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Good for him. I agree, at least on that. Stressful to whom? Strwssful to those working there, that's the problem. We are there to work, he made it a high school drama... Are you jealous? Maybe a little, let's say I'm more arrogant than him and I don't want to be bothered by petty manioulations at work.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 06:56 AM
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I managed to make him back off. And now he gossips behind my back to avoid being mocked in front. And that is something I cannot fight off, unfortunately, as much as it bothers me. And it really bothers me because he uses that as a tool to paint a fucked up picture of me. You know when you say that first impressions matter the most? well, with this guy it's like every people that meet me for the first time need to get from him a "true" image of who I am. And that pisses me off.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:19 PM
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Hey man, thanks again for your advice. I confronted at first and ignored after that, to make it clear where I stand. And the guy backed off. What bothers me though is that, while I avoid gossip and useless crap like this, now he doesn't and is constantly fucking with my image when I'm not around. I stand out a lot, which makes it easy for him, but he uses stuff that isn't even true or negative to comment about me and criticize me. It's like with his attitude of "I can pull myself up by criticizi…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:16 PM
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UPDATE: I did as you and another redditor suggested. I combined both ignoring the guy with standing up for myself. In the end, he backed off and now he goes after me way less than before, my guess is to avoid being mocked back. However, they brought to my attention that his antics are still going on when I'm not around. He uses me as a subject of conversation to pass the time, talking about all the shit that's wrong with me, all my shortcomings, all my fucked up attitude, etc. And the funny thin…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:07 PM
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Hey man, I did what you suggested and it worked. However, now I'm told this guy is still going after me behind my back. You know what he does? He makes sure that every new person or every single person that likes me is well aware of everything that's wrong with me (in his opinion, of course). And he does this by talking and criticizing behind my back. Which really bothers me beacuse I cannot respond...
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:03 PM
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So, the lesson here is, don't let yourself to be mocked by mocking back, ie, giving back as good as I get. I guess I'm gonna have to be careful about the self deprecating stuff and still mock back when served. In the end, I have no problem with people joking about me except for this asshole who got out of hand and uses me as a tool. On me, I get it, thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:49 PM
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It's the second one, actually. It's the combination of raising his own value by disrespecting me whenever he wants. That's what's going on. Professionally I'm great, but I got to a point where this jerk can classify me inside the group however he wants and I hate that. It's still probably a problem with my ego, I wont deny that
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:27 AM
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There is nothing worse for these people that being dismissed, Actually, you have a point with this. He does hate being dismissed, in general. It drives him mad.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:41 AM
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Already doing this. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:33 AM
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Learn to laugh at yourself. This guy's only weapon against you is mockery which is so far proving to be effective. Laugh at yourself, preferably in a public setting, to show that these jokes don't get to you. I was like that (I took everything seriously) years ago, now I learned and I take things way more lightly. What rubbed me the wrong way about this guy is that when he started picking on me more than usual I just laughed, as always, even though I didn't really like what he was doing. Because…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:30 AM
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I agree with you man, that's why it's so frustrating for me. It's not what he says that bothers me, as you say, a 5 year old cannot hurt you. And I consider this guy a useless walking monkey... What bothers me is that by verbally putting me down or mocking me or trying to impose himself inside the group forces me to confront him on the same level. As I wrote, I ignore assholes like these but by being part of the group, like me, I just can't ignore him. And the fact he's doing it on purpose (he s…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:16 AM
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I started doing this. I dont know if it's working. I know for sure the guy feels isolated because he started pulling other whinny stuff in general and people are not crazy about it. U know what makes me mad? The fact he turned a friendly/sociable environment into a social dump. When he's in a good mood, he needs to be the big shot and make comments and mock and make people laugh. When he's in a bad mood you cannot cross him or he becomes the hormonal queen of that place. For the time being I'll …
/r/askTRP05/04/16 08:24 PM
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I have no problem with that, it's just that he uses me as the object to mock just to have fun at my expense. And he's terribly stupid, which bruises my ego even more. If he was my friend I'd have no problem with this, but he's not
/r/askTRP05/04/16 08:19 PM
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