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PURGE WEEKhappy_discus/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:28 PM
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I personally don't have a problem with her looking through my phone or any phone privacy. It just depends on the context. If she wants to know what I post on Reddit or look through my Instagram thats fine by me but it can't come from a distrust angle. If you don't trust me I'll just leave. I would never look though since you either show me or its irrelevant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:50 PM
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Yesterday I took a picture of myself and for the first time I really like it. It's a weird picture but it's so hot foe some reason. I hate taking pictures of myself and I usually look either goofy or just outright disgusting in them. But not this one 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:18 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:39 PM
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I should really make a post about how any form of romantic or sexual interest in any other human is almost always morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:22 PM
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I dont have any social media apart from reddit and instagram. Instagram seems to be out of fashion with GenZ. I'll try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:18 PM
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I like your thinking. I'll definitly try it. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:17 PM
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How would you go about it? I can't just ask her: "Are you gay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:01 PM
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I already asked her friend. She doesn't know her age, sexuality, relationship status, or interest in relationships. They are friends though. I should have mentioned it in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:39 AM
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I don't know her real age. She could be as young as 22 years old. Are you sure about the Note?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:37 AM
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I need your advice. Last week on Thursday a friend of mine brought along her friend. We were at the student club. Her friend is really cute and her personality was great too. At least the parts I could see, since it was the first time we met. We talked about philosophy, because she's studying philosophy and a bit about cats. I like cats. I would like to get to know her more. We will be going out with friends tomorrow evening to a student party. But there are multiple problems. 1. I think our age…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:06 AM
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I don't think that's a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:02 AM
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If she's gay I'll try to set her up with one of my friends. They're hopefully a good match. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:23 PM
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Yesterday I was out with friends and one of them brought a friend along. She was cute as hell and we had a few great conversations. She's probably gay though. And I am definitely not her type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:46 AM
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I've yet to meet any autistic women that were interested in me. Most are either gay or asexual. Or I'm not their type. All of which is fine. I just haven't met anyone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:58 AM
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I wish I could be friends with people first before I date them. But it feels almost predatory and most of the time both genders see it as a dishonest way of dating. I can't do normal dating. I want to get to know a person first. I'm very autistic and have to mask heavily in order to participate in society. I have to determine first if a person is safe to unmask around them. Only then I can even think about dating them. But that's not possible in our current dating landscape. At least not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:59 AM
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Staring at the floor and walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:43 PM
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I accidentally looked up one of my best friends' skirt and feel terrible about it. I then made a conscious effort to look everywhere else. I think she noticed. I don't want her to think of me as a creep. I would never ever look under someones skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:54 PM
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Apparently dating has really gotten frustrating in the last two years. I've been trying really hard but not even a single first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:09 PM
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Could you be more specific which kink apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:12 PM
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Not to brag but I've got four likes on Bumble 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:38 PM
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I am celebrating my birthday today. Were going to fundraising party afterwards. Hopefully I'll meet cute people. I really want to try flirting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:58 PM
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Do I really got autism related food adversions or did my parents just make the worst food imaginable. My mom never uses any spices and tends to overcook everything. Meanwhile my dad just made the same food every single day. Chickenstrips, pasta, sauce nothing else. Now that I am cooking for myself I actually like food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:16 PM
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Going out again. Maybe this time I get a chance to speak to the random girl flirting with me. I didn't do it last time because I was scared. Women scary 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:24 PM
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Why do random women talk to me? I was at the dorm party and for some weird reason multiple women tried to strike up conversation with me. Why is everyone talk to me? I'm autistic as fuck, why not talk to a human instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:55 PM
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I've had another yearning dream. I really wish I could start dating again but I fear my ex has now spread so many lies my reputation is ruined. I can no longer go to the student bar alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 AM
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Anklyosaurus my beloved 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:16 AM
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I'd rather not have them at all. Even asleep they are stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:37 PM
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Last night I've had two long dreams about a friend of mine. It wasn't even sexual just really cute. We were flirting and cuddling and stuff. I hate these dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:23 AM
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Cbat Time 🦟
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:16 PM
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Women 👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:12 PM
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I met a really cute girl yesterday. Sadly she was only interested in my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:00 PM
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WHY ARE MY FRIENDS SO HOT???? I look like a hobo in comparison. I makes no sense. I maybe need to work on my selfesteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:52 AM
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I don't think she's in a well enough headspace right now to make a rational decision. I genuinely believe she can pass the exam if she studies. She won't study though if we keep asking each other to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:41 PM
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I kind of want to go out tomorrow evening. But I am honestly scared to ask my friend since she should be studying for her coming exam. I feel like my unemployed loser ass is dragging her down with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:22 PM
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I found out yesterday my ex girlfriend has been not only claiming I gave her a STD but also spreading other lies throughout university circles. This has supposedly been going on for a year now. Makes me want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:34 AM
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Going out this evening. How would I proceed if I saw someone I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:31 PM
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What's your passion right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:19 PM
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Where does one meet people liking autistic 28 year old guys with issues. Hes working on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:36 PM
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The house party was good. A friend of mine invited me to go out together too. I wish I had known earlier, so I could've brought her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:57 AM
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I am going to a house party today and the only single women there are ten years younger than me. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:30 PM
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I wish women would treat me like a dormat. Maybe kick me too as they walk all over me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:27 PM
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Thats a threat. They are looking for you! They are comi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:12 PM
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Q4W: Whats your favorite dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:49 PM
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Yes and its mostly my fault for not trying to escalate things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:38 PM
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Have you seen their prices? McDonald's is an expensive date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:14 PM
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I truly believe everyone here is normal. It's just that humans online behave closer to their true self. Offline everyone is just pretending to be normal and sticking to social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:06 AM
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Horticulturist at the university botanical garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:45 PM
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I've got a job interview on Wednesday. I applied to over a hundred jobs but no one wants me. On the topic of no one wanting me. I made a hinge account. Its going well so far. I've got 0 likes and no one finds my messages funny. I can feel it working...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:45 PM
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My best friend has a date on the Weekend. The girl basically picked him out at the party we were at, initiated conversation, talked to him the whole evening, asked for his number and planned the date. I don't know why people argue women don't initiate. You are just not hot enough if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:38 AM
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Women are way too hot. We need to do something about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:47 PM
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She had, still has, Genital Herpes. I don't even know if I am infected. Never had any outbreaks. The percentage is between 10-30% depending on the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:06 PM
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Its not about reducing risk in general. Life happens, I cant stop that. I can reduce the risk of others getting infected though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:50 PM
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The risk of infecting someone isn't 0% and I am not willing to take that risk. I've thought about it for about a year now and there's no other conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:26 PM
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I really don't know. I just regret telling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:17 AM
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Ex girlfriend possiblity gave me a incurable STD. Therefore I can't date again. (I did a STD test but it can be a false negative. If it is a false negative more testing won't help since those will also be false negative.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:16 AM
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I regret telling my friends about my ex girlfriend and why we broke up and why I am no longer trying to date anyone. I wish I didn't do it. Biggest regret in the last few months. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:52 AM
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I'm really depressed today. I went out with a friend yesterday. She's honestly so cute. The weird thing is I don't even want to date her. I'm just depressed about nothing. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:25 PM
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For some reason I completely lost any interest in women again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:58 PM
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Disagree, you can't be Left wing and subscribe to Hasan Piker. He is an enemy of every anti-capitalist person. Class equality can only happen if every single millionaire stops existing. My personal experience does validate your point of left leaning women wanting high earnings in their partner. But I personally think that is because we are approaching a stage of capitalism that's pushing us towards a neo-feudalist society with only very rich people at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:02 PM
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Very big fan of women. Big fan of men and everyone else too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:53 AM
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Feet my friend. Like hands but we walk on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:40 PM
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It's very difficult to defend a foot fetish without getting ridiculed. Just because I defend it doesn't mean I got it. A foot fetish is just as viable as every other fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:13 PM
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I'm trying to map the Iran Israel conflict for a friend. I'm losing my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:02 PM
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Me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:01 PM
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How could I respectfully ask a woman to sit on my face? I don't want to come across as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:08 AM
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I've looked into it and decided I don't want it. In addition I can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:19 PM
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It could be worse. Imagine if I was autistic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:18 PM
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I really want to get back into OLD but I simply don't have any good pictures anymore. Since I had to shave my head because of hair loss I just look worse. In addition I can't use any pictures from last year because I still have hair in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:12 PM
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Sadly not. I often wish ducks were bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:41 AM
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That's a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:36 AM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:20 AM
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Yes, my photography skills are unmatched. I once took a picture of a duck in full HD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:19 AM
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Lilith is my queen and I will not stand for this slander.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:13 AM
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My biggest date fumble was me accidentally taking out a condom five times in the span of a minute while searching for a lighter. We didn't meet again. So, If you ever need someone to fumble a baddie. That's my expertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:11 AM
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I know you guys can't feel my feelings but is this emotion, I'm feeling confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:18 PM
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Dick Cheney dies and the US immediately goes back to the jungle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:18 AM
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I feel like I'm being strung along? I'm not sure if this girl is even interested in me. Because I am showing more of myself and it's certainly not coming over correctly. I'm so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:41 PM
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I might meet the stoner girl again. She randomly texted me yesterday and we met today for a smoke since she had to leave early.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:28 AM
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Okay, one more silly question. Do you always have to be hyper-aware to recognize where your body parts are in order to use them at least sufficiently? Or can you do that without having to actively pay attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:23 PM
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Sounds plausible I'll try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:27 PM
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Why am I disappointed with myself. I did nothing wrong. These women just aren't interested in me. Not much I can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:27 PM
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How often is taking cocaine still trying? Some girl on OLD told me she tried cocaine twice. She's also talked about taking LSD in a Indian nature reserve once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:49 PM
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Merry Christmas everyone 🎄🎁
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:18 AM
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Thanks again everyone for the great advice. I'm no longer getting any replies from her. It was fun while it lasted. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:35 AM
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The first time I met her she was with some guy from some other floor. And they seemed pretty flirty. I just assumed they were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:13 PM
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Guess who's back. It's me! And I bring more stupid questions. How do I ask her if she's got a boyfriend? I was thinking about: "Is your boyfriend also smoking?" How do I determine her interest? How do I tell her I'm autistic. I was thinking about: "I feel like I should let you know I am autistic as fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:48 PM
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Update for those still interested. She keeps texting me and I've been texting back. I'm actually enjoying the conversation. I've been poking her with some hot takes of mine. She's coming back to the dorms tonight so we might meet up for a late night joint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:17 PM
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It's the front page. My personal page is only Minecraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:31 PM
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The more posts I read on Reddit, the more I think that women don't like men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:21 AM
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I had to try anyway. Not trying will always be worse than failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:55 PM
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I'm back with an update for those that are interested. I asked her out and got shot down, because she won't be here until New year. Since I'll be gone for a week after New year, I guess that's it. Bad luck. I tried at least. I might ask out this other girl that keeps sending me snaps. I'm really not sure if she has a boyfriend though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:32 PM
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That's a great idea. I'll stand out this way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:18 PM
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Hello humans. I need human advice. Can I text her like this? Hey, what are you doing tomorrow at noon? I'd like to go ice skating if you'd like to come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:19 PM
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Stoner girl texted me today and we talked for bit. She invited me for a pub quizz today. But I didnt go. I'm really confused by her. Is she into me? Why is she doing this? I'm confused as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:32 PM
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I can assure you that smoking is definitely not rare for university students. At least not in Germany. Especially after it's gotten legalised. I'm still very confused about it. I'll just have to chat with her once we see each other again. Maybe invite her for some tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:24 PM
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She didn't go to the gym. Because it was too cold. I don't know why she was sitting on the rooftop terrace then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:16 PM
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I just ran into the stoner girl from the 6th floor again. She came all the way up to me on the rooftop terrace just to strike up a conversation. We chatted and smoked a bit. Very unusual behaviour since it was freezing cold and she was in gym clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:30 AM
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Half of the pictures are someone else or with way better lighting/angles. I dont think the hair makes that much of a difference. Dont get me wrong it does make a difference but not this much. I can prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:35 AM
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Happens 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:53 PM
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Just a few neon-colored Christmas decorations and the DJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:43 AM
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I went out with a few friends and my crush. All evening she was staring at something behind me. And whispering to her friends. Really confusing. Had a good time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:15 AM
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I tried to clean install windows 10 on my old pc because it was getting slow and 11 didn't work. I fucked it up. It won't turn on anymore. I was working on it since 2pm. It's now 1am. I'm going to bed. I hate Microsoft so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:48 PM
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This one is for the germans here. Unpopular opinion but Sächsisch is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:55 PM
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I think I finally figured rizz out. Rizz is being honest to them if you're attracted to someone not caring about the outcome if they say no. So for example if I meet someone I can tell them, your hot and stuff and as long as I make it clear I will stop if you say no but I won't make it awkward and change my behaviour it's okay. So you can be a horndog and as long as you make it clear from the beginning and respect people's boundaries it's positive? Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:22 AM
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Are you sure? Because none of them knew about it. I was just helping out at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:17 PM
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I shaved my head and finally feel hot now. A few girls were flirting with me yesterday evening at a party I was hosting. I would post a picture but showing myself online is icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:10 PM
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I agree with the belief you hold and the ones the other people hold are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:54 PM
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I sadly can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:35 AM
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Because the German government decided it. I am studying history and philosophy in the Bachelor of education program. And for some reason Latin is needed for both, although I've never needed it so far. And I'm at the end of my studies. I could have written my bachelor thesis next semester
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:50 PM
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I didn't pass Latin. My studies are now over. I can never become a teacher. All my hard work in the last five years is gone. Shit day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:03 PM
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A few weeks ago I downloaded Tinder again. Not a single match and no likes. 😐 Very frustrating. Even more frustrating is the crush I've got. I want it gone. The girl is never ever interested in me, so I am wasting my time and energy. Why can't it go away. I met with her and a few friends on Saturday. She was stunning. It's so weird. I never saw her more than a friend and now it flipped completely. I want my friend back. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:42 PM
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Q4W What's the best dating app in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:14 AM
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How does one obtain this good "aura"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:33 PM
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In every sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:21 PM
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How does womens attraction to men work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:19 PM
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I’m the first guy who I know that gets a message from a girl saying she’s home alone, and it’s meant literally. No innuendo whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:24 PM
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My paln was just to chill and see what happens. Thanks bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:16 PM
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Okay and Tom and Marie got nothing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:11 PM
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Tom is Maries roomate and very good friend. Yes, but only because I asked. We talked on the bus about it. It was mainly me talking though since she was either laughing or sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:52 AM
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So, I went out on Saturday we were at the student bar, partying with two friends and their extended friend group. The party was great; I had a lot of fun. We had some drinks, smoked a bit. Well, they smoked, I only smoke weed. But the night was really nice. I didn’t get home until six in the morning. Still, the evening was a bit weird overall, for three reasons. First, I kind of feel like I’m starting to develop a crush on… let’s just call her Marie. Nothing dramatic, not one of those crushes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:14 AM
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Finish my bachelor and master. My bachelor should be done by next summer. And the master is only three semesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:04 AM
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I've got a crush on a girl from my friend group. I'm not sure how to act. I know for sure she's not interested. And I want to keep our friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:18 AM
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I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:21 AM
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I've decided to become hot. How does one achieve hotness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:08 AM
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I've been there once. Can't say for sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:25 PM
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At what time does the rapture happen? I've got terrible back pain and would like to leave early.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:29 PM
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I am definitely not going to heaven. My life will remain normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:45 AM
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Two more days until my Latin exam. I am freaking out. And I am sort of developing a small crush on a friend of mine. I don't want to. :( I know for certain she's not interested. She told me after her last relationship she'd rather be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:31 PM
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I don't get why people use hair conditioner or moisturizer. Why would you want to add back grease after you get rid of it. If I do the dishes I'm not adding oil back to the pans after cleaning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:55 AM
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I'm fearing my exam next week. I've been studying around eight hours every day for the last three months. I'm not ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:14 PM
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Fashion sense, dedication to go to the gym, BALDING, money, pimples In general: Me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:12 PM
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I sometimes think about a guy I used to play with in a small clan. One day he just disappeared. We later learned he killed himself. It's been over ten years. I wish we could have played more games. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:17 PM
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Yesterday I went to the student bar with a friend. It was really fun to talk and hang out with her. We laughed a lot. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:27 PM
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Are you asking me or him? Because I for sure don't have enough sex to answer this question. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:12 AM
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It's a mandatory exam Ihave to pass to get my bachelor's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:29 AM
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It's a difficult exam i have to do in order to complete my bachelor's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:28 AM
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It counts and it's a great choice. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:21 PM
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What's your favourite ice-cream? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:17 PM
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Dude has a breeding fetish and tells everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:16 PM
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I feel like I might actually pass Latin. If the text isn't too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:15 PM
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There are women among us. 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:11 PM
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I should set up a gofundme for my Tinder Platinum subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:18 PM
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I've got no idea. I don't think I'm insanely good looking..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:45 PM
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What if I am even pickier in dating now. Just narrow it down even more. Or if I try to widen my search.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:00 PM
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Dolphin shorts are made by God.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:01 AM
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I'm on vacation with my friends and they just keep teasing me. It's almost bullying. I'm always made fun of. :( I'm so annoyed that I'm doing stuff on my own now. I went to a seal rescue station. So many cute sea puppies. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:08 AM
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Why can't I look like this. :( https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMyVuTJOJuk/?igsh=OWV5MWZhZXJlYWh6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:26 AM
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Why can't I look like this. :( https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMyVuTJOJuk/?igsh=OWV5MWZhZXJlYWh6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:25 AM
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I don't think I am suitable for a relationship. I need way too much time for myself and value my peace and quiet a lot. The other person would have to compromise a lot. I don't think anyone would be willing to compromise to this extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:19 AM
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It's Payday 2 music for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:16 AM
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I don't think not doing the test is worth the risk. If your school finds out it could mean repercussions for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:14 AM
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Women are mystical creatures like Trolls, Gnomes, Fairies or Unicorns. I don't understand them at all. Imagine being that pretty or magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:13 PM
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I talked to a therapist today. He told me to go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:04 PM
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A cute girl at the club smiled at me but I could not talk to her because I was too scared. I don't know why I am so scared again. It used to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:40 AM
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The last few months have been weird. I've had no interest in women, men and anybody else, not even horny, but simultaneously I've felt lonely and touch starved. I don't know what's wrong. I've been busy but I've also been busier before so I don't think it's me being too busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:11 AM
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<image> Saw butterflies a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:41 PM
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I work at a flower shop now. I enjoy it. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:30 PM
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That's rude but true. Next argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:08 PM
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Why is pink singing about trust fund babies? What's your favourite song of all time. Mine is wind of change by the Skorpions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:11 PM
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I'm way too horny lately I'm thinking about talking to women again. And women are scary. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:18 PM
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Everyone, I just hit the jackpot. I was about to take the bus down from the student bar, and a taxi just hailed me and said, "Come on, I'll give you a lift," and it didn't even cost me anything. Absolutely honorable! I must have thanked him hundreds of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:06 AM
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That's actually a good idea. Should I give it to her directly or leave it with the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:47 PM
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Its a really small shop and never empty enough. Almost always there are people waiting behind me. Talking to her is very difficult since there is always some grandma being impatient and breathing down my neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:47 PM
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That would be quite difficult, since its a really small shop and never empty enough. Almost always there are people waiting behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:46 PM
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The cutest woman I know works at a small shop which sells baked goods from the day before. I wish I could approach her. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:01 PM
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Do what? It's the exact same thing everyone tells me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:30 PM
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I'm sorry. :( The biggest improvement to dating was going to university. I had no chance in my hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:05 PM
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I went out partying today. There were two cute girls there. They tried to talk to me and one of them made out with a friend of mine. I feel like the shy one was flirting with me. My friends keep telling me just to do "it". But when it comes to talking with strangers I just shut down. I can talk to people just fine if I know them a bit. I know the basics and how to proceed but acting on it is impossible for some reason. Still had fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:22 AM
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I am a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:07 AM
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It's a type of allergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:35 PM
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Q4W: Would you date a guy with really bad hay fever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:21 PM
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I can't tell if you are joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:23 PM
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Maybe I should start writing smut. I'm a good writer and women love smut. It could be my avenue to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:25 PM
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Party wasn't great. Half of the people left at 10pm and the rest at 1am. :( I feel like they had a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:23 PM
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Sub is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:27 PM
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If the US President can ignore the supreme court you can ignore your ex. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:49 PM
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Even if your Ex is there. Just have a good time anyway. He's got no power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:32 PM
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Maybe I should propose to Margot Robbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:30 PM
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I feel for him. My feet are huge and there are apparently very few companies selling my size. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:18 PM
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The main problem about Mens fashion is it either caters to tall muscular men or twinks. If you fall anywhere in between it will look awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:18 PM
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Difficult day today. I miss my ex a lot even though she was a bitch and the girl I talked to for a few days ghosted me. Summer has begun too so there are pretty women everywhere. I used Apps for a bit but it completely destroyed my confidence. This is not a woe is me post. Life is going well just dating, love and sex is far from optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:19 PM
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So far I planned a chill space outside, beer pong and techno in the basement. If everything works out it'll be a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:30 PM
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Big birthday party on Saturday. Really excited and terrified, considering it's my party. I really hope my different friend groups get along. And my neighbours don't call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:26 PM
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I was just at Kaufland. I don't understand why everyone is shopping today and then acts like they're shopping for the first time in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:18 AM
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Do women not realise they are hot or cute? Because I met several women that seem to be oblivious to their hotness or cuteness. The hottest thing a woman can send me is a video of her early, the morning with her morning voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:15 PM
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I have no idea what I am doing wrong. By all metrics I should be able to get a girlfriend. Yet I keep falling. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:24 PM
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The description of dicks is usually very detailed. And they tend to be either large or comically oversized. I've read descriptions like "his dick was a long as my forearm." That's about 9,4 inch or 24 cm. The average penis size is around 5,7 inch or 14,55 cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:03 PM
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No. Modern romance novels and Tiktok bullshit warp womens minds. To be fair, Tiktok bullshit warps everyones mind. In my opinion, and I read a lot of modern romance, the tones have shifted since 50 shades of gray. The guys are way more "stereotypical dark triad guys" than before. Its always a very tall, very muscular and comically large endowed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:54 AM
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Welp, she's moving away tomorrow. And it's really far, so we probably never see each other again. Great. The one fucking time I find someone interested in me they fucking leave. I am honestly pretty mad. But there is nothing I can do about it. So back to the Apps I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:01 PM
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She explicitly told me: "Not yet."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:17 AM
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I had another date today. We were outside chilling in a field stargazing. We walked around. I tried to make a move, but my hand holding got shot down. Not sure how to proceed. I am not that interested in a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:11 AM
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What kind of snacks do you eat? Pussy 😎🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:12 AM
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we can tell. Oh. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:09 PM
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Stuff has happened since yesterday. I texted her and asked her if she wanted to hang out again. She apparently had lots of fun and wants to hang out again. She also confessed that she had told me the wrong name. And was really embarrassed about it. We have sent a few messages. But I am really at bad texting. So the messages kind of fall flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:58 PM
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No, we were outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:06 PM
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A bit of a disappointed discus. Just chilling, getting ice cream, and smoking weed. And I earned €2. Because it was €8 and a red note. It was fun, though. Politically good understanding. As I said, too bad, because it would have been worth it. Should I write her? Because I don't think there's any interest. Beyond the herbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:54 PM
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Yes 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:05 PM
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Why can't I look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:48 AM
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Her hopefully becoming the opposite of you implies you being bad and raises the question. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:11 PM
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My sister is so smart. She's getting the best grade in her classes without trying. I am so proud of her. I wish she could see how smart she is. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:41 PM
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I wish I was able to send more messages on Tinder because I am so much funnier while high. Objectively funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:16 PM
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I want to the big Party. I had a great time. Met lots of new people. It was really fun. I was quite sad, about my friends changing their mind and not going to the student bar with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:33 PM
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I am now going to the big party, because my friends cancelled on me, I barely know anyone at and I am already fucking done with this evening. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:31 PM
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No, absolutely not. I get extroverted once I am a bit drunk or high. Otherwise not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:22 PM
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Question: Should I go to a really big party I barely know anyone with my friends or go to the student bar with my other friends. The first one cost €20 entry fee and the second one might not happen because my friends might be tired. But I promised my friends to go with them, if they go to the student bar. I am really stuck. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:51 PM
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I installed it again a few days ago after not using it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:24 PM
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I would do that but her profile is as bland as a British dinner. The only thing she has on her profile is a picture of her playing tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:57 PM
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Do you have a better idea? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:24 PM
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I matched with a 10/10 on Tinder a few hours ago and I have no idea what to write to her. "I don't want anything serious/open for commitment on Tinder” and so does she. I thought of: I'm glad you don't want anything serious because your ass is melting me. 😎🤙 or Too bad you don't want anything serious, because I'm serious about that ass. 😎🤙 But that's so bad💩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:07 PM
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I went out with a friend yesterday. He was invited by a group of girls. It was honestly crazy seeing them flirt with him all the time while I was completely invisible. One girl basically begged him to sleep at her place. I would have loved to flirt with her friend but she's so far out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:38 PM
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Taking my ADHD meds completely removes any hunger feelings. I don't like that. I struggle with eating too little already and this is making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:01 PM
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Snacks, alcohol, little bit of food. It's a house party after all. (I've never been to a house party nor organised one.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:42 PM
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Friends and acquaintances I invited to my birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:11 PM
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Hey guys, I'm celebrating my birthday on May 24, 2025. Come by at 7 p.m. at (address) preferably already eaten. I'll do the shopping for everyone. If you can't make it or have special requests, just let me know. You're welcome to bring someone, of course, but please let me know in advance. :D Do you think this is good as an invite? I created a WhatsApp group and sent this message in the chat and in the group description. I am panicking because I don't want to annoy them. This should not be so st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:31 PM
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Build a perving-inator and zap him with it. Or talk to him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:53 AM
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Question: Are you saying women never settle for less than "Alpha" the definition of what's alpha changes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:51 AM
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I am organising a house party for my birthday in may. Do I ask everyone individually or do I just create a WhatsApp group with everyone I want to invite?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:06 PM
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Happy Easter 🐰 It's 4.20
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:59 AM
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I tried to clean my bong and broke it. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:26 PM
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I was at a birthday party on Friday and had a blast but I sent this message to friends ( I don't know if we are truly friends because we don't do much apart from partying and sometimes I help them out in dire situations. I consider them friends. I have no idea how they feel.) because I was so drunk and high: You're all so cool. 😎 Their response was: Whaaat Thank youu *we You're cool too I have no idea how to proceed from there. I want to ask them to hang out again or maybe party. But I am so emb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:41 PM
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It's such a banger book. Maybe my favourite of the whole genre. It's stupid, fun and way too relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:42 PM
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I look up at the stars and I see the same stars humans thousands of years ago have seen. It's a connection to both the past and the future. Trillions and trillions of stars, planets and everything else. It's so humbling. In the grand scheme of things, what is a human life in comparison to the age of a star or the universe. Yet here we are. Thinking and exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:45 PM
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I talk to a few queer friends at the. Lgbtq party. Apparently it's not a very cis thing to say: "I'm willing to sell my soul to look like (Name)."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:02 PM
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Edge of Glory ~ Lady Gaga sounds like a gooner song. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:50 PM
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I'm sitting on the bus. We are barreling down a 30kmh road with 70kmh. The bus is creaking and rattling like crazy. I fear for my life. On the other hand there are people eagerly waiting for me, so I'll get there faster. If I survive. If I die spread my ashes in a porn studio parkinglot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:18 PM
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I watched the Minecraft movie a few days ago. I have never ever been this bored by a movie. The movie isn't fun or funny. It's not even so bad it becomes funny. It's just awful. All of it. Almost none of the actors tried at all and Jason Mamoa tried too hard. I could have watched Paddington in Peru. Instead I watched this garbage. I didn't even pay and still was scammed. The cgi is made by blind people and the story was written by a five year old in crayon. Has anyone who was making this film ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:06 PM
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Ask him what his favourite dinosaur is. Or something else out there. Ask him about his opinion on different realitys. If the convo is dead already might as well send it and try to revive it one last time. This is your chance! Either he texts you back or it wasn't worth it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:50 AM
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Brooooo, online dating is so weird. They're all so strange and fake. Like they're not even human. On a more positive note. I had an amazing week. I visited a friend in his university city. I went out yesterday and had a great time. Although one girl wanted to tell me something, but didn't choose to do so, so now I am worried I did something bad. My friends are coming over tomorrow evening. And my studies are coming along. Oh, and I watched Andor. How did Disney allow that? The show is amazing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:13 PM
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All of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:07 AM
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Maybe I am confusing dominant with direct conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:39 PM
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I wish I could date a more dominant woman. Because that makes it easier, to understand everything if she tells me what she wants instead of me having to guess for everything. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:58 PM
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Apparently 93% of true crime listeners are women. Why is that? Link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:30 PM
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I guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:31 PM
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I always thought highschool drama would end after people went to university. Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:06 PM
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I feel you. I went to the gym because of back problems. It did help with my back problems. The pain there gets masked by all the other pain I am in. :DDDDDDDDDDDDD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:09 PM
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I don't know what the names are. I mostly used the machines. For legs, shoulder, upper chest, more leg stuff, arm stuff and even more leg stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:40 AM
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The gym experience with my "friends" was absolutely horrible. I did the stuff they said but I almost threw up and I was extremely nauseous. I told them multiple times: "I need a break! This is too much!" But they just laughed. I came home afterwards, threw up and then cried for half an hour. I'm not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:32 AM
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10:28 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:29 AM
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I don't understand how to flirt. Stuff that's flirty for one person is either irrelevant or harassment to another person. That thin line in-between is so difficult to hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:05 PM
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I got offered a makeover yesterday, because some store here thought it would be good PR. I said yes and they tolk a picture to send to the boss so she can decide if I fit. She said no. :( Apparently the style they picked out wouldn't have suited me. It really crushed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:28 PM
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Which hand do I use for a high five? For example if they use their left hand, do I use my left hand too or the right one? I gave someone a really awkward high five yesterday and want to learn for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:01 PM
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I don't think the chivalry one is bad. I'm making a hyperbolic statement about me "losing" to men saying racist shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/aJ5m7jjxVh I am losing to these people. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:42 PM
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I almost never have a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:16 PM
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When other people see me as something other than a guy that just happens to be there. It changes everything and causes me extreme stress. Because then I can't just be myself without judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:58 PM
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Going out partying is no longer fun when I have so much pressure on me every time. :( I like dancing and being myself. I don't like others invading my happy moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:03 PM
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Going out this evening. Anything you people want me to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:55 AM
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Not sure if that argument is good. Since that assumes all women that get beat and all women that date drug dealers are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:16 PM
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Is this unhinged enough? I AM PURE CHAO CULT IN HUMAN FORM. 💥🌀 During the day I philosophize with Kant about parallel worlds, at night I dance until reality pixelates. 🕺✨ I bake cookies that distort the space-time continuum. 🍪⏳ Minecraft is my temple, shared apartment parties are my battlefield. 🎮🔥 Hiking? Sure, but only in dimensions you don't know. Swipe right if you're ready to turn the universe upside down with me. 🚀👀 I'm thinking about making it crazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:20 PM
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My opinion on: Women 😍 Men 😍 Everyone else 😍 I wish people would think the same about me. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:28 PM
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My ex-girlfriend told me she has herpes after we were dating for two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:30 PM
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Just got the results back. I don't have a STD. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:01 PM
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No. That's spam from either bots or the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM
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Yesterday in an alcohol fuelled act of confidence I asked a friend for the Instagram of a friend of hers because he's really cute. She gave me his Instagram. Would it be okay to text him? I don't want to make things weird between me and the friend group and I fear losing the good thing I have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:46 PM
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I personally think if the Left wants Men to move to the left all they have to do is ban dating apps. My hypothesis is: Men that get no pussy and get all pussy tend to be more right wing. Men that get average amounts of pussy vote more left wing. Therefore if you ban dating apps and even the playing field men should move to the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:32 PM
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I dreamt last night I posted a picture of a hot alternative girl on here (PPD) and the woman responded that it was her. She was living in Munich, so I went to meet her. I suddenly remembered I'm scared of women so I woke up. Later I dreamt I was being chased by Kermit the frog. So i don't know what is wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:48 AM
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I really want to start dating again but can't. At least I don't have a STD. Did a full STD check. Still have to go to a specialist to find out what it is. I'm so fucking angry. Why did my Ex never disclose she had an infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:34 PM
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Thanks. I had a really good time. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:39 PM
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At the student bar again. Partying, my best friend is with me and we are both drunk. She keeps buying alcohol. And wants to play wingman now. So many cute women here. Typing is really difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:50 AM
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Its okay bro. The stories do sound made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:53 PM
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I'm not. And that's rude as fuck. :( No seriously. Check my profile. I'm here a lot. I'm neither a troll nor larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:32 PM
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They were rainbow coloured and really comfy. I like warm and comfy socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:32 PM
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Two observations My biggest regret in the relationship is giving her all these gifts. She didn't appreciate them and knowing her threw lots of it away.I want my stuff back. Mostly my sweater and my thigh highs. I didn't watch any porn nor masturbate while I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:25 PM
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Speaking from experience and observations most women are attracted to men with the typical Captain America look. At least in university. They also seem to be only interested in fucking them not relationships. Maybe women here are just a different group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:46 PM
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I'm confused why everyone is claiming men don't want women to take the initiative. And then only list conservative men. Men make up more than 43% of liberal voters. SourceThat's not insignificant. In addition the US centric leaning of this discussion is leaving out most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:40 PM
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I feel like my next relationship should be started as a friends with benefits or just friends. Because dating in general is just hell and really difficult for me to slowly warm up with someone whilst under the pressure of the other person expecting me to do everything and the looming "I love you." four weeks into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:34 PM
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Sometimes I wish I was a cute girl. But that's not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:10 PM
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Every time someone mentions CBT I don't think of cognitive behaviour therapy but cock and ball torture. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:52 PM
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I don't know. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:17 PM
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Hm. I'm pretty stressed right now because something happened on the excursion and I don't know what, but I'm not allowed to know. She doesn't want to talk about it. And there's something else too. Because when I mentioned Christmas she was very defensive and didn't want to talk about it. And her friend told her to never tell me about it. (The second thing.) It's apparently something with immense amounts of baggage. I actually just wanted to give her a nice bowl for her rocks. I'm scared. 😭😭😭 I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:11 PM
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I don't tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:34 PM
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I don't think this relationship is going to last. I'm always sick and we can't meet up because she's always on excursion. In addition she's funny, outgoing and popular. I'm none of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:25 PM
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I like the Christmas decorations in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:46 AM
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I'm getting sick again. I hate this. The one time I got something going for me, this piece of shit body can't even fight off a cold and gets sick again. Can't wait for her to lose interest because we can't see each other for a week. Since that's usually the time it takes me to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:34 PM
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I was done. Deleted ever app then matched with her. I didn't even want to text her but she texted first and didn't stop texting me for hours, sending me essay like messages. So I rolled with it and said yes to her suggestion of a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:44 PM
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Really nervous because of the date tomorrow. I don't want to fuck it up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:30 PM
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Bro. Do not approach her on LinkedIn. Try getting her insta or something. Approaching on LinkedIn is creepy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:29 AM
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The girl I'm seeing on Friday is so cute. OMG I am going to scream. Can't wait to get disappointed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 PM
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I'm rooting for you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 PM
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I wish I could help you. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:47 PM
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Why is it scary? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:46 PM
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Date on Friday evening. We're baking together and then watch the stars. :) She seemed really excited to meet in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:48 PM
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It works for me but I also happen to enjoy her music and happen, at least users here tell me every time, to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:35 PM
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That's a good thing. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:34 PM
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Put it in your OLD profile. And if you have Spotify connected to your profile stream Taylor on repeat on mute on your PC to boost up the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:34 PM
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That's such a American thing to do. You'd be declared insane in Germany if you did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:01 PM
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Why haven't you taken the Taylor Swift pill yet? It's the easiest way to get dates. Swifties throw any standards out of the window as soon as they realize a guy also likes Taylor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:35 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:32 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:31 AM
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The more I date the more I struggle to see TRP as false. I dislike TRP because sweeping generalizations and dehumanizing of others are wrong. Still, they seem to be right more often than not. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:03 AM
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I'm vegetarian. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:01 PM
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I don't know yet. I am stressing out because of it. I'm very good at baking but not that good of a cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:55 PM
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Second date on Thursday. Movie evening date. First we cook together and then watch Pirates of the Caribbean. Since I've never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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Thats a great idea. Thanks bro. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:20 PM
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Our dorm management is refusing to repair the freezers. Now they are broken and everything inside is rotting. I LOST 10 EURO OF FOOD FROM THIS. THATS MY WHOLE FOOD FOR THE WEEKEND. I will send them a bill with the damages. There's raw chicken inside thats now contaminating the whole Freezer and since the watee from inside is leaking out its also contaminating the room. 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 Thats a health hazard. On a different note. I got a date on Monday evening. Were going out for drinks. (Her suggestion.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:04 PM
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I like dancing. I can't dance and I don't care. I will go on the dance floor and flop all over the place. I've now befriendet the club staff so well, they don't even ask for my student id and play every song I request. It's slowly becoming my bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:36 PM
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Me trying to hold any conversation on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:31 PM
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I wanted to go out with my friends today and they canceled last minute. :( I will go out alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:07 PM
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I asked another girl out today and got shot down again. She won't be here until October, since she's staying at her parents place for the summer break. I hate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:02 PM
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Do you guys, girls and everyone else think I should wait, hoping that my date will still have time next week. (She said she would write to me if she had time, but I don't think she would have time because 4 homework assignments, an essay and then work leaves little room for other activities.) Or should I write to another student who smiled at me at the end of the semester get together and ask her out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:23 PM
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Why would I know that. I'm as confused as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:19 PM
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We met from university.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:18 PM
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Some of you might remember. I talked about going on a date today. It was the best date I've ever had. We talked and laughed for hours. It was so much fun. She has no time to date. She has way too much stuff for university and she has to work too. I just cant take it anymore. Currently ugly crying in my room eating Greek yogurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:06 PM
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I always try to be nice and be myself. I don't think I reveal too much about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:46 PM
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If I am able to get first and second dates that means I am physically attractive enough to date at first but my personality is so bad they lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:37 PM
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Since she hasn't told me she isn't interested anymore I have texted her this message: Since you aren't free this weekend I have a proposition. Would you like to cook with me on Monday evening, and maybe watch a film later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:10 PM
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I come to inform you that I fucked it up. I was late, the play was terrible, I didn't manage to close the distance between us (physically), I walked her home and didn't hold her hand and she told me she hasn't time on the weekends after I offered a choice of things to do on our next date and we "maybe see each other next week"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:57 PM
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I haven't used it yet. I didn't use it last time. Maybe that's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:06 AM
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I noticed a pattern. Every time I meet someone in the context of dating, I get excited to do stuff with them try to get to know them and every single time they lose interest a few days/weeks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:02 AM
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I act the same around women and men. Awkward. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:05 PM
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Feel you bro. My parents always told me I was basically perfect. That's a lie. I honestly wish you the best. You seem to be a good person, maybe you will be lucky one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:17 PM
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Question regarding pants at the bottom. I told my best friend if she could set me up with someone if she wants. She told me she doesn't know anyone. This is a lie she's the most extroverted person I know. Doesn't matter though. Date planned on Monday. 😎 Going to ask out a different girl on Monday too. It's the last time we see each other till wintersemester. So I have to take my shot. Also question for those good with clothes. Can you recommend me good looking shorts for someone thin and tall. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:14 PM
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Same, I would do them but the health risks are just too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:36 AM
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Most Women really have no idea how much effort a muscular body takes. I talked to a few of women at a party. One of my friends is very muscular and they think I can achieve such a body in 3-4 Months. That's impossible naturally. At least for a normal person. Many also thought the Marvel muscle body is natural. I fear for our public health system, since two of them are in medical school. HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER SEEN A SCHOOL FROM THE INSIDE????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:29 AM
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I might stop dating the girl I'm currently dating. She just told me she doesn't have time for the next few months. I can compromise on not being romantic, even though I'm very romantic person, but I can't compromise on never meeting. It didn't work with my ex and it probably won't work now. Why date me if you don't have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:30 PM
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I will focus on my studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:17 PM
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For me personally winter doesn't work in regards to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:10 PM
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I know but for me personally winter doesn't work in regards to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:10 PM
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I wish summer wasn't over yet. Only two more weeks before bad weather returns. I didn't have enough time to find a girlfriend. Winter time is awful for that. And people are way more open to date in summer than winter. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:50 AM
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I haven't paid for anything yet. We split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:26 PM
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I'm a romantic person. I never asked her about being asexual so she could be asexual too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:42 PM
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She told me she doesn't know if she's aromantic. I could be lucky. Honestly I don't know. Maybe because I am a retarded idiot or because I'm sick of dating and stupidly believe that this time it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
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I get a lot of dates. Just nothing comes out of them. Currently dating someone possibly aromantic (she might not feel romantic attraction). So nothing will change for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:20 PM
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Talked to my friends about dating someone possibly aromantic (she can't feel romantic attraction), they really hated the idea. My best friend told me to break it up and try date someone else. She was adamant I was only hurting myself and I should date someone who's interested in me romantically. I told her about my matches on OLD and the one that really was excited to talk to me. My friend wanted me to date the girl from OLD. Got really angry after I told her I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:19 PM
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I consider myself involuntary celibate. But I got nothing to do with the incel movement or any other incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:13 PM
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I wish I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:40 PM
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Because I'm attracted to these people. And because the ones that aren't weird would never date me. And bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:34 PM
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Aromantic – someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction. She didn't talk about being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:33 PM
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Date went great. But she thinks she might be aromantic. Help. :( Aromantic – someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:18 PM
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That's the plan bro. It's way easier for me to establish physical contact that way. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:39 PM
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No, just regular viruses. I'm not that special, at least not in terms of viruses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:37 PM
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I will use this joke. Thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:36 PM
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I can't stop winning. I'm currently sick so I couldn't meet up with a girl a met a few days ago (different one than last week). She told me this morning she's not feeling well and wanted to reschedule the date to Friday. Were going out for Ice cream and will see a play later that day. She's really excited. We texted a few times today. For once I am hopeful. Maybe this time things could work out. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:07 PM
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But I want to. :( Lets chat at the urinal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:14 AM
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Is there a male version of this meme? This is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:22 PM
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I've got the date. We're going for a picnic at the park. She's really excited for it. Can't wait to fuck it up somehow. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:21 PM
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8 Euro. And it's honestly very expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:51 PM
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I'm no longer a women enjoyer. I joined the dark side. Women hater now. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:13 PM
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I like masculine women and feminine men. And masculine women are more often than not gay. I got a buffet on feminine men though, so at least thats working for me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:45 PM
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I don't seek out gay women. The women I'm attracted to just happen to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:22 PM
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That's okay. More for me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:21 PM
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I don't think she's straight. I saw her the first time at a LGBTQ+ party. She came with a adorable couple of two guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:20 PM
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I hate facial hair. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:49 AM
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I was joking in my last message. It's your preference after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 AM
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I forgive you for being blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:20 AM
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The hottest women are flat as a plank, tall and got a buzz cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:16 AM
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It's the ✨autism✨. I will do a face reveal in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:40 PM
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No women. 😎 /s THIS IS SATIRE!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:36 PM
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I like return to the king more. Eowyn slaying both figuratively and literally is just amazing. And I like Gandalfs speech about death.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:35 PM
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Feel you bro. Time moves way to fast nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:32 PM
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Nothing will ever come close to my love for Minecraft. I can never ever love a person or thing or experience as much as I love Minecraft. I will die on this hill mad out of cubes. On a slightly different note. I got a date on Friday. Can't wait to hear my favorite line again. 🥲 "Lets just be friends."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:31 PM
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Women are kind of cute. I like women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:15 AM
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I can never tell if you're trolling since some people would make that claim unironically. Please be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:52 AM
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I just had one of the most insane conversations on OLD I've ever had. She told me she isn't interested in casual sex. Okay I didn't ask and my profile clearly states my desire for a long term relationship. She then told me she's in a open relationship... I just told her that's not what I'm looking for and wished her well. I don't get it nor do I care enough to ask. It was a funny conversation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:50 AM
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You're back! We missed you so much. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:42 AM
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Some of my great great grandparent had to get cursed by a witch, otherwise I cannot explain why after 8 years of trying to get a relationship I only had one really short one in which the girl hated my gut and was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:19 AM
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Update to yesterday: We had lunch at the cafeteria. It was very noisy and crowded so we couldn't even talk. After that we went for a coffee at the cafeteria at thw university library. Which was quite nice. I will meet her again but I'm not sure if she's interested. She seems interested in meeting me but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:37 PM
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Q4all: How did you meet your current partner? If possible please also state your gender. Serious answers only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:30 AM
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Everyone forgot my birthday again. :( Happy birthday to me. On a more positive note, I got a date with a cute exchange student from China. She really wants to go to a museum together. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:01 PM
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I wish I had someone to cuddle with. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:53 PM
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Southern Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:01 AM
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Saw the Aurora Borealis today. It wasn't as visible as I hoped but looked quite magical. Maybe I'll visit Sweden in winter in the future and see them fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:58 PM
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I've never used Instagram. I don't like the idea of just messaging random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:18 PM
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After using BlindMate for weeks now and getting a few matches. I can conclude, the app is not good. I can get matches but no response on messages. In addition it's really hard to write a good first message if you are only able to see one part of their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:06 PM
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Women are so cute when they are excited. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:27 PM
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Her BMI doesn't matter. My last date was over the "acceptable" BMI and I still had a crush on her. I just thought it was funny imagining a guy bringing a scale, calculator and tape measure to the club measuring people, whilst everyone else is dancing and drinking. If my bad joke has offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM
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Yes. I love to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:39 PM
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This is a joke. My humor is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:35 PM
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I lift her up and put her down on the scale. I can't just guess. You have to be accurate. If shes 1% over, shes done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:21 PM
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Me getting ready for the club includes grabbing my scale, tape measure and calculator to determine the BMI of any woman I'm interested in. THIS IS A JOKE!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:12 PM
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Got rated a three by users on here and a three to five by friends. I don't think I'm chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:21 PM
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Nearly every one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:20 PM
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Bumble is spamming me with matches that seem to be really interested in me. Why am I suddenly that interesting. Nothing changed about me. It can't be the premium ending because I bought three months of premium and its not even month one. I don't get it. This must be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:33 PM
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Me: Maybe I'll take a break from dating. Reddit was right. Universe: Here are three Bumble matches that call you hot/cute and want to meet up next week. You know what, I'll throw in two girls from the student council suddenly being interest in you as a bonus too. Me: WTF is happening. I'm scared. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:55 PM
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Being social, outgoing, knowing certain social cues or signs in dating. Learning what women currently want. Clothing style and grooming rules. Missing opportunities. I was okay at socializing before covid came. And now have to claw back painfully. In short everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:12 PM
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Q4all: How does one prevent burning out from dating? How does one recover without taking a break from burning out from dating? Taking a break is not a option, since that would destroy two years of progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:38 PM
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I can't go for sex on the first date. I'm wildly uncomfortable with this idea. I need a bit of time to get comfortable with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:33 PM
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By trying things that didn't work. I can come to a conclusion about ways that will work. Basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:51 PM
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Got friendzoned. Again I'm so tired of dating. Anyway things I've learned for those not giving up yet: Holding hands on second date, kissing on third date. No exception! You as a man have to be the one making every move. Do NOT ask for consent to hold hands, kiss and so on. People will claim they want that. They don't! Look for signals and go from there. Asking for consent ruins the atmosphere. Date multiple people at the same time. Don't get too focused on one person. No autism! Will add more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:20 AM
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I honestly don't know. Most of the women I've met were seeking me out. I don't know why they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:56 AM
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My date has texted me today. Sadly shes busy for the foreseeable future and is only able to make time spontaneously. I hate the new daily thread title.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:25 AM
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Now stop gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:20 AM
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I never drink alcohol and right now I'm not allowed to anymore since allergy season has started. My allergy medication has a few dangerous combinations with alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:28 PM
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Serious question from a professional idiot. :( How do I win over a girl again that went on a few dates with me and I presumably made her feel like I don't like her. Long story short. We only held hands on our 4th date and didn't kiss because I'm a idiot. She since then hasn't texted me and I've texted her way too much. Three messages in three days is too much if no one replied. My last message was way too long. I'm afraid to text her telling her I like her because I don't want to make her uncomf…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:22 PM
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That's probably her assumption too. I don't know how to fix that. Maybe my next date will be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:24 PM
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My autism makes it really hard to judge whether someone would be okay with for example holding hands. I'm really bad at reading body language. Someone might argue this time I read her body language well. But I might also read it wrong and could've gotten a worse outcome than currently. Either way, I'm working on it. I will talk to my therapist on Tuesday about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:22 PM
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Yes. I hadn't even hold her hand until date four. I know I'm too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:19 PM
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I had a another date on Friday. We went to see a play, I finally managed to be courageous enough to put my arm around her. We also held hands and later she invited me to join her and her friends at a bar/club. I went with her because I had nothing else to do that day. It was okay. I didn't really talk to her friends, since all of them were talking with each other about topics I can't talk about. It was mainly stuff they did as a group. She put her legs on top of mine because hers were apparently…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:59 PM
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Thats why I didn't bring any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:49 PM
2

I thought about bringing a blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:39 PM
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So she wanted to cuddle/fuck? Why didn't she just say so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:41 AM
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No. I'm not joking. Why would you think I was joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:14 AM
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No the main "problem" is: Women are no longer forced to settle. Which is a GOOD thing and therefore are able to search for men they are attracted to. Which is a very small number.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:58 AM
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Had a girl insist I come over because she was cold and wants to eat ice cream from the freezer together. Why eat ice cream if you're that cold. Why even insist I come over. She doesn't seem to be interested in me. It makes no sense. So I went over, we ate ice cream and I played with her cat whilst she was knitting beside me. Felt like visiting grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:56 AM
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That's not my normal behavior... I'm not that socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:45 AM
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Why do women lose interest in me so quickly. I try really hard to be interested and be interesting. I suggest dates regularly and try to make them as interesting as possible. Yet they still lose interest in me are the third date. I need ideas from the hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:30 PM
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Q4A: How do you fix a bad personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:02 PM
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I wish I had the confidence of Cicero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:17 PM
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It was pretty awful. At least the people at the bar had fun gossiping about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:12 PM
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That's literally everyone in Germany. People here drink a lot. And very often. Not drinking alcohol is very frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:16 PM
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It was our third date. And I thought about leaving but she's not from the same city and wouldn't have gotten home at all. I deemed it way to dangerous to leave her alone so I stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:06 PM
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I can't just leave her. That's dangerous and since she do live in the same city as me and public transport is not available she wouldn't have gotten home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:03 PM
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No, the one on Tuesday is quite nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:55 PM
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I hate dating. Yesterday was the worst date I've ever had. I paid for her meal. She forced me to drink alcohol, got really drunk, commented on every better looking guy at the bar, tried to fix me for three hours and in the end didn't even want to cuddle. Just sleep in my bed. I cried for about one hour after she left. It is what it is. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:50 PM
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I like giving gifts. If I can afford it and think she would like it I will buy it. If she wants something specific I can get her that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:43 PM
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It always depends on the person that's rejecting me and the way they say it. I got rejected nicely countless times and never cared about it. I got a few harsh rejections I really can't get over. For example one girl looked at me and pretend to throw up. Didn't like that one. :( For the most part, you got to have the attitude of "it is what it is". Dating sucks and rejections are a necessary evil you got to deal with in order to get to your goal. Whatever it might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:42 AM
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Most of them are hot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:47 AM
2

That okay. They will fix you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:59 PM
1

Not fully bro. Just 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:58 PM
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I don't believe you. Lets make a competition out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:58 PM
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I like women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:32 PM
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We started dating two months ago but haven't met in a month so you are technically correct. I don't think she's toxic, everyone else does. (PPD does too)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:41 AM
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I talked to some girls about my, not yet ex girlfriend (I want to break up in person but she never has time.), and they unanimously agreed on her being toxic for me. Some really nasty things were said. I don't agree at all. But since I'm a social retard I just follow everyones opinion. On a different note. Autism is severely limiting my ability to have any conversation. On a more positive note. Three of my roommates are really nice. I just wish the women were rude so I don't crush on any of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:44 PM
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To themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:26 AM
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That's sad. :( I'm hoping things turn around for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:12 PM
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I don't get your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:45 PM
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OLD has spoken, my looks match are dangerously overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:33 PM
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Do you want to share what you've learned in a detailed comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:30 PM
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Depends on her personality, and her being able to do stuff, like hiking and stuff. I like to be active, if shes willing to join me I would date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:11 PM
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183lbs. It's a bit too much for someone only being 6,3 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:49 PM
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We haven't had sex, since she doesn't want to. I don't think I want to anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:17 PM
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I think so too, but everyone else seems to disagree. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:17 PM
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I can turn her even more gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:53 PM
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I like women. I don't care if they are "big".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:27 PM
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She's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:21 PM
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Talked to my therapist about my girlfriend, he thinks I should either break up now and/or start searching for a replacement now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:20 PM
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Hypothetically. If your friend is in a open relationship and hasn't had sex with his girlfriend yet because she wanted to wait but at the same time she slept with some random guy from a bar. What advice would you give to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:26 PM
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I'm 25 and she's 21, I think... I don't know her age exactly, since she refuses to tell me her birthday. I know for a fact she's over 21 since she's getting her motorcycle driving license and certain laws im Germany dictate you have to be at least 21 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:49 PM
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But it's not a meme. This time it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:06 PM
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She thinks all people, no matter how much she likes them, are both stupid and evil and she only argues with others because of optimism and blind actionism, but actually shes just as stupid and evil as everyone else and that's why we should build more coal-fired power plants, so that we become extinct as quickly as possible. I don't think this is a healthy way to think. I hope to change that. You might be right about her not being into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:02 AM
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We haven't had sex. She doesn't want to. We also cuddle very rarely. She doesn't like cuddling. She loves backrubs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:44 AM
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Every time I talk about my GF my friends tell me "you're dating a walking talking red flag". I mean she got some issues but I strongly believe I can fix her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:57 PM
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How? I can't just do things and hope she doesn't dislike it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:46 PM
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I honestly cant tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:23 PM
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No, she has a few other issues with me. Mainly me asking for consent before every kiss, me being very shy and me being awful at kissing. Not many more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:02 PM
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I suck ass, so I'm only Platinum 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:00 PM
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Stopped playing League of Legends, suddenly found a GF, started playing League of Legends again, Girlfriend suddenly has no interest in me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:21 PM
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Dating kind of sucks. Its just like being friends but with even less of a emotional connection and even less time together. I don't think dating is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:04 PM
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I did not know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 PM
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Sounds cute. Just cuddling. Wishing you the best. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 PM
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We haven't had sex. Not that I didn't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:58 PM
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That's my relationship currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:57 PM
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Well then. Have fun. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:55 PM
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For being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:54 PM
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That sounds exhausting. In addition won't you get sore?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:03 PM
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Question for the hive mind. Would seeing each other twice per week for 2 hours and rarely texting (roughly one message per day) be too needy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:57 AM
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Well, it's over. She stopped responding to me on Friday evening. It was fun while it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:04 PM
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Are you sure? I feel like a pervert everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:23 PM
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Everytime we hug I get a erection. I hope it doesn't drive her away. :( Really trying to control myself but I can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:50 PM
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I want to make it as fun as possible for her. That's part of the reason why I am so scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:31 PM
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I guess you're right. Our communication is very open and honest, I trust her fully to guide me a bit. Still, there's always a expectation on men to perform and I am far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:27 AM
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Will update PDD after. She's just awesome. I think she likes me, at least enough to write me a love letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:48 AM
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Might have s*x soon, very scared. :( On a positive note. I managed to be courageous enough to cuddle with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:11 AM
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Thanks bro. I really hope it happens sometime in the future. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:51 PM
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I don't know. I go out a lot, about three times a week, try to talk to as many people as possible, use dating agencys and I'm part of the student council and just started approaching people. It also helps a lot that I am studying a subject with way more women than men. Most subjects are 50/50, mine is 70% women and 30% men. I am very far away from being chad. Users in this subreddit rated me a 5/10 at best, most of the votes being 3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:48 PM
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What does she mean by this? "I suspect you are seriously underestimating your effect on me"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:36 PM
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Now dating my friend. Also guy came up to me and called me cute, wanted to make out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:51 AM
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Why is she toxic? Please explain. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:19 PM
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I don't get it. Please explain. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:18 PM
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Okay, I'll make an attempt to explain it. I don't seem real to most people. Because of my autism, I try to imitate interpersonal interaction, body language, facial expressions and speech so that it looks "real". I have a kind of mask on, so to speak, that makes me appear neurotypical. Unfortunately, I can't do this perfectly, or I'm just a tick too slow, which most people don't consciously notice. However they notice something is subconsciously wrong with me. (A good comparison is the Uncanny Va…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:09 PM
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Why? I genuinely like her. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:00 PM
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I haven't asked her. ^ We only met a few weeks ago and after she offered me to be her second boyfriend, which we both decided would be a bad idea, I am scared to ask since I don't want to hurt her feelings. Also I am extremely shy. Edit: I am not making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:51 PM
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I don't get what you are trying to tell me. It's quite unusual for friends to think you're likeable. At least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:49 PM
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I think she already made plans with her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:47 PM
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My friend couldn't believe that I am struggling with women and that most people dislike me. She just couldn't grasp it why someone would dislike me. Or why women wouldn't want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:27 PM
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Yes, yes and no. I go to the club two times a week. Approach by men doesn't happen anymore or only by few very attractive or creepy men. Its either the most handsome guys or the most creepy men approaching because the first know it works and the lather don't care. I made a comment in the Daily Community Chat Megathread about me trying to approach women. Immediately PDD women flocked to the comment trying me to stop and implying I was a PUA guy trying to hook up with as much women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:22 PM
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Thinking about trying a challenge. Approaching one woman a day for 30 days. Sadly it's not April already so I could call it "Approach April".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:14 PM
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Are you seriously suggesting I should help someone cheat? Thats morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:09 PM
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But she has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:07 PM
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But why are they asking? This is quite the unusual question for someone you only met two weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:09 AM
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I'm in a perpetual state of confusion... Why would someone send me such s message? You once mentioned that ex-best-friend should help you meet people with the specific intent to date. What qualities do you think people need to have to be considered for this? Edit: stuff has happened... Me: It is impressive how much you believe in me when I have not even held hands with someone, let alone the first kiss. 🙃😂 Her: I offer myself as an exercise object 😂 What does she mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:02 AM
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I think most comments missed my point. I wasn't talking about 99.9& of people. I was talking about the few that get left behind. I wish help could be better suited for those people. I don't want to take their hope away, just now create any delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:53 PM
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I think most comments missed my point. I wasn't talking about 99.9& of people. I was talking about the few that get left behind. I wish help could be better suited for those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:53 PM
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Mine, a few therapists of friends I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:48 PM
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Again I don't talk about the majority of men here. Even if it is only 0.1%. These 0.1% matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:48 PM
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Mine, a few therapists of Friends I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:47 PM
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I never say deserve anywhere. I explicitly avoided it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:46 PM
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Therapists told me and I know a few struggling men that got told as well. Even if people only get told "it is possible" that is still a statement I heavily disagree with. It's statistically impossible for everyone to pair up with someone. I don't like giving people hope where there is none. All that's going to do is get them to try harder and harder until they burn out, get bitter and suffer even more. Sometimes others suffer because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:13 PM
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I just want therapy to provide coping mechanisms for those who will never pair up with someone. This could stop men that are on the verge of being in**ls from becoming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:05 PM
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In my personal opinion therapy has to change in regards of helping men, that struggle with dating. Right now therapy suggests every person will be able to pair up with someone. That is not true. Even if it is only 1%. These 1% matter. (although mental illness does make one worse partner material). The possibility of never pairing up (due to nobody's fault as such) is a taboo topic but society ignores it at its own peril. Perhaps therapy should promote seeking love from community more and de-emph…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:15 AM
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Yes. I've had many crushes on girls in which I liked her as a person. I had only two in which it was mainly physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:35 PM
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Thinking about starting a YouTube channel just talking about my life, philosophy and everything I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:44 PM
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I always though women didn't care if someone was a male virgin if the guy wasn't a hateful inc*l. After reading here for nearly two years, this sub has me convinced that a significant amount of women essentially believe that male virgins are a different species from men who have had sex. There are so many negative traits assigned to virgin men just because of their lack of experience. Even if you aren't toxic or disrespectful they will still look down on you. Its even seen as a moral failing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:10 PM
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2024 is going to be my year. Goals for this year: Pass the formal Logic Exam Get my qualification in Latin Move out First kiss Holding hands with someone Get a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:03 AM
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My queen has returned. ^-^
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:32 PM
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Best friend gifted me 22 pounds of chocolate, cookies and other sweets. I can't eat that much...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:31 PM
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I did join the student council in philosophy and the university debate club. I don't go to the debate club anymore since the people there were kind of weird. I still help the student council out a lot. I am currently helping organize a student party in January. Extremely excited for that. :D I'm planning on joining more once I am able to move to the city my university is in and once I passed the two big tests in February.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:40 PM
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Thanks for your advice. I don't use social media. Having to create a fresh account just for this seems a bit weird to me. Do you think asking her for her number instead is fine? ​ Before I forget, Merry Christmas or Happy holidays. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:29 PM
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This sounds great I will definitely try this. Thanks for your advice. :D And Merry Christmas or Happy holidays. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:27 PM
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Okay will do. Thanks for your advice. ​ And Merry Christmas or Happy holidays. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:26 PM
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This is the first time since middle school girls voluntarily talk to me. I am a bit stunted in my social development but I try really hard to catch up. Sadly I don't have friends I could ask questions like the ones above so I have to ask either CchatGBT or Reddit. Anyway Merry Christmas or Happy holidays. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:25 PM
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I need advice from reddit again. There is this cute girl I keep on meeting, since we take the same classes, we often just smile, double wink or wave at each other. This has been going on for a while. I've talked to her two times. On Tuesday she suddenly came to me and asked for my name, so we exchanged names and she left. I met her Thursday on the train again, she was sleeping, so I didn't want to wake her and only noticed me as we were arriving at the station. She asked me jokingly " you again?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:04 PM
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C4W: Please describe a good online dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:58 AM
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There is no one who's willing to accept that offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:15 PM
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Thanks, I'll DM you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:53 AM
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Kinda like a business plan but for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:00 AM
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My best friend told me she will help me with my dating struggles once her situationship is over. Her situationship is maybe going to end in April since the guy is going to move away. Can't wait to hear why she can't help me then. That's why I am putting up a bounty now. If you can help me find a girlfriend in 2024 I will pay you 200 Euro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:53 AM
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I matched with a girl on OLD. She outright asked about a museum I was recommending on my profile (where it is, why I like it so much,...). I just told her the facts, and wished her fun. Quote: Always happy to make recommendations for good museums, you're going to have so much fun there. I am still embarrassed to this day about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:49 AM
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From what I've learned so far it's roughly 50-70%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:28 PM
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If true, this graph could be a significant argument against "people meet offline all the time". Graph taken from Dataisbeautiful Edit: Apparently I got no idea how graphs work or how to read them. ^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:55 PM
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Finally someone gets it. I love imperfections, erasing them makes you look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:48 PM
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I really dislike the "men are attracted to women with makeup but pretend otherwise argument." The hottest women I've ever met were wearing zero makeup. No makeup no hair done just messy and incredibly pretty. Before anyone tells me that I just don't notice. They were sitting in sweater and sweatpants in their dormitory kitchen having a chill day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:34 AM
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No she is the Tutor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:38 AM
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She is a student like me. We both took the same philosophy classes. Tutoring at my university is a bit different than in the US. It's more like a extra class you take to understand the subject better. The class is payed by the university and held by other students, mostly Master students.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:57 AM
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Tutoring is free. The university pays for it. It's a bit different than normal tutoring, it's more like a extra class you take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:50 AM
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Another question for the pile of stupid questions. I had a very unusual interaction yesterday. I was walking into the university building and saw a girl I haven't seen in a few months. She talked to me a few times back then. Which is very unusual. So I decided to say Hi to her and ask her about her exams. She seemed very happy to see me and we chatted a bit. At the end she told me I should text/write her she would gladly help me with my exam. I mean other people have offered this as well but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:19 AM
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Weirded out. I am a human not some Indiana Jones type artifact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:18 PM
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single can always mean someone is okay with being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:04 PM
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Maidenless?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:03 PM
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Because the I word implies that someone hates women or men when in reality they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:00 PM
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Because almost every woman is dysfunctional and crappy. Same with almost every man. The few that arent are together. So everyone else has to pair up with their shitty equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:09 PM
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We really need a new word for "single despite best efforts not to be" than in**l.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:08 PM
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Almost every women likes stereotypical masculinity. Things like lots of muscle mass, broad frame, being dominant/borderline aggressive, and so on. There is nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:52 PM
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I really don't want to go out today. Its just awful weather to drive in and I'm tired. But the three girls I go out with really want me to go out today, so I guess I'll go. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:57 PM
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This sounds a bit deranged, but plausible. Thanks for answering. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:06 PM
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No. Whats that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:18 PM
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Why would I use good pictures on OLD. All that's gonna do is catfish women, since I am ugly IRL. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:57 AM
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What benefit do I gain from having a insecure date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:52 AM
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Yes it does. My friend uses a second account as his smurf account and does the exact same thing that tweet describes. He gets way more frequent matches now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 PM
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If the turkey is able to drink it might be a bit undercooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:37 PM
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Please describe a average man to us, also include location and age. Otherwise we won't be able to discuss your statement properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:24 PM
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I don't. So your blanket statement is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:37 PM
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I am sorry. English is not my first language. I used Google translator for my comment. A better translation would be: "Religious men care A LOT about women experienced in their late 20s."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:36 PM
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I currently take a course in sexual and relationship ethics. My professor is really interested in the opinion of my fellow students, so he asks frequent questions like yours. ​ The biggest consensus was it gets really weird after men turn 25 years old and for women its 30 years old. There were some interesting things I've noticed. (None of these things represent women or men as a whole and they might be wrong.) The more left leaning women are the less accepting they seem to men being older and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:49 PM
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No. I asked because I am socially retarded and can't tell why people do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:47 PM
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I wasn't thinking about anything remotely close. I like her as a friend and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:08 PM
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She has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:19 PM
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My best friend told me: "Your eye color is really pretty." She told me this completely out of the blue while we were in a lecture. It was really weird because she could not wait telling me. She's not wrong though, I got eye central heterochromia in both eyes, which makes them unique. It is still really weird, because no one ever compliments me, at least not without wanting something in return. What does she mean by that? Why is she complimenting me? What's her endgame here? Edit: She has a boyfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:04 PM
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In which way would a government run dating app ruin anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:04 PM
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For some reason questions like this are important if you got autism and want disability benefits in Germany. German bureaucracy is weird. Were still very much stuck in the 80s. At least the questionnaires are. ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:32 PM
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He asked that specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:30 PM
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For some reason questions like these are important if you got autism and want disability benefits in Germany. German bureaucracy is weird. ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:30 PM
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I found it genuinely funny. It was just so absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:56 PM
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Met my psychiatrist today because I am applying for disability benefits in my country. While he assessing me, he asked me if I ever had a girlfriend. Before I was even able to answer it he just looked at me, nodded, and told me he will be ticking No as the answer. Apparently I look like a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:34 PM
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I work out Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday. I take Sundays off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:19 PM
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Roughly 85 kg. I am 6'4 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:51 PM
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I eat one kg of Greek yogurt a day. That should be enough protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:49 PM
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I hate working out so much. I work out every second day of the week since January and haven't gained a single bit of muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:27 PM
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It certainly helped me a lot I am not allowed to post the reasons why I think it helped me because I would get banned again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:22 PM
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My mom earns double of what my dad does. She resents him a lot for it. She hates how she has to pay for nearly everything. It's one of the main reasons their relationship is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:18 PM
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Thanks bro, I have found ways to cope with it and people who accept me. I really hope we can overcome these attitudes in the future. Change is already happening just at a very slow pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:31 PM
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At first I was here to learn. Then I realized it was hopeless so I came here to ridicule others but that got boring really fast. Now I am here to ask stupid questions I could never ask in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:49 AM
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I am autistic af. I can assure you, people hate autistic people openly. It happens a lot. Especially in school, university and workplaces basically everywhere where you can't avoid autistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:23 AM
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I made a fresh account. I only get matches at the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:45 AM
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I would watch it. But it's not available in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:44 AM
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Bro do I have some bad news for you about vikings. Also I don't think this would be appropriate to write to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:34 PM
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Matched with a girl on bumble. She asked me if I think about the roman empire. I asked her about which period. She unmatched me. Same day some different girl matched with me, asked me a bit about dinosaurs and then just ghosted me. Might delete the app again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:12 PM
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Bro, you must be next level of attractive if women approach you and show clear signs of interest. I personally have never been approached or have any woman show any signs of interest in me, same goes for men btw. Before anyone here asks me, No women never interact with me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:05 AM
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Thats just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:20 PM
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Make it German with a Bavarian accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:38 PM
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It should be totally acceptable to say this to users in this subreddit. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:37 PM
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Every lillith comment ever: Men bad. Please seek help. This can't be healthy, therapy has helped me a bit, it can help you too. And please for your own sanity stay away from this place. Your comments have gotten worse in the last few months. I am seriously concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:16 PM
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Am I allowed to complain if I put effort in socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:47 AM
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You misunderstood my point or I misunderstood yours. In my understanding you claim men are bad at making profiles. Yet you also claim making a "good" profile is impossible since women "want" different men. Or are attracted by different profiles. Isn't that contradicting your initial point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:37 AM
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That's even more vague... Are you sure you stand behind your initial argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:25 AM
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That's still a bit too vague for me. But I am down to make a experiment. I will take your definition and make a profile out of them. Lets see if shitty profiles are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:06 AM
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Question: What's your definition of a decent profile on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:33 AM
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Question for OP: What is your definition of neurodivergence? What is your definition of autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:04 PM
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I am so sick and tired of always having to go out alone because my friends always got somewhere else they have to go or events to attend. Don't get me wrong I would be fine with having to go out alone nearly every week, I just wish to go out with friends at least once every three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:03 PM
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It's me the stupid question guy. A few things have happened since my last question. Yesterday I had a lecture in which I saw a fellow student whose behavior I can interpret. After the lecture I waited for her for a moment; she didn't seem at all unhappy to see me. We then talked briefly about the subject and the fact that I was going to the same tutorial as her. Then she had to move on. Today we had the tutorial and unfortunately she was able to sit next to me because another student had sat dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:33 PM
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You might be right. If only we had more evidence for either side. I don't think that shitty statistics from OKC is enough to support my claim. I will look if my university library has any studies I can post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:20 AM
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At least from my anecdotal evidence deformed people get infantilized a lot which is a huge turn off for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:18 AM
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Thanks for sharing. This might be a language barrier by my side but isn't clingy something negative? Kinda like obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:16 AM
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That's a interesting standpoint. You might have discovered something I've missed. Do you mind sharing it with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:07 AM
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To play devils advocate... Doesn't that mean in reverse it's over if you are disabled/deformed or neurodivergent it would be over? That does sound a lot like the Blackpill. You can't say that, that's forbidden. Mods send him to a farm up north. /s On a more serious note, I don't think this is true. You might struggle a bit less but in the end the main thing hindering people is them not being hot enough and having a "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:06 AM
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Attraction doesn't change that drastically just because I met someone irl. If I am attracted to very tall women and meet some really tiny ones I won't be suddenly attracted to the tiny ones. Attraction is fluid in some way but there are always hard boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:16 PM
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I am so glad men and women here are helping fight climate change by becoming icls and fmcels. /s (MODS THIS IS SATIRE)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:01 PM
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If your assumption is womens attraction changes if she's in a offline environment your statement would be true. But people aren't suddenly attracted to different people just because they met them irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:06 PM
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I hope. I would totally destroy ET in a fistfight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:03 AM
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Got a bar hopping event coming up this evening. I really want to go and have a good time but its probably a bad idea since most people in philosophy don't like me that much. So my stupid question of the day is what will happen there if I go? (You can be ridiculous too, saying things like aliens will attack.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:16 PM
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It seems like I did forget it. Thank you. I now added it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:56 PM
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Semester has begun again so it's time for more stupid question from me. Anyway had a short but kind of unusual interaction today. It was after one of my philosophy classes. I was waiting to my only friend and one girl, I had classes last semester with, waved me so I went over and talked a bit with her mostly about us having to redo this class because its stupidly difficult. She then asked me which tutorial I will be attending (they are mandatory). I told her the one on Monday, she then told me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:54 PM
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The vast majority of women are single mothers and obese? I don't think that's true. At least not outside the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:56 AM
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Normal skate rink or ice skating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:48 PM
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No I meant in general. People usually come in groups and want it to stay that way. Might be difficult to understand because party culture in Germany is entirely different than in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:46 PM
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I don't think you have to be necessarily butt ugly. Its just the environment carters towards really attractive men more since being able to show your personality is always secondary. You always notice looks first and then talk to them. This applies for most venues where sexes meet but other venues offer the possibility of longer interactions where showing your personality isn't as supressed as on partys and raves. (I want to say people rarely talk a lot on raves and partys.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:39 PM
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I wasn't solely focused on getting laid. Just stating a observation. It just doesn't work. I know lots of people there now. Some have become friends but in all this time no signals from the opposite sex have appeard. Because they are simply not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:34 PM
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Accidentally commented with only half my comment. I will change your view because you are wrong. Speaking from experience myself and lots of others around me I can assure you going out to party wont magically make you attractive. I have been partying 2-3 times on average a week since February. I only see attractive men leaving with numbers and/or women. Never have I seen any unattractive men getting attention on partys. What I've been seeing was women approaching the same hot guys every time. (H…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:13 PM
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In that case, no I haven't given up before properly starting dating. I was at that point before because I had very few positive interactions with women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:57 PM
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What do you mean by "properly starting dating". At which point does properly starting dating begin? Ten dates? Fifty? Or is it more about the ✨mindset✨?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:16 AM
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Why do others insist I should try OLD. I already told you it doesn't work for me. Why do you keep on insisting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:05 PM
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That would be funny in some way. Cant have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:39 PM
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Lets make the worst dating app profile imaginable. I'll start: Fish picture but it's someone else holding the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:06 PM
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In this argument I'll l propose a few changes and laws which probably would solve the loneliness epidemic. Most of these changes would have to be at global level to work and be insanely expensive. Ban for profit dating apps. Make them free and controlled by a NGO Limit social media time to 2 hours a day. Every city upwards of 500 inhabitants gets one Big park with a event every month on Sunday. The bigger the city the more events. Events will be organized for different groups. (For example senio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:44 AM
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I disagree somewhat, man men are desirable just not from a physical point of view. Most men/guys I know are cool people with fun personalities, cool hobbies and many of them are very kind just not that physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:29 PM
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I would argue it's the same thing. In both cases one partner is not really interested in the other one. An analogy would be getting picked dead last into a team in PE. I mean you got picked but only because there was no one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:49 PM
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I don't think this is completely true. In my opinion and subjective perception many young woman (Age 18-25) are dating men way oder than them (Age 30-40).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:50 PM
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Very weird trend I have noticed here. People here associate autism in men with rudeness, aggressiveness and vise versa adjectives. While I agree that there are some rude autistic people most I've met are very nice. Where does this stereotype come from? I myself am autistic too and frequent in a few autistic communities, self help groups and meetups. That's why I am confused since neither myself nor most of the other guys there behave in rude ways. (Even from a NT perspective)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:05 AM
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I generally heavily dislike myself. I often feel undeserving of a meaningful relationship and have a low perception of my own attractiveness. I worry that I might appear overly dependent and overly eager, causing me to unintentionally distance myself from women, which probably comes off as odd to them. I've never had any relationships. I carry numerous mental insecurities, yet I lack a proper channel to address and resolve them, leading me to employ various potentially unhealthy coping mechanism…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:16 PM
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I really don't care if the person I am dating is a virgin as long as the person is interested in sex. But I care about my virginity since everyone else made it a big deal. It has come to the point where I rather not tell someone about my virginity and have them think I am just bad in bed than them being revolted by my virginity. Before anyone criticizes my choice of words I have listened to multiple conversations by different women and men talking about sex in general. One of biggest consensus w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:20 PM
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I try to act like a friendly and normal person. I also try to minimize interactions with women. I can't do more than this. If they are still scared of me I am very sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:49 PM
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I need your help by settling a debate between me and my therapist. Would you see this mail as a sign of interest? I for sure don't but he has a different opinion regarding it. ​ Hello (my name), thank you very much for your mail, it was really nice of you to take the trouble to forward me the information. By "don't study in a mess" our professor probably means that you should stick relatively to the module plan, I guess. I just checked because of logic and I am so relieved, I passed! I'm sure yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:45 PM
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I was scared shitless of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:30 PM
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I am so glad I never tried to date that crazy girl in high school who would give me a chance, after I told her I had a crush on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:39 PM
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This is way above my expertise. Can you call a non emergency mental health Hotline or your parents to get other adults to help you?
/r/MenSupportMen09/08/23 11:37 PM
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I considered a AI Girlfriend but it's just too expensive. Will probably use one once I have more money. The free ones were quite good at holding a conversation without feeling fake, at least for my autistic ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:49 PM
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I would wonder why she would behave that way. Probably would reject her because it's a gigantic red flag to be desperate to date me. It either means she's batshit crazy or something else is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:07 PM
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I am formally diagnosed with autism and can attest you it's impossible for autism to be a significant part of this current dating landscape. Even though autism is severely underdiagnosed, especially in women and high functioning men. Still even if we said autistic people make up 5% of the population it still would be insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:38 AM
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Assuming they are all varying in attractiveness I would say probably one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:44 PM
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I can't change your thought because there's nothing to change. Do you know what's the least gay thing ever, pu$$y. If your man is not going down on you like hes a thirsty dog drinking water out of its bowl he's not the one. You have to be even more brain damaged than me to think going down on a woman makes you gay or feminine. Edit: Don't forget to use protection, like dental dams and get the HPV vaccine, even if you are male, throat cancer is no joke!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:26 PM
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So many comments sources here are "Trust me bro", it's honestly comical how much everyone here makes shit up. (By everyone I mean EVERYONE)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:49 AM
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Played phasmophobia, asked the ghost if it wants to date me, Ghost killed me. What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:09 AM
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Come... hehehe 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:47 AM
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Pro tip 7: Have you tried becoming chad? Pro tip 8: Try showering your therapist, talking to your gym and lifting your shower. Pro tip 9: You are the hottest person alive! Approach everyone! Pro tip 10: Try dating in a retirement home grannys are lusting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:05 PM
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Okay lets assume this is true, which I highly doubt it is, since I know countless women who never will have a boyfriend or are stuck in the casual sex zone. This means women have a monopoly position on dating and because monopolies are extremely undesirable. This begs the question what are we going to do about it? All of this complaining and discussing leads us nowhere. Lets come up with answers to this problem. (Answers can't break human rights.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:29 PM
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Very stupid but serious question: How do all of these utterly dysfunctional men end up in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:54 PM
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I am confused. What's the endgame here? Do you want men to filter out everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:30 AM
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Having read this thread I can safely assure everyone here you and me are nobody's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:11 PM
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I don't think there is. At least not at a macro level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:14 AM
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My advice: If hes extremely hot and matched with you on a dating app he probably has other options too. If you really want him to commit to you, you have to be better than the others. If he tells you explicitly he's only interested in something casual he probably won't change this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:55 AM
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Serious question: With all this speak about the "right" circle. How does one find those right circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:23 PM
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I like people, not some general gender. So to answer your question: yes and no. To be fair most people seem to be nice and chill. In addition some of the most accepting people were women but also some of the most judgemental and downright rude, if not bullying people I've met have been women too. Turns out women are human too with all the flaws and positives you can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:47 AM
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I am very interested in those few ways. Can you please name them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:57 PM
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Appearance :Going to the gym is quite fun. A bit weird since some people of both genders, shocking I know, just stare at others, not just me in the gym. Skin is still awful with acne, not much I can do about it since nothing seems to work. Studies are going well too, finally cracked Kants theory. Therapy started again with some promising new ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:24 AM
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My anecdotal evidence says otherwise so you are wrong. On a more serious note. I don't think this is entirely untrue. Having friends certainly helps but not having them isn't a hindrance either since it depends on the person you are dating, whether they think it's a red flag or not. In addition certain people do well finding partners even without friends because they are social or attractive enough anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:17 AM
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Do you have a study backing up any of our claims since I for sure don't. I only have my limited experience and university bubble. In my experience and bubble, which is very openly sexual casual sex is not sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:54 PM
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I'll let you in on a secret. Most guys don't expect casual sex. Only a very loud minority on PPD do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:40 PM
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I got one, at least indirectly. I was told Quasimodo is attractive a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:39 AM
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I disagree heavily. You can build towards your strengths but if your strengths and working towards what you perceive works for you but in the end becoming a generic version of everyone else is just easier. Since most of the time the strengths of men at least those who struggle with being attractive is inherently unattractive. For example one of my friends is a philosophy genius yet he struggles with women immensely. Why? Because hes dorky looking and apart from philosophy as bland as a toast und…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:36 AM
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This might just be my bubble but I know a lot amount of women and men playing the hook up game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:52 AM
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I don't think they get confused. Most parents definitely know why their sons are struggling finding partners. They are just in denial about it. They know why but can't accept the reality their sons are ugly, autistic, awful to be around, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:04 PM
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I absolutely believe in love. Love is not some new and alien concept it has existed since the beginning of humanity. Our approach to getting it might have changed. Finding someone who cares about me amd loves me sounds wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:02 AM
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Why do we talk about constant rejection like its something easy to get over with. Has anyone here been rejected multiple times a week. This shit starts to hurt more, because it essentially shows its not just a few people who are not interested in you its everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:41 AM
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I have to disagree. Confidence doesn't come from competence if this was the case some of the most genius and talented people would be the most confident people ever. But they are not. The most confident people are idiots (example mount stupid).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:52 AM
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I guess it's because we are the minority. So naturally you notice the majority more, since they are more people. It could also be a very loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:27 AM
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I don't know nearly everyone from the opposite sex because we never interacted. I don't like or dislike them because we don't know each other. At worst I feel indifference. The few I have interacted with were usually nice, some rude outliers, but usually nice. I don't think my view on the opposite sex matters because I usually don't get to the meeting stage so personality and attitude is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:33 AM
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Is this a rhetorical question? Because you are definitely not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:28 AM
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Is this effort in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:27 AM
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This is the biggest issue with this sub. People here assume everyone is a homogeneous mass. Although there are some traits, behaviors and challenges we all face most of us are extremely different from each other. This is why I personally think ALL advice you get, even from friends or family, is useless since they don't know your life well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:25 AM
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I don't know. What's the dating culture in Germany like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:22 PM
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Speaking as a LWM. I would rate myself a solid 3.How low do you expect me to lower my standards? Because it can't get any lower. At this point I'm ready to date anyone even with severe deformities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:06 AM
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I really don't care about the feminist vs antifeminist debate here. But I have to agree with the previous commenter this footage is somewhat historically accurate. I study history for about three years now with a focus on 19th/20th century. I took two seminars on ww1 by now and my professor always spoke highly of this film. He's a major cinephile. My main criticism would be, assuming this is on the western front, not enough artillery, machine guns and mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:24 PM
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What's your favorite dinosaur?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:20 PM
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This is fake news. I am way hotter than these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:46 AM
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As someone with asperges/high functioning autism I feel compelled to answers this, since my situation could be interesting in regards of this discussion. In my opinion autism is close to a death sentence in regards to dating and finding healthy relationships for both men and women. I'll be focusing on men more since I am male. Now to my story. I am 25, university student and average in every metric. Since January I have asked hundreds of women for their number and gotten shot down every time. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:48 PM
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Just one more lift bro. Let me lift just once more. I swear if you lift once more you get a girlfriend. I swear just one more. This time its gonna work. Youll get that GF just one more lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:40 AM
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No why should I do that? I just keep a rough estimate. I could give you some examples if you are willing to analyze them and tell me what I did wrong at least from your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:15 AM
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Question: So I have cold approached around 400 women now since January. I know it's a lot. Sometimes 5-6 a day. I have never gotten any number. Why do you think cold approach works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:01 AM
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If you approach 1000 women IRL gymbromyc718 sends you a silver statue with your name on it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:46 AM
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(25m. I read lots of cheesy romantic novels. Around one per week. Recently I read Love on the Brain by Ali Hazelwood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:41 AM
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Active woman means to me would be okay with doing light sports like hiking, biking or walking for a few hours. If I hike on my own its usually around 20 miles. Biking would be around 30 miles. If she can't handle this we are simply not compatible. Being able to handle such distances doesn't even always correlate with weight or BMI. I really don't care about weight as long as you are willing to leave the house and be active with me. I have overweight neighbors which hike such distances in a day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:59 AM
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I disagree. These men base their judgment of themselves upon given data. You seem to forget being ugly always is in comparison to other people. If I meet up a severely deformed man I am in comparison more handsome than him. But he is also more handsome than a even more deformed man. I will exclude fashion and Lets take myself as an example. I must be a ugly man by current standards, at least in comparison to the men in my surrounding area. I am 6'4; 176lbs; normal weight distribution, average fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:05 PM
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Saw a interesting Arte documentary on YouTube not long ago. It was about dating in Sweden. The documentary talked about women now pursuing men unlike the rest of the world. The points the women featured in the documentary made or complained about were very interesting and sometimes pretty much the same the men on here talk about. I sadly can't find it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:00 AM
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So you are in my head, telling me what to think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:43 PM
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It was. I hate Tuesday for other reasons though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:42 PM
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Yes. I really don't care about anything since she will be saying no anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:41 PM
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I don't care about s3x. I am looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:40 PM
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Today marks the day I asked over 300 women for their number since January. I had one yes with 8 great dates and then got friend zoned. Might as well give up now. ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:13 PM
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Gas BBQ grill. I wanted to use coal barbecue but the neighbours complain about the smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:25 PM
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The BBQ with me, myself and I went well. I made some really fcking tasty spare ribs and bratwurst. Made some grilled feta cheese too. Had a great time alone. :D I went to a Skorpions concert later that day. If you get the chance you should really watch the show. Its probably their last tour, since they are old af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:55 PM
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Question what constitutes in your mind as trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:11 AM
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25M with Autism. I don't use OLD anymore since I seem to be so ugly even the bots unmatch me. But at the time I was using them I only looked for mid- and long-term relationships. I had and still have no interest in short term fun or hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:07 AM
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Be nice, well groomed, chivalrous, be yourself and stay away from addicts. - my mom, grandma and a few girls I was friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:06 PM
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It might be a language difference but what am I protecting my partner from? We live, at least in the west, in very safe times. Crime rates are going down constantly and there are no sabertooth cat running around eating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:02 PM
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Its a long story. To cut it short I am currently on a streak of awful night outs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:16 PM
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Not yet. Hoping for a holographic Blastoise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:37 PM
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I collect awful night outs like others collect Pokémon cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:48 PM
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Yeah duh. Of course you have to talk to people to get a relationship. More News at 10. I disagree with one point though. "Women aren't going to hurt you." They are, you are going to be ridiculed and harassed even sometimes publicly shamed or reported for harassment. I had most of these things happen to myself, apart from being reported, and nearly all of my male friends. It will hurt a lot but it's the only way to get a partner so you have to take the pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:08 AM
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Bingo Bongo. You are the first person to actually get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:54 PM
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My type is humans. I am often very into them they are never into me. So NO. On a serious note. I am not attracted to most men since I don't like the masculine look in them. I don't have a type in women, as long as shes not Quasimodos twin sister I am attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:25 PM
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Wrong. Most people are special. Just not in the good kind. Including me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:21 PM
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I only work out since January but I want to chime in anyway since I have noticed a few things. Working out will make you inherently more attractive. Even if you didn't make many gains. Muscles are attractive! Stop trying to pretend otherwise. A small anecdotal evidence to support my claim. A acquaintance of mine is going to the gym for close to 7 years hes build like a professional bodybuilder. Hes 5'2 hes honestly tiny compared to me. But he has women swarming towards him. I notice this with al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:24 AM
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I have read the recent thread named: "Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?" and saw some answers that were similar to my assessment. English isn't my first language though so I might have misunderstood the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:34 PM
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I don't think just because people can't get sex they are in*ls the attitude is way more important. Like being hateful of others. The term may have been like this originally but the meaning changed since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:28 PM
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No just two cities apart. Its nothing more than 20 miles. One is a small town and the other I am struggling in is a university city. There is nothing more to say than that. Its really weird. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:26 PM
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This would be extremely weird since I behave the exact same as everyone else. And it never happened in other cities I've lived. In addition the few friends I made and my therapist are just as confused as me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:21 PM
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Okay let me explain my question to be more specific in my case. What would going outside and joining groups do if you only get antipathy as a response? For example I tried to join the local debate club, was friendly and helpful towards everyone but most people there just straight up hated me I would suggest a activity, everyone disliked it, someone else could suggest the same activity, they love it. This isn't the first time it happened and it wasn't the last. Happened again with the philosophy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:02 PM
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Every time I read one of the comments about how guys should get help and how them just going outside will fix everything in an instant, I get really confused. Do these people realise you can do all of this and still fail? Do you really think therapy is the magical spell that will fix everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:08 PM
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It all depends on the person but for me generally Yes. I enjoy being friends with people the gender is irrelevant for me as long as we get along. There is one point I noticed Americans, at least in this subreddit, have this weird thing for trying to optimize their social life that squeezes out every bit of enjoyment. For example not wanting to be friends with taken women because they perceive it as a waste of time since they get no benefit in terms of relationship out of it. As if they only had …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:28 PM
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24/25M. The most attractive thing appearance wise would be eyes and a beautiful smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:50 PM
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The question would be why would women not be messaged by these guys. It could be to avoid being overwhelmed or because they are not interested in these men. Which would point towards these men not being appealing enough. Meaning either their profile in general is unattractive or they are not attractive enough physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:15 AM
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Stop ignoring red flags just because he is hot. This is the biggest problem I have noticed in my female friends have. They meet some very hot guy and fall for him easily. The guy is waving around red-flags like its a soviet parade but they ignore them even though me or their other friends call them out. Then they get pumped and dumped and complain about it. It happens to my male friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:37 PM
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You are average looking by every metric. There has to be some curse on you if you cant get any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:32 PM
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I feel like I should chime into this discussion. I really don't know why some people here are adamant you should have driven this girl home. I am a very kind and helping person. For example I have driven friends of friends around 20 miles home multiple times. I've helped random people move in just because I had time and saw them struggle with their furniture. But I would not have driven this girl home. Its just not my responsibility to make up for her shitty friends, under the premise she was di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:57 AM
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Every time someone talks about revenge fantasies I think about a song from a German Rock Band. Die Ärzte - Zu spät. I personally don't have any revenge fantasies, since revenge is wrong. I don't care that much about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:49 AM
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The date was her idea. She even picked the play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:04 PM
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I had a awful first date yesterday. We went out to watch a play. We met there, talked a bit watched the play, during the break we talked a bit again, watched the rest of the play, talked a bit again after the play. I then asked her if she wants to get some drinks but she refused. Felt really bad. At least the play was nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:08 PM
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Yes I have asked them. Friend 1. You look good. Your looks are not your problem. Your autism is, you are just weird. Friend 2. You are ugly af. Nothing will fix that. Friend 3. Change your style, haircut, skincare and get more muscular. (I am following this advice currently) Friend 4. No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:35 PM
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Do our personalities match? Do we vibe? Is she into me? What are her ambitious? In general: Do we match? I really don't care about anyones work as long as we match.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:06 PM
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Nah its autism. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:02 PM
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Normal people don't frequent this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:10 AM
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I'll take your bait. Yes it takes indescribably amounts of work to call my friends and plan anything with them. Its stressful to make accommodation for everyone, to talk to everyone and spend time with them. Its stressful as fck. The bomb analogy is spot on. Social interaction with anyone is like defusing a bomb, you say or do one wrong move and your dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:37 AM
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This is a interesting question, since I don't really know the answer. At this point nobody knows. ^^ ​ (24M) I am average in every aspect possible apart from me suffering from autism. I have hobbies I enjoy a lot, I am interested in others, I have friends (although they live quite far away), I go out a lot, I study in university, I am 176lbs, so I am thin but not skinny and I am 6'3ft. Apart from autism I should be doing okay, not well, but okay. Maybe dating has become harder in this current ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:36 PM
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I agree with you. Most guys have better luck at bars and clubs. Apps are overrated and overrun by men. I disagree with one point though. Most guys on this subreddit won't have any luck going out, since they are way below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:12 PM
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Current self improvement goals are: Become more lean. I don't like the shredded look myself so I have to compromise. It will probably be hard since even with a strong routine I cant gain weight. I am hovering around 175lbs as a 6.4 man. Become more social. I don't know if that will work because of my autism. I am currently working on it, by joining social clubs, going out three times a week and joining college sports. Fixing my Hair and Skin. My Akne is finally on its way out and Ill try some ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:42 PM
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Not to sound rude but how low should I lower my standards if they are already in hell? My standards are - Don't be clinically obese. - Don't be batshit crazy. Are these standards to high in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:43 AM
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It has come to the point where almost all of my friend and even some acquaintances ask me, a 25 year old virgin guy with no dating or relationship experience, for advice in regards on dating and relationships. Don't get me wrong, I like to help and support them. In addition my advice seems to work out most of the time, but it is still confusing. For example why would a acquaintance of mine who's very good at hooking up with women and did so very frequently in the past years ask me for advice on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:08 PM
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I know there's no standard advice and the list would not be tailored towards the individual but I am still curious what is on this list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:09 AM
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I would love to hear some of those clear identifiable reasons. (This is not a attack. I am genuinely interested. Since I am one of the guy who can't get anything.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:29 PM
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Having autism is a death sentence in terms of dating and relationships. I will die on this hill. Most people decide within the first seconds if they want to date you. Most men on this subreddit despise women. The only way to stand out as a man in terms of physique is to use steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:19 PM
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I guess it depends on their personality. have no problem with obesity. I don't really care about womens body, since emotional connection is way more important for me. I do have a problem if someone doesn't want to go outside thought. I like hiking, biking and skating a lot and regulary go for 25-30 mile hikes so if you can't keep up with this we are probably not going to be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:18 PM
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That's what I what I thought as well. I think reducing the already small pool of women who might find me attractive enough for a relationship seems like a bad Idea. In addition I don't meet that many autistic women anyway. I have used some special autistic dating site/apps but they are pretty much deserted. The ones I meet in person are either taken or not interested in relationships ore sex in general or way older than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:22 AM
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I don't blame you. Some people don't take rejection well and can be downright scary. I am still think honesty can be good if the other person takes rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:17 AM
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Okay then men need to stop lying to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:59 AM
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I don't expect anything from anyone. The current dating problems are the result of a much needed destruction of traditional genders roles. For the first time in history western women are free to date whomever they want. I don't want to change that. There is one changeI would appreciate. Stop lying to me. I have no problem with someone telling me: "You're ugly" or "I don't date autistic men" or "You are boring". Just stop telling me: "There's someone out there for everyone" or "You will make a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:50 PM
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Girl I was dating for a few weeks told me I did everything right (Dates, Personality, not being zo pushy and so on) but she just wants to be friends. Feeling kind of down. Because of it. I really gave my best but it still wasn't enough.
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 11:20 AM
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My hobbies are hiking, reading, debating at tournaments, gaming and anything related to history. My approach to meeting women is always be friendly and never pushy. If it works it works but never get your hopes up. Just move on and try again. Women are normal human beings, so I treat them like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:19 AM
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I wish I knew so I could fix it. At this point nobody knows whats wrong anymore, my psychologist, my friends, my family and me. I have tried everything and I mean EVERYTHING. From speed dating to cold and warm approach. The amount of people I asked out on dates has to be over 100. My personality seems good enough for 8 dates and friendships. My appearance was rated average by members of this sub. I go out and meet women. My friend group is steadily increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:15 PM
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My opinion towards porn is very split. On the one hand it is a good way to distract yourself from life and a good way for horny young men to blow off steam. Especially those who won't be able to get hookups or sex in the foreseeable future. I disagree with the point that it prevents sexual assault, since if you want to commit assault, you will do it regardless of any alternatives. Some Porn is also a good way to learn sex ed and things about women or men you did not know about. In addition you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:51 PM
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I disagree heavily. P personal experience Online advice is way better than any other. Advice from therapy, friends, literature and so on has never secured me any dates or helped me in any way. Online advice has, specifically this subreddit. I have gotten awesome advice on how to gain muscle mass. (Sadly I had to delete my profile so I can't thank this person personally) I have gotten good advice on how to traverse early dating phases, how to cold/warm approach. I have never ever dated in my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:13 AM
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Well fck...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:36 PM
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Q4A: At what age does having no relationship experience become a red flag as a man? I read very conflicting opinions on it. Most people see it as a red flag at 25. I would love to hear your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:48 PM
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I like this idea. But only under the premise that they actually try. I have insights into current matching agencies and their methods are outright awful. Things like shuffling cards to determine whom gets to meet whom. The age range of 35-45 is especially horrid since for every man there are around 20 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:02 PM
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She wasn't from PPD. I knew her from another subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:31 PM
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Texting me on different apps , following me. Sometimes commenting. That sort of stuff. I can't prove it though. Only the direct texting via Discord. Deleted that account too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:14 PM
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Had to delete my old account because I was being stalked by some woman I talked to for a few months last year. Stupid karma regulations make it really hard to participate on reddit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:28 PM
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