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| 1 | Got paparazzi’ed at a restaurantHow are you a "cheater" for being seen with a woman while going through a divorce? Sounds like your STBX doesn't want to let go, or hasn't accepted the reality of what divorce means. But I don't understand why you'd feed into her bullshit by trying to hide your face or apologize to your daughter. What did you do that you feel you need to apologize for? Either there's something to this story that you're not telling us, or you are allowing your ex to gaslight the hell out of you. Being seen with a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Guys who initiated the divorce and did NOT get cheated on, what’s your story?I put up with the constant gaslighting, overbearing need for control, pathological lying, and rage-baiting for entirely too long. When she started inflicting her bullshit on our toddlers, that's when I'd had enough. She is a shitshow of a person and an unfit mother. Didn't need any infidelity to motivate me to leave. She is more or less asexual anyhow, and her personal hygiene issues would turn off any potential suitor shy of the truly desperate. Of course, this all raises the question of how I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Stbxw’s constant competition with kidsLike others here are saying, you'll just have to develop a sense of humor about it. It could always be worse, too. She could be actively trying to turn the kids against you and shit-talking you to them, which is what my one-upper of an ex tries to do every day. If the narcissism falls short of being actively malignant, then the best strategy is to learn to laugh at how predictable and stupid it is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What did you learn the hard way from your marriage and divorce experience?By "crazy," I suppose I'm really saying "Cluster B personality disorder." Red flags might include extreme emotional reactions or emotional instability, manipulative or deceitful behavior, refusing to drop a minor complaint or frustration long beyond the point where a reasonable person would have, severe entitlement, and treating "less important" people like servers at restaurants as subhuman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 02:45 PM |
| 18 | What did you learn the hard way from your marriage and divorce experience?Have a three-strikes rule with red flags early on in a relationship. One display of abject crazy can be chalked up to a bad day, or lack of sleep, or whatever. A second display of crazy should have you seriously weighing the pros and cons of continuing with the relationship. Third display of crazy, get the fuck out while you still can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Wife set me up well and now has proof against me.Depending on how spiteful and manipulative your wife may be, she'll try to pull almost any stunt to sucker you into a bad position. Now you know: never accept presents from your enemy; there is never an innocent intent behind them. Unless you had some text or email wherein she states her intent to cheat, or lets you know she's been cheating too, and she suggests you're welcome to sleep around, you're kinda fucked on this. A lot of this may come down to precisely what she said in the text she sen… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/24 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Does "perjury" actually have any teeth?Come to terms right now with the fact that family court doesn't give an absolute fuck about who's lying and who isn't. There are almost never penalties for lying, even for lies that verge on fraud. A clever sociopath will realize that fact early on, and use it as an excuse to lie with total freedom. The sooner you realize this, the better. Don't be like me and waste tens of thousands in legal fees trying to "prove" that my ex is the pathological liar she is. The only circumstance in which provin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/24 05:39 PM |
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