do half the work of disqualifying yourself for them, since it's not like sluts are dying to share their n count either, but some of these dudes here have been brainwashed by society and don't have themselves as their mental point of origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:23 PM
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That's fair, then for sure, but there are lots of women who seem to think it's wrong to not date someone because their a slut but somehow shaming a virgin, or a former John, or a man who had experimented with the same sex is okay in their eyes( because it doesn't affect them personally).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:20 PM
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Who is Oprah seeing I can only find Stedman who is older than her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/23 03:28 PM
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You should be working on yourself as a man but also you should be going out trying to get experience at the same time that way you aren't a jacked and rich kissless virgin at 30. Yeah women don't have to do that but life isn't fair and men don't have innate value ( talking about in dating market), whereas women do. A man must become wheras a woman just needs to preserve her value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:20 PM
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I mean a decent chunk of older women here aren't in the dating market a lot of you girls are in long term relationships so potentially dating a formerly gay/bi man isn't really in the cards and so it can lead to virtue signaling and statements that contradict with what would be ones actual actions because the conscious and sub conscious aren't always in alignment. I guess it's not so much the age itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:44 PM
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Exactly, and the funny thing is that they aren't dying to say how many people theyve slept with even though there are lots of men who find it repulsive just like theres lots of women who find a gay n count of 1+ as repulsive. It's simply a gender swapped situation. When cognitive dissonance can be useful in furthering hypergamic goals you can best believe lots of women are going to be hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:40 PM
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I think he's talking about the topic itself not just what's going on here (the women here are mostly older and so its all theoretical to them which allows them to virtue signal more) anyways the same question has been asked on shows like fresh and fit multiple times with different panels of young women and the popular consensus amongst the women is that they wouldn't date a man who had a previous gay past even if it was just experimenting and he realized It's not for me only girls from now on. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:34 PM
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Yeah being sexually avalible, cooperative, and nice. Still not high burdles. Hell, the last two are optional as well if your not going after a above avg tier guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:06 PM
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Hes was massive on YouTube and tiktok he still is rather large on YouTube I never watched rp content or manosphere content on YouTube but he would still show up in my recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:58 PM
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Actually women of the millenial and gen z generations actually cheat more than men, that's the first time it's happened in history, women today really are breaking down barriers; truly inspiring. Also if your talking about that study that supposedly said that men leave their sick wives at higher rates i highly implore you to read the actual study( not biased articles written by misandrists with agendas). The author of the study retracted the study because they accidentally included men who left …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:23 PM
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No because wife goggles are a thing, I could look back and remember how my wife used to look and how she offered me her prime. At one point she invested in me, and so it makes me want to stick by her when I have a higher relative value than her. I greatly value that initial show of loyalty. Though I might put some pressure on her to lose weight; first through example, then maybe offering a deal where we both count calories before considering more direct forms of dread/pressure if that doesn't wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:33 PM
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I agree, I'm purple pilled myself and I literally just found out my friend 27yo is red pilled, so if me being on these forums for years can't identify red pillers in the wild I don't think women can at least not when if they truly internalized things. I fucking saw my friends YouTube history when he was looking for a song and bam I saw rallo, and some really small red content creators too. I always knew he was good with women despite ugh not being the best at anything else I mean he's fun but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:59 PM
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Eggs are expensive sperm is cheap, one man is able to impregnate many women, that is why men are the disposable sex. Innate biological factors are further reinforced by society and the femine imperative and it's co-opting of masculine ideas of honor( a real man sacrifices for x a real man does y). Evidence that society sees this to be the case are seen all around, the idea of women and children first, the idea that women are the primary casualties in war because they lose their sons and husband'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:08 PM
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Well someone hasn't even read the study have they: the author retracted that years ago, they included men leaving the study but not their wives in the calculations of men abandoning their wives. Wheb that was corrected there was no statically signicant difference between men and women amongst three of the four illness categories. The only statistically significant difference was found in the category relating to premature heart issues there men were found to abandon their wives at a whopping 6% …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:41 PM
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When they admit it was our fault for falling for blue pilled indoctrination and getting played because of it, sure it was shoved down our throats since childhood but thats NO excuse. When we say that its our fault that women didnt want us in the past( or even for some, currently) we simply lacked the looks, affluence, and game to attract a comparable woman ( women have innate value men don't, so a youthful average woman is worth more and it's our fault for not developing our value enough to attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:05 PM
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What does relationship adjustment mean? If a Democrat dating a republican results in lower adjustment isn't that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:25 PM
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Plus your league ( especially when talking about men) isn't only based on your looks it's based on looks, affluence and game. A woman could be insecure or a myriad of other factors that could influence her decisions in mate choice. The aformentioned points are why men should let women do the rejections and not pre reject themselves. Also self-rejection via league theory is a partly a shittest to weed out the more confident alpha personalities from the non confident beta personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:14 PM
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I don't see how this is nice guy logic it's having mental point of origin and self respect saying I'm not going to work harder and get less from a woman than somebody else because that is indicative of less than 100% genuine desire. Sure she could have genuinely changed ( but is that change truly through every aspect of her being or is it only the ego and not the id). If she didn't change at every level both conscious and subconscious dating her could easily result in a less than satisfactory se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:29 PM
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Except men can generally get hotter girls when they offer significant commitment than they can get in ons, or short term flings. So the male version of alpha widows are far far less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:58 AM
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Wait your 30 and you gave up on dating 10 yaers ago so you gave up at 20???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 01:45 AM
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Have you thought about using a benzo to try and ameliorate your anxiety and ask out a girl. It's a lot less scary when your on xanax.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah but you can't trust the self reported information, there have been a couple studies that have found that when attached to a lie detector test men and women give different answers to the number of partners they've had men lie up and women understate their partners. Though the studies are nearly 10 and 20 years old respectively I wonder what the n counts would be today. There's a third such study but I'm having trouble finding it keepgetting dead links but here's two links. https://pubmed.ncb…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:01 PM
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That's what I did, in a nightclub bathroom it was really romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:53 PM
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What who were these women, what were they like, that kinda shocks me from what I've seen in the drug user party scene I've seen women utterly repulsed after finding out a top 20%er guy they were dripping for was actually a virgin ( friend of mine with severe anxiety) she dried up and she did a 180 with the way she was acting, and she was willing to look past the awkward signals he was displaying propably thought was was inexperienced not no experienced. Also Ive seen posts on r/askwomen and r/tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:53 PM
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Exactly and women do it all the time so why should men hold themselves to a higher standard , women's photos are old theyre really 40lbs heavier, theyre photos are ran through heavy ass filters, they do heavy contouring,wear a push up bra, wear heavy makeup, etc. And then to top it off they'll lie about their n count literally there's studies on this. When asked their n count with assurance that their answers will never be revealed and that they had complete anonymity the reported partner count …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:38 PM
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I'm not saying there's not cases like you say I know there are; but there are lots of women who feel otherwise at least based on the responses of r/askwomen and r/twoxchromsomes an article came up about 4 years ago with a 30 year old virgin with the woman thinking he was super hot then they got naked and right before penetration he said he was a virgin and she immediately called it off. And the commenters on the post were saying they'd do the same thing that was by the far the most popular opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:22 PM
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That's why I tell virgin guys on this forum to sleep with an escort and just never admit it was an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:09 PM
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The thing is that that is changing, millenials marked the first generation in history where women cheat more than men. Also we won't see an influx in single dads because the existence of no fault divorce and a legal system that grants primary/sole custody of children to their mother except in extreme circumstances such as drug addiction, and felony incarceration( though I've even seen women get awarded custody after confirmed incidents of child abuse despite having a loving albiet poorer father)…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:24 AM
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Actually female in group bias is significantly greater than male in group bias and that has been found across various studies ( in fact in multiple studies it was found that there was no male in group bias) Here's one for example https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:15 AM
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Due to hypergamy women are more picky than men, the fact that highly attractive men will go "dumpster diving" further inflates their self worth and makes them think they are in the same league as the guys that are pumping and dumping them. They think this guy is what I want all I need to do now is findsomeone who isn't an asshole but is the same otherwise not realizing the men in that league don't see her as anything but an easy lay. Overall women are picky because they can be they can shoot the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:01 PM
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The only people who think it's immoral are the people who are being left out of the party and then asked to help clean up the following morning, but if they dont want to help they need to say no. But there is nothing wrong with a woman shooting her shot with hotter higher quality guys ( even if they are leagues above her) because hey sometimes they catch feelings and you sucseed but if it fails there is nothing wrong with going back to people your own league and locking them down. It can have ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:32 PM
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While that's certainly true for some, lots of betas really buy into the Disney narrative and truly make women their mental point of origin, they wouldn't dare of doing something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:24 PM
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It is to women who can't meet them I've seen it time and time again on YouTube a man is asked his standards and when he says something along the lines of thin, feminine, friendly, and loyal they complain that your asking for too much and the dudes themselves are healthy or even fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:18 PM
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By going over seas you are more likely to be considered above average height, most are going to have lighter skin tones which are attractive in many parts of the world, you may have a more sexually dimporphic face ( Asians in aggregate have the least sexual dimorphic faces of any race so the odds are in your favor but then again if your going overseas they might not be) and even if none of that is true at least your more likely to end up in an old order beta bucks situation than a new order one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:15 PM
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If the red pill man really followed through and internalized everything the women get an alpha, that is far more exciting than your average beta. It's giving the subconscious part of womens brains what they want. Of course after that its honestly not that great a deal red pillers often go from overly idealistic self sacrificial door mats to self absorbed and selfish. If a woman wants an alpha a red pill alpha is better than a beta but a blue /purple alpha is superior in most cases from a female …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:57 PM
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Look being vulnerable is almost always a bad idea ( look at this r/askmen thread amongst the literally dozen+ others with the same results https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/pg0m2h/was_your_experience_with_showing/) .I still think showing vulnerability can have some usefulness as a comfort test, but showing vulnerability will never be beneficial unless your default state is alpha and you offer rare glimpses out of your armor and only for your girl. That way she thinks she's so special gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:25 AM
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Look being vulnerable is almost always a bad idea ( look at this r/askmen thread amongst the literally dozen+ others with the same results https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/pg0m2h/was_your_experience_with_showing/) .I still think showing vulnerability can have some usefulness as a comfort test, but showing vulnerability will never be beneficial unless your default state is alpha and you offer rare glimpses out of your armor and only for your girl. That way she thinks she's so special gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:16 AM
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Know this is super late, but yes that experiment has been replicated time and time again using different women ( or even men cross dressing as women) and men really are that thirsty. Besides the youtube videos online I've seen acedotally even my male model friends go "dumpster diving" though they are pretty blunt letting the women know pretty much this is a pump and dump for me, the women seem to think that they are just joking but they never are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:25 PM
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Think op meant of the women having casual sex, 80% of those are having sex with top 20% of men trying to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:12 PM
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Did you lose your capacity for rational thought and gain an extra chromosome?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:20 PM
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They become isolated or they rise to great heights the number of ceos and high ranking executives that possess dark triad traits is significantly more than one would expect from chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:46 AM
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Tell me how RP is based on the subjugation of women they're not tradcons, they generally believe changes in the smp and rmp are detrimental to society but instead of trying to change things they change themselves so they can get the most hedonistic joy they can get "profiting" from the decline. Edit I'm not even a RP though I'm Purple though red leaning with a couple big exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:41 AM
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There's a comment I saw on the r/menslib sub that I that I think is very fitting. ( someone in that thread accused people of the manosphere of the second paragraph and someone else posted the 3rd) They teach an amoral, Machiavellian philosophy on how to manipulate women into sleeping with them and/or how get ahead in life whatever it takes, no matter who suffers in the process. That's just playing life the way it's presented to us, they're not amoral, they're not supervilains, they're just hurt …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:32 AM
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Did you read the questions asked so many of them were utter bs. When determining sexual objectification level they asked basically do you condone dating only pretty girls. Well duh sexual attraction is important and if a person only dates girls he finds attractive it shouldn't be a problem for anybody and that doesn't mean your guilty of objectifying women. Another one asked do men make advances on attractive women and should attractive women learn how to deal with them, well obviously some men …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:51 PM
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So then it sounds like the n count conscious men of ppd dont have unreasonable standards and it shouldn't be a problem. Additionally the agitated women of ppd should be able to easily meet the n count standards that some of the men rattle off ( which is usually just sub 10 n count) and so they shouldn't be agitated either. Especially since the men stating those preferences are in their 20s - early 30s and are looking for similarly aged women if not a couple years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:14 PM
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The author of that study retracted their work and actually came to far more nuanced conclusions because they accidentally coded the dependent variable incorrectly ( including both men who left their wives and men who left the study but weren't seen to leave their wives the same). So in the end men were not more likely to leave their wives than wives were to leave their husband's for the following conditions: cancer, stroke, or lung disease. The only one that was statistically significant was tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:21 PM
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Well I hope you can accept that a 13 bmi isn't healthy and that more people would find a normal weight bmi more aesthetic. I dont know your story but eating disorders can be overcome, I had a binge eating problem that was a primarily a result of complex ptsd triggers and I was able to overcome it and you can overcome your anorexia problem too don't give up, seek professional help, and distance yourself from boards that make excuses or justify your ED. Look for groups of people who have alreasy o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:26 AM
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Know this is an old post but could you give me a link to said study it'd be interesting to check out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:55 AM
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Those 6 ratings are they r/truerateme style ratings? the standard deviation style ratings where each point is a SD up or down. Because people keep talking shit about Emma Watson being given a 6 on truerateme but then refuse to acknowledge a 6 on their scale is ~ top 14%, because it's based on a normal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:37 PM
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Honest question why don't you just set a caloric goal that will put you on the low end of a healthy bmi and just count calories to ensure you stay there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:32 PM
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Yeah anyone who stays friendzoned when he doesn't want to be there is a fucking pussy who deserves to be used. People need to take responsibility for their own actions they have agency if you don't like a situation don't stay in it. And the fuck zone is when a woman wants a relationship however the man doesn't commit ( could be the reverse but it's usually the man), that is often the result of a woman assuming she can form a relationship with a man by having sex with them. But just as BPs say yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:27 AM
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But it does work like that with a decent chunk of girls, I can honestly say I've had multiple girls ( mostly college girls as I'm young myself couple years removed from college) who have later come on to me or literally straight up told me why I didn't keep pursing her when she said oh maybe next time or even stuff like I'm seeing somebody else already etc. I don't know if it's because they're young and don't have much dating experience or what but a very solid chunk seen to believe playing hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:56 AM
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Because women are more likely to get fuck zoned than men are far more likely to feel bad about being fuck zoned. A waiting period is just a way to test that the man isn't looking for a quick fuck and then just planning to bounce right after. That time period is a test to see if he's willing to put some effort, if a man is tired of being fuck zoned he should do the same but we both know which gender is affected by the problem more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:46 AM
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Absolutely high n count men and women both are more likely to be unfaithful than low n count women, however unlike with women a man needs to be exceptional to rival the n count of a promiscuous woman. The associated factors necessary for a man to have a high n count, the pre-selection, and the fact that women have guaranteed maternity certainty mean promiscuous men still have a very high RMV and SMV. Whereas for promiscuous women it's far less common, at least the RMV factor. So some may see it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:29 PM
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Kindness and a people pleasing attitude can be interpreted as weakness which is a turn off for a majority of women however, the inverse dark triad traits are not attractive in themselves to a majority of women. Yes while someone displaying said traits would likely have improved sucsess, that is for two reasons one there is a minority of women that are extremely attracted to said traits themselves and two said traits can create a sense of confidence in a man and can be a quick, easy, and very vis…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:35 AM
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Think these guys are confused because women do prefer misogynists over a pushover, like they used to be and after taking the red pill they go to far in the other direction but still have improved sucsess compared to their old self and come to think that the sexism itself is actually attractive when that attitude is a quick/cheap way to create and show confidence whereas being a a people pleasing nice guy to the extremes that I and a lot of these other guys did could be perceived as weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:29 PM
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Simply stating that there is a discrepancy in pay, and deciding not to work for said company because Bob finds it beneath his dignity doesn't make Bob a communist. Bob doesn't feel entitled and demand that said company offer him the same pay he simply decided that what was offered doesn't meet his requirements and decided to look elsewhere for a company that will pay him what he thinks he's worth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:10 AM
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I'd be more willing to accept a woman like that if it was only one or two times and she's young. If she's young and still has the ability to have short term relationships with Chad but chooses me then it's more likely that she genuinely desires me and it was just some experimenting. I am far less willing to give an older woman who had casual sex the same benefit of the doubt. Because there is a decent chance that I would end up as Mr tolerable Mr ok Mr back up choice who was chosen via process o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:58 AM
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Trad wife to a good husband unless she is very idk out there liberated and can get one of those elite stripper positions making 300k+/yr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:19 AM
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Yup its called vaginal tenting, it gets deeper too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:43 PM
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theres a saying about psychedelic use that I think is applicable when you get the message hang up the phone. Once youve internalized enough to become sucsessful there is little reason to stew in a forum with tons of anger phasers which can infect you indignation or hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:02 AM
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to be fair they were pretty early to the lifting advice train, I remember when this sub first opened a lot of bloops said it was ridiculous/ sexist when trp said that lifting could drastically change your hook up success rate. That when women said that looks aren't that important to them and that they don't even like men who are too bulky you should just take it face value and acting otherwise is sexist, and now its so accepted that its thought of basic common sense but it wasn't always like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:39 AM
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you know for the mainstream manosphere the goal is to knock women off the pedestal bloops place women on and see them as normal people ( which means a lot of them are shitty, and will showcase some really nasty trends in aggregate), but you shouldn't try and put your own gender on some pedestal either. Anyways in order to meet hypergamous expectations and be sexually sucsessful you have to be better not just say your better by demonising women or glorifying men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:30 AM
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so something approximating to this mens rating guide? https://i.imgur.com/IP2LiZ6.png
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:35 AM
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Look I don't doubt that it happens but come on plenty of them still do swipe for super attractive men at least thats what I've seen for my fitness model / and runway model male friends, and those two groups were from two different cities one more conservative the other far more liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:29 AM
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Birds of a feather flock together so if your doing pretty well then you probably hang out with pretty "cool people". I can tell you being part of a fraternity at a prestigious university with a pretty good party scene I mean it wasn't no chico but pretty good. Well each incoming class of pledges had several virgins that you wouldn't expect to be virgins, and when Sergeants and officers would ask during one of hazing rituals ( after getting them hella drunk on sangria) no one would walk foward in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:55 AM
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The western version of the Japanese Herbivore men will be imported to the USA resulting in the long run some demographic shifts, which is the distant future could result in worsening economic conditions and position on the geopolitical landscape if politicians don't plan for an ever increasing elderly demographic ( this is already happening but I assume that the stuff in the post could exacerbate things). In the short run like within the next decade literally almost no change, I wouldn't expect …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:44 AM
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Sure she doesn't need to marry the hottest thing shes ever slept with but she still needs to find him attractive, he needs to inspire lust in her otherwise your playing with fire and will result in a situation that can easily result in a dead bedroom, starfish sex, or duty sex. Really all I want and I presume most men is to be considered a first draft pick, like if somehow on my hypothetical dream team I got Joe Montana instead of Brady id still be ecstatic because hes still part of that S tier.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:11 AM
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what the study says is that 70 percent aren't COMPLETLEY sexless the study hes refrencing asked men have you had sexual activity ever you were 18 and the range was 18 to 30 and ~30% ( believe it was 28% to be exact) had answered no they had not had sexual activity even once since 18. That doesn't mean 70 percent are playing the field scoring all the time it means that they got a handjob, a blowjob, or a lay at least once since they turned 18. Someone only having sex once a decade is pretty sexle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:42 AM
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absolutely not, a man in his 30s is no where nears as desirable as a young woman but his desirability increases for a lot of men, especially when compared relative to his peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:05 AM
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your pretty accurate about the incels representing the bottom 15% of men heres an old thread that discussed a british study where ~ 1/6 of 26 year old men are virgins. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8hnhqs/between_1_in_8_and_1_in_6_26_year_olds_may_be/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:58 AM
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