| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 50 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating. | half_recent | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/20 11:16 PM | |
| 31 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences? | half_recent | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 09:45 AM | |
| 13 | Is the juice worth the squeeze? | half_recent | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 02:58 AM | |
| 3 | Real talk, is abundance a myth? | half_recent | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:21 AM | |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth? | Conversation | half_recent | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 04:17 AM |
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| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Appreciate you taking the time to write this man. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?This was well written, I read all of it. Thanks for taking the time. I have some personal hangups with the way rp usually explains abundance, but this take seems much more reasonable. Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Maybe not, I'll think about it though. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Sure. I don't completely align with red pill, but I find some of its ideas useful. I feel like strongly identifying with any group is dangerous. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Thank you for the response, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Thank you for responding, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:48 AM |
| 0 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?I'm not here to argue with you. I'm not gonna go into my post history, I don't care what you think about it. I'm asking you if you've personally achieved abundance because I'm skeptical. If you don't want to answer that's ok. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Thank you for responding. Have you experienced abundance specifically in dating in your own life? I'm asking this because I understand abundance as a concept, but I'm skeptical. I don't think most people who speak about it have achieved it. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Have you personally achieved abundance? | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?To answer your question, no. But so far in terms of finding someone with shared physical and mental attraction the search has been difficult. Not to be a downer, but I also heard it's more difficult to meet women outside of school. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.You're kind of missing the point here man. I wouldn't be holding myself to the standards I do of there wasn't a reason to do so. People want a partner who's healthy and attractive. I'm not externalising anything. It's reality. I'm not trying to be a dick, but I don't think you got what I was saying so I'll reiterate. My issue is that "looks don't matter" is a comfortable lie. People like you will give some convoluted explanation for why this isn't the case, but it clearly is. If you deny it, you… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?This is 200% where I'm coming from, thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?No, I do care. Men do care. I've interacted with a lot of men and women and most of both are shitty. Women don't have a higher capacity for empathy than men. The thing is empathy is important, but only when it's coming from someone you care about. Having empathy for someone and only that is good if you just wanna be friends, but I'm not looking for that. Why do you think the red pill exists? Guys follow the status quo of "being a good person" and it doesn't work. Or their last partner cheated on… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?I appreciate you opening up about your abuse, I might have to take a break for a little bit. Thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?I really appreciate you commenting with compassion instead of chastising me. Thanks for the perspective, have a good one. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Yeah that's true, appreciate the response | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.No insults and a sound argument? Am I on the right website? You got me beat here dude. There's a part of me that wants to discredit what you're saying, I'm skeptical. I've not experienced this, but you seem to know what you're talking about. Appreciate you taking the time. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Hmm yeah this is a valid take. I appreciate that you met me in the middle here. Still though, if not looks than what are people attracted to? How do we know that this something else is not just a rationalization? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.I'm gonna give you some credit here man, this is really well thought out. Out of all of the comments here, this is probably my favorite. I'm gonna respond to this in two parts. You're right, I'm probably rationalizing but your interpretation is off. I don't have the best luck with dating, so yeah I am frustrated. I think a lot of guys can relate. So about the interpretation, I'm not scared that there might be something else. But what is that something else? How do you develop it? How do we know … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Right there with you, thanks for the input. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Good points, I appreciate that you took the time to comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Good points, appreciate the response man. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.That's a good point. I'm not the kind of guy that shits on bigger girls regularly but I get that might've been the way it came off in the moment. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Appreciate the response man, so I'm gonna try and respond to this as best I can. So I feel like you're strawmanning me in the second portion of your post. I said before that looks aren't everything but they are important for both sexes. This doesn't mean that I'm looking for Scarlett Johansen, it means that I'm being realistic. If you're someone that genuinely prioritizes inner beauty that's great, you're better than me. I'm kind of in the middle of the spectrum, and I think most people are like… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.100 percent legitimate take, appreciate the perspective. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.That's completely true. I appreciate your comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 3 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Hey man if you've got a compelling argument feel free to elaborate. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Appreciate the honesty, my bad I should've communicated better. All the stuff about respect and love is good. What I meant was that respect and love is the bare minimum, and that's not a bad thing. You just need to have things besides that you know. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 10:57 AM |
| 5 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Man I love that username. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 10:32 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.This is true, it sucks because society judges them harder for stuff like this. I'm not gonna lie, being able to speak my mind as a guy and not be witch hunted for it is a privilege I fully appreciate. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Yeah there's a lot of credit to what you're saying, I guess there's no clear answer because there's a huge grey area here imo. The thing is if you tell someone looks don't matter and they're desperate, they'll believe it. The red pill is fucked up in a lot of ways but it's the only dating sub on reddit which doesn't seem like bullshit. If your friends, family, and dating_advice bullshit you into thinking all you need to be is a "nice guy" to get women, you'll never actually get anywhere. Not try… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:38 AM |
| 3 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.I've experienced this lol. You're right a partner doesn't have to check off all the boxes. I know for me and a lot of people that have struggled with dating it's important to emphasize that people still do have standards you know? Cause now it's an obvious thing for me, but if I was a teenager I would've used what you're saying as an excuse to not improve myself. I'd rather an overweight 16 year old kid hit the gym and focus on his grades than spend his time chasing girls who don't care about hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:29 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.100 percent, agreed. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:16 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Appreciate the response brother, spot on. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Hey man, sounds like you're killing it. Good for you, really appreciate your input. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Haha thanks man | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.This is 100 percent true, to be attractive you need to be someone of value. Appreciate the response! | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 04:04 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Thank you! | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.100 percent. For some people, their standards for their partners are way too high. Imo the best solution is just to recognize this sort of stuff and move on. I agree that for myself, there's always room for improvement. But if I have to curate my personality for sex/relationships it's not fun for me anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Appreciate the reply man. I just know this kind of opinion isn't really politically correct haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 03:12 AM |
| 3 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Yeah that's kind of a scary thought. But you're correct, that's definitely a part of attraction. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Thanks for the response dude. It's good to know I'm not alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 12:03 AM |
| 14 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Thanks for the response man. That is true. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 4 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.Appreciate the response man. About the whole unconventionally attractive thing, unconventionally attractive is still attractive you know? I think as long as the average person takes care of themselves they can be attractive. Things like being out of shape are dealbreakers for most people. The reason I think people don't like this idea is because we view relationships romantically. We lie to ourselves about our primal urges. We make out love into this fictional, esoteric, pure emotional connectio… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, so red pill people are voting me down for this so maybe yall got some advice:I know what you're talking about. You're on a date with a girl and she treats you like an object. Next her, she's not relationship material. You can meet people congrats. Now the bitter reality is meeting people you're on the same wavelength with is difficult. Making good friends is difficult and dating especially as a guy is difficult. Even if you meet these people, it doesn't guarantee that they'll stay. If you wanna create that connection with somebody you need to be persistent and patient. S… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Yeah, so red pill people are voting me down for this so maybe yall got some advice:I can definitely relate to this sort of thing. I'm similar. I think an irrefutable part of the red pill is that you need to have value as a person to be loved. Its not even women too, anybody who dates is looking for someone who's their best option. Someone who's entertaining, good looking etc. You gotta give some credit to fuckboys though, they go for what they want. They don't apologise for it. I don't think you have to be an asshole to get what you want. Just be straightforward. If you wanna … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences?Yeah I can't really get along with healthy people, talking with somebody positive feels like I'm talking about a TV show. It's not reality to me, and it feels isolating. I meet most of these women at school, I know to avoid bars already haha Thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences?It's really hard fighting the apathy man. Every situation feels so hopeless. I'm trying though, thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences?You have a point honestly. A big reason I'm discouraged from dating is cause it's so hard to have mutual attraction with no games or drama. I feel like overall guys are held to a much higher standard than women these days, and a lot of people like to pretend that isn't the case. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 12:26 PM |
| 6 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences?True, thanks for the help appreciate it | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 11:24 AM |
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