hairwaytostephan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	How to move on		hairwaytostephan	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/17 11:09 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to move on One thing I've been finding useful is therapy. Not marriage therapy, but personal therapy to find out what makes you tick. I also found I was pushing past my comfort zone, until I redefined what it was I was doing. For example, I find small talk pointless. However, once it was reframed as a tactic to get to deeper talk, I was happier doing it. Just a little mental shift is all that is needed sometimes.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/17 10:53 PM
2	How to move on Great advice. Thank you. I've joined a gym. I'm talking to a therapist. I'm planning more trips away. These are things I don't usually do. And sorry to hear about your situation. I guess we eventually find new identities then look back on our old selves as "someone we used to know" I'm trying to stay focused on the day that happens.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/17 02:44 AM
3	How to move on Thankyou. Yes, it hurts to write and live through, too. You're right, I do have a chance for reinvention. One part of me is optimistic on that front.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/17 12:37 AM