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So yeah, in conclusion, men have trouble dating. "Desirable" men are minority. Most of the men are undesirable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:07 AM
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Men here consistently mistake women’s anxiety at settling down with enough time to have children as anxiety over nOt gEtN cHaaaaaaD. No. There's plenty. I mean PLENTY of average men who are literally available to settle down right now at this very fucking moment. But the problem is they're not Chaaaaad. They don't give them the "SpAaaaaarKLe"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:02 AM
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not just any man... Men who are attractive, good job, confident, charismatic, gives them the "spark." LMAO these are literally requirements of every fat ugly poor entitled bitch with kids on dating sites 😂 #mykidismyworld 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:29 AM
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Part of being a neckbeard is also being completely confident about how smart and superior you are no matter how far from the truth it actually is. They are delusional and actually believe that they are some kind of smart gentle sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:30 PM
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There are always some women out there desperate for male attention from a guy who seems confident, no matter how unattractive he is This is wrong. If that was the case then neckbeards would be drowning in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:38 PM
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LMAO there's nothing to CMV here. It's absolutely correct. Finally someone gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:25 PM
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You think this place was created to be supportive of men struggling What? No. But people should at least acknowledge that men are struggling and that simply men have it harder in dating than women. Not just endlessly bash men and perpetuating the "women can do wrong" fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:54 PM
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You can't just deny simple statistics. All I ever see here when people try to argue against what men say is anecdotal evidences ("I know a guy/girl who...") and attacking the person. "You are just whiny". It's pretty much ad hominem to avoid having a real discussion. It's used by many of the PPD regulars, especially when men suggest women these days aren't perfect in every way. Women have more support, are more socially acceptably open about their concerns and woes and are in the position of a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:27 PM
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"Whiny men" Yeah because pointing out facts is whining, sure. People sure love to use this shaming tactic to shut down any man who dares to point out facts lol. Just call him "whiny" and bam you win the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:58 AM
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Yeah. That's the point of this whole PPD sub 😂 Basically what everything we say here is "People want to fuck attractive people and it sucks to be unattractive while pointing out that most women are attractive to men while most men are unattractive to women." -- PPD in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:15 AM
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If you're young and more interested in a girl next door type great for you, they exist too. Yeah, except "the girl next door type" is not mutually interested in the "boy next door type" guy. That's the whole complaint of nice guys. Plenty of men are interested in the "girl next door", the problem is, that it's not just the "wild and crazy girls" but also average girls who all want the same type of man. while ignoring the hordes of men who are their looks/statuts match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:13 AM
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“I’ve been single for soooo long!” *been "single" for 2 months and got laid 12 times in that period of time*
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:05 AM
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Yeah. There are two kinds of singles - those who fuck and those who don't. Doesn't matter if you're single as long as you still get laid... not the case for majority of single men. When men are single, they actually single, like, not getting hit on, not getting laid, getting rejected and just being fucking lonely. Single women don't have to deal with this as long as they're not fat or like really ugly...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:34 AM
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This. This is the right answer but the women will keep denying it like if we all don't see what's going on. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:33 AM
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I agree with this. Men don't like the chase. It's actually women who like it and that's where the "why women love assholes and not nice guys like me" thing comes from. Women like "assholes" because they are unavailable and they like the chase, the nice guy is available and that's boring for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:43 PM
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What about sentient Bigass McRoomba
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:38 PM
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So you say, basically, a lesser AI (as I described) will not be possible to be created and that a sentient AI is inevitable? Whoa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:23 PM
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this is true for a certain number of deranged individuals but a lot of men are genuinely lonely and crave connection. humans are social beings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:16 PM
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That's what I said. It doesn't address THIS underlying issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:58 PM
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roomba with an enormous rubber ass This made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂 assuming AI technology gets good enough that a robot is indistinguishable-or-near-to compared to a human, you run into another problem: you're approaching sentience I'm assuming AI will be made in a way that it will not have a free will to reject to serve a human. Not saying this will not happen, but if we make a sentient AI I think we will also make a "lesser" AI that is not sentient and that's what dating bots will essentially b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:51 PM
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He said that we are already at the point of creating a super-intelligent AI that could be dangerous for humanity as whole. That we need to start implementing regulations right now before some evil group of people gets to that AI and will try to use it to do evil. That the threat of this is more dangerous than nuclear warheads. I don't know maybe he's being a little over-dramatic. But I think he's onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:24 PM
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What's making it different today? Oh man. A lot of things. For example - men were needed in the past. So even if their wives weren't actually attracted to them, they could get off on the fact that they needed them for survival. Second example - wars. A lot of men's purpose in life was to die in war and that was enough to keep the male loneliness problem under check since a huge portion of men would just die fighting each other in a war. Next example - work - directly related to the first point -…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:16 PM
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Musk says it's already happening and that it may be too late for us to do something now. Have you heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:44 PM
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I've just recently got into it. I started learning to program and discovered these topics (AI. machine learning) and they are really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:38 PM
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I am expecting rising IDGAF levels in apocalyptic proportions. That would be nice. But unfortunately IGDAF goes both ways - it's also men who perpetuate it. We would need an insane amount of effort to get rid of it. There seems to be none, exactly because of the IGDAF attitude - it's a double edged sword I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:35 PM
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yea man you need to change the oil
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:29 PM
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Also what I've just thought now, if we are capable of creating sentient beings from scratch and technically being their "Gods/parents" then there is a huge probability that we are also a creation of other ancient sentient beings. Really scary stuff. But at the same time exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:24 PM
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Maybe there will be different ways to please robot girls that unattractive men will be capable of. In this case this would mean a problem would be solved. But if conscious robot girls would judge men by similar standards that human girls do then... well... shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:19 PM
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Just because she's made out of artificial parts doesn't mean she's not real Yeah this is a very interesting topic that I'm sure will emerge when new generations of AI will be created. It will be so interesting to watch it. The heated discussion between scientists and philosophers. Really exciting. Maybe we will be alive to witness it in our lifetimes. What do you think? Let's say we create a sentient being capable of free will and learning. Will they be considered alive? Or will they be just sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:14 PM
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LMAO if this will happen and AI will be conscious and will reject men as well then it's gonna be a double whammy. Imagine getting rejected by a robot girl. How insulting that would be 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:07 PM
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Sometimes I feel like it’s a dying tradition lol It is. Well at least in west. People in western countries see monogamy as "oppression". And when they look at examples of monogamy in other non-western traditional countries, you can see why... It's just bad examples that drive people away from monogamy because monogamy has been historically been enforced, that's why it's seen as evil by so many people in west.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 01:42 PM
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I don't want to blame men since it's their nature, but damn, if they stopped being such pathetic simps the world would be a much better place. Pussy is so fucking over-valued that it makes me angry... It's just so unfair that I as a man have to work hard on myself both physically and mentally and to succeed and fucking WIN in order to prove myself to be worthy of a single meaningless fuck while women have to just exist and still get men approach them and complain that only "average men" want the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:43 PM
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This always bothered me. There are so many men that fetishize fat women but almost no women that fetishize fat men. Also, not just fat but just about anything, mens taste in women is so diverse that even disfigured and disabled women are fetishized by some crazy men, but same doesn't happen for men - women only prefer one narrow standard for men (fuckboi, Chad, you name him lol) and don't often fetishize odd looking men. And they have the audacity to say "We ArE NoT a HiVe MiND"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:11 PM
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HOW DARE YOU!!!??? You should find chubby girls attractive and if you don't you're a misogynist pig /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:34 PM
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They are even worse. Don't ever take this advice. Those women will only see you as a wallet and a ticket to western country, once they suck out every drop of your soul and get what they want they will leave you (the beta loser with money) behind and will go for the attractive fuckbois, just like every other woman in west does. I've read some horror stories of guys who went to find a non-western girlfriend. Initially they are great, but once they become introduced to feminism and western values, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:09 PM
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Men spend more time on Reddit and video games which means they’re spending less time in the real world I would say the thing that they spend time on these things is a result of them trying and failing over and over again. So they learned their place. It's sad, but inevitable. There's only so much rejection one can take before they say "fuck it, I'm out"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:56 AM
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Is it really surprising? People do this all the time and not just with relationships. They will find a way to justify their shitty life and make themselves feel superior. Just like a McDonald worker making next to nothing will be like "yeah, it's fine, I'm still better than this homeless guy that has no job" ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:00 PM
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Oh yes. I completely forgot about Justin Bieber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:02 PM
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Not racist. SEXIST. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:01 PM
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they literally look like women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:29 PM
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So, again. Just a deviation from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:06 PM
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Anyway, she is over 30, has dyed her hair like an anime character, hates children, has six (?!) cats, lives alone, and "spends all her free time" (He words, not mine), "...playing Skyrim and listening to BTS and chain smoking." God damn. If a man was doing this he would be endlessly bashed for being a "loser"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:42 PM
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if a man is extremely rich, his appearance doesn't matter if he is politically correct and represents culture. Yeah, technically. So basically it doesn't contradict the point of RP since they are not actually attracted to them, you sayin' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:30 AM
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How? Somehow... most important thing is that it WORKS, doesn't matter how.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:28 PM
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Girls want that IG lifestyle relationship Yeah. That's fucked up...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:42 PM
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Or if they do Oh they do exist. They absolutely do. And let me tell you, you really really know when someone is like that. Just watch how women act around hot dudes. They go completely dumb, laugh at his unfunny jokes, try to get as close to him as possible...Those are the guys they have the best sex in life with. They are the guys who fuck them in their prime. Those are the guys that make the girls future husband feel like shit once he finds out that the best sex she ever had was that hot dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:53 PM
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They have relationships and marriages but you don't know the reasons. Just having a relationship/marriage alone is not a disprove of anything I stated. Usually people in marriages are suffering silently and only try to show the outside world their "happy side". I'm not saying that this is necessarily the case with your friends, there are some happy relationships of course, but I'm saying you can't really know what's going on because you don't see in these people's heads, nor you monitor them 24 …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:38 PM
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being a good conversationalist, having similar hobbies or goals, complementary personality, ability to cook well, good sexual skills, being a supportive partner Oh come on... you know that's not true. Otherwise TRP wouldn't exist. I have all mostly of these (except sexual skills), and I'm especially good at cooking since it's my hobby and I love it, one of my favorite hobbies not gonna lie... and I've yet to meet a woman who would appreciate those things. The only thing I don't have is "good sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:51 PM
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So the 80/20 rule in terms of looks is becoming more and more truth, eh? Less men are being able to "impress" women by having a great job so the only option to impress her will be by having a big dick, six pack, six feet... all that stuff. Even though 2 out of those 3 things can't be controlled (dick size, height), the least a man can do is invest a lot of time in gym and looking good since "just" having a job is not enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:21 PM
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Charlie Sheen's character from Two and a half men was a pretty cool character, you can't deny that. It's no surprise his (I'm still talking about the character) life was a role model for so many men. I mean, have a great house, money, getting drunk and laid on regular basis with some pretty hot women and all that... what man would NOT want that? come on...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:53 PM
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yeah that's the point. maybe I would add another example that not wanting a fat girl as normal guy is just OK, it's also OK for the chad guy, but when someone under normal says that, they will get a huge backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:37 PM
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I would say the can safely state it but they don't get it all the time. Sometimes yes, sometimes not. Since they are normal and not completely hideous, people are not disgusted with them, so they don't trigger a primal response in people's brain, therefore they won't get attacked for saying what they want in a woman... of course that is, when what they want in a woman is in range of what requirements are currently acceptable in society - for example if he says he wants a Japanese teen with child…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:17 PM
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playing some stupid game 14 hours a day, jerking off to porn 6 times a day, eating nothing but Cheetos and pizza for weeks on end. lol you just described a typical day of a fat nice guy neckbeard 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:37 AM
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Well if you want to be strictly mathematical, the answer is still no. Mathematically, men and women have the same difficulty finding partner. because they have different reason for the same thing and the M/F population is roughly 50/50 it evens out and the final number will be roughly the same for men and women. ​ smaller portion of men will reach this goal it is still men Smaller portion of men will get to that goal but men have lower standards, so from those men who get the match, the vast maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:35 PM
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Getting the relationship is the goal, but your post is talking about getting to that goal which I assume is the metric we look here for. It's about how you get there - again, quantity/quality - men have harder time finding relationship because they get low number of matches, women have trouble finding relationship because they have to weed out a lot of bad guys before getting the right guy. Now who has it harder? Those 2 things (numbers for men and quality of matches for women) are both slowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:55 PM
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To put it simply - the problems of men and women in online dating are completely different. Women complain about the quality of matches they get. - they get lot of messages but a lot of them are creepy and potentially dangerous men so they have to be very careful Men complain about the quantity of matches they get. - they don't get matches at all so anything, even just 1 mediocre match is a win for them ​ So who has it worse? Well if you define "better/worse" by quantity of matches, then men hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:34 PM
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6’ doesn’t have anywhere near the same appeal as 6’3” 5’8” isn’t as totally undatable as a 5’4” guy Why of course. Completely understandable. Maybe I would add that at some point, a guy can become even too tall. I would say 6'3 - 6'6 is where tallness is the most attractive but taller than 6'6 is not more attractive and can often times work against ("he's way too tall")
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:06 AM
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If the tall guy an average face and the short guy has a great face, then yeah - in a lot of cases the tall guy wins. By tall I mean 6 feet and over by short I mean 5'8 and shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:00 AM
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What if the tall guy has an ugly face and the short guy looks like Alessandro Dellisola Those are two extremes, are you seriously trying to compare that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:56 AM
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You can't disagree with facts brother. You can either accept or not accept them. Can a short guy increase his attractiveness by being in shape? Yes. Will he get a chance to find a girlfriend? Yes. Will he EVER be regarded as attractive as an in shape tall guy? Never. I literally had women tell me they would rather date a stick thin tall guy that fit in shape short guy. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's just way harder as a short man. As a short guy, there is only so much you can do about …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:29 AM
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Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy? Definitely no. Bald guys can be hot AF (NO HOMO) What IS the equivalent though - being short as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:15 AM
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You keep hearing that it’s the personality that matters more, but you can clearly see that a well above average man in looks gets rewarded for his bad behaviors more than an average man with good behaviors, I have a problem with this point. Attractive man doesn't get rewarded FOR his bad behaviors. He gets rewarded DESPITE his bad behaviors. He get rewarded for his attractiveness, nothing else matters. You don't just "good behavior" your way into woman's pants. That's not how it works. If you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:20 AM
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This is sub is more red than I expected it to be. I like it. More people are finally waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:41 AM
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Not trying to defend "nice guys" but I think they vilify and complain because they feel like it's unfair that average woman has easier time dating in or above her league while average man has to work harder for the same thing. Some men just accept the reality and work on themselves or just give up and some react in a different way - they lash out and demand women to change, but that's never gonna work, and the fact that it's never gonna work makes them more angry, therefore they are lashing out …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:51 PM
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At a certain point, they are no longer the 'head turner' they were and as such don't get commanding attention But who is? This happens to everyone. Not just women. Young good looking man will still be better than older good looking man. Youth is valued by everyone. Not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:35 PM
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The looks don't just "fade away" so easily. A woman that has been very attractive as young will still likely be attractive in 30s 40s etc. Not just that much like she used to, but anyways that happens to everyone who ages. Attractive people in general don't just become ugly with age. If they maintain a healthy lifestyle and don't gain 200 pounds of course. If that is what you talk about then yeah, youre right, they hit the wall by becoming fat landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:23 PM
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Not really, it has been proven. "The wall" is just a revenge fantasy for men, I say this as someone who is red pill. Women well into their 40 or 50s still enjoy dating (if they have not settled down and created a family which is a lot of people still but it is declining more and more). Maybe when they get old like more than 60 then things start changing, but it does for everyone at that age anyways. And with families and marriage becoming less and less common, you can only expect less and less w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:44 PM
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which means that average girl is going to get less attention and simping Well yes but actually no. Average girls still get the amount of attention and simping enough for them to complain about it and to be able to go for men that are leagues above them (the hot guy that has options)...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:25 AM
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I usually don't take compliments from women who are not attracted to me anyways. If I know she's attracted I like it. But usually women do give compliments because they want something from you and that I don't like. If you want me to do something just tell me and don't try to soften me with compliments, it's transparent AF and while you don't think wee see through it, we do... it's the same like the "nice guy" behavior women hate in men so much, but they do it themselves, but the expected reward…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:07 AM
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People are obviously not naturally monogamous. Maybe serially monogamous at best. Ideally, people would prefer monogamy, but nature and millions years of evolution is a stronger force than morality which is a relatively new concept. We can wish for it all we want, but our natural instincts won't let go. That's why most marriages fail, that's why people have multiple partners over the course of their lives, that's why cheating and hookup culture is so rampant (it always has been but it just was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:40 PM
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"Just be confident bro" LMAO this is why dudes turn to redpill in the first place. it might be extremely toxic and misogynistic, but at least it addresses the hypocrisy of dating advice and gives some advice that can be actually used to get loser men laid - aka self improvement and working on their game with actual steps, not the "just be confident bro duh" advice men receive whenever they complain about dating. redpill actually listens to their complaints and accepts their feelings and offers a…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 08:20 AM
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