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I haven't ever seen a woman claim they can "sense misogyny from miles away" with 100% accuracy. What I have seen is women claiming that some guys are so misogynistic that you can practically smell it from them, meaning it's easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:41 AM
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That's not what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:15 PM
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He leaves his undies and socks everywhere. It drives me crazy. And when he cooks, he always makes a huge mess. But the food he makes is so good that I can live with it. Also, sometimes he gets a little carried away when he plays... It can be annoying to listen to those frustrated clicks and moans and curses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:24 AM
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I don't understand why so many men think it's okay to demand certain sexual acts just because woman has done them before with someone else. They don't seem to care if woman has even enjoyed these things or not - if she has done them before, she has to do them with him. That's just... rapey. And these guys are also encouraging women to be absolutely basic and vanilla in bed. Why should any woman try anything new in bed if it is just going to be used against her in her next relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:47 AM

Oh, so you're obsessive AND an asshole. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:50 PM
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Whatever she did with, did for or tolerated from previous partners is something she is capable of doing and therefore I want it and in the same timeline. Her ex was a coercive dickhead and practically forced her to have anal sex. She never enjoyed it and never truly wanted it. "She did it with him, so she has to do it with me". Does that sound right to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:25 PM
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I don't support sex work. I do however support the poor souls who think that it's their only option to survive. I believe it's just plainly wrong to use these people for your own sexual pleasures. That's why I hate people who buy sex. A study of 200 juvenile and adult street prostitutes documented extremely high levels of sexual child abuse in their background. Sixty percent of the subjects were sexually exploited by an average of two people each, over an average period of 20 months. Two-thirds …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:25 PM

I remember feminists being very icked out by "yellow fever" and because they thought that white men considered ethnic women more submissive i believe that asian women themselves were "icked out" by that phenomenon. And still are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:14 PM
2

the "be attractive" requirement filters out an overwhelming majority of men Isn't that kind of normal? I think that most of men are just normal looking, but then there are some guys who are just perfect. One of them is my husband. The minute I saw him I was hooked. And I have friends that think the same way of their partners. To me they are just regular guys, to them they're special.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:55 PM
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I'm saying they are MORE attracted to their fuck buddies and hookups than the men they marry. But that's not true. When I first saw my husband, I thought that he was hot. And when we talked I realised that he is also nice and smart and funny. I was (and still am, lol) extremely attracted to him. I want to spend the rest of my life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:15 AM
33

Agreed. It's also the best way to weed out creeps who think that women should fuck them if they pay for things. So it's a win-win for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:12 PM
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If you watch a lot of the videos, it's almost always white women calling Asian women poor, impressionable, and uneducated, when it's the opposite. Are you sure they are saying that all Asian women are poor, impressionable and uneducated OR are they saying that passport bros are specifically targeting those types of Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:20 AM
1

Finland has a right-wing government at this moment and they decided that they aren't going to push for compulsory military service for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:49 AM
23

George Clooney's wife is an adult woman that works as an international human rights lawyer. Leo dumps his dates when they turn 25 yo. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:27 PM

It seems to me that your standards are unrealistically high.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:56 AM
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By opposing joined custody I have never heard that feminists oppose joined custody. I mean, it doesn't make any sense. It's conservatives who think that women should just be mothers, not feminists. At least in my home country feminists are the ones who promote equal parental rights and responsibilities for men and women. opposing measures to narrow the life expectancy gender gap Never heard of this either. Could you give me some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:15 PM

You do realise that the anti-feminist rhetoric has always claimed that the movement is too radical, feminists want too much and they all hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:13 PM
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I agree. But some of my friends really like to dance and they want to do it at clubs. So sometimes we do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:08 AM
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I rarely go to clubs because I really don't enjoy the club atmosphere (lots of drunk people, loud music and chaos). But when I do go to a club, I go there because my friends want to dance and I enjoy spending time with them. My friends are all in relationships so they don't seek anything sexual. They just want to spend time with their friends, have a few drinks and dance together. They want to have fun. Some women of course go to the clubs to find someone to spend the night with. But not all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:39 AM
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It's if she did anal, she should be open to anal in the future. So women shouldn't ever try to be sexually adventurous with their partners because if they try something they don't enjoy, they are forced to do it anyway with all their future partners. Gotcha. I find this "logic" deeply disturbing. Men who think like this don't seem to care at all how women feel about these sexual acts. Let's imagine a woman. She had once a controlling and dominant sexual partner who made her do all sorts of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:58 AM

You just need to understand that your needs aren't the only ones that matter. Relationships are full of compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:09 PM
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Mind you, labeled this by OTHER women, not men. Ahh, yes, men were sooo eager to marry those sexually free women. There wasn't any expectations that your wife was pure and untouched by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:52 PM

Exactly! You took the words right out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:18 AM

Yes, I believe you guys. You really hate women. You want to own us, rape us, break us. You have made that clear. Luckily I don't live in your shithole country. I just observe you guys from afar. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:21 AM

Oh, I am listening, and it has been quite revealing. Masks are clearly off. "Your body, my choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:53 AM
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Were not your slaves. And we are not your sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:22 AM
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Yes I do. She dumped the father of her children because he became an abusive alcoholic. Nowadays she dates only women. Her girlfriend is very nice and treats her right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:52 PM
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Because the demand isn't there. Not a valid argument. There are plenty of men who would pay to get their dick sucked by a pretty femboy. You don't view sex work as advantageous from your relative position of privilege, but it absolutely can be for someone in dire straits or who's only other alternative is a minimum wage job. Desperate people choosing to do something dangerous and harmful isn't my idea of having an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:18 PM
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My point is that sex work is dangerous and harmful for the person who does it. So I don't see it as an advantage. Many many under-privileged men would also do sex work if they could. Those men could start to suck dicks for money but they won't. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:56 PM
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Many of them make that choice because they have been sexually abused in their childhood: "A study of 200 juvenile and adult street prostitutes documented extremely high levels of sexual child abuse in their background. Sixty percent of the subjects were sexually exploited by an average of two people each, over an average period of 20 months. Two-thirds were sexually abused by father figures. The abuse had extremely negative emotional, physical, and attitudinal impacts. Seventy percent of the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:37 PM
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Disagree, because I don't see sex work as a positive thing. It's dangerous and harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:27 PM
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Yeah, let's just ignore all the negative aspects of sex work. Many sex workers are victims of childhood sexual abuse. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/0145213481900508 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2254224/ Many suffer from mental health problems. "Mental health problems were prevalent among sex workers. Depression was the most common mental health problem; however, other psychological problems were also high, including anxiety, substance abuse, and suicidal i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:54 AM
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If feminists had their way sex bots would already be illegal. Do you have any source for this claim? Because I can't think of any reason why feminists would want to prohibit sex bots. If they could they would make masturbating illegal for men. Thats mind rape! Creep! How dare you be human! Oh, you are one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:58 AM
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Men don't do that to women Hold income over their heads? Men absolutely do that to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:25 AM
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I wouldn't marry a guy who thinks that I'm potentially a cheating and lying whore. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:27 PM
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He is just her john. His money doesn't make him attractive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:07 PM
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I don't know why other women don't approach guys, but I did when I was single. That's how I got my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:20 AM
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How did she waste his time? They had a few dates and they both had fun but ultimately decided that they aren't a good match for a relationship. Why anyone should be angry or offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:58 PM
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Sex workers have the responsibility to use birth control. Even in poor countries these women can make hundreds of dollars a night, so they can pay for it. When you are paying for sex, smartest move would be using a condom because it protects you from STDs and from unwanted pregnancy. Sex workers having kids of sex tourists are probably trying to use their kids to get more money off those men, probably also citizenship rights for themselves. This is clearly a scam, and child exploitation. And sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:21 PM
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You claimed in your post that "There has been a growing feminist movement against the idea of sending women to prison". And in reality all you have is one woman's opinion piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:36 AM
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I explicitly detailed how in my hypothetical gender-flipped childhood, I couldn't possibly have frequently experienced sexual harassment, because there wasn't an opportunity to. In my childhood I was pretty much never alone in public, and if I were a girl it would've been the same for my teenage years. That's your life and your experience, other people have different lives and experiences. I was a very outgoing person as a child and I live in a country where children have more independence even …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:00 PM
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Because they want ultimate control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:37 PM
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Ahh, okay. Sorry, I clearly misunderstood what you were saying. And I totally get that it would just create serious problems to bi community.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:53 PM
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Yep, that's where her plan falls off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:50 PM
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Listen and...what? What do you propose women to do with it? I assumed that her advise is to start dating other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:42 PM
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I mean you don't. Yall need men for basically everything. No we don't. Isn't that the problem, that women don't need men anymore? That's why you red pillers and incels and what-not are so goddamn angry all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:34 PM
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Aren't you a funny guy. Solid argument and great discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:51 PM
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Or because men can get pretty angry if a woman even slightly implies that he could potentially be dangerous. It's just easier and more safe to stay silent and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:39 PM
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Men cheat more than women according to studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:31 PM
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men don't do this shit.... Excuse me? You really say that men don't go out drinking and partying with other guys? Don't encourage each other to cheat? Don't lie to their friends wives what their husband did at these boys nights? What about the whole "bros before hoes" -mentality? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:17 PM
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Won't take pills for ED and won't try to get chemo and beat the cancer Pills don't work with everyone and prostate cancer can make you totally impotent. The second she knows he has no intention of finding solutions I'd applaud her walking out the door Sometimes there are no solutions, even with best intentions. Nice try at the gotcha moment though, but not a good comparison I think it's pretty good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:13 PM
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If guy gets severe ED or prostate cancer, how long do you think his GF/wife should be willing to stick around with no sexual intimacy? 3 months? 6 months? A year? A lifetime?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:59 PM
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Ok, didn't know that. I really don't pay that much attention to users and their comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:52 AM
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Many men here complain that women don't want average or nice men. Women respond how they love their average and/or nice husband. "Oh my god, you're horrible sadist!! Why you come here to gloat?!" -.-'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:48 AM
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My intuition once said that my friends new boyfriend was bad news. He was a good looking, seemingly normal guy. There was just something in him that made me shiver. And I was right. He was overly jealous, controlling and physically abusive asshat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:23 PM
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Why not reject him after the date , and refuse to go to his apartment? Maybe she likes him and had fun so she wants to continue the date? That doesn't mean that she wants to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:16 PM
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You said it yourself: it is not unconditional. And it's not love either. It's just thirst and lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:01 PM
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Men in this sub complain all the time how they only get swipes and dates with 'land whales' or ugly women. It doesn't sound that they appreciate these women showing their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:24 PM
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No, we are not. If woman stops cleaning and cooking, does her husband treat her the same after? If woman stops having sex with her husband, does he treat her with the same love and care than before? Absolutely not. Male love is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:29 AM
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Who loves women unconditionally? Because it's certainly not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:11 AM
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Poor me, being the hot thing for older men when I was only a teenager. It's so horrifying that I don't think that large age gap relationships are good for the younger party, I'm soooo objectifying asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:46 AM
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I think it's creepy and disgusting when a majorly older (like 30-40+) person seeks a relationship with someone that is like 18-25 years old. And this goes towards both men and women. Age gaps are obviously ok when both are mature adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:59 AM
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Birds of a feather flock together... Your 'female' friends don't tell anything about women, but they tell everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:39 AM
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Well, I don't want men to approach me - I'm happily married, lol. But when I was single, I approached guys if I fancied them. That's how I got my husband. I've never understood why so many women are so passive in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:42 AM
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Idk, maybe older men are less empathetic towards younger men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:22 PM
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Shouldn't this question be directed to men who are happily married? Why women should be ones to convince OP that marriage is beneficial to him? I can of course say why I married my husband: I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. To me, marriage is the ultimate commitment to one another. He feels the same, so we got married. Edit. Spelling mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:25 AM
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Men are more deceptive than women. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:42 AM
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False, men cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:40 AM
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Not signing up for Selective Service to vote. Feminists like to claim that this doesn't matter because they're confident the draft will never be implemented again. Okay, then sign up then. What's stopping women from signing up too? Feminism is about equality, right? So go on and make this equal. I'm not American, but I oppose mandatory military service and draft for both men and women. No post conception rights for men. Women are mad that they've lost their ability to have a choice in some state…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:55 PM
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Non-western places are completely irrelevant here, they're completely different cultures and different contexts. It's pathetic and despicable how western women and male feminists try to co-opt the genuine oppression faced by many non-western women to advance their agenda. Cultures can change. And they don't always change for better. We, women, see women in other countries getting their human rights stripped away and getting abused and killed purely based on their gender. We know it can happen to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:59 PM
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You claimed that there aren't any male prostitutes. But there are. So what you said was false. Then you claimed that zero women support their ex-husbands. But women can and have been ordered to pay alimony. So what you said was bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:35 AM
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They are facts, not delusions. But you being redpiller and all that, I can understand how you mix those two things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:17 AM
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are there no male prostitutes? False. There are male prostitutes. why is there zero women paying to support ex husbands? Bollocks. Alimony isn't gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:41 AM
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I also know multiple women who go after tall fit masculine guys. And I know too. But I also know lots of women who go after different types of guys. Women aren't some monolith. Have u talked to that couple?? Yes, I have talked to that couple, him being my friend and all that... How do u know the girl wasn’t just desperate? I can't of course say anything for sure, but she is pretty, smart and hardworking gal. I doubt that she is desperate. Why would an attractive girl go after an unemployed guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:50 AM
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Women legit go after the same type of guy bro Tall Fit Financially stable Masculine personality Dude what woman goes beyond this shit? Are u serious right now??? I know a guy that is average height and weight, is long-term unemployed and has a bad case of psoriasis and he still gets the ladies. He is very kind and funny, so think that has something to do with it. He is just a one example of the many different type of guys who I know for a fact having ONS, girlfriends and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:14 AM
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Maybe it isn't just that evil modern women are too picky but also that men are in many ways shittier than before? So many young men nowadays are obese game addicts, who seem to hate women. So women need to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:23 AM
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Nevertheless, women who think abortion right should be upheld (I agree with them) often dismiss even the slightest possibility of similar rights for men. How is it justified? Because the child is already there after birth and somebody has to take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:11 PM
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Everybody goes through stuff and of course that changes us. Shit happens. I still want to be good and nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:13 AM

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:01 PM

Women are more deceptive Studies don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:50 PM
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There wasn't any bouncer that I could see. But yeah, you don't have to believe me, I'm not going to fight with you. I know what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:43 PM

Women voting is bad, because women choosing bear shows how irrational women are when standing infront of a dire choice Men voting is bad because they are more deceptive, aggressive and impulsive than women. Am I doing this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:12 PM
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When some creep was trying to drag me into toilet with him at a nightclub, some unknown gentleman saw it and intervened. I was very grateful. And I have intervened when I have witnessed potentially dangerous situations. I think it's a part of being a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:23 AM
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My sister is very feminine and her girlfriend is more masculine. However, my sister is definitely more dominant than her girlfriend. Looks can be deceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:05 AM
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"From the gynecologist's perspective, shaving regularly to eliminate pubic hair has drawbacks. Razors harbor bacteria and cause some abrasion of the skin; especially in a moist environment. This creates a setup for a bacterial skin infection." grooming But your hair doesn't naturally look like that. Why are you deceiving people? And you shouldn't shave your beard. It's not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:33 PM
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So you think that if women take care of their skin or don't want to stink they are misleading people? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:27 PM
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Do you comb your hair? Do you wear deodorant? Do you maintain your facial hair? Do you wear clothes that make you look nice? If you do any of those things, you are dishonest about your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:25 PM

I don't know those types of women. My family and friends take care of their loved ones. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:04 PM
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It sounds like you have had a rough life, I'm sorry about that. And it's sad that you lost her. But it's good that you have gotten back to right track. I wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:36 PM
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Sadly no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:30 PM
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I prefer that woman hating men speak openly about it so I can stay far away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:12 AM
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Well you loved her so much that you left all financial responsibility to her and only got motivated to work after she gave up on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:00 AM
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If some woman claimed that men shouldn't have a right to vote because she thinks that men are just violent brutes, wouldn't you consider her a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:28 PM
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I have read men saying that women are stupid sluts who shouldn't have right to vote. I have never seen a woman say the same about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:39 PM
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For example, take a question such as 'Which gender lies more?' My first response would be lying is a human thing. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35391990/ "Results indicated that men lied more and were more successful lie-tellers than women."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:34 PM

Are you like your grandfather? Do you work hard and sacrifice your own well-being for your family? You don't waste your time on trivial things like gaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:37 PM

Agreed. I, for example, respect good single parents for their hard work of raising their children alone. I don't understand why single parenthood is seen as something shameful by so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:10 AM

If respect is so important to you, how can you treat women with so little respect that you can "pump and dump" them? Do you think that respect is only reserved for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:32 AM
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People who take care of themselves age better than those who don't. Regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:46 AM

Yes because the fetus grows inside their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:51 PM

they can still be tied for 18 years straight Same applies to women. That's still a valid reason to want out No, because both parents are responsible for their child. It isn't a person yet anyways Are men forced to pay child support while woman is pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:20 PM

Men can't die because of pregnancy complications. Men can't die because of complicated birth. Men can't get bodily harm from pregnancy. Men can't get bodily harm from abortion. Men don't have to suffer any physical harm from abortion, pregnancy or birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:42 PM
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Her deskslave wage doesn't allow for that though Of course it does. You would probably be poor, but that shouldn't be a problem. After all, you should think what's good for the society, not just your own individual self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:01 PM
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Do you think that there aren't risks to women when they are SAHP's? It's a leap of faith to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:52 PM
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Why women are the ones who shouldn't go to the universities? Maybe it's time for men to stay at home and be cute little house-husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:43 PM
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Would you give up your career to have children? To be a SAHD and homemaker while your wife is a breadwinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:36 PM
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Would you be willing to be a SAHD and let your wife to be a breadwinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:34 PM
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I can’t put my finger on it.. but men who get mad at you for wanting to be as safe as possible? It’s sus. It has an almost.. predatory undertone. Precisely! And if woman does get attacked and hurt, people usually blame her for not being careful enough. "Why did you wear that dress?" "Why did you go to his place?" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:51 AM
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I just don't understand why men care about this so much. I do my best to keep myself safe, I don't see how that's anybody's problem. I've been in danger before and I've experienced violence before so I feel that my fears and precautions are justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:52 AM

So chad doesn't mean an alpha male? Person can be totally socially inept but if he is good looking, he is a chad? Person can be a 30 year old virgin but if he's good looking, he's a chad? They became attractive to me because the more I talked to them, the more I saw that they were good guys. Kind and funny. Shortly put: decent people. We usually had somethings in common: both liked to read or liked to walk in nature or appreciated art or loved to visit different museums etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:08 PM

So now chad means just an attractive man. So if I think that somebody is attractive but most people don't see him that way, is he a chad or not? I have always dated people that I find attractive. But I haven't always thought that they were attractive when I first met them. They've become attractive to me when I've got to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:54 AM

He literally said that ALL women like chads. No exceptions. I don't and I'm a woman. So his statement is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:42 AM

I have always liked nerds. When I was a teen I liked boys with braces and boys who liked to read fantasy or Sci-Fi books. I had a HUGE crush to a skinny redhead who was bullied by "chads". I'm conventionally pretty and I was approached by those chads but I wasn't interested in them. I'm currently married to a nerd and I love him so much. So these kinds of comments always make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:14 AM

You're a psychopath who should be in jail or in mental institute. Your thoughts and attitude aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:10 PM

"If I don't get pussy, I will kill as many people as possible." Yeah, aren't you a sweet guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:15 PM
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Do you think that the general rule is that people use abortion as a form of contraception? I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:03 PM
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There are a plenty of other reasons. Maybe she was too young to be a mother ie. teenager. Maybe she was poor and didn't want her child to grow up in poverty. Maybe she was in an abusive relationship and her spouse forced her to have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:50 PM
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I don't want my husband to pay everything for me, I have my own money. I can also open doors by myself, lol. And I hate cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:16 AM
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Didn't you listen? He did not have sexual relations with that woman. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:20 AM
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In my experience men who claim that they're nice aren't nice at all. I could say that I'm an unicorn, that doesn't make me one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:21 PM
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And saying that you're nice doesn't necessarily mean that you're nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:33 PM

That's true, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:43 AM

Yeah, that's totally reasonable, because we don't have access to clean water.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:40 AM

He was the one who compared tattoos and circumcisions, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:21 AM

Some people also think getting tattoos and piercings are bodily mutilation. Do you agree with that as well? Absolutely - if you do that to babies. Do you think that it's okay to tattoo babies? It's a cultural practice that was widely adopted and maintained, and virtually zero people really care if they are circumcised or not. I am. It's a non-issue for me. Good for you. In my culture it's still fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:08 AM

Ok, point taken. Let me correct myself: americans, africans and islamic nations are weird. I live in a sweet nordic bubble, where we don't mutilate babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:00 AM

I don't know many men that actually have a problem with male circumcision. You americans are so weird. Why do you guys think that it's ok to cut babies genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:40 AM
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Don't treat your wife like a mother and maid. Nothing kills sex drive like a man baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:03 AM
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Or use a condom. Men seem to be very worried about baby trapping and not so much of STDs. If you can't trust that the woman uses birth control, how can you trust that she doesn't fuck other men without protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:07 PM
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Calling someone obese isn't an insult, it's a fact. Ok, so by that logic saying a man has a tiny penis is ok if the man really has a tiny penis? It wouldn't be insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:28 AM
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I'm sorry for you that you have encountered so cruel women. I can't imagine being in a relationship in which my partner couldn't share his vulnerabilities to me. I have held my husband in my arms when he is crying and he has done the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:03 PM
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"Women are shallow, women are sluts, women are stupid, women shouldn't be allowed to vote, women shouldn't be allowed to divorce". These are all comments that I have read here on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:11 PM

My husband earns a tad bit more than me. We work the same hours. We both pay the bills, equally. His job is superduper dangerous: a programmer. It would be absolutely ridiculous that I should do all the cooking and he could just buy me an expensive dinner once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:14 AM
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It would take a miracle for him to find a real woman atleast in the West. Lol. So much wrong in a one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:52 AM
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It's not my reality. My family and friends haven't had to settle for anything less. When I first saw my husband I thought that he was gorgeous. When I went to talk to him I soon realised that he is also an awesome human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:14 AM
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Every woman I know has a boyfriend/husband that they consider attractive. We are not hiding that. It's just that men in this sub claim that all women like the same guys, the Chads. I don't think that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:57 AM
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Be attractive, don't be unattractive. And men don't think like this? Men don't want to date sexy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:55 AM
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Of course not always, there are plenty of good fathers. But you implied that single mothers are to blame when their children end up becoming strippers or criminals. I asked you a question: why should we blame the mothers who cared for their children and not the fathers who left their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:43 PM
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I don't understand why it matters who ends the relationship. It doesn't change the fact that they have a child/children together. Why is it ok for guys to just abandon their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:59 PM
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Why is it bad thing that women don't abandon their children? Why men never put the blame on the deadbeat fathers who don't raise their own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:58 PM
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Well my father became a violent drunk after he and my mother married. He is funny and kind when he's sober and he didn't drink before they married. How my mother could've chosen better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:21 AM

Do you honestly think that women enjoy nagging and shaming men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:35 AM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:39 PM
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Lol. I also paid all expences when my husband was unemployed. I must be the worst prostitute in the history of (wo)mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:21 PM
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All women are prostitutes. Men trade attention and resources for women's sex and intimacy. I'm married. I work and I pay equal share of our bills. How am I a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:29 PM
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Yeah, so everybody should be creeped out when some guy walks a little bit too close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:12 PM
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So you think that woman has nothing to worry about when she's walking in a dark road all alone and some man seems to follow her? We can't read minds, we don't know which men are dangerous and which aren't. I understand that it sucks to be feared, but it also sucks very much to fear that you get raped and/or murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:00 PM
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the dominant thought among feminist women is that all men are dangerous and will commit rape if given the oportunity Many men seem to think like that as well. I have so often read that men blame woman who was raped for putting herself in that situation. "You shouldn't go to his place" "You shouldn't dress like that, men can't control themselves when you look like that".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:45 PM
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Yeah, because some women are stupid or insecure or so damaged that they don't see themselves worthy of love and respect. Most of us don't date abusive assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:07 PM
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I don't understand why men in this sub blame women who don't leave abusive relationships. They are being abused, they are afraid. And if they leave, they are at a very high risk of getting murdered by their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:56 PM
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I don't live in the states so I don't know how you guys do things. But in my country women buy their own cars, we don't need men for that. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:45 PM
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Would it be ok to you if your girlfriend/wife asked you to do annual STD tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:07 PM
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Agreed. There should also be a male DNA database so that no child would be fatherless. A child has the right to know who his father is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:04 PM
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One is medical procedure that can save your life. One is a medical procedure that implies your wife is a cheating whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:00 PM
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