hansieboy10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date?		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 11:02 PM
10	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs)		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	07/06/19 10:51 PM
6	Anyone know some good reddits to learn shit?		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	13/07/19 10:44 PM
3	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed)		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 12:32 PM
2	What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction.	Fundamentals	hansieboy10	/r/seduction	27/08/25 09:58 AM
1	How do I stop caring so much how many girls look at me?		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 09:43 PM
0	Anyone here dated while having a anxiety disorder?		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	10/07/19 12:05 AM
0	Need some advice how to become rock solid		hansieboy10	/r/askTRP	07/07/19 12:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? 😂	/r/seduction	23/07/26 01:06 AM
3	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t Be less needy be less needy. Yeah thanks. If there is nothing left of me I’m good I think 😂. I so agree with OP btw.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 11:16 AM
1	Becoming attractive after weight loss? Nah probably mine 😂. But I thought maybe he was for real.	/r/seduction	17/07/26 04:19 AM
2	Becoming attractive after weight loss? Serious or or you being sarcastic 😂?	/r/seduction	15/07/26 01:24 AM
1	how do you get over doing all the work? Allright. Good luck 😁	/r/seduction	08/06/26 07:20 AM
8	how do you get over doing all the work? Might be related to the way seduction works. Maybe meet someone more organically through proximity. Not saying there is anything wrong with seduction, have done it myself, but I feel like seduction is more about hunting. A skillset to connect to girls and sleep with them. I haven’t picked up enough girls to make hard conclusions about this but it might be the the girls you pick up through these means are generally more of a certain type. Something to maybe wrestle a bit with yourself. They are j…	/r/seduction	07/06/26 06:04 PM
4	Being attractive is largely about being healthy Yeah I’m curious too, are you genuinely slim now and genuinely healthy? (Good skin etc)?	/r/seduction	04/06/26 09:30 PM
1	I did everything I was supposed to do as a man to improve my looks... I'm still ugly; was it all pointless? Him: ‘If they are interested they would’ve shown it’ You: ‘Absolutely not how that works’ Maybe I was too harsh with my words but I think the correct move was telling him that that is only a specific way how a romantic interaction can start and that are tons if other ways. + on top of that the initial high visible interest can quickly fade if the personality/character lacks	/r/seduction	30/05/26 07:43 PM
1	I did everything I was supposed to do as a man to improve my looks... I'm still ugly; was it all pointless? Why dont you first validate his experience? He’s right in the sense that people clearly overtly show interest in people they find attractive. That’s where you should’ve started because it’s the truth. Then you can point him alternatives, people building attraction over time, in proximity etc.	/r/seduction	30/05/26 03:39 PM
2	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s Interesting. Thanks for sharing. And nice that irl everything is more than fine for ya ;)	/r/seduction	25/05/26 06:10 PM
4	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s Not sure if I got the conclusion correct. Are you solely saying that even though you seemed to be highly desirable irl and are on paper also an attractive person to date you struggle in online dating or are you also saying that you are even struggling irl now opposed to the past?	/r/seduction	25/05/26 05:32 PM
2	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? Interesting. You might be right although it the first thing that comes to my mind is that that's an age thing. I do wonder though how much of social media is influencing Women too.	/r/seduction	28/04/26 01:45 PM
1	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? 😂	/r/seduction	28/04/26 12:01 PM
1	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? Noo 😭	/r/seduction	28/04/26 11:58 AM
5	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? How is dating going for you? You notice it in your own dating life?	/r/seduction	28/04/26 05:40 AM
5	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? How much?	/r/seduction	28/04/26 05:32 AM
8	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? I need a goth gf too tbh	/r/seduction	28/04/26 05:26 AM
3	Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s? Allright. Living your own best life always works and things like exercise will work for sure. If she sees that you are happy on your own she get triggered to sleep with you again. Good luck man	/r/seduction	28/12/25 01:47 AM
3	Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s? Aight. Sorry to hear about your DB situation but awesome that you kept your health up. Gotta respect it. Any plans to fix your situation?	/r/seduction	28/12/25 01:01 AM
2	Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s? You think you could reawaken that drive through the same principles?	/r/seduction	28/12/25 12:55 AM
3	My long term crush let's me cuddle but shoots me away if I push to far...really like her That’s where you should start. If that doesn’t happen why would the other stuff.	/r/seduction	25/12/25 11:20 PM
2	My long term crush let's me cuddle but shoots me away if I push to far...really like her Have you kissed her?	/r/seduction	25/12/25 11:12 PM
1	How to feel like a high value man? How old are you? Maybe you have some soul searching to do, maybe you just need to tidy your micro and macro nutrient intake, maybe you need to behave more like the objective achievements you have, maybe you need therapy. Good luck!	/r/seduction	19/12/25 02:13 AM
1	How to feel like a high value man? Be one	/r/seduction	18/12/25 07:41 PM
1	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? Nice 😂!	/r/seduction	11/10/25 05:39 AM
1	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? How are your looks and style?	/r/seduction	10/10/25 04:03 PM
2	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? 😂	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:55 PM
1	Starting to lose hope. How is your health? Diet/sleep/exercise?	/r/seduction	02/10/25 09:03 AM
1	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? 😂	/r/seduction	04/09/25 04:01 AM
1	What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction. This seems like a very logical result of whats happening with the internet. Ty	/r/seduction	27/08/25 07:50 PM
2	What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction. Nice answer. Thanks!	/r/seduction	27/08/25 07:48 PM
1	What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction. Ok! What changed on the apps according to you? And do you mostly date through meeting people irl?	/r/seduction	27/08/25 01:17 PM
1	What age is everyone here? Curious to know if new youngsters are still into seduction. I wish this was coming hahaha. I said older!!!	/r/seduction	27/08/25 01:16 PM
2	Are guys giving up on dating? Sucks man! What do you have if I may ask?	/r/seduction	09/08/25 02:02 AM
2	sexual frustration Start with eating better bro	/r/seduction	14/07/25 05:24 AM
8	For 40s Men Bro wassup with the lying trend. I also saw people on youtube recommending guys to lie about their age. Wtf is that. Let’s not do that.	/r/seduction	11/07/25 03:12 PM
10	For 40s Men Lying is cringe bro. Let’s not go there as Men	/r/seduction	11/07/25 03:09 PM
2	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. Ok!	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:38 PM
1	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. Currently I don’t really. In the past because it was fun.	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:36 PM
0	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. No	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:25 PM
3	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. Nice!	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:05 PM
7	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. How did you get confident?	/r/seduction	09/07/25 05:59 PM
4	Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy” ‘Deep inside them’ 😂😂😂	/r/seduction	06/07/25 09:14 PM
29	Confidence hits harder to women when it looks unjustified and you have no objective reason to be so comfortable with yourself This post reminds me of the good old days. Thanks	/r/seduction	25/06/25 06:10 AM
2	The strongest frame always wins Pretty nice post	/r/seduction	02/06/25 08:39 PM
4	Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and Monogamy We call this seeing where things go buddy	/r/seduction	24/05/25 08:52 AM
4	I got my first date... I'm happy. Gratz!!	/r/seduction	24/05/25 12:00 AM
3	Why do posts here tend to be full of generalised wisdom and "top-level" thoughts, as opposed to focusing on actionable advice? OG Trp was so good. Appreciate the work you are doing for the sub. Do you know another high quality place where to learn this stuff? Cheers	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/25 08:15 AM
0	Feel lonely when no girls texting or contacting Feelings are not conscious my friend. Be very careful with that rope you are walking on.	/r/seduction	15/05/25 06:09 PM
2	Should I be on this sub if I’m mostly interested in finding a relationship? Where are you from?	/r/seduction	15/05/25 05:36 AM
1	29 year virgin ED on first try Ok. Be rational man. Do really think she does? If you don’t stop acting like she does and stop thinking about it man.	/r/seduction	13/05/25 05:02 AM
1	29 year virgin ED on first try Why would you think about that?	/r/seduction	13/05/25 12:10 AM
3	4 small grooming tips that helped my dating game Curious too	/r/seduction	05/05/25 09:38 PM
1	I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that? That’s on you. Even if he said he is just conventionally attractive that would only prove that specific case. Not the case of all Women. I was genuinely curious what/which part(s) of him she was also was attracted to in other guys.	/r/seduction	04/05/25 05:43 AM
1	I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that? All I did was asking a question what the case was in his situation. No one thinks Women aren’t people except for retards. Relax with the rants man, Christ.	/r/seduction	04/05/25 05:28 AM
2	Woman said she learned she doesn't want sex after being with me. I think I failed Don’t believe that nonsense.	/r/seduction	03/05/25 06:43 AM
1	"You look gay" - biggest compliment and insult you can take advantage of as a man Yes. And a lot of people think about a specific kind of are you gay gay comment while there are multiple. Of course the one that would insinuate ate that you are too feminine/passive is bad. But the comments here assume that’s the case while hour explanation seems way more plausible with the context given.	/r/seduction	02/05/25 03:47 PM
1	"You look gay" - biggest compliment and insult you can take advantage of as a man Ignore the comment bro. Your explanation sounds very plausible. Any further sources of this theory?	/r/seduction	02/05/25 02:51 PM
1	People who do PUA stuff .Do you get good results? Cool!	/r/seduction	01/05/25 08:13 PM
1	People who do PUA stuff .Do you get good results? So how are your results?	/r/seduction	01/05/25 07:56 PM
9	I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that? Ok! Do you have a specific or somewhat unique look or do you conveniently attractive/masculine or whatever. Trying to decipher if it’s your style or or just a generic being attractive kind of thing. Cheers!	/r/seduction	30/04/25 02:51 PM
11	I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that? In what way did they look like you? As in characteristics? Or as in tall and muscular?	/r/seduction	30/04/25 10:34 AM
2	20 [M4F] #Online #England — looking for a girl that’s as horny as me and wants to meet aswell If you cant it’s not your fault	/r/seduction	29/04/25 02:08 PM
1	20 [M4F] #Online #England — looking for a girl that’s as horny as me and wants to meet aswell All good. Discussing and learning seduction	/r/seduction	29/04/25 02:05 PM
3	20 [M4F] #Online #England — looking for a girl that’s as horny as me and wants to meet aswell Wrong place	/r/seduction	29/04/25 02:03 PM
1	Best way to build or improve your inner game Ok!	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:04 AM
1	Best way to build or improve your inner game Cool. Thanks for the tips. Btw, 86 gram??? That’s so much. Where did you learn/read to take so much? Cheers	/r/seduction	29/04/25 04:20 AM
1	Best way to build or improve your inner game Awesome bro. I bought extra virgin olive oil this day lol. What’s your monounsaturated fat intake daily? Cheers	/r/seduction	29/04/25 02:28 AM
1	Best way to build or improve your inner game I use cronometer. It doesn’t include omega 9. Which tracking app do you use? Also, is there a benefit to getting more than the RDA? Cheers bud!	/r/seduction	29/04/25 12:34 AM
22	How to move on from a girl you really wanted ? Nothing you can do man. Focus on eating healthy, doing things you enjoy (even if they don't feel completely enjoyable right now) and living life. There is no other remedy.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 04:54 PM
2	Hearing my roommate have sex really upsets me That book is completely nonsense	/r/seduction	25/04/25 08:16 AM
1	Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move? In what settings does this happen?	/r/seduction	20/04/25 06:01 PM
2	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? 😂	/r/seduction	08/04/25 03:54 AM
3	How does everyone pick up girls in the club? You pull or what?	/r/seduction	07/04/25 12:52 AM
4	Are black pillers and incels taking over this sub? They are everywhere. Not just here	/r/seduction	05/04/25 08:49 AM
5	Church may be a viable option, one issue Ive seen Common bra. Just speak to a nice girl you see on the streets or whatever you think might relationships potential. Just need to find 1 you really like if you are not in casual sex	/r/seduction	01/04/25 08:00 PM
28	Tinder hookup fail You must be trolling	/r/seduction	29/03/25 03:40 PM
4	New here. Is “Seduction” in this sub the same as PUA in the old days, or is it seduction as in social competence and reading vibes and energies? Interesting. Usually it’s the other way around	/r/seduction	28/03/25 05:27 AM
1	The Silent Epidemic of Men Pretending They Don’t Want Romance Not sure if he suppressed anything. It’s probably that after experiencing it he realised that what he wants. And because he lost it he misses it.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 08:52 AM
2	The Silent Epidemic of Men Pretending They Don’t Want Romance He probably did. Only though because just didn’t know how to do it.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 08:50 AM
1	Why I am so afraid of intimacy and sex? Dude, in your case a prostitute or specifically, an escort. It’s actually ideal. You can practice, explain the situation and go in whatever speed you want. And for the God of sakes, stop with all these shoulds. Go figure what you want and execute te steps to get there. There is no other way. If that is really to difficult for you do that with a hobby (or a job). When you methodically got better there you realise you can do the same with Women.	/r/seduction	24/03/25 07:26 AM
2	My anxiety disappears when the woman invests in the interaction Relatable!	/r/seduction	19/03/25 09:25 AM
-2	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? .	/r/seduction	14/03/25 02:51 PM
1	How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable? Before you kiss just say ‘kiss me little boy’	/r/seduction	12/03/25 11:46 PM
1	Destroy your ego - there's nothing wrong with dating a 3/10 girl when you're a 3/10 yourself Unironically very good post	/r/seduction	26/02/25 12:32 AM
1	women keeps taking advantage of me Allright. Good luck on your journey !	/r/seduction	23/02/25 09:06 AM
1	women keeps taking advantage of me Did you have therapy?	/r/seduction	23/02/25 02:54 AM
1	Digging through the dirt to find Red Pill gold. Are there more sources like Rian stone or any good OG/gold RP stuff? Also couldn’t find Rian’a youtube channel. Could someone link it for me or tell me the keywords to type in to find it? Didn’t find him on ‘Rian Stone’	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/25 05:42 PM
6	Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong? Could be a part of it, but he genuinely doesn’t have a clue on how to approach the situation he should start there	/r/seduction	28/01/25 08:52 PM
3	Guy came over but no action. What did I do wrong? Should I try again, and if so, how? Maybe he was nervous or afraid to cross a boundary	/r/seduction	25/01/25 10:29 PM
0	I’m tired of taking Ls Oh yeah to be clear, I was specifically talking about you either got it or don’t. Improve multiple areas of your life and become valuable	/r/seduction	19/01/25 06:37 PM
1	I’m tired of taking Ls Wrong	/r/seduction	19/01/25 06:30 PM
-1	How did #metooo effect your dating life and approach to women? Good comment	/r/seduction	13/01/25 04:02 AM
3	Getting laid 😂. Yeah, kinda wrote that a bit weird hahaha	/r/seduction	11/01/25 12:19 PM
65	Getting laid Foreplay brother. Warm her up, kiss her everywhere, slowly leading to more erotic places, tease her, look up how to lick pussy well. Try to make her cum with buildup and pussylicking, after that you’ll start fucking her or make her suck your cock and than fuck her. Enjoy my man	/r/seduction	11/01/25 12:49 AM
2	Wtf happened to my game? Everyone is overreacting. Just be a bit more social and gradually increase that. Pay attention to body langue and extend your comfort zone progressively.	/r/seduction	05/01/25 03:10 AM
3	how is cold approaching not showing lower value You unapologetically go after what you want. There is a right way to do this of course but it definitely shows balls	/r/seduction	03/01/25 03:58 PM
8	Should I lie about my height on dating apps? Absolutely not. It’s cringe.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 03:59 AM
1	The One Thing that Predicts Every Breakup & Divorce You based this on what?	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/24 04:58 AM
7	do you think the annoying industry of onlyfans girls/ female influencers will eventually reach its peak, and die down. Stop comparing yourself to these Women. It’s great to be a man	/r/seduction	26/12/24 04:54 AM
1	Makeup equivalent for men Ridiculous post. How is makeup unfair? It’s not like they can wear that 24/7. Also there is no equivalent. Best thing to do is take care of yourself. Hydrate, skincare etc.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 03:06 AM
1	My own toxic masculinity Bro just listen to your own thoughts. You know it’s not a bit deal, think that belief that. Get some succes somewhere or with someone else. That’s it.	/r/seduction	25/12/24 05:43 PM
4	Sex energy is earned through confrontation with chaos. You cannot fake it Speaking from serious experience: all this go within, and fancy spiritual sounding words is complete bullshit and even self destructive. Keep it practical and actionable. I’d be nice if we can stop with these spiritual posts in general.	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/24 11:18 AM
2	Sex energy is earned through confrontation with chaos. You cannot fake it Man, was just about to say this. TRP reddit was nice because it was practical, a rational life philosophy. What’s up with all the ‘spiritual’ crap on here suddenly	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/24 11:13 AM
1	Any short guys with success in the dating game? I’ve been out for a bit. Do Women still like dominant Men?	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/24 07:52 PM
3	Stop going for girls you do not like, it will never improve your game. There is a right dose of adversity which I think everyone should find and create for themselves	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/23 08:43 PM
6	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. The police is saying you cant respectfully approach a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 11:51 AM
0	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. Seriously, stop listening that to that crap. It’s normal to respectfully approach someone and nothing is going to change that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 11:34 AM
4	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. So how many Women have you actually approached with the intend of getting her number and how did those times go?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 11:27 AM
0	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. Yes. You know too you can respectfully approach someone. Also, Women want relationships and sex too. If someone cant handle a respectful approach it’s on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 11:23 AM
-2	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. So you believe it’s not acceptable now to approach Women? You know that’s bullshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 10:01 AM
1	Men: how do you feel about yourself? What do you think of yourself? Hey! I like this post and how you’ve interacted with the replies! I have a question for you which you partly already answered a bit in some comments: What do you think Men need? Not just in terms of dating but in life. How can Men start to feel good about themselves from within? Would love to hear your answer and I suspect you have some good points!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:50 PM
10	How to prevent flakes (slight manipulation) Weird if you feel you need to corner people like that	/r/seduction	20/07/23 11:08 PM
1	How do I stop verbal autism? Thanks brother. Looking forward to apply this.	/r/askTRP	20/07/19 11:43 PM
1	How do I stop verbal autism? Nice answer, I have a question though: I like to just talk and don’t really form the sentence in my head like you describe it before I say it. Don’t you get too much in your head? When I’m feeling really social everything just goes on auto pilot. Some input on this would be great.	/r/askTRP	20/07/19 03:41 PM
1	Anyone here dated while having a anxiety disorder? Damn, I’m proud brother. I’ll get there soon!	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 11:05 AM
1	Anyone here dated while having a anxiety disorder? What do you mean with ‘bustint one out’ lol? Thanks brother	/r/askTRP	10/07/19 08:51 AM
1	Anyone here dated while having a anxiety disorder? Haha thanks brother, will do!	/r/askTRP	10/07/19 08:50 AM
1	I [22M] have been talking with this girl [21] for a month after we matched on Tinder LOL	/r/askTRP	09/07/19 11:59 PM
7	I have oneitis and idk how to deal with this Cut her off. Next time be honest with your when you wan’t to ‘befriend’ a woman. You probably don’t or there is some form of attraction. If there is show it to the woman as soon as possible. No being friends first, show sexual interest. Start reading the sidebar	/r/askTRP	09/07/19 10:46 AM
1	Therapy for inner game? For 8 weeks straight (now in my 8th week) I had to kinda brainwash myself for a half hour everyday. It’s called COMET Every week was a tiny bit different. I’ll give you one example: Think about a good characteristic you have. Then visualize a memory you displayed this and litterly ‘force’ the good feeling associated with it like pride. This I had to do 6x5 minutes a day. Changed my life. Become more aware of my good sides and eventually started to fee” this ‘forced’ emotions without forcing them…	/r/askTRP	06/07/19 12:01 AM
2	Therapy for inner game? Im a above average looking guy, used to get looks. I felt even worse that I was failing with woman because of that. Last 2 I was in a deep depression and got a anxiety disorder. Therapy (CBT and some program for my self esteem) changed my life. Because of that I started to live again and do things for myself. Eventually I got the confidence to date again. It was a process but I am so grateful for my deprssion now. Do it!	/r/askTRP	05/07/19 09:31 PM
5	I can't even land an ugly whale from a dating app Most people are right about dating apps. However, if you’re sure you have a good profile you can make it work. And I’ll go against what everyone says here but some succes or interest on tinder can get you a nice self esteem boost that you should translate to real life. It’s not that I’m super succesful on tinder but I can land dates doing the following. Be funny, make yourself and them laugh starting from the opener. Practise this my messaging a lot of girls at the same time so you dont give a f…	/r/askTRP	04/07/19 08:48 AM
1	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Allright, got it! Thanks brother	/r/askTRP	04/07/19 08:12 AM
6	LTR falling apart as I write this I need help desperately I feel like Im going to kill myself Here, you’re trying to justify not dumping her. It’s understandable, especially after being together for so long most of your life. Truth is, she cheated and you can’t trust her anymore. Even if you regain the trust there is a high chance she will do it again because she subconciously lost respect for you for putting up with it. I know it’s hard bro but you’re still strong. Take control, start working on yoursef and become a real man. Goodluck brother.	/r/askTRP	03/07/19 08:24 PM
1	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed) I don’t know if I agree but I will definitely look into it. I will definitely reexamine. There always will be things to improve. Really appreciate your critical thinking bro!	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 08:31 PM
1	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed) Allright, thanks for your input. I honestly don’t think I was acting beta at all. The beta thing I did do tho was trying to kiss her and shit after she went for the LMR. Also thabks for your input about cockyness. Part of my game is that I make comments about how good I look but in a really extravagant/funny way. Appreciate it bro	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 04:09 PM
2	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed) Haha well played brother. Thanks for your reply, makes a lot of sense. Especially for the unstable girls.	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 03:36 PM
7	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed) Could be but I’m hard nexting anyway. The triggered social justice was too much for me.	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 02:21 PM
4	LRM, do that with your other tinder dates.. (advice needed) Haha yeah, I know. Seems legit, was my first date in like a year. It caught me off gaurd Thanks for your input bro!	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 01:36 PM
1	Anyone else is really good at meeting girls at bars/clubs/parties and making out with them, but sucks at taking them home and closing the deal??? Does this apply when you have a chick over? Got a date tonight at my house.	/r/askTRP	30/06/19 04:31 PM
2	I keep remembering when I kissed two men.. Need advise and opinions LOL	/r/askTRP	29/06/19 04:30 PM
4	I keep remembering when I kissed two men.. Need advise and opinions Who cares bro. I kissed one of my guy friend one time. It felt disguisting the day after. We just joked about it and my friends still tease me. I just own it and game more chicks. Me, my friends and all the girls I’m with know I’m far and for from gay LOL. You can’t chante what happened. Just accept the it happened or keep beating yourself up for it. Be a little bit kind on yourself brother.	/r/askTRP	29/06/19 02:52 PM
1	Question about frame, life, friends, everything I think I’ve turned into an actual douche bag and I don’t want to be that guy. Not everything you do has to to be super valueble to you life. I sometimes play games with my friends or go and out and get wasted. If you don’t do stuff like that life gets way too serious. That’s just my opinion but I would reccomend learning to be comfortable with doing shit JUST for the the fun and ‘chaos’ of it.	/r/askTRP	29/06/19 08:07 AM
1	Is “straight edge” the only way to form long lasting inner peace? After reading the comments I will say this: First you need to accept you’re in for a long painful but also healing ride. Slowly cut everything out. Maybe use CBD until you’ve made enough progress. Second, you need to speak with a therapist. I was in a deep depression myself with a anxiety disorder for 2.5 years. This was after I had great succes in my sales job and having succes with woman. I didn’t know why I was feeling this way, what I was feeling, I felt like I litterly didn’t have any negai…	/r/askTRP	27/06/19 01:35 AM
1	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Thanks you so much brother. Makes sense. <3	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 04:29 PM
1	What is it like being an attractive dude? I respect that bro.	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 02:55 PM
4	What is it like being an attractive dude? Yeah, do you mind?	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 08:11 AM
1	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Good shit bro, good shit. Will definitely apply! ‘I feel like I can tell your anything because I don’t ever have to see you again you know?’ Can you explain? Is it a Neg to reduce comfort when you felt you’ve build it up too much?	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 08:08 AM
3	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Cool, thanks brother. You’re right, being too critical. A lot of things went right.	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 01:57 AM
2	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Also really appreciate this comment, thanks!	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 11:58 PM
4	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Appreciate it brother!	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 11:36 PM
4	Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date? Thanks for your reply bro. It’s acutally more about the kisses on the cheek. And we’ve held hands. Afterwards that felt like a bad idea. For the rest I’m pretty happy.	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 11:31 PM
3	I need help! i need someone to come "Woe" my girl away from me. Gather evidence and break up.	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 11:29 PM
2	i need real opinions, depression, life, im scared (long) This.	/r/askTRP	24/06/19 10:05 AM
6	What ethnicity do I look to you? I hope you’re not asking this because you don’t wan’t to look Asian. And yes you do look Asian. Looking at you I would say lose the mustache and start gymming like crazy (look for push pull leg workouts). If you do you WILL be seen as attractive, believe me.	/r/askTRP	24/06/19 09:50 AM
1	What the hell is wrong with her? Wtf LOL? This is litterly the truth. Game, Looks and status are the 3 most important things to attract woman while game being the most inportant one. Because you probably have haven’t read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. P.S. In case you were joking with this comment, you got me haha	/r/askTRP	23/06/19 11:52 PM
2	How to get deeper friendships and get past the "joke phase" (or avoid it altogether)? ‘Figuring out what yhe perfect thing to say to elicit a goos reaction’ This doesn’t help with your problem. If you’re not genuine it’s hard to get a genuine connection. Get comfortable with beinh yourself without feeling the need to do something for a good reaction. I’ve been there and it’s so much better now that I don’t feel the need to clown around because people know me this way. No more mr. nice guy will help you with this.	/r/askTRP	23/06/19 11:46 PM
3	Have you broken off an LTR because you felt you needed to grow? I know how you feel because I’ve been in that situation and I chose to break up. Not only will hurt but you might be thinking you’ve made a mistake afterwards. If you keep strong it will be worth it for sure. If you decide you wan’t to stay with her you should think about ways how you can grow. Maybe some you-only days without contact. It’s just a example but I hope you get the idea. Goodluck.	/r/askTRP	11/06/19 09:44 AM
2	I Want To Give Up (Long Post) They probably love you and wanting to do the right thing for you. They’re not tho but the can’t see that. I’ve been in a situation like yours with really controlling parents. I know the feeling of being forced to swallow their bullshit. It makes your head explode. I’ve good news though, soon it will be over. You’ll be a free man and that feeling will be so nice. There is even a chance you will get a good relationship with them again. Keep hanging in there brother and good luck!	/r/askTRP	08/06/19 08:21 PM
1	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) Allright brother. Step by step we’ll continue. Thanks!	/r/askTRP	08/06/19 08:14 PM
1	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) Thanks for your insight! The thing is I’ve been focussing on myself already for a pretty long time now. When hanging out with (new) friends I often I’m even ahead in terms of dicipline and knowlegde. This used to be a huge insecurity because the way I’ve been raised. It killed my self esteem. Now I’m doing a lot better but how far I’ve come I would’ve expected that I would be way more comfortable in situations like hanging with new met people. Feeling confident around other people is something i…	/r/askTRP	08/06/19 09:39 AM
1	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) This very could be. Their not completely new but new again after my 2.5 years of deep depression/anxiety. My foundation is also a lot better now thanks to therapy and self work. So what you’ee saying is that I have to get more positive experiences like last night and eventually the doubt will fade away? Thank you so much.	/r/askTRP	08/06/19 09:13 AM
3	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) Man, thank you so much. I will put this to practise! Again, thanks for taking the time!	/r/askTRP	08/06/19 12:49 AM
3	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) I’ve looked it up. It’s me. I am my mental point of origin. I cut off contact with poeple that offered me nothing and making new friends with people who I can learn from. I’m going to the gym, eating healthy and trying to get as much order as possible in my life. I’m more diciplined than ever. I don’t have a job though because I don’t know if I’m ready and I don’t wan’t relapse on my depression/anxiety disorder before my study starts (3 months).	/r/askTRP	07/06/19 11:33 PM
3	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) I’m really new here. I did not read the side bar yet besides a few things. I’m now reading the Rational Male and no More mr. Nice guy. I’ll do it ASAP. Do you mins giving me some advice anyway or will reading the side bar help me further with this? Thanks for taking the time!	/r/askTRP	07/06/19 11:14 PM
2	How do i stop doubting mysef so much? (srs) What do you mean ‘mental point of orgin’?	/r/askTRP	07/06/19 11:06 PM
1	Do i have low testosterone or just low confidence? Do you have morning wood? Do you get horny? If not, probably best to take a blood test. Gl brother	/r/askTRP	05/06/19 11:30 PM
1	I can't stop thinking about suicide update. Nice brother, nice progress! I’m going through some tough times aswell but doing a bit better. You down to chat on discord?	/r/askTRP	05/06/19 09:42 PM
2	Effective ways to lower social inhibition? What is low/high - inhib?	/r/askTRP	02/06/19 11:55 AM
1	Nihilism after Success with girls & taking steroids - dumped my plates, feeling like a cartoonish Fraud. Body Dysmorphia, Depression & Burnout advice Not all therapists are scammers. You don’t have to take antidepressants to get better but it might help, listen to Jordan Pererson what he has to say about this subject. Sounds like you have some psychological issues, which sucks. With therapy, reading yourself in about your issues and taking the right steps you WILL feel better brother. I’ve been there aswell. Goodluck	/r/askTRP	02/06/19 07:21 AM
1	How do I stop caring so much how many girls look at me? Yeah, thats probably true. Thanks, this will help me!	/r/askTRP	01/06/19 05:38 AM
1	How do I stop caring so much how many girls look at me? Thanks for your insight. I’m sure this will help!	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 10:40 PM
1	Is the redpill right wing, politically speaking? Allright. Thanks for your perspective.	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 09:01 PM
1	Is the redpill right wing, politically speaking? I get your points. Thats why I started to leaning right. I do think the right defends masculinity aswell but maybe less the facism. Where I dont agree with facism is that they do this at the cost of freedom. Thanks for your insight brother.	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 03:56 PM
4	Is the redpill right wing, politically speaking? You mind shortly explaining why? I’m curious, no judgement.	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 10:26 AM
2	Should I fuck this ADHD girl (please here me out) Lol. Are we really comparing ADAH to thing like being bipolar now?	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 03:45 AM
3	Depressed, alone and frustrated Forget woman for now. I was in a deep depression for almost 2 years. You should focus in recovery first. Make small steps, go to therapy. Dont compare yourself to the succesful redpillers for now.	/r/askTRP	25/05/19 10:53 PM
1	Has anyone actually gone from having bad social skills and depression to being successful with women? Hey dude, you sound a lot like me. I dont have the time to type a really long awnser but it could be that you have a burn out. Look it up	/r/seduction	05/05/18 06:29 PM
1	[FR] First night out in years; first nights of trying, nevergoing back You did the right thing bro! This also shows to yourself that you are not acting needy. Nice story man!	/r/seduction	17/10/16 09:00 PM