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half_brain_bill/r/Divorce_Men27/02/20 02:26 AM
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half_brain_bill/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 02:54 AM
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I haven't used any dating apps but my wife left me when I had stroke that left me disabled. Before going back to the rotten trough of modern women. I would recommend working on yourself;specifically your physical appearance, intellectual aptitude, emotional , and spiritual health. Then just be yourself. Women will come to you. They are not the prize, you are. Women initiate over 70-90% of all divorce. And in your age bracket you will meet a lot of divorced people. If she quit her marriage. She's…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 06:55 AM
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Sorry, but if she’s in her 40’s and divorced then the odds are high that she initiated the divorce. And with kids means she did that intentionally became a single mother. This is not a good woman. 80%custody with no assets? So she just expected to get alimony and child support after the divorce? To support a lifestyle her ex provided? Too much baggage she won’t help carry.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 01:19 AM
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She was/ is another delusional slut who followed the lie that she can make her own happiness by by destroying her kids’ family. but she’s still a woman. All those traits that make a man a narcissist are considered normal in a woman. Focus on your kids and getting them away from her as much as possible. It’s only a matter of Time before she brings home a rapist if she hasn’t already.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 04:57 PM
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She can’t kick you out of a house you own. Do not leave your house. My wife went to court without me(I’m disabled and can’t drive). It was uncontested so all the terms were hers. She wanted assets to split so we sold the house and moved into separate places.she took the kids with her. Now I hardly ever see them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 08:45 PM
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Even guys who hate their ex’s know that cooperating with destroying of their kids’ family especially when it means breaking a vow. We are men. We hold ourselves accountable and honor our commitments especially when they are hard. We would all lie down in traffic for our kids. Advising someone with kids to divorce is something our exes girlfriends did because they know that having a single mom with them when they’re out being whores will make it was for them. Guys try to encourage each other to b…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 12:15 AM
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You have kids so you really need to get some counseling together. I was in a very similar situation except that I had a massive stroke and my wife divorced me. L she claims it was because of how I treated her before the stroke, but it’s no mystery why she suddenly got the motivation to get the divorce after I was disabled. Your wife checked out of your marriage a while ago, probably when your first kid was born I honestly don’t know what I ever really married my wife for. She’s boring and not su…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 12:05 AM
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Live with your kid. I was Lmarried for 12 with two kids. I lived in a separate room but in the same house for three years. I am disabled so when she divorced me we moved into separate places and the kids went with her due to my disability. Now I see my kids on her schedule. We have a peaceful relationship so she still tries to keep me in our kids’ lives. If I wasn’t disabled I wouldn’t have left my home but since she let the house fall into disrepair while we were in separate rooms I could not m…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 02:09 PM
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Mine just went and got the divorce. I am disable andcould not get to the hearing it was decided as uncontested si she could take whatever she wanted. She agreed to split everything with me although she never paid a dime into it took half my disability payments as child support and tried to get alimony. At least the judge denied that. She still cried victim and thinks she’s a saint for not taking more.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 04:37 PM
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My wife divorced me after I had a stroke and became disabled. I was 38 and in great shape. She waited until the four year anniversary of my stroke to finalize the divorce without me being present. She moved out with our kids and still wants to be treated like a saint because she didn’t take more of the nothing I was left with after the stroke. She was dating less than six months after she divorced me.you can’t fill a hole in someone’s soul. I don’t know her motivations and I don’t need to. She d…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:14 PM
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“Trading up is the result of a woman treating arelationship like a transaction. Which is sociopathic. If this is truly the way you think things went for you than you do need to reset your life without the dead weight of your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:06 PM
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She’s already destroyed one man’s life. She’s just going to destroy yours too. Over 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Probably hers too. She lied to you because she thinks you’re an easy mark. Get out now while it’s still cheap
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 11:23 PM
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She still believes that she is a good person just because she lets me see them at all and only went after the money that was the kids’ portion of my disability payments. She was dating someone less than six months after the divorce. Half my brain might be dead but I’m not so unaware that she’s probably been sleeping around for a very long time based on patterns I can see without rose colored glasses.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 12:37 AM
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I can’t even remember why I got married. I think I thought that I would be able to have a future with this woman but she obviously didn’t share my feelings on what commitment is. So I guess I fell into the “sunk cost fallacy and married her just to validate my own bad decision to commit to her in the first place.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 12:18 AM
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Not my monkeys, not my circus. My ex started dating in less than six months. She brings that guy to stuff for our kids like performances and to her fathers for celebration. I could not care less that this dude is blowing her back out or even for how long. But he can fuck right off if he thinks they are going to try and act like I walked away from my kids. She destroyed our family. Those are my kids. He needs tostay away from my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 09:32 PM
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Titanium melts. It’s just not worth doing most of the time unless you’re making castingsBurying it seems just as effective.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 09:24 PM
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My wife took mine. good riddance.I would never make it an heirloom. It was a gold band inside a tungsten band. Nothing fancy but it looked cool and I’d rather my kids be able to pawn it than whatever she did with it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 09:20 PM
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My wife divorced me and got de facto full custody of our kids because i am disabled and couldn’t get to the court that day. and now we don’t live in the same house anymore since part of her demands was that we sell the house and split the proceeds. With each of us having to provide for half of our kid’s’ education.I’ve been living separately from her in an assisted living home. She rents a condo with our kids. I see them when she feels like letting me. I found a price of land in the kids school …
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 04:43 PM
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I’m disabled and my wife went and got the divorce in the four year anniversary of the event that caused my disability. I have never signed anything for the divorce. The only time I got on my knees was only one knee the time I proposed. I don’t apologize for things that are not my fault and I do not have to cooperate with someone else’s delusions. She tore our family apart. Not me. I want my kids to have a dad. Even a disabled one. Considering what happened. I should be dead or a vegetable. But I…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 02:48 AM
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Why did she get an IUD if you’re not having sex? Stick to your guns about no sex with her. You made the same mistake we all did and got our good natures preyed on by evil people. If you were the horrible person she tells herself you are-then why was she with you?
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 09:33 PM
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Try to reconcile, see if couples therapy helps.divorce is messy and expensive. And you Will get screwed by the courts.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 10:03 PM
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While we were in the process of moving out she took everything she could I let her have it all her dad helped her and she either donated everything or sold it for
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/23 03:57 PM
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My wife divorced me without my involvement. Then moved out with our kids. I’m disabled and it was decided that I couldn’t maintain the house by myself, but that was just another excuse to keep me away from my kids. I listened to the wrong people and ended up moving out of the house and helped sell it. I regret that part, but I don’t regret not getting involved in my divorce.I will not return to her or allow her to return to me. I was living a fool’s paradise for most of our relationship and as s…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 04:53 PM
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I’m in CT and the first weekend after my wife divorced me she took the kids out of state to her family’s house who I didn’t know but I do know her cousin is in jail for murder and I don’t have any way to contact them or even what the address was. I should have called the police as soon as I realized they were missing but she did tell me where she was going the morning she took them. Unfortunately I am disabled and can’t drive due to extreme brain damage.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 07:45 PM
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Get a live in nanny and adopt kids or take care of a siblings kids. Rent pussy. When either stop trying stop paying them. Make yourself as high value as possible. You will have everything a marriage is supposed to get you at a discount.except maybe a partner in old age or sickness. But that’s not a certainty. I had a massive stroke at 38 and my wife divorced me and took everything including my kids. I didn’t have anything to do with the divorce except entering the marriage. My situation is compl…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 12:37 AM
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Lawyer up. Figure out your priorities and values and make plans and decisions based on those. She is going to leave you and she’s been planning to for at least the last 10 years. Women initiate 50-90% of divorce and she wants to buy a new house near her family and this seems random to you. It’s not random to her. I don’t know anything about you or your relationship; we are strangers on the internet. It would be foolish for you to take advice from anyone who is unfamiliar with you and your marria…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 04:36 PM
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If they married a guy with those issues they probably had/have the same ones unless he was abusing them physically. But I’ve seen enough”abusive men” getting arrested because she called the cops then literally hit the guy until the cops showed up to throw the guy in jail because h was holding her arms down to keep her from hitting him. But I was in the military. Guys marry pretty young and neither have left home before. Psychotic behavior is normal on both sides. I was navy and we called the tim…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 07:58 PM
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I hope you have already called the suicide prevention hotline. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.l it won’t fix your marriage but will definitely scar your wife further.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 11:24 PM
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It was a few months before she divorced me but suddenly wanted to collect vinyl records and go to record swapping shows. I was always the one who liked music more and we saw a lot of shows together before the divorce and I bought a really nice record player for the vinyl I already had. But she was not interested in getting more until about 6 months before I had a stroke that triggered the divorce. She started dating someone less than a year after the divorce but I have never talked to him to fin…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 01:44 PM
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You didn’t fail at anything. She’s been taking advantage of your kindness and honesty, knowing you weren’t going to break your vows while she was looking for a way out since you showed her a ring.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 10:40 PM
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She has been cheating on you. The other responses have said everything already. Retain a lawyer Monday.she already has.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 10:35 PM
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I hasn’t done any group therapy but if I did I would leave if there were women there. They probably initiated the divorce and have no interest in doing anything but justifying why they broke their vows and stole half of their partners life.I don’t trust women in general but that goes double for divorced women. So I guess I’m saying not to go back. Unless the women haven’t hit the wall yet or have legally aged daughters. Younger women are super slutty theses days keep your feelings at a distance.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 01:57 PM
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50-80% of divorce is initiated by women. So odds are that any divorced woman you meet will put her immediate desire to be “happy”, which will change as necessary, over everything else in her life including her children having a stable home or keeping any promises. You can assume they are narcissistic borderline sociopaths. We were fooled by our own delusion that the woman we married wasn’t any of those things but because our ex wives knew we wouldn’t break our vows they took advantage of our com…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:08 PM
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I once heard that a relationship has been over for half the time it went on. That theory fits right in with my situation.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:37 AM
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Read the Bible and live it’s principles. It’s the most important book in history and the bedrock of western civilization. There are podcasts that will read it to you while you’re at the gym. I recommend the Bible in a year with Fr Mike Schmitz.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 02:44 AM
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Scorched earth. Keep your rant on her confined to the subject at hand, her. You will be talking to a woman so keep your words small and idea’s simple preferably framed in a way that puts the emphasis on her feelings. It’s her favorite thing to tak ap
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 04:29 PM
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Be the asshole This it’s not child support. You are paying to keep her fighting you. My ex wife finalized our divorce without me even being present in the courtroom. She’s a paralegal and knows enough about the system to do all the paperwork herself. But since I’m disabled(she did this on the 4 year anniversary of my having survived a massive stroke)and couldn’t get to the courthouse. The divorce went “Uncontested”. So now our kids live with her and I have to send her half of my disability money…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/23 03:18 PM
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Don’t use military legal. I was Navy. the Jag works for the command, not you. They will stonewall you and run out the clock on your civilian legal issues. I’ve had some traction with the legal services through the VA but they are pretty inconsistent.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 01:18 PM
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Wow, I thought my ex was the only one taking my kids hostage. Mine divorced me by going to the court without me and filed all the paperwork herself because she’s a paralegal and knows all the clerks by name I’m disabled and cannot drive myself). She takes my kids’ disability payments as child support because the live with her. Then she overspends and hits me up for more money. Because she knows I’ll give it to her “for the kids”. We don’t have a structured parenting plan although she files paper…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 02:09 AM
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I heard a guy say that when a relationship ends it’s been ending for half as long as it lasted so a ten year relationship was dying for 5 and so on. The tough thing is that you don’t know the halfway mark until it’s over. Mine hits just about when our first kid was born. Which makes sense in retrospect. It’s the moment she had to accept that we were truly committed to each other.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 06:42 PM
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Don’t get me started about me too and body positivity.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 04:15 PM
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That’s redundant.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 12:31 AM
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My wife finalized our divorce on the 4 year anniversary of a massive double stroke I survived. I didn’t go to court to contest it because I can’t drive due to my disability. She works in the legal field so did all the filings herself and I didn’t get a lawyer due to being on disability with no money. She was pretty easy on me considering she could have done whatever she wanted financially. Although she did take full custody of our kids without actually putting it in writing that she has full cus…
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 04:30 PM
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You are not dealing with an adult. You are dealing with a woman who feels entitled to everything you have and is generous when leaving you half. It’s all just stuff. Do everything to keep your kids from being alienated and let her live in the miserable world she made for herself. You didn’t need her and you don’t now. Pay exactly what the court tells you to and nothing more.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 04:35 PM
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She is setting you up. Get away and try for full custody. Just making the attempt at that will make her show her intentions she’s been lying to you for years planning this divorce. It’s not an accident. You married a narcissistic mask. She probably doesn’t even know when she’s lying.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 03:09 PM
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Too dumb and stubborn to stop getting up on the morning. The stroke left me with half a brain and only 40%blood flow to what is not dead. I was in very good shape before the stroke so what blood does get to my brain gets it enough oxygen to function at a decent level.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 11:10 PM
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My biggest issue is that I was married to someone who didn’t want me to get better. I don’t even have a computer. My ex took it with her”for the kids”. Oh well. I’ll figure it out.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 11:05 PM
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My son asked me if I was going to get a girlfriend because his mom has a boyfriend. I just told him that I’m not because I’m still married to his mom. Just because she didn’t mean her vows doesn’t mean I didn’t mean mine. Even if I did.unintentionally make vows of chastity. I was on submarines for 7 years. I don’t need sex or even feminine contact and most of my family is female anyway so I have plenty of female influence on my kids that isn’t from a narcissist trying to alienate them from their…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 10:52 PM
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Don’t leave. She will cry abandonment and try to take the whole house.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 12:39 PM
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Not in her mind. To hear her tell it, I was being a very bad husband before the stroke after I was even worse. I still have most of my long term memory and a friend who I confided in before my stroke that has confirmed with me that I was, in fact, a good husband and father. I worked myself literally to death to build a future for my family and we were living in one of the top five school districts in the nation so our kids could have every opportunity. She divorced me and took that from them. Sh…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 12:13 PM
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Im right there with you. I had a massive stroke Four years ago and my wife destroyed my finances while I tried to recover. Then she finalized the divorce by herself in the exact fourth year anniversary of my stroke. I couldn’t move out on my own, I’m disabled. She had me living in the guest room for the past 3 years. My family helped me move into a memory care facility(literally half my brain is dead). Now I see my kids only when she feels like bringing us together. I guess I’m just trying to te…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 12:28 AM
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It will try, but she won’t learn them. Keep what is yours and don’t settle for a woman that doesn’t share your values. I aimed down and paid the price for settling.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 10:06 PM
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My ex thinks she took $10k out of her 401k to make the down payment on our $300k home with $260k in equity. She once said I could buy her out for $10k but changed her mind suddenly and now wants to split the profit from the sale. I’m disabled and she divorced me without my signing any paperwork.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 09:37 AM
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Basset. Just the best temperament. Affectionate but not needy
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 01:38 AM
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Have a stroke and be dependent on wife for transportation. Wife goes to divorce hearing withoutme. Divorce is finalized as uncontested. Wife takes primary caregiver of children visiting at her discretion.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 12:10 AM
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Yep. Selfish, lazy,and oblivious to life are standard with women. And dishonest.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 02:47 PM
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Roman Catholic. She is baptized Greek Orthodox but never practiced. We were married in the Roman rite.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:59 PM
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It is never unethical to tell the truth unless that troth will directly and intentionally harm another person “ don’t tell the mass shooter where everyone is hiding. Even if they ask”.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 05:29 PM
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Because no-fault divorce is a thing and breaking vows means nothing to someone who only married to take half of your stuff when they don’t see you giving them the life they want to show off.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 08:18 PM
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This is so close to my situation it’s nuts. I had a stroke 4 years ago and she moved me into the guest room and told me we’re separated as far as she was concerned. I am about 90% independent and we have on the 4year anniversary of my stroke she finalized our divorce because I couldn’t get to court for the hearing ( I can’t drive). Now we are negotiating our parenting plan while I prepare to move out of the house we jointly own but can’t afford individually I know it’s a bad move to leave the ho…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 12:12 PM
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She was just adding more justifications for her to quit. I’ve heard that a breakup started halfway through the full length of a relationship so a ten year relationship fell aperto at five years, a six year at 3 and so on. Even a 1week or 1 year relationship seems to follow this.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 03:03 PM
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You can’t make her a better woman. Be a better man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 12:16 AM
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Thanks for this post. My ex wife divorced me uncontested because I am disabled and could not get to the court. She’s a paralegal and knows the system well enough to get everything done without my signature. She worked out her own parenting plan with the judge that gave her half my disability payments and now wants to change it to get our house. I’m getting a lawyer to go to court for me as soon as I can but it’s pretty expensive. And I can’t work right now.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 01:46 PM
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No fat chicks.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 10:16 PM
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Does not have hobbies.”reading” isn’t a hobby. Also, if she is rude to people in the service industry.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 10:05 PM
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Don’t be too rough on yourself. You were in a bad-faith relationship and you kept up your end. I don’t know where you are religiously, but In my religion I have to behave as though I am still married for the rest of my life. So my vows of marriage have become vows of chastity. As long as I have my kids and my family I will be fine. My wife was never very affectionate
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 09:07 PM
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I let her mother have too much influence on raising our kids. I also assumed she wasn’t lying on our wedding day. I married her forever. She married me until she felt like not being married anymore. She divorced me on the four year anniversary of a massive stroke I survived.I was 37. I don’t know how long she was planning on divorcing me but it was never something I ever considered.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 05:25 PM
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I couldn’t get my shit together in time so I missed the hearing. My wife worked out a pretty good deal for herself and didn’t take as much as she could have in still getting screwed but it’s all just stuff. Im disabled from a stroke I had 4 years ago ( the same date as my divorce). Now my family is involved in getting me moved on with my life. It’s been two Months. I’m moving forward. I won’t stop. I have kids watching.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 11:48 AM
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The judge granted her the divorce and now I have to move out of my own house.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 01:22 AM
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Suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary problem. Wherever there is life there is hope. Sorry for answering with bumper stickers but I don’t know anything about you except that you’re suicidal and divorced. Remember that your worst day or act doesn’t define you. In the United States There is a suicide prevention number you should call. 1-800-273-TALK
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 01:03 AM
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Thanks. I’m actually in very good health other than some stubborn after effects of the stroke. I was 37 when it happened and in really good shape. One of my first doctors I had after the stroke even told me that all of my tests showed”world class athlete numbers. Based on the size and dues of the stroke my va physical condition probably saved my life.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 04:49 PM
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I survived a massive stroke. She’s been abusing me mentally and emotionally ever since. That was 4years ago. She finalized the divorce with our me signing papers. I can’t drive and she went to all of the court dates without me. Then I got a letter saying that the state had dissolve our marriage and we were both single. It’s hard to figure out when she’s lying since I didn’t ever think she would lie to me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 04:39 PM
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There is literally no reason to get married as a man unless you’re religious. Don’t even live together. She will try to pull some kind of “common- law” marriage b.s to take half your stuff once she gets told she can do it by one of her friends she trusts more than you. I’ve seen it happen more than once. It’s like squatter’s rights to your money and time. Its basically that the state recognizes you two as married because you lived together and “shared” resources for a certain amount of time. The…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:05 PM
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Try and fail. Try again, trybetter. Fail again ,failbetter.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 01:00 PM
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$175/week after bills is pretty good. People have mentioned Uber or Lyft I’ve seen guys do that just to produce some extra income and had good luck with them. Especially when they figured out the system. Bartending on weekends will get you some good extra income. Flipping things you can get for cheap or free by just selling after getting them and washing them. Like couches, furniture or toys.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/22 05:05 PM
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Being late is such a huge red flag. If she can’t manage her time we’ll enough to get someplace she is expected than her life is in disarray. And she has no regard for other peoples time.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 07:50 PM
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He doesn’t need evidence to arrest you sounds like something the cop said to get you to give him “probable cause”. It is heart wrenching when you have to miss a. Important event in your kids’ lives.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 03:43 AM
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I’m going through a similar situation. It’s a little more complicated because I’m disabled and my wife has been taking care of the household while I have been unable to work. Even do, I do receive LOng termdisability payments from my former employer and my entire SSDI check goes to the mortgage(that she insists to pay late). She has always worked so we never officially combined our accounts although I always, foolishly, trusted her enough to give her access to my accounts. She used this informat…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 02:21 PM
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It’s only splurging if you can’t afford it. Sounds like you’re fine and shouldn’t feel guilty.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 03:09 PM
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Don’t live with her before you get married. Make sure you share values and not just interests. Make decisions based on what you want and not what you think she wants.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 06:28 PM
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No, she would lose my Disability payments qnd would have to find childcare for afternoons.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/20 02:38 PM
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What is a SAHM?
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/20 02:36 PM
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