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Thank you. I enjoyed our discussion immensely. I hope your coven sorority house feminist book club enjoys your company as much as I have.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 05:35 AM
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You're blaming the victim, rather than the system which did this to them. Reversed: why are we removing personal responsibility from women? Surely walking down the street in the middle of the night, alone, wearing a little miniskirt is just asking to be raped. See how terrible that argument is? That's you. You just made that terrible argument. How do you feel about that?
/r/MensRights17/04/13 05:24 AM
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Okie dokes, this is actually getting fun. Let's flip this around and use your argument back at you: "I (along with a lot of other people) believe that mensright is a matter of lesser importance at the moment because of the terrible things going on right now like racially and sexually motivated acts of violence" This is it. I completely understand now sweety. There's no winning with you. You just minimized the objectification men face. You are such a tool sweety. Women being raped has nothing to …
/r/MensRights17/04/13 05:20 AM
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Gender has nothing to do with sex. You're not a very good feminist. As for homelessness having nothing to do with sex, I direct you to some sources. Males account for anywhere from 62% to 76% of the homeless. So, you're wrong again. I would suggest at least reading up about these issues before attempting to preach to others. It makes you come off as not only incompetent, but arrogant.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 05:13 AM
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The fact that you find logic itself insulting is more than telling, and it reinforces what I stated initially: you are not used to arguing your topics outside of an echo chamber. See how you still use buzzwords (and you even emphasize them for special effect) in an attempt to appeal to me and the audience emotionally? That doesn't work. It won't ever work on rational people. Here, let me respond using the same rhetoric: Are you telling me a few women being oggled at bars is as important as MEN B…
/r/MensRights17/04/13 04:45 AM
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So what you're saying is that feminism is a movement for women. That's fine - women certainly deserve to be represented in society. But then why do proponents claim to represent equality? Worse, feminists attempt to marginalize men when they try to attain representation. Look at what you're doing right now. You just can't stand to have men fight for their rights. No one deserves misogynistic bullshit or misandric bullshit. We put up with a lot of sexism from feminism. This is the reason for the …
/r/MensRights17/04/13 04:34 AM
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Most of us are, first and foremost, egalitarians. We support anyone who is discriminated against. We strongly support women attaining the vote in Middle Eastern countries, for example. And we strongly support closing the sentencing and conviction disparity in the judicial systems in almost every country. There are many indicators which show men are discriminated against, including the aforementioned sentencing disparities, disparities in custody, disparities in education, funding for various mal…
/r/MensRights17/04/13 01:11 AM
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You dismissed his argument entirely and shifted the focus to a place where you felt secure in using feelings. You became angry and tried to shut down discussion because you think your feelings are worth more than logic here. I'm sorry, but that doesn't work here. In feminist circles they teach you that yelling louder than others, and competing in the oppression olympics, is the best way to win an argument. In the real world, it makes you look incompetent. I suggest you revisit his premise, and a…
/r/MensRights17/04/13 12:59 AM
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An admin has shadow-banned you. Please contact the admins to arrange a reversal of this, then contact us to do the same.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 12:54 AM
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I think a good chunk of that is socialization. Men are taught from an early age that we must be the protectors, and, yes, that we're disposable. There's probably an innate component to this as well.
/r/MensRights16/04/13 10:28 AM
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This isn't related to men's rights at all.
/r/MensRights16/04/13 10:27 AM
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This comment was auto-removed. I have now approved it. For anyone concerned, since the second link is a reputable journalistic website, it is considered acceptable under Yishan's (Reddit CEO) statements regarding "doxxing". FYI posting personal information directly to Reddit is still not allowed.
/r/MensRights15/04/13 11:54 PM
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I still don't fully understand the exchange that took place, so I hope you're right.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 11:15 PM
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Every comment has been removed. Might be worth posting a screen shot in future. That said, they can run their subreddit however they want. It's a feminist subreddit. They are going to use tactics like silencing opposition because their theories can't stand up to scrutiny. This is not new or surprising.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 04:37 AM
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Yeah, this is just more of the same. The warning stands. If I get any more reports of your shenanigans it's a ban. Have a lovely day :)
/r/MensRights11/04/13 09:57 AM
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Sure. Let's begin with the ad hominems. You've been claiming everyone who downvotes you is some kind of feminist shill. You can't know that for sure (this is the internet), so you're attempting to frame an "if you're not with me, you're against me" argument, which is transparent and ineffective here. We've all been in debates with idiots that use this rhetoric, and it's a good reason you're being downvoted. Second, you didn't provide a clear analysis or premise, choosing instead to vaguely allud…
/r/MensRights11/04/13 03:44 AM
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I think the source is great. Your premise would be great if it wasn't so muddled.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 11:25 AM
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I'm having a hard timing believing you're posting in earnest. If you keep it up it's a ban. Men's rights isn't some game to us. If you're seriously interested in the movement cut the shit please. FYI complaining about downvotes - especially in a "the aliens are coming to get us" kind of way - is a guaranteed way to earn yourself downvotes from everyone. Let your material speak for itself.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 06:21 AM
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That's a reasonable distinction to make. Feminists so often forget that our gender dynamic is enforced by both sexes. I'd like to add something to that. "Readjusting the contemporary dichotomy between men and women" isn't very specific. When we hear feminists use phrases like this it's usually synonymous with "men need to give up all their power". To which we respond, "what power?" That belief that all men hold some inherent power is, I feel, an irreconcilable difference between us and a pretty …
/r/MensRights05/04/13 04:41 AM
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Would you be more specific about how I am able to exploit these biases? I've never been given access to extra income, extra power, rape, or lower standards of intellectual and aesthetic (?) performance. Perhaps if you could show me some proof of a coordinated effort by white people against people of other colors I'd be more inclined to believe you? Otherwise it just appears to be the natural (clearly flawed) tendency for the free market to play out in exploiting the underprivileged. None of us h…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 03:11 AM
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they lack access to the institutional weapons This is very interesting to me. Are you saying I have access to institutional weapons? Surely these are kept under the highest level of secrecy, as none of my fellow patriarchy brethren have been given clearance yet. Even at our world patriarchy conventions there is no talk of these weapons. Tell me, are they powerful? I've always wanted a laser cannon, but apparently the technology just hasn't caught up yet. I imagine that we men could easily create…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:55 AM
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Your account has been shadow banned by an admin. Please contact an admin to have that ban lifted ASAP.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 08:29 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/MensRights13/03/13 05:19 AM
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It's hard to tell what would happen if this ended up with the police or worse, in court. I think the safest advice is to leave, immediately. Wait for her to leave for the day (or devise such an opportunity), then collect as many of your personal affects as you can and find a safe place to move into. Under no circumstances should you tell her where, or anyone who might tell her. This will get you out of a dangerous environment and mitigate the risk of being accused/prosecuted of DV.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 06:19 AM
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That's not even remotely what happened here. Just try to be more accurate with your titles. That's a pretty standard rule which gets applied in almost any subreddit.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 02:44 AM
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That was originally an option, but we believed that he would receive much better exposure on /r/IAMA. His time is valuable and we wanted to make sure he could reach as many people as possible. That's why he opted for IAMA and we cross-posted. I think it worked well for the most part.
/r/MensRights20/02/13 08:02 AM
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My thanks to you as well. That was a very well-written article. I hope the discussion stays amicable.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 09:23 AM
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Some communities number in the hundreds of thousands, but many of the claims are inflated. They're based on email subscribers and pageviews. Additionally, a lot of MRA communities overlap with other communities like conservative, "right", traditionalist etc. I would say we are a medium to large sized community, with a strong focus on advocating for strict equality of opportunity.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 10:02 PM
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You've been banned by an admin. Contact them to have the ban rescinded. When and if it is, contact the mods here to have your ban removed.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 10:15 AM
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That was so satisfying to watch.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 09:40 AM
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Wait, we are seeking equality - asking that circumcision be based on informed consent by the person having the surgery (just like women are afforded) - and you attack us for being misogynists who support male superiority? I would call you a troll but your account history says otherwise. You were just looking for a reason to attack us, and unfortunately for you, you couldn't find one. So you picked male circumcision? How ridiculous.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 10:27 PM
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Just the link, thanks.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 04:53 AM
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I've left this up because the content is worthwhile, but I ask that you please remove the link to SRS.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 03:43 AM
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Very, very interesting. Thanks for compiling these stats. 8.5% and possibly 12.5% is a significant figure for sure.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 02:59 AM
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Social Justice Warrior to the rescue to remind us all that male-on-female violence is much worse, and how men are all oppressors. Thanks, feminism!
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:45 PM
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I believe it still falls under the doxxing rules. If this were hosted on another website and you linked to it, I would leave it up. I'm sorry for the confusion. We're dealing with a serious lack of communication by the admins regarding this right now. I'm trying to do my best to abide by rules which they refuse to clarify.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 09:23 PM
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Personal information like this must be hosted off-site, and must contain the appearance of investigative journalism. These are Reddit CEO Yishan's words, not mine.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:25 AM
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We've requested clarification on this matter but have received none. According to Yishan, Reddit CEO, investigative journalism is allowed, but the journalism must be contained off-site. Please ensure your expose is nicely formatted, possibly verbose, and appears to contain the veneer of "investigative journalism".
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:22 AM
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Agreed. I've removed it. OP: Please try to make sure articles you submit are genuine.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:45 PM
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I'm not sure what's wrong with being pro-gay. Are you saying being homophobic is actually good and progressive? If not, I'd like to remind you that you're in /r/MensRights, where we fight for the rights of all men, including gay men.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:43 PM
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I've removed this submission for a few reasons. New accounts get zero tolerance. That was an extremely poor choice of username, even if you're just being facetious. Further, this doesn't provide any useful information for men dealing with false rape accusations, despite the title. It's just a highly subjective, anecdotal account of how you lied to a woman and then a police officer. I don't understand why you posted this at all.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:25 PM
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I agree that the tone is different, but if that is the only difference, then why have neither yishan nor bitcrunch explained that tone is a valid reason to differentiate "doxxing" from "investigative journalism"? To me, that's ridiculous, but if that's the rule we will abide. We just need to know.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:48 PM
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Yes, thanks for stating that point. We do not condone doxxing, but we we believe the rules should be applied uniformly across Reddit. The moderators in not just /r/MensRights, but across all large subreddits, believe all instances of doxxing should be removed. Zero tolerance. As Yishan has stated this will not be enforced, we will instead endeavor to adhere to these New guidelines. Unfortunately they won't tell us exactly what those guidelines are. This is unacceptable. How are we to follow and …
/r/MensRights02/01/13 11:48 AM
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We discussed this and felt posting this to /r/MensRights rather than /r/MensRightsMeta was appropriate due to the gravity of the situation. I feel this needs to be discussed by the wider Reddit community, as it affects all users.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 10:21 AM
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I don't think it's realistic for most men anymore. Feminism has raised a couple of generations of extremely entitled women. They want everything, and they don't want to work for it. When their partner outgrows his usefulness, just get a new one! Commitment, honor, sacrifice; these mean little to the woman raised on "girl power!" There are gems out there, but they're becoming harder and harder to find. Anecdotally, my sister is Christian and her community seems to respect the marriage commitment …
/r/MensRights23/12/12 10:11 PM
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Good luck.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 11:02 AM
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I'm not sure, but it happened around the time a submission and one of my comments was removed by bitcrunch. We're currently discussing her over-ruling yishan's stance on off-site doxxing. She's at loggerheads with his decision, but only applies that double-standard to us. I'm not impressed, and this is being discussed in /r/ModTalk.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 10:39 AM
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The admins have banned your account. Contact them to discuss. I'll be approving your comments manually for now.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 09:19 AM
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Thanks. One of the admins deleted it because apparently my interpretation of the rules is incorrect. We're discussing this now.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:25 AM
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ViolentAcrez.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:24 AM
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Hi AgentOrange Please feel free to link to the material right here. The admins have explained that doxxing is perfectly acceptable as long as the information is not published on Reddit. While I don't condone doxxing, I am into being fair. As long as SRS gets away with doxxing people, then I will not remove links to doxxing either. handsomemod
/r/MensRights17/12/12 07:35 AM
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I think Angry Harry is angry and hateful too, but what you say after that doesn't follow. These people aren't necessarily libertarians just because they're unsatisfied with the status quo. In fact, being libertarian isn't a bad thing either. What you fail to understand is that different beliefs aren't necessarily wrong just because you disagree with them. Most of us have done a lot of research, and many of us were introduced to gender discussions through feminism. I used to call myself a feminis…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 11:05 PM
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Your account has been banned from Reddit. Approach the mods to inquire, then approach us if it has been unbanned.
/r/MensRights08/12/12 05:34 AM
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Just a month ago you had your head so far up her ass I didn't know where she ended and you began. I guess your affection only lasts insofar as she agrees with you. After that she's a dirty liberal, like the rest of us MRAs. Oh, Jeremiah, never change.
/r/MensRights08/12/12 01:02 AM
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Doesn't matter to them. Most information is "public" if one looks hard enough. They disallow Facebook links, and those are entirely voluntarily uploaded by the user. That said, linking to that information seems perfectly okay now.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 01:36 AM
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The admins have made it clear: publishing personal information like this on Reddit is forbidden. However, feel free to post a link to all this information. Just be sure that the information isn't on Reddit.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 08:52 AM
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You've been shadow banned from Reddit. Contact the admins, then contact us if they rescind it.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 01:07 AM
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Why is twitter not banned already? Upvotes and Downvotes should filter that out too. Everything can be filtered out by up and down. I'm confused. You ask why Twitter isn't banned, then state that upvotes and downvotes are sufficient? I think you need to figure out what your position is, then get back to us. I'm treating your 15 hour old account as suspicious, and that has nothing to do with how big your e-peen is.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 12:21 AM
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Indeed. We wanted to balance the rights of the community with the belief that we don't want to silence opinion in smaller communities. It took a lot of consideration, but we feel it strikes a good balance. I don't feel disallowing all links would be beneficial. There are a lot of interested discussions on Reddit, and members should be allowed to discuss them here. Additionally, a lot of submissions and posts are from men seeking help, and they may not be aware of this community at all.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 12:18 AM
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Please post this to /r/MensRightsMeta.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 12:18 AM
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Why did you post this from a throw-away?
/r/MensRights03/12/12 10:23 AM
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it is acceptable for a man to shame a woman for not conforming to gender roles I have literally been arguing the exact opposite of this: Everyone is responsible for reinforcing these gender roles, not just women. At this point I think it's clear that having a copy-pasta discussion with you isn't entirely apropos. I wish you the best of luck in proving us MRAs are evil :)
/r/MensRights02/12/12 06:47 PM
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In all seriousness, it's not really entitlement when someone promises you something, then reneges.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 06:35 AM
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And we've looped back to the beginning. We can start again, if you'd like. You seem to be hung up on the word "entitlement". It's actually not so evil. There are all sorts of social contracts and expectations. Men have been taught that if they act a certain way, they will end up happy and married. They've been lied to. I think a better word than entitlement is expectation. It's our job to teach these men that they shouldn't have to act a certain way. They shouldn't have to hold doors open for wo…
/r/MensRights02/12/12 03:45 AM
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Warning.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:53 AM
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Warning. Also for this. If it happens again, it's a ban.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:52 AM
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So you you agree that you raped and murdered a girl in 1990? Seriously, no, not at all. When you build these false premises like that it makes you look like you're not being genuine. Being angry with only women is wrong, because it takes the participation of everyone. But women certainly share some of the blame. This "inherent cultural entitlement" is another word for gender roles, and as I said, they are wrong and should be removed. This takes the cooperation of everyone, not just men.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:43 AM
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Yes. Everyone is responsible for reinforcing these gender roles, not just women.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 03:23 AM
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Society is reneging. Are you familiar with the concept of gender roles?
/r/MensRights29/11/12 10:54 PM
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No, not at all.
/r/MensRights29/11/12 10:31 PM
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If you look above my post, you'll see what's called a "user name". If you'll note, mine is different from those you've been discussing this with previously. It's an odd concept, but different people have different ideas. Give it some time, you'll get it eventually :) In all seriousness, it's not really entitlement when someone promises you something, then reneges.
/r/MensRights29/11/12 10:09 PM
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You seem to be hung up on the word "entitlement". It's actually not so evil. There are all sorts of social contracts and expectations. Men have been taught that if they act a certain way, they will end up happy and married. They've been lied to. I think a better word than entitlement is expectation. It's our job to teach these men that they shouldn't have to act a certain way. They shouldn't have to hold doors open for women; or pay for dates; or treat her nicely because he likes her; or indeed …
/r/MensRights29/11/12 09:40 PM
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It happens in every movement and ideology. They've bought into the feminist theory to such a degree that they've lost perspective. All men are evil, and the world would be better without them. It's sad, but these people are the minority. It's best to ignore them.
/r/MensRights29/11/12 12:10 AM
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They're a branch of /r/ShitRedditSays. I would be worried if you weren't banned there.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 11:37 PM
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This is a troll blog. Please don't link to it again. Thanks.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 10:31 PM
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Examples? We certainly don't accept death threats here. I eagerly await your response.
/r/MensRights21/11/12 09:39 PM
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I was going to ban you, but I'm going with a warning. We're pretty relaxed about the personal insults we allow to be thrown around here, but if your only purpose is to be a dick to everyone, through a feminist lens, I have no qualms about removing you. Just so I'm clear: feminist theory and arguments: A-OKAY! Attacking and belittling /r/MensRights and its users, without even the courtesy of some kind of argument: not okay.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 09:50 AM
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Would love some examples. I'm a little tired of people calling us misogynists without actually reading the comments and submissions first. Am anxiously awaiting your reply.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 01:16 AM
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Your account has been shadow banned. You need to contact the admins in order to have it unbanned.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 10:12 AM
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This is actually a pretty reasonable stance, and I don't feel you should be downvoted for it. As long as insurance is a business, operated in a free market, the business should be allowed to charge based on risk analysis. This is the nature of insurance. As long as you're consistent, and you feel prejudicial insurance rates should be applied to both health and vehicle insurance, I think that's pretty reasonable.
/r/MensRights13/11/12 02:22 AM
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Alright well I appreciate the consistency.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 10:06 AM
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Would you say the same if the sexes were reversed? I'm sorry, but I strongly disagree. If anyone grabs you like that you should resist in any way possible. That's an act of violence, and he shouldn't have stopped to consider what her intent was.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 12:08 AM
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You were warned.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 03:59 AM
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And what is that?
/r/MensRights09/11/12 01:15 AM
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We don't allow racism here. You are free to express your views elsewhere, but if you'd like to continue to be a member here, you'll have to refrain from discussing how "dark races are going to end us". That's the only warning you'll receive on that.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 08:08 AM
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We don't allow advocating violence at all.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 08:06 AM
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Failtroll.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 04:19 AM
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Jews deserved what they got. Not acceptable.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:26 PM
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This is pointless. Of course rape is bad. All you're doing in that thread is encouraging their trolls. They don't genuinely believe we thing rape is acceptable. That's just what they accuse everyone of if they disagree with them.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 12:08 AM
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I'm okay with images, but I'm not sure if the other mods are removing them. My understanding is that we disallow cross-posts to prevent the front page from being overrun. If images become a problem I'll start removing them too.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 08:35 PM
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