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That’s what I’m asking. The red flags. How you bring it up. A lot of men don’t feel like barely legal or teen porn is a bad thing, trust me lol like 99% of those guys don’t even hide it. If you asked a lot of them would answer proudly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:18 AM
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I’m asking how can you tell? People get married to men that date age appropriate and those guys jack off to 16 year olds anyways. See r/loveafterporn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:19 AM
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Bad advice. Not the “don’t date older” part but the “until you age out” see r/loveafterporn. read stories of married men jacking off to teen porn. You aging out of it =/= him not having the fetish. Men your exact age and younger are monsters too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:50 AM
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Wow. That’s gross asf. See this is why I’m asking. I don’t trust any guy to not be a monster. Sorry that happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:07 AM
1

Thank you so so so much. This is what I was looking for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:06 AM
2

Ooo good advice. Ty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:05 AM
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Yeah but how can you tell if he does not have mentioned fetish. This isn’t about age gaps. It’s about the gross Barely legal fetish men have convinced themselves is natural. The most sadistic guy I’ve ever been with was younger. Why should anyone be trusting of any man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:51 AM
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No lol. I’m talking about like, gross men with teen fetishes. Like genuinely into teens and want the taboo of being with a kid. There’s nothing wrong with finding early 20’s women attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:44 AM
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Untrue lol. You just don’t know people that well. See r/love after prom. Grown men married watching teen porn 24/7. Men will marry a 45 year old woman and then jack off fo 16 year olds. Why are young guys off the hook for FDS? I don’t even get it. This happened to you. Why can’t I be worried about the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:29 PM
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How do I know a 20 year old guy won’t have that fetish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:27 PM
1

Thank you for taking care of your own mental health ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:02 PM
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I don’t trust men so just asking would not be enough. Hence why I posted that question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:48 PM
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16 is not underaged in a lot of places. And 18 is of age in most places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:44 PM
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You literally wouldn’t believe me that a 36 year old man I knew in person said that To me while a teen porn continues to be an extremely popular category. Why act shocked? Men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:25 PM
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Barely legal, also referred to as teen porn. The age 18 being a fetish. Teenagers being a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:19 PM
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Thanks. Never met up with him. We had a few phone calls and now I definitely won’t. However my question still stands, even if he was 20. How do I know these things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:18 PM
2

I might have responded to th3 wrong comment. I don’t get why you are baffled. Soooooo many men are monsters and proud of it. Any guy who watches that shit should be on a watchlist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:08 PM
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It is absolutely dense to think there are men who aren’t proud of their teen fetishes as how normalized literal pedophilia is. No man is off the hook. Not one my age. Not one a decade or a century older. All of them I’m suspicious of. I’ve known younger men who are absolute monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:06 PM
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Yeah ugh I don’t get that. I don’t want to let young guys off the hook. “Just date your exact age” is really good advice but...why should I trust men my exact age to not be monsters? Check out r/loveafterporn. Saw a woman saying she found out her husband jacked off to a 17 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:05 PM
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Yes all the time. Why is it shocking that a man that I knew irl admitted to 18 year old me that he liked teenagers and that was his fetish. Monsters all around us. Is 18/19 not a teenager anymore? Barely legal category is literally just loophole child porn. There are younger and older men who watch it. If I was seeing an 18 year old guy, he could have that predatory fetish too. You just don’t know. No age is off limits to being predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:03 PM
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You literally said I date people a decade and am at fault for it. Why would you even talk to a girl you believe is so young with so much resentment? It’s painfully obvious you don’t care. It’s not a two way street with predatory men, ever. There’s no “two sides” with predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:58 PM
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I’m not dating anyone wtf. It was a hypothetical question. Like 90% of guys are weird as fuck and do have teen fetishes. I’ve met men proud about their attraction to kids. Incredibly dense to think Barely legal porn consumers don’t want to fuck 16 year olds. Of course they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:54 PM
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good idea. Thanks so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:50 PM
6

Then what’s with “YOURE the one dating guys a decade older” when I’m not? Why would the 18 year old be at fault for a predatory man admitting he likes 16 year olds. He was way more than a decade older than me. In his 30’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:47 PM
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You are amazing thank you. I just don’t want to let guys my age off the hook either. I just don’t trust anyone to not be a monster. Someone recommended I date men my own height (?) but why would they be any better. You are so right in that when you have to tiptoe around people so they don’t get angry at you for tough discussions, it’s a red flag in itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:45 PM
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He said it through IG dms but I knew him in person. No we weren’t dating. No I didn’t have any interest in dating him. Even if I did, as a 18/19 year old...the blame would be on the male not the naive young woman, wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:42 PM
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Perfect thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:41 PM
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Yeah she was really upset about my height. I’m not trustworthy that any guy isn’t a monster regardless of his height and age. Call me paranoid I guess. And that’s a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:40 PM
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How can you know the guy your age doesn’t have that fetish? It all begins somewhere. Edit: saw your post history. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:39 PM
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Wtf. I wasn’t dating him. He was coming onto me. I was like 18. “Youre the one dating guys a decade older than you do don’t come for anyone on this sub.” Even if I was dating a 36 year old as an 18 year old, would the blame be on me or the 36 year old that came onto me? I don’t get it. I thought this sub was all pro-woman and anti-gross old men. Now I would be at fault for dating an older gross guy at 18? I didn’t have any interest in him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:39 PM
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Ew...I hope you stopped talking to that friend. I am so sorry this happens to you. What does your mom do if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:53 PM
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“I’m into Barely legal porn” = I want to fuck teenagers. 18/19 is a teenager. Also those girls are made up to look much younger. Even the guy who admitted to me he is attracted to 16 year olds said he thinks it’s normal and quoted some study. Said all men watch teen porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:50 PM
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Are you seriously this dense lmfao? A lot of guys don’t even see anything wrong with it. I’ve had a 30 something year old man tell me he loves it for the taboo and is attracted to 16 year olds. Men being disgusting isn’t new. I’ve known so many pedos. Barely legal is literally just a fetish for kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:41 PM
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A lot of men who have it don’t lie in my experience because it is such a popular porn category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:29 PM
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Yeah but how do you even find that out is my question. Literally what I said is I don’t want a guy who watches that shit. How would I know he does? How do I bring it up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:00 AM
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Yeah she is absurd. She keeps mentioning my height. It seems personal for her. She really does not like tall men dating short women. “Guys around your height won’t have those fantasies” wtaf. There are no short pedos now? So I have to date a guy that is 5’5? I don’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:27 AM
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That is ridiculous lol. “Short guys won’t have those fantasies” I’ve known short guys with weird fantasies. A 5’5 guy once got mad at me because I don’t like “silver foxes” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:02 AM
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Yes but my question is, how does one check. For any age. Mine, younger etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:56 AM
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Exactly the answer I was looking for. I think it’s strange too so I will ask him before I take it any further. However this is a general question. I want to know even if I was with a younger guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:43 AM
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I’m not asking for advice on just him. Just generally. Even if I was dating my age exactly I’d still want to know. How do you find out? How do you bring it up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:35 AM
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I live in Canada so I can drink, otherwise you are 100%. There isn’t really many guys I can think of that aren’t comfortable dating a 20 year old which is gross too. However, my question is for any guy. Like if I was dating even a 21 year old how do I know he isn’t a weirdo? :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:34 AM
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You’re 24. You’re older than a lot of us. Everyone ages, if that’s what you feel so superior about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:22 AM
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You are NOT a lawyer LMAO. It’s so painfully obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:18 AM
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Yup. If she’s smart at 25 she will want a guy her own age. Doubt she’ll have daddy issues and want a 40 year old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:30 AM
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It’s extremely rare to find any even slightly attractive poly people. Speaks volumes lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:01 AM
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I’ve seen this before lmao. Poly men are extremely unsuccessful on dating apps etc. It’s just so desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:59 AM
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Polyamorous people are the biggest sex pests. Even the women will try to get you to sleep their husbands. Also, any man that allows his girlfriend to get fucked by other men without any hint of jealousy is sus to me. I mean...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:58 AM
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^ this. The 7 year age gap isn’t helping here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:05 AM
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Either a bot or someone with a type lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:54 AM
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I didn’t respond to him but he said he got busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:39 AM
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I mean as a 23 year old woman you can go down to 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:16 AM
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I kind of disagree! I think a lot of average looking guys pull beautiful women easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:55 AM
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That’s an idiot assumption. I said I was exposed to it. I love your refusal to delete that comment over 3 upvotes. Jesus
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 10:58 PM
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I wasn’t talking to you — you’ve been perfectly kind. I was talking to the other guy who keeps telling people I was raped at 11 and is obsessed with my story because he has no life of his own.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 08:32 PM
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I’m not miserable though. I don’t have a lot of sex - hence why I said no to the guys.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 06:02 PM
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He eventually stopped - first guy didn’t. It happened to me, so it’s my call. You’re the same person lying about what age I got raped at (which you admitted was a lie, still refused to delete) and calling me insane. Why do you even care? How does any of this effect you LOL?
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 04:39 PM
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Not going to take advice from someone miserable, sorry.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 04:24 PM
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You linked me for literally no reason when you know I didn’t call that experience rape. This is on you lol. Don’t play victim.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:39 PM
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Ok yes hello - I’m OP. I was raped in May of 2019. I had an unrelated bad incident afterwards which I never considered nor referred to as rape. I wrote a post in r/nofap Someone responded about how there needs to be women need to learn self defence, to this I agreed. I said that a man had shoved himself in me while I said no and had not prior given my consent. I hit his chest until he stopped. He did shove himself back in but I hit his chest and said no again and he stopped. Unpleasant experienc…
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:22 PM
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Because people are mixing up two different incidents lol. I talked about being raped in my original post on r/nofap and then mentioned in the comments about how there was a separate experience I had where I had to hit a guy a ton of times to make him stop. He just gave up. I never referred to it as rape. Just unpleasant. People started screenshotting it and reposting it, saying I naked (I wasn’t) and “spread” (I wasn’t) and that I’m lying (I’m not.) do with that information what you will
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:12 PM
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No, no consent was given. I wasn’t naked either. I guess it is rape but he stopped eventually and I’m not traumatized by it. The time I was actually raped the guy refused to stop no matter how many times I hit him and begged. This was an unrelated incident I wrote about briefly in respects to self defence.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:10 PM
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It was a little rapey yes but honestly my way to cope is just to call it an unpleasant experience. He apologized afterwards. I don’t think I’m the man hater this subreddit wants me to be. I’ve been raped before and people are purposefully misconstruing my words so they have Can talk about false rape accusations.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 01:59 PM
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I didn’t call it rape. I just said it was an unpleasant experience.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 01:51 PM
1

I didn’t say that lmao
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 01:51 PM
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That’s what I’m saying, though. That there’s no “wall” if you take care of yourself. That age means nothing if you’re attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:06 PM
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Megan Fox is 33, Dita Von Teese is 47, Salma Hayek is 53, Jennifer Aniston is 50 and that’s just off the top of my head. Age is irrelevant. You went through a rough breakup and you’re not feeling your best. I hope you can focus on self improvement and remind yourself relationships aren’t everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:48 PM
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19F, absolutely. I don’t want to be someone’s jailbait girlfriend fantasy. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:25 AM
1

Someone who needs to justify sleeping with adolescents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:46 AM
2

He’s terrible lol. Maybe you just have a knack for these things. His post history is cancerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:34 PM
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She has worked with some world aid charities but mainly what interests me as a migrant with PTSD is how she dealt with going from Bosnia-Sweden https://everipedia.org/wiki/lang_en/ines-helene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:31 PM
3

She’s wrote in detail about her experience and PTSD from the Bosnian war and losing family. She made it this far — I’m a migrant and I couldn’t. It won’t inspire you possibly because you aren’t one but for ME, absolutely women talking about their trauma from war is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:28 PM
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She’s a gorgeous beautiful model and business woman with interests in the humanities particularly geo-politics because she’s a refugee from Bosnia, so, yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:24 PM
2

https://www.instagram.com/ini.helen/?hl=en
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:18 PM
2

He’s a pedophile https://www.reddit.com/r/PeytonList/comments/dffkbe/disney_girl/f337t9t/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:03 PM
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Holy hell someone needs to intervene. One of his posts was asking other men for advice on how to sleep with girls in highschool. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/d53hk1/whats_the_most_taboo_thing_that_gets_you_off_has/f0kes5o/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:30 AM
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Check his post history. He’s a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:16 AM
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If you look through his post history — he’s a confirmed pedophile. Thirsting over underaged girls and says his favorite NSFW subreddit is “fauxbait” Which is of 18 year old girls who look younger. It’s no shock that he’s a pedophile. Watch out for men like this. The flag of dating adolescents should be the first and only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:33 AM
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Him thirsting for a 16 year old. https://www.reddit.com/r/PeytonList/comments/dffkbe/disney_girl/f337t9t/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:32 AM
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His post history is disturbing. Low quality. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/du2x3x/whats_your_favourite_nsfw_sub_besides_this_one/f71u13p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:20 AM
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19 year olds are naive though. I don’t believe that she “seduced him” but I do believe that he’s weird and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:13 AM
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He’s scary looking he looks SO old wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:12 PM
3

Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:11 PM
8

I would urge to ghost a guy who is asking you to come to his place immediately. You never do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:24 AM
6

He’s a freak lol. He’s been messaging me before I blocked him. He’s become fixated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:12 PM
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This is the kind of weird shit he does. He becomes very fixated and attached quickly. Block him! He stalks women on here. https://www.reddit.com/r/CockTributes/comments/dt9g3q/give_ufitnesshelp14_a_farewell_cock_tribute/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:12 AM
2

Oh god fuck no to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 12:47 PM
5

LOL he’s messaging me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:59 AM
4

I believe that 100%. At 22 you’re still a gawky college student with 0 idea how to maximize your appearance. Men like to talk about the wall because they want to get naive teenage girls who can’t see what a loser they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:17 AM
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He’s incredibly lucky. His wife literally helps with with Yazidi refugee cases iirc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:01 PM
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It’s so funny how men like to convince themselves the more they age, the better they will look, that younger teen girls will be all over them. BS. Amal and George have a 17 year age difference and she looks better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:00 PM
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She looks so much better than him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:59 PM
3

Agreed. If you feel he is losing interest. Stop. Do nothing. I wouldn’t even remove him off snap. I’d just leave it and not care. Date around until you meet someone you click with and that will chase you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:19 AM
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Don’t readd. Ever. He ghosted you. You deserve better and will find better. You’re investing too soon. Men will ghost models for any stupid reason — it doesn’t matter. I’ve ghosted men way more attractive than me. Don’t come on as strong and don’t get attached so easy. It’s casual dating after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:18 AM
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Yeah but even for attraction — actually going for it is weird. Being attracted to a 18 year old at 33, whatever, but actually going for it is like, what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:34 AM
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Yeah — I think I’ve had many just terrible run-ins. My (single) male relatives just went their own age. As I edge into 20’s, I see 18 as a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:18 AM
14

Holy shit exactly. I briefly dated a 29 year old guy and I thought he was SO cool. Turns out he was a cocaine dealer that didn’t even live on his own. He felt like a God around me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:17 AM
6

Does it happen? Like I feel as if I’ve had really bad run-ins with men! Are there 30+year old men out there that would say “uh, no, that’s too young”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:14 AM
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As you’re older now — would it be a dealbreaker for you if you were dating a 30 year old guy and he said “yeah, I’d date an 18 year old” it would be for me as I get older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:12 AM
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Younger girls are easier to control. I didn’t even know at 18 that a 29 year old guy going after me was wrong. He ended up being a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:08 AM
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Are all men like that? Is it possible to meet a 35 year old guy who would say “uhhh 19 is too young”? I don’t want to lose all hope in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:08 AM
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She probably is and he can’t see it because he’s convinced he’s being chased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:28 PM
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If a guy was trying that hard for my attention that he was pretending to be busy, I’d just cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:28 PM
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I was being hyperbolic. I don’t think any woman should be with a man who is okay and gets off to her being touched by other people. Porn rots the brain. You know why thirds are called unicorns? Because no one wants to fucking do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:28 AM
5

Karma is real. Good on you. Always stand your ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:27 AM
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Yup. Exactly. They’ll think there’s something wrong with you. It’s abnormal behaviour for a reason. Don’t make the first move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:28 PM
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Watching so much porn that you think a woman is going to eat your cum out of someone else should classify you as fucking disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:58 AM
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Find a better man closer to your age. There is a power imbalance her. This would only be redeemable IF you were getting anything out of this relationship and you are NOT. Think about this. Not saying you have to break up with him but think to yourself “are we benefiting each other?” You are a young girl with men who would die just to talk to you and would treat you better. Is this worth your time? Is it really going to go anywhere with this much older man who can’t seem to commit? Think and then…
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