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I understand your point too, I think we're both just referring to different things but I think we mostly agree with each other anyway :) anyway, stay safe out there friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:33 PM
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daaaamn, good answer. I'm not bald (yet) but I'm gonna use this.
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:05 PM
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There's no way to live life if you're scared of being cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:04 PM
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Nope, you're attracted to both IMO. If we all lived in the forest, the man who can attain the most food wins. But here's the catch, to attain food you must be fast, fit, strong, charismatic, ballsy and smart.. because food is hard to get. Now, speed requires strong legs and a good heart, brain thinks that's attractive.. Fitness requires good immune system, brain thinks that's attractive.. strong means wide shoulders, abs and powerful chest.. brain thinks that's attractive.. smart means a man who…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:23 PM
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I think you said that you're at your peak when you're hot and young. But I don't agree. Also, if your point is now young and hot don't offer anything but themselves again, I disagree.. being young and hot in and of itself IS offering something. But yeah, I get what you're saying.. I just think you're wrong. This is why I think you're wrong, you're saying "Oh but if you need money, you're not at your peak." 1) that's like saying "well if you need good looks you're not at your peak." which invalid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:12 PM
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So your peak is when you have to offer other things? yes that's correct.. welcome to the life of a man. We aren't loved unconditionally. I don't mean offering material things either, I mean mental stability, emotional stability, happiness, looks. children (future) etc. When you alone aren’t enough? But you're saying that men are at their peak when they're hot and young that's OFFERING something. How are you going to say that being hot and young are WHO you are? you literally lose your looks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:42 PM
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I think the point is that "league" isn't the reason OP was rejected. You don't reject a homeless guy because you think you're more prestige than him, you reject because he can't provide a home for you, not out of some shallow heirachal concept (this isn't to assume heirachies don't exist btw). OP probably got rejected because of a host of other reasons. If you're in a mindset about "oh she's in my league I got a chance" you probably didn't have a chance in the first place.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:23 PM
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feminist: I WANT TO BE APART OF THAT TOO, BIGOT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:18 PM
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I still disagree, when you're young YES it's harder to let yourself go but that are you really going to say that getting fat isn't possible? There's plenty of fat 20 year olds who could be 8-9's if they lost the weight. That means that hot young people still have to maintain a decent diet even if it doesn't feel like they're keeping fit, it requires some level of maintenance. Then there's the issue of making money. When I was hot and young (lol) I found it hard to pick up girls as a broke colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:16 PM
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No, it's not the opinion itself that's a red flag it's when you bring it up unprovoked because it means you're either projecting or bitter. You're not neccessarily wrong, you're just being cringe and unstable when bringing it up unprovoked which is why it's a turn off and red flag. Think of it this way, if you were on a date and brought up Hillary Clinton and the girl goes "WOMEN ARE STRONG AND INDEPENDENT AND ARE ABLE TO RUN FOR PRESIDENT." Yeah sure, she isn't wrong she's just being a cringelo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:58 PM
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imo holding ANY outspoken political belief isn't good for dating. It's like being a millitant atheist, you just sound annoying and pretentious as shit. When you're giving unsolicited political opinions everybody knows it's just mental masturbation from some immature clown who thinks they're smart for browsing reddit/4chan. This is why reddit is full of such losers, people here are so religious with their political beliefs and so arrogant about it, any stable man/woman can see it from a mile away…
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:53 PM
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yes, I am. I know it's a dumb hypothetical, but I like to use extreme examples to prove my point about those specific components of attraction. Yeah, I understand your point which is why I had to go a step further and say homeless guy, to PROVE that wealth is a component of attraction. I am aware being hot makes it easier. Disagree, if you're hot it's definitley not enough. You can easily get fat without disciple and plummet (imo) 3 attraction points in 5-6 months. You can become an alcoholic wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:46 PM
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would you post a pic or even a picture of somebody who looks like you so we can at least give honest feedback about your looks department. You sound fit, but chances are you probably look like an average guy. 1/2/3/4 is fantastic! but unless you're doing that for reps you probably just look like an average guy who's secretley strong, whereas those gym rats may not even be as strong as you but because they do splits they look more "shredded" because they aren't focusing on health or strength. As …
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:53 AM
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No offense (really), but I think you're lying to yourself here. Even Brad Pitt would lose a few attraction points being dirty and smelly. I don't think you've really been around poor people enough to understand how much of an effect being wealthy has on you. Lack of education, (general) lack of hygiene, lack of nutrition (destroys the body) and in my extreme example, being homeless you usually smell, are bitter, angry and drunk etc. I'm not just talking about Henry Cavill cosplaying as a homeles…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:12 AM
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>who cares literally everybody in this comment chain? This comment chain was dedicated to this topic so we could discuss our thoughts? Do you go into a gun shop and say "UGH, who CARES about guns?" >women choose Yeah, but that's not the argument here. I could easily say "men choose who they marry, why should we care if their wife cheats on them and wins the case, gets custody and 50% of what he owns." I care about that too. I care because I have empathy and I think we can create solutions for th…
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:04 AM
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Here's my armchair psychology (read: dumbass) analysis on why this happens. In REALITY the guy has no social status, to normal people like you and me looking from the outside. Let's say he's a 1/10 status wise. but he has ruined this girl so bad that he's made her think she's a 0.1/10... this guy may as well be a 10/10 to her. She might even know he's scum, but she's convinced that she's so much worse than scum that he's the best she can get. It's some fucked up shit used by abusive partners all…
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:25 PM
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yeah fair point, although I think I mentioned around 32 being peak, which yeah you're right our opinions are close enough that we're agreeing lol. In that case yes, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:44 PM
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only some women, the loud minority. Also, ofc it's positive reinforcement but it's dangerous because it's insincere. For example "slaaaaay queen" to a disgusting troll is what a sneaky woman does to build up an ugly chick's self confidence so that she can fly too close to the sun and fuck it up. This makes the sneaky chick take out competition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:41 PM
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Because you're "A" woman, you don't represent every woman. It's like if I said "I'm a man, why don't you ask men when I was my hottest?" now it's just your opinion against mine. Also, your example is of a 22 year old girl. If you noticed my previous comment, I'm saying you have a higher sweep of women, not because of your personal preference. At 30 you are more suitable for older women too so you cover a larger range of women from early 30's (imo 23 - 35ish) whereas a 22 year old male covers a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:17 PM
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Agree, but to add to this the whole "I want a 6'6 200k male" female I believe is not even her actually expecting that, but just an attempt to shoot for the moon to hopefully land on the stars somewhere. It's like when job ads ask a 20 year old for 30 years experience but end up settling with an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:34 AM
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I disagree. Mental stability is a component of attraction and mental development comprises of plenty of components. For example, having game, having confidence, being smart, knowing how to treat and please a woman, knowing how to please her friends etc. Also. money absolutely matters to attraction. Are you going to date the 27 year old attractive but dirty homeless guy or date the 30 year old Elon musk? Obviously these are exagerations, but my point is that there definitley IS a component there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:45 AM
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Hey I'm bored so I'll play devils advocate (my responses do not correlate with my actual views so reader be warned.) I will respond to your paragraphs in order to save text space. - I'm not sure what the issue is here, MOST people are trying to make the world better for themselves. That's why celebrities only sponsor charities when they get that particular disease. That's why men on reddit complain about "women are soooooo unreasonable with their standards" because we are trying to help ourselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:59 AM
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I know you're going to say "but I wasn't" but why do you have to shit on the guy by undermining his story lol. Let the bro have his moment. Everybody knows if you look like that guy from the goonies you won't get laid, it's still "impressive" to get a girl to accept a date, chill bro lol.
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:06 AM
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True, I know a late 30's guy married to a young 20's woman. Amazing and beautiful couple but she and her friends have made jokes that he's an "old man". So even though they work there still is that bit of a stigma. It's doable, but you're correct its not "peak" or ideal. Though I will say that men at that age (who look after themselves) do insanely well with women at that age lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:27 AM
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Yeah, true baldness IS a factor. But that's probably a niche component because not every male gets bald plus being bald (if it's even a detriment) still doesn't make up for the fact that in your 30s you're way more adjusted, you're not as aggressive and horny and you probably know how to please a woman by that age. Also, they've sorted out most of their daddy/mommy issues by that age and know how to be mature. You have to be lying to say that women aren't attracted to a more mentally stable man.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:26 AM
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I just realised OP said the number would be on your forehead. I would have to grow a fringe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:15 AM
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wow that was very insightful. This has helped me alot. thanks.
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:14 AM
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agree i just like to hear other peoples perspectives
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:13 AM
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Dude sounds like an idiot. You've got a lot of work on your hands if you stay with him. My opinion on high value men, you can be a low value man and aspire to be high value.. in fact that's more noble than being born successful. BUT, you must never hold another person to a higher standard to yourself, nor must you ever put anybody else down. You should only be critical (logically) to yourself. I'm a medium value man trying to become a high value one, and this where alot of folks get it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:33 AM
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Whoops, my bad. I got that wrong didn't I. I retract my point about "idiots" in that case. Yeah I understand that, but my opinion is that THAT opinion had to stem from somewhere for the man to be insecure about his penis right. So like, a man being insecure and thus becoming neurotic in my opinion is a cultural association because it comes from the "negging" (for lack of better term) from women or media. I mean, practically from a biological perspective there's no real benefit to having a bigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:31 AM
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I would imagine being "used up" as a guy would be a guy who falls/commits too much and is unsuccessful. My reasoning a "used up" girl is somebody who gave away their only means of power in a relationship, which is sex. Where a mans power lies in his commitment to a woman. Basically a desperate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:26 AM
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I don't think anybody disagrees that higher population = more chance in most situations. When we make statements here we can't constantly worry about the limits of every single person on the internet and be like "Oh but you live in nofuckingwhereville, here's a specially catered thread for you." So yes, I agree. We do overlook that factor, and for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:23 AM
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yeah true, but tbh most people don't go to college. SO that isn't the full story. Perhaps young men who are at their highest testosterone peak are just horny and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:21 AM
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>Reddit study Why on Earth would they want to ask for the opinion of idiots? Anyway, I'll unpack this question for you. Big Dick Energy isn't literally about dick size, it's just about swagger and confidence. That's literally all it is, the Big Dick Energy thing is to be new and hip while having the added benefit of negging a male. This study is ass, but also what's more important is the fact that THERE IS NO CORRELATION BETWEEN DICK SIZE AND PERSONALITY, this means that we're basically analyzin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:19 AM
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do you have a 6 pack and make 100k? You don't make money yet because you're still studying, so how is your body? I don't say this to be a dick, I say this because it brings up a valid point. You still have stuff to work on so there's your answer. Unless you're a perfect 10/10 you should constantly be busy working on yourself and it'll solve literally every issue you have with women.
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:24 AM
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but what is the balance between not being needy and showing interest?
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:21 AM
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wtf, we just give advice as a joke. it's not meant to work
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:20 AM
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Though I'd usually agree with you OP, I'd rebuttal by saying that "peak" is subjective. If you mean "peak" in attractiveness then I'd say maybe. That'd depend on the woman, older women yes, but OLDER women maybe not, maybe they want to be a cougar. Younger women, yes.. but YOUNGER like 18-19 probably not, you'd look like their dad. As for the advice, it's not BAD advice it just comes from a stupid place. You shouldn't being working to "get all the girls" because it's unattractive. It's good moti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:17 AM
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Id disagree i say around 30. Reason being is that men mature slower than women and women seem to enjoy men that are older and more put together. Around 30 you're still young enough that you're active, but old enough that you're settling into your career. Now, if you're a 30 year old who took care of himself, then you're probably in the REAL prime of your life. Most people who aren't in their prime at 30 are guys who got married/relationship young got comfortable with kids and an easy job and beg…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:13 AM
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I'm not a bluepiller but my guess is that they really mean "looks don't matter as much as you think" I hear girls say that all the time, but I think what they really mean is that as long as you're not an objective 1-3/10 you have enough other factors to work on that can get you most girls. I see it this way, looks are a single component of a person. If we had 10 components of attraction it means looks are only 1/10 (not exact numbers just an example) and we have another 90% we could focus. In th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:10 AM
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There would be less cheating and initially ALOT of breakups/divorces. Imagine you get home from work and your wifes bodycount went up to 2 from 1 lol. Hookup culture would slowdown because alot of people would be grossed out and alot more wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:33 AM
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