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Don't say anything about it and don't go out of your way to interact with her on Twitter, she will surely say it's "creepy." Don't think about it too much because it was a very unremarkable thing for her to do. Act like it didn't happen and go about your business.
/r/askTRP06/11/13 12:59 AM
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I've lurked around girls being girls a bit, and I think it's time to start reading these blogs written by women! Thank you for your help, I do feel more optimistic now.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 02:44 AM
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Not anit-women, not even anti-equality, but their focus is calling attention to places attention is lacking. That definitely clears some things up. I have spent the past few months reading the men's sites almost exclusively, which is probably why I encountered so much hate. I mean, I think I read everything Roosh wrote (except his books) in less than a month, then moved on and read anything I could find because it was simply fascinating. But recently it has started to seem like there was no in b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 02:43 AM
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Thank you. Honestly, I liked his response because it really helped me understand how my guy was viewing the situation. Based on all the other comments here and the responses in r/redpillwomen I know that I did the right thing and I stand behind it. But this particular comment really made me understand what was going on in my guys mind. He was certainly playing a game and I don't do that. I saw a very ugly side of him that night and it only got worse in the following days, and have decided I can'…
/r/askTRP05/11/13 02:26 AM
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One option is to stop looking for the whole package and instead look for the whole package in the making. I like it. With how entitled and all around lazy people are these days it's really hard! I am so happy that you wrote people instead of women. It's very frustrating to constantly read about how entitled and awful women are, when there really doesn't seem to be much attention paid to how men act towards us. They glorify telling women off and "pumping and dumping" us, but doesn't that make the…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 02:20 AM
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you arent supposed to be submissive to a bad man, you are supposed to find a GOOD man and submit to him--lol i think this gets confused It is the truth. But it's so HARD to find a good one! I don't know why but I keep stumbling upon … impostors basically. Guys who seem good but aren't. How are we supposed to find them?? I know I've seen this question before and the answer is always "be skinny and put together and feminine and charming"… and they will just appear? It sounds like a fairy tale… be …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 01:42 AM
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Good to know. I can't deal with the bullshit either, it's ridiculous coming from a 32 year old man. Just wanted to make sure I was making the right choice! :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 05:34 PM
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Ahh, I see. It's much easier for him to keep taking advantage of her as opposed to "manning up" so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 05:01 PM
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Perfect advice. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:58 PM
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In his defense I did answer a few of the calls… it wasn't like 12 unanswered calls in a row. I probably talked to him 4 times that night and the conversations just got more and more muddled haha
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:56 PM
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If you just turned 23 you have time to find someone else. There are a lot more guys out there once you're actually free of the college-type interactions. Can you meet guys at work? Generally you shouldn't date people you work with, but I would probably cultivate friendships with older guys at your workplace, don't flirt with them but show them you are feminine and desirable. They will think of you if any of their friends start looking for something serious. But seriously, you're still young. Ima…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:51 PM
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The 25-27yr old version of me wouldn't have known what to do with a 23yr old RPW. I would have taken advantage and surfed the wave until it broke. Can clarify what you're saying here?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:46 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. He is very selfish and I finally realized he's absolutely not ready for a LTR. He claimed to want a "nice, sweet girl" and I was definitely that, but he have nothing back. It kind of felt like he was constantly patting himself on the back whenever his new knowledge would work for him, whether it was picking up random girls or trying to nail down one girl. He's probably still working out all this red pill stuff and is trying too hard to be an alpha, which is in fact …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:39 PM
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Is there anything you think I can say or do to get him to take it down a notch?
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:00 AM
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Thank you. This is all definitely spot on. It always seemed kind of odd whenever he would bring up Red Pill stuff and his sexual past. A major complaint of TRP is that men end up objectifying women, and I do believe that to be true. It was almost like he was patting himself on the back for getting a girl to love him because it validated all of his new ideologies, instead of loving/caring in return. I think it's a phase though, some men, like you, seem to really get it. I'm glad that I came to th…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 12:57 AM
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Thank you! That was a perfect response. I think you two have some things in common and that was very insightful in terms of understanding how he views the situation. I realize it was an immature reaction but in that situation I really had no idea what to do. Maybe it was immature, but it brought out his true colors, and I'm glad I did it. That being said, I will probably handle myself differently in the future and take your advice. Then resort to storming out as a last option ;) By the way the b…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 08:43 PM
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I don't mind him talking about his past relationships. I've obviously mentioned past boyfriends so that's not the issue. I just don't know how cool he would have been if the situation were reversed- if, minutes after he met up with me at a bar, I texted my ex to come over. Specifically, a really annoying ex who I've said still loves me. Also, I was going to watch a mens college basketball game with a friend. He invited himself actually, when I said I would be going because I assumed he would be …
/r/askTRP03/11/13 06:37 PM
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Thanks! Good idea- just posted this over there as well.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 04:36 PM
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No, thank you! I was asking for advice. I'm just new to all this red pill stuff and wanted to make sure I wasn't being overly dramatic or something. I know how much the guys around here hate that haha
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:05 AM
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She definitely got under my skin. But I've met a lot of silly women like her before and can deal with that. It was more his treatment of the situation that bothered me. He knew she was an example of "bad peopledom" so why would he want her to come over at all? Like you said, she should have been ignored. I ignored her, he didn't. I assume he wanted to make me jealous, but I think he took it too far. I kind of lost it when I saw him talking to her and his friend with his arm wrapped around her, a…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:01 AM
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So you think he's acting like an asshole?
/r/askTRP03/11/13 01:41 AM
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So do you think I was overreacting or was it justified? He is alpha, I agree with you. I also know that he gets away with murder with most women and I'm not sure how to act when he slips into asshole mode.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 12:52 AM
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Yeah, that was REALLY surprising
/r/askTRP03/11/13 12:50 AM
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Haha! I love this. So many silly girls want the best guys but don't know how to get them. Reading Cosmo articles on how to get guys is like taking diet pills that claim you can lost 20 lbs in a week and you don't have to change your eating/exercise habits. "Can't I just buy a pie from the grocery and save myself the time?" Sure honey, but I don't think you're going to be sharing that store-bought pie with this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/13 04:55 PM
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Most guys like to 'teach' so get them to explain what they are doing as they help you. This is a good point! If I like a guy, I will try to find ways to ask for their help. Nothing too big, obviously, or they can get weirded out. You want to avoid being too complimentary or you could seem like you're already in love with the guy. Which is indeed creepy. Just smile and be nice and ask questions. Don't think toooo much about how you're acting. It will come with time :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/13 01:23 PM
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