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Desperation for many to find someone to settle down, have a kid with etc. changes things a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:42 PM
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Other evidence points to being fit & at least somewhat muscular as attractive in common height ranges. There’s just an upper limit that you’ll never surpass without height. Going to the gym is still a good idea just don’t let it consume you
/r/BlackPillScience14/02/23 07:13 PM
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Probably. It is hard to estimate weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:59 PM
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The manosphere YouTube titles all read “Men have given up on dating”, “it’s even impossible for Chads to be happy”, “I’m a guy living in my van but women desire me desperately yet I don’t want them”, “Death of masculinity”. There’s no evidence that above average men have gone “monk mode” but if you read YouTube titles or watched the videos, you’d think this was a national phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:48 AM
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Yeah, and there are ranges of fat. Even at early obesity some women look “good”. Curvy. I know plenty of likely 180-200 pound women who are very popular with men. Usually the heavier they get past that the “uglier” they get. This is all generalizations of course as I do agree that ugly is hard to universally define.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:40 AM
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Yeah, if the question is “are you single”, women who are in situationships, friends with benefits, seeing different guys regularly etc are likely to answer “No”, even though a guy in those scenarios would likely answer “Yes”. Women don’t like to be single because for them it’s so easy not to be single that it looks bad if they are for very long. And it’s lonely without at least some guy in rotation. And to make it even more confusing, women in these scenarios will tell men they’re interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:14 PM
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You are completely correct that single women don’t go out. I’ve gone out single to hundreds of places the last few years and other than grocery stores, I can count the number of single women I saw out on one hand. It’s absolutely not due to them giving up on dating. Statistics show that’s not true in the slightest. It’s that going out alone is more dangerous for a woman. And women can just sit at home and swipe for express dick delivery or dates. There’s no reason for them to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:06 PM
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Hence r/AmITheAngel. Plus a majority of top posts are fiction
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:41 AM
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They weren’t even married. https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/vuob76/i_lost_the_chance_to_be_in_my_daughters_life_due/ifeyn8t
/r/MensRights09/07/22 11:53 AM
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The OP writes that he was not married. No divorce
/r/MensRights09/07/22 11:51 AM
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Happy usually for at least 10 years before the marital problems intensify.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:29 PM
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Not even that. They don’t have to judge the woman in any way—men are assumed the problem for any woman’s dating struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:06 AM
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A bit of a digression, but to be fair, you don’t need to change pairs of high quality wool hiking socks everyday. Wool is anti microbial, so gets smelly much slower than cotton, and dry quickly. Hikers wear wool socks for several days in a row in my experience. But if they were cotton socks, that’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:49 AM
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But you’re not You said guys should try to be famous instead of working towards getting girls if they’re struggling Most guys will get girls eventually if they try, even if they’re not having luck right now. Most guys will not become famous eventually even if they try If you acknowledge how most guys won’t succeed... how are you recommending less successful > more successful strategies? You either have skipped that basic logical step in your recommendation or you are not actually acknowledging h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:29 AM
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I don’t see why #1 have to be low SMV guys. Even average SMV guys have to go out of their way to try and date, and if they decide to just not go through the effort, they become #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:25 PM
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Women: We like men who aren’t virgins but don’t have an n-count of 20 by 21 Men on Reddit: WoMeN SaY tHeY wAnT eXpErIeNcE, wHy No ThErEdPiLl, JuSt lIkE tHe ReDdIt AdMiNs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:46 PM
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Saying a “majority” of men believe that is the biggest exaggeration I’ve heard all week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:34 AM
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I’m not worried about that at all man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:28 AM
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You need more info on the 10k raters How the 10,000 people rating have declined or improved in attractiveness. Like if they got fat, they’re more likely to be more generous to fatter people in later years The 10k raters additional details like marital status, happiness in relationships at rating time, job Several other things would have to be done to make their self ratings more reliable in repetition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:27 AM
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I also cum in cheerios
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:46 PM
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Software engineer, not Silicon Valley. When I started, most my male coworkers had terrible times dating in their early 20s just starting out. A couple years in now and they’ve seen some recent success. Very little women around, and I dated the only hot one at my last workplace. Went terrible as expected. It’s not like working with more women would help you date them, you probably shouldn’t, but it would probably help with being introduced to their friends if you got close :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:26 AM
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I see very little in my suburb of big city. I might see one at a coffee shop every now and then. But if I travel into town, quite a lot. It was just graduation week & everyone dressed nice partying in the city had me flabbergasted there were so many attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:57 PM
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Also FYI: The median age at diagnosis for colon cancer is 68 in men and 72 in women The median age of women at the time of breast cancer diagnosis is 62 years. Breast cancer occurs in younger people, and we like to rally against early death than deaths in older age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:36 PM
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Then what changed to make this so much "worse" in the last 10, 20 years? At least that's what I hear all the time - dating is harder than ever. Women have been just as promiscuous in the last 10 years than they were 30 years ago and guys still committed. There were also "players" back then who didn't commit to anyone using the knowledge that they just didn't have to commit. What happened? Shift in the overall male attitude? I feel like I come across tons of guys desperate for committed relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:57 PM
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The subreddit doesn’t censor incels so that’s not unexpected, but it’s also pretty obvious to discern an incel argument from one rational humans make. IMO at least. If you had read it, you had to ask because they had no explanation for those statements, because they’re incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:26 AM
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Me either. What u/imnot-lola is describing an incel argument. It’s not advocated that people who have successful, happy dating lives are “bad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:30 PM
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Most of my male friends were single for years until 25-26 when probably half got relationships suddenly. Not happened to me yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:31 AM
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Agreed. Dude has never been to a club or is just psycho analyzing everything far too much to meet his preconceived RP beliefs. Clubs are not aggressively attempting to dominate and subjugate other men. At least not in any hostile way like described. Maybe that’s just you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:18 PM
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It existing before Tinder doesn’t matter. It wasn’t until just recently that over half the dating population had used dating apps before, so the OD dating generation just began after Tinder came out. It was not popular enough in the 90s to define the generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:52 AM
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You think an OK Cupid study is data? Yes...? It was published by OKCupid themselves run off their site data. It even included some example photos and their average rating. It can be interpreted as exactly what it said, OKCupid female users rated 80% of men on the site as below average based off their dating profile photos. Why so hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:51 AM
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Being German is not the main issue with stating their findings from the single study as "singles". Their greater than the average singles age and requirement of being single 2+ years all should be mentioned. This says nothing about a single early 20 year old for example or anyone who has been single only a year, etc. It is specifically mentioned in the study that this is not a dataset representing an average single like you described, but focuses on more middle aged adults who have been alone lo…
/r/BlackPillScience06/04/22 01:57 PM
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In German adults born between 1981-1983 or 1971-1973, surveyed between 2008-2020, who had been single for over two years already and many had already been married before. Hard to make a broad statement from that.
/r/BlackPillScience04/04/22 05:58 AM
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There were more in the past though. A lot more, though still not much in the 18-22 category
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:57 PM
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Based on your experience, you believe that; based on mine, I don't & I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:57 PM
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Sure. You just wanted to see how peoples experience lined up so I mentioned it. There could be a skew that effects the dating market, but in my personal experience, I don't think it effects most men, especially men in the lower half of the conventionally attractive market, and especially in a man's 20s. I can't comment as much regarding educated men in their 30s, but I imagine they hold infinitely more power than that same man in his early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:16 PM
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Are you saying that women don't care if a guy has a college degree? No If you're saying that it doesn't really advantage you until at 30, maybe at age 23, women were too busy dating older men, making it hard for younger guys Sorta. Women when they are younger are busy dating not just older men, but the same men. I work in tech in a top 25 city. Nobody I work with is getting any action. If their degree or job mattered, they would get action if there is a shortage of college-educated men making go…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:57 PM
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My experience is that this literally doesn’t matter until the women start hitting close to 30. You are no better off “in the big city” with a slightly higher female population at 23 then you are anywhere else. You also specifically reference the singles gender ratio in NYC in the above 30 crowd because that’s when it gets more drastic & women get more in a frenzy to settle down instead of casually date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:47 AM
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According to “Alpha Male Big Buxx Red Pill Dude Bro” on Youtube several people did something, gotta post asking why it’s a “trend in society”!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:44 AM
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Extremely little. 10%? Less than 1% of men are leaving the US solely for finding a wife. Only 2% of US citizens live abroad at all.. break that down to only single men and it’s like 0.5%... then they would have had to move only for women, so down to like 0.05% lol. The idea of this post that there is this mass exodus of men to other countries solely for women is just not true. You hear about it in the manosphere and that’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:42 AM
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It’s a “dating” sub for women who have tons of options, so thats not the focus. The focus is vetting those bountiful options for the best one among them, while a man dating subreddit would focus on standing out among the options; this is a natural consequence of the current dating scene. But yes, there are some
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 PM
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They want grails. What they believe to be rare and positive qualities in a partner while being frustrated that most people don’t have these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:59 PM
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This. I don't mind listening to his headlines, but then 10 minutes is spent spouting the same points as always, which revolve around very obvious/simple things (women SAY this but MEAN this etc) that are not at all novel or often even related lol. And because of the way he talks, it's not easy to skim videos.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 06:57 AM
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No. Statistically, Hispanics have a much higher birth rate per thousand women and represent a much, much larger population in the US. So no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 01:29 AM
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If Hispanic immigrants weren't such a huge population, the US birth rate would be similar to China and Japan and you'd see worry about it. But the birth rate is looking good "overall", you hear very little regarding worry of the rise in marriage age, singledom etc. As long as there are people to replace us, I don't see why the government would care! Edit: note that I'm not trying to get race involved, just that a subsection of the population popping out tons of babies (which China/Japan lack) de…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:38 AM
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Right. There are benefits as mentioned, but also as mentioned, the risks of the procedure may not be worth the minor benefits which is elaborated on in the article.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:24 AM
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Article says apparent benefits of circumcision, such as preventing urinary tract infections, sexually transmitted diseases and penile cancer Like the study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3139859/ There was a strong protective effect of childhood/adolescent circumcision on invasive penile cancer (OR = 0.33; 95% CI 0.13–0.83; 3 studies). Men circumcised in childhood/adolescence are at substantially reduced risk of invasive penile cancer, and this effect could be mediated partly throu…
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:59 AM
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Yes, but a YouTube video that got a million views said the opposite! That’s just as much “proof” that values have changed than Seinfeld proving that it hasn’t. Seinfeld was entertainment about narcissistic people in outlandish scenarios doing outlandish things in a fictional story using shock humor, not “average dating”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:01 AM
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Before 20, I did cheat. I should have simply ended my relationship but I was too afraid to, so I started falling for another woman and cheated before actually breaking it up. Then once the second relationship fell apart a few years later, I again engaged in sexting with someone right before the relationship ended. It took me a bit to figure out to just end unhappy relationships so that I don’t hurt the other person even more. I would not and have not ever considered cheating in the many years si…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:28 PM
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I’ve had two matches that matched just to insult me too. I don’t get why people do that. It especially stings when they’re your only matches! Sorry that happened to you; I would consider moving off Tinder as generally people on Bumble are nicer. Hinge on the other hand was the worst for abuse from women, probably because it’s funner to stomp on men who tried sending you a message first
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:17 AM
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And I’m commenting on a single aspect while saying other parts are fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:28 PM
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I don’t think they do either, but in a post listing specifically men’s issues, listing an issue that is not a men’s issue is not valid as just as many women experience out of relationship jealously too. You can’t expect human nature to change. You can talk all day about men being less sexually aggressive on dating apps—men can change that—but I just think it’s ridiculous to include jealousy as a specifically men’s issue and something that men or people in general can willingly change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:26 PM
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First of all, “expect women to be faithful” vs not enjoying witnessing flirting is not the same. And you’re saying women who had FWB and saw the guy flirt with other women would not get jealous? Because in my experience, they do. It is human nature. Jealousy is not a gendered issue, but if you’d like to make it one like you have, women are more jealous than men. At least get that right when you pointlessly gender issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:36 PM
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But men expect you to be faithful to them while they keep their options open, most of the time. I disagree. Who told you this? Your limited dating experience so you made a generalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:19 PM
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I'd go back to 2013 Tinder. You get all the positives of the modern era mentioned like more empowered women, all while the algorithms of online dating haven't been altered too much yet to keep you on the apps instead of getting dates. Average blokes were dating & finding relationships with online dating much more successfully then, and online dating polls say that people in 2015 were happier with dating apps then compared to now. You'd get a couple of good years in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:55 AM
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Her probably telling him about her past is also an argument to not tell him since he already probably knows. In most cases he already knows she was a typical sorority girl or whatever and I'd only advocate tattling at extreme levels like this. I just stay out of people's businesses typically, it's the recommended way of how you keep friends & agreeable work colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:45 PM
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Normally no, but if it’s legit at the level of “multiple trains” then go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:17 AM
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The only time inceldom made the national news was due to a mass shooting, so that's definitely a reason why ignorant people are so aggressively spiteful against them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:04 AM
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You’re limiting the avenues you have to meet women because of a preconceived bias that women who talk to you first are slutty instead of getting to know them and finding out yourself. I don’t like to use labels on people like that — you have no idea if you’re the only person she’s done that with — and I find the red flags of people by actually talking to them. I don’t need to determine if they are a slut by them striking up a conversation one time since there are much better ways to determine th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:11 PM
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Yes they do. You even roleplay online as a formerly married man who entered a relationship for a reason. This sub is filled with guys looking for relationships, upset over lack of dating success, upset over failing relationships and more. You are "redpilled" and believe that most men only value getting their dick wet because that's what TRP and the "alpha males" of YouTube told you, but that's not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:35 PM
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I think you can tell when she does this with other people. I had an incident where a girl, who was with her friends, made a frantic head turn when she saw me and bolted towards me to introduce herself. Obviously fake or something she does all the time. But if she seemed shy or not practiced at it, I don't think you have to be overly paranoid. And who even cares if she did it to someone last week too; you shouldn't be getting your heart broken over strangers in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:18 PM
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Yeah, it’s something you have to mentally cope with. It is too easy to be bitter about that; I don’t want to be bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:08 PM
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Born with the sin of a birthdate between Feb 19 and March 20. The horror!
/r/MensRights22/12/21 04:58 PM
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Nobody is saying outliers don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:26 PM
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Agreed. I was the same as OP - young, fit, own place, engineer making good money, played soccer, fashion hobby, wrote, side business in editing, etc - and women did not give me the time of day because I was never particularly facially attractive or tall. In fact, many young women liked me less for being an engineer because before 25 many could care less about dating based on income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:17 AM
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It's some annoying misbelief here that TRP would be the same as PUA It's because the TRP subreddit had a huge amount of field reports and PUA strategies. It does more theory now, but an outsider looking in at the novellas wrote about how a guy picked up 4 women in a day + the color of underwear they all wore made it easy to dismiss as PUA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:37 PM
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The title says ugly women have more partners than their male counterparts when the numbers are 6.01 vs 6.03 in the ugly category. What a difference! This is the worst blackpill stats post I have ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:39 AM
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I come from a family of doctors, and as you mention, female doctors work less. I know no female doctor that works more than 3 days a week. They spend time with their kids or at home. There's nothing wrong with this, if anything I encourage the improved work-life balance, but you can't then complain that you make less. I don't think they do complain about earning less, it's just headlines like this.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 07:52 PM
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No. They are still not to blame for the abuse if they “let it happen”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:39 PM
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You could only assume it by loss or lack of attraction from them, otherwise I don't know how
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:31 AM
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After TRP shut down, I still needed a place for a good laugh every now and then. Here you get both FDS and TRP providing some humor occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:11 AM
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That'll do it. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:58 PM
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Did you read my post? I'm agreeing you, fool. So am I. Did you read my post? Yes, TRP was quarantined for a reason as should be FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:27 PM
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The idea that a TRP man could ever be unbiased about extremism on the internet is laughable. The literal whole argument is "it's just like TRP so it's ok" - but who decided that TRP had nothing wrong with it? A TRPer? Lmao. Yes, TRP was quarantined for a reason as should be FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:03 PM
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Here in Canada, female kidnappers are 9% of all kidnappers a year. You’d expect to hear a story about them occasionally, but I don’t remember a single one.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 07:16 AM
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Even if she has significant crypto, which is unlikely but theoretically possible, she did not have much until recently. Her 10 years of no 9 to 5 is not from investments. Just making it up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 04:50 AM
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You don't really know whether she was interested True, a woman flirting with me might make me happy, but it also doesn’t mean much. You can assume so little from flirting, and women have been saying for 50 years that you shouldn’t assume anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:29 PM
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The most hateful people on “I hate being lonely” posts are TRP/MGTOW men, the men who are “looking out for other men”. Block emotions you beta, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:14 AM
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Yes, a quick skim shows only positives from men posting about being lonely there. You can grasp at straws and say that the post where a man said every girl he’s tried to date has an Onlyfans wasn’t super positive, but there were questions about how that’s possible when way less than 5% of young women have them. Usually in negative posts there are little tidbits like that. I disagree with OP saying men are treated poorly for posting simple “I hate being single” type posts. There are injustices th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:10 AM
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The best part is the texture. Why rob yourself of that with a fork?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:35 AM
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I had some app for a few years that did a routine of after an alarm, it would start streaming Reuters news summary videos. Pretty decent way to start a morning. Also, news stations like Cheddar and Newsy do exist that primarily have a millennial audience. Just FYI. I turned on Cheddar recently and it was just NFTs for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:36 AM
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There's no excuse not to drink 2L of water a day. There's no excuse not to buy utensils for the kitchen. There's no excuse not to eat more vegetables. There's no excuse to watch the news every morning and get informed (everyone has free 10 minutes!). etc This just isn't a take. Like OK? I await the 20 iterations of this same concept in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:21 AM
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Don’t let anyone find out, especially HR. Don't let them know at first, or ever if it's like at Home Depot, but if it's going to be anything longterm in an office setting you should probably tell HR, as many organizations have policies around it. If you're going to get engaged for example, tell HR. Keep it from coworkers even longer though. Let them know through your wedding invitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:11 AM
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You can disagree on what theory you believe for why this is happening. I don't believe people male sexlessness is because of: Cheating, manipulation,abuse, stringing along women for sex with the fake promise of serious commitment,revenge porn leaks got so out of hand that pursuing a serious relationship with a man often leads to disaster. Obviously not all men are cheating manipulative psychotic bastards. Not even most, and men aren't getting more manipulative over time to explain why the trend …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:20 PM
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To be a part of communities like FDS and TRP, in order for it to be a “safe space” aka echo chamber, you have to agree to certain “facts”. That’s just how many online communities and cults work. Likeminded people coming together to rant and vent, not discuss and argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:52 PM
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The top posts of the TRP were men writing these long stories about how they banged 6 chicks in one day, mentioning the color of their underwear, size of their breasts, of how their perfect TRP speeches made the women to become violently wet, etc. Absolutely just locker room fiction. This place (PPD) treats it like its hard science or something. There is plenty that PPD doesn't take seriously as a whole, like pickup artist/manosphere dating coach advice, the multi phrase cult lingo like "ASD" and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:56 PM
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I am not sure what you are arguing. You’re agreeing with me lol Women who previously got trash treatment from their partners can simply stay single & have occasional hookups, Yes, that’s what I was saying. They still have sex, and the average age of being married getting older for both men and women supports the idea that people likely stay single longer Why go for ugly,poor men instead of rich, handsome men This statement also supports the fact that the behavior of women support not selecting c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:57 PM
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Incel,MGTOW sites & subs are two of the most Misogynistic forums I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:28 PM
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The rise in sexlessness is due to more women choosing to stay single than ever That doesn’t make sense. They’re still having sex even if they’re staying single; there is no rise in sexlessness for women. It’s not like in the last 10 years men got uglier and women didn’t, so obviously the behavior of women as the sexual selectors has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:28 PM
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The issue is that there is no rise in sexlessness for women, so no matter what is going on with them, they can still get laid or date. Ugly men used to have sex too with ugly women, but now they are more likely to be sexless and frustrated. It makes sense that women don’t talk about being increasingly sexless because... it isn’t happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:16 PM
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The issue is that there is no rise in sexlessness for women, so no matter what is going on with them, they can still get laid or date. This is changing with men in recent years as sexlessness gets more severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:14 PM
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Less attractive males have a rise in sexlessness as women become more selective to the top % of dating app men only! Less attractive men at fault for being short and ugly! The rage from mistreatment by attractive men with bountiful options that you put up with because they’re hot, shifted onto other men! The phrases you’ll let hot guys say to you, not acceptable from ugly scrotes! Less attractive and short men are truly to blame for all this for existing! Why not be tall with sharp features and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:56 PM
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That’s not it. The CDC one is about obesity, and the latest 2018 data has men and women about the same. Your second link single care is referencing Overall, adult obesity rates are higher for women. (National Center for Health Statistics, 2013-2014) Which is an older study. When the CDC compared in past years women were most obese, but again the latest data says men and women are about the same. You can look at the CDC data by year and see how women were estimated to be most obese in past years …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:01 PM
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Do a couple of cycles of trenbolone You might have coronary artery disease now but hey, got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:36 AM
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I hadn’t seen this, do you have a media post like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:34 AM
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My worst relationship was with a Middle Eastern woman. Most come with tons of cultural and familial hurdles to relationships, and my ex was even forced to get arraigned married after we broke up. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:17 AM
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This is my favorite interaction in a while on Reddit. A man actually did not understand that a percentage was out of 100 or how they worked at all. Made my day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:24 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Percentage ​ In mathematics, a percentage (from Latin per centum "by a hundred") is a number or ratio expressed as a fraction of 100. It is often denoted using the percent sign, "%" ​ A percentage represents a fraction of 100. So, 39% is 39/100. As your study notes, it's "percentage that met this way". 39/100 met this way. So... 61/100 remains. You have to be trolling me? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:13 PM
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What are you talking about? Yes, they add up to over 100% when added individually. I’m not doing that. I’m saying that if 39% of people met online, then 61% did not. That’s just simple logic friend. That is “39% of couples met online”, then 61% did not. Percentages do not add to 100% because the categories are not mutually exclusive; more than one category can apply. That means you can't add up everything that wasn't "Met Online." Nobody is doing that. Do you not realize that 100-39=61%? I can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:53 PM
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I completely get what inclusive means. 39% of couples met where online was a factor in their relationship. One of possible many factors - inclusive 61% of couples did not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:21 PM
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Thanks. OPs study didn’t mention the specifics since they just borrow another studies results. Still, anything that doesn’t use the inclusive “online” is still in-person only or they would’ve included it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:05 PM
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If it requires bored, then women. They leave relationships first far more often and can better function in open relationships (as in, ease in finding a casual partner). Most men below the top % can’t even consider one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:07 PM
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Both, but in different ways. Women are more likely to be in an open relationship (frequent in lesbians/bisexuals) or have a series of short relationships bordering on anti monogamy. Men are more likely to just not be in a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:58 PM
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In my single work relationship, a group of colleagues got together that included her and we got together from there. I would not ask out someone while at work, nor would I recommend dating someone at work at all, but as you can tell it does still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:40 PM
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Not true OLD (Including dating apps and social media) is the most common way couples meet nowadays. That’s a bit disingenuous. 39% met online, and 61% met someway in person. That is just broken up into several categories like meeting at church, through friends etc. and there is no single “in-person” category. Still more meet in-person based off your data.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:41 AM
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Good riddance. They just improved your life by leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:33 AM
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I remember tutoring a girl for months due to a crush, but I did get to rub her thigh so hey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:30 AM
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I had #1 on a lesser scale. She then tried to make out with me, but she actually understood when I told her how she had been cockblocking herself the whole time. I was surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:29 AM
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I had the great idea once to write a Christmas/graduation card to my ex of several months. I’ll allow us one majorly embarrassing event in life like this. Never did anything close again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:24 AM
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Every time I have heard something like this from people saying their therapist said it, it’s something a therapist would never say. There’s either a bunch of unhinged therapists or people just misunderstand/lie; I believe the latter. It gets tiktok views after all.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:24 AM
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Throughout my schooling, it was obvious many teachers preferred girls, but there were actually teachers who preferred the guys of the class too. It will just be like that. Never know what you’re gonna get
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:16 AM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:52 PM
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Indian medical programs are a joke even without this issue. There’s a reason why they aren’t respected in western countries
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:51 PM
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Look where I am now This made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:48 PM
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Then why are you posting to purplepill multiple times an hour? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:45 PM
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which costs a fortune I was surprised that it does not. I had a basic insurance plan where it cost $20 a session in-network. At least for many it can be affordable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 05:12 AM
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Men are more obese in all age groups but one. I guess you did not look. Your data is fine for when the article was wrote (2015), but I’m just updating you with the latest data which goes against your point. They are nearly equal in obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:42 PM
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In 20-39 years old the women are not higher. About the same. 40.3% for men vs 39.7% for women for obesity. In other years women were higher though https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/obesity-adult-17-18/obesity-adult.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:25 PM
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I mean I agree, but the question is not about men desiring younger women (of course they do) and women hating that (they do), but women desiring 20+ year older men being overstated (which the vast majority don’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:49 PM
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Bowsette 2018 was interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:47 PM
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Agreed. The only time you wouldn’t care is if you wanted her to be a housewife, and no offense to TRP but the majority of women today don’t have that down as their future job right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:34 PM
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There are absolutely men out there that really don’t care about your education, work, and career. But hopefully they should have some interest in things like your career ambitions, it’s just not non-zero that don’t. I also think OP is wrong at least with career ambitions—at least half care about this some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:57 AM
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Yeah sure, a 35 year old might consider a 48 year old etc but at that age the manosphere already doesn’t want them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:20 PM
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This affects nothing. Large age gap relationships are declining Women being more educated has been a trend for a long time, and women aren’t marrying significantly wider age gap men... they’re just settling like you know they do when they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:51 AM
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It really is overblown. The manosphere will tell you that you’ll be able to lay more 18-21 year olds at 44 than 24, and that’s just not true. The age gap is absolutely within 10 years, and anybody within that range is going to way more sucessful than you out of it. Not that there aren’t some sugar babies and mentally ill woman to bang. Saying you can bang teens with more gusto than ever before if you just “wait” just seems like phrases they say for coping. Start putting in the effort into yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:45 AM
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I am not sure if this is the same mask (there are lots of mask models imitating the golden ratio out there) but there is https://github.com/Aksoylu/GoldenFace
/r/BlackPillScience25/10/21 04:08 PM
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The audacity to be that confident when you are a hot mess. I'm sure she still hears from men how beautiful she is and she has a fantastic personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 04:58 AM
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Single motherhood is a never ending cycle of taking care of your kid and then jumping into risky behaviors the second you don’t have them. They’re stressed out af; imagine wasting away the years where you’re beautiful and can do literally anything, but you’re stuck at home all day. I don’t envy any single mother and stay far away from their excursions
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 08:32 AM
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