haojifu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Hitting on girls at the office	haojifu	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:42 AM
7	the dreaded boyfriend	haojifu	/r/seduction	09/11/11 06:38 AM
1	3 Questions from the Weekend	haojifu	/r/seduction	13/10/14 11:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hitting on girls at the office Superb advice, thank you for replying	/r/seduction	11/01/14 07:36 PM
1	Hitting on girls at the office Also, an actual question based on your reply. I am pretty good at making a positive impression but for me a challenge is taking that one positive moment and then following up with it. For a practical example, I have met girls randomly in the lunchroom, it was a nice day outside so I made plans with them to toss a frisbee after work on campus. It didn't pan out exactly as I had planned as we were subsequently caught up into a game of ultimate and had no chance to continue building rapport, but it…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 03:48 AM
1	Hitting on girls at the office Thank you for the thoughtful and detailed reply. The perils of workplace dating are definitely not lost on me, but a few factors I have going for me are I plan on terminating my employment probably within the next year so I don't have to worry about super long term consequences. That, and it's a big company, so there are tons of people who I could go months without ever seeing, though the possibility for an awkward moment is definitely there and has definitely occurred..	/r/seduction	10/01/14 03:39 AM
1	the dreaded boyfriend I hate to echo this statement cause it gets tossed around so very very frequently and it makes it sound easy when for many of us it isn't - but practice, practice, practice that's really the only way to learn anything unless your a natural, and even if you are its still the only way to get better. my older brother summed it up best to me once when i was asking him for advice about a girl in highschool: he imparted to me a veritable pearl of wisdom (try to fuck her after you've had a fun time doi…	/r/seduction	11/11/11 06:39 AM
3	the dreaded boyfriend indeed, as many others have suggested my relationship is 100% open	/r/seduction	10/11/11 12:14 AM
1	TofuTofu here to answer your questions... Well, here's my question: What's your background? I may have missed this elsewhere but I'm curious about some pretty basic context - how old are you, how did you become a pua (natural vs hard taught self-study, some combination), what do you do for a living. When did you get started on your path to becoming a pua, etc. I've read a few of your field reports and they are indeed impressive. I'm 23 and in a LTR with a girl who loves me more than anything and who I certainly love as well, but in my h…	/r/seduction	28/10/11 04:44 AM