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Makes sense, thanks.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:23 PM
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Why are you trying to dance for these girls? You’re in their frame before the conversation even starts. I start every tinder conversation with the exact same line: hi there, cutie ;) It’s a good litmus test. Most girls respond positively (“thanks!” or “hi, handsome!”) or neutrally (“hi, how are you?”), in which case the conversation moves forward, quickly, towards meeting for drinks. Go for the meet. No point in being one of a hundred guys trying to entertain her through her phone screen. Be the…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:29 PM
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Really? I live in Tokyo and I’ve smashed almost every Korean I’ve been on a date with. Was wondering if Koreans are generally easy or if I’ve just gotten lucky.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:38 PM
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I’ve been around TRP since well before the ridiculous conservative wave swept through. Monogamy was never the assumption before that, nor should it be. OLTR is a useful term when the distinction needs to be made, but an LTR can be either way.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 01:07 AM
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That’s not quite right. An LTR can be monogamous, but doesn’t have to be. LTR literally just means long term relationship. The difference between FWB and LTR is 1) length of time and 2) closeness of the relationship. My last LTR I’d introduce to people as “my girlfriend.” My FWBs on the side were always “my friend.”
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:35 PM
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The sidebar. What else?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:22 PM
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It’s absolutely nothing like that. It’s a subconscious mechanism programmed into her by her biology, by which she evaluates a guy’s fitness as a mate. She’s not eating her babies, it’s just a god damn shit test. Find your balls and toughen up.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:21 PM
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Because the pussy is good. Best pussy (and throat, by a mile) I’ve ever had, the bitch was absolutely crazy. But so was the pussy.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:01 AM
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Jesus Christ, just fuck the girl. Or don’t. Whatever. It doesn’t matter what she “wants.” What you want, your frame, is all there is. If she’s not on board with what you want, move on. Just like any other thot on tinder. I’ve had plates who had sugar daddies. Doesn’t matter. She gets money and shoes and shit from them and good dick from me and everyone’s happy. Except maybe the poor sap dropping his paycheck on her for a once a month pity fuck.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:57 AM
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They don’t want you to be submissive. They’re testing to see if you’re a man or a pussy, and you’re failing the test. It’s subconscious, not malicious. It isn’t fucked up, it’s biology. That’s just how they are. You can’t expect them to be like men, because they’re not. You have to learn and accept how they are. This is TRP 101. You’ve got some reading to do.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:42 AM
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Found the woman in the thread.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:07 PM
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There will always be guys better than you at salsa. Cuban dudes hang out in the salsa clubs here in Tokyo, and even the salsa teachers can’t keep up with those guys. Doesn’t matter. Keep at it and in two years you’ll be good enough that any chick would enjoy dancing with you, whether other guys are better or not. You’re not dancing competitively, so you just have to be good enough to have fun.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:48 PM
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Change your circle. Go on meetup and join a few groups. There are some cheap parties every weekend in Roppongi. Take dancing classes. Just do something that puts you in contact with different people, preferably people who aren't miserable.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:39 AM
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Depends on the girl. I've been on plenty of dates where she'd speak Japanese and I'd speak English, and we'd use Google Translate to help out. Those can be fun but generally I go for girls who speak English at least enough to have a conversation. My Japanese is sort of intermediate-ish, enough to make small talk but not enough to really talk about anything or flirt well, etc. Your pool of girls is definitely smaller, but it's such a big city it doesn't really matter.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:36 AM
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The really young ones I mostly meet on Tinder or Bumble. I don't run into 19 year olds in my daily life, unless I'm at a pickup bar or something.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:36 AM
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Ah, gotcha. Yeah, same is true in Taiwan. You can make damn good money there teaching English. Not 6 figures unless you’re very good and you’re teaching execs, but cost of living is lower so it probably evens out. The pay in Japan for a regular English teacher at a cram school or whatever is like US$2000 a month. Absolute shit, and you’ll work more than full time too. Not worth it unless you’re just trying to get into Japan on a visa and then find another job.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:48 AM
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“But?” Do you know how much money there is in Tokyo? I don’t go a day without seeing a dozen or more supercars. I couldn’t imagine living in China. And I’m fluent in Chinese. Fuck that. Everyone I know in China is trying to get out. Many of them to Japan, where you can live in an actual civilized society.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:32 AM
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If you have your shit together and you’re halfway decent looking (and you like Asians—some poor saps don’t), it’s a sexual paradise. The girls are sweet, feminine, sexually open, gorgeous, not fat, and they dress stylishly. Nobody gives a shit if you date younger women, as it’s perfectly normal here. In fact, nobody gives a shit what you do in your private life. That’s the beauty of living in a country that hasn’t been ruined by Christianity. It’s an awesome place to live. The food is incredible…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:05 AM
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OP, Uncle Vasily’s posts are indispensable. Keep in mind, you haven’t even reached your prime. Those “lost years” don’t matter. You can slay much harder in your 30s than you could in your 20s, if you play your cards right. According to Rollo, a man’s peak SMV is at 38. There’s no reason to date post-wall girls if you don’t want to. I’m 35 and my current plates are 22 and 19. I live in Japan and the girls here age very well, so I do occasionally hook up with or date girls my age or even older, bu…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:52 PM
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Face wash year round. I think it’s Neutrogena but I’m not sure without checking. It’s really mild on the skin. In the summer, that’s it for my face. But it’s really dry here in the winter, so I use Kiehl’s Facial Fuel moisturizer. And drink lots of water. My skin looks great. I’m 35 but people guess late 20s. Beard trimmer once or twice a week to maintain a few days’ growth. Classic side part haircut—think Don Draper with stubble. I’ve got some gray at the temples which doesn’t show when my hair…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:28 AM
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My last several plates have all been 18-22, except one. I’m 35. They love the wisdom and guidance I give them, and the good (experienced) dick. I love their youthful feminine energy and tight bodies. It’s a win-win. You’re new here, otherwise this wouldn’t be surprising. Hit the gym and read the sidebar + Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:59 AM
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Sure, I figured that might have been the case and I was saying it as much for you as for anyone else reading. Powertalk is in the sidebar, I think. Or in the TRP handbook, I forget which (I’m on mobile).
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:43 PM
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Read up on powertalk. “Let’s grab a drink” does mean “I’m interested in fucking you,” but without overtly saying it. Women know that. Let’s meet for drinks = let’s fuck. Let’s get a nice dinner = let’s date. That shit you said in your “radical honesty” example is horrible, spergy as hell, and would come across creepy at best. Also, consider the difference between “honesty” and “full disclosure.” You can be honest with someone (not lie) without laying everything out on the table. Women don’t want…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:47 AM
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Fuck off. You’ve posted about this bitch to 3 subs (askmen, seddit, TRP) over the last month, hoping that someone will finally realize what a pimp you are. You’re her orbiter and you’re bragging about it, and you’re so far in her frame you might as well be deepthroating her. She’s pimping you, motherfucker. This thread is a BP cautionary tale, not a field report. Wipe that cum off your chin and go service the next one, bitch.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 06:56 PM
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My go to is Mezzanine by Massive Attack. There is no better album for fucking. Portishead is good too. Any trip hop, really. I read a quote once that said to be good trip hop, it has to work equally well for a sex scene as it would for an assassination scene. Perfect vibe for fucking. Lana Del Rey can be really good depending on the vibe you want. Classic/hard rock is fucking great. AC/DC, Guns N’ Roses, stuff like that. Led Zeppelin always made my ex gf want to fuck. I’d put on Stairway and she…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:00 AM
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So, so, so glad I got out before 1. I got money, and 2. we had kids. It was bad enough as it was, and I think she wanted a kid as a way of ensuring I’d stick around (she could sense I had one foot out the door). Most of my friends have kids now. Their lives have gotten completely fucking lame. Beers on Friday evening once every 3 months, but still daddy has to be home by 10 because he doesn’t have the nutsack to tell mommy to do her fucking job and take care of the infant. It’s revolting. I may …
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:06 PM
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coming in my face more and more. lol Seriously though, who cares? Gay men approach me too. I take it as a compliment. I’m good looking, well-groomed, and I dress well. Some women think I’m gay too, until I talk to them. No big deal. You’re not going to get approached by women, dude. That’s your job, not theirs. Gay guys are approaching you because they’re guys, and guys approach. Also, if you don’t answer, they’re going to assume you’re trying to hide something.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:34 AM
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TIL that there are people who actually change the default status on whatsapp. Seriously, don’t you have anything better to do? That’s what’s turning women off. They don’t give a fuck about, and probably don’t even notice, your whatsapp status.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:52 PM
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The other two guys who replied have it right. Sex God Method is great for the theory, and practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:56 PM
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You’re assuming all things are equal otherwise. But they aren’t. I’ve got a decent sized dick, but for higher n-count girls it won’t be the biggest they’ve ever had. But my fuck game is usually better than they’ve ever had, so it doesn’t matter. I get told all the time how perfect my dick is, but it’s because I fuck them properly, not because my dick is somehow magically the perfect size and shape for all these different girls. Put it another way, give Jimmy Page a shitty $100 3/4 size guitar, a…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:30 AM
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Don’t end your sentences with “haha.” It makes you sound insecure.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:16 PM
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Most men really don’t get the value of good shoes. Not only do they bump your look way up, they also last forever if you take care of them. I’ve got a pair of chukka boots with Dainite soles that I’ve had for 6 years and am just getting ready to re-sole for the first time (already re-heeled once). I paid about $300 for them. They’ll probably last me 15 or 20 years, and so far they look better every year.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:34 PM
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Just own it, dude. Covering grays is a woman’s game. And most women like some gray on a man. Yes, even 20 somethings. If they mention it, you go “yeah, you like it?” Most of the time the answer will be yes. Source: mid-30s, bit of gray at the temples/in the beard, most recent 4 plates were 21, 23, 18, and 21.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:26 PM
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We’re talking about tinder in 2019 here, not some shitty fly-by-night copycat abortion of app your buddy made. I’ve got friends who made dating/matching apps too. Their experience is irrelevant when comparing them to tinder. They’re not even playing the same sport, much less being in the ballpark. Guarantee that in 2019 tinder does not do what you’re saying they do. There’s no need for them to populate it with fake profiles because everyone is already using it. OP’s friend is being cheated on. E…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:33 PM
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The one who made you believe that horse shit about pics still showing up after deleting your account.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:33 AM
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Dude, get off fucking Instagram. Are you serious with that shit? Your whole post is about how you can’t get girls on insta. Go out into the world and meet people. That’s where they are. You don’t seem to get how insta works. The girls are looking for status, not gym selfies. A 5 digit follower count will get you a lot more girls than 6 pack abs. Go to college bars. Coffee shops. Clubs. Take salsa lessons. Get out and do social things and quit trying to build attraction through a fucking screen. …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:22 AM
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Is that what your girlfriend told you?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:04 AM
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What are you wringing your fucking hands over? Whose permission do you need? Whose frame are you living in? Do what you want to do. If she isn’t on board, let her move on and find someone who is. Stop tiptoeing. Set the frame you want and then let her decide. Don’t bend to what you think she wants the frame to be.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:44 PM
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Neither of these girls should be under the impression that you’re exclusive, so there’s no problem. That is, unless you’ve fucked up and told them you are, this early in the game. This is prime threesome territory, if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:41 AM
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Two different women.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:39 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation. I’ll check it out.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:38 PM
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The hard part is that so many things about us are compatible. That happens. I just broke up with an awesome girl about two months ago. Sweet, loving, great body, great cook, high libido, and everyone who meets her thinks she’s wonderful. We got along really well. But. She wanted exclusivity, and I’m never, ever doing pure monogamy again. Simple incompatibility. It was fucking hard to break up with her because we got along super well, but that one area of incompatibility is a non-negotiable for m…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:30 PM
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Pussy move.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:52 PM
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Since when is marriage a prerequisite for reproduction? Think outside the box a little, man.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 09:37 AM
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Yeah, but not really because of her or her connections. It just took time to get things going because of the nature of our products. The connections will come in handy if the company folds and I need to get a job, or if I need to find investors. I also get invited to much better parties. She was pushing for exclusivity. I told her that wasn’t an option from the beginning. She was awesome and it was fun while it lasted, but I took that as my cue to move on.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 01:23 AM
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Met her at a friend’s house party. We started out as fuck buddies. I had no idea she was rich until we had been fucking for several months.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 01:14 AM
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I dated a rich woman for 2.5 years. I was broke as fuck, but working on building my business. She had been there before too, as she owned 3 businesses she built from scratch, so she didn’t mind that I was broke, because I was hustling. I never asked for her to pay for anything, but she just started doing it a few months into the relationship. Drinks at a 5 star hotel bar after an event we went to. I told her I couldn’t afford it, and she said she knew, and don’t worry about it. From then on, she…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:58 PM
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To each his own. Most guys here can’t do that, but if you can and that’s what you want, great. I personally just don’t want to put in the effort. Much easier for me to find a black belt than to train one. Although a brown belt or an eager purple belt, I don’t mind bringing up to snuff.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:57 PM
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I’m not “dead fucking wrong.” Your experience reflects the value those women perceived you to have. A woman is a reflection of the dude she’s with. Sucks to hear, but that’s life. They’re using you to get off. You’re a utility to them. You think they’d give that starfish bullshit to Chad? Although I agree the sex gets better the longer you’re with someone. And yes, it is possible to train a girl. But the truth is, most guys here don’t have it in them to do that.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:37 PM
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I didn’t say they were. But actively looking for an LTR is not redpilled behavior.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:36 PM
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If I were in the market for a LTR Something something using TRP for Blue Pill goals. And I’m the cuck?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:40 PM
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For one thing, your sample size is too small to actually tell you anything. My experience with ~10x the number of women tells me the opposite. The very best girls in bed have all had high n counts. Another way to put it, she can’t become a sexual black belt without putting in a lot of hours practicing. That’s why I find a lot of so-called redpilled guys’ obsession with low n-count laughable, btw. Like, you want bad sex? Ok then. I’ll take the black belts and the insanely great sex, thanks. For a…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:47 AM
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Already addressed. Could be his looks. More likely his behavior.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:08 PM
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Could be because he’s ugly. It’s more likely his behavior. Also, I’m well over 15% bf right now (recovering from an injury and haven’t been able to lift for a while). No problem picking up hotties. Lower bf% would be better, obviously, but game is more important.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:09 AM
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I’m 34. I banged a really pretty 18 year old a few weeks ago and will again the next time I’m in her town. Last Saturday night I hooked up with a 21 year old cutie, who I’ll probably add to my rotation. I’ve got a date with a pretty 19 year old next week. None of these women think I’m a creep. They hardly even mention the age difference, or if they do, it’s to qualify themselves to me (“I just seem to get along better with older men” kind of thing). At 29, you hardly even qualify as an “older ma…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:52 PM
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No girl “has me” do anything. “It is not an option” for you because you’re weak.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:12 AM
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Jesus Christ, man. Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:14 AM
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By doing it. Confidence comes from knowing you can do something, because you have experience backing it up. You’re not going to have confidence in the beginning, but that’s ok. But if you don’t do it anyway, then you’ll never get the confidence you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:24 AM
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You’re joking right? You can’t be serious.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:20 AM
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Ok, it was a dumb joke. Can’t really blame her for not getting it. That aside, if I showed up for a date and the girl brought a bodyguard with her (that’s essentially what’s going on here), I’d just go home. However, it sounds like you handled it well when the bodyguard went to the bathroom. You can always reach out and say “It was good meeting you, and I’d love to hang out again. Just not with a chaperone.” Something like that. If she’s really into you, she’ll take you up on it. If not, there a…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:42 AM
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Dead wrong. Look, you’re thinking about her in a certain way because she’s hot. But there are a million hot girls out there. There’s only one me. And I’m not hers, it’s just her turn.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:49 AM
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Send her my way. I’ll lay down a tarp and get to work.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:46 PM
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That was a brilliant post too. I don’t think it would have been shit on that 3-4 years ago. Hard to keep quality of membership high when it grows beyond a certain point.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 04:21 PM
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If only there were a community of guys who had experimented and shared notes about what works online and in print over the last several decades. It would be awesome if there were books and blogs and YouTube videos and discussion forums dedicated to the practice of picking up women and getting laid. Some of the masters of the practice would probably even get famous for it, publishing books and appearing on talk shows and stuff. And I bet getting good at picking up women would be as easy as simply…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:06 PM
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Feel better?
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:47 AM
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Don’t be such a pussy. Tell her no.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:35 PM
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LTR doesn’t have to mean sexual exclusivity. Build the relationship on your terms.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:15 AM
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“I’ve had sex with 3-4 girls” doesn’t make sense. You’re not giving a range here, like “60-70 and I just wasn’t counting.” When you’re talking single digits, you know exactly what the count is. So just say it’s 3 (because if it were 4, you would have said 4-5). Nobody’s going to judge you for it here; the sub exists to help guys get laid and maximize their sexual strategy. But you will get ripped apart for trying to bullshit. Edit: nobody worth paying attention to will judge you for your count. …
/r/askTRP16/11/19 06:35 PM
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Way too much autism for me. I’m out.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:44 PM
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Can you read? I said I’m not going to. I never said “can’t.” I do know what I like in a woman. I like girls who are in shape and know how to make themselves look nice. Why would I fuck around with a girl who’s fat and doesn’t know how to dress attractively? And if it isn't there from the jump? She will be like that for the rest of her life? I don’t give a fuck about the rest of her life. If she’s a mess when I meet her, why would I give her the time of day? There are millions of other women out …
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:45 AM
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I’m not teaching a girl how to dress right, put on makeup, and get in shape, dude. That shit has to be right from the jump.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:11 AM
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A. What’s your point? That isn’t the topic here. You framed it as “beauty vs good sex.” They aren’t mutually exclusive, and good sex can be taught, so I go for hot girls and train them if needed. Enthusiasm is a different quality. B. I wouldn’t want to. If she isn’t enthusiastic, next. Plenty of girls who would gleefully gobble down my load, so I don’t have time for starfish.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:08 AM
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I can train her to fuck well. That’s fun and rewarding. But I can’t turn a 6 into an 8.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:46 AM
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Do they control you? Does your state control you? Or do you control yourself?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:24 PM
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Look dude. You learned a lesson, and it only cost you $300. That’s a bargain. It would definitely not be a story, only a learning experience. Imagine what else you could get up to in those 8 days if you don’t go.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:18 PM
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I’d say plate is basically equivalent to fuck buddy (seriously, asterisks?) and booty call. FWB is a step up, like I said. You spend non-sexual time with FWBs. Fling could be either, as it’s a bit ambiguous. That being said, I’ve never had a pure fuck buddy. I prefer FWBs. Even girls I see who are 100% down with the fact that we basically just see each other to fuck, I still hang out with them apart from sex. Mainly because I like being around girls and feminine energy, so I enjoy hanging out wi…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 08:59 AM
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Doesn’t matter. This is sidebar shit. Plates are defined by level of commitment, not by number of women.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 04:17 PM
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If you can’t remain in control of yourself just because you see some boobies, you have work to do.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:48 AM
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Nah. I like women, a lot. I just understand what they are. Also, learn to spell. Also, this may not be the sub for you.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:43 AM
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I think a lot of guys here have the impression that women do all of this shit (hypergamy, dual mating strategy, shit tests, solipsism, etc.) consciously and deliberately. They don’t. They are not men. It’s subconscious. They just follow what their emotional state/pussy tells them to do. That’s why they need a strong man to keep them in line—they literally can’t help themselves without a calming, external, guiding presence.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 10:51 AM
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No, it isn't. TRP is about male sexual strategy. "Improve" is in reference to that, not some moral standard. I was stuck in a dead bedroom marriage. Now I'm single and have no problem keeping a soft harem. Occasionally a hard harem. Next goal is to find a main (like what pimps call a bottom bitch) who keeps the others in line, brings me new girls, etc. That's improvement with regard to sexual strategy. Now, is it moral improvement? Who gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:20 PM
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Shave it, dude. As with anything, some girls won't like a bald guy, most won't really mind one way or another even if they have a preference, and some girls really have a thing for bald guys. The thing is, none of them will be into it if you're insecure about it. Just do it and own it. Desperately fighting off the inevitable is just that—desperate.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 10:26 AM
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You aren't "fully aware of it," I don't care how long you've been around. Rule number 2 here is "No moralizing." So get the fuck out of here with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 10:19 AM
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First off she isn’t a plate if she’s the only person your fucking This isn't correct. A plate, by definition, is a girl you only spend sexual time with. A fuck buddy. Whether you have other girls or not doesn't matter. It's about level of commitment and time investment. The rest of your comment is good. Having only one plate is risky, and having two is just a step away from having one. Three is the sweet spot for a lot of guys. Four is a lot to manage.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 10:11 AM
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“Respect the tag” is in the rules for a reason. You seem to be having a hard time understanding how vetting works.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:18 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong person.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:24 PM
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real life isn't as TRP as you think it is. Of course it is. That’s the point of the name “TheRedPill”. TRP shows you the reality that you don’t know exists. What you do with that knowledge, however, is up to you. It’s a toolbox. Use it to bang sluts, or use it to find and keep a good girl. Or both at the same time. The fact that you think it can only be used to bang sluts means that you haven’t gone deep enough yet.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:31 PM
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Why are you looking for other men to tell you what to do with your own life? Do what you want. Personally, I usually don’t do dinner dates until I’ve been seeing the girl for a month or so at least. Before that it’s drinks only. I don’t mind paying for drinks, and I have yet to find a girl who can drink more than me, so it’s not like I’m paying double. Some girls will insist on paying their part, in which case I may let them. You could also, you know, get them to agree to coming over before you …
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:07 AM
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You’re looking for permission to cheat on your wife. That’s on you, not me.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:37 PM
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You have to pedestalize yourself. Make yourself the center of the universe. You are God. And why would God fuck a 5? You’re worshipping women because they happened to be born pretty. You are the prize, not her. And if you aren’t? Get there. She should be intimidated by you, not the other way around. You’re a man. She’s just a woman. Read The Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:01 PM
3

Tinder and bars. Networking events sometimes, but I'm careful about that. I'm in Japan though, and there's a lot less stigma about dating much younger women. I see men in their 50s with girls in their 20s all the time, although with Japanese men that's often "compensated dating" (sex may or may not be involved in sugar arrangements here). Point is, nobody bats an eye about me being out with a 21 year old girl—it's perfectly normal.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:48 PM
8

Absolutely. TRP has completely changed my life. Not just my sex life, though I'll focus on that because it's TRP. I was in a dead bedroom marriage. My wife was a conservative Christian who grew up being taught that sex is evil, and she could never shake that even once we were married. I was too much of a nice guy to do anything about it though, so I just sulked, resented her, watched way too much porn, and jerked off to the fantasy of women being into me. Eventually I had an affair. I felt terri…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:32 PM
1

Good luck, because you won’t know until you have it, if even then. A lot of people who have it don’t even know.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:42 AM
1

Sidebar is canon. Some random guy disagreeing doesn’t change that; it just means he either hasn’t read or he’s a moron. The relevant post is called “HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches” for reference. On the sidebar it’s the “How To Manage Your Bitches” link. Well, sticking with one girl when you’re busy at work is fine. At least it’s a deliberate decision. Just watch the oneitis.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:37 AM
9

Is a decent haircut parted down the middle Not since the 90s, my dude. Unless you’re in a Korean boy band or something.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:34 AM
2

so technically she’s not really a plate? I don’t understand what it is with you young guys ending sentences with a question mark. It makes you look super insecure. State what you have to say like a man. Although in this case your statement would be wrong. If it’s casual/uncommitted, she’s a plate/fuck buddy. That’s the definition. If you hang out with her aside from having sex, she’s a FWB. Higher level of commitment = girlfriend or LTR. This shit’s in the sidebar. Number or lack of other plates…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:17 AM
5

This should be in TRP. AskTRP is for questions. Read the fucking rules. The mods have enough work to do keeping outsiders from sabotaging this place, without insiders fucking it up too.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:34 AM
3

I'm surprised u know the situation I'm in just by the way I phrased one sentence. 1, I’ve been there before. By far the best sex of my life (still to this day), but I had to walk away. 2, I’ve been around TRP for a while. You start to get good at spotting this kind of thing.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:26 AM
17

even was willing to swallow my cum Yeah, you’ve got oneitis. I can tell just from the way you phrased that sentence. You’ve pedestalized her because nobody else would swallow your load. You need to get to a point that spit/swallow isn’t even a consideration. My girls get one chance to spit, and I let them know how I feel about it. They do it again after that, and I’m out. Best response is along the lines of “no worries, hope you’re doing well.” Not butthurt, but non-committal. And then move on. …
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:33 AM
3

Theory goes in TRP. AskTRP is for questions. The clue is in the title.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:52 AM
2

It happens. You can’t avoid it. In all probability, it won’t be a big deal for you if/when you get it. You may or may not have symptoms, and even if you do, they may or may not be a big deal. Like...”I think I may have it, but I’m not sure. I get an occasional spot. Is it herpes? Or is it just a pimple? Sure doesn’t look like herpes, doesn’t itch or hurt, but...it could be. I do go bareback sometimes.” That’s been my experience. Even my doctor wasn’t sure (there’s no good test available where I …
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:51 PM
6

That’s seriously good progress. Nice work. Pressure flip works there, but also a light A&A (most guys here try way too hard with A&A). “Yeah, total virgin. Zero experience.” (smirk) Or this: “Uh, what do you think?” (smirk) Which one depends on the girl. A confident, playful smirk generally works better than a thousand different “techniques.” Much smoother. Guys tend to overplay the techniques because they’re trying to make up for lost time. So, think Don Draper, not Defensive Douche. Unfortunat…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:22 PM
1

I did offer value. I pointed out the cringe so that others reading it (like OP) wouldn’t use those awful lines.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:38 AM
9

Dude. Those are all awful. Major cringe.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:02 PM
6

Build up a rotation of plates. If you’re busting a nut 3-4 times or more a week with different girls, you’ll have a much easier time not watching porn.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:38 AM
3

Who cares about that stupid “rule”? It’s just used to shame men about their natural preferences. Not to mention it was originally supposed to be about the ideal age gap for marriage, not “the youngest you can date without being a creep.” If you’re a high value man and don’t give a shit about what other people think, you can get away with much younger. Jimmy Page is 75 and his girlfriend is 30 years old, and you hardly hear a thing about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 06:12 AM
1

Former pimp and male stripper.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 09:29 AM
1

Yup. Take the guard off and trim the neckline.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:53 AM
2

Beard trimmer every few days. Takes maybe a minute.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:21 AM
1

If you put in the work, it does. Doesn’t happen automatically.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:52 AM
1

I don’t see how age is relevant here, but I was 30.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:34 AM
3

Generally women prefer stubble as mentioned in another comment, but that’s a trend, not necessarily true for you specifically. You may look better with a beard, or clean shaven, or something else. So experiment with it. Try a few different things and see what women respond well to. I used to alternate between staying clean shaven and growing a out full beard, then a few years ago I tried out stubble for a black tie event I went to. I got several compliments about the stubble and hooked up with o…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:22 AM
0

90% of the advice here is based around finding a wife blue pill. Fixed that for you. Not sure when marriage as a goal became a thing on TRP, but it needs to go.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:14 PM
3

You’re in the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:11 PM
7

Nobody realizes they’re in the Matrix until they’re woken up somehow. Fish don’t know they’re in water.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:14 AM
36

I'm really surprised at how cool she actually is and how wrong I was to just assume she was an entitled bitch. Yup. As it turns out, super hot girls are just people. And a lot of them are sweet, nice, fun, smart people. They just have to have their defenses up constantly because they’re a target for everyone, but they’ll take the defenses down for the right guy. Like, nobody has given her shit in years. And hot girls eat that shit up. I called one a pain in the ass and she was “shocked” because …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 03:13 PM
1

Similar situation. I’ve been separated almost a year, divorce is in process but at a standstill for now. Most girls don’t care as much as you’d think. I bring it up on the first date, just as a side note. I haven’t gotten any negative reactions so far. I also use it as a “reason” that I’m not looking to get serious (“just out of a bad marriage, so I really just want to enjoy being single and dating casually for a while”). I actually do have a serious LTR, but I see other girls on the side casual…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:51 AM
5

I can’t believe I have to spell this out, but here you go, spergy. I’m talking about general trends. You know, the big section in the middle of the bell curve. The fact that outliers exist doesn’t mean the middle portion doesn’t. If you’d spent any time in Japan, you’d know that what I said is true, because it happens over and over. Doesn’t mean it 100% will happen in this case, but the likelihood is high. I wouldn’t put money on OP’s friend living happily ever after, in other words.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 06:35 AM
5

I know reading comprehension is difficult, but here, let me repeat myself, just for you. I fuck girls like her all the time. Plus it’s a pretty well-known fact of life in Japan. A quick Google search would have told you everything you need to know, but I guess that’s too much work.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 02:34 AM
102

If you find out what bars she hangs out at, let me know. I fuck girls like her all the time. Japanese girls cheat on their boyfriends and husbands. All. The. Time. Japanese men don’t ask questions (partially because they’re paying for it on the side too), so it’s a big don’t ask don’t tell situation. Foreign boyfriends can’t be trusted not to ask questions, so the girls step up their lying game. Your buddy’s fucked, btw. A lost cause. She’ll still cook and clean and all that once they’re married…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 08:46 AM
0

She’s not a 9, I can almost guarantee you. 10s don’t exist, or rather, a 10 is an objective 9 that happens to fit your subjective preferences (a 10 is a 9 who’s “your type”). E.g., I like Asian girls, so an Asian 9 with big tits and a nice ass could be a 10 for me (rare, unfortunately, but they’re out there). So for her to be a 9, she has to be as hot as a girl gets. She’s in high school, so...she ain’t. Extremely rare exceptions may exist, but they prove the rule. Also, trust me on this, in a f…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:06 AM
22

My girlfriend is a kickboxer. Non-competitive, just for exercise, wouldn’t want to mess up that pretty face. And she’s legitimately strong as hell...for a girl. She thinks she’s stronger than me, and I think that’s super cute. She tried grappling with me recently. Wasn’t even a contest, and I have practically zero martial arts training. She pouted for a while, but imagine how much she’d despise me if I was such a pussy that she could beat me. Same, this powerlifting chick is pouting because she’…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:51 AM
-1

Depends on you. Are you the shit? Then bodyfat percentage doesn’t matter much. Are looks the only thing you have going for you? Better be lean. I’m chubbier than I’ve been in a while, AND I’ve got no problem picking up 8s and 9s. Because I’m the shit. All else being equal, yeah, it’s better to be lean. But all else isn’t equal in real life. Edit: and don’t get it twisted, I’ll be leaning out soon. I’m working ~80 hours a week right now, but that will end soon and I’ll be hitting the gym hard aga…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:31 PM
3

Nope. She’s my primary girlfriend/LTR. We’ve been together 2 years. She’s monogamous, I’m not. Don’t assume everyone is just like you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 12:05 PM
5

If you’re taking about monogamy, then I wouldn’t fully commit to anyone. What’s your point?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 07:41 AM
3

I’m not looking for a mother for my kids right now, so that’s irrelevant. Not for 5-7 more years at least, if ever. And she doesn’t want kids anyway. But I can tell you with certainty that if she did, she would make a wonderful mother.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 08:45 AM
10

most men do not have a clue about how much dick women actually get. if you knew the truth you'd probably laugh... then cry... then kill yourself if you learned your wife had triple digit dick encounters. This is what’s so funny about all these supposed TRP guys being obsessed with finding a girl with a low n-count. It’s always higher than you think. She’s going to lie and say it’s lower than it is because society pressures her to have a low count and you motherfuckers are making it worse! If she…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 05:28 AM
1

On the other hand, I went out in “blue regular fit jeans” and a button down shirt (not a “casual dress shirt,” whatever the fuck that means) tonight, on very little sleep with dark circles around my eyes, and picked up a 9. She was falling all over herself to get with me, as were other women there. Because I’m the shit. But you go ahead and wear your cute white jeans with cuts on the knees because girls compliment you on them. Also, you type like a woman. “IMO I prefer...” Don’t couch what you’r…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 04:40 PM
4

Yeah, it’s not quite bullshit, but it might as well be. Girls who are really into the guy fucking them can cum from PIV. If they’re not all that into him, then they may not be able to. My girlfriend is a bit of a size queen. I’m biggish but not huge or anything, and she constantly marvels at how easily she cums with me. It’s because she’s into me and I fuck her well (sex god method), but she thinks it’s because I have some kind of magical perfect cock. Girls are so fucking dumb. I’ve had multipl…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:12 AM
1

That’s your problem. You don’t know what you want. You’ve got to figure that out for yourself though. I was with this girl about a year ago. The sex was insane. Head and shoulders above any other girl I’ve ever been with. She was really cool as a person, but it was primarily a sexual relationship. I didn’t mind her fucking other guys as long as she used protection. And if she didn’t? Just tell me, so I can use a condom for a while until you get checked. I could have gone on like that with her fo…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:08 PM
1

Dude, good job then. Yes, someone with your net worth (especially at your age) needs to build a sort of “advisory board.” Experts you trust who you can consult about this stuff. Lawyers, tax attorneys, accountants, financial advisors. Wouldn’t hurt to get a consultation with a family law/divorce attorney who focuses on men. Presumably you have a network of other successful men where you live? Ask around. And ignore the crypto advice. Too volatile to put more than 5-10% of your investments into, …
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:47 AM
5

I don’t know where you’re from, but my understanding of “seeing each other” is that it’s non-exclusive by definition. Exclusivity only comes into the picture when you’re “in a relationship,” if at all. She’s trying to be sneaky and lock you down without calling it a relationship, because she’s probably scared you’ll leave if she starts using the ‘r’ word. But you’re operating in her frame by even trying to figure out her irrational bullshit. What do you want? Do you want her to be exclusive with…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:41 AM
1

Talk to a lawyer and a (fee-based) financial advisor ASAP. Why are you asking a bunch of redditors? I’d think a man with that kind of net worth would know who to talk to about this.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:20 AM
27

Fuck, I’m so glad I got divorced. Reading that nearly gave me PTSD. My ex used to go on about how women need time to get in the mood, tried to do the whole “put it on a calendar” thing, etc. Result? We’d go months without fucking. The last year we were married, we had sex three times. Three miserable, unenthusiastic, disinterested, soul-crushing times. Fuck. That. She learned that shit (and a lot of other horseshit) from her mom, an ultra-conservative Christian who married a good beta who works …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:40 AM
3

Welcome to TheRedPill.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 02:10 PM
5

You think the bitches are great, because you're fuckin' seasonal. Nigga, you can't be seasonal! This shit's 24 hours a day! You can't be like a bitch, "ah, it's snowing, I gotta stay in the house. It's sunny, I'll go out." We can't be like that! We need more Patrice around here.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:48 PM
1

You can fuck right off.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:25 AM
2

This is shit advice. You don’t seem to understand OP’s situation. He’s in a relationship. His girl is pressuring him to get married and have kids. He doesn’t want to. And your advice is “well, if things are fine, he should just stay with her.” Things aren’t fine, because she’s pressuring him to do something he doesn’t want to do. And we’re not talking about something small, like picking up some milk on the way home. We’re talking about a massively life-altering decision: marriage and kids. He’s …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:43 AM
4

First of all, part of unplugging is learning to listen to that feeling in your gut. If it feels wrong, don’t do it. Second, 27 is pretty young for a guy to get married. I made the mistake of getting married even younger, and if I could, I’d go back and tell myself to wait until 35 at the very earliest. As it is, I don’t plan to get remarried ever, but if I do it won’t be until I’m 40 at least. I’m in my mid thirties now and I can tell, things are just getting better and better, and there’s no si…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:11 AM
6

Nobody gives a shit that you’re a woman. You don’t get extra points here just because you sit on that hairy fish all day. You don’t seem to understand men. Relationships don’t make us happy. Getting our balls drained and then being left alone is what makes us happy. If I could have a different girl every night come over to my place, make me dinner, fuck a few times, and leave, I’d be thrilled. Maybe two or three girls some nights. But that’s not feasible for 99.999% of men (more’s the pity). A r…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:56 AM
5

The blackpill stuff is self-defeatist horseshit. People pointing you in that direction are not being supportive, they’re trying to drag you down.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:18 AM
2

You’d be surprised. I’ve been learning for 2 months (weekly group lessons, not private), and started going to salsa clubs about a month in. I’m not nearly as good as a lot of the other guys (and will probably never be able to keep up with the Cuban dudes), but I can still go and have a good time.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 05:01 AM
3

Latin dancing. Salsa, bachata, etc. May be hard to find if you don’t live in a city, but if you do, it’s great. It’s fun, the girls are sexy and feminine and you get to put your hands all over them, and depending on where you live there may be a shortage of guys with decent skills. And when girls find out you can do it, it’s an instant SMV boost. Take classes for a couple months with a good teacher, and practice at home (or with a girl from class). Once you have the basic steps and patterns down…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:20 AM
7

Have you ever had a truly beautiful woman’s mouth around your cock? I bet having that image in your mind would change your outlook. Nothing better.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:02 AM
2

That’s called “pussying out of it.” Don’t do that. Grab your balls and end it like a man.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:32 AM
3

This one’s easy. Don’t live with women.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:50 PM
11

Look. When I was married and cheating, I did the same thing. The girl I was having an affair with was also married. She had me listed in her phone as a girl, and I had her listed as a guy. Another affair later on, same thing. She’s cheating on you, dude. This is what people do when they’re cheating. And it may be the other guy who seduced her, but she’s the one not shutting it down when she should. She’s not loyal to you. Why would you want to marry her? My girl wouldn’t even think of doing some…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:31 AM
-2

Divorce is a beautiful thing, friend. It’s not a pretty pill to swallow, but you need to leave this bitch. It will hurt, but not as much as staying with her will hurt. Trust me. The wonderful thing (and perhaps the painful thing) about divorce is that, 6 months later, you realize how good life can be. And you wonder why you didn’t leave her sorry ass years ago. If you can’t divorce her now for whatever reason (beyond hamstering), CHEAT on her. Your happiness is the game here, not hers. Go out an…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 04:44 PM
8

I’m 34, living in Japan. I’m in an LTR with a sexy 39 year old (god bless Japan), and I have some fun on the side. My last plate was 21, my last hookup was 25, next week’s snack is 23, and I have a 23 year old HB8 hoping I’ll dump my girl for her. I don’t make much money at all right now. I live in a bit of a shithole apartment. Not too bad, but it sure ain’t nice. That will change soon and I should be at six figures a year from now (business is taking off), but for now it’s my situation. So, no…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:51 PM
2

A. Nothing to do with China. B. It’s fucking stupid to live your life according to some trite saying. C. That formula was originally intended to be about the ideal age of the person you want to marry. It’s changed over the last few decades to “dating below this age is super creepy,” which again is fucking stupid. D. Even if that age were “ideal” as it was originally intended (and there were some way of proving that), that means there’s allowance on either side of that age, so it’s not a minimum.…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:19 PM
170

Living the life you want to live is hard. It necessarily comes with moments like this. It’s part of the territory when you decide to prioritize YOUR happiness over other people. Deep down though, what are you upset about? You might be missing out on some good pussy. But that’s it. I had a girl like this about a year ago. Best sex of my life. I mean miles better than anyone else, and I’ve had some fucking good sex. I may not ever find sex that good again (although I might). Sweet, fun to hang out…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:20 PM
31

Your perception of what’s “normal” is fucked up. Instagram didn’t even exist 10 years ago. 10 years from now, people will probably be using something else instead. It’s a fad. Don’t define what’s normal according to what people are doing this year.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:49 AM
3

You’ve got some fundamental misunderstandings if you’re asking me that. She doesn’t “allow” me to do anything. She’s not my mother. I live my life the way I want to, and she’s decided she’s ok with that, as long as it’s not in her face. So how would that be “cheating?” On the other hand, she doesn’t see other guys, and I don’t want her seeing other guys. If she did, that would be cheating, because it’s against our arrangement. So no, she doesn’t cheat, but neither do I. I do fuck other girls som…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:05 AM
1

I guess some guys want to tie themselves down to just one girl, though for the life of me I can’t understand why. Seems to correlate with the rise of the the hard right/tradcon (“family values”) element of TRP though. For me, her being willing to turn a blind eye was a big part of why she got promoted to LTR. I don’t think I’ll ever do full monogamy again.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:58 AM
3

I’ve got a girlfriend who’s pretty awesome, so at the moment I don’t have any plates per se, but I do have a few girls I will hook up with from time to time, and the occasional one night snack on the side. I met her at a mutual friend’s place about a year and a half ago. Killer ass, I was thinking about it for days after (to this day I’m astounded by it, and I’ve probably fucked her close to 500 times by now). We left the party together and talked on the way to the train station, but I had a Tin…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:09 PM
1

Cool story bro.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:36 AM
2

Let’s say you and I approach the same 100 women. You act needy, weak, and unattractive. I’m good-looking, fun, attractive, I dance with them, sexualize our conversation, etc. I’m going to sleep with a lot more of those 100 women than you will. Is it their lack of interest in you their fault, or yours? Is it because they have a lack of libido, or because you fail to spark their libido. If you’re a high enough value man, they’ll want to fuck. And say I end up in an LTR with one of them. The sex dr…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:16 AM
6

No, dead bedrooms are the fault of weak men. They cause them by being weak and undesirable, then allow them to continue. If you allow a woman to “cause” a dead bedroom in your life, it’s because you’ve given her control over that aspect of your life. That’s your fault for being weak.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:44 AM
1

Yeah, you guys just haven’t had good head. A good, proper deepthroat blowjob will fuck your mind up. It’s like crack or heroin. I was with this girl for three months and we broke up a year ago, and I still fantasize about her mouth. Literally the most pleasurable sexual experience I’ve ever had, and I’ve had some good ones.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:41 PM
1

As Patrice says, if you’re going to eat pussy, don’t do it for her. Do it because you like to eat pussy. You’re a pussy eater. If she says “I’m good, let’s do something else,” you say “wait, I’m not done yet.” I love eating pussy. And ass. I eat it like it’s my last meal on death row. Chicks love it, but that doesn’t matter so much because I love it.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:24 AM
3

Yeah, my girlfriend now gulps it down. Actually a few weeks ago I blew it on her face unexpectedly (to her). She yelled out in surprise, then started laughing, then took my dick in her mouth and sucked the rest out and gobbled it down. “I felt like I was drowning,” still giggling. Good girl.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:18 AM
26

This is the answer, OP. Also, a load in the pussy is felt (a bit). A load in the mouth is felt (with much more “resolution”) and tasted, and probably smelled. Two to three senses. It’s a much more visceral experience. Girls want that if they’re into you. They’re grossed out by it if they’re not into you. The most intense sexual relationship I ever had, the girl worshipped my cum. I’d shoot it on her face and in her mouth and she’d nearly cum just from that. Said it made her feel insanely sexy. M…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:49 PM
8

Sure, once. I was traveling for business. Used Tinder Plus to swipe in that city for a few days before arriving. Matched with a girl, told her I’d just be there for a few days and was only looking for fun. She said “sounds perfect.” Met me at my hotel just a few minutes after I checked in. I still fuck her every time I’m in town. Gorgeous, great body, great in bed, loves to fuck. One of my favorite Tinder matches ever. But no, usually even if the girl is down to just come over and fuck, I’ll sti…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:31 AM
1

I “worked late” or “went to networking events” a lot. It worked because I actually did do those things a lot, so it didn’t raise any eyebrows when I used it as an excuse in order to bang a plate or go on a tinder date. I mostly used Tinder Plus to find girls. There’s a setting which allows you to only have your profile shown to people you’ve already swiped right on, which makes it easy to hide from people you know. I also travelled a decent amount for work, and Tinder Plus allows you to swipe in…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 12:29 AM
2

I came in here thinking this was a thread about “Girls trying to act dominant/lead/tell you what to do,” but it wasn’t about that at all. It’s about how you’re a pussy. Seriously. You almost got snipped because some old hairy fish wanted you to? Look, my girlfriend actually does try to act dominant. That’s because she’s actually a badass. Sexy, wealthy (owns 3 companies), kickboxer. But when she steps over the line, I let her know and she backs down and turns cuddly and sweet. Most people who kn…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:10 PM
19

No, you don’t. Remind yourself. Don’t rely on other people to run your life for you.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:00 PM
1

Yeah, it’s not for validation, dude. It’s for money. These girls with tens or hundreds of thousands of subscribers make a ton of money, between YouTube videos, influencer marketing on Instagram, etc. A girl with 100,000 followers on Instagram can make thousands of dollars per post. They can make even more on YouTube. They’re basically getting paid to be pretty. Well, more accurately, they’re paid to provide advertisers with eyeballs, and they use their looks to attract those eyeballs. The thirst…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 07:23 AM
5

That’s...not that much. 2 per month. If you have tight game that’s easy. I fucked about 30 girls in 2 years, while married. Had I been single/divorced during that time, I could have easily doubled that, if not more. To OP’s point, I could see enjoying having two women in the house at once. Listening to Jerry talk on the Black Phillip show makes me want to try it at least once in my life. But I could also see it being a huge headache. They’d have to both be real sweethearts, and get along really …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 12:49 PM
8

Don’t. Fucking. Get. Married. Spend some more time reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:37 PM
1

Before resigning yourself to being a statistic, take a statistics class and learn how that shit works. “Americans” (whatever that means; New Yorkers, Californians, and Mississippians are all very, very different) may generally do something, but that doesn’t mean you have to. I’m in my mid-thirties and I hardly keep in touch with anyone from college. Three people, that’s it. One about once a year, the other two every few years. Hell, I hardly keep up with most of the people I knew 5 years ago. In…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:16 PM
1

GFTOW. Go Fuck Ten Other Women. This used to be TRP 101. I’m frankly shocked (but not really at all) that it hasn’t been mentioned in this thread yet. Guys in this thread are talking about how it gets a bit better after 3 but they still have lingering feelings/oneitis. Go. Fuck. Ten. Other. Women. And 10 isn’t some magic number. It’s usually enough, but sometimes you need more. And eventually you’ll realize, while you’d still like to fuck that girl, and you may still have feelings for her, you’l…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:01 PM
1

Singing/playing an instrument? Don’t do it for women/SMV, do it because you want to and because you enjoy it. Dancing? Yeah. I’m taking salsa lessons. I can’t stand nightclubs most of the time, but salsa clubs are fun and full of hot, feminine women, and if you’re a decent dancer it’s perfectly normal and acceptable to make the rounds and dance with a bunch of different girls in a night.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:43 AM
3

Look, I’m a bit chubby now. My business has been in flux for...a while...and I’ve taken the last...X...months off from lifting. I shouldn’t have, but I did. I’m chubbier than I’d like. But. I can still pull 8s without batting an eye. Because I’m still me. I have a buddy who’s not really all that good looking, not really in shape, a bit blue pilled, etc. But he does really well with women because he’s absolutely and authentically himself. No apologies. Be yourself. Do what you want for your life.…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:12 PM
1

Not if they’ve never been with a guy who knows how to coach them and isn’t afraid to do so. I’ve only been with a handful of girls who can deepthroat properly. Even ones who give great head otherwise have trouble with it unless they’re a natural or they practice it specifically.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:54 AM
2

This. Very insightful, gets right to the heart of a lot of men’s misunderstandings around here.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 01:01 AM
1

I said “I am the prize” in the other thread because I’m the shit. Not because I’m holed up in my apartment refusing to go out and get women. I fuck more times in a week than there are days, pretty much every week. I’ve got at least three girls I could call right now and I’d be balls deep in one of them by tonight. Girls want my dick. I don’t have to sell it to them. They get to stick around if they fuck well enough and stay sweet. I am the prize.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 02:00 AM
2

It’s about the underlying mindset. Placing pussy as the end goal (pussy is for closers) is the wrong mindset.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 08:38 AM
3

Nah. I’m a pussy connoisseur, not a dick salesman. The girl has to convince me that her pussy is worth trying. I don’t have a problem getting pussy. Take pussy off the pedestal. You’re the prize, not her.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 07:17 AM
26

Oh, fuck me. Chinese isn't pictographic. You can't just look at a character and know what it means. (If) the man isn't bad, the woman won't love (him). That's what it says. 人 means "person." 男人 is literally "male person" = "man." 女人 is "female person" = "woman." 坏 means "bad" or "broken." It's not a picture of a badass, it's just a character with a meaning. Chinese isn't easy. It's one of the hardest languages in the world. All that said, you're right that the lesson here is don't fucking listen…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 03:25 PM
-2

Horseshit you respect it. You wouldn't be coming in here telling other men how to live their lives if you did.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:10 PM
-3

You can bet that even if I were in your circle, you wouldn't know what I do in my private life. But I wouldn't be in the circle of anyone who says "bro code" with a straight face. Note that I didn't say to fuck another man's girl, nor was I addressing his point about fucking girls in LTRs (though I think that point is bullshit, too). He was talking about being loyal to his girl. My point is, nobody gives a fuck except maybe that girl. "Making the world a better place" is a bit much when we're ta…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:04 PM
-23

Fuck off. You’re not making the world a better place by “being faithful.” A, nobody really gives a shit except maybe the woman you’re fucking, and B, your moralizing isn’t welcome here.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:04 AM
1

What the fuck kind of 30 years olds have you been hanging out with? Dude definitely looked like he was in his sixties.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 02:44 PM
1

I’ve lived in Asia almost a decade. Asian chicks would eat that line up. You know, just like chicks anywhere else. She clearly wants the dick, dude. Give it to her.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:42 PM
0

Mkay.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:37 PM
4

Some. Bars, social events, house parties, tinder. Just like any other country, only the girls here are Japanese.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:25 AM
1

Well, what's your plan and how does she fit into it? Is the help she's giving you worth more to you than her loyalty? I'm in a fairly similar situation, actually. My girlfriend is a bit older than me and does very well for herself. I don't know how much she makes but it's enough that she dropped $1000+ on dinner for us once without batting an eye, just because she didn't feel like cooking that night. I'm a broke entrepreneur. Well, not broke, but money is tight. She pays for everything. Dinner, …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:43 AM
2

I live in Japan, which has a high rate of STDs. Chlamydia and gonorrhea are especially common (Japan apparently has one of the highest chlamydia infection rates in the world), but also herpes, and syphilis is on the rise. The HIV rate is very low though. And girls here generally don't like using condoms (hence the high STD rate). But I'm not all that worried about it. I'm careful (wasn't always the case), and I always use condoms for the first several times at least, depending on the girl. I nex…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:28 AM
10

I honestly don't get all the obsession with n count here. I prefer hoes. I don't want to fuck with a girl who isn't into fucking. My girlfriend has probably been with 100+ men. She said "no, I don't think it's triple digits, maybe 50 or so." Which means 100+. And you know what? She knows how to fuck. The sex is really fucking good. Although I did have to teach her how to give a decent blowjob. It was all teeth before. She's learning how to deepthroat now. I never asked the previous girlfriend wh…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:46 AM
5

This. When my girl and I first started dating, she said she was cool with me seeing other women, but that she wouldn’t be seeing other men. Perfect. Then a few months into it, she said she didn’t want me fucking anyone else any more. But if I do, just don’t let her find out. But please don’t. But if I do, just use a condom. Oh, and threesomes are ok. And also any time I get a chance to do anything I haven’t experienced before. Including new girls. So it’s basically a free pass to get some strang…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:18 AM
1

Why are you at TRP if you're not interested in sex? It's a sub about sexual strategy. Agreed though that you probably just haven't had decent sex yet. Either that or you haven't learned how to fuck properly. I'm circumcised and I wear condoms with everyone except my girlfriend, and it feels fucking great. Way better than "conversation" unless the person I'm conversing with is very fucking stimulating intellectually (very rare). My x-wife was the first person I ever fucked, and sex was...lacklust…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:00 AM
3

Terrible idea and it stems from a lack of abundance. You're there to fix your problems. Focus on the job at hand. There are plenty of other hot girls out there. You don't have to fuck every one of them. If she's professional whatsoever, she'll send you to someone else at the drop of a hat if she thinks you're trying to fuck her. To do otherwise is to risk her career. Similarly, but on a different level, I don't fuck hot girls who work at bars I like. I want to keep going to the bar without it be…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:29 AM
1

How about this—don't ask other people to tell you what to do. Decide what you want to do, and do it. My girlfriend is a badass salsa dancer. I suck at dancing. Who cares? I'm learning and it's fun. We go to salsa clubs and nobody gives a shit that I'm no good at it. We have a great time anyway. And eventually I'll be a decent dancer, which never hurts.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:25 AM
1

Well for one thing, nobody is marriage material. I've been through that once. Never again. Do I respect her less? Absolutely not. I think it's awesome that she's so understanding. She knows she's my girl. I don't have to reassure her. We usually spend weekends together, I take her out with my friends, introduce her as my girlfriend. I don't do that with anyone else. With the other girls, we may go to a bar and get a drink, but otherwise we're either at my place or the girl's place fucking. But l…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:15 AM
1

Yeah, sure, AWALT and all that, blah blah blah.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 03:04 AM
3

That's pertinent information you should have included in your post before asking people to spend their time helping you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:53 PM
2

My man. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:46 PM
1

Choose a casual bar that you like which has good logistics for getting her to bed. Ideally with another cool bar nearby in case you need a second venue first. Ideally one where you can be physically close to her. Ideally one where it's not so loud that you can't hear, but not so quiet that you can't talk. I fucked up once by choosing a "chic" quiet bar with two-seater tables, with the chairs across from each other. We were like 4 feet away from each other, I couldn't even touch her. The date wen…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:44 PM
1

You're doing nothing but making excuses. I've wasted too much of my time on you. I'm done.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:34 PM
2

This post wouldn't get downvoted because it rings true. You're not just making shit up for internet points. Girls will break every "rule" they have for the right guy. My girlfriend is one of those girls who "doesn't do anal." She did it with some guy back in the day and she hated it and vowed never to do it again. Last week we were in bed and she brought up giving anal a shot. She knows she can trust me to handle it and make sure she enjoys it. She's a boss (literally, C-level) and is used to ru…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:26 PM
1

You don't need to verify my personal track record, Spergy. If you can't look out at the world and realize that there are plenty of guys with no money, no status, and average or worse looks who have game and are banging hot girls, you're blind. Go out and approach. Approach like a motherfucker. Try things and pay attention to what works. Bang a girl. Approach some more. Bang some more. GFTOW. That has always been the answer to "how do I get over my oneitis," and it always will be. Somewhere betwe…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:06 PM
2

Ok, look. I get it. I had hardcore oneitis for this girl I met a while back. 4 years ago, actually. One of the prettiest faces I've ever seen. Great body, great hair, great skin, sexy as hell, great fashion sense, impeccable grooming. And sweet, well-educated, well-bred. Fucked like a champ. A high quality girl in every sense of the word. We had a fling for a few months and then she broke it off. That was actually the catalyst which brought me to TRP. And yeah, I still think about her. I even th…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:50 PM
1

Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:41 PM
1

Hamster hamster hamster. Relying on money to attract women is the definition of beta game. I'm a half-broke dude in my 30s, in a city full of money, and I slay. My value doesn't come from money or status. It's because I'm a motherfucker and I've got game. If you keep making excuses, you won't improve. Lift. Sidebar. Approach. Kill the hamster.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:35 PM
3

Wait, you're "sexfriends," or you're just friends? Here in Japan, "sexfriends" means FWB. As in, you're fucking, with no strings attached. If that's the case, what's the problem? Bang her, and bang other women too. If you're just friends and you're not fucking, do what makes you happy. Who cares what she thinks? You want to quit being friends? Then quit being friends. You don't need to give her a reason. Don't lose sleep over a bitch you used to fuck. Go fuck ten other women and you'll get over …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:27 PM
1

Abundance, you pussy. The answer doesn't change just because you don't like it. Who cares if you're average looking? There are plenty of ugly dudes out there, much uglier than you, fucking smoking hot women. Your value isn't in your looks. You're not a woman.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:17 PM
3

Don't fuck the 3. And don't stick your dick in crazy. And move on from the 7. If she wants you, she'll let you know. Don't lower your standards. They're called standards for a reason. If you're the kind of guy who fucks 3s, then that's your real standard when the chips are down. Go out and meet someone else. Or swipe on Tinder, or whatever. These women aren't your only options. If you got that close with the 7, there will be others. Read a PUA book or something for some techniques/motivation, an…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:01 PM
5

You're not a woman. I say that because obviously you're having a difficult time remembering it. Men and women are different. A woman's initial value lies almost entirely in her looks and her pussy. Men choose to pursue women almost solely based on their looks. Feelings, relationships, all that kind of stuff comes later. But you are not a woman, and the women you're pursuing aren't men. If you're a 7 and your girl thinks you're cool as shit, she will not leave you just because a better looking gu…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:46 PM
5

Nothing wrong with an LTR if that's what you want. But LTR does not necessarily have to mean exclusive. You can still fuck other girls. Why not? I'm in an LTR. I love this girl. But I have a few fuck buddies and the occasional one night stand too. She understands that I need variety, and that it's not that I don't love her or that she's done anything wrong. We also have an agreement that I'll be discrete and safe. It's all down to what you want. As for what changes? You'll need to embody more be…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:19 AM
4

Look, dude. You haven't fucked her. She's given you some head and you've titfucked her, but you've been with this girl for 3 months and haven't fucked her. And she's only leaving for 2 weeks? There's no LTR here. The L stands for "long." There's no dread to be had here, either, and there sure as hell isn't any "prolonged" dread if she's only leaving for 2 weeks. She's not even a plate (read this). This chick is a friend who occasionally blows you. Kind of a FWB, but you're getting a shitty deal …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:05 AM
3

Don't take girls so seriously. Jesus. It's a shit test. If she really thinks you're potentially a murderer, she'll just unmatch you. She won't "plead" with you not to kill her. She's simultaneously trying to entertain herself and see how you react. A genuine request for a safer meeting spot goes like this: "Do you mind if we meet at X first?" That's fine. It's respectful, and it shows caution on her part. Girls aren't stupid (well...that's debatable). She knows she's meeting a stranger. She's pr…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:34 AM
2

Coming from someone who never had a normal corporate job (though I do own a business), so take this for what it's worth... Sometimes you just have to grind it out. You're at that stage. It can suck, but you have to make as much of it as you can. Read Mastery by Robert Greene (48 Laws wouldn't be a bad idea either). You're in your apprenticeship phase. Grind it out at work, but also push yourself to learn new things. Don't just show up, clock in, do what you have to do, and leave. Find out how th…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:33 AM
1

Who gives a shit? If you don't like it and your girlfriend allows it, you either haven't taught her properly how you expect her to deal with this sort of situation, or she doesn't like you all that much. Either way it's down to you. Either fix it or next her. If you don't mind it but just feel a need to "deal with it" for whatever reason, you don't have to. I personally don't care if guys flirt with my girlfriend. She's sexy, so guys are going to flirt. It happens all the time. I actually take i…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:48 AM
14

It's been a while since I looked at malefashionadvice, but I seem to remember that their basic advice is decent, although individuals' twists on things do tend to get a bit...precious. Tight pants with rolled cuffs, effeminate silhouettes, etc. But as with most things, you've got to filter out the nonsense. Here's a good basic, classic wardrobe for a man who doesn't have to wear suits often: Chinos: Khaki and navy. Heavier fabric in the winter, lighter (or linen) in the summer. Jeans: You really…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:26 AM
1

Perhaps you should learn the rules before posting. One of them is “read the sidebar before posting,” which you obviously haven’t. Another is “questions go in asktrp.”
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:49 PM
1

You clearly don't have a clue what "beta/betabucks" means. Marriage isn't TRP on hard mode because it's good for you. It's TRP on hard mode because it's a stupid fucking idea to get married.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:37 PM
1

This is a cut and dry “next” situation. You say you have other plates. What the fuck? Is there some other intangible keeping you with this chick?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:48 PM
4

Meh, you’ll get over it. A few months ago, this plate broke up with me. I had the best sex of my life with her, literally every time we fucked. It was unreal. Everything we did, it was miles better than it’s ever been with anyone else. She gave the best head. Effortless deepthroat. Loved being throatfucked. Loved me cumming on her face...like, basked in it. Fucked like an absolute champion. She was sexy as hell, and the sex was insane. Even the cuddling was exquisite, miles beyond anyone else. I…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:42 PM
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This, absolutely. I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year. She gets downright grumpy if I don’t fuck her at least once or twice a week. We went on a trip recently and literally fucked two or three times a day while we were there. It’s as simple (and as difficult) as just being the guy she wants to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:36 PM
1

Spend a bit more for Meermin, Loake 1880, or Allen Edmonds. Take care of them (conditioner, Saphir polish) and they’ll last a decade or more easily. My go tos are Loake chukkas and Meermin split toes, both chocolate brown with Dainite soles. They go with literally everything except a business suit or black tie, and I wear them both 2-3x a week. The Loakes I’ve had almost 4 years and they look better every year. Just now getting to the point that I’m thinking about resoling them. The Meermins I’v…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 01:18 PM
1

Thank you. I've been noticing lately that we have a similar thought process about things. The point hasn't come through yet but you saying that confirms for me that I'm on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 02:05 AM
1

You've missed the point. This is about sexual strategy. I want pussy. That doesn't make me subservient to women, and it doesn't negate my ability to be a valuable man by male standards. I'm using sexual strategy to get what I want. Then again, maybe talking sexual strategy to a MGTOW is like pushing water uphill with a rake. You do you.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:42 PM
2

Those of us who are recovering betas, who I'm guessing are a majority, can't just flip a switch. Something has to change, and lifting is far and away the best way to change in a way that gets others to treat us in more alpha type ways. Yeah, agreed. Being aware of the attributes that trigger the sexual side of the coin allows us to selectively develop those traits. Being jacked is one of those traits. Yeah, I've been a provider too. For me, torture is an apt description, but it could certainly b…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:34 PM
2

it becomes more of a grey scale Yes, this is very true. There's a lot more nuance to it than what I touched on in my post which men won't ever be able to get if they don't understand it correctly from the beginning. I'm a fan of Musk in a lot of ways. The Heavy Falcon launch was one of the most impressive and inspiring things I've ever seen. The vision, planning, preparation, engineering, and execution it took to pull all of that off was incredible. And they did it with a lot of style, which cou…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:30 PM
3

I agree that those can be alpha traits. That doesn't mean "he's alpha." And he's still exhibiting a lot of beta behavior when it comes to sexual strategy. Go figure. But as I said, you can be "the alpha" at work, but that's not the same as being alpha in a sexual context.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:25 PM
5

He is being beta though. He's using beta game to try to elicit sexual attraction. That is, he's aiming at the wrong side of the coin. That's when women are repulsed by beta behavior. Really, a lot of beta traits are sexual turnoffs in high doses though. You just have to know when to use them and how much. If he's clingy it's probably because he believes she wants a bestie, and that's what will get him into her pussy. It's disingenuous. The constructive version of this trait is being a supportive…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:31 AM
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I disagree. You see comments here all the time like “Elon is alpha as fuck because he’s mastered so many different areas of knowledge!” Yeah, nothing moistens a pussy like an intricate understanding of the Fourier transform. It points to a fundamental misunderstanding of the concept. Maybe some guys get it, but many don’t. Edit: Also, this is missing the point. They're not here "to become more alpha." They're here to learn how to fulfill their sexual strategy. For most guys, learning to display …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:46 AM
16

That whooshing sound you hear is the point flying over your head.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:50 AM
3

Fuck off with this shit. I am the only person who gets to decide what I want for my life. Who the fuck do you think you are to tell people what they’re “supposed” to do?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:12 AM
4

I’ve dealt with/am still dealing with this. Things that have helped: Get some viagra or cialis. It’s not a solution, but it’s a bandaid while you work on the problem. Lift, eat healthily, get plenty of sleep. Get plenty of healthy fats in your diet. Cholesterol is what your nuts use to produce testosterone. Eggs, liver, and shrimp are a few foods that are high in cholesterol. Dietary cholesterol doesn’t increase blood cholesterol, so do t worry about that. Cut back on the alcohol if you’re drink…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:30 PM
3

Has nothing to do with being Chad.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 06:49 AM
3

I will do another post about that, but probably won’t have time for at least a few more days.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:43 AM
2

Dadbod to Chadbod. You look 10 years younger, easily. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 12:27 AM
2

Get the fuck out of here with this shit. I’m not giving more specifics just to please you. It’s called 1) not wanting to be doxxed (there are a quarter million people subscribed to this sub) and 2) discretion (no way in hell am I risking exposing that actress). I don’t give a shit if you think it’s made up.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 02:38 PM
5

The tuxedo is Ermenegildo Zegna and over half the men there were foreigners. This was mostly expat high society, no passes for being white. Nice try though.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:08 AM
1

Yeah, I've wondered this too. I don't have any problem being alone in general, but there really aren't many guys I'd actually want to go pick up girls with. The few times I've ever done that have been when I was just hanging out with my friends anyway, so I wasn't specifically going out to look for girls. I'm actually kicking myself right now because I apparently (I was drunk) told this girl I met recently that I'd bring another guy on our first date if she brings one of her cute friends. I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:29 AM
5

Hamster hamster hamster. No temper going on here, man.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:13 AM
4

Wanna see my cock too? Bank account? Anything else you can use to hamster it away? Much more relevant than any of that is this. How many points do you think my SMV increased by when I 1) got in shape, 2) got a better haircut, 3) experimented with my facial hair until I found what women reacted best to on me, 4) learned better social skills, 5) learned how to dress, 6) stopped slouching, 7) learned how to carry myself with confidence? Several points. None of this came naturally to me. But yeah, k…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:07 AM
11

This, exactly. Same goes for blazers, sport coats, any tailored clothing.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:49 AM
22

Absolutely. I didn't mention it because it's mentioned so often here (lift and sidebar), but you're right.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:23 AM
11

Yes, absolutely. It makes such a difference when you're one of the best dressed guys in the room, no matter the context. But yeah, men have no excuse for getting black tie wrong. It's the easiest thing there is. Black or midnight blue. No vents, preferably one button (unless you're going double breasted; most men probably shouldn't). Peak or shawl lapels, in satin or grosgrain, with bow tie and cummerbund or vest in matching fabric. White shirt with either plain or pleated front and French cuffs…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:22 AM
5

That's not true at all. I built this life over the last few years. Before that, I was in a sexless marriage, out of shape, fresh out of grad school (in the humanities, no less). Zero status. I have natural advantages in that I'm intelligent and good looking, but that doesn't mean shit if you're not making the most of it, which I wasn't. If you can't find an application in your situation for the principles I'm talking about, that's on you.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:07 AM
2

I'm not writing for the "average gym bro." I'm writing for men who want to make something of themselves. But the same principles apply. Own the room. Turn heads. Use preselection. Be a man worth talking to. But it's funny you should mention that. One of my former plate works at the venue the event was held at, so afterwards I went to a nearby bar with her to catch up. Still wearing my tuxedo, bowtie untied and shirt collar undone; I looked out of place. For some reason that's like an invitation …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:09 AM
4

Nah, man. You've got to get past that shit. No bitch is worth getting killed over.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:09 PM
8

It helps because I'm getting rid of a bitch who can't take a joke and replacing her with someone more fun. If she dumps me over some bullshit like that, she's the one missing out, not me. You've got more reading to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:03 PM
11

Seriously, dude? You're worried about "getting dumped?" Grow some balls. If I'm with a girl who can't take a joke like that without "dumping" me, fuck her anyway. I'll just go bang the girl with the bigger tits.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 03:53 PM
5

Treating them like a 5 year old can work. Depends on how it’s said, and who it is. Plates get the five year old treatment. My girlfriend, on the other hand, knows better. She knows that’s crossing a line. All it takes is “no insults, please,” or a raised eyebrow, and she backs down and apologizes.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:48 AM
19

Most people need their medicine candy-coated at first. Maybe forever. You have to couch it in friendlier terms. And for fuck's sake, don't use terminology that will lead them here if they Google it. You have to keep in mind that you're posting on a forum that has been designated as a hate group by the SPLC. If you openly tell people you're a member here, you're an idiot and you deserve all the backlash that you've invited into your life. So, don't say "dualistic mating strategy" or "alpha fucks/…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:40 PM
4

Read Dr. Manuel Smith's When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. Maybe two or three times. I smoke the occasional cigar, and sometimes even cigarettes, because I want to. I choose not to do it very often because of the health risks and the smell after, but I have no problem lighting up sometimes if I feel like it. "Because I want to" is a perfectly valid reason. Fuck anyone who tells you otherwise. There are consequences sometimes for doing what you want to do, of course, but that's something you have to w…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:22 AM
6

Good post. The real issue here though is a lack of assertiveness, not a lack of logic/rationality. Your "I'm not smoking because..." example is perfectly fine. Great, those are good, logical, AND socially acceptable reasons not to smoke. On the other hand "I'm going to smoke because I want to smoke. I know it's bad for me but I choose to do it anyway because I enjoy it." is just as good. It's not about having reasons or social acceptability, it's about me doing exactly what the fuck I want to do…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:30 AM
5

Sidebar, motherfucker. This is a sexual strategy sub. It doesn’t change just because you think it is or should be something else.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:12 AM
2

You choose your morals and let me choose mine. You've still got some sidebar reading to do. Start with "Sexual strategy is amoral."
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:14 AM
4

Keep telling yourself that. Keep using moralizing words like “corrupt.” I’m sure the world will eventually change to suit you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 10:45 AM
27

The moralizers, the guys stuck in the anger phase, the faggots sputtering and spurting about women this and women that, wishing they could change nature somehow, the idiots who think "traditional values" are coming back (or that they're even desirable in the first place). These guys haven't taken the pill. A man who has taken the red pill reads the article about fucking other guys' women and say "Yep, totally true. Most men are losers and I could fuck their women." Because that's the nature of w…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 09:22 AM
1

Depends where you live. In Tokyo, there are tons of foreigners. Nobody blinks an eye. Other cities are probably similar, but less so. Out in the countryside, you'll definitely stick out, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. You can definitely use your foreignness to your advantage though. In the business world, on one hand, foreigners don't have the kind of networks that locals have. Often, a Japanese person can just pick up the phone and get in touch with their friend from high school who no…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 12:56 AM
5

Don't believe all the horseshit you read. Japan is an incredible place for an expat to live. The suicide rate isn't all it's cracked up to be: 15.4 people per 100,000 per year. Compare that to Belgium at 16.1 or South Korea at 24.1 (!). The US is 12.6, so it isn't that far off. The issue with suicide in Japan is that it was increasing rapidly for a long time (during the lost decades), but it's been decreasing for a few years now. There's serious money to be made here too, if you have any useful …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:49 AM
1

Depends which country you’re from. Google is your friend here.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:25 PM
1

Early thirties. Job may not be a problem. It’s the visa.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 10:23 PM
17

Come on, man. At least cite the source you ripped this from verbatim. 48 Laws of Power, Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:48 AM
1

My wife got a job here and I got a spouse visa. I'm in the process of divorcing her, and I'll probably switch over to a highly skilled professional visa or something along those lines once it's completed. My company is based in another country (I usually work from co-working spaces and cafes), so I can't get a regular working visa. Much easier to just get a job here. Or if you're from a country that gets visa-exempt entry and can afford it, just come here for a few months and find a job while yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:27 AM
2

You're on the right track. It is unimportant. Stick around and read, and if you go deep enough you'll find that TRP isn't about banging hot girls. It is, because it's about sexual strategy, but that's just the surface; it goes much deeper than that. My motivation in life isn't to bang hot girls. That's just one (very fun) aspect of the life I'm building, and not the most important one, not by far.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:28 AM
3

I don't know what the last sentence means. How can you be anonymous to people you know? What are you asking? Anyway, you have to decide what's worth pursuing for you. I can't decide that for you. If you don't think having sex with hot women is better than fucking uggos or average chicks, then maybe for you it's not worth pursuing. But personally, I don't do it so I can brag (I have only a few people in my life I talk about this stuff with). I do it because for me it's way more enjoyable and sati…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:50 AM
3

It's been a good marketing channel for my business. I've become the go-to expert in my niche because of posting there. Otherwise I wouldn't be there. There are some interesting posts there, but yeah it's full of bluepillers, SJWs, male feminists who apologize for having a dick, smug polyamorists, and such. The smugness is really off the charts.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:07 AM
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Yeah, nice line. Cribbed straight from my post?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:02 AM
0

Well it may not have been my finest hour, but nah, she was fresh and clean. Would have been out of there otherwise. Turns out (I met her again a few weeks later) she's just a bored rich housewife.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 11:58 PM
2

I'd say he was long past the point where active dread is called for. Or did you miss that part in your sidebar internalization? Yeah, some of that shit is controlling and over the top. This is a learning process for everyone here. But active dread is very much a part of MRP after a certain point.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 12:05 AM
5

How's it feel to be such a faggot that you get bent out of shape over an internet post? Maybe you need a little TRT yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 07:43 AM
5

Definitely read it first. I read it a month or two before she did, unbeknownst to her, and I was able to start planting seeds in her head. Then when she read stuff in the book you could see it click, like "Oh, that's why he _________."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 09:03 PM
3

Maybe. I'm not really worried about the motivation, i.e. whether it's really "sex is dirty" or just "not with you." I don't care. Either it improves or it doesn't. If it doesn't, I'm out. Plenty of girls see me as alpha fucks if she doesn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 08:59 PM
1

What changed? I'm smarter about it than I used to be. Why did I refocus on my wife? I haven't. I'm focused on me. I'm going to spin plates for a while. If she improves to the point that I want, maybe I'll tone it down. If not, I'll leave and keep spinning plates.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 08:55 PM
2

Well, yeah. That's the reason for the uncertainty, of course. But it happened three months ago—can't change it now, just learn from it and move forward. But I still think it was necessary. My wife is very naïve. She thought I'd stick around forever no matter what just because, you know, marriage is forever (very conservative religious upbringing). Nothing was getting through to her. That got through. But it's not negotiated desire. I have no illusions about that. It's negotiated compliance. Desi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 02:17 PM
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A few months ago I almost got into another big fight with the wife. In a previous argument, she said something and I told her if she ever said it again that I'd have the divorce papers drawn up on the spot. Well, she said it again. Backed up immediately, apologized, said she didn't mean it. It was a national holiday and the lawyers' offices were all closed, so instead of going there I left the apartment for a few hours and looked into divorce law on my own. I went back that evening and she begge…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 12:02 PM
6

Note: I haven't been around MRP much in the last few months. I don't know your story—this is just for any guys who may read this and think they should start going around collecting numbers and maybe getting some strange. Yeah. This is a thing. Decent-and-better-looking men and women know this as a fact of life—you're just now getting a glimpse into it. Don't lose your head over it. If you're going to cheat or even just play around, be smart about it. I'm dealing with this right now too. I've alw…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 05:06 AM
1

I don't do much in the way of note-taking or anything like that. I'll talk things over with people who might be interested, so if I'm reading a business book I'll talk to my colleagues, or TRP-related books I'll discuss with a friend who has similar ideas but isn't TRP-aware per se. I do better turning ideas over in my head and discussing them rather than taking notes—I never come back to my notes anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 01:42 PM
1

I'll be spending a few weeks back home this summer. While I'm there, I'm going to meet with a family attorney and find out what I need to get in order in case things do end in divorce. At this point I'm fairly optimistic about that, but I want to be prepared all the same, and I'm socking away some money in case things do go that way. That said, the wife is really starting to come along. She's been working out fairly consistently, so she's losing weight and toning up. She's getting an IUD when sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 01:34 PM
2

I would bet you were dressed well, stood up straight, made strong eye contact, smiled at people and were animated in conversation- you know all the stuff our dads taught us in 5th grade....or not. That pretty much covers it. When talking to women, I'd lean in (it was fairly noisy) and put my hand on their shoulder, back, or waist depending on how comfortable they seemed with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:47 AM
2

Please fill out your post with some of these conversation examples. I think for alot of our introverted users it would be helpful for some decent dialogue examples. Will do. For me though, I don't do much thinking about the specifics. I have some experience in acting (once upon a time), and I'm good at "becoming" a character and altering my mannerisms to fit. After having done this consciously for the last few months, the new behaviors are starting to take over as normal. You also broke the unwr…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:37 AM
2

Fair enough. I didn't even realize that was Lindsay Lohan, I just googled "fuck me eyes" and found the closest thing to her expression that night.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:24 AM
2

I suggest being very clear on what you're looking for though. I had looked into "proper" black tie for some time before I pulled the trigger, so I knew exactly what I wanted as far as styling. I didn't expect to find Zegna for so cheap—I was looking for maybe 60s vintage (many tuxedos from that era and even earlier are still in great shape because they're worn so rarely). But eBay can definitely be great for things like suits, outerwear, etc. if you know what you're looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:23 AM
2

No illusions there. On either side.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 10:33 AM
2

It's on the list.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 10:32 AM
10

I read something yesterday, I think on Ryan Holiday's blog, that said (paraphrasing here): We're always asking "What is the meaning of life?" The answer is that you don't get to ask that question. Life asks you the question, and you answer with your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 05:34 AM
2

Yeah, been reading him a lot. The plate's an officer in the navy, any tips?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 03:24 AM
1

As I mentioned last time (4 weeks ago), the wife and I haven't seen each other very much lately. We've basically been taking turns going out of town for business and we've only seen each other a few hours per week (I get home one evening and she leaves the next morning, or vice versa). Things are back to normal now for the next month or so, then May will be more of this. I've used the time away to work on myself—my frame especially. I finally finished WISNIFG. Truly game-changing for me. I'll pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 05:18 AM
1

Haven't done one of these in a while. The wife and I haven't seen much of each other lately. She was out of town, then I was, then she was again. More of the same for the next month or two. I'm using the time to 1) get things done, both professionally and personally, and 2) do a lot of reading. I'm owning: Work. Last week, not so much, but previous weeks and this week have been very productive. I helped launch some new products, got an affiliate program up and running, and secured an angel inves…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 12:44 PM
1

You're absolutely right. I had a bad few days, I just need to get back on track and address the things I've been procrastinating on/let slide. Thanks.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 06:21 AM
1

Any deodorant recommendations (just deodorant, no antiperspirant)? I used Speed Stick for a long time, but it started giving me rashes. I switched to Anthony Logistics, but it's expensive and wears off after 8 hours or so. I went through the cologne-buying process about 18 months ago. Sampled tons of them over the course of a month or two, read as much as I could about them. I learned to stay away from the better-known ones that everyone has smelled a million times before. They're nice, but too …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 04:46 AM
1

Also, you didn't exactly spell it out but I assume your wife is extremely socially isolated due to being overseas. Yeah, it comes and goes. She has some friends from work but they party a bit wilder than she's comfortable with. She wants church friends (I can take or leave church, myself, but it's important to her), so I'm going to start making sure we go to church more regularly and encourage her to hang out with the people there more often. They're a good bunch of people, much more down-to-ear…
/r/askMRP09/02/16 03:52 AM
1

I read SGM months ago, when I first found TRP/MRP. I need to re-read it, because trying to apply it before I made any significant improvements wasn't effective. WISNIFG I'm reading now for the first time. I've been taking way too long to finish because I keep sidetracking myself into other books (TRM, 48 Laws). I'm going to put those aside until I finish WISNIFG and SGM.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 03:24 AM
1

Well, I guess we'll see. So far she's been in a great mood since then, and seems happy not to talk about it anymore (not that I've tried bringing it back up).
/r/askMRP09/02/16 03:21 AM
2

Thanks for this. I had skimmed "Every unhappy wife" before, but reading it closely this time really drove the point home. Things are getting better, and there have even been a couple of times in the last few months where she really was turned on. I just need to stay on track, keep improving, identifying my weak areas and working on them. I'm a bit irritated with myself that I puked so much to her and to this sub, but it's done now and I just need to move forward. Speaking of pregnancy, what is y…
/r/askMRP09/02/16 03:18 AM
1

Bought my copy, just finished the front matter and on to Chapter 1. Great stuff already, you could have charged a lot more and it would have been well worth it. There are a lot of typos, and it seems like some of the endnote refs might be wrong. It's understandable—self-publishing and all—but maybe something to try to fix in version 1.1 and beyond.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 07:25 AM
16

Walt dies. Maybe now you'll start finishing shit.
/r/askMRP04/02/16 02:50 PM
1

Golden advice, thanks. I've always naturally had an easy time talking to women, but I've generally refrained from taking it further due to my "nice guy" tendencies. Reminds me of when things first started up with my last affair partner. I had known her for a while and we had talked a bit, but just polite chit-chat. Then one night we were out with some mutual friends and started talking, and I really wanted her. She picked up on this and by the end of the evening we were texting each other, makin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 09:17 AM
2

I'm in. Fitness I'm mostly on the right track here. I'm around 15% bodyfat, and my wife has made some comments about how she can see my abs. I was running Greyskull LP for a while, but heavy pressing 3 times a week started to take its toll on my shoulders. I looked into 5/3/1 and ran one cycle to try it out, but I think I'm going to go with more of a classic BB-style PPL split of some sort. More time in the gym per week will be nice. 5 days, not 6 because my legs grow like crazy and I want to fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:04 AM
1

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. She's always had a tough time with immersion, so I need to figure out how to fix that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 11:06 PM
1

Yeah, the incident I had in mind she was on the way out the door to go to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 11:05 PM
5

Imma kick this one off. KPIs Sex is a bit down, but partly because I'm extremely busy with a product launch at work. I'm just tired. On the upside, she initiated once last week. That never happens. I must have been reading her signals wrong, because I thought there was no way we were having sex, but just a few minutes later she was pulling my clothes off. She gave me a pretty enthusiastic BJ another day. There was one problem, though. One day we were having sex, she was really into it and I was …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 11:30 AM
1

It's still a work in progress. I managed to stick to the plan...oh, about 60% of the time last week. This week should be better.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 01:08 AM
1

Thanks for the reply. I'm still dealing with some anger phase stuff, which is why sometimes I just go "fuck it, I'll just divorce her." Too eager for that because of the anger. That, plus I've had a few affairs and ONS over the last few years, and I've had some really fantastic sex with some of these women. So sometimes I think, "Why bother fixing the marriage when I could just leave (no kids) and fuck other women with no consequences?" One of the main reasons is financial, honestly, as I allude…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 01:08 AM
1

Get some mittens, then continue. This is brilliant. I'm grabbing my ski gloves the next time she says my hands are cold.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 11:12 PM
3

First, KPIs (key performance indicators): I'm starting to notice real improvements. Sexual frequency has increased somewhat—not where I'd like it to be yet, but it's an improvement. I've actually started keeping track in a spreadsheet. Not so I can throw it in her face like Spreadsheet Guy, but so I have an objective record of progress rather than relying on feelings. There's also more on the table sexually. She's never been comfortable with doggy style because it's "degrading," but it's been a …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 05:49 AM
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To give some additional context that others might be missing and that the OP should be aware of if he isn't, its traditional and expected for Japanese wives to have a secret stash of money. It's called a "hesokuri," and it's usually primarily for emergencies but the wife sometimes also uses it for personal things that she doesn't want to bother her husband with. I have a friend who uses hers to fly her mom into town for occasional visits. Her husband thinks the mom is paying for it herself. Of c…
/r/askMRP05/01/16 01:29 PM
1

Hopefully that's the case, but I'm not counting on it. We'll see how things play out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 12:38 AM
1

Desire can't, but compliance can. Maybe (I'm not counting my chickens before they hatch here) she's caught on that sex needs to be more frequent if I'm going to stick around. That would be progress, and I'll take it. Desire (and thus quality of sex) should come later with increased SMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 12:35 AM
10

There's a woman at my wife's work who none of the other women like. I hear all the time about how she's a bitch, they like to make fun of her taste in clothes, etc. Of course, she's gorgeous, she's been nothing but very sweet and flirtatious to me, and she has exquisite taste in fashion. Plus she's almost 40 and could pass for mid-late 20s. The other women are just jealous because she's rich (BB husband makes insane money) and beautiful. She's everything they wish they were. Moral: don't listen …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 10:23 PM
3

I've been running into this with the wife lately. She's made some comments that made me think she's really not getting it. Like, she said something about how I'm spoiled because she keeps me so satisfied (right...twice a month whether you want to or not). Things just fly over her head and I'm wondering, "Can she really be that dense?" Then yesterday I was teasing her about something and she said "I'm never going to want to have sex with you with that attitude." I said (still in a teasing tone) s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 03:31 PM
1

Shit I'm owning Lifting/Exercise. I haven't missed a workout—lifting or running—in a few weeks. I've been killing it in the weight room, and I've been doing 2 HIIT/sprinting sessions and one regular run per week. Sleep. I'm finally back on a normal sleep schedule. I'm still a bit sleep deprived, but that will clear up naturally as long as I keep sleeping well. Shit I'm working on Nutrition. Honestly, I give in to my wife too much on this one. I'm trying to lose fat, so I'm doing lower carbs than…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 12:37 PM
2

My feminist upbringing told me that she should be involved in any major decision. Exactly. I'm conditioned to talk about everything with her, so it's tough not to. She's much happier if I don't, though. She's also started picking up on the fact that I don't want her to dump all her bullshit on me when she gets home each day, too, so she's found a few girlfriends at work she can vent to. I really need to read more Rollo. I've read the first few chapters of TRM, but that's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 01:12 PM
1

Increase in tantrums and shit tests is to be expected after you start implementing TRP/MRP. She is still not convinced of the new you....She wants to know whether you are just putting up an act or you are for real, and the only way she can be sure of that, is to test your frame through shit tests and tantrums(which are are shit tests as well). This is exactly it. She's made a lot of snarky comments about "this new you" and "you've been acting different lately." I think I have a less difficult ro…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:16 AM
1

All it should take now is a raised finger or a simple: "We talked about this sweety. Try again." I'm looking forward to trying that. I don't expect it to go over well, but at least I'll be prepared for it. Then again, she's been more submissive the past few days, even apologized once when she started taking a tone with me, without me even saying anything. We'll see. Let me guess this is the week before Shark week or the 1/2 week around ovulation. Bingo. On Sunday she started complaining about ov…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:11 AM
3

If you need to delegate, do so in advance instead of just letting your usual responsibilities fall on her shoulders as an afterthought. She doesn't care about the details of your work. You still need to lead the household. I'm still learning this. When all this shit first started going down with my company, I would vent about what was going on. This just makes her stress about it and doesn't help anything. I need to learn to keep it in, or find a male friend to blow off some steam with over a be…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:09 AM
2

This makes sense. I'm validating her feelings when I should be ignoring them here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:08 AM
1

I'm curious what your response is to this. Your response could tell you a lot about your frame. I've used "Don't tempt me, Frodo" or "Don't worry, there are no attractive women in Tokyo"—she knows very well that there are probably more attractive women here per capita than just about anywhere else in the world. When she seems genuinely worried (i.e., when it feels more like a comfort test), I'll kiss her forehead and say "Why are you worried about that?" <-in retrospect, I might be failing that …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:08 AM
1

Maybe think about a program with less focus on squats. Greyskull LP (I use phrakture's version) is good for this—you're still squatting twice a week and pulling once, but you're not hitting the lower body quite as hard as with SL5x5.
/r/askMRP06/12/15 12:42 AM
1

Trying to step up to 4 but wife doesn't GAF. Not sure whether to concentrate purely on improving myself (levels 1-3) or to start being a little more overt (i.e. talking to/flirting with other women). Advice from the internet would be welcome here. She doesn't give a fuck because she doesn't think you could be out getting laid. If your SMV were higher and she thought you were capable of going out and actually fucking another woman, she'd GAF. Mine didn't used to care that I like to take walks at …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 02:21 PM
1

After writing this, I realized I had been slipping this week as far as running things around the house. The wife doesn't care how bad things may be at the company, she sees the stack of dishes I didn't do because I'm sick and didn't feel like it (I work from a home office so I do most of the housework). She actually gave me shit about it yesterday. So I got off my ass and started getting shit done around the house, stopping to talk with my business partner here and there, directing my employees …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 01:32 PM
2

I need a good looking winter coat; I'll either grab a pea coat form one of the local thrift shops I'm now exploring, or maybe find a deal on a new one. Don't get a new one. Do a little research and you can get an amazing vintage one—much better quality for a fraction of the cost. I bought one last year on eBay. Circa WWII, corduroy-lined pockets, near bombproof kersey wool, true navy instead of black. It looks almost brand new, nobody believes it's older than my dad. Gorgeous, and women love it.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 12:59 PM
1

I've got the flu and I'm dealing with a crisis at my company this week. One of my business partners is actively trying to sabotage/sink the company and walk away with all the money. Needless to say, it's been the week from hell so far. I just got WISNIFG on Monday, so it's been a good opportunity to use and actively apply what I'm learning there. I'm playing hardball with this asshole, and it has really surprised my business partners, my lawyer, and my wife (probably no tingles due to the flu, u…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 06:37 AM
1

Not enough, and it's not very good when it does happen. When it's happening more often, I lose the desire to cheat even if the sex I'm getting isn't good. Actually last night I went home with a girl I met at a networking event. We fooled around for a bit but didn't end up fucking because we were both exhausted. I'm not really sure what I think about it yet. I don't really have any moral hang ups about affairs, I just don't want it to fuck with me fixing my marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/15 08:17 AM
1

Found MRP in June or so, dabbled a bit over the summer and got serious about 3 months ago. Shit I'm owning: Lifting. I'm following phrakture's Greyskull LP and loving it. My squat is lagging due to a hip issue, but I'm better now and it should catch up quickly. Running. The last two weeks I've been consistent, 3 days a week. Today I added some sprints to the end of my usual run—brutal and great. Dress. My wife has complained for years that I dress better than she does, and it's true. But in the …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 02:24 PM
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Depends on what you want to do. Web apps? Ruby on Rails isn't a bad place to start—a lot of the better Rails courses out there will also teach you enough HTML/CSS, JavaScript, and PHP to get by until you need to learn them more in-depth, and they'll get you to the point that you can start making your own apps. For mobile apps, Java for Android, and Swift for iOS. Objective-C for iOS too, but learn Swift first. Plenty of other languages out there too. Python, C and its variants (C++, C#, Objectiv…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 05:16 AM
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I know the hygiene stuff seems too obvious, but I'm always amazed at how many expat guys I see here who are just atrocious. It stands out much more here than in the US, because people here tend to be so meticulous about their hygiene and appearance. So some people do need the advice. Anyway, more about my story. I've always been way too nice. Classic nice guy syndrome. And people have told me that for as long as I can remember. Case in point: when I was in grad school, there was this weird old m…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 02:41 AM
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You want my victim puke? I'm honored. Sexless marriage. Got married too young. Series of affairs when wife wouldn't put out (very conservative Christian upbringing + I was just too understanding and sensitive to expect her to move past it). I actually found TRP/MRP when trying to figure out how to get one of my affair partners back. Serious oneitis for that one. NMMNG opened my eyes to so many things, in life, business, how I interact with people in general, and of course my marriage. That isn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 03:27 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 03:07 PM
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