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did you get my reply ?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 05:36 PM
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http://www.screencast.com/t/CH6MDqnQhm
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:41 PM
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no I am about 190 5'10 and built like a brick
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:40 PM
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no, I am like a us marine football player build, I have lots of muscles . http://www.screencast.com/t/CH6MDqnQhm I am lifting heavy weights - I am thick !
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:24 PM
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The Good: Time: I have been focusing on career goals to move my business forward. Focused on my goals and writing out a specific plan for myself to hit my marks. Reading: Reading through LSM by Professor Again Reading through Bang, Book of Pook again Reading through the Natural Will start reading NMMNG and Superior Man again this week Meditation: Just started meditation again, I am trying to let go of the hard push to change my wife and suggest things and to gain more ease and relaxation. Weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 10:23 PM
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Give an example of intellectual pursuit
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 03:10 AM
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I am actually doing a lot of reading the most frustrating thing is reading all this and then as you go through dread levels it's saying not to rush the dread and one month for every year..well that would put me about a year out..I haven't had sex in 5 months now and these discussions have been going on for 2 to 3 years with not much progress. .honestly my wife does seem exhausted and tired allllll the time aside from when I initiate she seems like there is some health issue she is dealing with .…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 03:09 AM
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6323 aviation electronics
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 03:02 AM
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I have so much built up anger, I do not know where to start man. This morning she slept in while I got everything ready today for a daughters class. I was like I should as step 1, suggest she see a doctor, that its for her best interest and daughter's interest. Do not not do it for me, but if she has something off health wise, all this other shit wont mean much if she is caught in her energetic place of hanging out ..Her brother asked me if I want to see the UFC fight , I kind of want to watch U…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 05:28 PM
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I do have a good physique http://www.screencast.com/t/CH6MDqnQhm
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:55 PM
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I am not sure if I am doing ALL LEVELS of Dread. I probably need to work on my SHIT TESTS, and some other stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:53 PM
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But then that is cheating.. I guess in a way she is witholding sex from me right / Gosh , how does life or marriage even come to this ?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:39 PM
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Last night during our conversation I realized something new about myself and our relationship which I want to share with you. None of below is to make you wrong but to try to explain the situation and how I am seeing and understanding or not understanding what’s going on. Where I stand: I think I have lost faith in our relationship (I am providing why below). This creates a lot of confusion for me and makes me question everything around me. I don’t feel warmth or secure and I feel like I am alon…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:34 PM
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Been at Red Pill or MArried Man Sex Primer ? Like 3-4 years , Married for 8 years and have a 7 year old daughter .. I will include some of her letters to me : She doesnt want to do counseling or go to a doctor .. I do not know what to do , I do not want to force her to work on this but I do not want NO SEX to be an eternal thing ...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:32 PM
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This is such a hard game, being married expected to bring home the bacon, do all of this stuff, handle all these responsibilities and then have 0 sex. Its been 5 months.. Do you think pushing my wife to see a counselor with me may be a great idea. or I need to find some Victoria 's secret models for friends to introduce me to cool people, maybe that will work ?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 08:53 PM
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This whole GAME is a hard deal, no sex..all work lots of focus for some day. Gosh I am married and this is a nightmare. Everything is great as long as I pay the bills, work for my wife and go to sleep without expecting sex
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 08:47 PM
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Lifting: Been Lifting 4 Times Per Week. With Trainer 2 x per week with heavy weights. My strength has increases 20-30 lbs because I have been making sure to eat more complex carbs. I have also been running 18 miles per week. 6 miles at a time. I ran a 5k on Sunday and came in 3rd in my age group and top 20 overall. It was a great feeling. My miles average a little more than 7 min 40 sec per mile. Im registering for a 10k for next week. I have been super focused Eating: Been super focused on no s…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 11:32 PM
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No, you got my responses right ?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 05:56 PM
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Checked her phone and email she has no other friends she just likes to sleep late she's exhausted and can't seem to get up unless she has to ..she seems not interested in sex...just sleeping ...seriously ....she's 49 could be hormones or depression
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 02:38 AM
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Not all she is sleeping and just mentally checked out of sex ..should I ask her if she likes women ?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 02:33 AM
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I guess I need to start fresh on my process. I have read MMSPL with Athol and have been working hard on improving lots of areas. Have had trainer now for 3 years. Ran 5 k this morning : averaging 7:45 per mile that was fun ! I am 5'10 at 189, about 12-14% bodyfat headed towards 10% bodyfat..my goal is to add in more lifting then I am doing, I have my food super super super clean ( its been for a while ) now I am sending pictures of my food to my trainer. Trust me, my wife is so unique, you have …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 08:06 PM
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I just ran a 5k race I'm Malibu averaged 7 min 50 seconds per mile. Let me give you some more perspectives ..do u do your own wash. .I do my own laundry and fold them..I also cooks most of my own food ..so wife will cook hers I cook my daughters breakfast ..wife will handle other daughter stuff but most of the time I cook my own food as well..once in a while wife will cook breakfast for me like 1 out of 10 times..perhaps I have bad expectations but as I look ..I'm thinking gosh why is there ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 06:52 PM
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My emotional and intellectual life is actually alive, its only sex that is the missing. How do you determine if my intellectual life and emotional life is dead by reading my posts, Maybe I am just venting and gaining feedback from men who get RED PILL philosophy, when I explained to a few of my friends they said they have been getting sex and they are nice and dont follow these concepts...so perhaps its a way to vent
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 01:56 AM
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Its interesting how many jump to conclusions on here without first seeking to understand. I am doing the work ...for myself and my business..Some of the comments on here are they supposed to be harsh >?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 01:54 AM
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Ok, I will not post any more and just focus on working on my stuff. These are things I do not have anyone to chat about because I do not feel they would understand. The coed soccer is to actually meet other people myself . I actually know lots of people who invite me to go out, I just wanted to expand my horizons.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 01:53 AM
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I am focused on my plan and reading through WISNIFG. Man today I went for a walk with wife, all she does is talk about negative shit in the world..After a walk and coffee 2-3 hours she sites next to me and says I dont feel that I even got to relax, she gave me a kiss and then she said she had some work to do. I thought wow, its hard to initiate when her mind is so stuffed with crap, how could she even be sexual - why would I want to initiate when she is driving herself nuts.. Staying on point wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 09:24 PM
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its 450 am, I am off to do hour of cardio and hours of weights with trainer from 6-7. I did that last night just went to bed, while wife - was on computer and sitting in living room looking at the ceiling. Yesterday my wife said, Wow I cant believe this year has gone by so fast..perhaps she is thinking because our anniversary is this week. Ive been reading the WISNIFG and watching some of the youtube videos on this, all makes sense - just have to dive in deep..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 11:54 AM
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Right. Your Right, last night I put my daughter to sleep..I was exhausted, I am exhausted of this situation - I just fell asleep in my daughters room. I figured it was better than looking at my wife working on the computer..She has time during the day to work when I am not around, yet she tends to want to work at night, her schedule and priorities are off.. I felt very rested because I got an extra 3 hours of sleep. I thought perhaps right now I need to focus on my MAP, read, workout and get mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 03:34 PM
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Thank you for your tips. I will read No More Mr. Nice Guy again and MAP again and start creating a plan. I have been reading through WISNIFG lately. SO much reading to do. It gets tricky when my wife plans all of our holidays with her brother and us. Its like the "our time" has been replaced with "family time", I do not even know how to think about the fact that our anniversary is in a week. Its a conflict of feelings where part of me says do not do anything because I do not feel and priority fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 01:28 AM
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Man some of the people on here are abusive and harsh..perhaps it's hard love from an alpha..but they can make you feel like a true loser ..I do have to focus on actionable items
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:14 PM
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Man some of the people on here are abusive and harsh..perhaps it's hard love from an alpha..but they can make you feel like a true loser ..I do have to focus on actionable items
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:13 PM
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I will take this to heart..I have been doing things over the last few months like reading books and shifting my life towards being more purpose driven for myself...appreciate the hard love..as the professor stated this isn't a 0 to 100 mph..especially if it's taken 7 to 12 years to end up here ...imagine if u were married and been with same women for 20 years and sex has almost disappeared along with you busting your fucking ass all the time working for the whole ...you'd probably be spinning to…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:12 PM
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Yes..I need to hold my frame and I do need to condition me spending time and attention based on whether she is being a wife or a roommate ..it seems like she is fine with the roommate and me just being there to speak and eat with ...there has to be many changes. It definitely seems tricky when you have a 7 year old...it guess I can take daughter and go somewhere without her ...otherwise me hanging around waiting for wife to wake up puts lots of importance in her court ....based on the situation …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 11:56 AM
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Yes. I have to created a LIFE MAP for me, and stick with it no matter what circumstances come up
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:32 AM
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How does that affect you on a daily basis? If you hadn't thought of it often, it's probably not trauma, and it's probably not an issue for you at all. Not all trauma is traumatic, and people can get over shit. They just do. This sure sounds like another of your wife's attempt to deflect your sex initiation. RESPONSE: I guess I was trying to determine why I act so weird around my wife rejecting me when I initiate for sex, and when she responds. All you want is sex, or our relationship for YOU is …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:28 AM
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This is pretty fucked up, never imagined marriage to end up like this . Definitely an eye opener !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 10:38 PM
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yes...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 10:33 PM
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Yes. You are right, yesterday she started complaining and bitching after she took two naps about the dishes in the sink. I kind of let her have it stating that if she is going to bitch she better talk about positive things too .. that her complaining is getting really old ...I said she gets to do whatever the hell she wants when she wants ...and she is responsible for whatever she wants ... It got to me, I was angry ...and I started thinking how sick I was of her shit, she slept from 10 pm to 11…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 10:16 PM
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You are right, I have to do something different to get something different out of life, I have to get out of my BETA supportive pattern if I want more than being a Masta-Beta ...It sucks, I can do it - its going to take lots of work on my part ...UGHHHHHH
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 09:55 PM
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Thanks. Yes I have to try and be patient and understand I wont get what I want by tomorrow, after 4 years whats another year I guess working on all of these necessary things. It definitely is sad that its come to this. I want to be positive but I keep thinking of how I put myself in this situation and I feel that I am being used and jipped at the same time ...I guess that is my anger !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 09:54 PM
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You are right. I have. Now I have to uncreate it and fix it, You hit the nail on the head, I need to shift the pattern I have been living that serves her and not me. Anyway to secure that I am not doing this over and over. ??
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 09:50 PM
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Be patient and give her time. Mine wouldn't even consider anal for the first 8 years of our marriage. Period. Like "Don't even ask." RESPONSE: My wife has fallen out of any zone for SEX at all. No BJ in the last 3 years time. I wish we could even discuss sex or ideas or what each other likes in sex. We cant even have sex in the shower or any other places that are adventurous these days. We went to Denver a few months ago to visit her daughter and her family, and she brings it up in conversation …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 08:42 PM
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Thanks !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 08:30 PM
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My wife says that i eat 5 times of what she does . My wife identifies large people everywhere she goes . She is very interesting .. When I eat even more carbs then here like ( brown rice or sweet potatoes) she will make a comment on what I am eating, she is like a critical spectator probably because she does not eat enough for her activity level ... Then when I do cardio every day she will say did nt you do cardio yesterday ?? its almost like she wants me to slow down ..LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:42 PM
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I will, I eat about 180-200 grams of protein per day. My trainer watches that too
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:38 PM
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Right...My wife is going to the gym watching her diet but there is no sucking going on at all for the last 3 years ..Lol..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:29 PM
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Ok, makes sense...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:29 PM
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My wife does not seem to like bulk, se seems to like lean My wife even made a comment that she thinks I am going back to my marine days of lifting lots of weight instead of getting super lean and elongating muscle . I have a ton of muscle ...trust me, I am super strong too, this other guy on here is so attached to how much weight I can bench or squat , Dude I have had two personal trainers in the last 3 years and they know what the fuck they are doing ...I dont get some of the people on here .. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:23 PM
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Well that is why I am running 4-6 miles per day and upping my weight training along with cutting out my cheat days. I am also getting super focused on how sexy I will look so that I can avoid the influence of my wife asking if I want a piece of cake on that one cheat day we have.. Lately I have been trying to get more tan and help the tones of body to accent my muscles more .. I have a list of a few things that would beneficial to give me an edge and reinvent myself again and again !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:17 PM
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Seems like my behavior has contributed to my wife being so comfortable and it works for her - just not for me, lately I have been pulling back on many of the things i do , so she can start picking up more of the slack vs her leaving it for me . I have been busy lately on what I want to spend time on, lately when I go work with clients, I am not texting or calling her any more because it just gets me irritated, when I come back home I go work out ..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:10 PM
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yes I need to STFU< definitely, and focus on my progress for MY LIFE and MY FOCUS, MY BODY and my benefits ..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:09 PM
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Do you know where I can find those clubs, I have been searching meet up and all lately
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:08 PM
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Well, I cant let that be the predictable future .. I need for this to change or I need to change it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:08 PM
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Thanks. No Medicines or Perscriptions are being taken.. I have suggested the dr since she is 49 and seems to be missing periods perhaps she is in her peri-menopausal zone ..I do not know, I dont want to try to fix her any more ..just focus on raising my SMV, just bought a cool pair of shoes over the weekend. My clothes and all are stylish, maybe like 2 years old. I guess I can try and give away most of my clothes and replentish the closest , I am pretty trendy, I dress up wherever I go these day…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:07 PM
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Thanks, I have suggested, she does not see the value in going. I do not want to beat a dead horse at this point I am more focused on me raising my SMV and focused on my mission of doing more weights and cardio, if I can focus on me being better perhaps that will make her look in the mirror, yet I am doing it for me and I am thinking of how good I would feel and how I am preparing for either her or some other woman to enjoy the benefits.. Just going to focus like a MAD MAN more than ever before f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:04 PM
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Yes, I get that> Here is my diet daily : organic Whey protein wth Banana Breakfast : Organic Eggs 1/2 avocado organic organic sweet potatoes Snack Organic Whey / Banana or 2 eggs scrambled brown rice/ 1/4 avocado organic coffee Lunch: Grilled 8 oz of fish brown rice and steamed veggies 4 pm snack Organic Why with Organic oatmeal 630 Pm dinner wild salmon 6-8 oz grillled brown or black rice steamed spinach or steamed veggies 9 pm organic whey with almonds an banana / This has been my diet for a m…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:02 PM
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Your right. I have read the Rational Male article you posted. Sure that makes me feel angry that I dont get fucked like I should. Hell, I only have sex 2.5 times per year. Sure I need to keep all this shit to myself. If you knew how bad I wanted to be desired and fix this shit.. It is painful, It makes me feel like a loser already that my wife has no desire to work on shit, fuck me or even listen to my needs. I constantly get rejected for sex , yet I am good enough to generate a couple hundred t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:22 PM
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I do not know what gear is, ok, I will look at getting PRs of my lifts. Your perception just seems that I am not lifting. You start off telling me i lift 10lbs .. When that is not the case man . I am trying to understand your logic, explain how lifting your way has helped you in your red pill endeavors ..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:16 PM
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You are right man. This does shut her down. Is not saying ok, not reacting and going out or going to the gym at 9 pm at night . is that not passive aggressive behavior ? I do have to work on me NOT RESPONDing NEGATIVELY TO HER REJECTION. Its tough man.. last time i had sex was like 3-4 months ago..its drier than dry for me . so if she says no or she is too tired, i say ok - no problem we can do it tomorrow being funny and then get up, in which she will say where are you going - I can say - I fig…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:14 PM
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I agree with what your saying that Her "exhaustion" is, in my opinion, a defense mechanism to avoid having to improve and do her part..ok, so what do I do start not doing what she needs - how do i shift this pattern in our relationship? Stop handling things ? What do you feel is the best approach. Of course you are right that my hamster is running at full speed. how do I shift my hamster, why is this so important to me? Ok, so I was just trying to look at the exhaustion to either rule out or rul…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:08 PM
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I have a super clean diet, dude. I get that I am keeping a journal of my food as well. Thanks. But to shave off more of the fat I am doing cardio as well to fuel that process !
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:29 PM
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This is my visual goal of what I want to look like : is this a think little guy ? https://www.google.com/search?q=model+holding+tires&client=ms-android-verizon&prmd=isnv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwinmfTq5vPPAhWnq1QKHZgiAlwQ_AUIBygB&biw=360&bih=560#imgrc=WuKC4tlLY29jJM%3A
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:57 PM
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I actually have a ton of muscle I doubt I'd be little in any respect..I was in the Marines played 5 sports in high school and two in college . I was the 2nd strongest kid in my school. When I was 167 and 3 % body fat I looked at the time like I was on steroids . A trainer ..do I Know stuff yes...I have a trainer to push myself much harder than I do and it actually works quite well...sure I can just lift and get bigger but my goal is to lean out...I do lift heavy for increasing more muscle and de…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:55 PM
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I agree . Perhaps I just need to find the right doctor or place that does a panel and tell her it's for insurance purposes . She fights me so hard when I tell her these things are necessary ...I don't get it. Years have passed and it can't go much longer ..I don't get it..if I didn't get up in the morning she'd have a fit and ask me if I'm taking the day off...perhaps it's a way for her to avoid things and have me deal with things...by laying in bed..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:48 PM
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I lift a lot of reps...my professional trainer doesn't track one lift reps . He says that's for people who have no background in fitness and people in the 80s...when I asked him..he laughed and said how does that help u at all ? I can do it for the sake of knowing I guess..will a woman say how much to max lift on bench or look at my physique ?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 01:54 PM
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Yes. I do have to do that ..I'm wondering where to meet hot ones..perhaps u should look for fit groups at the beach..look for perhaps a volleyball team to play in or something with super fit women. Perhaps she would them look at how she shows up some more ...I'm trying to search where to find new friends and places to do so ...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 01:52 PM
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Last time we had a chat ..my comment was that I can't continue living like this..either she wants to work on the relationship or she doesn't ..if she doesn't then she should let me know so we can figure out what to do with each other ... The time before that she was telling at daughter and my suggestion was that I think I will get my own place because she seems to want to get up and complain and that this yelling is getting very old that I don't want to be around and hear negative whining all of…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 01:50 PM
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I am going to work hard on my SMV...I have been super focused on that lately. .I have been really looking closely at how I can be a champion at that for me to be the best I have ever been...super focused and working out every day..I'm definitely on a mission to shave 15 lbs by January and I'm leaving my house 1 to 2 times per day to work out... We are more holistic ..I'm think my wife has some fear of doctors and medicine because of how much that didn't help her Mom who passed away...I'm wish sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 01:42 PM
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Right, I guess it takes patience ! I have to do that for a while I guess and not expect any results or sex ...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:26 AM
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I could probably work much more on the dread, and perhaps she has issues as well, when I spoke with Athol years back he suggested that he thought it was 99% his opinion something with her endocrinal system and that if I was Brad Pitt he felt it would not matter with how she is in health wise, do I make an appointment and not ask her and tell her she needs to get tested, I have tried in the past to ask her or suggest and she seems to want to resist or come up with excuses all of the time . what s…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:13 AM
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I have friends and lots of them, just have not hung out with any of them lately since I have been married... I was thinking about joining a coed soccer league or something , what do you recommend or what are you suggesting ?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:11 AM
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I do so many different exercises. Its funny when I shared these how much do you bench and squat and yatta with my trainer, he laughed and said these sound like questions from people who do not lift , we are sculpting your body. I do complex sets of weight lifting for definition and strength.. When I was in HS i benched 425 bench but that was a few times on a universal machine.. We focus on strength where we do 6 sets at a time 1 on bench, 1 on incline and alternate x12 x 6 so that would be 72 re…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:10 AM
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I guess I've reached ifgaf...I'm trying to do something about my frame..what are the best siggestions for my Frame ...perhaps I should just stay out of my bed to avoid her continual banter about nothing..I noticed today that she is always looking for meaningless busy work to do ..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:05 AM
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It's interesting to me about the lifting curiosity. I bench about 250lbs..however I also do 3 sets of bench x 12 reps and alternate with incline dumbbell 55lbs each ..I have had a trainer for 3 years working out with heavy weights and alternating sets... This morning I ran 6.5 miles in less than an hour ..what gives the impression that my dumbells are 10lbs...I was also an x marine
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:31 AM
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I guess the key is a balanced approach vs..all in red pill..it's definitely a challenge to be patient when u have only had sex like 5 times in 2 years..I have noticed her amping up her competitive spirit with workouts ..I ran with her and had to keep stopping and I am running a 5 k...she has now decided to run it too...when I go to do cardiovascular day after day..she's saying ..didn't you just do cardiovascular yesterday ? Why are you doing it again...this latest confession to me that she ha a …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 08:51 PM
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My concept was to BEGIN conditioning your availability to her with her sexual availability to you at level 4 and this should BEGIN to happen right after you "get busy." You do this for a month before "level 5 (dress up) because with MILD withdrawal "dressing up" is a turbocharged boost to the hamster. Can you EXPLAIN This is more detail: Give some examples for a married couple how this would work ? "My concept was to BEGIN conditioning your availability to her with her sexual availability to you…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 06:22 PM
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I have read mindful attraction plan, and his other book and even did a session with Athol as well, I have read through these. Perhaps I need to do it again ..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 06:17 PM
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Which pre-requisites ? Probably , there is so much material I am reading through at the moment, its like a PT job, the question is besides analyzing everything and all the info, how do you get results and action ?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 05:22 PM
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5 times in 2 years . 2.5 times per year.. that is the most frustrating part of this, it makes me feel like I am being used ..and it makes me feel like I am not important
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 03:03 PM
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You got a pretty fast roll her for one month What does this MEAN ?? Explain ...?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 02:33 AM
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Well I figured I would share on OWN MY SHIT Weekly: I am 46 years old and wife is 49, we have a 7 year old daughter. We have had sex 5 times in the last 2 years. Lately I have been reading the following books recommended: - The Book or Pook _ keep reading over and over - Day Bang - The Superior Male - Dave Deida Lately I have been really looking at my behavior and how I have trained my wife to treat me, what I have settled for in my relationship and have been looking at what my wife is doing vs.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 06:58 PM
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:-) Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 06:28 PM
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She is working on our business She works out with a trainer She worries She is watching TV. I eat GREAT ! I look great .. I work out with a trainer, weights, yoga and cardio I have read about 12 different books: MMSPL - Had a session with Athol No More Mr Nice Guy His Needs Her Needs The Book of Pook Low Desire Marriage The Way of the Superior Man The Rational Male Saving a Low Sex Marriage Hold onto your nuts Love Busters Sex Begins in the Kitchen When I Say No, I feel Guilty Mindful Attraction…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 06:27 PM
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So when my wife asks me whats wrong ? If I feel grumpy or moody.. how should I respond ?? Lately everything annoys me because I think of whats missing
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 03:13 AM
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really
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 12:22 AM
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No I do not have someone else lined up.. perhaps I have oneitis ... its definitely something to put my head around ...hmmm
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 09:32 PM
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Thats what I am talking about but I am not able to fuck my wife because she doesnt want to be fucked, she wants to be left alone
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 03:58 PM
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She's at home...busy at home working on our business and all the other stuff ..she's not out getting laid ...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 02:33 PM
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My wife sleeps on her side of the bed turned toward the wall or with her covers pulled up over her head..when my wife sets her alarm it's hard for her to get up ..it's as if she was partying all night long and can't get up yet she went to sleep at 9 pm..and it's only 7 am. Question: based on my wife's behavior of wanting to be left alone or her having issues getting up...I was wondering if I should sleep in another room..vs this dealing with being in the same bed and her totally ignoring me..per…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 01:51 PM
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Your right.. It will take some work, man I feel like I am on an island at this point after looking at all of these things on here
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:48 PM
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ok
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:47 PM
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Kino and escalation I started reading this, boy do I have SOOO much to learn...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:46 PM
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I have lifted weights for 3 years however I do need to keep reading the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:44 PM
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Thanks !
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:43 PM
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I need to be more alpha. I play everything way too safe..I'm too concerned about what she thinks or what is the right time...I definitely feel that I need to build my initiation / alpha game.. What have I tried? I kiss and massage wife ..but I'm too in my head around if she is wanting to or not..tired or not... To be brutally honest I may initiate once every two weeks lately. ..because of past rejection. ..I definitely need lots of work on initiation. I don't slap my wife on ass...I may give her…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 03:26 PM
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Last night I sent wife a text with smiley and kiss...we layed..in bed..she said she loves me after we kissed and I touched her a little by massage...she was yawning ...I felt like perhaps she needed rest because she shut off the light....I felt as if I should build the tension so I rested by hand on her inner leg... I do need to get much busier u r right. I told her going to go check out a class on Thursday night on energy and intuitive stuff which sounds like fun to meet to meet some similar mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 02:00 PM
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Herukarising: Wow, I am right where you are with my wife. Same deal really focused on a solution and feel like an ass at the same time because I cant fix where I am. Its really painful and I have realized that i should STFU most of the time because all my shit seems to come out as well when she starts giving me shit when I am doing things to help the family. Yesterday my wife hung up on me while working while she is at home blaming me for not making enough - which is valid, yet I am the only one…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 12:22 PM
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My wife is Like JEKYL and Hyde ... I went today last minute to make $200 for the day with some other project for a few hours. I left as I had to be there within 30 minutes. After getting there my wife blew up my phone telling me how we think differently and why did I drop my day to make extra money. We run a company where we need more accounts but they just are not coming fast enough , my wife is blaming me for that - saying that I am not doing what I said. Bottom line she starts telling me how …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 01:22 AM
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How do you as a HUSBAND, get out of this "being upset" that your wife does not have interest in sex "slump", i have lately felt kind of sad that I am 46 and time is going by, I am having a hard time being happy with my current situation, wife spends most of her free time watching tv and sleeping - there seems to be no focus on romantic/us time. I do not want to feel down, today is a holiday and its so hard when you have a child... during the day the child takes over the time and at night she jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/16 07:05 PM
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I am married. .when I read this forum I am like wow..it seems shocking. Here's my situation and I am married with a child. .I love my wife but she has seemed to move into the realm of always working ..talking about work and our sex life is perhaps 1 time per month. Maybe 1 every 2 months. .my wife says she has nothing against sex...and lately she is stressed out and can't think about sex...she's tired ..today it's 10:40 am and she fell asleep at 9 pm...last night ...she never seems to have any e…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 05:41 PM
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I am feeling negative that I am here only for her convenience, my needs mean shit ..its all about how are things working out for her, because if they do not go the way she expects them to go - then we have no time to be married ? Ok, I am angry ! I feel fucking sick and tired of being ignored only when I am asked for what kind of money I am bring in ...So it would not make me strong if I said... Well I am working on handling our needs - and all of this stuff , what are you doing .. This morning …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 05:58 PM
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Is me complaining about her constant complaining - the right way to do it with frame and not get sucked into her stuff ... Today she asked me whats wrong, if I am tired. I am not tired- I am bored and I am wondering when she will get her shit together around her health and feelings.. However if I say that it says: I need you to fix yourself in order for me to be happy : so what do I say ? Also every morning she starts asking me if I called this person and that person in our company, this is afte…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 05:55 PM
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So I can say what ? What do you recommend to get shit done Do I tell her she complains about stuff and does absolutely nothing about her complaints ?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 05:46 PM
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Should I tell her she's reminding me of a 70 year old woman based on her energy and constant complaining ? I been doing lots more for me...lately..focused on my purpose and passions ..and now she's telling me how she feels and why she is feeling the way she does ..but in my mind she's just stating her excuses of why she can't or why she doesn't feel good...how do I properly communicate to her that I stead of constantly complaining ..she needs some action steps vs singing the same song over and o…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:38 AM
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Why do I feel so depressed at my situation..is this normal ...tonight went to a school function. They teach kids about sharing from the heart and listening from the heart..what happened to that philosophy in adults ? Who would have ever thought...thought these things were common sense especially in marriage ..tonight wife says ..every time she looks in sink there are more dishes for her to wash...like that for example...is actually clean most of my dishes and have hers but I don't birch about ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:31 AM
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Thanks. You know what hurts for me and is the hardest part. Its dealing with the internal anguish. This situation is enough to distract me from the productive things because it seems easy to focus on what is missing. Today its Monday after the weekend and I feel really low always after the weekend because I feel like the weekend is an opportunity for me to spend time doing things I enjoy. I do miss sex - and also as I lay in bed last night I felt sexual yet lately I do not want to initiate with …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 10:24 PM
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Are you serious? Work on issues like, "date night" and "plan ahead for sex." Last time I suggested that we work on date night and plan for sex, she is ok with the date night and her response to planning for sex was that she is not a hooker and she cant just have sex if she does not feel like it, that seems crazy to plan sex...That was her response. Whats the best response with holding my frame. Here is the biggest question. Because my wife is so used to me being one way for years, me now acting …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/16 04:23 AM
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And lately she has been complaining we are not making enough money. That we have to pay bills... I am sure she will say how can we afford it ? I definitely get this needs to be handled, how long can it go on, at the basic level she walks around yawning and I need to take a posture and do it for her own good.. So I know where she stands on that level
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:43 PM
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I need to become captain. It seems as the way my wife behaves is based on how I have trained her to behave with me. I get that I have to MAN UP/ Captain Up. She does throw out lots of excuses and you are right I should have just scheduled an appointment for a blood panel with her. Last time I pressed the issue she freaked out me - however I guess at the time I did not bring out my captain. I was not trying to push or pressure her however you are right things have gone way too long and she is the…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:37 PM
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thank You !
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:33 PM
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I am reading rational male. I need to put some of these suggestions into action definitely.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:33 PM
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I have been reading it. It seems theoretical and I have not gotten to the marriage part - its directed mostly towards the game and I have read through a bunch of it, it does make sense as far as how women behave and what motivates them make sense. Just looking for the point and looking at how to apply relative to marriage situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:29 PM
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ok, I will work on the shit tests. How do I work on shit tests? I guess the answers are in the books. Why do I feel as if all this reading is more analytical to me vs action focused? Perhaps because its all new to me and its partially a different perspective then I am used to. Perhaps its because I do not want to be stuck, I do not want to be pathetic and unwanted by my wife... That is what is driving me mad lately is all the time we have together but none of the time we connect on the level tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 04:13 PM
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1800-2000 calories. I am working on more weight loss. Talked to trainer today and he suggested that I do 1-2 hours of cardio per day to shed off more of it so my muscles are showing and I am more shredded...I am at 190-192, but if I can lose 15 and am at 175 I will amazing ... Living without sex is not my cup of tea. I have been meditating. Did you tell your wife you were going to have sex with others , or it was just your own personal choice . Do you have kids ?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 10:19 PM
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I have to read the books and everything on the right side, otherwise I get all of these insults and I need to respond with action items of how I am specifically going to correct things vs. puking up my mind on here
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 10:11 PM
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The Rational Male Ok, I bought the rational male just now. I have to get to work on all of this. Sounds like if I do not post properly or read all of this - I will get my ass torn on here ...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 10:10 PM
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Weak and Sensitive, why is that your name. I am new to this and right now I am reading the the book of pook... and many others. I have been on here a few days .. so give me a break , who taught me these things, my Dad died when I was 4 ...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 05:18 AM
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Your right. I am sorry I guess I was taken aback from someone calling me LAZY.. I can handle the budget - sure I can review that - and take that on, good point, yes I am sure we can shave lots of expenses for us. Coffee Shops, Restaurants, and a bunch of the online shopping my wife does for herself and our daughter - not me ..LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 10:41 PM
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I do because its the customer i have. If i could replace the customer faster I would. I do eat humble pie, yet perhaps I need to let go of the ones that are not fit to get a better one ..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 09:20 PM
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It's not. I guess people wanted the details. I understand money does not mean jack in the scheme of things. I do not want a DEAD bed-room.. Guess my pattern has not worked for me so that is why I am here. Looking for Solutions and I know this shit doesnt change in 24hrs..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:40 PM
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How could I be a stupid fuck, create companies and get the results I have gotten and make 400k per year ? How could I run business, work out at 5 am and run a company and have time to work out 5 to 7 times per week with trainers, with YOGA and personal trainers.. How do you get that I am a lazy fuck...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 05:33 PM
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Here is my predicament right now. I came home after getting coffee and I noticed a guy that me and my wife spoke with the other day speaking with other women at the coffee shop from school. There was a day where my wife went for coffee and she did not come back for a few hours 2 hours. She did not call and then she came home and said that she could not believe .. I called the coffee shop and she said she was talking to a customer for that time. She ends up setting a meeting with me and that othe…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 04:04 PM
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Yes, I too have been wasting lots of time looking into these things. 3 years have gone by since we first started talking, each time it gets reflected back on being my fault and my wife suggests I go see someone like a psychologist. It doesnt seem as if she truly wants to work on getting closer or having things be better - just wants more money
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 03:53 AM
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Is this a book or a thread or Free ?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 03:23 AM
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Dread Level 1: guess I do need work on the SHIT tests.. All of this is amazing facts to me, how do two people end up like this - when you get married is there not some - lets get on the same page philosphy - obviously that is my idea, yet not everyones ... I will have to get the Book of Pook, I have read David Deida, but it looks as though I should be committing a a few hours per day on these books and teachings, I guess now I have to learn to PLAY the GAME - I never knew a loving marriage was s…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 03:21 AM
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I do appreciate what your saying. Like its the weekend and my wife sits in front of the computer on Sunday night, its as if we are just coworkers, like when does the work end and the relationship begin? this is what gets me very angry inside. How do I deal with this in a relaxed way.. Go run 10 miles and sweat it off getting sexier every time .. Like I she was sitting in the office as I walked by and she is obviously engulfed in a project or some thing she has decided to do, in some ways I feel …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 03:18 AM
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I am 5'10, 190 lbs. 11-12% bodyfat.. I have a family and daughter and I do not want to just go be intimate with others, That doesnt seem right, I love my wife - however your right you cannot make other people change...but I will tell you I miss being wanted ...like I used to have . I know I can not count on others to fulfill my happiness ... I miss it being desired ..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 01:46 AM
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What are ACTION dates ? Where do I get the BOOK of Pook? Should I ask that I take care of the finances, in the past I have made the money and she managed it, perhaps I need to take 100 percent control of them...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 01:14 AM
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WISNIFG What is the whole title of this book ? WISNIFG
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 12:48 AM
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I have been married for 8 years. Have been together for about 19 years...English is first language. Yes, born on West Coast.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:50 AM
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What do you need to know - perhaps send me an example of what I should put in this post to assist,, sounds as if your brutally honest with me...
/r/askMRP12/08/16 03:38 AM
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I guess I do not specificly remember the covert contract. I stopped doing all the extras around house thinking if I helped her have space and did more she would feel relieved and appreciative of me ... It did not help - I realized I was doing lots to get something in return...
/r/askMRP12/08/16 02:18 AM
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How do I rule out medical issues if she doesnt want to get a blood panel. I feel as if she is either depresssed or just unplugged for me or anyone else sexually. She gave me this i had sex, then i had a child , now what is sex for ? whats the purpose ..? and she states she is fine while she is always tired and yawning and etc etc .. she does do yoga 2 times per week and work out with female trainer 2 times per week and she takes vitamins, maybe not the right ones ..
/r/askMRP12/08/16 02:16 AM
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SMV in comparison to hers - I would say i am 7 or 8, she is less. if she puts in energy perhaps we are even .. I used to initiate a few times per week and she said she felt pressure at one point she said maybe we should take a break why do I act different in bed then out of bed, at dinner with family and on sofa with daughter .. Actually i have not initiated lately because I want her to be into the connecting and not have it be me - when I have initiated its, Im tired, my back hurts, or when lay…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 02:14 AM
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So I was referred here my another one of your participants. I am "NEW" Here is my situation that is going on. I am 46 and my wife is 49 It seems that the romance, passion and sex has seem to have dissappeared in our marriage. After many talks and discussions my wife does not seem to think its her.. and I have been working on myself. In the last 2 years we have had sex about 4-5 times. Last time recently is in June so 2 months ago was last time. Myself: Read NMMNG a few times Read MMSLP a few tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 05:18 PM
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New to Red Pill . I will be posting a summary of what is going on. What is best to post ?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 03:58 PM
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