happy_petite_spartan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
132	You learn a lot about them but you learn more about yourself. Breaking cycles :)	LEVEL UP	happy_petite_spartan	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 12:23 AM
16	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman?		happy_petite_spartan	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 03:26 AM
1	This ain’t it 🤣	NAH, SIS	happy_petite_spartan	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 06:35 AM
1	Traditional gender roles in a modern setting: What does the woman do to provide equal value to the household and partner as the man who is the 'provider'		happy_petite_spartan	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 02:42 AM

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29	What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally? No issue if everything else about them is extremely high quality. I dated a big finance guy once from a powerful family background, he had very strong good character and was a very ambitious, intelligent and loyal man. He had all the qualities that make a genuinely good person. Wasn’t addicted to drugs but used them recreationally, no history of trauma or addiction or dependency. Just enjoyed having a good time with his friends, going to festivals etc. He changed my view and while we didn’t last…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 08:02 AM
1	How many “triple 6” men do you know? The last 5 guys I dated or were friends with & my current partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 12:41 AM
6	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? Never met a single person in real life who knows what these pills are. Personally, I don’t really know much about each and I don’t care enough to know	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:27 AM
22	Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In Dating It’s definitely a thing and not just with dating and finding love or sex. You don’t get fined for things other people do, most services you hire people for will lower their costs for you or even take extra tasks for free, you get into clubs faster than others, doctors will fuss over your health conditions etc. It extends to almost anything and everything. It’s not just men who will go the further length for you. Older women will treat you like a younger sister and look out for you. Mothers want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 03:10 AM
3	Question for Women: Would you prefer a man who is likely to resist and taper your advances and feminine wiles, because he is self-restrained and serious minded, or would you prefer a man who easily and eagerly gives you his full attention every time you throw your charms? Usually the ones that have ego are low value because they can’t pay stronger attention to significant social cues. Women who take the initial position of actively chasing a male without insurance for themselves & without testing to see if the guy is interested- start from a losing position anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 10:17 PM
3	Question for Women: Would you prefer a man who is likely to resist and taper your advances and feminine wiles, because he is self-restrained and serious minded, or would you prefer a man who easily and eagerly gives you his full attention every time you throw your charms? Showing interest with polite/respectful restraint. Resistance to cues/bids is as much a turn off as unchecked eagerness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 05:44 PM
11	Is it really worth trying to help PickMes? Just ignore them, girls like that are not worth your energy. They’re low value and ‘pickme’ for a reason, it’s a negative feedback loop. You won’t wake them up. They need to figure it out themselves. Keep looking forward and up. Along the way you’ll meet girls who will actually cherish and benefit from your advice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 10:53 AM
1	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? Because it makes you feel confident and beautiful/ sexy which is a good feeling to have at the gym. It just feels good & it’s not so much about wearing something that makes other people pay attention to you, it’s about wearing what makes you feel good and if that means wearing leggings that accentuate your ass- so be it Not every person at the gym is there for an intense sweaty no makeup workout	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 11:29 AM
3	When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet? I think it is harder for men in the sense of the male bodies that are portrayed as attractive in the media if naturally attained take years of very consistent and disciplined training and diet because muscles are slow to develop and grow. This compared to women's standards of being leaner which can be achieved relatively quickly and naturally within 6-12 months. But there's more to take into account here, female bodies hold onto fat better and function more efficiently with fat. Men primarily wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 02:46 AM
1	What are your standards in a partner? I have high standards and I meet the high standards of the men I date so it's fair play. I only date a guy if I see myself having a harmonious marriage and having children with him. Therefore, I would only consider a relationship with him if he is extremely ambitious, can comfortably provide and is happy to do so, has high standards for himself and his partner, is highly athletic and trained in sports or fitness & engages in any degree with bodybuilding, highly intelligent, loyal and strongly co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 02:35 AM
2	Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand? Personally I love gym rats and my history of dating guys has been continuously fitness and sports oriented. The line to draw would be something like: a guy working out mainly to maintain shape, maybe 3 or 4 times a week. He is flexible about the time he workouts and it doesn't interfere with daily life. He might not have a set time for his workouts and it doesn't affect him in social activities. He has fitness goals but it doesn't significantly affect him whether he reaches them or not. Converse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 01:36 AM
1	Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them? Okay then let me simplify it for you :) When it comes to attractive people, a higher % of women compared to men will not develop a strong sexual desire. Why? Because generally women can acknowledge that another male is attractive and simultaneously not develop a sexual urge towards them and focus on their partner. Women are generally speaking less guided by sexual attraction and desire compared to men, therefore it commonly has less of a stronghold for women. Sorry but I don’t think what I wrote…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 09:05 AM
1	Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them? No, you misinterpret what I've written.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 11:36 PM
6	Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them? I think women are generally much more centered and grounded when it comes to sexuality, sexual attraction and affairs of that nature. Of course you always have outliers but if we could quantify it- the mean of women vs men having a more centered nature towards sex and related- would be higher for females. Sex simply isn't as desirable to women as it is for men when it comes to LTR, the same way that ambition & power in a female isn't as desirable or attractive a quality for men as it is for wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 07:56 AM
22	People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships. I think people need to remain rational and realistic about the person they are seeing. You shouldn't evaluate a person based on your expectations of them. You should see them at face value and maybe take into account a little bit of their potential. But otherwise, how they treat you and treat others is who they are. If you view the opposite sex excessively negatively or positively- it will be at your loss and demise as you have skewed perceptions of them which ultimately hurt you. When you appro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:41 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? Yes, be kind to yourself :) Show yourself the same understanding that you extend to others God bless	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 01:56 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? Thank you :))!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:39 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? Agreed. I’ve worked incredibly hard with fitness, sport and physique despite a lot of disadvantages and set backs. So to me, I can completely understand most things people struggle with but on the flip side I can also really understand the capacity people have to overcome. If you truly desire it, I feel that most of the time you can find a way. There are exceptions of course but generally speaking for general situations, it’s variables that can be controlled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:39 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:37 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? It’s not too bad to be honest, facial hair, hair cuts, character- they really change a person and a lot of the time, people don’t really notice asymmetries as much as you yourself notice them	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:36 AM
0	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? Thank you :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:44 PM
44	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? For the body - Not muscular enough, skinny or overweight. I don’t mind the roided look, tattoos or piercings. It’s actually pretty hot but tattoos and piercings should only accentuate a person’s physique and beauty. Having those things don’t automatically make a person attractive. For the face - No bad teeth and in the case of it, it can be fixed so it’s no serious issue. It’s more things that unfortunately cannot be seriously changed like a weak chin. Asymmetric face. (Men can compensate for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:10 PM
4	Being "softer" I think it means to overall offer a more yielding and nurturing energy. When you desire something from him or from a situation, instead of demanding it outright or a strong vocalisation, at times it may be more about gentle persuasion or subtle encouragement towards the desired outcome so long as the outcome is met. It's hard to really acquire a quality like being more soft but I think it's important to differentiate softness from making you feel weak, not feeling empowered or not being honest e…	/r/RedPillWives	08/04/21 12:36 PM
2	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? And to you :)! Have a great NY	/r/RedPillWives	24/12/20 02:50 AM
3	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? I’ve been recommended this before! Thanks :)	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 01:24 PM
3	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? Thank you :)!	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 01:23 PM
3	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? This is amazing, thank you very much for providing the link.	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 01:23 PM
3	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? Thank you :)))))	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 05:21 AM
3	Books for understanding the core of the traditional woman and the spirituality of being a woman? Thank you!!!	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/20 05:20 AM
2	CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good. I like what you've written. This is very true. But you don't have to express anger in a coldly uptight manner to be respectable in your rage to a woman, some expression on rare occasion is fine. Anger isn't as looked down upon as sadness and envy. Anger at the woman, women don't appreciate but when anger that is justified at a person who has harmed the woman or has affected the man it can be attractive. Most likely because it's powerful and is a reminder of what the man is capable of but it shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 11:33 AM
2	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? Younger than 11. It sometimes feels like I knew from the very beginning even when you have uncles, cousins and strangers because people comment on your appearance and body and if you are sensitive to this like I was, you sometimes learn how to use it. When you realise you have something, some kind of power as a child, then it means you are also exploitable because you have something valuable. I didn't know what until I turned 18 and slowly began to develop the courage to sift through memories an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 07:30 AM
1	The reason why men think women are lying when they personality matters a lot is because they mistake personality for character Yes, this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 03:26 AM
9	Women, how different you think your life would be if you were born as a man? I’d have a massive dick for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/20 12:52 AM
2	Are the people here completely out of touch with life for the average person? Yeah I have to agree with this. Funnily enough it's the guys in low SES and high SES that are perceived to be attractive and sexually appealing. The middle-middle class is where it's stagnant. I'm speaking from experience as someone who has been through all stages. The two pools of lower and upper are the best ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/20 06:26 AM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Agreed, looks are important but not as important as the way they make you feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 03:22 AM