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| 5 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Meet people during the day, fuck all those bitches that go to the clubs, they are drunk and have dudes constantly hitting on them.this gives them validation and they will feel entitled to treat you like shit. If you go out at night you need to have thick skin and have solid game since they will be out with their friends and constantly be hit on even if they are average looking cause dude are just horny as fuck lol | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 12:51 PM |
| 2 | When working on yourself isn't enoughThen say you find her attractive and you just wanted to meet her | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 11:25 AM |
| 1 | How to cultivate a deep inner worldI love how you mentioned reading fiction in the post cause most self help gurus these days tell you to only read non fiction , which is just stupid cause fiction can improve your creativity, empathy and it's actually fucking enjoyable which will help cultivate a reading habit. | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Meeting people in a groupYour buddy should introduce you all or he is a douchebag... | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | When working on yourself isn't enoughSay hi lol | /r/seduction | 21/05/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | DAE wish they could see more approaches happen in front of them?It's a good thing, less competition. | /r/seduction | 30/04/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Seen a cute girl in the library and left her a note asking for her number when she went to the toilet. When she got back she opens the notes and looks at me with disgust lol I don't know what I did wrong I mean I'm a decent looking guy and wouldn't that be a compliment to her ?I was shitting my pants, I have low confidence who gives a fuck least I'm trying to do something about it | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 01:08 AM |
| – | Seen a cute girl in the library and left her a note asking for her number when she went to the toilet. When she got back she opens the notes and looks at me with disgust lol I don't know what I did wrong I mean I'm a decent looking guy and wouldn't that be a compliment to her ?Nah it's all good read my reply to above post. She had to walk past me to go to the toilet. Yeah I thought it was a bit creepy too but I was trying to push myself out of my comfort zone, which was the main reason for doing it. Who cares if it's creepy at least I had the balls to do it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Seen a cute girl in the library and left her a note asking for her number when she went to the toilet. When she got back she opens the notes and looks at me with disgust lol I don't know what I did wrong I mean I'm a decent looking guy and wouldn't that be a compliment to her ?She actually replied on the note like 40mins later saying no she had a bf. This was at like 11pm in the corner of the library. I think she was waiting for the ppl sitting in our corner to leave first before she replied lol well we ended up speaking for like 30mins I walked her out and got her snapchat instead, she turned out to be alright. I couldn't talk to her because we were in the quiet section of the library and didn't want to get in trouble lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up her ex boyfriend does that mean anything?She wants you to know she is single or maybe she is still in love with him. If she is asking you questions and stuff though it is probably an IOI | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 06:39 AM |
| – | Is it better to not have a crush on anyone in terms of meeting new girls?The longer you wait the stronger you're feelings will become. You will just create all these imaginary scenarios in your head and put her on the pedestal . Just get it over with and ask her out, worse case scenario she says no and you move on, crush gone. It's either you would or you wouldn't no kinda cute/attractive. Anyways that's bullshit cause you wouldn't write a post about a girl you kinda find attractive, you're just using it as an excuse to not make a move. | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Texting a girl after a party?I don't know, I think you need to talk to her in real life. Texting wise I suggest you ask her out after an extremely funny joke or a high point in the conversation, that way she will be more likely to agree with going out with you. If you only send her like 2 texts and on the 3rd text you ask her out she is more likely to say no. It just happened to me like a few days ago, I don't want you to make the same mistake as me lol just ask her if she wants to go for a drink or a icecream lol let me kn… | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 08:06 PM |
| – | Is it better to not have a crush on anyone in terms of meeting new girls?You only get crushes in high school cause you never have the balls to ask them out and it just goes on and on in your mind thinking "what if". But when you're a man you're suppose to just ask out the women you find attractive. If she doesn't accept you move on. | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 08:03 PM |
| 2 | A girl I'm hanging out with insists on chatting over text. What should I do?Continue to text her, and ask her out after an extremely funny joke or a high point in the text conversation. If you do this before you ask her out her emotions will be spiked and she will be more likely to accept your invite. Just something I seen on a YouTube video but it makes sense to me and I thought I'd share haha | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Am i friendzoned?Unless she has no friends I don't know why she would wanna hang out with you. she probably liked you when you told her you weren't interested and she keeps saying she doesn't smoke cause she wants you to like her again lol | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 06:21 PM |
| – | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!So if I get nervous or something I should just focus on my breathe to compose my thoughts ? | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 09:47 PM |
| – | [FR] Ditched my friends and went solo, This is what winning looks likeWhat happened in the morning ? | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 07:38 PM |
| 2 | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!Thanks makes sense | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 05:05 PM |
| – | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!So whenever I get anxiety speaking to someone I should focus on my breath to refocus but that would just mean I'm not present with them cause I'm focusing on my breathe to calm the anxiety | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!when I focus on my breathe my mind wanders less but when I think about all this "Make eye contact. Listen to the words the other person is saying. Read their body languag" I get up all in my head | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 04:49 PM |
| – | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!Explain | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!It's just cause I seen a video that basically explained if you are focused on your breathe then you are present cause it stops all the chatter going on in your head | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | If I I'm focused and aware of my breathe when I am speaking to someone, am I present and in the moment? Or would it be counter intuitive cause I'm focused on my breathe and not on the conversation. But at the same time focusing on your breathe helps you be present ? Confusing !!!Got it on that video on r/meditation | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you smile at a girl without looking like a creepy fuck?I know exactly what you mean lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do women generally think PUA is weird and for losers and creeps ?Hahaha | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Do women generally think PUA is weird and for losers and creeps ?How would it make them feel like a slut ? Is it cause they think you do it to a lot of other girls and if they get with you they don't feel special or something ? | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 12:50 PM |
| – | Do women generally think PUA is weird and for losers and creeps ?I don't call myself that I just mean like generally when guys read all this stuff on how to attract women etc | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women generally think PUA is weird and for losers and creeps ?I agree :( | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do women generally think PUA is weird and for losers and creeps ?I don't see why though it's just men trying to be the guys that women actually want. Mostly nice guys the odd weirdo here and there | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 11:04 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was hotIt's all about your reality and frame and that's literally it ! | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Your memorable Daygame moments?It's always the harshest rejection that you remember for me it was when I texted i girl hey where is a goo place to eat and she liger said ew I'm no interest please go away lol | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?No | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?Chill | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Women are shitty friends and aren't loyal - FRI spend time with friends who help me feel good about myself, sometimes they are females. Also, I DO NOT want to bang them, most of them aren't even hot. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Take Control Of Your LifeJust joking, amazing, thought provoking post ! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What are You Worth?Dam this post is so badass, gonna read it every morning for motivation ! Thank you ! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Take Control Of Your LifeYeah, I can get shitfaced any day of the week !!!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting over my awkward sentence structure when talking?Omg I do the exact same thing haha. One example is when a customer says thank you, I also respond with thank you :S if she is a really hot customer I'll get nervous and do this lol | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | "I might as well go for her if she likes me": Is this a good mindset to have?Friends with benefits ? | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How to proceed with a girl I'm working out (running) together?She probably just likes you as a friend. Maybe you should ask her out sometime but make sure she knows it's a date cause I just went out with a friend last week That i was kinda into and she had no idea lol | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Starting to get really frustrated as I see so many people get into relationships and have hookupsDon't worry the average guy does not lay 5-10 girls a month lol | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 10:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm a big fan of Julian Blanc from rsd and I was wonder what videos just blew your fricking mind ? Like changed your whole perception on.... life haha ? Would be interesting to see what videos come up !Yeah I like his stuff to but I feel like everything out there is kinda similar | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 10:23 AM |
| 0 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?Connor McGregor | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 10:21 AM |
| – | Escalation?Next step would be friendly touch. See if she is receptive to it and escalate from their into more seductive touches like lower back, waist etc if she is receptive i.e. She doesn't pull away or leans into it. Then that means she is into it. You just keep escalating until she pulls away, if she doesn't the escalation should just keep getting more sexual until eventually you end up sleeping together. ;) | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 01:08 AM |
| 1 | A girl that didn't respond to my text, texts me out of the blue 2 weeks later. What is this girl's end game?Anytime A girl hits you up take it as a sign of interest which you need to capitalise on by asking her out ! | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:55 AM |
| 2 | A girl that didn't respond to my text, texts me out of the blue 2 weeks later. What is this girl's end game?Invite her out for a drink You're welcome | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Talked and met a girl in class...went from confident/funny to awkwardInstead of saying "oh yeah yeah " just shut the fuck up and listen. This shows her that you can handle the tension between the two of you and subconsciously she will know you are sex worthy when you do this, cause it shows her you can handle the pressure/tension. This is especially powerful if it is like sexual tension cause it shows her you are a fucking man and you aren't phased by a bit of awkward silence . Trust me if you hold strong eye contact with her and just shut the fuck up she will as… | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Reddit, i need your help. All my learning has lead to this.You need to just tell her straight, either you give us a shot or I can't be your friend anymore, say something like that but if she says the latter you need to accept it and move on, cause if you go back to her you will be looked upon by her as the biggest pussy ever, give her a fucking ultimatum and fucking mean it ! Cause she is just fucking leading you on, you deserve better ! | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?I totally agree, it would just be so much effort to keep her happy and I just want to be around someone I can be myself around ! | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Does cock size matter?Mine is fucking small too ! | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Older womenJust means we can get with 18 year olds xD | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:39 PM |
| 0 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?Yeah but I just fucking felt like it so I did | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?How do I know she is a "fuck yes" women lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:31 PM |
| – | What should I do ? I'm lostCause you seem super fucking needy/clingy. The girl is probably thinking "he just blew off his friends to talk to me dam he is getting attached and I hardly even know him"dude you are coming on way to strong. The only thing you can do now is wait for HER to contact you or you will probably never speak to her again if you continue messaging her lol OR she might actually be busy but I highly doubt it ;) | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:28 PM |
| – | Older womenI have the same problem, I am pretty muscular,good fashion sense (wear clothes that fit well and try to wear darker colours) can't grow a beard and everyone thinks I'm 5 years younger than what I actually am lol I can still pull though ! I think the only think that could make me look older and more masculine now is if I get to 10% body fat right now I'm at 15/18%. Cause I think it will my face will look more masculine since I have like a chubby round face lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:23 PM |
| – | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?I have and I believe I'm the shit lol I honestly believe I am cooler than like 90% of guys out there lol everyone is so fucking fake lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?I need to pay more attention to signs, they are so dam subtle sometimes... | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 05:34 PM |
| – | What was the most important thing you learned from the book models ?Fuck yes or no ? | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 05:34 PM |
| – | Blow by blow approach example?It's hard to explain it is more like a feeling. Try to FEEL what it would be like to be intimate with her so she KNOWS what's up.If she is uncomfortable she will leave and you will be seen as a creep but if she is receptive it is very powerful and you have done like 70% of the attraction building because t creates like a bubbles between the two of you xD It is very polarising so the Ones that stay are most likely interested. Also kino is important too, cause it literally lets her know what it fe… | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday 18thFrom the start cause otherwise you offer no value. If you are aloof you aren't adding any value to their life's. you would only be able to do that if you were famous or really good looking but even still you need to polarise them eventually or they will also lose interest. Fuck what everyone says, clear intent from the start, if they stay then they like you, if they don't they will leave or feel very uncomfortable. This way you will know which girls are interested, you should only go for girls t… | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I have a problem with opening a set with a dude in itNext time to this, hold eye contact, smirk, and hand gesture her to come over since you are afraid of approaching, if she comes over she is definitely interested at that moment. Yes it is true if you truly believe something and work towards it, it WILL happen. Look at the UFC fighter Connor mcgreagor their is videos of his younger self saying that he will be in the UFC and he actually made it happen ! It's the same thing with women. | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 09:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you flirt with and pursue a girl your only connect to over social media?It's so easy for a girl to be "fun". All they need to do is put out 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 12:33 AM |
| – | Weird never had a girlfriend situation...Perhaps you are afraid of commitment and being vulnerable. Be vulnerable, if you really like a girl let her know you are interested in more than just a hook up. Spend more time with girls you like and try to develop a deep connection | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday 18thWhen showing your intent try to make her FEEL what it would be like to be intimate with you using you whole energy. For example eye contact, tonality, body language and kino. Try to get into their space before initiating kino cause by doing so it doesn't look at awkward and it kind of indicates that she is comfortable with you in her space because she would take a step back if she wasn't . I feel like you main problem is that you don't know how to read her signals therefore you come off a bit cr… | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday 18thBecause you are expecting something in return when you compliment them.For example a phone number. Your compliment has to come from a place of abundance and non neediness. You don't need anything from her. You are simply complimenting her because you are a man and you like beautiful things and you are fine without getting anything in return . You compliment women because it makes YOU feel good and you would do it regardless of trying to "increase her level of attraction towards you" don't really… | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 12:10 AM |
| – | FR: fat ass red head and the chodey bfFuck those guys man ! Well done you got out of your comfort zone . Just remember to reflect after each time and focus on one thing you think you could of done better. Don't be like one of these idiots who approach hundreds of women but learn nothing from each interaction. Learn from each interaction and your results will improve. If you actually really try to remember your interaction with that red head, you will see where you fucked up unless you are retarded and have a really bad understanding… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem with opening a set with a dude in itYour mind is just making excuses for why you shouldn't approach. Also you sound racist. Stop making excuses and approach goddammit. Destroy your limiting beliefs. Have a strong frame. If you believe your race is lame, then you will be lame. However if you truly believe that you are a badass and that race has nothing to do with it then you will be a badass. You need to change your belief system ! It is not healthy. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I brought her to my room but I didn't know what to do next. Any tips?When a girl does that she is basically begging for it lol wtf ! If you are shy maybe wrestle or tickle her which would most likely lead to you making out lol It is your job as a man to make a move. She is not going to lie on your bed naked and say come here big boy lol | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Kissed on the 1st. When on the 2nd?When your faces are really close to each other and you lock eyes ? | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How universal are the tips and theory this sub has?Eye contact, Kino, vibe/energy, the ability the read her signals, courage to pull the trigger (escalate) | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 10:59 PM |
| 4 | I think I've really seduced this time boysYou should reflect on all your rejections so you can actually improve. Well done though ! | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 10:29 PM |
| – | [FR] First time going out and trying out seductionI wouldn't recommend going out alone tbh, it's better to get a wingman cause if you go out alone especially if you are a guy it seems kinda creepy. Unless you have solid game it's very hard to pull off. You will know what I mean. And some girls are hella rude at night they will destroy your confidence. If you wanna go out alone I'd recommend daygamr cause it is more natural and the women you speak to seem to be a lot friendlier, this is because it's during the day and approaches don't happen oft… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 07:39 PM |
| – | Blow by blow approach example?Approach,intent (so she knows why I'm approaching), eye contact with slight smirk(if she holds it that's a good sign), tonality (never use high pitch tone and always let her finish speaking by shutting the hell up,it also builds sexual tension.) next would be kino, try to stand closer to her so that when you escalate it doesn't feel as awkward (since you are already close to her).If she takes a step back she is not into you, if she stands her ground she is. So from here all you need to do is pul… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 07:19 PM |
| – | [FR] First time going out and trying out seductionYeah no worries just trying to help a bro out ! Yes you should of tried to escalate because by doing so you would actually of spiked her friends attraction levels for you cause she would be like dam why is he not hitting on me. Also it's good for reference experience But yeah I'd say the most important stuff would be intent,eye contact, KINO just focus on these three things and you should get some results | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 07:09 PM |
| – | [FR] First time going out and trying out seductionYou don't need to fill in awkward silences. If you can maintain eye contact with her during this it can build sexual tension and since she was the one who approached you I'm sure you could of escalated off that, perhaps some light kino. (Friendly cuddle, shoulder touch etc) | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody else just not bothered?Yes, I only want 9s and 10s who also have a great personality (which I can never seem to attract). Anything below I'm not really bothered. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a generic guide to Kino? Ive looked in the sidebar and online and theres only just 'priciples', I want more like a recipe/ideas/schedule and perhaps when each is appropriate.Pro tip : STAND CLOSER If she moves away back off a bit (probably not into you ) If she stays she is into you and you can escalate (Waist,lower back touch etc) | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:37 PM |
| 0 | I don't know why, but when I'm a bit drunk, I am a girl magnetWhat you are saying actually makes sense lol cause i do watch rsd videos and maybe I'm subconsciously applying what I learn when I'm drunk which seem to work like 90% of the time ! Just wish I could do it sober . | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:33 PM |
| 3 | I don't know why, but when I'm a bit drunk, I am a girl magnetI am the exact same, when I am drunk I can make almost any girl cry out with laughter and I am like 10x more wittier. However, when I sober I'm a ***** and take things way more seriously, can't tease/express myself fully etc etc I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOI ARE TALKING ABOUT ! | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:29 PM |
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