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I would argue that everyone, of all genders and of adult age, should use skincare and take purposeful care of their skin. A 12-step routine? Probably not, especially with young kids. I'd say the most important things are moisturizer and SPF. While I do have an involved skincare routine (I consider it a hobby), I think of it more as taking care of my body as a whole moreso than trying to prevent aging. There is also the community r/30PlusSkinCare that may help you out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 09:12 PM
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I'm 35 - I don't have the time or inclination to take on what other people think of my life. I think the most I have ever given as a response is "oh, well, it works for us", and even then I can't remember the last time anyone ever ran a commentary on my private home life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:41 PM
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I will, at this point, assume you are just trolling, as this sub seems to get a lot of them. Your post, and most of your answers, make very little sense to the point where you seem like a RP chatbot more than an actual human. If you aren't, then I highly recommend you get off the internet and meet some people in real life. Life experience will do you much better than analyzing the statistics of how many words you've said per date.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 01:31 PM
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submissive, and gentle in all my dates I don't make jokes I NEVER offer my opinion the man speaks 70% of the time I will date anyone who shows interest None of this sounds like a very fun date. Men want a partner, not a prop. Are you allowing these men to get to know your personality at all?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 01:53 AM
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Maybe it's just because I've been childfree my entire life, but I don't see how kids relate to this. While yes, there are less people in our household, there is still maintenence, bills, cleaning, cooking, shopping, appointments, errands, and social obligations to take care of. My boyfriend works a high stress job with long hours. I work from home. He gets to come home to a clean house, freshly made dinner, folded laundry, and pleasant conversation (a soft place to land). We were both looking fo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 08:38 PM
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The way I could possibly answer "yes" to your headline question is if we're talking about taxes. Legally, sure, I'm single in the eyes of the government. RPW has enough issues with 19 year olds thinking they're about to hit the wall, I certainly don't think a philosophy of "be open to other men while in a serious relationship because he hasn't proposed" is within this realm.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 07:43 PM
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Actual childfree person chiming in. Possible? Sure. Depending on where you live, may not be easy to find. Being a SAHW was always my dream growing up. However, being in a one income household isn't easy or possible for most in 2023. Have you considered finding a job or career path where you can work from home? Working full time from home has allowed me a lot of flexibility. We don't split things 50/50, he pays more, but I contribute to bills and rent, and I buy all of the groceries. I don't thin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 12:30 PM
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Lower?? I think you need to raise your expectations. Yes, some of your list makes sense and I even share a few of them. But he doesn't need to take you out or show interest in your hobbies? He can be critical of you as long as he doesn't rape you?? I never even considered having 70% of these things on a list because they are the bare minimum for basic human decency. If you don't require dates, vacations, texts, hand holding, pictures, or even family time - what exactly do you want out of a relat…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 03:27 AM
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Anyone who is blue collar would likely not… fit in with my friends, coworkers, and family You're allowed to have whatever standards you want, but I respecfully disagree. I'm sure there is a stereotype of what you think "blue collar" is. However, my boyfriend is an aviation mechanic. He owns two airplanes and is a hobby pilot in his free time. He's extremely well traveled, and has flown planes around most of the US. The other pilots he knows are the ridiculously wealthy buying 800k airplanes for …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 02:54 AM
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Our mutual friends introduced us. We were both single, and we both knew the same people but had never met. I was working an event, and he was out with our friends at the same place. They introduced us and played matchmaker a bit. We chatted casually online after we met, and he asked me out on a date. We've been together since then, which was 4 years ago now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 01:38 PM
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Am I wasting my time dating someone my age who doesn't want the same thing in life? I think before you unpack any of the other questions in your post, this has to be the one you sort through first. I would say, in short, yes. Kids aren't something you can compromise on. Do you want kids? Have you guys had discussions about this? I'm childfree myself, so timelines are different to me. Have you guys discussed marriage? Is that something he wants? Is that something you want? If you want marriage an…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 09:42 PM
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Minimum: Olive oil, salt, pepper. Put all the vegetables in a bowl and toss with those ingredients. Sheet pan, roast in the oven. There are various guides online for how long and what temp depending on the vegetable. You can get more creative with spices depending on what cuisine you’re cooking or personal tastes. Smoked paprika and garlic are the ones I reach for the most, but the options are endless.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 01:37 AM
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I also wanted to chime in as someone who isn't in a monogamous relationship, although u/Noressa really phrased it the best quite honestly, with a lot of good info. I think the general consensus here is that most people would not, and frankly, should not be ok with it. Of course men on those forums think it's ok, but I would also wager it is a lot more difficult than they imagine. But, my partner and I are swingers, and I would not be ok with him hooking up with people on the side. It's something…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:28 PM
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Thank you for posting this and sharing your story. I actually think we need more "field reports" like this, even if they are tough to share. I have worried about the very young, naïve girls posting here, in clearly upsetting toxic relationships, but they don't have the life experience to distinguish red pill from abuse. I also went through something similar in my early 20s, with a self described "alpha" who was very full of himself, and had all the on paper qualities of a "high value male" (and …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 02:48 PM
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What type of tattoos are you looking to get removed? Is there a reason you want to get them removed - poorly done, bad art, placement? I don't think it makes you a chameleon if you get tattoos removed, people do it for all sorts of reasons. But, I also don't think it has anything to do with securing commitment either. There's a lot of men who do and don't like a lot of things.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 08:39 PM
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Ah yes, there it is, the very attitude that I was talking about in my post. Just to clarify, are you saying toddlers and small children aren’t gross? Isn’t that the number one thing about daycare and school, the amount of germs kids bring home?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/22 02:09 AM
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Well, kids are terrible for the environment 😂 I think people should have less children overall, but there's no acceptable or appropriate way to place limits on family size. Sometimes it seems like there is a lack of understanding that kids are their own individual person, especially when it comes to large families. Or people have kids because you are "supposed to". But, I probably fall into the "aggressively" childfree. If you take two little girls, one says they want to have lots of babies, tha…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 07:46 PM
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I don't agree that childfree is a modern thought - maybe the terminology, but that's it. I'm sure plenty of women in history were just as childfree, but until reliable, accessible birth control that wasn't an easy option. I'm childfree (and sterilized) and an atheist, I don't think they have much to do with me being in a red pill, male-led relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 05:34 PM
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I suppose both are ok, but I prefer being thought of as sexy. I look young for my age, which is a positive thing. But, I dislike being thought of as "young and cute" as it's usually meant in a condescending way. That attitude has never come from my partner, when he calls me cute it's a positive thing in his eyes. But to me, I'm a grown woman, I have an hourglass shape, when I'm dressed up to go out, I want to be sexy!
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 09:03 PM
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I think it’s great, but I think it also depends on what skills you bring to the table and how your days would be structured. It’s also more difficult in this day and age to live off one income, but also not impossible. I work from home, so not a true housewife, but I am responsible for all the same tasks and household management. We’re both childfree and we were looking for a traditional style relationship when we met, so it’s out there. You’d just have to find the right person and have a talk a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:10 AM
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I've been doing numerous fiber/needle arts my entire life, and my vote is for knitting, with some caveats. My personal favourite is knitting. It has a bit of a harder learning curve when you are starting, but eventually becomes easy. You can create clothes for yourself or a SO, socks, baby clothes, dish cloths, dog sweaters, the list goes on. It's a great way to learn about garment shaping as well. I personally do my most intricate work with knitting. Crochet is also good, it is easier to learn …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 07:47 PM
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I try to be one step ahead as often as I can. Before he goes to take a shower, I put his sleep clothes in the bathroom so they're ready for him. I always pack our bags and toiletries when we travel. This weekend we were already in the car when he said he forgot to pack mouthwash. I smiled and said I already had. I wake up before him, and if I know he didn't get a good night of sleep, I'll make extra coffee for his drive to work. It's the really little things that go a long way :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 12:47 AM
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Seconding finding a local quilt shop. Or, even look for yarn and embroidery stores. My local yarn store has all different types of classes - sewing, weaving, quilting, etc, not just knitting based.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 03:45 PM
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