hank_henderson_79 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	How do you reply to this one? Stop paying her bills	/r/askMRP	27/09/18 09:22 AM
2	No one values me. Im invisible. Fuck all that noise. Stop looking for attention	/r/seduction	22/09/18 11:29 AM
4	How To Win Friends and Influence People seems pretty blue pilled, so should I listen to it? Yeah. It’s about how to WIN friends - not command respect	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 04:29 AM
3	Keeping your new frame to your old friends Work on yourself. Go monk mode. Have a mission	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 02:05 PM
3	Keeping your new frame to your old friends I had to completely change social groups. The inertia is too strong with the people you know	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 01:22 PM
16	Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat? Those types of reactions are probably because of a couple of reasons. Firstly, if you have been seeing her for a period of time you have probably trained her to react like this. If she has ever done this before, even if it hasn’t been as extreme, and you haven’t punished the behaviour with no contact, then you have rewarded her for it because she has your undivided attention. The other reason is you’re choosing damaged goods (BPD or something) - stop it. All behaviour like this needs to be ignor…	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 06:41 AM
39	Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat? No, I'd be explicit. The best thing would have been to say something like "I'm finding you annoying at the moment and it makes me less attracted to you. I'm going to go and..." And genuinely go off and do something that you want to do. Don't tell her whether or not you will contact her or she should contact you. Give her time to think about the whole thing. You will have framed the incident in terms of attraction so she will be desperate to prove she is attractive and therefore use sexuality to …	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 04:15 AM
95	Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat? That was the perfect thing to do. You executed amused mastery in public by ignoring her like she was the irritating little sister that can’t possibly penetrate your frame. Even discipline her in public wasn’t worth your time. Then calmly lecturing her in private asap - gold standard. What you did miss out on though was a very rare opportunity to make her never shit test you again, always see you as the most alpha she will ever have, and be addicted to you. You should have imposed a separation pe…	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 02:47 AM