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happilymarried30yrs/r/askMRP15/08/16 08:57 PM
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The worse life gets for betas, the better it becomes for me, so why would I care about this? Let them share their feelings to therapists while I fuck their wives.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:42 PM
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Do you have children? It seems out of place in a country where teenagers are frequently married that there are no kids at 29.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 05:04 PM
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Assuming he's the same age, could he support you if you were pregnant right now? Or would you be relying on parents a lot? You will not like having to rely on parents so much when pregnant.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 09:19 PM
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You're his side-plate. You're not even his main plate. It's not even that he wants you to find out about the other women, that's not that important. He mostly doesn't want his other girls finding out about YOU.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 04:56 PM
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I'd say a much better comparison is /r/marriedredpill Go read how these fathers and husbands are taking charge of their families, improving their lives and having fun with their partners. Much better target, and way more inspiring than the 22 year olds in /r/theredpill
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 04:56 PM
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I cringe inside when I'm called on to agree with something that's plain wrong There are ways to disagree without being disagreeable. I find this works great when discussing politics because it's a minefield. If they say Trump is great and will fix America from all the blacks and the jews, just reply a non-committal "that would certainly be a difficult task". Or if they say Marissa Mayer is a wonderful person and more CEOs should go about purging men to make a better world for women because men a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 03:27 PM
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So you have been implementing monk mode for "a while". Can you be more specific about it? If it's only been a short time, maybe there's still some improvement we can do.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 09:29 PM
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Do you do any volunteering or have any feminine hobbies? I find that a lot of the types of girls you mention have very little in the way of hobbies other than 'going out' or 'girls night', usually involving lots of wine and gossip. Gardening clubs, a charity, book club, ... what do you like doing? Where did you meet these current people?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 08:32 PM
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The image you're projecting is that you like being one of the guys = you probably like having lots of orbiters. That's bad, as it hurts your ability to have a better relationship with your awesome boyfriend,... or even to find one. Also if you 'prefer company of men to women, as women are all drama queen bitches' means that it's most likely your drama that creates problems with women.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 02:57 PM
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Here's a few extra things: "I'm not looking for a hookup" - while it seems like a good thing to say, it actually says that you've been pump-and-dumped so many times and you have such bad judgment of men that you have to put it on the cover page to hopefully avoid these people, as you're unable to vet them properly on your own "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" - usually means that your 'worst' is terrible and your 'best' is merely OK. [Picture holding alcohol] …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 07:08 PM
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I think splitting up and finding a better partner would set a better example in the long run for your kids. Tell your wife that you want the kids to see what a good relationship is and not have them think that this horrible sham is what marriage is about. Terrible example to set.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 09:09 PM
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If I leave him there's nothing else for me I believe he was good enough for you when you were bipolar, but now that you've raised your smv, he's quite a bit below you. You'll see.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 02:43 PM
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He doesn't sound like a good captain... Damaged people often choose other damaged people for relationships. If one person starts to get better, it makes the other start to feel worse about themselves and they seek to drag the other one back down so that they can feel comfortable with their problems and not need to address it. This is not even an RP thing, it's just how people behave around each other regardless of sex. Your improved self may be too good for him and he doesn't like that...
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 02:39 PM
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Keep it up. Everything else is secondary. You'll notice your life become a thousand times better when you're thin. People treat you better. Your mistakes are overlooked or brushed off as not important. People are more polite. You get random discounts at stores (not walmart obviously). People hold doors open for you. You'll find that it won't just be your current guy who is now more interested in you, but many more guys as well.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 02:34 PM
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If you're thin and keep your body in shape, even if you have a pig-nose and no teeth you're still a 6/10. It's that bad out there nowadays with overweight women that even a troll who isn't fat is way ahead of the pack.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 08:09 PM
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Lose the other 50 pounds, and I bet you'll find him ring shopping.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 08:05 PM
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You must be indirect. If you try to logic her out of it, you'll see her come home with a shaved head and army boots. Indirect - tease her about it, keep it light hearted. "Yea I'm sure all these guys like you cause of your personality, hahaha" or "Yea I love feminists! They're so simple and easy." Or "Oh you didn't actually want a committed boyfriend? lol, yea cause nobody can stand to be around you for longer than it takes to cum, lol. I'm sure they all want to stay and make you breakfast the n…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:09 PM
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That study you mention was probably done in California. A lot of places don't think the tanned skin is a good look. Here (Calgary) most people are more pale and it's normal/healthy. If you have a tan here, people start asking about where you went for holidays, and if you say "I just like to go to the tanning salon" people think you're weird/unhealthy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 02:45 PM
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How do I regain value to a guy after being a fling (even just as friends)? It's possible but it would be 100x easier to find a new man.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 02:41 PM
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Never argue with feminists. It's like wrestling with pigs: you both get dirty and the pig loves it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:03 PM
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Being out at the bar, crying over some other guy is about as un-ladylike as I can picture. Mascara running too?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 03:57 PM
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well, there's your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 08:52 PM
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Bonus points if you display a positive emotion in the 'bite'. "Look, a truck!" "I like your truck better" she says with a smile, touching his arm with the tips of her fingers before reaching up and kissing him on the cheek.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:23 PM
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It takes a long time for a man to become the best version of himself. Most of these future great men are dorks, introspective, quiet type who don't interact with women much - because they're in monk mode becoming the future leaders of the country. If the guys you're seeking are already being sought by everyone else, maybe widen your search a bit and try to see a little 'future potential' instead of 'current attractiveness'. I rarely go on facebook, but when I do, I see those guys who were the bi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 02:28 PM
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he says that we should eat something more health This isn't a complaint. It's not directed at you. It's not an attack, so you don't need to defend yourself. Agree with him and say you'd be happy to work together on eating healthier. He was supposed to fix the curtain in our 2 years old daughter bedroom before it end up falling. HE is the one to choose his own tasks. YOU do NOT give him assignments. How to not nag when I dont like the way he is speaking to me Speak softer to him and he'll change.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 08:20 PM
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Exactly, making up stories is dumb. Unless it's "wrestling with dinosaurs" with a smirk and a wink.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 08:15 PM
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My boss, who is 57, in great shape for his age, plays hockey, over 6' tall, maybe 220lbs, big group of successful friends, makes ~ 200k per year with over a mil in assets, just got married. She was late 40s and in my humble opinion, wasn't very conventionally attractive. We had a long talk about it, and she won with her personality, hard work ethic, giving nature, supportive, intelligent... I could go on, but the girls here will have a better list of traits and qualities you can look to cultivat…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 03:38 PM
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You're right, thank you sir
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:33 PM
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You're right, thanks It actually stopped today and she was cheerful, so I will just ignore or amused mastery like you suggest
/r/askMRP16/08/16 02:39 PM
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alright
/r/askMRP16/08/16 02:19 PM
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Of course, I forgot we don't hug, lol That last part is good, i'll keep that in mind
/r/askMRP16/08/16 02:19 PM
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Ok, thanks. You're right
/r/askMRP16/08/16 02:17 PM
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lol
/r/askMRP16/08/16 02:16 PM
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Her family is pretty far away, but she talks to them a lot on her phone.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 10:17 PM
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Yes, maybe that's it.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 10:17 PM
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When men say they don't like makeup, they mean "too much" makeup
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:07 PM
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It is playing with fire. Kids are serious business and change everything. Wait and see. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 07:10 PM
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On his day off, while 'giving him space', simply make him a sandwich, bring it to him while he's working on whatever, then leave. Just say "here you go" with a smile and then leave him alone. This will take you all of 3 minutes to accomplish. Then after that, go clean the kitchen. Don't do it expecting a big 'thank you', do it because this is how you demonstrate that you care. Remember that thing he's always on your case about but you never really get around to doing it? Next I want you to go do…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 06:57 PM
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Don't make a decision yet, odds are it isn't his. You're still in the 'dating' phase of this relationship and in that phase people try their best to show their potential partner all the good things about them. It's natural. It could be that part of this is a "show" to you that he's a responsible man and wants to do the right thing. He's "showing" you that he'd be willing to step up and be a father no matter the circumstances. It's possible that he knows it's not his but he wants you to know that…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 06:55 PM
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He's beta to the max. You'll basically have to drop major hints in giving him permission to make a move or make you more attracted to him. Something like "I normally lose interest in guys who don't even try to kiss me after a few dates, but I thought I'd see you one more time since you were very charming otherwise"
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 03:55 PM
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If a man displays zero sexual energy on a date, then he will NEVER find a woman for a relationship. Period. Never. He will die a virgin. This is a FACT. He will be beta friendzoned forever. The WAY that this man is doing it is unpracticed, unpolished and kind of creepy. If instead you heard an extraordinary alpha man say "that shirt is really lovely on you, I can't help but be drawn to the shape of your body" in a respectful way, you'd be gushing. Yet the message is the same - he likes your brea…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 04:04 PM
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BMI doesn't account for muscle vs fat, so if you have more muscle it will skew it. That being said, I've seen so many woman describe themselves as 'athletic' when really they're just carrying around too much fat. Hamster spins. So I can't really tell without looking at you to give you an objective answer as to which category you're in. You're probably fine, but ask your SO what he thinks.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:12 PM
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she started telling me that her libido was lower ignore words and pay attention to her actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:11 PM
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Try A&A? "You're right, we're totally soulmates. Come over and we can talk about our feelings" then fuck her again words are meaningless, only actions are important.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:51 PM
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I told her about what bothers me here and shes all defensive You wanted to talk about your feelings to her? You know nothing Jon Snow...
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:47 PM
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Hrm,... that changes it a bit. He still stuck to his 'no bikes allowed' or was he apologetic in his explanation that he just thought you were a thug? context is everything. I can see this going 100 different ways depending on his tone/posture/etc and based on your level of anger, as it could be perceived as an overreaction. If he stopped you in the lot, broken record him with "I work here. Yes I can ride my bike. I'm going inside now." if he chases you in he'll look like a fool. If he physically…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:45 PM
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I think you did good, EXCEPT telling your coworkers. Why did you do that? To brag? To win their favor? You KNOW it doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:29 PM
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Have one kid. Paternity tested 99.99% chance is mine. Best $350 I ever spent.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:52 PM
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I responded, "ahh shame flick me a message if it doesnt work out. Yeah ill catch you at the gym :)." This response did nothing to help you. Actually it kind of hurt you because you're expressing unlimited availability, which is a signal of low value. Silence would have been better. I might have went with the simple "lol" and left it at that.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:48 PM
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I had the same problem. Year and a half and I'm sure my N is around 50. I only had 2 that were even remotely close to being LTR potentials. Then I met M. She was just,.... way way better than the rest. I don't know man, but you'll have to decide for yourself. Don't settle. 1 year isn't that long. Take more time and try different approaches. If you're yielding the same shitty sluts off tinder, try some day game.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:46 PM
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Strike when the iron is hot. If you don't strike, it will cool and someone else will strike.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:43 PM
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It's all about how you frame the search. If they're parading you in front of these women like you're on display for them to assess, you've already lost. If instead you meet a girl and she displays even the slightest of bitchy behavior or something you don't like. Tell the host that it's been really nice but you have to leave right now on some important business. Then tell your parents privately that her behavior was disgusting and the family should be ashamed of themselves. Don't worry, word wil…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:41 PM
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If a chick talks about how she went on vacation if she says "oh I went to Italy", then you tease her and ask her if she did that cliché picture where it looks like she's holding the leaning tower up by hand. If she says she went to Amsterdam, tease her in a joking and friendly flirty way that she probably just went there for the pot. Asia? Tease her about liking Asian guys. My favorite is "Oh so you travelled all over the world and still haven't found the perfect boyfriend yet? lol" careful with…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:37 PM
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Who is paying for that apartment in mi? If it's you, then terminate the lease as of August 1. Tell your "girlfriend" that she can stay however long she wants, just not on your dime. Also, make arrangements to bring your car out. You live in NYC not MI. Your home is no longer in MI as of August 1, 2016. Everything out that you own as of that date. This is plenty of time so don't listen to her bitching. Next, start working on dread. Don't be so available over text. Tell her you're out with some pe…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:30 PM
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Your wife seems to be leading this relationship and she's resentful of it. Whose idea was the waterpark? Whose idea was taking care of the other baby? Who is making the decisions around here? Doesn't seem like you. I tell my partner what the plan is with the kid. I say we are going to the zoo tomorrow and that she needs to pack a bag with everything. In the morning, i'm playing with the kid, getting her ready etc, while I double check that the wife has brought sunscreen and other such things. We…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 05:21 PM
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It's a victim game of "look how bad I have it, feel sorry for me and give me sympathy and attention!"
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 06:40 PM
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I can smell the butthurt from here... so cringeworthy... ugh...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 10:25 PM
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TRP and marriedTRP teaches men to observe the ACTIONS from women, not the words. So, talking about how you feel, apologizing or any other kind of discussion is not needed. Simply lose the weight. Don't tell him you're GOING To do it, because studies show that this actually prevents you from going through with it. Only your actions matter TLDR: silence your hamster, turn off your brain, stop thinking about it, and JUST DO IT.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 09:25 PM
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Try to get up to 1-2 pounds lost per week. That's a very healthy decline without hurting your body. Cut out all sugar. Cut out all soda/pop. Limit alcohol to 1-2 servings per week maximum. Stop putting sugar/milk/cream in coffee. Eat the same meal as your husband, but only take 70-80% of his. Do not go get 2nds even if he does. If you're still hungry, that's too bad. Being hungry is going to be the cost of saving your marriage. Would you rather be hungry and married to a wonderful doctor or sing…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 07:30 PM
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